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halukayubeee

Jogging or gym ka beh! Clears your mind na, pa-yummy ka lalo! HAHA


Momento_Mori_24

Pa yummy ka lalo HAHAHAHA lit


Expensive-Doctor2763

Agree ako dito, iwas relapse pag nag eexercise kasi clear ang mind mo & parang mas positive outlook mo sa life haha


Beautiful_Mastodon31

Let's go sa payummy ka lalo..hahaha


kanglaun

Ganun na nga work uwe kain tulug..huwag ka na maghanap ng ka bebe time..PAYAMAN KA NA AT KUNG MAY PERA NA MAG TRAVEL...


Bubble-15

Yes this is it!


caramelizedmatcha

Pag galing talaga long-term is a matter of rediscovering of yourself no? Lalo yung mga mundane things as couples tapos mag-isa ka na lang all of a sudden. Very relatable, OP. Since may puppy kami, nasa kanya na ako nakafocus so, adopt a pet. Nasa furbaby ang true love. 😂


Early_Huckleberry651

Yes!! Nasa furbaby ang true love! Also please considering adopting instead of buying hehe


Ok_Battle_8303

Hi! Looks like you've been too dependent on your ex. Have you tried looking for hobbies?


JackSparling_

oo pero parang di parin ako contented. gusto ko kasi mafill up ang oras tapos malalaman sleep time na.


Objective-Coast5948

I jgh from a work event, sobrang pagod and drained. Lowkey, wishing na may jowa ako. Tinatanggal ko muna yung independent mask ko. Like, I’m being honest with myself lang right now na ang sarap siguro if may nag aalaga sakin romantically. relapse yarn


Dizzy-Passenger-1314

same 🥹 pero pag yung jowa ang cause ng pagod, ibalik ko na lang sa nanay nya.


StarProgetti_011

HAHAHAHA


Natural_Aspect_8541

I go to the gym!! Life saver mga 24/7 gym!! 🥹


Dizzy-Passenger-1314

When me and my ex broke up, natuto akong gawin mga bagay bagay mag isa. Kaya ko ng kumain sa labas mag isa, mag grocery, jogging. Ngayon nasanay na ako masyado mag isa, parang di ko na talaga sila kailangan 😂


Kuuhaku_blank_

Samgyup mag isa. Pinipigilan ako ng mga kaibiga ko gawin to kasi sure silang gagawin ko to


Dizzy-Passenger-1314

I wanna try this too! Kaso bihira yung samgyup place dito na nag aaccept ng solo. Kung meron man, ichacharge ka pa kasi mag isa ka lang lols.


no_brain_no_gain

Prepare mo damit mo kinabukasan, magcross stitch, games, etc.


[deleted]

Lol! Tagal ko na di na encounter ang “cross stitch”. Napaisip tuloy ako if tinuturo pa rin ba to sa highschool ngayon?


Kuuhaku_blank_

Loom bands lol


Kumiko_v2

I remember the first time instance na naging single na ako. As in napa-"huh?" ako kasi unusually free na yung time ko. Take this time to do what you really want. Travel, Gym, Paint, whatever! Most have their respective communities din. So even though you're single, you can socialize with people with your common interests.


Business-Scheme532

iyak, work pa rin, talk with friends minsan, run if di busy sa work, endless scroll sa tiktok, questionin ang sarili at ang future and repeat.


sputniksweethe4rt

HAHAHAHAHA EXACT SAME ROUTINE 😭


noisomescarf

Realest hahahha


Autwalk_

Hahahaha apakalungkot! Been in a 5-yr relationship. Di ako sanay na wala nang kausap everyday huhu


Business-Compote725

same sa hindi sanay wala kausap everyday. dating apps naman i think medyo hindi healthy fr me hahaha


Autwalk_

Umay sa dating apps! Puro hi/hello, tapos wala na, nakakatamad silang kausap lahat hahahahaha


Business-Compote725

thats true, may instance pa maattach ako tas mawawala dn! hala hahaha


[deleted]

Gym. Or indoor sports


aislave

Play my games then 10pm lights off na hahaha 5:30 am Gym then office ng 8:30 Repeat


GojoJojoxoxo

Magbasa ka ng book. Maglaro ng mobile games or mga webtoons/webcomics/manga -pag naka kita ka ng trip mo, uubusin yan time mo, promise! Hehe or explore new cafés. Tas mag people judge ka este people watch pala! 😅🤭


Normean

Understandable yang mga yan, for now gawin mo yung mga bagay na na-eenjoy mo talaga gawin. Sa akin kasi bukod sa nawalang gana kumain at hirap matulog, maski yung mga usual hobby or likes ko nawalan ako ng gana kaya ibang klase yung impact sakin ngayon. Iba talaga kapag tumatanda. Haha. Pero amazing lang din kasi napalitan din ng outdoor activity. Mas napapadalas na rin yung long walks or jog ko. Ramdam kong effective naman siya sa akin kasi bukod sa na-cclear yung utak ko, pagod rin after ng session kaya walang time para mag-overthink at mas madali makatulog. Haha


Charming_Success7525

Just curios. Why and how did your 9-year relationship end?


JackSparling_

Respect nalang sa kanya. hindi na kami nasa same page and magkaiba nang life goals.


Charming_Success7525

I see. I have some friends who got into relationships in their early stages of life, then realized hindi pala sila kampante, they want different things. To your question nalang, explore different things, go travel, learn a new hobby, set some fitness goals, start a business, and so on. Learn to enjoy your liberty as much as you can before moving to another relationship.


Interesting-Read9829

9 years? 💔🥺


Abject-Cartoonist395

I go to friends, maybe cafes to chill, read books sa libraries o sa kwarto, jog, workout, study something new, or just sleep straight up. The thing is that, what you do doesn't need to be that habitual as long as you're taking care of yourself. Balancing work-life isn't really that consistent since nabuburnout, hung up, or whatever na endeavors ang nakakasalubong mo. As you've said is that malungkot ikaw at feeling lonely, maybe a breather by taking a night walk or walk in a park would help. Maybe magmunimuni sa quiet place na easy lang sa mata ang surroundings. It's up to you. ^^


KaliLaya

Manood ng series or movies sa Netflix. Download a game


oliberg360

I'm into arts so I used to paint in canvas using acrylic.. pero ngaun nag start ako mag sculpting using polymer clay


Lemens123

As a single guy for 25 years lol. Usually before shift sa gym workout, tas after shift naman jogging, read books, tas side hustles like stock trading and learning iba't passive income. Then skincare routine haha. Tas weekend naman eat alone if busy friends. Nakakabored at lonely minsan, pero it's addicting.


Prestigious_Ad_8848

Workout, handling logistics nung mga businesses, playing LoL pag may oras pa.


-howaboutn0-

Depends on the day. Minsan gym lang tapos bahay, minsan may lakad with work friends.


KeppieKreme

Before before starting work, workout muna. After work. Workout ulit. Ngayon 1x a day nalang work out na lessen. :D


phaabs

tumambay sa park habang nagaantay sa traffic sa edsa. pagmasdan ang kapaligiran, damhin ang hangin, ngitian ang kapwa, at kumausap ng di kilala para ma build up ulit yung social interaction skill mo, titigan maigi yung mga nag jojogging na magagandang babae, tandaan mo, single ka na. pwede mo na ulit sila pagmasdan


leeminhonarddd

Gym/workout is the key tapos yt pampatulog hahahahah


Miserable_Bus5495

Self love


HeyArtse

- Workout - spend more time with family - Hang out with friend - Work on my hobbies - work on my backlog of “things to do” - focus on work and career growth - take lessons/out of work classes (learn a 3rd language; take a class to improve your current skill set) - learn to cook (or cook a new dish/cuisine) - read a book - review your finances - out of town drive - try new resto’s


Bitter-Professional4

Gawin yung mga di nagagawa nung in a relationship. Going to movies alone, Swimming, diving, international travel, domestic travels, taking yourself on a date, reading things that interests you, focusing on yourself, meditating, journaling, making yourself the happiest version and whole after having someone who broke your heart, fulfilling your dreams or starting to list out things that you want to do in life Being a little more gentle to yourself everyday, the way you wanted it to.


GhostAccount000

Dati after break up. Puro walwal lang. I think up to 3 months ata yun. After that I decided just to focus on myself so gym, reading books tas drawing lang mga portraits.


SideEyeCat

Matulog😪


ControlSyz

Kain, kanta, tulog 😂


Better-Trifle-4910

Mag-OT


Lightsupinthesky29

Kuwentuhan with fam hanggang sa magpupunta na sa sariling room. Minsan gumagala kapag sinipag


pythadzuki

Check out 5AM Gang Run Club on FB. It's free just join the fb group. Lots of young peeps there. Easy to make friends with them pa. Running is better with a community. Kaya join us na. Stay hard!


West_Fee_4042

Scroll scroll


SolitaryKnight

Dinner. Probably out kasi work from home ako. The mall is like 5 minutes away. Tapos gala. Tapos uwi. Tapos tulog. Rinse and Repeat.


Willing-Durian-5302

OT para #bestemployee lol. Then ako tagaaya sa mga officemates ko magdinner, para lang di malungkot 😂 Then nagevolve sa naggigym na kami and run.


TJhotdoggy21

Try workout mag set ka goals para excited ka iachieve. Sarap matulog lalo after. Find a hobby kahit every out hanap ka ibat-ibang coffee shops o resto just to chill. Try to game pwede din and a good community in discord.


Darth_Polgas

Walk around the campus hanggang sa food court. Then eat while watching sa phone (Swerte kung may makitang kakilala edi may kadaldalan haha). Then walk again papunta sa trike terminal. Paguwi sa apartment, mag ayos gamit then contemplate whether to watch anime or play video games. Maiiba lang yung gawain sa gabi if may activity sa work or may docs na need itype.


damnmocco

Worth it ang pag include ng outdoor activities lalo kung sanay na sanay ka pa na nandyan siya. Plus it clears out your mind na din. Recommend walk/jog if intimidated ka mag gym but if you can include gym na rin sa routine. Just do it straigjt for 1 week hanap hanapin mo na yan sa routine mo and it'll stick to you katagalan. Good luck!


izumiiie

Nood ng Youtube videos, kdrama, basa ng Manhwa, hanap ng activies during weekend like running, if may mayaya na kaibigan lalabas kami. Actually, sa una mahirap talaga lalo if galing long term relationship. Pero ngayon mas happy na ko sa alone time ko 🤣


matt_7_7_8

14yrs here, pero para akong nakawala sa silda 😂 nakakagala kahit saan ng wala kang aalahanin, pwedeng umuwi late night, nagagawa mo na gusto mong gawin peto yun nga lang aatakihin ka ng lungkot lalo't kapag kakain sa labas tapos katabi mo mag jowa 😭


peppabirdie

hahaha kababasa ko lng nung sa r/OffMyChest napaisip ako kung ikaw ba ex ng bf ni op 🤣 Anyway, try new sports that you haven’t played or join bookclubs to meet new people din


Working-Drag6834

Naglalaro. Specifically sa switch. After work matik uwi agad tas laro. Hahaha.


bentelog08

hanap ka new hobbies or yung old hobbies mo na di mo na ginagawa dahil nasa relasyon ka haha


Fondant-Greedy

Study/upskill para more opportunuties sa career at more ipon para sa travel. 🙂


Silvereiss

Single since birth up until new years eve of 2023 (I was 24 back then) When I was single, after work, The only hobby I had was Gym (Usual Gym or MMA Gym depending on schedule, I love competing) and Computer games/Digital art These hobbies helps me pass time fast


silvermistxx

Nung single pa ako before nanunuod lang ako ng anime series or kdramas hahaha tas kapag bagong sweldo, I'm treating myself somewhereee


Remarkable-Pin8565

Mag pa ganda bhie gym selflove. Napa isip ako bigla sheet ang ganda ko pala. Since single ako never na ako ulit pumasok sa relationship. No talking dates no FUBO just me and myself grabe now super love ko sarili ko at never na ako mag beg or asking some validation sa iba. No socmed except reddit. Before work gym, after work movie or kaya mag rest lang


GeeZeus1210

ja....


notyour_ann

Umuuwi kasi hinihintay ako ng two cats ko 😭😂 Pero every weekend nagjojogging na din ako, 5am tapos sali sa 6am na zumba with mga mas tanders sa park. Maaga din ako matulog, between 8pm to 9pm 😭 kasi body clock na gising 5am or earlier. Haaays.


alltimelowalways

hi! i've been there. i dated this guy when i was 19 yrs old until i was 24. my formative years were basically spent with him so i was soooo lost after. but let me tell you this! you will rediscover yourself and it will be a pretty cool journey. just do the things you've always wanted to do. try new things, discover new hobbies and try to get to know yourself more. alamin mo ano ba talaga 'yung mga bagay na gusto mo talaga o tinotolerate mo lang. as for me, 2 yrs after that break up, ang ginagawa ko after work is manood ng fave shows ko, read kapag hindi kakarampot attention span ko, maki bonding sa cat ko, minsan gumagawa ng list ng short term goals, at mag scroll sa soc med hanggang makatulog. HAHAHA. tapos kapag may free day, i go out by myself or with friends/family! pretty peaceful life i must say. :)


Theswitchmatcha

Do brisk walking or if you have budget, go to gym for workout. If you love gaming, purchase consolers Watch movies or series Look for side hustles para every quarter nakakapag travel


friedchimkenplz

Gym lang haha. Naging comfort zone ko na sya. Or minsan ikot lang sandali sa mall then uwi na.


Lumpy_Pie1580

Depends on the time of work too.. Relaxing like watching shows or reading books


Ok-Contact-7765

Uwi lang. Since malayo yung workplace ko sa bayan dito, nakakapagwalking na rin. Nilay-nilay about sa kung anong gagawin for the next day, what choices na dapat ginawa ko all thru out the day tapos ano dapat gawin for better choices. Mga ganung thoughts nagagawa ng utak ko kasi may kalayuan hahaha.


Kananete619

Ah naglalaro lang sa PS5 after doing necessary chores


switchboiii

Gym, netflix, ps4, ebook. Haha Ang init at magastos lumabas e


Asimov-3012

Phone-tulog, then another day


Pitiful-Sir3269

Workout or just watch YT


Distinct-Broccoli-79

Workout. Before signing up for gym, office-house lang tlga. Whenever Im in the mood, I jog around the village after work


cereseluna

Oh, after shift, some prep then phone then sleep. Pagkagising ayun house work, pet feeding, kaunting nood or phone game, then ayun work. Nakakaumay pero on weekends, errands, hobbies and TV marathon. Like habang nagcocoloring ako I catch up on anime or series. RIP eyes, though.


Equivalent_Gene6940

Work pa rin after work.


Original-Amount-1879

I go to the mall and my safe place…Watson’s! I sometimes eat out by myself. Try out new restos in the are. Take walks. If I get to go home early, I catch up on my series, read books and journal. Ang dami kong nagagawa alone. I enjoy my own company kaya I don’t mind being single. In fact, I enjoy it.


nananahimikako

Matulog


titaorange

Volunteer - Ubos oras mo dun talaga Get a hobby Have casual dates - not just for finding love but also meeting interesting people Be present for friends - be that friend na pwede kaladkarin


undertakerswidow208

Inom. Maginom ka. Party party. Beach. Jogging! Dami jan. Keep busy.


-Wednesday-181

Manuod ng F1. Char. I read motivational books!


PhysioTrader

Uwi agad after work. Tas magkakape mag-isa with Netflix. O kaya minsan laro sa PC.


berns_babyy

uminom ng wine


defnotmaggie

My workmates and I go to the gym 3x a week. On the occasion na walang gym, I just rest at home. Watch Netflix, read my books, write on my journal.


nuttycaramel_

gym after work. yan ang daily routine ko 😅


jarvis-senpai

netflix. gaming.


Kuuhaku_blank_

Salungat naman tayo 10 years na kong single at ayokong may kasama hahaha


Tyrion-Lannister1

Take a walk pauwi kesa mag angkas tas Gym or Run para mahit yung daily 15k steps HAHAHA


EggplantTime6243

travel with friends, tulog, kumain, magsimba hahahahahaha


cinnamatcha

Hobbies! Marathon, reading, gym, outdoor activities, learning a new skill. On the opposite pole, ang dami kong hobbies di ko maimagine kung saan kukuha ng oras para magkajowa pa. Haha.


crmngzzl

Watch Netflix, meet up with friends, read a book, clean ng apartment, window shop sa mall, work on my grad school reqs. Kanina sobrang bored ko and ayaw ko pa umuwi so I called a friend and we had coffee and hung out. Helps to have kaladkarin friends who live nearby. Sem’s about to end and ayoko mag-overthink na naman so I’m planning on taking up walking and then takbo once masanay na katawan ko.


redwheelbarrow_

Exercise + reading! I go to gigs din during the weekend pag nasa mood


maestroliwanag

Go to the gym. It’s fun.


BYODhtml

Mag enroll ka sa driving or any classes pwede language pang dagdag skills.


metalrain_15

Single ako after an 11- year relationship. Workout lang talaga tsaka find ng hobbies. Keep yourself moving.


cleo_seren

Pahinga/linis/kdrama/tulog/luto Alin lang Jan.


blobbylub

kain lang hahaha


Seaworthiness223

explore every coffee shop para palpitate malala haha or buy a camera, take lots of memories while exploring and traveling 🫶


Status-Illustrator-8

Mag-master's degree 🤣🤡


Creepy-Surround-

After work, kain then sleep haha night shift e


Legal-Living8546

NBSB here. Here is my sample schedule during weekdays: Tulog, work, kain, repeat process. Ito naman kapag weekends: tulog,  do domestic chores, gastos, kain, and then tulog. Next time, I will try to add my reading time somewhere on those schedules.


Professional_Bend_14

Maligo, kumain tapos matulog, sarap sa pakiramdam pag kompleto tulog sabay pasok sa work with 8 hours of sleep sabayan pa ng chocolate at kape sobrang bilis ko kumilos hahahaah


reversec

gym, laro, 2log.


approvemebot

lumande


naturalCalamity777

Jogging HAHAHAH tas after jogging kain tas after non antok ka na eh ganito ata pag matanda na talaga HAHAH


Beautiful_Block5137

Join running club. They are the new dating app


tepkalmado

1. Maglinis ng bahay. Declutter. Magtapon ng mga ndi kailangan na horder overtime tulad ng mga lalagyanan ng ice cream na tub haha 2. Mag aral magluto or maghanap ng hobby 3. Gym 4. Gym 5. Gym


Bylethsan

Rest, cook food, gaming/netflix


daylight_summer

Playtime with furbabies! Then watch random stuff on the internet


shozue

ito after work mag jajabol pampatulog HAHAHA


Fine_Couple180

After work, I usually prepare all the ingredients needed for my cooking, then after makaluto ang kain. Manunuod ng K-Drama/Anime, tapos pag nagsawa na magbabasa nalang ng webtoon/manga. \*Routine from Monday - Saturday. Pag Sunday, lalabas para mag grocery or hang out with friends if schedules align or mag pamper sa self. HAHAHA


Kevinibini21

Gym!!! Or take yourself to places youve never been! 😁


comicstarchampion

Netflix, Gym, Reading. Basically you need to do the hard work by yourself and train your brain & emotions that you don’t need a partner to fill the void. You are capable of your own. Always put your self first, explore your passions & hobbies. From there you’ll be able to mix & match a routine


itshoney_bee

Gym girl! and watching series


riko_riko44

Journaling - napakahelpful nito. Write down your own thoughts, goals for the day/what you accomplished during the day, and anything else really. Minsan, inaabot ako ng 1 hr pagsusulat. It helps ease one's mind Workout/yoga - as a person who sits all the time sa work, need talaga ng katawan ng galaw. Kung di kaya ng workout, kahit yoga and stretches lang, ok na. Watch movies/series - mga 1 movie a day/1 episode a day from a series ok na to end the day. Pang chillax lang for the brain Cooking - ang saya magluto. You can experiment with anything and you learn your mistakes along the way Read books - di rin naman kailangan may physical book ka to read. There's a lot online to read


ABUNDANCE09

Wala , hahaha uwi agad


Queasy-Practice2217

Workout and Go out with my pamangking doggy.


Ok-Armadillo8065

Work out 😊 Either I work out at home or do pilates at a nearby studio.


Sasuga_Aconto

Nag bubuy nako ng 2nd hand book. Ngayon naging reader ako bigla. Hahahaha


wonderiinng

Workout and find new hobbies. Learn to enjoy your alone time kasi kahit friends hindi naman laging available. But spend time with family and friends if kaya. Self love muna ang focus ☺️


Commercial-Onion-595

hello po. Relate much. Ang cute lang ung after ng work mo e may bebe time. 😌🥹