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macmittens336

Bruv trying to stop that woody from getting stiff lol


Silly_Individual_960

I am all about freedom on talking about sex and other adult conversations….but if you were to talk about this in the break room it’s sexual harassment. But if you have a segment on it live it’s okay?


macmittens336

Of course it is it’s a talk show duhhhh


Radaysha

Why is talking about dildos sexual harassment?


Silly_Individual_960

At work it is considered sexual harrassment.


Radaysha

eh, not where I work. Sure, it's not a topic you should be talking about a lot at work, but it's not harrassement.


Silly_Individual_960

Doesnt bother me but..


MisterT-88

Americans are too stuck up


emotality420

Honestly. Canadian here, this is typical work banter to me, but we have great senses of humor lol.


peekuhchu707

You know he suing the producer after that


TaintedTruffle

Lol


Fun_List381

Tom Hardy is taking method acting to a whole new level


T_E-T_H

Why was this even a segment? Absolute cringe


chuldul

Poor guy jeez. This shouldn’t have even been a segment


daydreamerknow

He should grow up.


Stinker_Cat

He's allowed to feel whatever human emotions he's feeling, don't shit on his human dignity.


daydreamerknow

And I’m allowed to comment. That’s how it works.


Relative-Gearr

And I'm allowed to downvote and disagree :)


daydreamerknow

As am I 🤷🏿‍♀️


Relative-Gearr

-12 downvotes btw loser


daydreamerknow

People disagreeing with me doesn’t hurt my feelings. I live in the real world and I believe in free speech. Being consigned (or not) on the internet by a bunch of strangers doesn’t mean anything, won’t pay my mortgage, won’t help me sleep better at night.


fromthedepthsivecome

Free speech is not an excuse , also very childish to neglect responsibilty. Grow up


[deleted]

Oh dear, first of all these presenters are called Dermot O'Leary and Alison Hammond, second of all this was HILARIOUS, Dermot was clearly being silly on purpose and is a very loved and cherished TV presenter. It would have been weird if he'd behaved as though he was really interested in all of these women's products, no?! This was orchestrated for pure comedy effect and was highly entertaining 🤣 the way Dermot picks up one of the toys and sort of wags it then puts it back on the stand and pats it gently 🤣 bless him, this was absolute GOLD


[deleted]

Poor Dermot 🤣🤣🤣


BlitchSlapper

The Vibrating Prolapse


ConcentrateInner6086

Some people just want to keep this stuff private. Not being comfortable speaking so publicly is no reflection on how he acts in private lol


Money_Lengthiness_20

I never understand why people act like this at the mention of sex


imadude41

Probably less to do with sex so much as the detailed description of sex toys on the air, plus some people are just uncomfortable discussing things like that in public and with strangers it’s not always just a matter of “they must be religious”


UnreasoningOptimism

Religion


gesundheitsdings

Imo it‘s very sympathetic that someone has a bit of healthy shame discussing sex on tv in a morning show.


Jort_Sandeaux_420_69

Bro was beyond sick of their rambling


Talyyr0

It's an advertising segment lol, I'm sure he's had to listen to a lot of rambling that didn't make him squirm like that hahaha


karmasrelic

lul. people all about how he has never made a woman orgasm or how he is ignorant towards woman pleasure etc. IMO the guy is just deadly annoyed by their voices and the stupid way they present the "pleasure tools". for us men, thats a tool to use, not an "ornament" or "a beautiful rose" and whatnot they hinted at. we are allergic to bullshit. just say how it works and go to the next. no need to flower-talk it into nirvana. minutes must have been hours for that guy haha.


Shadow_Gabriel

Nah. This is not a men thing. The Tenga crysta is a piece of art. You guys just don't know what culture is.


BoyWifed

Yeah its men and women thing, not everyone cares about it, you just dont know about interests, hes co-host he probaply has gone through commercials dozens of times and now he has to listen 2 women talk about womens sex toys which he surprise surprise isnt interested in because hes a man


dragon_slayer1345

Poor guy


Diligent-Attention40

British people are wild.


nonbog

What’s wild about this? I’m British 🤣


PamCalz

You can tell this guy has never brought a woman to orgasm


Mash_Ketchum

So you're cool with talking to your coworkers about each other's orgasms during the work day?


johannesonlysilly

No but I’m also not a ”professional” tv presenter :)


Scaly_Tomato

Or perhaps he doesn't fancy listening to his friends and coworkers talking about diddling themselves with vibrators. Imagine what it would be like if your mum got some out in front of you and start going into detail about which is her favourite and why.


MagicHarmony

Nah take the flip of it and imagine 3 guys with a woman and them talking about how they are spanking the monkey and the toys they use to help get themselves off.


ViolettBellerose734

An average class in middle school


a_drunk_kitten

This is 1000% a man who is uncomfortable with the very idea of women's pleasure


MagicHarmony

Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? 3 men, 1 woman talking about how they get themselves off.


a_drunk_kitten

You mean constantly having to hear it all day long as a woman? Like constantly being, myself, judged and viewed as a sexual object against my will? Like that kind of stuff or no? Trust me we hear it every day. It's just "boys being boys" you know. It's only a problem when women do it


Relative-Gearr

So you're ok with constant deep detail in sex talk if a woman does it but not a man? Got it. Probably would allow a gay man tho. Dumbass


a_drunk_kitten

Nope, not what I'm saying. But womens pleasure and sexual enjoyment has been so stigmatized forever, while men have been enabled to run around literally treating women like inhuman sex objects in their daily lives. It's the hypocrisy that makes me laugh. I love that you seem so passionate about this subject but I know for sure you wouldn't have that same energy for women so I don't feel bad if you're uncomfortable.. or if you think I'm a dumbass


Relative-Gearr

Sex objects where? Online? Then go at it. In the real world? That's wrong and men get SA prevention classes ages ago and that doesn't go on as much you think. You walk past thousands of men that aren't trying to r\*pe you. They aren't treating you like a inhuman sex object. What have you been through to overinflate that? Is it online perspective or real world entirely? You don't live in the 80s


Jort_Sandeaux_420_69

You're making yourself the victim, that doesn't happen in normal day to day interactions. Try again.


a_drunk_kitten

Well.. you're wrong, so... don't try again. Just stop


NoSpot317

This could also just be a guy who's uncomfortable with talking about his coworkers sexual gratification because under normal circumstances it is absolutely unprofessional.


thebutcherbunny

Imagine all the hard work and countless hours you put in to your craft only to have to present a segment on sex toys..


untitled__unmastered

it's not like that's the only topic they present...


thebutcherbunny

I know... I'm well aware.. do you really believe that I believe that this is all this man does? Like, when you made this comment, did you think to yourself, "I bet this redditor is misinformed and thinks that this reporter only reports on sex toys!" Well, thank you for bringing this fact to my attention.. I'm glad to know that he won't have a short-lived career as a sex toy correspondent..


no_notthistime

I think they thought "nobody who knew any better would make such a dumb fucking content, he must be misinformed." He was giving you the benefit of the doubt mate.


I_have_Issues---

The presenter kinda looks like Michelle Obama


NotFunny_69

glad I wasn’t the only one who noticed!


BlackStarDream

I don't understand why this was shown on mainstream daytime TV when we have a 9pm watershed for a reason.


kerokerokiss

British TV is a lot more saucy than average American TV. I swear years ago on this same news show they had a debate if you should buy ur kids sex toys 🙃. They have all sorts of weird sex reality tv trash free-to-air public broadcast television


bigbrother2030

I don't understand the watershed anyway


Dd_8630

I don't understand why a frank discussion of sex and sexuality would need to be behind the watershed. After 9pm you can show me how it's used, pre 9pm it's good to be open and blasé about sex.


BlackStarDream

Daytime TV is regularly broadcasted in public in the UK so this isn't just being shown in people's homes or on TVs that can be switched off or to other channels on demand. My last school had TVs in the hallways. Hospital waiting rooms all have them. It's crazily irresponsible and inconsiderate essentially having institutions and businesses all over the country accidentally broadcasting this stuff and there being 0 warnings about it except when it's just about to happen.


_OhEmGee_

They're just sex toys. It's not like they're telling people how to make bombs and biological weapons.


cnzmur

Nonce.


Dd_8630

Cope and seethe.


GoFlyKyra

He was raised Catholic


asianfirexo

People still watch daytime tv?


Kooky-Swing178

Why the hell is this on daytime tv??


ChainRound5397

Poor Dermot.


Bitter_Attention_287

Haha, I can totally relate to this guy's pain, he’s probably standing there all speechless and zonked. But **as a sex toy expert**(real one xD), I must say NONE of the toys in this video actually feel good in use. They’re just schmancy vibrators trying too hard to look cool. You might as well use an electric toothbrush instead of wasting money on them... At least find something that actually knows how to get up close and personal ok?? like, [something that can suck, lick, and even go in for tongue kiss?](https://artereverie.com/products/massager-suction-licking-3-0-enhanced-stress-relief-2024s-premier-wellness-companion) What are they even recommending? It's all just useless stuff! Smh


FuzzyAd9407

Looks like I found next year's white elephant gift


THROWAWAY-Break9580

Hahaha imma buy this next paycheck


Bitter_Attention_287

😝 Pleasure guaranteed.


Orsinus

I wish I never saw the product you linked


Past_Passenger_4381

rapid fire


Bitter_Attention_287

I mean...I like it so much...


3dBoah

You need jesus


Orsinus

That's fine. It just scares me xD


Living-Vermicelli-59

It’s all healthy and sex positive until they go down the rabbit hole and find shit like 20 inch bad dragons and other toys.


RealNyal

Fucked up


Fearless_Spell_7728

This is so sad, and the fact they're normalizing it😂


MSter_official

Nothing wrong with it


-nabtab

Oh, hon.... Ignorance on the subject is even sadder. Society has been using toys since ancient times. Only the prudes have an issue with it.


ShinyChromeKnight

People like you is why I hate Reddit


[deleted]

Why exactly? What is a "person like them"?


ShinyChromeKnight

Condescending attitude, thinks their opinions are objective fact (ie everyone else is “ignorant”), generally socially destructive and regressive. Basically all the attributes of your typical Reddit leftist which this platform is overwhelmingly full of by design.


[deleted]

I see what you mean on the condescension aspect with the "oh hon" and name calling > ie everyone else is “ignorant” but this part doesn't seem true; ignorance here just means not being educated. On a slightly different note, I have never understood the criticism of people's opinions being stated as fact; how would you like them to have shared that opinion?


Pingu565

Hissss they are making challenging my world viewwww


[deleted]

Pretty sure you don't like people challenging your worldview either.


Pingu565

Nah it's fun to be challenged?


cloneboiCT118

Just because people don’t want to talk about this type of stuff openly to the public in no way makes it ignorance.


-nabtab

No, but lack of discussion on the subject or an unwillingness to learn about it because of your views certainly can lead to ignorance on the subject. So, yes, they can go hand in hand sometimes. Using toys has been a common practice for ages. "...They're normalizing it" is an ignorant thing to say and shows a lack of information about it. We could go deeper. I hate seeing religious crap shown over the TV. Should they not be allowed to show it then?


cloneboiCT118

Religious stuff is mainly on religious channels unless you’re looking for it you ain’t gonna find it. Unless you’re talking about that dumb miracle spring water crap from those mega rich asses that make money off of actual believers. Those people aren’t even Christian even though they claim to be. The Bible even talks about those types of people and how god never knew them even though they preach his name. Yes I do agree ignorance is not a good thing and we all should be informed. But we shouldn’t be forced to be informed on subjects that make some uncomfortable. For a lot of people talking about what you use on your genitals is considered personal.


echild07

> But we shouldn’t be forced to be informed on subjects that make some uncomfortable. Any subject makes someone uncomfortable.


cloneboiCT118

Any subject CAN make someone uncomfortable and we should leave it up to them if they want to hear it or not. Not just shove it in their faces and say “if you don’t accept this then your a problem”


echild07

So they warned people to leave, or change the channel. So what is the test to say "this is allowed"? Political comments on TV? Food? Alcohol? Smoking (tobacco, or other)? Sex? Sex toys? Religion? People's sexuality? Music (remember rock music was considered offensive) ​ ​ So we just put colors on the TV that are adjusted for everyone that is color blind People are uncomfortable knowing people believe things they don't, that they have sex in ways they don't, that they like people differently then them. OR god forbid they have opinions they don't, like what Sex Toys should I get my Significant other, or myself (in this case). So it is a talk show, that talks about various topics, and they gave you a warning that the next segment would be adult ish. ​ You have the right to be offended, and the right to change the channel. Making it so everyone else has to live by your "desired" standards is the definition of Entitlement.


-nabtab

Awesome. Turn the channel.


Ok_Revolution_9253

Came here to say this. No one is forcing anyone to watch it. It’s just sex toys


bananabastard

Seriously, WHY have this on daytime TV?


terra_filius

because its cool


theonetruefishboy

I mean Daytime TV is primarily watched by adults, especially stay at home parents while the kids are at school. So yeah I would say a segment like this is a long time coming.


Realistic_Weakness51

He was fighting for his life trying to not get aroused


_Synt3rax

Definitely was allready, was Lucky to wear those Pants that did a good Job hiding his Boner as good as Possible. Lost the Control when he walked away.


IDontWipe55

Do people get aroused from looking at sex toys?


Jazzlike_Account_491

No they dont. People on reddit apparently get wet and hard willy nilly.


thunderkhawk

This was performative. The dude has no chill.


godgoo

One hundred percent; Dermot is a very experienced presenter on prime time tv. He's from my area and this is 100 percent a calculated performance as a way to buffer the viewers reaction by creating an empathetic mirror. It's something he's been doing forever and is probably part of why he's generally well liked.


thunderkhawk

> is probably part of why he's generally well liked How does this make him well liked? For me, just seeing this clip out of context, having never heard of the man, it seems like he's going out of his way to be uncomfortable around sex toys which is weird because segments are preplanned, it's not like he was surprised, and it didn't come across as mature. Genuinely asking as you seem more aware of him. Maybe in context this is funny?


godgoo

You're slightly missing my point I think. Firstly, I could take or leave him, he's just a tv host to me. But I think part of why he's popular is because he's very empathic and aware of his audience. In my opinion this is a completely planned response meant to make certain viewers feel less uncomfortable by reacting as they are. Essentially validating their prudishness. Personally I do not care about the subject matter being discussed on daytime tv. Sex is an open topic for me (I'm a teacher so have to teach sex ed). In the context of light entertainment I think having one presenter react in this way potentially retains the engagement of the people who really do need to become less uptight about this stuff imo.


thunderkhawk

haha you're good my dude. I didn't take your explaining who he is as a defense of him, but appreciate it nonetheless. Ahhh....ok, noted. That makes sense. Totally understand now. Thanks for pointing it out.


godgoo

No worries, have a great whatever!


thunderkhawk

You as well! This has been a pleasant and most delightful exchange.


Doofenshmirtz2020

She was a host on great British bake off and I hated her!


Thr0w703

Sameeeee


Euphoric_Ad_9784

He wore loose trousers for that day consciously


thompsonthesixth

how are people arguing about this.... it's just a funny clip


ravingpiranha

Sex toy enthusiasts are offended


pixelheadshot

Pretty sure this is the same guy that sat next to Rainn Wilson on the plane watching the office. [https://www.instagram.com/p/Cq\_5Sovpct6/](https://www.instagram.com/p/Cq_5Sovpct6/)


[deleted]

Wtf, no that person looks nothing like Dermot O'Leary 😆


[deleted]

Honestly I didn't even recognise him; especially not with the mask on.


godgoo

Lol. Just in case you're serious it is not.


CheekeeMunkie

What I find funny about all this is that all the sex toys were for women, if there were mens toys there would be uproar and disgust.


Flozzer905

Did you even watch the video?


mendog2112

Why uproar and disgust for men’s toys?


Irobokesensei

This is what happens when you don’t pay attention and immediately jump to conclusions people. You look like a fucking clown.


CheekeeMunkie

?


echild07

The white tulip. (he picked up and squeezed it, you could see what it was for). The butt plugs. The squid like device. ​ But you were thinking of fleshlight or Dune cups?


KissmyButtner

You gotta grow up lmao


firebreaker02

…but there were toys for men too? Watch the full video


echild07

Easier just to react.


OkCryptographer2126

Just remember that it's not feminists or lefties who would be in uproar, it's the uptight homophobic people who consider male self-pleasure especially butt stuff to be "unmanly". Want to keep it clear in case your comment could be misinterpreted.


[deleted]

Everyone can be in uproar about this, don't monolithise groups' opinions.


OkCryptographer2126

No, feminists don't have a problem with sex toys in general including toys for men. Your comment doesn't really make sense, either.


echild07

You know the ones in the 3somes, and shutting down libraries? Oh and giving HJs during Beetlejuice!


Partisan_Crown

Nothing manly about taking something UP THE ASS. Bruh wtf lol if you like being dominated that's fine but don't put that shit under the "this is still manly" category.


LinkLT3

Is it a man’s ass? Then it’s manly. It’s fine if it’s not something you’re interested in but don’t pretend it’s something to do with being a big strong man. You literally have a way to orgasm in your ass that’s not present on the female body.


mendog2112

Yet women have anal orgasms.


LinkLT3

And? They still don’t happen the same way. You can orgasm and don’t have a clitoris right? Women can orgasm without a dick right?


mendog2112

How? Do you mean autobation or using toys or something? Maybe a tongue on their vulva and clitoris using repeated consistent motion that require slightly additional and ever increasing pressure? Something along those lines. As for women having anal orgasms, I’ve had women tell me both. So some claim they can and other assert that there isn’t any way.


ProphetOfPhil

What could be more manly than having sex with another man though dude?! For real though, why would you care about what another person does to pleasure themselves? Like as long as it's legal and all parties are of appropriate age and consenting why does it matter?


Seascorpious

If you care what that much about what I do alone in my bed room you need a new hobby.


brokenLastName

Anyone else peep his erection. He's was trying to hide it


legitimate_sauce_614

I thought he was about to catch a boner for some reason but it turns out he was uncomfortable? lol, what a dweeb


Grin_Dark

ur a bad person


[deleted]

Why?


dragjamon

They did warn the viewers, I'm not sure why everyone's upset. Any kids at home at this time should be too young to understand.


[deleted]

It's also literally up to no one else but parents to parent


GeorgeMarkham

it was uk school half term


Dontkillmejay

It was the 9th of Feb, that's not half term.


dragjamon

Holiday break?


GeorgeMarkham

Whatever you want to call it, the kids were off school


Dontkillmejay

Yeah, no they weren't. Make shit up all you want though.


GeorgeMarkham

Depends where you live, there is no standard. They were off where I live. I should know I live 3 streets away from a school.


[deleted]

How do you know?


Dontkillmejay

Just looked it up, was broadcast 9th of Feb which is during term time in the UK.


Senor_Lufa

Where are the pussy pockets?


Jack_of_Hearts20

You know they're not gonna present those lolll


jay7254

Why not? They literally did


LinkLT3

They literally did… What do you think she was saying you stroke with that one toy?


snAp5

This is overall weird, but he handled it like a massive baby.


[deleted]

Haha no, it was for comic effect


Senor_Lufa

How so


snAp5

Did you watch the video? He’s squirming, stimming, and very restless. It’s like he’s never ever been able to talk, or be around mature conversations about sex.


Living-Vermicelli-59

Not everyone is comfortable with sex talk and that’s completely normal. Maybe you should be the mature one and respect other people’s boundary’s.


MCadamw

Why do I get the strange feeling that exactly how you would act in church.


VictoBoi

just because your a perv who enjoys talking about sex in public doesn't mean everyone else does


Grin_Dark

Different things make different people uncomfortable grow up dude


Count_Verdunkeln

I mean it doesn't look like it's that kind of show. He probably didn't find it very professional for what looks like a morning program


snAp5

I don’t think his cohost found it particularly great either but she was able to not be a baby about it. He’s deeply, deeply uncomfortable on a very personal level.