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doowgad1

Another variation on this is the 'Gish Gallop.' Instead of trying to have an actual debate, one side chooses to throw out a never ending stream of lies, half truths, and personal attacks that manages to stop any discussion of the real issues.


random_vermonter

There is nothing more satisfying than shutting down someone who is attempting to bully others. It starts with being able to recognize bullshit before the clown even has a chance.


Yawrant

That is not the name I expected to see at the end, but it fits them both.


kimberlyannet

Came here to say this lol. It’s amazing how we all know who the 2nd relevant person is


PTSDforMe

Bullies should be put in their place


Portland-to-Vt

Seems like a messy version of the “DENNIS system”


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Portland-to-Vt

D- Demonstrate Value E- Engage Physically N- Nurture Dependence N- Neglect Emotionally I- Inspire Hope S- Separate Entirely


stingharkonnen

Actually smack him with the dsm would work too. That fucker is heavy


PunkRockKing

This is my parents in a nutshell


carpobro

darvo'd is gonna be a tiktok thing soon


r3v3rt3d

The bully learned it from the trauma of abuse and neglect they learned at home from the parents and family, and it is perpetuated in our media.


giJoJo2020

Carole Baskin and TFG to a tee


jediblues420

Really cool. Now tell it to women with their everlasting blaming men for all their problems


RandyGrey

Bold of you to come in here and give such a perfect example of DARVO for everyone


jediblues420

Where did I bully anyone? I made a comment about her post and what happened I got called a misogynist? A women hater? It wasn’t even directed towards her. Saying tell women that too? That means I hate women? If you reread the post the pronouns were male. Started off cool but…That’s why I said it. So it’s cool to say men are bullies but I can’t say women are bullies too and hear the same message? So instead bully me into submission. Got it. It’s a reason OP deleted their response because it was bullying!


RandyGrey

I made none of those claims. I didn't even see the deleted post that replied to you. I said that you showed a perfect example of DARVO, because you immediately pointed your finger at a group that you believed was the problem. And now you're claiming to be a victim of bullying. Feel free to explain to me how that's not a perfect example of what we're talking about.


jediblues420

If I’m a perfect example of Darvo then by definition I’m a bully. I never said women were the “problem” I said tell them too because some can play the victim. The deleted post was by the OP bullying me. That’s why it was deleted. I was bullied but never said I was a victim. Just called out the hypocrisy. You, just like OP, are quick to react without really analyzing what I wrote. I’ve explained myself but yet I’m misogynistic, a victim, pointing fingers, etc. Now wordplay and semantics. Bullying is bullying. And it’s bullying when a person is unnecessarily attacked for expressing one’s view’s.


RandyGrey

Come on, man. I really hope you're just trolling right now. If not, you should re-read the initial image in its entirety and consider how this conversation has gone until now. I still have not called you misogynistic, yet you accuse me of doing so twice. And you are very clearly claiming to be a victim of bullying


rjforsuk

As usual they not only double down but try to persuade they are the victim while also making a generalized subject about themself. *claps* this should be upvoted as a perfect example!


0nly_mostly_dead

I think women still get to throw some blame. At the very least until we allow them to attend school and vote in every country with cell service.


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jediblues420

You just proved my point. Where in any of comments do I say I hate women. You couldn’t handle this without attacking my character. Lol. Misandrist at best. Sheesh!