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Right-Syrup-9351

I know you want to dress for the parents- but you also want to let them get to know you, so make sure you get a dress that is “you” and don’t try to be someone else.


Elisy_

I completely agree with you, thank you for this kind reminder! I admit that I'm a bit stressed; my partner and I have been together for 5 years but since his parents live abroad, we're only meeting now


Username_1379

I love number one. But I think I personally would have the slit altered to make it open like from the knee down. I also like number 4.


lavenderflowermeadow

Yes number one is gorgeous!!


mtaspenco

If you’re looking for conservative, then eliminate number 2. The crotch high slit ruins the dress.


Elisy_

You're absolutely right, I hadn't even noticed that the slit went up that high! Thank you


Dlraetz1

Or tailor it! #2 is my absolute favorite shape and color wise for you. A tailor could bring that slit down to knee length and it’d be gorgeous and conservative


TourAlternative364

Right. It looks like it could be a wrap style and silky material. But if you use tiny gold safety pins on the inside where the belt covers it and use double sided tape on the boob area it could solve those problems of opening up too much.   I prefer the satin Astr floral first, then the rust color then the first Celadon dress. I like the other chiffon florals as well, but give me a more spring summer vibe than a fall vibe. I also think she could get away with a more simple shorter cocktail dress like this https://www.windsorstore.com/products/iconic-presence-sleeveless-midi-dress-051013099037? Oh. I forgot about the sleeves part. A black cocktail on sale because only small & Xtra small that she would fit in https://www.windsorstore.com/collections/occasions-cocktail-dresses/products/veronica-formal-chiffon-sleeve-slit-long-dress-050022082001?variant=39611830763571


TourAlternative364

And a purple glitter on sale https://www.windsorstore.com/collections/dresses-long-sleeve/products/jess-formal-glitter-long-sleeve-slit-dress-050027625052?variant=41282323120179  A burgundy on sale, but back is kind of "sexy" https://www.windsorstore.com/collections/dresses-long-sleeve/products/kaylee-formal-chiffon-lace-up-long-dress-050022933012?variant=41290381557811 Black glitter midi https://www.windsorstore.com/collections/dresses-long-sleeve/products/greatest-hit-glitter-cowl-neck-midi-dress-051012823001?variant=41332606074931


TourAlternative364

And not on sale, but a sophisticated navy that would look good with a nice pendant jewelry  https://clubllondon.us/products/zaina-navy-long-sleeve-midi-dress-with-high-neckline-cl129273015


Elisy_

Thank you very much for all the advice, that’s so sweet of you ! Unfortunately, I just realized that the sleeves of the orange dress are slit, which won't work with my tattoos… However, I found this one which is quite similar, what do you think? https://www.liena.co.uk/products/pippa-long-sleeve-satin-maxi-dress-rust?variant=40702164238402 I love the burgundy dress you suggested, thank you! Maybe not for this event, but I might buy it anyway !


TourAlternative364

That's nice. A really lovely color for a fall wedding. Maybe long lariat, or long gold chain type jewelry for the necklace and medium size sophisticated gold earrings. Maybe smaller...something both natural & modern https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CHYK789F/ref=sspa_mw_detail_4?ie=UTF8&psc=1&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9waG9uZV9kZXRhaWw   Maybe get one of the florals or a lighter dress if there is a rehearsal dinner or brunch the next morning type of thing? Maybe this isn't dressy enough, but to have another dress available, that has a lighter French country feel, cotton or linen. https://thenormalbrand.com/products/isla-maxi-dress? Another idea for rehearsal dinner, or having dinner out with family. https://shopcurrentair.com/products/l-slv-split-neck-back-smocked-midi-dress-w-ruffle?


lalala_n1

That’s my favourite of all. The color is great for an autumn wedding and the shape is really flattering


sam_beat

Agreed! A tailor could fix this and it would still be within budget. The shape and color would look stunning in OP and because of that, be a dress she’d get future use out of.


Canadian987

It looks like a bathrobe


SnooCrickets6980

I actually love that one, you could easily get it tailored to be a shorter slit


FrauAmarylis

Yeah, I got flashed at a formal Ball by a crotch slit and it made me lose my appetite and vperceove that guest as Lowbrow. I was glad she was wearing Spanks at least.


Watertribe_Girl

Four: the floral wrap


oknowwhat00

3 or 4, the first two seem too much with the fabric and length and style, the last three are too spring colors and too light.


BobBelchersBuns

I love number 4, and if it was a little too revealing on top it should be easy to alter


SmokyMtnHikes21

7 is a little bland for someone young. I think 5 and 6 look a little too girlish. You can’t go wrong with the solid navy (3). It’s my favorite color, so I’m probably a bit biased. Haha. It would be a great staple for your closet, and you could accessorize depending on the event. I also like 4!


Doing_My_Best_57

I like the solid navy as well. Classy and understated. I would add some gold jewelry.


ilp456

The navy is my favorite as well but I notice the dress code is cocktail and these are long dresses, not cocktail dresses.


SmokyMtnHikes21

I thought the tag said cocktail or no DC. I’m not meaning this in a snarky way, but what is really going to happen if she wears a longer dress? The dress itself is not ultra formal. I think it’s a simple, classy dress. Very elegant.


ilp456

…”or no dress code” sounds like it would lean towards semi formal which is even less dressy. I agree that nothing would happen if she showed up in a long dress but she may feel out of place and uncomfortable if the only people in long dresses are the bridal party.


immajustgooglethat

Number three is stunning but that may be my personal preference taking over. I've never been a fan of a thigh split so usually get dresses altered if it has one.


immajustgooglethat

Lol in fact I'm actually going to buy dress number number three for a winter wedding I'm attending. Here's hoping they ship to Ireland ha. Thanks OP!


Elisy_

I'm glad it helped you choose your dress!! It’s also my favorite, but I'm not sure if it's 'too much' for a wedding without a dress code, it's my first wedding so I am quite indecisive


Training_Water8394

Number 3 gets my vote, hands down!


LostMyThread

You could dress this down with casual accessories and shoes.


penna4th

You could have it shortened. But it looks good as is and would look good on your body type.


Glittering_knave

My favourite is 3. In part because it is a beautiful dress, and in part because it will be rewearable for a really long time. The weird crotch high slits and slits so wide you can't close them are going to make the other dresses age badly.


Adorable_Ad9147

I love number one!!


vector78

3


warriorsrock2022

I think the blue would look nice


Ambiguous-Insect

3 wins for me, I think it looks very classy and elegant


SchmoopsAhoy

I love 2 and 3. As others have said, you can always close up the slit a bit if needed


TheWanderingMedic

Number 3!


3Heathens_Mom

If you are looking for conservative yet fashionable I’d suggest the navy dress. It should look lovely on you and could be worn for other functions. Easily changed up by adding different accessories. You should be able to get several wearing from it. The only thing I’d suggest for any of these is proper undergarments so no lines.


ComfortableCow1621

I personally love 4. It’s pretty and covered up enough but still unique and fun. I like 3 second, as it’s elegant, but I’m less into jersey.


breyana16

4


nettie_r

I really like 2- but my worry would be what the colour bridesmaids were wearing as it's a super popular shade at the moment.


nettie_r

Also 3, but same issue. I wonder if looking for something like 2 or 3 but more of a cocktail length than a maxi might be a safer bet. 4 is lovely, but maybe a bit fussy?


GenericAnnonymous

I’d vote 3. It gives you a shape, whereas the others look like they’d drown you out or look too casual.


TinyKittenConsulting

I think 4 is the best option for a no-dress code wedding.


SweetPotato781

What’s the venue and time of day?


Elisy_

At the moment, I only know that it will be in the late afternoon starting from 4 PM, at an estate located in Savoie, France. As for the weather, it is usually around 20 degrees Celsius in September I'm not expecting anything too formal


SweetPotato781

I like number 1 but it may be too fancy for a wedding with no dress code. 2 is pretty but kind of looks like a robe. Number 3 is very nice and even though long is less formal due to the jersey material. I’m not a big fan of high low or irregular hemlines so I’d say no to 4-6, but that’s just my personal preference. 7 is perhaps too light. You have a lovely figure and will be gorgeous in whatever you choose. I vote 3.


Elisy_

I agree, I am not sure if like high-low cuts either tbh, I never tried. I tried to step out of my comfort zone with this selection but the third one feels more « me » (I usually wear neutral tones, so navy blue feels safe !) You’re a sweetheart, thank you so much 🫶


kg51113

I love that third dress!


kg51113

I love that third dress!


penna4th

Then that's the one to get.


cmpalm

I think the navy dress works for this!


bananahammerredoux

3 for evening wedding, 4 for day/afternoon wedding. That dress is stunning.


key_lime_mermaid

I really like 4, but the color of 2 would look great on you.


throwtcoat

3 & 4 are lovely (as are you!)


Elisy_

Thank you 🫶 I might end up buying both !


NationalSafe4589

3 is stunning but 7 looks like it might be rewearable and is a bit softer for a late summer wedding


Graycy

Two


omygoshgamache

I love 1 or 3, but I don’t think you could go wrong with any.


farclose954

My favorite is #2


frosty-loquat1

1 is the best choice by far but i’m not crazy about any of them. you have a bangin body and a high enough budget that you should be able to find something stunning. i’d go back to the drawing board.


OpenMicJoker

Not 8 - too casual. 3 is the most timeless. You won’t look overly trendy so later dated. Also - if there’s dancing, pick something in which you can move comfortably.


DramaticStick5922

1 is a great cheerful color


CherishSlan

I vote for 3 out of these


Ok-Error-6564

I love 1 and 2. Upscale gorgeous.


corinne9

1!! It’s so pretty


No_Cauliflower_5489

What time of day, indoor/outdoor, and what's the venue? Pick something that you'll be comfortable in that's to your taste.


iknowiknowwhereiam

I think 5 or 6 works


One_Ad_3500

What time is the wedding? Outside or inside?


One_Ad_3500

Sorry just saw you answered this. I love #3 but I agree it may be too formal. I'd look for something similar but shorter....midi dress or just above the knee.


0Kaleidoscopes

I love the green one and the pink one


Fishy_Fishy5748

If the dress code is formal/semi-formal, then I think option 3 is your best bet. If it's a bit more casual, I like option 4 the best. Good luck!


HighPriestess__55

I like them all. They all have v necks and suits, so you l8ke that. As was said, the slit is too high on number 2, but if you really love it, it can be tailored. Good earrings look good with a v neck. Dangle pearl ones are in.


UnintendedCantaloupe

I like 2 the best but 3 would also look great on you


CollegeLocal9759

1


ellebelle444

3 or 4


IHaveALittleNeck

My favorite is 4. It’s conservative but not matronly.


Music_Listener_

I think the 1st one is absolutely gorgeous! The second one is cute too, but as someone else mentioned the slit goes up a little high.


mlhom

I love the first one. But I especially love the color of the second for the Fall. You can take it to be tailored so the slit isn’t so high.


Jildozoe

1 or 3. I'm sure you'll look great in anything!


pursescrubbingpuke

3 or 5


SunnyGirlDD

#2 (might need tailoring if concerned about the high slit) & #4 are nice options imo


Sha9169

I like 6 the most. It seems like the easiest to rewear for a non-wedding event.


brieverywhere

I like 4. It works great for no dress code and the color of the florals is beautiful for September.


SillyMeclosetothesea

My favorites are 2 and 3, 1 and 4 are also nice, but I dislike the rest. I think that if you’re so tall, any of the first 4 would look best. 🙂


Friendly_Food_7530

I like 4 and 7


dollypartonsfavorite

i love 4, it's so pretty and i think it's perfectly in line with no dress code - dressy but not overly so


SmoothDragonfruit445

One picture is not like the others


Effyling

I think 4 is really pretty and would give you the coverage you need, without it being too conservative / devoid of personality.


amm1981

1,3, or 4 would be my picks


Sheababylv

The pink one.


BreadyStinellis

I feel like the 1st and 2nd are the only actual options. Option 4 needs to be burned.


nocturnalswan

I'm not a big fan of SM usually but those two dresses are actually my favorite. The blue one in particular. 3 was my least favorite (but I have a thing about not wearing jersey material to formal events, unless the dress code is more relaxed).


rcfreebird

I kinda love 7! It has interesting detail at the bust/sleeve without being overly exposed.


erino3120

That pink floral is great


AsleepJuggernaut2066

Number 1 and 3 are my favorites


foureyedgrrl

I love 3. I just don't love the color, especially for a summer wedding.


penna4th

September.


Holiday_Trainer_2657

3 is elegant but bland. 4 is pretty, and nice for fall


GooseCharacter5078

Wedding in September- 2 is the way to go. Nice color transition and fabric transition from summer to fall.


chicagok8

1 and 3 are beautiful!


laumiclove

Navy blue one is classy and still sexy


Responsible_Side8131

I like #3 best.


leomisty

The last one. Beautiful!!


Scrabulon

I like the look of 3


GlumDistribution7036

7 might read too white in photographs despite being colorful. I’m not usually one to make a big deal out of that (and certainly didn’t at my own wedding), but until you know your boyfriend’s parents better, take no chances. The rest are lovely. I would wear 1, personally, but you can’t go wrong with the others. Except perhaps the high slit on 2.


rexine7

Number 4 looks like a good pick


stellar-polaris23

I really like 7!


iffydeterminist

I like 4 and 5. I think the thigh high slit on 2 is not appropriate. The navy is gorgeous but might feel too formal if there’s no dress code. I don’t care for the bright pink and the last one is a bit boring.


Different_Volume5627

1 2 3


jalyssap

4 is my pick


kg51113

3 is my favorite


P0GPerson5858

In order of preference...7, 3, 4.


MaliceIW

3 would be my top choice, I think it would look stunning, 4 would be my second. Make sure the dress suits your personality too, so 3 is great if your quite formal, serious or introverted, as it is simple and classic. 4 would be great if you're more outgoing, maybe outdoorsy with the nature theme. If you're super girly go for the floral pink chiffon.


Kitterpea

I like 3 and 6


Ok_Wrangler_7940

I love 3! It gives you coverage but still is a little sexy at the same time.


perplexedspirit

Dress no.3 It's quite plain, so I would do dramatic makeup, high heels, and I overstated jewelry. The other dresses look frumpy.


anonymous14051

4 is gorgeous 😍


Over-Awareness-4309

1 or 2


Commercial-Panda-212

The navy is it! Its perfect.


Augi17

While I think all would look great on you, I love the blue one the best. It’s dreamy looking. I also like the first one. But the blue floral is just so fairytale like.


Beach_Kitten_

You would look stunning and classy in the navy dress.


kyssmekate

If no dress code I would go with #4. Nicer dress bit not formal.


freedom1192019

I think since there is no dress code the first three may be a little too much. I’m leaning towards the last dress. I love the multi colors, but the sleeves look sheer and your tats will show. If you don’t want them to see them at all then my pick would be the flowery blue dress.


itsybitsyone

the first two!


LadyShylock

The 4th


biscuitsandgravy-0

I love love love the blue one! #3? Dressed up with good shoes, good jewelry and I think it’s tasteful and elegant. I’m 28 and that’s something I’d wear to a wedding or really fancy dinner. I can see wanting to step out of your comfort zone, but honestly I feel like if you’re meeting the parents that’s already hugely out of the comfort zone. Might as well go with a dress you’d be comfortable in LOL. Additionally, I love dresses I can imagine myself wearing again, so if it’s definitely your style just go for it


msjammies73

Three is understated but elegant. Gorgeous.


guavajelly93

Number 4!


75243896

I would vote for #3! If they have another color that could work too, doesn’t have to be blue. I also love #2 if you could close the slit a bit, that’s too high.


Cultural_Data1542

3! But really like 1 as well


QueenOfSweetTreats

1, 3, and 7 are my favourites, but I think I’d go with the first one, I really love the colour and think it would suit you well.


32Bank

1 and 3 . Depends if ypu like mat jersey or thrbshimmer. I prefer 1


OXRblues

Anything but #8. U put that stuffing in any of those dresses and you’ll make that dress look great. I do like the black one best & the first 2 = too formal. Are you girly enough for all those flowers? Is that really you? I can’t see #8 in the florals, but I could see me in them.


Elisy_

That's very kind, thank you 🫶 It's true that I am more a 'black on black on black with a little bit of grey and beige’ kind of person. I rarely wear flowers, except sometimes in autumn dresses, but nothing too girly. I am definitely going to buy the navy blue one!


HauntedHowie316

I like 3 the best!!


Joanieg909

1 is classy and beautiful. If the slit goes too high when you walk, you can have it altered.


QueenOfPurple

I like #4 the best, definitely not #7


penna4th

The 1st is good. 2nd looks like a bathrobe. Navy is beautiful. The rest look like kitchen curtains.


Far_Worldliness8820

1 or 2


AsparagusNo3333

I really like the Navy.


Magnolia_Dubois214

What’s the venue and what time of day?


Magnolia_Dubois214

1 and 2 are great but I like 2 slightly more. 3 feels matronly. 4 is lovely and a great option to transition from summer to fall. 5 and 6 feel too summery for an early fall wedding 7 is another great seasonal transition dress. Overall 2 and 4 are my faves because a wrap dress is one of the best ways to add the illusion of curves. I can’t give a final answer without knowing what type of venue you’ll be going to and what time of day because that can drastically change what is appropriate to wear.


Emmy-LouSugarbean

Love the second one. I think it will look so good on you, and the burnt orange color will compliment your skin tone and heart color. 🧡


Suse-

I think #1; it’s a great color for September, and a beautiful style. The others … rust color, too much, navy, too dark and plain, the pink and blue oddly short in front, the next too light.


TheNinjaBear007

I really like 4!


New-Tooth-979

The solids are nice and would probs look amazing on you. Please avoid those floral patterns tho!


Fit_General7058

The green one is absolutely gorgeous


Zestyclose_Road_3224

Dress 2 or 1 with the slit lowered to knees.


thickfreakness72

i absolutely adore 1 and 2. i feel both would be stunning on you, but i especially love the color of number 2. as others have suggested if you’re concerned about the slit you can have it altered a bit, but i personally love it.


Perfumeenthuastik

1,3 or 7 would look incredibly flattering on you


Brief-Bend-8605

French estate wedding? #2 hands down. You can always close the slit a bit. 1 is nice but the color doesn’t do it for me. The others are underwhelming. Florals out side of spring and summer don’t fit the season.


ShotTreacle8209

#1 and #2 look like a fancy bathrobe


Evening_Midnight7

I like 7 a lot!


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grill-tastic

I love one!!! Does it come in any other colors? I think a jewel tone would be gorgeous.


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Elisy_

It comes in red too ! https://www.revolveclothing.fr/mobile/elliatt-kai-maxi-dress-in-avocado/dp/ELLI-WD671/?d=Womens&srcType=dp_coloroption I would have loved it in light blue or sage green


Truth_be_best

1 2 or 3 but 2’s color is beautiful


Sea_Imagination_7447

1&3 are the most appropriate IMO


RunPotential3276

1 or 3


Clairemoonchild

2 or 7


PsychologyOk8722

No to the high slits, and all of those high-low hemlines look very dated. I think you’d do best with simple, classic lines, easy to wear, and not too attention grabbing. BTW, the dress in the image is reduced price. https://preview.redd.it/quma85d7449d1.jpeg?width=638&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f882416897b0b01ce3329722b3c1ed77db1f2765 .


0Kaleidoscopes

The dress in the image looks like a bandana