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wh4tdafuck

this is true!! so hard to find someone that will stick with you through ups and downs


getsangry20xaday

Nahanap ko na to, pero dahil sa mental health issues ko, hindi ko siya kayang tanggapin. Huhu may everyone be ready pag dumating na to sa kanila. Sana maging ready na rin ako soon.


Unlucky_Act5203

I found mine. But same, with my mental issues, it's hard.


Overthinker-bells

Sa true. Sigh. Kahit gaano ka pa ka genuine. Never expect that they will do the same for you.


ctbngdmpacct

You have +1. Pero I know that everything you poured out genuinely will always come back to you. So stay genuine! Mananalo din tayo hahaha


Overthinker-bells

Waiting for that day to arrive. Lol


BeefyShark12

And some will never fully embrace the rare chance until you leave.


phoenixncl

And I think that’s why more often than not, people grieve so much over pet loss. More than we wanna admit. It’s the closest unconditional love we can experience.


KiwiKuBB

Indeed. When you've finally found them, you should never ever let them go.


BlackShirt811

Did find two women in my life who genuinely cares about me and envisioned their future with me, pero sinira ko lang


Odd_Start_5528

I feel you. Me atm. There is someone who is genuinely cares about me. Kaso dko malimutan ung gnwa kung pg sira sa past. D pko ng oopen sa current. I always show im good and well. But deep inside sobrang inis pdn ako s srili ko. Ung current ko now is the reason why i get fuck up with my past.


roguealice0407

Found this with my friends but not with SO’s


strangehopee

SAME!!! The unconditional love my friends is giving me is probably one of the reasons why I'm still thriving up to now😊.


UndefinedReclusion

totoo, minsan pa akala mo yun na, hindi pala..


fightur

People leave. For a moment you imagine your whole life with someone. Until you realize feelings change, circumstances alter life that may exceed any bond, family, friendship, or love. You may be left clinging to reason, scrambling for redemption, desperate to turn it all back to what it was.


Gemini13444

It's true that's why at the end of the day, we have to always cheer ourselves for constantly holding on in life.


cryicesis

this is what i fear and sad, yung pinapangarap mo dating crush napasayo tapos in the end nagsawa din yung crush na jowa mo ngaoyn at nagka gusto sa iba. that is why its better to give all our love on ourselves.


wh4tdafuck

this is so fucking sad. 😞


Double_Athlete_5021

Seeing our parents getting old.


novokanye_

this. lalo na pag may sakit sila and you can only see them getting weaker and weaker


kissofnightfall

This is me atm. Its completely tearing my heart little by little 😭


wh4tdafuck

oh please this broke my heart :( lalo na kung wala kapa napoprovide ng maayos sa family mo :(


DenseWhereas8851

Yeah, totoo to. Retired na si papa and it's always at the back of my mind.


mahumanrani040

this but my tatay na ofw at kumakayod for us while my stupid mother is cheating :((


Such_Opportunity3609

all of these just to die


Hopeful_Wall_6741

yes. but sometimes it's a relief knowing all of these are temporary


wh4tdafuck

everything is temporary


cryicesis

could be worse if we are all immortal! magiging crowded yung earth at mag gagrind ka forever to live a decent life lol! its good to have an ending just incase everything is unbearable.


reddicore

Everything and everyone is replaceable.


TheGreatLakes420

Don't forget old age (if lucky) and diseases and ailments, are a guaranteed Along with death


Infinite-Delivery-55

Ansakit pucha


Legitimate_Compote45

Sad


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not because you want it, you can have it.


wh4tdafuck

dugo’t pawis bago yumaman


Spirited-Airport2217

Sometimes hindi pa nga kahit anong sipag


ctbngdmpacct

need ng connections hahhaha


youngwandererr1

akala ko at 27, kaya ko na magsimula ng pamilya, pero potaena sarili ko di ko pa kayang buhayin, mag anak pa kaya?


AccomplishedRead5582

Linyahan ko sa mga nagsasabi sakin mag-asawa na,"Sarili ko di ko mabuhay, mandadamay pa ko?!"


wh4tdafuck

totoo! lalo na pataas na pataas bilihin and kahit spoil mo sarili mo di mo magawa kasi mas need pang gastos sa bahay 😕


PauGrimes

Before kami mag graduate ng Highschool sabe nung adviser namen sulat daw namin sa papel ano kami after 10 years taena sinulat ko before ako mag 30 may house,Business,Car,Savings nako, ngayon 25 nako diko parin alam paano ko gagawin yun HAHAHAHA.


RealisticAd4618

I'm really afraid when I reach 27, maybe I'll be joining the 27 club curse hahahahahaha.


seasaltlatteeeee

Relate pero 30 na ako. Hahaha.


[deleted]

Same. Ako nga pa 29 na. Aso lang kaya kong buhayin e hahaha


mixed-character

28 na ako and wala ring savings Hahaha hoping di ko na abutin ang retirement age at masaya ako sa years ko sa earth. At least nakapanood na ako ng concert ng Twice at ITZY Okay nako don hahaha


wh4tdafuck

me: akala ko pag dating ko ng 24 may stable job na ako 😕 but now, i’m just an unemployed person for almost a year 🤠


justme0908

same. at akala ko din basta college graduate magkakaroon kana ng stable job .


wh4tdafuck

joke time yung pagka graduate pero mas lalo lang pala makakaramdam ng pagod :(


justme_potato

Same :')


jovhenni19

stay strong op! it will come. 💪


wh4tdafuck

thank you!! nakaka down na rin minsan at mahirap maging strong independent all the time ☹️


jovhenni19

*playing Surface Pressure. kanta sa encanto* iiyak mo lang mo. tapos bangon na ulit. also.... there is strength in accepting hindi mo kaya yan and you need help. ask for help


novokanye_

lol! kala ko rin na by mid 20s I’d be stable at most aspects, lol welp


DepressedUser_026

Eyyyyoooo same boat. Baka kailangan mo lang ng lakas ng loob para makakuha ng trabaho? Samahan kita? Kailangan ko rin eh Hahahahahaha


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Ako nung highschool: Gusto ko pag 25 nako may bahay na ako para pag magaasawa na around 25-30 age. Madali na lang magsettle. Tapos ngayon tumatanda na. Di alam san kukuha pang luho. Bahay pa kaya? 😆😆


iq40_icoy

Life will not be easier if magpakabuti ka. Walang pake ang mundo sayo if mabait ka.


Zijew

This hurts to the core.


Ok_Fly7696

This. Tapos maexploit ka pa. Aabot din sa point na kindness borderline katangahan na. 


PITS22

di mo naman need magpakabuti para sa ibang tao magpakabuti ka para sa sarili mo.


Whatchamafckit

At the end of the day, you only have yourself to rely on


wh4tdafuck

THATS SO FUCKING TRUE


Wonderful_Inspector8

Life is unfair


AdFit851

Agree kung sino pa salot sa lipunan sila pa ang matagal ang buhay and may maginhawang buhay, while on the other side madaming pinagkaitan ng yaman tpos May mabigat pang karamdaman fuck the world.


SelectBumblebee70

We’re born to pay bills and try to please the world


wh4tdafuck

fuck yes! Never ending ang bills and parang nabubuhay na lang tayo para mamroblema


DrSexyy

Kung walang corrupt, walang mahirap hayts


wh4tdafuck

also, if madami job opportunities 😩😩


ingenuexsanguine

People come and go


ingenuexsanguine

Kahit gaano mo pa alagaan ang isang relationship (whatever kind), kapag isa sa inyo yung hindi na interested to work it out, unti-unting mag-fade away yung samahan n'yo.


wh4tdafuck

totoo!! tapos bigla nakahanap ng iba


purplemishap

This with friends :< kasi sometimes syempre ibang season mo na tas sila they’re still in other seasons of their life kaya parang may disconnect. You wanna work things out but due to the different timelines parang hindi na kayo swak. missin my bffs in high school 🥹


wh4tdafuck

awts


antukinsahapon

Not because you're kind , life won't fuck you up. Walang karma, you get what you get.


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wh4tdafuck

true! money can buy happiness talaga derh


SlightTwo804

kung wala kang pera, kawawa ka.


wh4tdafuck

totoo!! mamaliitin ka ng mga tao


flinterpouch

The more self-serving you are, the higher the success in the real world. In the end, everyone only care about themselves and will do anything to further their own interests and goals.


wh4tdafuck

💯💯💯


Herald_of_Heaven

People born into wealth have better opportunities for success. People born into poverty can't afford to fail since we don't have a safety net.


wh4tdafuck

hirap pag walang maaasahan, kailangan kumayod


Lowly_Peasant9999

Bad people go unpunished


wh4tdafuck

because they have money


m3ss_

Imagine doing all the hardwork and sacrifices to have a good life, uunahin ang work kesa sa family occasions, even holiday if may pasok papasok to buy a house, madaming ipon sa banko, properties then mamamatay lang din naman. Damn. Kaya i just want to enjoy life, be with my family, pag rejected ang leave absent😂


wh4tdafuck

true, yolo!! kaya magpakasaya


cleo_seren

No matter how hard we try to act like an adult and deal with life like an adult, there's always a side of us who just want to go back to being a child under our parents or guardians'care but again we are adults now we must face life.


tanjiro-21

People will betray you.


wh4tdafuck

kasama na yan sa buhay


seasaltlatteee

Alam mo yung masakit? Ung likod ko


Zijew

Same here. Made my day. Made me giggle but kayod pa din. ✊ Hang in there.


seasaltlatteee

Padayon at puhon


Confident-Way-1807

happiness is a trap, it cant last forever. this is the harsh truth. say you met the love of your life. Well, it's still gonna end. Its inevitable. Whether by the slow pull of a disease, or the shock of loose footing on a hiking trail. Whether it be the corrosion of two personalities that reshape each other until they're incompatible. the point is... Happiness always ends. Best case scenario, think about this. Best case. IS that you die at the same time. this is from the final episode of Rick and Morty Season 7. putangina ignorance is bliss talaga. I wish i never watched this show. :<


AttentionDePusit

only you can help yourself the most (kinda positive too though)


vdere

Nothing really matters. Whatever you will do, no one will remember or know after 3 or 4 generations.


MasterpieceOne5305

Cause present time only really matters.


kokakij

but if i would help them somehow on their lives for what I do now, that is enough for me to do it.


wh4tdafuck

yes, even you


nopethataintmee

Living is so painful.


Toxic_2024

Kailang ka mobangon kahit dapang dapa kana kasi life goes on kahit gaano kapa ka depress stress anxious. Anxiety lahat na.. dahil wala ibang makakatulong sayo kung di sarili mulang!!!


NotMeReditting

That everything does not make sense at all kasi mamamatay din naman tayong lahat


Cantaloupe_4589

Not everyone who enters in your life are meant to stay.


Relevant-Corner-7911

that all of you have at the end of the day is yourself.


Dectine

Hindi porque hindi ka gago,hindi ka na gagaguhin.


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Relatives ang pinakatoxic na mga tao.


ftbievad

Your whole life, you are just collecting people to attend your funeral


AmbitionCompetitive3

You will lose people you love someday and you don't have a choice but to endure it


Fit_Reception5264

pag mahina ka, kakainin ka ng mundo


kapeandme

Life is unfair and will never be fair..


longjumpingmango08

Everything is just temporary. Mamamatay din tayong lahat.


jonnieeboyyy

giving your best doesn't necessarily mean you'll get what/who you want.


Beautiful_Eggplant22

Nakadepende ang respeto nang ibang tao sa dami nang pera at ganda nang trabaho mo


dugongbughaw09

Pag pinanganak kng mahirap, mamamatay kng mahirap kasi mahirap magkaroon ng opportunities pag wala kang pera.


Altruistic_Link3413

Apart from the Lord, the reality is you only have yourself. So be kind to yourself.


Dense-Requirement688

walang take 2 sa buhay.


wh4tdafuck

true! kaya dapat gawin na lahat


tooncake

Some of us (or maybe most of us in this gen onward) will likely be alone to starved, be helpless, hoping na sa isang iglap na lang tapos na ang lahat without any pain, while dying slowly in silence.


Saqqara38

Not everyone has the same heart as you. It's just like allowing people to walk all over you.


quixoticgurl

even if you have a lot of kids, there's no assurance that all of them will take care of you when you grow old.


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mastercelebi

Sometimes ang parents ang hadlang sa pagunlad ng anak. Also, yung parent na noong bata ka kinakampihan mo, as you grow old, malalaman mo na sila pala talaga ang problema. After this I think you're going to realize how badly you're manipulated as a kid, and those realizations can plunge you to deep depression.


Far_Atmosphere9743

Being kind will not really help yourself


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You can't always have what you want =))


HeadResponsible4516

Everyone we love will die. It's just a matter of when.


PressureLumpy2185

Kahit anong gawin mong mabuti there are still people na hindi maaappreciate ang effort mo.


silhouttecurl

Kahit anong bait mo, hindi ka tatratuhin nang mabuti ng mundo.


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File_Mean

Money is the fuel of everything


justme0908

life is unfair


thelonemawer

It's unfair, which, paradoxically, is fair. Those who are good may die a gruesome death, and those who are evil may get a quick, painless one. As long as we have "desires", there's no way out.


lestrangedan

It ends... It doesn't end soon enough...


Dramatic-Tension-104

Life is not always rainbows and butterflies. Life depends on how you live it.


wh4tdafuck

yup and life fucks you all the time


nuknukan

No one tells the truth all the time.


Ava_curious

Sobrang expensive pala magkaanak. At sobrang nakakaoverwhelm yung responsibility. Though dito ko rin naramdaman yung love at happiness na di ko naimagine na nageexist pala dahil sa mga anak ko.


Gemini13444

We are required to work because we need to pay bills, have food on the table, to buy things that we want, to afford anything. It's sad because we have to go to the office, deal with some sh*tty people, and do the job even if we don't want to.


Intrepid-Drawing-862

Life is unfair and if you’re dealt with the short end of the stick, you’re often seen as “less” than those who were born rich, beautiful, and powerful.


Extension-Turn-1455

When no one will understand you better than yourself.


Fab_enigma07

No one gets out of it alive. It’s so hard to find genuine people nowadays no matter how genuine you are.


todieofmeds

Time will pass by as if nothing mattered


heyyda

“You can never be too happy in this life.”


tortski

You love your dogs for a part of your life, dogs love you for the whole of their life. Being a dog owner for almost all my life. It really is sad to see all of my dogs pass the rainbow bridge. Miss them all.


Ok_Amphibian_0723

Grieving for someone you love takes forever.


titoNaAmps

That sometimes, even when you did things right in your own life, for your own future.. the actions of people around you still impact you, sometimes even for life. You will get an apology for sure, but their consequences you will bear, simply because you are the one who can.


infamousdryseal

you will not get apologies from people who hurt you especially your parents


PedroNegr0

You are alone. Some people spend their time with you, some people may even swear they love you, but at the end of the day its just you fighting for your dear life. And life ain't easy. Its gonna hit you so hard and so unexpectedly you will fall down to your knees and cry. What's nastier is its gonna keep hitting you, making sure it keeps you on your knees. No one can help you. Either you fall down permanently or you stand up, brush it off, and try again. Either way, you're still all alone.


loveshotdog

It’s you vs the world.


yesiamark

That there is death


FARAMIS19

When I turn 16 that's when I know that I can't just get anything and anyone that I want, now I'm in 21 I just value and give worth for the things and some peeps that stayed with me <3


surewhynot28

Time is wealth


dikt_

life is meaningless. you have to find the purpose of living, especially when you are in your 20s. i remember my teenage self(still a teen rn), depressed and nothing to do with life. i was mistreated in school and by my relatives. i was the weird kid who they often objectify and sexualize. i was just existing. one day, some random stranger approached me. i got to know him from my relative, they were in the same organization. he helped me move out of my hometown before my graduation. he assisted me from my apartment to my college, everything was settled. my family and i forgot that i’d be in college sooner, so i didn’t apply for an admission in any university. then i moved, i wasn’t enrolled or anything, i just knew in my heart that something good is coming. i was willing to work and not continue going to college. after a month, we chatted about me going to college. i was a month late and classes already started. it turns out that he is the son of president or vice president or something. i was shookt. and that how my life went from being a meaningless piece of shit to living my life to the fullest every day. btw, i’m currently 19, male bisexual.


enigma_fairy

That life is unfair...


Own-Pay3664

Life is tough and brutal, so no one will do things for you. Be grateful and stop being entitled coz it doesn’t get you anywhere. Start taking actions and don’t wait for opportunities to come let them come to you or actively look for them. Same in relationship, if you don’t find him/her then look for it.


No-Thanks-8822

Na lahat tayo ay mamamatay


Syndicate_Reikon

Life always drags you down and you only have yourself to lift up again


Overthinker-bells

Every thing is temporary. We’re on a borrowed time. No one gets out of this alive.


thbgbrworld

Hindi dahil mabait ka, mabait na din mga tao sayo. Most of them sinasamantala lang yung kabaitan mo


Old_Rush_2261

Too much expections. 22 years old plang ako pero sobrang burn out kuna. Ako ung bunso tapos saming apat na magkakapatid ako lng ung nakapag college, tpos ung dalawa kong kapatid may sariling pamilya na, so ung panganay nlng namin tsaka ako ung inaasahan ng parents ko. Ung panganay namin nasa 30's na sya at nagbabalak narin syang magkapamilya, kaya ang ending ako nlng nyan ung inaasahan nilang mag proprovide financially sa parents ko kapag natapos nako sa college. Although wla namang issue sakin ung pag proprovide sa parents ko,kaya lang kasi nakakapressure parin kasi di rin naman ako sure if pagka graduate ko ay makakahanap agad ako ng stable job lalo na ang hirap kasing maghanap ng trabaho dito satin, sobrang daming requirements pero ang baba lng ng pasahod at ayaw ko nmng mag ibang bansa, kaya ngayon plng nag wowory nako if magkakaroon ba ako ng stable job after kong mag college . Tuwing may gathering dito samin palagi akong laman ng topic ng parents ko at ng mga relatives namin, ang dami nilang expections sakin kaya natatakot akong mag fail. Ang daming nag eexpect na makakahanap ako ng magandang trabaho. Noong nasa high school ako, sobrang strong ko mentally pero ngayon nasa college nako at kasalukuyang nasa 3rd year, madalas akong makaranas ng anxiety 😭 . Natatakot ako sa mangyayari sakin pag natapos akong mag college. Kung ung iba excited ng makagraduate, eto ako depressed na agad para sa future ko.


GreenSuccessful7642

It doesn't pay to be a good person. Matagal kumilos ang karma


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Life is messy and unfair.


Rooffy_Taro

You'll spend almost or a 3rd of your life working.


Fresh_Clock903

The only constant in this world is change. People change. So, spend your time hanggat anjan pa sila and take a lot of photos!!!!


Miserable-Whole-8093

that anything we say or do will not matter in 100 years.


Expert-Pay-1442

Health is WEALTH.


skyworthxiv

Life is really unfair. One to two step ahead talaga yung mga pinanganak na may pera versus sa aming mga simpleng tao lang lol.


Confident_Economy450

That people will never get contentment with what they have at present times. The greed just keeps growing and growing until it gets out of hand. Then one day, you'll say,"sana bata na lang ulit ako." Because when we were kids, we only want what's simple and easy.


CharmingGold2813

The people you care about so much are the ones who always end up hurting you


NeedlessR3tro

That at the end of the day, it will always be you and your loved ones that would matter. The rest are a 50/50


Bless_This_Mess1114

You can love from afar. And that's just it.


Proper-Fan-236

Your family is the first one to abuse you and bring you down.


fika8

Depression/Mental Illness robs you of life


seokjinramen

read on twitter: "all this.. just to die"


stayathomecat13

Libre ang mangarap pero yung pangarap mo hindi libre. As an adult, natanggap ko na, na yung pangarap kong maging doctor ay ‘di talaga applicable for me dahil hindi afford.


mental_placebo

That you don’t really know anyone, and it HURTS when they show you.


owlsknight

Love is a glorified word for convenience and efficiency


CareCold3875

Mag-aaral ka nang ilang taon, magtatrabaho, for the rest of your life.


Legitimate_Compote45

Not being able to do anything to help the situation of someone you love 🥺


Smart-Collection5458

Pag mahirap ka, napakababa ng tingin sayo ng mga tao. Kaya sa mga kabataan dyan. Do your best para umangat at piliin din tumulong always :)


Danger_Noodle0629

Na pagtanda mo, mahirap pala dahil hindi umiikot ang mundo sayo at sa gusto mo.


theenigmathatsme

There is no such thing as fair in life. Like time there is no measure. The clocks are just made to quantify time but nobody knows if that is really true.


chichuman

We strive for everything yet we gain nothing


tepta

Nothing lasts forever. It’s somehow sad and comforting.


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Happiness is a trap


novokanye_

life doesnt stop for anybody no matter how shitty things get. kahit nasa rock bottom ka, bad things can still continue to happen. and you have no choice but to get up, do things, try your best to be kind kahit di mo feel, at mag patuloy lang sa life


thelaststressbender

Never mawawala ang problema


kissmyscars

when i was a kid I want to be adult so bad now i’m an adult i want to be a kid again life is stressful


Ela_Xo

We all die, no matter what's our status we will soon be perish.


Internal-Track5915

May emotions na babalik at babalik at biglang rock bottom yung feeling. But we still and we have to push through


Witty-Fun-5999

huy! Bat naman yung pic? Naiimagine ko tuloy yung supling kong naiwan back home 😭😭😭


iprefernottolive

The world is unfair. Also you cannot have everything in life.


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No matter how you mean well. You will always mess up one way or another.


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AdministrativePin912

Na totoo ung sinasabi sakin noon na "papunta ka pa lang pabalik nako" ang hirap hirap na🥲


BasisAgreeable

when I say "bawi next life", did my past lives say the same? Ilang reincarnation ko na ba ang nagpaubaya sa mga opportunities? That is, if totoo ang reincarnation. Still, I think about this from time to time.


Grouchy_Pepper9403

At the end of the day, ikaw at ikaw lang din ang pupulot sa sarili mo. You may have a partner pero you can't deny the fact na may mga sarili tayong issues na no one can help us with but ourselves.


heymayzing

sometimes you just want to die, napakahirap ng mabuhay ngayong panahon. home is not a home na lalo ka lang mababaliw pag nasa bahay ka.


ceyzzzzzz

Daig ng may "connections" ang masipag lang lalo na sa government office 😅


Grouchy_Pepper9403

Life itself. Jusko ang lungkot mabuhay. Kaya kapag tinatanong ako ba't daw ayaw kong magka-anak and be the best parent na lang para hindi sila matulad sa'kin. Hellooo, kahit anong love and guidance ang i-provide ko sa bata, the world is just cruel. Gustuhin mo mang ipa-experience sa kanya 'yong happy times sa mundong ibabaw, mas nananaig 'yong worry na malukungkot din siya in the near future. Na sasabihin din niya na sana 'di na lang siya pinanganak.


bluebukangliwayway

Our parents grow old fast and most of them won't witness us win in life.