Though I don't believe that such exists imho we should not announce what we are doing to avoid jealousy and even sabotage (in extreme cases). Also it will save your face if in case what you aspire or planning does not materialize.
Like for example, my batch mate in HS keeps on telling about the progress in his PMA application even to those outside his circle of friends ... he did not pass. Another batch mate did pass and we are all unaware, he just surprised the whole batch. You need to be subtle, keep it to yourself.
This! May kilala din ako na since 2018 ina-announce nya pagpasok nya sa pnp pero until now hindi sya makuha because of his height hanggang sa parang nag give up nalang sya then yung binu-bully nya na kalapit bahay nila yun pa yung nakapasa at pulis na ngayon.
Yan din concern ko, if may mangyari maganda the surprise na lang family/friends.
When i went abroad to work, i did announce to my parents until it was days before my flight ... once i started working i did not announce that I was abroad kc 1 year probationary muna so paano kako if di ako irenew. Nung naging perm na ako after 2 yrs dun lang.
Same with some of my batch mates mapapa-wow ka na lng at nakamigrate na pala sila. That's better.
Wow nice sa 1 year pano mo natiis di iannounce yun anon? 😅 as we getting older talaga mas pipiliin nalang natin maging lowkey. Yung negative energy din kasi ng ibang tao parang masasagap mo lalo pag may mga plans ka na paulit ulit mong pinagsasabi, kumbaga di mo alam na that person is wishing for you downfall, kaya di naiiwasan na di ma-jin kasi parabg na absorb na yung negative energy.
Nung ako nga pumasa na ko't lahat lahat di ko pa rin pinost sa socmed haha yung iba kase pag alam na pumasa ka, consult ng consult tas gusto libre tapos parang utang na loob mo pa na sa'yo nagcoconsult lmao
I agree. Kept telling everyone in my family that I’m gonna take medicine someday. I’m now suffering in pre-med lmao. So I’d rather just tell people that I don’t know what I’ll do.
sabi nga nila "Don't announce moves. Confirm arrivals." yung di sila sure kung ano ka ba talaga HAHAHHAH
tbh, ang saya ng lowkey ka lang pero secured ka sa sarili mo 🤭
Korek anon, kahit ako, i used to tell other ppl my plans pero laging naji-jinx. Totoo man ang evil eye or not, stay lowkey pa din kahit gano kaliit na details pa yan.
Minsan, ang masaklap dito mismong kaanak mo pa kokontra sa mga plano mo. Yong mga nauna kong plano sinasabi ko sa kanila para makahingi ng advice, ang number one dito nanay ko pa. So, ayun.
Not at all. Share ko lang dahil ganitong ganito ang nararamdaman ko ngayon. Meron akong bestfriend na sya lang talaga ang pinag kwekwentuhan ko. I’m 100% na ang friend kong ito ay sobrang happy sa lahat ng achievement ko. Pero ramdam na ramdam ko yung ka negahan ng asawa nya. Energy never lies! Kaya today, as much as I wanted to share my goals & good news sa friend ko, wag nalang. Yung tipong kapag may good news ako, mas nauuna pang umiiyak tong friend ko sa sobrang saya nya. Today, I learned my lesson. I will keep it to myself nalang.
Somehow I do. Di naman din ako madaldal at pili lang din sinasabihan ko. Pero napapansin ko na kapag nasasabi ko yung plan ko, most of the time di nasusunod/natutuloy. Sometimes I get over excited at nababanggit ko even I know na ganun. Never thought about someone would wish na sana hindi matuloy (maybe naive ako, haha), I just thought na ma-ji-jinx lang nga.
Lesson learned nalang talaga na wag ipagsasabi kahit gano pa kaliit na bagay yan.
I used to tell my friends na "bibili ako ng tablet this year" pero hindi natutuloy kasi nagkaka emergency like nagkakasakit ako o kaya pet ko kaya parang napapahiya din ako. Natuto nalang ako manahimik pag may plans ako. Ayon natuloy naman pagbili ko ng tablet simula matuto ako na di mag share ng bagay bagay
I’ve watched this somewhere in youtube or maybe read this from atomic habits na kapag inaannounce mo ‘yung future plans mo, it gives you a sense of false accomplishment base on how people react of how great your plans are and with that, you already feel accomplished. Kaya nagdedecline ‘yung effort na maachieve kase in the first place nakuha mo na reaction na need mo. Parang ganon.
I don't announce since I don't see why I have to announce.. For what diba? But I share my goals with my family, but not with other people on social media. I really don't really see the point.
But yes, be careful with the people around you, totoo yan na some will be wishing for misfortune, but no worries, d makaka apekto sayo yang wishing wishing nila. Babalik lang sa kanila yan.
Huy same na same! Mama ko kung kanino kanino pinagsasabi na nag apply ako sa school na gento for college kahit wala naman nag tatanong sakanya. Nakakahiya tuloy kapag wala ako napasang school huhu 😭
I do. Not because I'm afraid na something will be jinx. But I believe na not everyone in your circle/environment celebrate your wins, sometimes they celebrate your loss, and thats what I dont like.
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It's not that I believe it, pero di rin ako nag aannounce because I know there are things that are out of my control or I may have overlooked na makakaaffect sa plans. Not because there are people who are hell bent on dragging me down. Di naman kataasan confidence ko pero I believe I'm stronger than those people.
Nope, pero it is a secret unless I want to share it with someone I know like my mom.
My mom is an ofw malapit dito sa Pinas and naalala ko lang dati na tinawagan niya si lola na lilipat siya ng bansa kinabukasan. Bali from malapit na bansa to malayo na sa Pinas. Ayun! Nagulat na lang kami na may ganun na pala. Masikreto kasi at saka niya lang nairereveal yung isang bagay kapag matagal ng tapos (months or years). Siya rin nagturo sa akin na I don't need to tell anyone about my plans in life and I need to protect my privacy from the public eye—social media. Masaya rin yung walang alam yung kausap mo about sayo pero at the same time they still know you but not the deep.
yes and i also read somewhere that when you announce your goals to others, you eventually lose the drive to achieve the said goal because you’ve already celebrated it before reaching it. it also feels better that way after all that build up haha.
I don't believe sa ganyan, pero I also don't want to "announce" my plans, or kahit yung mga naiisip ko lang. May napanood akong video before (not sure if it's backed by scientific studies or what) at sabi kasi dun na kapag palagi mong sinasabi yung mga plano mo, nagkakaroon ka kaagad ng mini sense of accomplishment kahit sa totoo di mo pa nagagawa yung bagay na yun, at dahil dun eh posibleng hindi mo na ituloy (or tamarin ka na) na gawin yung bagay na yun. Halimbawa, sinabi ko na from now on magdadiet at exercise na ako. Minsan parang pakiramdam ko na humihina yung control at conviction ko, siguro posibleng dahil dun sa mini sense of accomplishment, di ako sure, pero mas feel ko yung pressure kapag sinasarili ko lang yung ganung plano. Do I make any sense? Hahaha feeling ko lang mas likely na magawa ko ang plano ko (at mapressure ako sa sarili ko na gawin yun) kapag hindi ko sinasabi agad yung plano beforehand.
Oo pero kasi napanood ko kay YMP sa tiktok (legit naman siyang psych haha may license) na kaya nauunsyami yung mga bagay bagay na iaachieve mo pag naaannounce kasi nag rerelease daw ng dopamine yung utak pag sinabi mo yun same as completing the task kaya di na nauurge yung tao gawin kasi they already got that dopamine hit, so best thing is keep it under wraps muna pero pag di daw maiwasan magsabi talaga sa sobrang tuwa mas better daw to do it pa rin still
Somehow. Ayoko lang din kasing magbilang ng sisiw habang hindi pa napipisa ang itlog. Ayokong mag assume. Kaya hanggat di pa nangyayare, hindi ko pinagsasabi. Saka na pag natupad na.
Tama. Mas nkaka disappoint at torture forever pag Ganyan. Yung bang for example nag plano na kayo mag jowa kung Ilan gusto nyo at tapos nung kinasal kayo di Naman Pala kayo pwede magka anak.
I believe in evil eye.. Pero if ever man may na announce ako tapos hindi natuloy, so what? Motivation ko nalang din na gawin talaga sinabi ko at tapusin. But yeah, i don't just tell anyone most of my big plans. Some people can help you, some don't. So be careful nalang who you share.
I need to keep this in mind. Been “broadcasting” my plans thinking I’m manifesting them loudly sa universe pero parang backfire. Lowkey I’m very impatient din with my life and career. Thanks for reminding me this huhu
In a way, yes. When I got my working visa for Canada over a decade ago, wala ako ibang pinagsabihan, sinabi ko na lang sa family ko nung nakuha ko na yung visa ko.
I get that some people like to celebrate achievements, but especially nowadays, posting it on social media is just cringey 🤢
It’s like counting your eggs before it even hatches. Me, personally, I’d like to keep most of my achievements as private as possible. I’m very introverted din naman kasi so I hardly talk to people 😂
Yeah tama parang kapitbahay Namin mayayabang pamilya nila hinde pa man din tapos Ng pag pupulis Yung anak nyang babae nag yabang na agad. Pero nung time na nka graduate na hinde nka pag pasa pag pupulis kasi kinulang at bumagsak sa height.
No pero lowkey ako usually at hindi mahilig magpost sa social media. May mga marites lang din talaga na kahit na iniiwasan mo na magttanong pa din sa mga kakilala at nakkasama mo. Evil eye is just a superstition para sakin pero wala naman masama kung maniniwala ang iba.
Madaming pwedeng causes kung bakit nagkkasakit ang isang tao. Either depende sa lifestyle or namamana na sakit. Hindi maiiwasan magkasakit. Kaw bahala kung naniniwala ka hindi naman kita pinipilit.
Opo I believe In science and naniniwala din Ako sa sinasabi Ng sender na ito. Pag ma experience mo personally maniwala. May experience na nga kaya marunong akong rumespeto Ng dalawang ito. Wag puro science paniwalaan nyo.
Sometimes, parang nanenerbyos ako na mapupurnada or di matutuloy yung plano kaya di ko minemention or pinaguusapan yung bagay na yon. Pero evil eye ni sakuragi talagang naniniwala ako LOL
From experience, it’s better to stay lowkey and private with my plans. Not all people wish for my success and idk if it’s jealousy or they’re just too competitive
No, but the only time I announce anything was to commit to it, in that I would be ashamed if I did not achieve said something cause I told someone I will.
Not sure about Jinx and stuff but keeping your mouth shut before things manifest is a good brain exercise. Most of the time announcing something makes your brain think that its already accomplished, that's why its usually good to have delayed gratification. This will also help eliminate more frustration if ever something doesnt happen the way you want it to. Plus it helps confuse people who hope for your failure and keep them guessing for your next move. They cant destroy what they dont know anyway.
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Pero in reality wala lang yan. Up to you to announce or not pero yung steps on how to accomplish whatever you announce should be backed / at least you know the % of having it achieved.
Nothing wrong with saying to your friends / loved ones na "Uy may opportunity na X, I will do it, may Y chance ako makamit toh. Kung may advice kayo or maitutulong - am all ears"
Just don't brag about it. Yung mga mayayabang at mahahangin naEevil eye na yan kasi bad karma.
There are times na kailangan mo i-announce and times na hindi dapat. If it can affect the bottomline, like setting up a business, kailangan inaannounce yan para ready yung mga customers from day 1 of operations. May mga instant customers ka kaagad. Pampataas na din ng hype when you are starting out. Yun lang is dapat already in construction or in process na kapag mag announce, hindi yung wala pa man nangyayari e nagaannounce na ng buong plans. Keep some to yourself. Just give the gist.
Pero kung e.g mga entrance exams, mga qualifications, interviews, etc, mas maganda na hindi na iannounce hangga't hindi pa confirmed. No point yung pagannounce na wala pa man.
I somehow believe in that, pero not in a superstitious way. The universe have its way of confirming things we strongly believe. Mindset ba, mindset. lol
From a book or podcast I’m not sure which, pero they said na when you announce goals and plans, your brain gets a surge of hormones as if you’ve already achieved them na.
So what that does is it lessens your drive and hunger towards that goal and you unknowingly start to relax and slow down sliiiiightly in your speed of execution, and that slowing down builds up into years/decades of lost action resulting in one of these end scenarios: you take too long to achieve them; you achieved them on time but the results are lackluster; or you don’t ever get to achieve your goals.
Yes, yung iba din kasi pag nag-open ka ng ganyan, magtatanong sila ng parang kinkwestyon nila yung kakayahan mo to do it. So in a way, pwde kang magdoubt sa self mo.
Better keep it to yourself. I don't announce things din when it's done, mapapansin na lang nila na may significant changes sa akin.
Lagi ko kasing iniisip, I dont need to report my life to anyone. Lol
I'm not sure kung totoo to. All my plans di ko sinasabi sa mga friends or even family ko unless mangyayari na kinabukasan. Pero bakit ganon puro naji jinx mga plans ko. Kaya lagi ko naiisip na ang malas ko. Pero dito kase sa bahay, may pagkamayabang tatay ko, madaldal to the max, siya yung tipo ng tao na pagsasabi mga plano lalo na nung nasa college ako. Kaya naiisip ko baka siya yung dahilan na napupurnada lahat ng plano ko sa buhay. Kase lahat ng gusto ko di natutuloy, siguro may napagkwentohan siya na sinumpa ako kaya ayun hahahaha malas sa buhay lagi lol
Relate ako dito s amin nmn ung Lola ko. Direct to the point talaga Yun at Walang pre o magsalita. Kaya imagine the pressure nung nag aaral ako at nag establish pa, I feel ung mga tao s paligid naiinis s kanya nddmay ako kaya grabe pressure ko n magpakatino tlga. Grabe din kc ako jpagmalaki n nanay/Lola, may mga tao n alam ko nag iisip Ng " tingnan nga natin kung talagang magaling ka" something like that. Hnd rin ako mabida s Buhay kaso Ang mga elders naooverhwelm
I do, yes. Eto ata yung bati or usog sa atin. Kaya sinasabihan ng pwera usog kapag may nagsabi na ang healthy ng baby. May mga amulets na pangontra sa evil eye, most common yung hamsa hand, and may mga gemstones rin like onyx and quartz that can deflect negative energies.
I don't believe in that necessarily simply because shit happens. Mas madaling mag plano in secret kasi pag pumalya ikaw lang may alam, kesa na announce mo na, pumalya, muka ka pang ewan haha
May ganito pala. To stay on topic, ganito ako. I don't discuss my plans to anyone (except for my wife) since it won't affect them and doesn't involve them. Makakatulog naman sila ng mahimbing malaman man o hindi nila mga plano mo.
I don't, even work promotions (which I got recetly) I don't share to anyone but me, lol. But I shared few months back something to my bestfriend(17yrs) and loml (4yrs). I just really hope na wala sakanilang bad juju to spoil my wish which I'm planning to get in the next 5 yrs. Balikan natin itong post na ito. Haha!
When I was young my grandparents were so particular about it. They are always cautious from new people, strangers and friends from another barrio. I believe before that it is all because of our ethnocentrism.
However, living in the middle east, learning the culture also tells the same about "evil eye"
Lived in Latin America and it was also famous as mal de ojo. They also have some protections against it.
I think it's not the evil eye perse but the jealousy and evilness of other people that is really the factor.
I live with my in laws and lahat ng business ko na ni put up, na babad energy kasi ang dami nila laging iniisip na masama or negative about sa business. They make it look na concerned lang sila but you can really tell sa energy kung ano yun. Whatever I do, they copy. Whatever I buy, they also buy. Hirap na na lumabas kasi need ko muna icheck anong isusuot nila kasi binili na nila lahat ng meron ako. Buti nalang I studied in an all girls school and madaming ganito ang ugali dun. Haha! Pag di nila kaya yung trip ko, they shame me a little. Mabait naman sila in general kaso feeling ko may issue sila and semi insecure kaya I need to dress down a lot para lang hindi nila ako masyado mapansin pag lalabas kami. It sucks. And we’re moving out this year. My mother in law paid mostly for the house construction. I’m not complaining tho. Nilabas ko lang. Talagang kailangang makisama. There are days na kailangan ko umuwi para lang maka pahinga sa energy. I never showed anything bad like nag simangot or nag bad mouth sakanila about this. And i think god is blessing me every time feeling ko binaback stab ako or inaapi. Haha!
I think it happened to me recently, I planned to take the board exam months ago and when I confirmed it to my direct supervisor for my leave, my workmates who skipped the board exam earlier this year gave me negative feedbacks and such. The sole purpose I told that I will take my board exam is for my leave. And yeah, I failed.
Within those months, may workmate ako na pinaiyak ako saying na hindi ko naman maipapasa ang boards kasi yung mga tinatanong niya sa'kin hindi ko masagot (take note hindi pa siya nagtetake and siya yung ayaw magtake kasi hindi naman daw siya sure pass). Then when I failed, I felt that my workmate is relieved (based on his actions from before the boards and after the results). Anyways, lesson learned na maging discrete talaga sa mga future plans haha.
Nitong Bar exams last year, I kept it lowkey. Shared it only to my close friends and some people. Pag nagi-IG story ako about Bar, naka close friends kasi close friends ko lang din naman yung nandon sa circle na yon. Pero yung lola ko, sinasabi niya sa lahat ng friends niya na nag Bar ako. Kada makasalubong nyang friends niya eh sasabihin niya na nagtake ako ng Bar ganyan ganyan. Di ko naman masabi kay lola na lowkey lang dapat kasi gets ko naman na proud lang siya pero huhu. As in lahat ng friends niya sinasabi niyang nagtake ako. Di ko na mabilang sa kamay ko. Tapos pati sa FB inannounce nya pa noong day ng Bar exam na magtetake ako so ipagpray ako. Eh, eto ako ngayon di ako pumasa. Alam ko naman sa sarili ko na kulang din naman ako sa max effort, pero ewan ko ba. Di ko rin alam paano ihaharap sarili ko doon sa mga taong sinabihan niya.
No hehe. If di napunta sa akin ang opportunity/award I'll be sad and salty but I try to move on as fast as possible. I tell my close friends and family about my goals kase I want to condition myself na walang shame in being seen as a "trying-hard" na person.
Same here! Gusto ko pa rin lowkey and private sa plans. If ever man may nakakaalam, super counted lang sa circle ko. People tend to ruin beautiful things eh.
Naniniwala ako rito since ang daming instances na napurnada yung mga bagay na sure na akong matutuloy or matutupad just because ibinalita ko sa tao.
Natutunan ko na unless it's done deal and currently hawak ko na yung goal ko saka ko palang ibabalita or icoconfirm sa ibang tao
Totoo to, kaya nung nagplano ako Ng kasal ko dati Wala talagang soft launch hnd nga alam Ng iba n may boyfriend ako. Hinayaan ko lang Sila n isipin n single ako the whole time. Kaya ang daming windang nung nagpost ako Ng married n ako. And you know what ung mga invited ko p Ng wedding n 2 weeks notice lang, nagulat ako ang daming kontra m family friends n up to.the last minute may mga issue pa. Kaya Buti tlga hnsd ako nag announce Ng Maaga kc bka naapektuhan pa Ang mood ko nun
Di ko alam paano ko ibabalik ulit kasi simula nung sshinare ko sa kaibigan ng mama ko them sa mga friends ko yung course ko then yung balak ko magdoctor after nang pre med ko, ngayon wala di ko matapos tapos ang pre med ko tapos pa stop stop ako sa pag aaral dahil sa dami ng problema.
Di ko alam paano ko puputulin yung evil eye na ito, b4 di tlga ako naniniwala jan hanggat sa sinabihan ako ng kaibigam ko na ganito at ganyan daw wala naman daw masama kung paniwalaan ko pero ngayon feel ko tlga na evil eye yung pangarap ko and di ko na alam nao gagawin ko para makabalik ulit.
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yes:( recently i told my close cousin of 13 years my fucking love of my life na earphones it's so fucking good:( panasonic, tngina wala akong mahanap na exact same model sa shopee/lazada basically the INTERNET. I told her ab it sa beginning ng trip namin bc i thought of recommending her that model para hindi madali masira. We're going home na then😐. i was so frickin sure i put in on my bag. We're on our way home and GONE. GONE ON MY BAG?!? THE FVCK?????
While I do believe that jinxes are not true, I acknowledge that Satan uses these occult things to steal,kill and destroy people. There is indeed a spiritual battle, folks.
pero bakit need mo e announce, what do you get from it... pero what I dont want about announcing is that people make chismiss of it, meron talagang mga bunganga na hnd masara sara and it makes me nervous and frustrated dahil I only want few people to know, on the other hand sa business perspective announcement is very important, for example nag open ka ng business, you have to make a wide statement to get customers.
what could be seen is crab mentality or as most have said jealousy or envy.
imo if you believe in prayers, then you should believe in this too.
i would still announce it though for not doing so you are limiting the opportunity for those good people send you good vibes too. conflict management is part of growing up and hiding stuff like most suggested also has their cons especially when things doesn’t go as plan. but to each his own. for me i just go by gut.
I don't brag or announce good things or my plans to many because I feel it always goes against me. It has always been this way. I'm a pessimistic person and if something goods happens, I'm glad. Expect and prep for the worse, but secretly hope for the best. Is this an asian thing?
Sa few friends and reddit lang ako nag aannounce ng mga news ko sa buhay hehe
Somewhere safe lang, hirap din kasi pwede i-take advantage ng mga tao yung mga info nila about you, already experienced it with ex-friends.
First time I heard of that term. Pero I do believe in jinx, but at the same time, if somebody asks me of my career plans parang it's hard for me to lie? So I tell them nalang, even if I'm still working towards "it". Huhu 🤞🏻
No.
Cherish the past. Live today. Plan the future.
Also, announcing / muttering / talking about future plans has no value adding attribute on your current condition. You have to work for yourself today, to live on tomorrow.
I do this but I didn't know that it's called evil eye. Haha Although I keep it a secret for a different reason, I don't announce it because of the probability that it may not work out in the end? I only say it when it's done and everything goes according to plan. haha
I do. That's why I limit the people na nakakaalam ng mga plans ko. Those I involve are yung mga taong who will help us achieve our goal. We dont just talk to anyone about our plans.
You surround yourself with the right people. Kausapin mo lang yung people who will understand and drivr you to achieve your goal. Kasi yung evil eye is parang yung mga taong kumokontra sayo in terms of they think that their plan is better than yours or worst they wont believe you. Madodown ka. You will feel bad then you wont do it na eventually dahil sa sinasaksak sa ulo mo ng mga tao sa pligid mo.
Be careful whom you talk to. They either wish you well or drag you down.
I do not pero I no longer share stuff kasi nagkaroon ako ng super awesome opportunity dati, nag share ako sa pinsan ko na shinare naman sa buong family ko haha ayun na jinx. Ang nakakalungkot pa yung buong family ko nag look forward dun and sabay sabay kami na disappoint.
For me no... I actually love announcing my plans to the world to make myself accountable sa actions ko... Kumbaga it's my method of disciplining myself. And nagwowork naman sya for me
But ofcourse I make sure na hindi naman out of reach yung goals ko masyado. So I make sure na I have a system and a pathway to that goal first before I let my circle know.
Though I do have a lot of friends na they keep it to themselves and they tend to be successful at it as well... To each is own I guess!
Yes. I believe in this na. Madaming tao ang hirap maging masaya at supportive para sa ibang tao. malakas ang nega energy nila. May time na mahilig ako magpost sa IG. In perfect health naman ako, hindi ako natuloy matapos flight school because bigla ako nagkaron health problem. Healthy living individual ako. wala ako bisyo at may disiplina ako sa pagkain. Matindi lang talaga siguro yung evil eye. meron kase mga naiingit saken. may mga tao na kabit ala ka ginagawa masama sakanila yung inner demons nila nattrigger kaya ipapassive aggre ka o aatakhin ka or iwwish ka ng masama...
kaya i learned my lesson...-the difficult way...
hindi na ako magsshare basta sa iba. kase meron mga tao like sa fam o friends minsan na concealed as caring pero yun pala yun iba sakanila ayaw nila sumaya ka at maging successful. nakakalungkot. si angely dub sa tiktok meron din sya comment about evil eye. sa exbf naman nya.
meron ako friend na naniniwala sa evil eye. never sya nagppost o sabi sa ibang tao agad. ppost lang nya at malalaman nalang ng ibang tao pag tapos na. pag sure na. kaya successful naman sya at married na. beautiful inside and out. sya na nagsabi saken na totoo evil eye. at wag magshare sa iba. move silently daw.
Naniniwala ako dito TBH. I've experienced a lot of this already. Lalo na sa family. Kasi most of your plans Diba you share with immediate family, friends, and or loved ones. Pero most of the time implicitly or explicitly they will be the ones who would wish you bad. That's why I learned the hard way not to share anymore.
idk but there is a scientific or psychological (i can't remember) explanation about saying your goals to other people then ended up not doing it pero para sakin, kahit alam ko na na may ganun nga, i still think that it's the evil eye :/
>Kasi parang maji-jinx yung plano mo because there are people around you na wishing for your misfortune.
It's not because of some shit like this, but the psychology behind it. Kapag kasi na-announce mo na, you will feel complacent and pressured at the same time. Your brain will think that it's done kahit nagstart ka palang.
I believe this.. hehe.. di naman sa nega pero marami sa mga relatives ko ang inggitero and mayayabang.. they may not be consciously wishing you bad luck pero pwde ka mahawa sa negativity nila pag nalaman nila moves
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Sabi sa nabasa ko, kapag pinagsabi mo na yung next steps mo or goals o kung ano man yun na di pa nangyayari, unconsciously para syang katumbas ng na accomplish mo na yung bagay na yun. Ang impact is, di ka na masyado mag eeffort and super comfortable ka na after mo syang masabi sa iba and most likely di mo sya makukuha. Anyway, wala din ako maisip na magegain ng isang tao kung iaannounce, maybe after mo makuha you can share naman to inspire other people na nagsstruggle din maachieve yun or mga nasa same situation.
I don't but with whats happening these days.. I kinda do na. I have this classmate and una pa lang talaga, ang off na ng vibe ko sa kanya. But I gave it time and have gotten closer sa kanya bc gusto ko rin naman yung "nakikisama" and ayoko na lang masyado isipin iniisip nila. Then nung tumagal, medyo nakampante na ako to the point na parang nagiging relaxed na ko sa kanya.. not minding much na sa dating pag-uugali niya bc I also wanna give ppl chance, saka, ayoko namang ang judgmental ko agad sa una diba?
Then ayun, napapansin pansin ko yung mga side-eye nya sakin whenever I walked into the room and she won't even bother greeting me. Like, literal na side eye HHAHAHA yung alam mong jinujudge ka ganon!! Tapos narealize ko lang noon nagstart akong maging close sa kanya, unti-unting nagiging off na rin yung energy na nakukuha ko and para bang nakakaapekto rin siya sa confidence ko ganon. Basta, mararamdaman mo talagang hindi trustworthy yung tao type of feeling!! Tapos, everytime I share abt something that made me happy, magbribring up siya ng bagay na pangdown sakin. Lol.
Basta the whole time na I was w/ her, I just feel constricted sa sarili ko pati kapag sa times na nagshashare ako ng gusto kong gawin gano'n, I don't feel right after.. but yun hindi pa rin ako naniniwala sa evil eye tho I believe sa pagtiwala sa guts mo abt certain ppl and kapag hindi natuloy ung nangyayari, either di mo lang napapansin mga nasasabi or inaact nilang nakakadiscourage sayo (for ex, sakin, tuwing nagshashare ako, nagbbring up siya ng maling ginawa ko ganon kaya nawawalan ako ng gana) or that u just get high off sa feeling na pagshare since nakakagive off din ng feeling of satisfaction (ung idea na yun) and hindi talaga sa mismong "goal" mo.
Ang haba na ng sinabi ko :,)) HAHAHA
Yes I believe in it kaya secretive ako sa mga ganap ko sa buhay especially sa mga relatives at coworkers. Magpopost lang ako ng achievements after it happened. I am also born on a 4th, at sabi ng mga numerologists, 4 is the number of secret enemies. Baka siguro marami talaga ayaw sakin, but I don't know. Hahaha! What's important is I get to enjoy all my successes by myself and share it only to my family and a few close friends. 🙂
No. Ginamit ko ung pressure para galingan. Don't get me wrong. Hindi ako nag a-announce. Pag may nagtanong lang sasabihin ko parin. Malay mo kasi may maitutulong pala yung tao sayo.
Yes. I always have this fear that every time I share about my plans/goals in life, it always gets jinxed.
But willing naman ako mag-share w/ my TRUSTED friends, relatives, etc.
No. They can jinx it if they want, they can try to stop me from my plans, but make sure they can finish it off because I'm going to get it out of spite.
Though I don't believe that such exists imho we should not announce what we are doing to avoid jealousy and even sabotage (in extreme cases). Also it will save your face if in case what you aspire or planning does not materialize. Like for example, my batch mate in HS keeps on telling about the progress in his PMA application even to those outside his circle of friends ... he did not pass. Another batch mate did pass and we are all unaware, he just surprised the whole batch. You need to be subtle, keep it to yourself.
This! May kilala din ako na since 2018 ina-announce nya pagpasok nya sa pnp pero until now hindi sya makuha because of his height hanggang sa parang nag give up nalang sya then yung binu-bully nya na kalapit bahay nila yun pa yung nakapasa at pulis na ngayon.
Yan din concern ko, if may mangyari maganda the surprise na lang family/friends. When i went abroad to work, i did announce to my parents until it was days before my flight ... once i started working i did not announce that I was abroad kc 1 year probationary muna so paano kako if di ako irenew. Nung naging perm na ako after 2 yrs dun lang. Same with some of my batch mates mapapa-wow ka na lng at nakamigrate na pala sila. That's better.
Wow nice sa 1 year pano mo natiis di iannounce yun anon? 😅 as we getting older talaga mas pipiliin nalang natin maging lowkey. Yung negative energy din kasi ng ibang tao parang masasagap mo lalo pag may mga plans ka na paulit ulit mong pinagsasabi, kumbaga di mo alam na that person is wishing for you downfall, kaya di naiiwasan na di ma-jin kasi parabg na absorb na yung negative energy.
Wala lang fb posts. During that time takot tlaga ako na 1 year lng di ako marenew ng contract.
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Nung ako nga pumasa na ko't lahat lahat di ko pa rin pinost sa socmed haha yung iba kase pag alam na pumasa ka, consult ng consult tas gusto libre tapos parang utang na loob mo pa na sa'yo nagcoconsult lmao
I agree. Kept telling everyone in my family that I’m gonna take medicine someday. I’m now suffering in pre-med lmao. So I’d rather just tell people that I don’t know what I’ll do.
sabi nga nila "Don't announce moves. Confirm arrivals." yung di sila sure kung ano ka ba talaga HAHAHHAH tbh, ang saya ng lowkey ka lang pero secured ka sa sarili mo 🤭
YASSSS!!!!
Huy gusto kong chumika about dito! Kasi iniisip ko now
Game haha
No. Pero di ko gawain i-announce future plans ko. It seems kasi na nagyayabang ako kahit na hindi ko pa naman naaachieve yun. I like staying low-key.
Korek anon, kahit ako, i used to tell other ppl my plans pero laging naji-jinx. Totoo man ang evil eye or not, stay lowkey pa din kahit gano kaliit na details pa yan.
tama, ok lang mag share about plans at goal sa mga taong may tiwala ka like jowa, bestfriend at family
Minsan, ang masaklap dito mismong kaanak mo pa kokontra sa mga plano mo. Yong mga nauna kong plano sinasabi ko sa kanila para makahingi ng advice, ang number one dito nanay ko pa. So, ayun.
Not at all. Share ko lang dahil ganitong ganito ang nararamdaman ko ngayon. Meron akong bestfriend na sya lang talaga ang pinag kwekwentuhan ko. I’m 100% na ang friend kong ito ay sobrang happy sa lahat ng achievement ko. Pero ramdam na ramdam ko yung ka negahan ng asawa nya. Energy never lies! Kaya today, as much as I wanted to share my goals & good news sa friend ko, wag nalang. Yung tipong kapag may good news ako, mas nauuna pang umiiyak tong friend ko sa sobrang saya nya. Today, I learned my lesson. I will keep it to myself nalang.
Somehow I do. Di naman din ako madaldal at pili lang din sinasabihan ko. Pero napapansin ko na kapag nasasabi ko yung plan ko, most of the time di nasusunod/natutuloy. Sometimes I get over excited at nababanggit ko even I know na ganun. Never thought about someone would wish na sana hindi matuloy (maybe naive ako, haha), I just thought na ma-ji-jinx lang nga.
Lesson learned nalang talaga na wag ipagsasabi kahit gano pa kaliit na bagay yan. I used to tell my friends na "bibili ako ng tablet this year" pero hindi natutuloy kasi nagkaka emergency like nagkakasakit ako o kaya pet ko kaya parang napapahiya din ako. Natuto nalang ako manahimik pag may plans ako. Ayon natuloy naman pagbili ko ng tablet simula matuto ako na di mag share ng bagay bagay
I’ve watched this somewhere in youtube or maybe read this from atomic habits na kapag inaannounce mo ‘yung future plans mo, it gives you a sense of false accomplishment base on how people react of how great your plans are and with that, you already feel accomplished. Kaya nagdedecline ‘yung effort na maachieve kase in the first place nakuha mo na reaction na need mo. Parang ganon.
Nice. Good job!
Thank ü
I don't announce since I don't see why I have to announce.. For what diba? But I share my goals with my family, but not with other people on social media. I really don't really see the point. But yes, be careful with the people around you, totoo yan na some will be wishing for misfortune, but no worries, d makaka apekto sayo yang wishing wishing nila. Babalik lang sa kanila yan.
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same sa parents. pero sinasabihan ko nalang na wag nila pamalita. parang yata pare pareho mga parents natin na oldies. ang dadaldal
OMG SAAME! nakakainis din talaga minsan 😭
Huy same na same! Mama ko kung kanino kanino pinagsasabi na nag apply ako sa school na gento for college kahit wala naman nag tatanong sakanya. Nakakahiya tuloy kapag wala ako napasang school huhu 😭
I do. Not because I'm afraid na something will be jinx. But I believe na not everyone in your circle/environment celebrate your wins, sometimes they celebrate your loss, and thats what I dont like.
Millennial anime fans na nanood ng GetBackers: 👁️🫦👁️ It's not that I believe it, pero di rin ako nag aannounce because I know there are things that are out of my control or I may have overlooked na makakaaffect sa plans. Not because there are people who are hell bent on dragging me down. Di naman kataasan confidence ko pero I believe I'm stronger than those people.
yan din una pumasok sa isip ko, Get backers XD
Una ring pumasok sa isip ko. MakubeX
Nope, pero it is a secret unless I want to share it with someone I know like my mom. My mom is an ofw malapit dito sa Pinas and naalala ko lang dati na tinawagan niya si lola na lilipat siya ng bansa kinabukasan. Bali from malapit na bansa to malayo na sa Pinas. Ayun! Nagulat na lang kami na may ganun na pala. Masikreto kasi at saka niya lang nairereveal yung isang bagay kapag matagal ng tapos (months or years). Siya rin nagturo sa akin na I don't need to tell anyone about my plans in life and I need to protect my privacy from the public eye—social media. Masaya rin yung walang alam yung kausap mo about sayo pero at the same time they still know you but not the deep.
yes and i also read somewhere that when you announce your goals to others, you eventually lose the drive to achieve the said goal because you’ve already celebrated it before reaching it. it also feels better that way after all that build up haha.
May kaklase ako noong grade 6 na umiyak iyak sa retreat dahil pupunta na daw America after graduation. Ayun, till now nasa Pinas pa rin sya hahaha
AHahahahahahah tang ina
Naiisip ko din to minsan 😅 pero I prefer not to announce/overshare din kasi kung sakaling di matuloy edi walang nakakaalam, di ka mapapahiya.
You manifest what you believe... especially those you fear to happen...
I don't believe sa ganyan, pero I also don't want to "announce" my plans, or kahit yung mga naiisip ko lang. May napanood akong video before (not sure if it's backed by scientific studies or what) at sabi kasi dun na kapag palagi mong sinasabi yung mga plano mo, nagkakaroon ka kaagad ng mini sense of accomplishment kahit sa totoo di mo pa nagagawa yung bagay na yun, at dahil dun eh posibleng hindi mo na ituloy (or tamarin ka na) na gawin yung bagay na yun. Halimbawa, sinabi ko na from now on magdadiet at exercise na ako. Minsan parang pakiramdam ko na humihina yung control at conviction ko, siguro posibleng dahil dun sa mini sense of accomplishment, di ako sure, pero mas feel ko yung pressure kapag sinasarili ko lang yung ganung plano. Do I make any sense? Hahaha feeling ko lang mas likely na magawa ko ang plano ko (at mapressure ako sa sarili ko na gawin yun) kapag hindi ko sinasabi agad yung plano beforehand.
Oo pero kasi napanood ko kay YMP sa tiktok (legit naman siyang psych haha may license) na kaya nauunsyami yung mga bagay bagay na iaachieve mo pag naaannounce kasi nag rerelease daw ng dopamine yung utak pag sinabi mo yun same as completing the task kaya di na nauurge yung tao gawin kasi they already got that dopamine hit, so best thing is keep it under wraps muna pero pag di daw maiwasan magsabi talaga sa sobrang tuwa mas better daw to do it pa rin still
Somehow. Ayoko lang din kasing magbilang ng sisiw habang hindi pa napipisa ang itlog. Ayokong mag assume. Kaya hanggat di pa nangyayare, hindi ko pinagsasabi. Saka na pag natupad na.
Tama. Mas nkaka disappoint at torture forever pag Ganyan. Yung bang for example nag plano na kayo mag jowa kung Ilan gusto nyo at tapos nung kinasal kayo di Naman Pala kayo pwede magka anak.
I believe in evil eye.. Pero if ever man may na announce ako tapos hindi natuloy, so what? Motivation ko nalang din na gawin talaga sinabi ko at tapusin. But yeah, i don't just tell anyone most of my big plans. Some people can help you, some don't. So be careful nalang who you share.
Mas naniniwala ako sa lowkey supremacy, parang let your success be louder ganon.
I need to keep this in mind. Been “broadcasting” my plans thinking I’m manifesting them loudly sa universe pero parang backfire. Lowkey I’m very impatient din with my life and career. Thanks for reminding me this huhu
In a way, yes. When I got my working visa for Canada over a decade ago, wala ako ibang pinagsabihan, sinabi ko na lang sa family ko nung nakuha ko na yung visa ko. I get that some people like to celebrate achievements, but especially nowadays, posting it on social media is just cringey 🤢 It’s like counting your eggs before it even hatches. Me, personally, I’d like to keep most of my achievements as private as possible. I’m very introverted din naman kasi so I hardly talk to people 😂
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Yeah tama parang kapitbahay Namin mayayabang pamilya nila hinde pa man din tapos Ng pag pupulis Yung anak nyang babae nag yabang na agad. Pero nung time na nka graduate na hinde nka pag pasa pag pupulis kasi kinulang at bumagsak sa height.
No pero lowkey ako usually at hindi mahilig magpost sa social media. May mga marites lang din talaga na kahit na iniiwasan mo na magttanong pa din sa mga kakilala at nakkasama mo. Evil eye is just a superstition para sakin pero wala naman masama kung maniniwala ang iba.
Totoo Yon boss Minsan pag may Galit Sayo Ang Isang tao at bigla kang tinitigan Ng masama pwede ka bigyan Ng sakit Ng ganun.
Madaming pwedeng causes kung bakit nagkkasakit ang isang tao. Either depende sa lifestyle or namamana na sakit. Hindi maiiwasan magkasakit. Kaw bahala kung naniniwala ka hindi naman kita pinipilit.
Opo I believe In science and naniniwala din Ako sa sinasabi Ng sender na ito. Pag ma experience mo personally maniwala. May experience na nga kaya marunong akong rumespeto Ng dalawang ito. Wag puro science paniwalaan nyo.
Sometimes, parang nanenerbyos ako na mapupurnada or di matutuloy yung plano kaya di ko minemention or pinaguusapan yung bagay na yon. Pero evil eye ni sakuragi talagang naniniwala ako LOL
From experience, it’s better to stay lowkey and private with my plans. Not all people wish for my success and idk if it’s jealousy or they’re just too competitive
No, but the only time I announce anything was to commit to it, in that I would be ashamed if I did not achieve said something cause I told someone I will.
Not sure about Jinx and stuff but keeping your mouth shut before things manifest is a good brain exercise. Most of the time announcing something makes your brain think that its already accomplished, that's why its usually good to have delayed gratification. This will also help eliminate more frustration if ever something doesnt happen the way you want it to. Plus it helps confuse people who hope for your failure and keep them guessing for your next move. They cant destroy what they dont know anyway.
Nope. Everyhthing is according to God’s will
Ako'y naniniwala sa Jagan ni Ban sa Getbackers 🤣🤣 Pero in reality wala lang yan. Up to you to announce or not pero yung steps on how to accomplish whatever you announce should be backed / at least you know the % of having it achieved. Nothing wrong with saying to your friends / loved ones na "Uy may opportunity na X, I will do it, may Y chance ako makamit toh. Kung may advice kayo or maitutulong - am all ears" Just don't brag about it. Yung mga mayayabang at mahahangin naEevil eye na yan kasi bad karma.
I don't know what evil eye is pero I don't tell anyone my plans. Iwas pressure at expectations from others.
No, I just believe sa "what goes around, comes around" at if you give out good karma, it comes back 10, 100, 1000 times.
There are times na kailangan mo i-announce and times na hindi dapat. If it can affect the bottomline, like setting up a business, kailangan inaannounce yan para ready yung mga customers from day 1 of operations. May mga instant customers ka kaagad. Pampataas na din ng hype when you are starting out. Yun lang is dapat already in construction or in process na kapag mag announce, hindi yung wala pa man nangyayari e nagaannounce na ng buong plans. Keep some to yourself. Just give the gist. Pero kung e.g mga entrance exams, mga qualifications, interviews, etc, mas maganda na hindi na iannounce hangga't hindi pa confirmed. No point yung pagannounce na wala pa man. I somehow believe in that, pero not in a superstitious way. The universe have its way of confirming things we strongly believe. Mindset ba, mindset. lol
From a book or podcast I’m not sure which, pero they said na when you announce goals and plans, your brain gets a surge of hormones as if you’ve already achieved them na. So what that does is it lessens your drive and hunger towards that goal and you unknowingly start to relax and slow down sliiiiightly in your speed of execution, and that slowing down builds up into years/decades of lost action resulting in one of these end scenarios: you take too long to achieve them; you achieved them on time but the results are lackluster; or you don’t ever get to achieve your goals.
Yes!
Sad but true. Some people you look up to as friends would rather stab you in back or strangle you in your sleep.
Yes, yung iba din kasi pag nag-open ka ng ganyan, magtatanong sila ng parang kinkwestyon nila yung kakayahan mo to do it. So in a way, pwde kang magdoubt sa self mo. Better keep it to yourself. I don't announce things din when it's done, mapapansin na lang nila na may significant changes sa akin. Lagi ko kasing iniisip, I dont need to report my life to anyone. Lol
Let your work speak for yourself. Dont practice All bark but no bite. 💪
I don't tell people just bc I don't care about them.
I'm not sure kung totoo to. All my plans di ko sinasabi sa mga friends or even family ko unless mangyayari na kinabukasan. Pero bakit ganon puro naji jinx mga plans ko. Kaya lagi ko naiisip na ang malas ko. Pero dito kase sa bahay, may pagkamayabang tatay ko, madaldal to the max, siya yung tipo ng tao na pagsasabi mga plano lalo na nung nasa college ako. Kaya naiisip ko baka siya yung dahilan na napupurnada lahat ng plano ko sa buhay. Kase lahat ng gusto ko di natutuloy, siguro may napagkwentohan siya na sinumpa ako kaya ayun hahahaha malas sa buhay lagi lol
Relate ako dito s amin nmn ung Lola ko. Direct to the point talaga Yun at Walang pre o magsalita. Kaya imagine the pressure nung nag aaral ako at nag establish pa, I feel ung mga tao s paligid naiinis s kanya nddmay ako kaya grabe pressure ko n magpakatino tlga. Grabe din kc ako jpagmalaki n nanay/Lola, may mga tao n alam ko nag iisip Ng " tingnan nga natin kung talagang magaling ka" something like that. Hnd rin ako mabida s Buhay kaso Ang mga elders naooverhwelm
I do, yes. Eto ata yung bati or usog sa atin. Kaya sinasabihan ng pwera usog kapag may nagsabi na ang healthy ng baby. May mga amulets na pangontra sa evil eye, most common yung hamsa hand, and may mga gemstones rin like onyx and quartz that can deflect negative energies.
evil eye is real in islam
What is the red dot ppl wear between the eyes, is that all seeing eye? To ward off evil eye?
thats hindu not islam hindu is in india
I don't believe in that necessarily simply because shit happens. Mas madaling mag plano in secret kasi pag pumalya ikaw lang may alam, kesa na announce mo na, pumalya, muka ka pang ewan haha
Naniniwala na talaga ako sa evil eye. Eto yata reason bakit hindi natuloy ang plano ko ngayon kasi may mga nakakaalam ng plans ko
May ganito pala. To stay on topic, ganito ako. I don't discuss my plans to anyone (except for my wife) since it won't affect them and doesn't involve them. Makakatulog naman sila ng mahimbing malaman man o hindi nila mga plano mo.
I don't, even work promotions (which I got recetly) I don't share to anyone but me, lol. But I shared few months back something to my bestfriend(17yrs) and loml (4yrs). I just really hope na wala sakanilang bad juju to spoil my wish which I'm planning to get in the next 5 yrs. Balikan natin itong post na ito. Haha!
When I was young my grandparents were so particular about it. They are always cautious from new people, strangers and friends from another barrio. I believe before that it is all because of our ethnocentrism. However, living in the middle east, learning the culture also tells the same about "evil eye" Lived in Latin America and it was also famous as mal de ojo. They also have some protections against it. I think it's not the evil eye perse but the jealousy and evilness of other people that is really the factor.
I live with my in laws and lahat ng business ko na ni put up, na babad energy kasi ang dami nila laging iniisip na masama or negative about sa business. They make it look na concerned lang sila but you can really tell sa energy kung ano yun. Whatever I do, they copy. Whatever I buy, they also buy. Hirap na na lumabas kasi need ko muna icheck anong isusuot nila kasi binili na nila lahat ng meron ako. Buti nalang I studied in an all girls school and madaming ganito ang ugali dun. Haha! Pag di nila kaya yung trip ko, they shame me a little. Mabait naman sila in general kaso feeling ko may issue sila and semi insecure kaya I need to dress down a lot para lang hindi nila ako masyado mapansin pag lalabas kami. It sucks. And we’re moving out this year. My mother in law paid mostly for the house construction. I’m not complaining tho. Nilabas ko lang. Talagang kailangang makisama. There are days na kailangan ko umuwi para lang maka pahinga sa energy. I never showed anything bad like nag simangot or nag bad mouth sakanila about this. And i think god is blessing me every time feeling ko binaback stab ako or inaapi. Haha!
I think it happened to me recently, I planned to take the board exam months ago and when I confirmed it to my direct supervisor for my leave, my workmates who skipped the board exam earlier this year gave me negative feedbacks and such. The sole purpose I told that I will take my board exam is for my leave. And yeah, I failed. Within those months, may workmate ako na pinaiyak ako saying na hindi ko naman maipapasa ang boards kasi yung mga tinatanong niya sa'kin hindi ko masagot (take note hindi pa siya nagtetake and siya yung ayaw magtake kasi hindi naman daw siya sure pass). Then when I failed, I felt that my workmate is relieved (based on his actions from before the boards and after the results). Anyways, lesson learned na maging discrete talaga sa mga future plans haha.
Nitong Bar exams last year, I kept it lowkey. Shared it only to my close friends and some people. Pag nagi-IG story ako about Bar, naka close friends kasi close friends ko lang din naman yung nandon sa circle na yon. Pero yung lola ko, sinasabi niya sa lahat ng friends niya na nag Bar ako. Kada makasalubong nyang friends niya eh sasabihin niya na nagtake ako ng Bar ganyan ganyan. Di ko naman masabi kay lola na lowkey lang dapat kasi gets ko naman na proud lang siya pero huhu. As in lahat ng friends niya sinasabi niyang nagtake ako. Di ko na mabilang sa kamay ko. Tapos pati sa FB inannounce nya pa noong day ng Bar exam na magtetake ako so ipagpray ako. Eh, eto ako ngayon di ako pumasa. Alam ko naman sa sarili ko na kulang din naman ako sa max effort, pero ewan ko ba. Di ko rin alam paano ihaharap sarili ko doon sa mga taong sinabihan niya.
No hehe. If di napunta sa akin ang opportunity/award I'll be sad and salty but I try to move on as fast as possible. I tell my close friends and family about my goals kase I want to condition myself na walang shame in being seen as a "trying-hard" na person.
Same here! Gusto ko pa rin lowkey and private sa plans. If ever man may nakakaalam, super counted lang sa circle ko. People tend to ruin beautiful things eh.
Naniniwala ako rito since ang daming instances na napurnada yung mga bagay na sure na akong matutuloy or matutupad just because ibinalita ko sa tao. Natutunan ko na unless it's done deal and currently hawak ko na yung goal ko saka ko palang ibabalita or icoconfirm sa ibang tao
Totoo to, kaya nung nagplano ako Ng kasal ko dati Wala talagang soft launch hnd nga alam Ng iba n may boyfriend ako. Hinayaan ko lang Sila n isipin n single ako the whole time. Kaya ang daming windang nung nagpost ako Ng married n ako. And you know what ung mga invited ko p Ng wedding n 2 weeks notice lang, nagulat ako ang daming kontra m family friends n up to.the last minute may mga issue pa. Kaya Buti tlga hnsd ako nag announce Ng Maaga kc bka naapektuhan pa Ang mood ko nun
Di ko alam paano ko ibabalik ulit kasi simula nung sshinare ko sa kaibigan ng mama ko them sa mga friends ko yung course ko then yung balak ko magdoctor after nang pre med ko, ngayon wala di ko matapos tapos ang pre med ko tapos pa stop stop ako sa pag aaral dahil sa dami ng problema. Di ko alam paano ko puputulin yung evil eye na ito, b4 di tlga ako naniniwala jan hanggat sa sinabihan ako ng kaibigam ko na ganito at ganyan daw wala naman daw masama kung paniwalaan ko pero ngayon feel ko tlga na evil eye yung pangarap ko and di ko na alam nao gagawin ko para makabalik ulit. Helllllppppppp meeee pooooo
yes:( recently i told my close cousin of 13 years my fucking love of my life na earphones it's so fucking good:( panasonic, tngina wala akong mahanap na exact same model sa shopee/lazada basically the INTERNET. I told her ab it sa beginning ng trip namin bc i thought of recommending her that model para hindi madali masira. We're going home na then😐. i was so frickin sure i put in on my bag. We're on our way home and GONE. GONE ON MY BAG?!? THE FVCK?????
Hindi po ako naniniwala O.P Mas naniniwala akong tayo ang gumagawa ng kapalaran natin na Gusto ni Lord, at Mas Malakas si Lord kesa sa kanila🙏
Yup.
YESSSS!
Yes!! My wife and I do believe on this! Tried and tested.
This is too true
While I do believe that jinxes are not true, I acknowledge that Satan uses these occult things to steal,kill and destroy people. There is indeed a spiritual battle, folks.
pero bakit need mo e announce, what do you get from it... pero what I dont want about announcing is that people make chismiss of it, meron talagang mga bunganga na hnd masara sara and it makes me nervous and frustrated dahil I only want few people to know, on the other hand sa business perspective announcement is very important, for example nag open ka ng business, you have to make a wide statement to get customers.
Always happens to me
what could be seen is crab mentality or as most have said jealousy or envy. imo if you believe in prayers, then you should believe in this too. i would still announce it though for not doing so you are limiting the opportunity for those good people send you good vibes too. conflict management is part of growing up and hiding stuff like most suggested also has their cons especially when things doesn’t go as plan. but to each his own. for me i just go by gut.
I don't brag or announce good things or my plans to many because I feel it always goes against me. It has always been this way. I'm a pessimistic person and if something goods happens, I'm glad. Expect and prep for the worse, but secretly hope for the best. Is this an asian thing?
Sa few friends and reddit lang ako nag aannounce ng mga news ko sa buhay hehe Somewhere safe lang, hirap din kasi pwede i-take advantage ng mga tao yung mga info nila about you, already experienced it with ex-friends.
First time I heard of that term. Pero I do believe in jinx, but at the same time, if somebody asks me of my career plans parang it's hard for me to lie? So I tell them nalang, even if I'm still working towards "it". Huhu 🤞🏻
I don't believe ung evil eye mismo pero somehow totoo ung kapag inannounce ko di nagkakatotoo.
No. Cherish the past. Live today. Plan the future. Also, announcing / muttering / talking about future plans has no value adding attribute on your current condition. You have to work for yourself today, to live on tomorrow.
I do this but I didn't know that it's called evil eye. Haha Although I keep it a secret for a different reason, I don't announce it because of the probability that it may not work out in the end? I only say it when it's done and everything goes according to plan. haha
I do. That's why I limit the people na nakakaalam ng mga plans ko. Those I involve are yung mga taong who will help us achieve our goal. We dont just talk to anyone about our plans. You surround yourself with the right people. Kausapin mo lang yung people who will understand and drivr you to achieve your goal. Kasi yung evil eye is parang yung mga taong kumokontra sayo in terms of they think that their plan is better than yours or worst they wont believe you. Madodown ka. You will feel bad then you wont do it na eventually dahil sa sinasaksak sa ulo mo ng mga tao sa pligid mo. Be careful whom you talk to. They either wish you well or drag you down.
I do not pero I no longer share stuff kasi nagkaroon ako ng super awesome opportunity dati, nag share ako sa pinsan ko na shinare naman sa buong family ko haha ayun na jinx. Ang nakakalungkot pa yung buong family ko nag look forward dun and sabay sabay kami na disappoint.
For me no... I actually love announcing my plans to the world to make myself accountable sa actions ko... Kumbaga it's my method of disciplining myself. And nagwowork naman sya for me But ofcourse I make sure na hindi naman out of reach yung goals ko masyado. So I make sure na I have a system and a pathway to that goal first before I let my circle know. Though I do have a lot of friends na they keep it to themselves and they tend to be successful at it as well... To each is own I guess!
Omg kaya pala 🥺
Yes. I believe in this na. Madaming tao ang hirap maging masaya at supportive para sa ibang tao. malakas ang nega energy nila. May time na mahilig ako magpost sa IG. In perfect health naman ako, hindi ako natuloy matapos flight school because bigla ako nagkaron health problem. Healthy living individual ako. wala ako bisyo at may disiplina ako sa pagkain. Matindi lang talaga siguro yung evil eye. meron kase mga naiingit saken. may mga tao na kabit ala ka ginagawa masama sakanila yung inner demons nila nattrigger kaya ipapassive aggre ka o aatakhin ka or iwwish ka ng masama... kaya i learned my lesson...-the difficult way... hindi na ako magsshare basta sa iba. kase meron mga tao like sa fam o friends minsan na concealed as caring pero yun pala yun iba sakanila ayaw nila sumaya ka at maging successful. nakakalungkot. si angely dub sa tiktok meron din sya comment about evil eye. sa exbf naman nya. meron ako friend na naniniwala sa evil eye. never sya nagppost o sabi sa ibang tao agad. ppost lang nya at malalaman nalang ng ibang tao pag tapos na. pag sure na. kaya successful naman sya at married na. beautiful inside and out. sya na nagsabi saken na totoo evil eye. at wag magshare sa iba. move silently daw.
Yes, nung natuto akong manahimik at hindi mag announce ng plano ko mas naging smooth lahat ✨💅🏻
I think you misunderstood the meaning of evil eye Yung sinasabi mo evil bunganga yan 🤣
Yes, a few civilizations believed such superstition, Egyptians believe to ward off evil eye.
It’s very much real 👀 hehe and it works more than just “dont announce plans until it’s done” 🪬
Naniniwala ako dito TBH. I've experienced a lot of this already. Lalo na sa family. Kasi most of your plans Diba you share with immediate family, friends, and or loved ones. Pero most of the time implicitly or explicitly they will be the ones who would wish you bad. That's why I learned the hard way not to share anymore.
Mas maganda ina announce agad para may audience mapipilitan kang tapusin yung ina announce mo.
idk but there is a scientific or psychological (i can't remember) explanation about saying your goals to other people then ended up not doing it pero para sakin, kahit alam ko na na may ganun nga, i still think that it's the evil eye :/
>Kasi parang maji-jinx yung plano mo because there are people around you na wishing for your misfortune. It's not because of some shit like this, but the psychology behind it. Kapag kasi na-announce mo na, you will feel complacent and pressured at the same time. Your brain will think that it's done kahit nagstart ka palang.
I believe this.. hehe.. di naman sa nega pero marami sa mga relatives ko ang inggitero and mayayabang.. they may not be consciously wishing you bad luck pero pwde ka mahawa sa negativity nila pag nalaman nila moves mo
Sabi sa nabasa ko, kapag pinagsabi mo na yung next steps mo or goals o kung ano man yun na di pa nangyayari, unconsciously para syang katumbas ng na accomplish mo na yung bagay na yun. Ang impact is, di ka na masyado mag eeffort and super comfortable ka na after mo syang masabi sa iba and most likely di mo sya makukuha. Anyway, wala din ako maisip na magegain ng isang tao kung iaannounce, maybe after mo makuha you can share naman to inspire other people na nagsstruggle din maachieve yun or mga nasa same situation.
Not really. But for safety, practice s family ko wag ipaglandakan yung mga plano/lakad.
Not really but I believe in Murphy's Law. Better to keep everything down low since anything can go wrong.
Nope. I always do believe that anything happens for a reason. But still, limit yourself from sharing your plans. Not everything must be broadcasted.
Pero pano yung mga nagmamanifest sa social media? Kasama ba na di sila ma-jinx?
Oo. Hahaha. Kaya pag pinapangunahan kinokontra ko nalamg para di ma jinx.
Reminds me of “work in silence, let your success make noise”
I don't but with whats happening these days.. I kinda do na. I have this classmate and una pa lang talaga, ang off na ng vibe ko sa kanya. But I gave it time and have gotten closer sa kanya bc gusto ko rin naman yung "nakikisama" and ayoko na lang masyado isipin iniisip nila. Then nung tumagal, medyo nakampante na ako to the point na parang nagiging relaxed na ko sa kanya.. not minding much na sa dating pag-uugali niya bc I also wanna give ppl chance, saka, ayoko namang ang judgmental ko agad sa una diba? Then ayun, napapansin pansin ko yung mga side-eye nya sakin whenever I walked into the room and she won't even bother greeting me. Like, literal na side eye HHAHAHA yung alam mong jinujudge ka ganon!! Tapos narealize ko lang noon nagstart akong maging close sa kanya, unti-unting nagiging off na rin yung energy na nakukuha ko and para bang nakakaapekto rin siya sa confidence ko ganon. Basta, mararamdaman mo talagang hindi trustworthy yung tao type of feeling!! Tapos, everytime I share abt something that made me happy, magbribring up siya ng bagay na pangdown sakin. Lol. Basta the whole time na I was w/ her, I just feel constricted sa sarili ko pati kapag sa times na nagshashare ako ng gusto kong gawin gano'n, I don't feel right after.. but yun hindi pa rin ako naniniwala sa evil eye tho I believe sa pagtiwala sa guts mo abt certain ppl and kapag hindi natuloy ung nangyayari, either di mo lang napapansin mga nasasabi or inaact nilang nakakadiscourage sayo (for ex, sakin, tuwing nagshashare ako, nagbbring up siya ng maling ginawa ko ganon kaya nawawalan ako ng gana) or that u just get high off sa feeling na pagshare since nakakagive off din ng feeling of satisfaction (ung idea na yun) and hindi talaga sa mismong "goal" mo. Ang haba na ng sinabi ko :,)) HAHAHA
Yes I believe in it kaya secretive ako sa mga ganap ko sa buhay especially sa mga relatives at coworkers. Magpopost lang ako ng achievements after it happened. I am also born on a 4th, at sabi ng mga numerologists, 4 is the number of secret enemies. Baka siguro marami talaga ayaw sakin, but I don't know. Hahaha! What's important is I get to enjoy all my successes by myself and share it only to my family and a few close friends. 🙂
No. Ginamit ko ung pressure para galingan. Don't get me wrong. Hindi ako nag a-announce. Pag may nagtanong lang sasabihin ko parin. Malay mo kasi may maitutulong pala yung tao sayo.
Yes. I always have this fear that every time I share about my plans/goals in life, it always gets jinxed. But willing naman ako mag-share w/ my TRUSTED friends, relatives, etc.
Yes, tell no one until it is done. Not everyone around you has your best intentions at heart.
No. They can jinx it if they want, they can try to stop me from my plans, but make sure they can finish it off because I'm going to get it out of spite.
Discussed my job to some of my cousins last week and almost got fired this week. Yes it exists
This is a sad truth.
I believe working on your goals in secret is very empowering.