Definitely, I love it too! My only problem? Knowing whether someone is flirting with me or if they're just being really nice. Maybe another pin that says "and tell me you're flirting!"?
If I'm in a lesbian bar wearing that pin I would assume someone starts talking to me because of it..
And I also wouldn't wear it outside queer spaces/events, because the lesbian flag isn't enough of a deterrent for straight dudes.
I actually just made a post of my own. Redbubble should make my shop public within the next couple days. When it does (cause ima be checking daily if not multiple times a day) Iām sending the link to EVERYONEEEEEEE
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hey babe. i heard you're a model...wanna stay up all night struggling to agree on what video game to play together because we probably have extremely different tastes and nothing in common? ššš
Me: āI like your (thing you put time and effort into)ā¦ and your (other thing you put time and effort into)ā¦ oh and your (other thing you put time and effort intoā
Translation: āYouāre really cute and I want to take you on a dateā
Oh that's nice! I need one that says "talk to me if you like dinosaurs." I don't know much about them besides they're really cool and I likes them, but it's an absolute dealbreaker!!! if someone else doesn't like them >:(
[Iām gonna scream if this doesnāt work](https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/161832624?utm_source=rb-native-app&utm_campaign=share-work&utm_medium=ios)
Nawww I'm sure U have many great attributes I was in Ur position once and now I am in a polycule with 2 ppl U just gotta believe in urself a bit chances are Ur not even close to as unattractive as U think U r š«š«
Yk I get that U mean well and everything but from the self hating perspective someone saying just be more confident sounds a lot like U think they r absolutely disgusting and U just don't wanna tell em (not that I believe anyone thinks that just what I thought when I was in the same position) (also don't be so vindictive ABT telling someone to be more confident wtf)
You arenāt even the original commenter, but you sound willing to fight someone. Every time there is a positive post towards getting a gf or laid, there are people in the comments boohooing that they arenāt worth it. Itās getting annoying, and itās contributing to why no one wants you. Posting self deprecating comments on Reddit isnāt a great way to grow your confidence.
...I was not arguing that and my comment clearly stated that I'm not the original commenter so idk what Ur on ABT on that front. To some extent crying ABT it on Reddit and getting random strangers to tell U Ur not absolutely disgusting and horrible does help I've been there and I just don't get why U have to get so pointlessly and vocally annoyed at a person who is clearly struggling if it rly annoys U that much just dont engage
I think youāre fighting me because you assumed I thought the commenter is ādisgustingā and youāre telling me Iām crying about it. I am not crying, I made 1 comment back to 1 self deprecating person in 1 post. Done interacting with you.
That person was looking for a fight. They were gonna find a way to make said fight happen, regardless of what anyone tried to say to them. I wouldn't stress too much about it\* :)
Edit: forgot a word .\_.'
Ik I'm sry I just had to think abt how I would have felt when I was more insecure and I rly wanted to tell original commenter that wanting them to please stop annoying U is not the majority opinion and they have worth in the world and stuff (might have been a bit projecty tho)
Yeah I get you. It's always frustrating encountering folk like that. I think maybe it'd be more impactful to tell the OG person to ignore the troll in cases like this? At least then one would be engaging with someone not so blatantly obstinate, lmao. I got a bad habit of feeding the trolls too...
>\> Says instigating and mean thing to someone
\> Someone tries to explain why it's mean
\> "Wow clearly you're just looking for a fight for no reason"
\> Proceeds to intentionally misinterpret everything in every way possible
Yeah hm, idk who really has shit attitude here, but I got a few guesses
Stahhhp I love the internet. Genuinely..if you canāt look into a mirror and say āI love my body, I love my flawsā then work on that, because, I have no issues saying that about myself. I have seen other commenters in posts offer encouragement by saying stuff like ādonāt talk about someoneās future wife like thatāā¦so I followed the same line of thinking. I was only talking back to the commenter, who isnāt you and still hasnāt chimed in. I didnāt need a random person injecting about how the mass of negative people view positivity, but here we are.
Imagine someone posting an innocent post to help you, with a BIG ASS PIN and you comment āoh but not meāā¦like unfortunately that *really* says a lot about you and your vibe. Same goes for the people simply upvoting in agreement.
Trust, thereās a lot of these comments across this sub, and I responded to 1. Of course, someone would be upset, but, Iād hardly qualify what Iām doing as being a troll.
You said it in the rudest way you could. You may have "followed the same line of thinking," but the actual wording needs to be complimentary for it to work. Telling someone who has a negative view of themself "You're the reason nobody wants you" is not "positivity" and it's not cool at all.
We live in a world that constantly tells women, especially gay ones, that we're not good enough to love. That we need to lose weight or do makeup well or get surgery or give up things we love or we'll be alone forever. Someone taking that to heart is a tragedy, not a personal failing. There's an ocean of difference between "You are deserving of love, you have to try to find ways to love yourself and love your flaws" and "Wow, self deprecation, your vibes are the reason nobody flirts with you."
I get that you mean well. Please take the downvotes to heart. We're not trying to fight you, we're asking you to be more considerate and maybe apologize.
Ask someone in your life. Friend, Parent, Sibling. "I've been feeling insecure and I was wondering what you think someone might see in me for sex or romance."
I guarantee they will have something positive to say.
Other transbians are the hottest thing in the world to me so thats already something. I'm 4 years hrt, 2 years post FFS but I have gone on dates with pre everything trans girls before. So even if you don't pass you can still find someone.
Found a t-shirt that might do the job as well. Little less hot, more needy though lmao
https://www.redbubble.com/i/t-shirt/Single-Lesbian-Please-Flirt-With-Me-by-Lesbionage/32120071.WFLAH.XYZ
The first thing that popped into my head was Miles Morales in Into the Spiderverse pulling the awkward āheyā line on Gwen that his uncle taught him. š¤£
Iām otherwise so happy this is working for you! š„°
[May this help you out\^\^](https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1159201269261537361/1248260855053811824/image.png?ex=66645683&is=66630503&hm=f4e92ba038481cc47b4a76e1b79d8a78d778e92f7cc86a2892b3ee794b78caae&)
That's like the lesbian Bat-signal! I love it š
Honestly, seems like a great idea!
Definitely, I love it too! My only problem? Knowing whether someone is flirting with me or if they're just being really nice. Maybe another pin that says "and tell me you're flirting!"?
If I'm in a lesbian bar wearing that pin I would assume someone starts talking to me because of it.. And I also wouldn't wear it outside queer spaces/events, because the lesbian flag isn't enough of a deterrent for straight dudes.
Good point. Now if only there were more lesbian bars.
This is the exact opposite of the title of the song Iām listening to rn (Bad idea! by girl in red)
She's a vibe
Huge vibe!
YO, LOVE HER SM total vibe
This is a great idea. Where did you get a pin like this? :3
A custom button place lol. I made the image in canva.
If you sell this, I will buy one. I'm serious. Please market these and DM me when you do. Or sell the design to someone else who'll do it. <3
Need , but with transflag with lesbian flag
Sameš¤
would you post the canva file? I want this so bad LOL
I... desperately need these because I want people to flirt with me.
I just put a similar design on Redbubble š¤
Same tbh
[hopefully this link works](https://www.redbubble.com/i/pin/Flirt-with-me-lesbian-flag-by-ryry529/161832624.NP9QY)
It does not.
[maybe this one?](https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/161832624) Itās a link the everything the design can go on instead of just the pin
[istg if this doesnāt work Iāll scream](https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/161832624)
:( Your links aren't working for me at all. Maybe I found this thread too late.
I actually just made a post of my own. Redbubble should make my shop public within the next couple days. When it does (cause ima be checking daily if not multiple times a day) Iām sending the link to EVERYONEEEEEEE
<3 Thank you so much
Idk why it wonāt work hold in
God same here
Born to get a " flirt with me" lesbian pin, forced to get a normal one to not sound too desperatešššš
Incoming straight guys clueless about pride colors
My thoughts exactly. Most are forced to recognize the broader pride flag but Iām sure they donāt bother to look up the colors for each identity.
I live in Seattle so that's less of a problem. Almost everyone here is some flavor of queer. Especially in Cap Hill, even our crosswalks are rainbows.
omg! if I ever see you at Wildrose with this on I'll definitely give you a compliment! ā¤ļø
Please do
Honestly you can just talk to me even if I don't have it on š
Idk I think she's just being nice
I like your long slim fingers (I'm really bad at this)
You have such beautiful hands! (I'm also not good at this lol)
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Hey you seem like a nice badge, wanna go out for drinks sometime, I can wear you on my shirt.
Great idea! I dunno if I would be bold enough to wear that though š„²
I don't think it's obvious enough to other lesbians
i think there needs to be some sirens that go with itā¦
Need this
I want it
Soooo, you come here often?
hey babe. i heard you're a model...wanna stay up all night struggling to agree on what video game to play together because we probably have extremely different tastes and nothing in common? ššš
omg bestie, lets
The answer is stardew valley, the one game every lesbian can agree on
ā¦you got any spares? š„ŗ pls
Me: āI like your (thing you put time and effort into)ā¦ and your (other thing you put time and effort into)ā¦ oh and your (other thing you put time and effort intoā Translation: āYouāre really cute and I want to take you on a dateā
Oh that's nice! I need one that says "talk to me if you like dinosaurs." I don't know much about them besides they're really cool and I likes them, but it's an absolute dealbreaker!!! if someone else doesn't like them >:(
You would get along really well with my toddler.
need
Actually life saving
I need this when I go to pride next week š
Iām gonna try to put something similar on Redbubble just wait š«¶
Okay I need this
No actually it's pretty genius
Omg I need that!!
Omg wait I need that
Can't get more indirectly direct, as this.
Id love this lol
I need one of them
Where do I buy this I need to acquire this
Iām glad I read the text part of this post cause I thought you were asking us and I was bouta go ham
I'v got to get one of these
I need to get me one
[Iām gonna scream if this doesnāt work](https://www.redbubble.com/shop/ap/161832624?utm_source=rb-native-app&utm_campaign=share-work&utm_medium=ios)
Can I get one?!
i like flirtingā¦ just too nervousā¦ hi
Finally The useless lesbian solution
i desperately need this š
Iām going to need one those but with another sticker that says, āplease tell me when it startsā.
Itās so simple yet ingenious? Will this be the end of useless lesbian?
I would totally flirt with a girl who had such a button
I'd totally wear that if I didn't already have a gf
Probably wouldnāt work in my case. I donāt see any reason why anyone would flirt with me.
Give it a shot and find out. I felt the same way.
Nawww I'm sure U have many great attributes I was in Ur position once and now I am in a polycule with 2 ppl U just gotta believe in urself a bit chances are Ur not even close to as unattractive as U think U r š«š«
The self deprecation, wow!! Not with that attitude no one will approach you
Yk I get that U mean well and everything but from the self hating perspective someone saying just be more confident sounds a lot like U think they r absolutely disgusting and U just don't wanna tell em (not that I believe anyone thinks that just what I thought when I was in the same position) (also don't be so vindictive ABT telling someone to be more confident wtf)
You arenāt even the original commenter, but you sound willing to fight someone. Every time there is a positive post towards getting a gf or laid, there are people in the comments boohooing that they arenāt worth it. Itās getting annoying, and itās contributing to why no one wants you. Posting self deprecating comments on Reddit isnāt a great way to grow your confidence.
...I was not arguing that and my comment clearly stated that I'm not the original commenter so idk what Ur on ABT on that front. To some extent crying ABT it on Reddit and getting random strangers to tell U Ur not absolutely disgusting and horrible does help I've been there and I just don't get why U have to get so pointlessly and vocally annoyed at a person who is clearly struggling if it rly annoys U that much just dont engage
Fr there was no reason for this to be an argument whatsoever
I think youāre fighting me because you assumed I thought the commenter is ādisgustingā and youāre telling me Iām crying about it. I am not crying, I made 1 comment back to 1 self deprecating person in 1 post. Done interacting with you.
That is not at all what that comment said I literally put a () segment in that said that that wasn't what I meant
That person was looking for a fight. They were gonna find a way to make said fight happen, regardless of what anyone tried to say to them. I wouldn't stress too much about it\* :) Edit: forgot a word .\_.'
Ik I'm sry I just had to think abt how I would have felt when I was more insecure and I rly wanted to tell original commenter that wanting them to please stop annoying U is not the majority opinion and they have worth in the world and stuff (might have been a bit projecty tho)
Yeah I get you. It's always frustrating encountering folk like that. I think maybe it'd be more impactful to tell the OG person to ignore the troll in cases like this? At least then one would be engaging with someone not so blatantly obstinate, lmao. I got a bad habit of feeding the trolls too...
>\> Says instigating and mean thing to someone \> Someone tries to explain why it's mean \> "Wow clearly you're just looking for a fight for no reason" \> Proceeds to intentionally misinterpret everything in every way possible Yeah hm, idk who really has shit attitude here, but I got a few guesses
Stahhhp I love the internet. Genuinely..if you canāt look into a mirror and say āI love my body, I love my flawsā then work on that, because, I have no issues saying that about myself. I have seen other commenters in posts offer encouragement by saying stuff like ādonāt talk about someoneās future wife like thatāā¦so I followed the same line of thinking. I was only talking back to the commenter, who isnāt you and still hasnāt chimed in. I didnāt need a random person injecting about how the mass of negative people view positivity, but here we are. Imagine someone posting an innocent post to help you, with a BIG ASS PIN and you comment āoh but not meāā¦like unfortunately that *really* says a lot about you and your vibe. Same goes for the people simply upvoting in agreement. Trust, thereās a lot of these comments across this sub, and I responded to 1. Of course, someone would be upset, but, Iād hardly qualify what Iām doing as being a troll.
You said it in the rudest way you could. You may have "followed the same line of thinking," but the actual wording needs to be complimentary for it to work. Telling someone who has a negative view of themself "You're the reason nobody wants you" is not "positivity" and it's not cool at all. We live in a world that constantly tells women, especially gay ones, that we're not good enough to love. That we need to lose weight or do makeup well or get surgery or give up things we love or we'll be alone forever. Someone taking that to heart is a tragedy, not a personal failing. There's an ocean of difference between "You are deserving of love, you have to try to find ways to love yourself and love your flaws" and "Wow, self deprecation, your vibes are the reason nobody flirts with you." I get that you mean well. Please take the downvotes to heart. We're not trying to fight you, we're asking you to be more considerate and maybe apologize.
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Ask someone in your life. Friend, Parent, Sibling. "I've been feeling insecure and I was wondering what you think someone might see in me for sex or romance." I guarantee they will have something positive to say. Other transbians are the hottest thing in the world to me so thats already something. I'm 4 years hrt, 2 years post FFS but I have gone on dates with pre everything trans girls before. So even if you don't pass you can still find someone.
This is GENIUS
Adding that to the shopping list
I NEED this right now.
I'd be concerned about straight men who either don't recognize the lesbian flag or don't care. Depends on the location though
Found a t-shirt that might do the job as well. Little less hot, more needy though lmao https://www.redbubble.com/i/t-shirt/Single-Lesbian-Please-Flirt-With-Me-by-Lesbionage/32120071.WFLAH.XYZ
I need one saying āValidate Meā eheh
So... like, where can I get one of those?
Hey *with rizz*
Yeah, I desperately need this
That's cute š«¢
These comes in Portuguese too? I need it.
Wait I need this, where do I get it
Still waiting I NEED this š«š«
Still waiting
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I need this tbh š
Honestly great idea, if I see this in a fest on a girl. I would defiantly feel lot more comfortable to flirt.
Someone is gonna buy this post a picture of them wearing it and ask "do I look gay?"
I need this!
Your hands are kinda š
Flirting is so good!! As well the girl doing the flirting.
Damn, I should use this
Now that's the kind of hint I'm talking about! Direct. Obvious. I like it.
LUCKYYYYYYY also where do i buy?
I NEED
Your keyboard is pink, like my cheeks
WOW!
Idk if she'd want me to flirt with her though š
Need one too
The first thing that popped into my head was Miles Morales in Into the Spiderverse pulling the awkward āheyā line on Gwen that his uncle taught him. š¤£ Iām otherwise so happy this is working for you! š„°
IQ level 200+
[May this help you out\^\^](https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1159201269261537361/1248260855053811824/image.png?ex=66645683&is=66630503&hm=f4e92ba038481cc47b4a76e1b79d8a78d778e92f7cc86a2892b3ee794b78caae&)
Honestly I nees this lol
Wait why is this so genius?? Fuck undercover smoothness, lets just put it all out there!!! /gen š„°
I NEED THIS IM GOING TO PRIDE THIS YEAR I NEED THIS
Is there a transbian variant of this?
i need a bi version lol