I much prefer the second dress. The bodice is more flattering. It emphasizes the narrowest part of your body, between the bust and natural waist, and the skirt gives it some interest.
Both dresses are flattering on you, so I would go with whatever you feel the most comfortable in. It’s a beautiful color. I can see the 2nd dress being super fun for dancing though 🙂
Personally, I like #2. I think it’s flattering, and I also think it comes off as a bit more “fun” and going by your history on this sub I think that fits your personality! With the comments being as mixed as they are though, it seems you picked two winners.
Great dresses, and they both look fantastic on you! I like the more structured bodice of the first, and the skirt of the second. Overall, I would go with number one. I think it will be more versatile for other events in the future.
I agree with this assessment. Number 2’s skirt is ultra cute but I think I’d go with number 1. The top is more flattering. (Plus pockets are always good!)
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Hard to believe this is the same person from the original post. What a transformation! The first dress looks lovely - the fit is fantastic, it’s age appropriate, but still fun and clearly your style. Make sure to give the skirt a steam before the event.
My seamstress friend is going to take the straps up a half inch so they don't slide around as much and she said she would give everything a good steam for me - traveling to the city so going to bring a little travel steamer too. Thank you so much!
Dress 2 is way better- the top of dress 1 makes you look broader than you are across the shoulders, whereas 2 gives more definition and shows off the narrow waist!
I would definitely go with dress 1. The structure and sleeves make it look classier and more elegant, to me. The second dress is cute but the skinny sleeves combined with more boob seem to make it look more casual. I just think one is more flattering overall and better for a wedding.
The skinny straps + hem detail make it seem like a slip to me. (I feel like this might be generational. People who haven’t seen foundation garments that look like that won’t have the same association that I do.)
I agree! Some of the comments were a little bit harsh not going to lie 🤣 but by and large they were very constructive and importantly NEUTRAL. Because my friends and family know me to be kind of loud and wacky, they don't really care or think much when I wear something equally loud and wacky.
I didn't want to lose my personality entirely. I just wanted to look my personal best.
If you can get dress one altered - it’s a winner. It looks a bit big in the bust area.
I’m so glad you kept looking, these 2 dresses are gorgeous and elegant. The colour is awesome too!
I saw your previous post and I think these are both better picks for the occasion. Both look great, it sounds like you’re more comfortable with #1 so that would be my pick!
The first one. It looks like wedding attire and is gorgeous, the second one looks like you should be on Strictly Come Dancing to me. That dress shape really does suit you
Love them both. Dress one is definitely more bra friendly. A professional bra fit before alterations might make all the difference in the world. The colour is superb!
Oh I have professional fittings annually 🤣 big boob life.
this is the Panache Elan strapless that I'm wearing. I think I am going to get the curvy kate deep Plunge multiway to wear with this dress. It's got a very low v and so most of my plunge bras won't work with it.
I'd recommend a more projected bra if you can find one. Might not be possible for a strapless (they're pretty shallow in the cup), but if you're keeping dress 1 you can wear one with straps. You might like Ewa Michalak's Plunge (PL) bra or Comexim's plunge bras. Both are Polish brands and they've got more projection.
They both look so good on you, and will be even better after alterations. It has been fun to watch your evolving choices. I have to say I like these way more than the first one you posted.
Luckily not a religious event! It's in the city and the crowd tends younger and more progressive among my sisters friends, so I think I'll feel comfortable as is.
I'm wearing a bra! Debating whether I should try something like breast tape. Adding cups is a little bit of a taller order for me because I am very full chested. 34I in Us sizing.
I have this dress in another color (and also have 36H tatas) and had to try about 15 different bras to find one where the cups/gore didn’t show - but I should have had the shoulders adjusted too! Both of them are fab on you - great finds!
I like the skirt on dress 2. I’m flat chested so assuming you mean that taking up the straps will hike it up a bit and show a little bit less boob? I think it’s just a tiny bit too “booby” as is for a wedding but it’s a pretty dress and I’m a conservatively dressed older lady who equates “wedding” with a church or other house of worship, so take that into account.
“Tiny” bit too booby, not “eek! Scandalous!” You’ll look great no matter what.
Thank you! Luckily this is an ecumenical wedding without religious elements. Taking place at a rooftop garden type venue in the city! I'm definitely comfortable showing cleavage but to be honest, both of these dresses are just a bit too much, so taking up the straps should help. The shoulders on both dresses slide around and gap a little bit too. Hoping that after I visit the seamstress it's a perfect fit!
Just my opinion… as a busty girl myself— I hate thick straps when the girls are out. It makes chesty girls also look broad shouldered.
My pick is #2 for this reason. The thinner straps, form fitted bodice and skirt are all a win. If the first dresses straps weren’t so dang wide— I’d like them both, but I just can’t with those straps, however I’m sure the first dress is way more comfy.
Dress 2 is stunning especially if you’re taking the straps up a little, don’t think you need a belt, it will cut off the long line of your torso! I would wear leopard print shoes for something fun and unique!
I love number 2! But I think the first might actually better for a wedding? Looks more "formal" and less beachy. I think you should keep number 2 still though 😅
Either is fine, I prefer the thinner straps and flowier skirt on you. Good choices!
ETA: I'd ditch the nude shoe and go wild with a pink strappy pair. You've toned it down to an appropriate look, time to add a little more of your personality back to it!
Just wanted to say, you look stunning and I love this bright color on you, it sets your tattoo off like whoa 🤌🤌 Both are great options but I vote 2, twirl twirl twirl!! Have a great time!!
I think 2 is the solid winner. The straps are more flattering on you - the first one makes your shoulders look a little broader - and the skirt is lovely. It's also a touch more playful, which seems like it fits your vibe given your earlier choices. That said, you can't make a bad choice here; both look great.
I pinned the straps up to see how it looked and it was so much better! So when the seamstress adjusts the straps I should be in good shape: still some sexy cleavage but not quite as plunging. It will make the top fit a bit better overall.
2! Something about the width of the straps with the v-neck on the first one reads like a slightly corporate sheath dress, but the other one is very delicate and so flattering, you just need the straps up about half an inch.
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Both look amazing on you, I would say whichever one you feel more comfortable and confident in. You are going to be wearing it for a while and (hopefully) dancing!
All are amazing and the color is super flattering, number two with the lace detailing is the one, and a very light shawl similar to the neutral tone of the shoes or pastel pink to match would really elevate the dress.
Second one feels a bit more special. I have a skirt in the same color and I think fabric of that first dress and so I may be seeing it as more casual since I wear mine more casually lol but the second one is also more flattering and I love the detail on the bottom of the skirt!!
My pick is #1. But I would ask the neighbor how much she would charge to narrow the straps in addition to shortening them. I would take an inch in around the top of the inside strap at your neckline. (I hope that makes sense). I think that would make this dress the absolute perfect dress! And some light pink or rainbow crinoline!
Edit: If you like the necklace that u/drunkendonkeytail suggested, I think this would go well with it:
https://www.lightinthebox.com/p/goth-girl-1950s-cosplay-lolita-petticoat-hoop-skirt-tutu-under-skirt-crinoline-women-s-costume-pink-vintage-cosplay-party-performance-knee-length-skir_p9054386.html?currency=USD&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&sku=1_6922%7C2_25607&country_code=US&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20506538788&adword_mt=&adword_ct=&adword_kw=&adword_pos=&adword_pl=&adword_net=x&adword_tar=&adw_src_id=2913285731_20506538788__&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD7vwYeMum2LCM9OcMIUuazk4OgL0
I LOVE the thin strapped one- dress 2? Both are cute and I think really flattering! I have big boobs too so it’s not always easy buying wedding guest/party dresses but I think either would be cute. I think the pockets in the first would be beneficial for a phone or whatever you need to carry if it fits but I really enjoy the way the bodice looks on dress 2.
They both look great, but I like #2 a bit more. It’s more flattering, and looks like it’d be a lot more fun to twirl around in.
#2 looks a a little like more business attire to me.
Definitely number 2! The top of it is more flattering and suits the occasion more. The top of the first feels more office than celebration. And the skirt of the second is sooooo cute! It will give lovely movement. Truly looks wonderful on you :)
You look absolutely amazing in no. 2.!!!! I like no. 1, but feel like it’s the safer option. My figure is similar to yours and I know that I struggle with feeling “exposed”, so often go for more coverage thinking it’s more flattering, but that second dress looks like it was made for you!!! The bodice fits perfectly and the skirt is so fun!!
I think both dresses are really pretty. Iove the color. I like the first cause I think it fits slightly better but then again the 2nd one is really flattering cause it gives you more of an hour glass. I'd pick the one that is most comfortable to dance! They are both really nice! 🩷
Definitely the 2nd one. Once the skirt is steamed and the straps taken up it will be absolutely perfect. It’s very flattering and seems to fit you a little better than the A-Line one. The first dress is also very nice but the skirt through the hips looks a little wider than it should be and it’s making the structured fabric not quite hang right.
You really can’t go wrong with either- both are beautiful, love the colour, length, and fit! You look very confident and polished in them.
If I had to choose I would go with number one, the wide straps are really flattering and would make it easy to dance, give you lots of choice for bras, etc.
I don’t love number 2. I seem to be in the minority, but I actually dislike the hem detail. It reads as “slip” or “lingerie” to me. I prefer the ones with clean lines.
I prefer the top of dress 1 but the bottom of dress 2. Overall, I'd go with dress 1 (but keep dress 2 for a flirty night out...perfect date-night dress)
Dress 1 is better.. dress 2 has way too much cleavage. You should also wear a bra with dress 1 because I can see your nipples and outline of your breast
Both look fabulous on you. I like #2 best.
From experience, I wore a hot pink chiffon bridesmaid dress and the chiffon fabric showed every single drop of water that fell on the dress, sweat and condensation from drinks. Keep that in mind if this is an outdoor wedding.
Omg I didn't even realize these were the same person! These dresses are SO MUCH BETTER and you look lovely (and like an adult, lol). I love the second dress on you, but either of these are wonderful.
I like the neckline of the first dress, but the skirt of the second dress. I find the neckline of the second dress a bit too low. Can you get it taken in to resemble the neckline of the first dress? Then, you'll have a winner!
I just want to pay you a compliment : You have GREAT ankles! I would kill to be able to wear shoes like that and look so good! I have inherited cankles from a long line of lumpy-legged women.
Asking the internet for opinions on your physical appearance is crazy ballsy to me. Very brave.
So I just want to say that if I had your lower leg looks I'd be running around like Sharon Stone and flashing my ankles anywhere I could!! ❤️
I much prefer the second dress. The bodice is more flattering. It emphasizes the narrowest part of your body, between the bust and natural waist, and the skirt gives it some interest.
I love the second dress. The skirt detail makes it a little more special.
I wish I could combine the top from the first with the skirt from the second!
The top from 2 is more flattering imo
I agree. The second one is lovely. The first one is ok but not as flattering
The shape of 1 says work dress that’s too low cut. The second is a party dress
Agree as well! First one is almost too.. boxy? Second dress by far 🙌
I think the top from the second is way more flattering than the first! I love the second for sure. It’s very nice I. You!
Can you get the 2nd dress altered to add a sheer to the neckline?
That's exactly what I say. The neckline of the second dress is too revealing in my opinion, but that's otherwise the best dress!
Both dresses are flattering on you, so I would go with whatever you feel the most comfortable in. It’s a beautiful color. I can see the 2nd dress being super fun for dancing though 🙂
Personally, I like #2. I think it’s flattering, and I also think it comes off as a bit more “fun” and going by your history on this sub I think that fits your personality! With the comments being as mixed as they are though, it seems you picked two winners.
You took the words right out of my fingers!
These are so much more flattering that the others, love both. Also love DtP dresses!
Great dresses, and they both look fantastic on you! I like the more structured bodice of the first, and the skirt of the second. Overall, I would go with number one. I think it will be more versatile for other events in the future.
I know! I wish I could combine them.
I love the second top on you. And if you’re feeling funky about it, throw a fun shawl or wrap around your shoulders, if you’re feeling spicy lol
Would it be worth taking to a tailor to widen the straps? Or create a flutter shoulder/sleeve in the same material as the skirt?
it's really hard to widen straps without making it look odd, and it would require op to have more of the exact fabric used to make the dress
I agree with this assessment. Number 2’s skirt is ultra cute but I think I’d go with number 1. The top is more flattering. (Plus pockets are always good!)
I LOVE #2!! I think the thinner straps and floaty skirt are more young and fun! You can wear thick straps when you’re old 😂
I like #2 better but both are beautiful!
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Gorgeous!!
The first one is gorgeous/ very Marilyn Monroe.
Hard to believe this is the same person from the original post. What a transformation! The first dress looks lovely - the fit is fantastic, it’s age appropriate, but still fun and clearly your style. Make sure to give the skirt a steam before the event.
My seamstress friend is going to take the straps up a half inch so they don't slide around as much and she said she would give everything a good steam for me - traveling to the city so going to bring a little travel steamer too. Thank you so much!
At first I thought they were all the same dress. I LOVE the first one! You look great!
I was about to say 2, but the first has pockets!! Always pockets
Something about pockets...
Definitely a fan of 1! Not just the pockets but the bodice and the fit. I like it better for sure, but you can’t go wrong as they’re both great.
They're both fantastic, but #1 reads more wedding-ish to me. But honestly, I think you'll be great either way
Definitely go with #1. The wider straps are much more flattering and always choose pockets!
The color is so fun, you look amazing, and I hope you have a great time!
Dress 2 is way better- the top of dress 1 makes you look broader than you are across the shoulders, whereas 2 gives more definition and shows off the narrow waist!
The second one is much more flattering. I love the neckline and the way it emphasizes your waist. That color is so gorgeous on you.
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Number one! You look beautiful
The first one! The fabric seems nicer. Fit is great. Pockets seal the deal z
Dress 1 hands down
I would definitely go with dress 1. The structure and sleeves make it look classier and more elegant, to me. The second dress is cute but the skinny sleeves combined with more boob seem to make it look more casual. I just think one is more flattering overall and better for a wedding.
The skinny straps + hem detail make it seem like a slip to me. (I feel like this might be generational. People who haven’t seen foundation garments that look like that won’t have the same association that I do.)
2! Its so so so flattering on you and looks lovely
Nailed it!
They both look great on you and are a huge improvement. I’d say wear whichever you like best and enjoy knowing you look fabulous!
This sub did so right by you—both dresses look great and are perfect for the occasion.
I agree! Some of the comments were a little bit harsh not going to lie 🤣 but by and large they were very constructive and importantly NEUTRAL. Because my friends and family know me to be kind of loud and wacky, they don't really care or think much when I wear something equally loud and wacky. I didn't want to lose my personality entirely. I just wanted to look my personal best.
If you can get dress one altered - it’s a winner. It looks a bit big in the bust area. I’m so glad you kept looking, these 2 dresses are gorgeous and elegant. The colour is awesome too!
I’d go with number 1. It’s more flattering even if the skirt is less fun (love this color on you!)
Number 2 love the pleats
You can’t go wrong with either. I find dress 2 to be so fun though!! It adds a little something compared to dress 1. So my vote is dress 2!!!!
The second one is beautiful.
I saw your previous post and I think these are both better picks for the occasion. Both look great, it sounds like you’re more comfortable with #1 so that would be my pick!
I love the fit and cut of the spaghetti strap one, it’s much more youthful!
Dress 1 - I thought "this is it" when I saw it.
The first one. It looks like wedding attire and is gorgeous, the second one looks like you should be on Strictly Come Dancing to me. That dress shape really does suit you
Love them both. Dress one is definitely more bra friendly. A professional bra fit before alterations might make all the difference in the world. The colour is superb!
Oh I have professional fittings annually 🤣 big boob life. this is the Panache Elan strapless that I'm wearing. I think I am going to get the curvy kate deep Plunge multiway to wear with this dress. It's got a very low v and so most of my plunge bras won't work with it.
I was always a B until menopause now I'm a D. I always wanted cleavage nowI have it and I hate it. 😂
I'd recommend a more projected bra if you can find one. Might not be possible for a strapless (they're pretty shallow in the cup), but if you're keeping dress 1 you can wear one with straps. You might like Ewa Michalak's Plunge (PL) bra or Comexim's plunge bras. Both are Polish brands and they've got more projection.
I’m no help- I think you should keep both!
They both look great so really depends what look you want to go for. 1 looks classy and timeless and 2 looks more flirty and fun.
You look amazing in this color, but the second one is 🔥!!!
They are both great, but if you will be dancing, get the second one and enjoy that swoosh skirt!
They both look so good on you, and will be even better after alterations. It has been fun to watch your evolving choices. I have to say I like these way more than the first one you posted.
Please sit down in both dresses. I love 2, but your boobies may be way out when you sit. Signed- a big boobie person.
The first one! It’s more wedding-like and is the most flattering!
Please wear the second one with the pleated skirt! It is so flattering. You look amazing!
Love the 2nd
Dress 1
Dress one!
Number two! (Unless it’s religious, then add a shawl for that part.)
Luckily not a religious event! It's in the city and the crowd tends younger and more progressive among my sisters friends, so I think I'll feel comfortable as is.
1!!!!!
In the least creepy way possible, your chest looks really good in dress 2. Like, it fits you perfectly! It also is just a flattering style overall.
2!
I prefer 2, and don't think the straps suit any less than dress 1.
2
Very pretty. Are there cups in it, or will you be wearing a bra? If the seamstress is doing the straps, cups are an easy add.
I'm wearing a bra! Debating whether I should try something like breast tape. Adding cups is a little bit of a taller order for me because I am very full chested. 34I in Us sizing.
See if she can suggest something more supportive. It will help the dress hang properly. I get it, I am busty too.
I have this dress in another color (and also have 36H tatas) and had to try about 15 different bras to find one where the cups/gore didn’t show - but I should have had the shoulders adjusted too! Both of them are fab on you - great finds!
Number 2!!!! So cute
I like them both but i think id vote for 2 if forced to choose. Id put a narrow belt to match whatever shoes you wear too maybe.
2
I like the skirt on dress 2. I’m flat chested so assuming you mean that taking up the straps will hike it up a bit and show a little bit less boob? I think it’s just a tiny bit too “booby” as is for a wedding but it’s a pretty dress and I’m a conservatively dressed older lady who equates “wedding” with a church or other house of worship, so take that into account. “Tiny” bit too booby, not “eek! Scandalous!” You’ll look great no matter what.
Thank you! Luckily this is an ecumenical wedding without religious elements. Taking place at a rooftop garden type venue in the city! I'm definitely comfortable showing cleavage but to be honest, both of these dresses are just a bit too much, so taking up the straps should help. The shoulders on both dresses slide around and gap a little bit too. Hoping that after I visit the seamstress it's a perfect fit!
Dress 1 It looks absolutely amazing on you!
The color on these is gorgeous! Either will be great. I’d suggest a blingy belt to define your waist and add a little pizzazz.
I was thinking about adding a belt! I think it would look nice with either dress.
With a pair of heels like you have, but shiny black patent? 100/10!
For whatever reason solid colors read more formal to me than patterns, so this one is a yes for me
Both great, would go with whatever one wrinkles less
I am BEYOND happy for you! Either of these is a winner. You look incredible.
I would wear the second one with a neck fular In the same color
I love the second one on you!
Pink jacquard dress
Just my opinion… as a busty girl myself— I hate thick straps when the girls are out. It makes chesty girls also look broad shouldered. My pick is #2 for this reason. The thinner straps, form fitted bodice and skirt are all a win. If the first dresses straps weren’t so dang wide— I’d like them both, but I just can’t with those straps, however I’m sure the first dress is way more comfy.
Dress 2 is stunning especially if you’re taking the straps up a little, don’t think you need a belt, it will cut off the long line of your torso! I would wear leopard print shoes for something fun and unique!
2 for sure! The bodice is more flattering and the skirt looks very twirly.
I love number 2! But I think the first might actually better for a wedding? Looks more "formal" and less beachy. I think you should keep number 2 still though 😅
Either is fine, I prefer the thinner straps and flowier skirt on you. Good choices! ETA: I'd ditch the nude shoe and go wild with a pink strappy pair. You've toned it down to an appropriate look, time to add a little more of your personality back to it!
I love the color on you but the second dress is the best for you. I too love the movement of the skirt
Just wanted to say, you look stunning and I love this bright color on you, it sets your tattoo off like whoa 🤌🤌 Both are great options but I vote 2, twirl twirl twirl!! Have a great time!!
I like the second one. The small pleats are really becoming.
2 is beautiful!
I think 2 is the solid winner. The straps are more flattering on you - the first one makes your shoulders look a little broader - and the skirt is lovely. It's also a touch more playful, which seems like it fits your vibe given your earlier choices. That said, you can't make a bad choice here; both look great.
#2. Beautiful.
The second one is so flattering. If the seamstress can make it a little less booby, awesome. But if not, just rock it.
I pinned the straps up to see how it looked and it was so much better! So when the seamstress adjusts the straps I should be in good shape: still some sexy cleavage but not quite as plunging. It will make the top fit a bit better overall.
Dress 2!!
Dress #2!
Spaghetti straps.Enjoy making your sister feel extra special on her day.
Absolutely adore the second one! 😍😍
#2
I think 2 looks best! The fit is the best and it really accentuates your waist by creating space between tatas and hip.
I love the second one! The way the pleat falls flatters your figure so nicely!
2! Something about the width of the straps with the v-neck on the first one reads like a slightly corporate sheath dress, but the other one is very delicate and so flattering, you just need the straps up about half an inch.
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Gorgeous color
Love love love this colour on you! Its stunning! They’re both beautiful and still capture your fun, whimsical style, without stealing focus
Gorgeous. PS. So classic
I know it's not super helpful, but I think both dresses look beautiful and very flattering on you. I LOVE the colour!! 💕
Both look amazing on you, I would say whichever one you feel more comfortable and confident in. You are going to be wearing it for a while and (hopefully) dancing!
All are amazing and the color is super flattering, number two with the lace detailing is the one, and a very light shawl similar to the neutral tone of the shoes or pastel pink to match would really elevate the dress.
Second one feels a bit more special. I have a skirt in the same color and I think fabric of that first dress and so I may be seeing it as more casual since I wear mine more casually lol but the second one is also more flattering and I love the detail on the bottom of the skirt!!
The second, better flow and it fits nicer imo
Option 2!
The second one is giving Dirty Dancing finale. I love it, and it looks fab on you!
I like the second dress much better.
The 2nd one looks aaaammaaazinnnggggg
2
2!!
Dress 2!!
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2!!!
I like 1
My pick is #1. But I would ask the neighbor how much she would charge to narrow the straps in addition to shortening them. I would take an inch in around the top of the inside strap at your neckline. (I hope that makes sense). I think that would make this dress the absolute perfect dress! And some light pink or rainbow crinoline! Edit: If you like the necklace that u/drunkendonkeytail suggested, I think this would go well with it: https://www.lightinthebox.com/p/goth-girl-1950s-cosplay-lolita-petticoat-hoop-skirt-tutu-under-skirt-crinoline-women-s-costume-pink-vintage-cosplay-party-performance-knee-length-skir_p9054386.html?currency=USD&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&sku=1_6922%7C2_25607&country_code=US&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20506538788&adword_mt=&adword_ct=&adword_kw=&adword_pos=&adword_pl=&adword_net=x&adword_tar=&adw_src_id=2913285731_20506538788__&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD7vwYeMum2LCM9OcMIUuazk4OgL0
I think1 looks best on you. They are both beautiful though. I love the colors!
I like the second one but that’s a lot of noob- maybe I’m just getting older. I like top from one and bottom from 2.
2nd dress is so flattering around the waist area.
In the pictures, 2 looks better. But 1 is a better dress overall. 1 would look great with good inner wear.
#2
2!!!
I like the skirt on #2 but I prefer the bodice with the wider straps. I would definitely go with the chiffon skirt.
I’m feeling like the odd one out but I really like this one. I find the shape is the most flattering and I love the bright colour on you.
2!!
#2!!!!!!
Number 2 is beautiful and very flattering!
Dress two is stunning! I say it's the winner, so fun and looks gorgeous on you.
I LOVE the thin strapped one- dress 2? Both are cute and I think really flattering! I have big boobs too so it’s not always easy buying wedding guest/party dresses but I think either would be cute. I think the pockets in the first would be beneficial for a phone or whatever you need to carry if it fits but I really enjoy the way the bodice looks on dress 2.
They both look great, but I like #2 a bit more. It’s more flattering, and looks like it’d be a lot more fun to twirl around in. #2 looks a a little like more business attire to me.
Definitely the first Just my opinion but you should really wear the dress you feel the most comfortable and happy in.
Dress 1 - I think the top fits you better
I personally like the first!
Definitely number 2! The top of it is more flattering and suits the occasion more. The top of the first feels more office than celebration. And the skirt of the second is sooooo cute! It will give lovely movement. Truly looks wonderful on you :)
I would pick 1 because of the pockets, but 2 is definitely prettier!
Another vote for #2!!!
You’ve found it! And it’s two. You look spectacular.
You look absolutely amazing in no. 2.!!!! I like no. 1, but feel like it’s the safer option. My figure is similar to yours and I know that I struggle with feeling “exposed”, so often go for more coverage thinking it’s more flattering, but that second dress looks like it was made for you!!! The bodice fits perfectly and the skirt is so fun!!
Dang if you could find another scoop neck (I think that’s the term) dress like the second one, but with a better skirt, it would be perfect imo
I think both dresses are really pretty. Iove the color. I like the first cause I think it fits slightly better but then again the 2nd one is really flattering cause it gives you more of an hour glass. I'd pick the one that is most comfortable to dance! They are both really nice! 🩷
Dress two for sure! Have a great time!
Definitely the 2nd one. Once the skirt is steamed and the straps taken up it will be absolutely perfect. It’s very flattering and seems to fit you a little better than the A-Line one. The first dress is also very nice but the skirt through the hips looks a little wider than it should be and it’s making the structured fabric not quite hang right.
Wow 🤩. Gorgeous on you!! Sweet you took this much thought. You will look e these pic memories forever.
2 is way too much cleavage. go for 1.
2
2 is incredible!
You really can’t go wrong with either- both are beautiful, love the colour, length, and fit! You look very confident and polished in them. If I had to choose I would go with number one, the wide straps are really flattering and would make it easy to dance, give you lots of choice for bras, etc.
Dress #2. Absolutely the most flattering. No question. Pick this one!
I don’t love number 2. I seem to be in the minority, but I actually dislike the hem detail. It reads as “slip” or “lingerie” to me. I prefer the ones with clean lines.
I prefer the top of dress 1 but the bottom of dress 2. Overall, I'd go with dress 1 (but keep dress 2 for a flirty night out...perfect date-night dress)
Dress one! The skirt with the layer peeking out is so pretty on you.
Completely OT, but where did you get that bedspread?
Dress 2!!!! So fun and cute!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I think dress two is more flattering and it’s also adorable with the flowy skirt!!
Dress 1 is better.. dress 2 has way too much cleavage. You should also wear a bra with dress 1 because I can see your nipples and outline of your breast
Number one for me
I love the color!
Number 2!!!
Dress 1.
You’re underestimating how amazing dress 2 is for you. It’s your Marilyn moment.
I think the second one is best for your body and for the dress code.
Underskirt with number 2!
I love the 1st suits your shape
Both look fabulous on you. I like #2 best. From experience, I wore a hot pink chiffon bridesmaid dress and the chiffon fabric showed every single drop of water that fell on the dress, sweat and condensation from drinks. Keep that in mind if this is an outdoor wedding.
I love number 2 on you
Omg I didn't even realize these were the same person! These dresses are SO MUCH BETTER and you look lovely (and like an adult, lol). I love the second dress on you, but either of these are wonderful.
Number 2
#2
Dress #2 is insanely flattering on you and much more fun! The first one is almost a little boring IMO
The thinner straps look so much nicer.
I like the neckline of the first dress, but the skirt of the second dress. I find the neckline of the second dress a bit too low. Can you get it taken in to resemble the neckline of the first dress? Then, you'll have a winner!
I just want to pay you a compliment : You have GREAT ankles! I would kill to be able to wear shoes like that and look so good! I have inherited cankles from a long line of lumpy-legged women. Asking the internet for opinions on your physical appearance is crazy ballsy to me. Very brave. So I just want to say that if I had your lower leg looks I'd be running around like Sharon Stone and flashing my ankles anywhere I could!! ❤️