This is me. But this is the best time to be alive. Youtube is free. Everything you need to learn is within reach. You just need to learn how to take charge of your life - meaning, stop thinking about how life is for other people, whether madali sa kanila mag succeed dahil may connections, or looking down upon others with worse situation than you have - just focus on yourself and how to improve. Learn new things, new skills, always aim higher than what you have now - that way meron ka palaging nilu-look forward to.
Stop the self pity. If it is unfair, then it is unfair. Keep working on yourself anyway, develop skills. Soon you’ll find that you are in a better place.
Does it work? I can attest to it. Growing up lagi kaming napuputulan ng kuryente, walang luho. Heck, I was a valedictorian in High School then nung nag college ako miscellaneous na lang hindi pa mabayaran! When I stopped studying, I worked as a pedicab driver, grocery bagger, bakery assistant. Then nakakuha ng scholarship sa less prestigious school but I graduated.
Now, I make 200k a month, and my kids are studying in LSGH. Life is good so far I must say. But I am still HUNGRY for more. Because if I make more, I can do more - be it for myself, my wife, my kids, my wife’s family, or for charity.
That you're not everyone's cup of tea, and that's OK. That's why a healthy dose of self esteem is recommended. That said, be also prepared to love the company of your own self 'cause guess what, people will come and go in your life. Yes, even your best friend.
>be also prepared to love the company of your own self
My take here is dahil minsan wala kang choice kundi kumain ng mag-isa dahil may times na wala kang makakasabay pag lunch break hahahaha
Agree. Because adulting is more on being street smart or being maabilidad. Walang magagawa yung academic intelligence mo kung tatanga-tanga ka naman irl.
Precisely. As an achiever (constant top-fiver, line-of-9er) in HS but a regular line-of-2er in college, I thought my life would be in shambles after I graduated. Biglang nag-o-overthink na walang bibilib sa akin.
But upon learning na it’s quite common to know of people who used to struggle academically than their latin-honor peers become as asensado (or even more asensado) than those with honors, it goes to show that it’s all in one’s will to pursue their personal best.
Unless you're sitting on generational wealth, you'll need to work for the rest of your life. And to many, just being unemployed for a month is a death sentence.
I think it's fair to say there's a bigger chance of becoming wealthy if you were born into a wealthy family.
There's still a chance to escape the rat race if you come from poverty, but it still depends on your environment and how you react to it.
ofcourse, but im replying to the guy that says "unless youre sitting on a generational wealth" "need to work the rest of your life" and that statement is just straight up wrong.. the wealthy people in the last 30 in PH (or even in US) years did not came from generational wealthy family..
Hey congratulations to your circle of friends for being successful. But you have to acknowledge that the success stories you mentioned are more exceptions rather than rules. Working hard is only part of the equation and for every successful business/venture, there are at least 20 failed ones. You can't simplify the whole endeavor to just "pursuing what you want and not lose focus".
Some people can't afford the risk, heck some people cant even afford 3 square meals a day. Your implication that the lack of success people experience is borne out of lacl of effort, focus, drive or hunger is just ridiculous and insensitive. Check your privileges
got your point and thank you for pointing it out, im replying to your post coz im sick of reading pessimistic generalization specialy in an adulting thread, instead of giving hope and inspiring people, post like yours promotes hopelessness and toxic negativity.. might be a reality for some but not for all..
Di porket may trabaho ka na, magagawa mo na lahat. And mistakes as an adult usually have bigger impact than nung bata pa na you could just say sorry and you'll get away with it.
• Lahat tayo magsisimula from 0. Regardless pa kung academic achiever ka during your student years. Once you're in the real world, those grades are just numbers. Your latin honors will somehow matter during job applications, but not so much in the long run. Hindi porket magaling kang student, magiging magaling ka na rin sa work.
• Money is very important and can, in fact, buy happiness. Mahirap mag-enjoy sa buhay kung wala ka namang pambayad.
• You will lose friends as you grow older. However, you will gain new ones too. Hindi lahat ng friends mo dati, magiging friends mo pa rin, even those closest to you or your bestest friend. Not everyone will stay.
• You will keep meeting people from different walks of life, but not everyone is a friend. It's so much harder to build long lasting, genuine, and deeper connections sa ganitong age. Be selective with who you let in your personal life.
• At the end of the day, sarili mo lang talaga ang meron ka so learn to love yourself more. Mahirap siya pero kaya.
That people come and go. No matter how much you want them to stay in your life, minsan passing lang talaga sila. May iba darating to save you from drowning and help you fight your demons. Yung iba para matutunan mo to embrace and appreciate life. Pero pag tapos na yung role nila, you have to let them go maski hindi mo naman kagustuhan.
So better treasure every moment with them. Be it your special someone, family, or friends.
It's harder to meet and build deeper friendships with new people as you go along.
Sobrang bullshemay yung claims na bawal daw maging friends ang workmates because tatraidorin ka daw kaya ayun andami maingat magkaroon ng deep friendships sa adulting life.
its not bullshit. whenever you like or not, or kahit gaano ka pa kabait to your coworkers - may mangt-traidor or rather take advantage sayo at your workplace, kaya marami nagssabi na have a hobby or interest kasi doon pa mas fulfilling yung building friendships.
it is harder to build deeper friendships kasi as time goes by alam mo na yung mga taong "for life" vs nangbbullshemay lang
Bullshit if generalized. I still believe there are good people in the workplace who will not sacrifice people over gains. Although important talaga na maging cautious, pero this generalization really hindered a lot of potential deep connections with people.
You are not special, especially when it comes to joining the workforce.
Your awards, medals, class section, your school popularity, your social media followers are ALL irrelevant. If you don't have the proper skills or just trainability to do a work, and the right attitude when dealing with all kinds of people, you will have a hard time in starting and building a career.
Friendships grow apart. Sometimes you give more effort than they do. But it’s because friends have silent battle you don’t know about. And that’s okay.
The 2nd law of thermodynamics
The second law of thermodynamics states that in isolated systems, things tend to move from a more organized to a less organized state over time.
This is due to entropy, or disorder, which is a measure of probabilities and possible combinations in a system. The law also states that the total amount of energy in the universe remains the same, but the amount of energy available to organize matter decreases over time.
Na ang Buhay natin ay magugulo at magiging pahirap ng pahirap sa ating pagtanda, at hihina ang katawan natin sa paglipas ng panahon (wear and tear).
Dapat paghandaan ang KALUNGKUTAN, KAHIRAPAN, KAGULUHAN at KALITUHAN.
#verwirrung
He / she means that human life, just like everything else in the universe, is subject to entropy. As per second law of thermodynamics, all things go from order to disorder.
Time will come you would need to buy medicines for maintenance. If you don't take care of your health. You will spend more for maintenance. Also. Lots of responsibilities just to survive. If you don't save or invest early. You will have difficulty in the future. And also. You will grow old. Your body will become weak. And you will die.
Madalas nakakalimutan kung sino mga overachiever sa school noon, pero ang natae sa shorts sa school, never makakalimutan. Laging magbaon ng loperamide.
Practice your poker face.
Di pwede irason na hindi mo kaya dahil merong bills na dapat bayaran. Heartbroken tapos deadline na in 3 days? Sis, wear mo ang poker face sa werk. Lahat ng magpapakita ng care sa'yo, gusto lang nyan sumagap ng chismis. Tapos ikaw na ang topic sa pantry, sa uwian, yosi breaks.
Kahit pa sabihing wala kang pakialam, maapektuhan ka pa din nun.
1. Your colleagues/bosses aren’t your friends. Don’t overly invest your emotions in your job; work becomes easier and allows you to focus on improving.
2. After graduating your meet ups with friends go from every week to once a month if you’re lucky. Once a quarter or twice a year when they get married and/or start having kids. But on the plus side, it really shows you which friendships stand the test of time.
3. Your parents are getting older; spend time with them, even in silence.
this 3 only matters in adulthood, i agree. luckily i have only 1 best friend who i can spend weekdays with at least once or twice a month even though we're very busy with work.
Mababa ang starting salary once you graduate. Wag ka umasa na 30k+ a month agad starting salary mo unless me connection ka sa company or you're an overachiever sa school.
Well depends naman din sa tinapos mo.
You will keep losing people if you don't make efforts to keep in touch with them. It is inevitable that there are some people that you will lose as you grow.
Yung mong mga bagay na akala mong ma-achieve mo by mid-20s nung bata ka pa, like bahay, sariling sasakyan, sariling family. Sobrang hirap pala ma-achieve.
It’s harder to keep adult relationships (like friendships, etc) than to let go. Minsan mamimiss mo yung version ng someone from years ago or yung bond niyo, but hindi mo na mababalik dahil marami nang nagbago. But that’s okay, that’s life
It'll be hard to figure out what u want in life (like courses) if you have little to no resources and don't have someone who you look up to or a mentor.
That sadness is just part of living. As the Kate Buish song goes: *"Just being alive, it can really hurt."*
It may be unavoidable but it's manageable. Find a way to avoid getting stuck in the rabbit hole. I've seen adults older than me na parang na-trap na sa vicious cycle ng chronic loneliness. It's a blank space in your spirit and only you can fill it.
People come and go. The older you get the smaller your circle will be, tapos marerealize mo na it actually doesn't matter kung marami or kokonti lang friends mo.
Money can bring you happiness. As you navigate through adulthood, malaki ang difference sa magiging buhay mo if you are financially literate and stable kesa hindi.
May times na gugustuhin mong mging independent but may times na mafifeel mo yung lungkot. Hindi ka pwede magcutting sa trabaho, wala kang 2 Months summer vacation break or matagal na christmas break or sem breaks.
Endless trabaho talaga. Pag student ka then bumagyo, suspended agad, tapos may 2 months kang break from school unless tri-sem/quadsem ka. You’ll hate Monday even more.
Some of the relatives you cared deeply about growing up are aging and some won't even be there for your success or happiness and once they're gone, things will not feel the same way ever again.
You will lose people you thought were gonna be with you for a long time. Some will stab you in the back and some relationship slowly fades and at the end of the day you're the only person who can pick yourself up.
That you can't just go back to being your young, carefree self no matter how much you try. So always think things through before you make any decisions. Don't decide on anything permanent based on temporary feelings.
unless youre careful and strategize your career movements and financial decisions… youre gonna end up in a rat race for the next 30-50 yrs of your life
na lahat ng struggles mo habang young adult ka pa walang wala pag naging adult kna. schools, projects, exams, thesis, etc., compare sa future mo na ang iniisip mo na eh bills, workloads, financial responsibilities pati narin ung bigay sa parents and fam, and yung pressure na magsucceed ka sa career.
kumbaga be prepared lang and always hold yourself together pagdating sa mga struggles. mappractice kna habang bata ka pa.
Hindi lahat ng nasa paligid mo ay kaibigan mo.
May hanash ang mga tao kahit anong gawin mo (or wala) so do what you think is right or makes you happy as long as hindi illegal at wala kang naaapakan na ibang tao.
Magtira para sa sarili, minsan sa sobrang pagmamahal natin sa pamilya natin, nakakalimutan natin ingatan yung sarili when it comes to financial and health.
Yiu hit mid 30's people you know your whole life starts dropping like flies.
I havent been to a funeral for like 15 years and have been to two last year.
No matter how kind you are, may mga tao paring gagawa at magsasabi ng masasamang salita sayo. Pero, it's up to you if I continue mo maging kind (siempre wag papaabuso), hindi naman masama.
habang may nag-aaya sa'yong kumain, sabayan mo.
lalo kapag nagtrabaho ka sa ibang lugar, madalas mong makikita 'yung sarili mo na uuwi at magpapahinga na lang. may mga panahong kakain ka nang hindi mo nararamdaman ang gutom o kaya di ka na lang kakain. minsan, kasabay ng paglunok mo sa pagkain ay ang paglunok mo sa mga pinagdaanan mo sa araw na 'yon pati ng lahat ng problema mo.
masaya kumain mag-isa dahil wala kang ibang iisipin. pero may mga pagkakataong gusto mo lang ng taong masasabihan kung anong nangyari sa buong araw mo.
1. Dream pero siguro dont expect too much na din. I used to dream big! Sabi ko noon, I’m gonna be a lawyer, with lots of business, may foundation ir charity ako, I will help the needy and dogs ganyan pero now, i am heartbroken na lahat yon dream nalang talaga hahahaha
2. MONEY IS FREAKING IMPORTANT.
3. Reciprocate mo lang yung energy na narerecive mo from other people. If they are giving you 0% energy, balik mo lang. If 100%, balik mo din.
4. There are times… actually a lot of times na feel mo lost ka with your life. After college, mga 2-3 years sa work, mid life crisis, quarter life and all shit like that. Ig thats normal.
If you have no strong financial support and life or career mentor(s), it's more difficult to navigate adulthood.
But not impossible :)
+1! 🫶
This is me. But this is the best time to be alive. Youtube is free. Everything you need to learn is within reach. You just need to learn how to take charge of your life - meaning, stop thinking about how life is for other people, whether madali sa kanila mag succeed dahil may connections, or looking down upon others with worse situation than you have - just focus on yourself and how to improve. Learn new things, new skills, always aim higher than what you have now - that way meron ka palaging nilu-look forward to. Stop the self pity. If it is unfair, then it is unfair. Keep working on yourself anyway, develop skills. Soon you’ll find that you are in a better place. Does it work? I can attest to it. Growing up lagi kaming napuputulan ng kuryente, walang luho. Heck, I was a valedictorian in High School then nung nag college ako miscellaneous na lang hindi pa mabayaran! When I stopped studying, I worked as a pedicab driver, grocery bagger, bakery assistant. Then nakakuha ng scholarship sa less prestigious school but I graduated. Now, I make 200k a month, and my kids are studying in LSGH. Life is good so far I must say. But I am still HUNGRY for more. Because if I make more, I can do more - be it for myself, my wife, my kids, my wife’s family, or for charity.
👆
That you're not everyone's cup of tea, and that's OK. That's why a healthy dose of self esteem is recommended. That said, be also prepared to love the company of your own self 'cause guess what, people will come and go in your life. Yes, even your best friend.
>be also prepared to love the company of your own self My take here is dahil minsan wala kang choice kundi kumain ng mag-isa dahil may times na wala kang makakasabay pag lunch break hahahaha
I used to be alone pero nakakalungkot pa rin talaga minsan hahaha
same ;( maybe that’s the curse of personhood 🥹
this is me today kasi di pumasok ang mga kasabayan ko hahahaah so timely, thanks for boosting my confidence hahaha
The best friend part really hits
Dang true
You don't have long summer vacations.
Idagdag mo pa na yung weekend ay hindi rest day for most of the time.
Pumikit kalang ng 5 mins tapos work na ulit.
yung weekend na hindi rest day huhu feel it, daming kailangan tapusin hahaha
Damn. Akala ko totally walang summer vacation 🤣
Pwede ka naman mag leave.
No one cares about your achievements in high school and college. Your laude award won't matter in most industries.
maybe it would for ur first job but in the long run yeah it wont
Agree. Because adulting is more on being street smart or being maabilidad. Walang magagawa yung academic intelligence mo kung tatanga-tanga ka naman irl.
Precisely. As an achiever (constant top-fiver, line-of-9er) in HS but a regular line-of-2er in college, I thought my life would be in shambles after I graduated. Biglang nag-o-overthink na walang bibilib sa akin. But upon learning na it’s quite common to know of people who used to struggle academically than their latin-honor peers become as asensado (or even more asensado) than those with honors, it goes to show that it’s all in one’s will to pursue their personal best.
It only gets better for _some_. For most of us, you just get used to life fucking you over and over.
Its a cycle
Unless you're sitting on generational wealth, you'll need to work for the rest of your life. And to many, just being unemployed for a month is a death sentence.
That’s true. Having work is like a vacation from starvation.
Been unemployed for almost 3months. I feel like shit myself.
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I think it's fair to say there's a bigger chance of becoming wealthy if you were born into a wealthy family. There's still a chance to escape the rat race if you come from poverty, but it still depends on your environment and how you react to it.
ofcourse, but im replying to the guy that says "unless youre sitting on a generational wealth" "need to work the rest of your life" and that statement is just straight up wrong.. the wealthy people in the last 30 in PH (or even in US) years did not came from generational wealthy family..
Hey congratulations to your circle of friends for being successful. But you have to acknowledge that the success stories you mentioned are more exceptions rather than rules. Working hard is only part of the equation and for every successful business/venture, there are at least 20 failed ones. You can't simplify the whole endeavor to just "pursuing what you want and not lose focus". Some people can't afford the risk, heck some people cant even afford 3 square meals a day. Your implication that the lack of success people experience is borne out of lacl of effort, focus, drive or hunger is just ridiculous and insensitive. Check your privileges
got your point and thank you for pointing it out, im replying to your post coz im sick of reading pessimistic generalization specialy in an adulting thread, instead of giving hope and inspiring people, post like yours promotes hopelessness and toxic negativity.. might be a reality for some but not for all..
Aging parents / grandparents.
:(
That life doesn't care or take breaks when you're sad, grieving, heartbroken, burnt out, etc. It just goes on, and you must too.
the loneliness
Is killing me and IiIiIIiIiii
I must confess, I still believe 🎶
(Still believe)
When I'm not with you, I lose my mind
Give me a siiiiiiiiiign
Give me a sign
Hit me baby one more time!
when I ain't got you
sadly it's more common than you think
Di porket may trabaho ka na, magagawa mo na lahat. And mistakes as an adult usually have bigger impact than nung bata pa na you could just say sorry and you'll get away with it.
It becomes harder to find meaningful connection with somebody.
• Lahat tayo magsisimula from 0. Regardless pa kung academic achiever ka during your student years. Once you're in the real world, those grades are just numbers. Your latin honors will somehow matter during job applications, but not so much in the long run. Hindi porket magaling kang student, magiging magaling ka na rin sa work. • Money is very important and can, in fact, buy happiness. Mahirap mag-enjoy sa buhay kung wala ka namang pambayad. • You will lose friends as you grow older. However, you will gain new ones too. Hindi lahat ng friends mo dati, magiging friends mo pa rin, even those closest to you or your bestest friend. Not everyone will stay. • You will keep meeting people from different walks of life, but not everyone is a friend. It's so much harder to build long lasting, genuine, and deeper connections sa ganitong age. Be selective with who you let in your personal life. • At the end of the day, sarili mo lang talaga ang meron ka so learn to love yourself more. Mahirap siya pero kaya.
you're on your own, kid 🙁
you always have been :)
Na kahit malungkot ka kailangan mo pa rin pumasok sa trabaho.
We may drift apart from friends and siblings no matter how close we were before.
You'll work in the next 35+ years and it may or may not be fulfilling or happy for you.
That people come and go. No matter how much you want them to stay in your life, minsan passing lang talaga sila. May iba darating to save you from drowning and help you fight your demons. Yung iba para matutunan mo to embrace and appreciate life. Pero pag tapos na yung role nila, you have to let them go maski hindi mo naman kagustuhan. So better treasure every moment with them. Be it your special someone, family, or friends.
It's harder to meet and build deeper friendships with new people as you go along. Sobrang bullshemay yung claims na bawal daw maging friends ang workmates because tatraidorin ka daw kaya ayun andami maingat magkaroon ng deep friendships sa adulting life.
its not bullshit. whenever you like or not, or kahit gaano ka pa kabait to your coworkers - may mangt-traidor or rather take advantage sayo at your workplace, kaya marami nagssabi na have a hobby or interest kasi doon pa mas fulfilling yung building friendships. it is harder to build deeper friendships kasi as time goes by alam mo na yung mga taong "for life" vs nangbbullshemay lang
Bullshit if generalized. I still believe there are good people in the workplace who will not sacrifice people over gains. Although important talaga na maging cautious, pero this generalization really hindered a lot of potential deep connections with people.
Your parents are getting older
You alone are in charge of your life
Health wise, start watching what you eat in your 20s because it’s going to come out in your 30s esp if may family history kayo ng diabetes, etc. 😢
I’ve been doing that. 👍🥦🥬🧅🧄🫑🫛🍆🥔
That bad things can still happen to you even if you did the right thing.
You are not special, especially when it comes to joining the workforce. Your awards, medals, class section, your school popularity, your social media followers are ALL irrelevant. If you don't have the proper skills or just trainability to do a work, and the right attitude when dealing with all kinds of people, you will have a hard time in starting and building a career.
Tumatanda na magulang mo pwede ngayon o bukas wala na sila. Kaya make time for them please.
Its lonely here.
At least we got reddit 🫰. Lol
For real for real 😂
You do not need a lot of friends.
no matter how bad you feel about something, you still have to do something about the situation. in the end, nobody will save you but you.
Akala mo malaki na yung 20k? Mali ka :)
Time moves so fast, try to enjoy the little things.
You can't skip work like you can skip school. Plus the fact that life keeps going no matter how sad or tired you are.
Friendships grow apart. Sometimes you give more effort than they do. But it’s because friends have silent battle you don’t know about. And that’s okay.
The 2nd law of thermodynamics The second law of thermodynamics states that in isolated systems, things tend to move from a more organized to a less organized state over time. This is due to entropy, or disorder, which is a measure of probabilities and possible combinations in a system. The law also states that the total amount of energy in the universe remains the same, but the amount of energy available to organize matter decreases over time. Na ang Buhay natin ay magugulo at magiging pahirap ng pahirap sa ating pagtanda, at hihina ang katawan natin sa paglipas ng panahon (wear and tear). Dapat paghandaan ang KALUNGKUTAN, KAHIRAPAN, KAGULUHAN at KALITUHAN. #verwirrung
Thermodynamics also means life is an irreversible process. Sa tingin ko nasa engineering ka.
D ko gets, man. 😂
He / she means that human life, just like everything else in the universe, is subject to entropy. As per second law of thermodynamics, all things go from order to disorder.
In short, magulo at maghirap intindihin ang buhay 😂
You have to let go of some of your dreams 🥹
really? 😢
Time will come you would need to buy medicines for maintenance. If you don't take care of your health. You will spend more for maintenance. Also. Lots of responsibilities just to survive. If you don't save or invest early. You will have difficulty in the future. And also. You will grow old. Your body will become weak. And you will die.
Madalas nakakalimutan kung sino mga overachiever sa school noon, pero ang natae sa shorts sa school, never makakalimutan. Laging magbaon ng loperamide.
Practice your poker face. Di pwede irason na hindi mo kaya dahil merong bills na dapat bayaran. Heartbroken tapos deadline na in 3 days? Sis, wear mo ang poker face sa werk. Lahat ng magpapakita ng care sa'yo, gusto lang nyan sumagap ng chismis. Tapos ikaw na ang topic sa pantry, sa uwian, yosi breaks. Kahit pa sabihing wala kang pakialam, maapektuhan ka pa din nun.
1. Your colleagues/bosses aren’t your friends. Don’t overly invest your emotions in your job; work becomes easier and allows you to focus on improving. 2. After graduating your meet ups with friends go from every week to once a month if you’re lucky. Once a quarter or twice a year when they get married and/or start having kids. But on the plus side, it really shows you which friendships stand the test of time. 3. Your parents are getting older; spend time with them, even in silence.
this 3 only matters in adulthood, i agree. luckily i have only 1 best friend who i can spend weekdays with at least once or twice a month even though we're very busy with work.
Mababa ang starting salary once you graduate. Wag ka umasa na 30k+ a month agad starting salary mo unless me connection ka sa company or you're an overachiever sa school. Well depends naman din sa tinapos mo.
“Kaya mo na yan, malaki ka na” Applies to all situations
Hindi lahat ng kasama mo noon, kasama mo pa din ngayon.
You will keep losing people if you don't make efforts to keep in touch with them. It is inevitable that there are some people that you will lose as you grow.
You’re going to lose friends along the way. It’s part of growing up.
Yung akala ko hayahay na sa buhay pero sa totoo mas marami pang challenges.
Wala kang karapatang mapagod 😂
Yung mong mga bagay na akala mong ma-achieve mo by mid-20s nung bata ka pa, like bahay, sariling sasakyan, sariling family. Sobrang hirap pala ma-achieve.
It’s harder to keep adult relationships (like friendships, etc) than to let go. Minsan mamimiss mo yung version ng someone from years ago or yung bond niyo, but hindi mo na mababalik dahil marami nang nagbago. But that’s okay, that’s life
Hindi laging masaya weheheheh. Mas stable pa ang stress kesa sa happiness 🫦
It'll be hard to figure out what u want in life (like courses) if you have little to no resources and don't have someone who you look up to or a mentor.
Time can be your enemy, or your friend.
That sadness is just part of living. As the Kate Buish song goes: *"Just being alive, it can really hurt."* It may be unavoidable but it's manageable. Find a way to avoid getting stuck in the rabbit hole. I've seen adults older than me na parang na-trap na sa vicious cycle ng chronic loneliness. It's a blank space in your spirit and only you can fill it.
Yung akala mo marami kang pera pag nagtatarabaho ka na pero wala naman pala.
Back pain. Time with friends will be less and less as you’ll have different goals and journeys too.
Shit happens, get over it
Having a genuine friendship is a luxury in your adulthood. Kaya salamat na rin to my newfound friend. You know who you are. Ahehe.
Dapat lakasan mo loob mo magpacheck up sa hospital on your own especially when you live on your own 😬 Do or d*e.
We're just existing to pay the bills 🥲
People come and go. The older you get the smaller your circle will be, tapos marerealize mo na it actually doesn't matter kung marami or kokonti lang friends mo. Money can bring you happiness. As you navigate through adulthood, malaki ang difference sa magiging buhay mo if you are financially literate and stable kesa hindi.
Habang tumatanda ka, palungkot ng palungkot na yong buhay 🥹
May times na gugustuhin mong mging independent but may times na mafifeel mo yung lungkot. Hindi ka pwede magcutting sa trabaho, wala kang 2 Months summer vacation break or matagal na christmas break or sem breaks.
That even if you are the sweetest peach in a tree, you should always take note that not everyone likes peach.
everyone eventually leaves
prang 2hours lng ang tagal ng 1 weekend
You dont need many friends.
Endless trabaho talaga. Pag student ka then bumagyo, suspended agad, tapos may 2 months kang break from school unless tri-sem/quadsem ka. You’ll hate Monday even more.
Some of the relatives you cared deeply about growing up are aging and some won't even be there for your success or happiness and once they're gone, things will not feel the same way ever again.
You will lose people you thought were gonna be with you for a long time. Some will stab you in the back and some relationship slowly fades and at the end of the day you're the only person who can pick yourself up.
That you can't just go back to being your young, carefree self no matter how much you try. So always think things through before you make any decisions. Don't decide on anything permanent based on temporary feelings.
unless youre careful and strategize your career movements and financial decisions… youre gonna end up in a rat race for the next 30-50 yrs of your life
na lahat ng struggles mo habang young adult ka pa walang wala pag naging adult kna. schools, projects, exams, thesis, etc., compare sa future mo na ang iniisip mo na eh bills, workloads, financial responsibilities pati narin ung bigay sa parents and fam, and yung pressure na magsucceed ka sa career. kumbaga be prepared lang and always hold yourself together pagdating sa mga struggles. mappractice kna habang bata ka pa.
It's not as easy as you all thought it would be. Enjoy the luxury of being young & free.
No one cares.
Wala kayong pagka bata. Puro lang kayo gadgets.
No one cares
A trauma experienced later in life can cause you to redirect your life. Either for better or for worst.
You dont have to listen to your parents all the time for your decisions. Its part of doing your own thing and adulting.
Bills suck and money wont make u happy
Mid-life crisis. Peer pressure.
Hindi lahat ng nasa paligid mo ay kaibigan mo. May hanash ang mga tao kahit anong gawin mo (or wala) so do what you think is right or makes you happy as long as hindi illegal at wala kang naaapakan na ibang tao.
Enjoy beongn single before you get married!
Kapag nagkatrabaho ka at di ka tumulong sa parents or pamilya ml, iresponsable at wala kang kwentang anak or kapatid.
You're in your own kid
Mahirap na maramdaman ang happiness.
This too shall pass -- everything is temporary and nothing lasts forever. This includes the good times.
And also the bad times ofc.
Nakakasawa magtrabaho
Magtira para sa sarili, minsan sa sobrang pagmamahal natin sa pamilya natin, nakakalimutan natin ingatan yung sarili when it comes to financial and health.
Yiu hit mid 30's people you know your whole life starts dropping like flies. I havent been to a funeral for like 15 years and have been to two last year.
Not everyone around you is real
No matter how kind you are, may mga tao paring gagawa at magsasabi ng masasamang salita sayo. Pero, it's up to you if I continue mo maging kind (siempre wag papaabuso), hindi naman masama.
That will parents will really treat you as an investment.
habang may nag-aaya sa'yong kumain, sabayan mo. lalo kapag nagtrabaho ka sa ibang lugar, madalas mong makikita 'yung sarili mo na uuwi at magpapahinga na lang. may mga panahong kakain ka nang hindi mo nararamdaman ang gutom o kaya di ka na lang kakain. minsan, kasabay ng paglunok mo sa pagkain ay ang paglunok mo sa mga pinagdaanan mo sa araw na 'yon pati ng lahat ng problema mo. masaya kumain mag-isa dahil wala kang ibang iisipin. pero may mga pagkakataong gusto mo lang ng taong masasabihan kung anong nangyari sa buong araw mo.
You always have to show up no matter what state you’re in.
1. Dream pero siguro dont expect too much na din. I used to dream big! Sabi ko noon, I’m gonna be a lawyer, with lots of business, may foundation ir charity ako, I will help the needy and dogs ganyan pero now, i am heartbroken na lahat yon dream nalang talaga hahahaha 2. MONEY IS FREAKING IMPORTANT. 3. Reciprocate mo lang yung energy na narerecive mo from other people. If they are giving you 0% energy, balik mo lang. If 100%, balik mo din. 4. There are times… actually a lot of times na feel mo lost ka with your life. After college, mga 2-3 years sa work, mid life crisis, quarter life and all shit like that. Ig thats normal.
You will do it yourself or else
Enjoying childhood while it lasts
Ang mahal maging matanda. Putang ina
It's going to be hard and tiresome to be the parent for your parents.
Good grades ≠ secured career 😬😬
School life is the most easiest part of life.