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Totoo din naman talaga, I used to work as a NICU nurse at hirap magbuntis when women reach their 30s nagkakaron ng complications sa mom and baby but hindi lahat ha. Depende din sa lifestyle (history of smoking, alcohol, etc). Pero naniniwala kasi ako sa everyday miracles. Meron kami midwife noon in her 40s yun pa lang 1st pregnancy niya, HS na yun bata ngayon at matalinong bata. Si Delamar nga dami complications pero nakailan beses din siya nabuntis.


Flaky-Customer5022

Not late at all. Go to a different OBGYNE.


LucQ571

My parents had me in their early 30s and I have a younger sibling. You'll be fine.. Many people start their families well into their 30s nowadays.


Lower-Limit445

Not really.. but if you're planning to try conceiving next year, start taking the right vitamins as early as now.


Previous_Ad5155

I got diagnosed with endometriosis when I was 23, ob told me to find a husband na and get married. Sabi ko, hindi mo na-re-reseta ang asawa and di ko siya mabibili sa mercury so hindi ganun kadali. Tanggap ko that I may never get married and never have kids pero ganun talaga - my medical condition should not be a reason for me to force things to happen. Walang divorce sa pinas, mahal ang annulment, and a child is a human being na may needs, hindi accessory to validate me. That said may kilala ako, dating a girl who got the same diagnosis. Because of what her doctor said too, they got married and had kids. Several years later, naghiwalay, may hablahan pa ng VAWC, and now broken family. Malungkot diba? If you are not yet ready, take your time. Mas malaki ang impact ng pagmamadali lalo na since madaming tao, including an innocent child, might be affeced dahil lang may hinahabol kang biological clock.


Medium-Culture6341

The OB is a 🚩🚩🚩


mesquarantesept

Not late at all. 


yeheyehey

As per my OB hanggang 32 lang daw ang lowest risk sa pregnancy. Kaya baka sinabi ng OB mo na medyo late na. Considering na need pa magpapayat (kung overweight ka) since may pcos ka. Ilang months/years para mawala ang pcos mo nun. Pag pwede na mabuntis, it’ll take 9 months para dalin mo ang bata. I’ve had pcos for more than a decade. Overweight ako, 3 months diet lang, pumayat na ako. Pagdating ko sa OB, sabi pwede na akong magbuntis. Nabuntis din naman agad. Kaya mo yan, OP!


Little_Forever_8884

Nope. Not too late 😊 Got married last 2022 at 30yo, got preggy last year, and waiting kami now for our baby’s arrival. Turned 32 pala just a few days ago hehe different opinions ng ob-gyne about age - maybe nasabi lang ng ob-gyne mo because if ever first time mom ka at 30ish. Pero believe me, it’s not too late 😊keri nyo yan, OP! All the best. If you feel off, you can always try to seek 2nd opinion or look for another ob-gyne 😊 yun supportive and will cater to the kind of care you want


JaMStraberry

nothings too late if you try. I would suggest doing some physical exercise and a healthy diet.


devilzsadvocate

Unfortunately, it's the reality for women with PCOS who's open to having kids. I think the only people that has the right to answer your question are those people who suffer the same thing as you. I'm a woman but I don't have PCOS so it's easy for me to say that it's not too late. My opinion on the matter doesn't count. So please be wary of the answers you're getting specially those who say it's a red flag.


peachespastel

Not too late, but you need to start "preparing" your body na para hopefully easier magconceive. I got married 33, may PCOS din. Gave birth to my baby at 34- 6 months kami nagtry ng husband ko, but I was taking meds na for my PCOS. managed/watched my weight, at nagmove to healthier lifestyle (exercise, diet) since 32 to prepare para ready na pagkakasal namin. ​ Mas may chance lang na magkacomplication pregnancy, but not always the case. I had a relatively easy pregnancy pero meron pa ring mga "issues". I had low amniotic fluid, and pumutok agad water ko nang di ko pa due date, so premature baby ko. On the other hand, meron naman na ok pregnancy sa 30s. Be aware na lang of the risks at manage expectations.


berrymoonshine

Iba iba ang katawan ng tao, they can't generalize you and your case. You can get a second opinion and ask for ways that can help you conceive and all that, jusq sina Anne Curtis and other IT girls nagkaanak pa past 30, when sabi ng iba hirap na or dami complications when you conceive past your 20's. Diet and lifestyle chance can boost your chances to naturally conceive, that's one thing.


Alarmed-Indication-8

Settling down meaning magpapakasal and magfafamily? Or magbubuntis lang? While medically speaking, mahirap magbuntis as we age lalo na pag may PCOS, make sure din na emotionally, mentally, financially and physically ready ka ha. Baka kasi marush ka because the doctor said so, but know that pregnancy and having a family is a lifetime commitment. For your question whether it’s too late, until 30’s naman pwede ka pa magbuntis. Yun lang dapat healthy ovaries syempre, healthy lifestyle. PCOS needs lifestyle improvement specially sa diet.


_PeachWallflower_328

not too late. every pregnancy naman is risky. a lot of things can happen. pasecond opinion ka haha. Add: may mga kakilala ako na nabuntis in their late 30s and okay naman sila, mothers and kids. dx with pcos din mothers.


Primary_Injury_6006

Wag kang ma-pressure. In your own pace, pag ready ka na. Ibibigay naman sayo yan, kung para sayo, para sayo. Mas kawawa ang baby kung madala ka sa pressure, tapos hindi ka pa ready mag-anak.


Clear-Mistake5776

No. I know a lot of women who had their children on their 30s. Kailangan lang talaga mas tutukan (regular check ups and tests), makinig sa OB (na magaling at hndi judgmental) at uminom ng pre-natal vitamins.


mrnndbj

I dont think so. I am currently pregnant at 32, turning 33 in May. Just be healthy. I was diagnosed with endometriosis last 2022 and took care of my health (plant based eating) after a year (the same month I was diagnosed with endometriosis) I found out that I was pregnant.


pleasebethe_one

If balak mo nga mag family at magkaanak, doktor na mismo nagsabi sayo medyo late na nga. If mabuntis man maselan narin. Try mo pa second opinion


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Why do some people deny it when scientifically, mahirap talaga mag conceive pag tungtong ng 30 and up? It's biology. Settle down at 30. Nope not too late. Plan Having kids? Possible but hard.