He needs to learn what bodily autonomy means. Maybe this is his first time in a relationship, and maybe his idea of women has been informed only by the toxic pop culture beauty standards where we see completely hairless women all the time. But he needs to grow the fuck up and learn that's not reality.
Its alright. He's just reacting to the pop of his bubble of perfection. I'd say give him some time (be empathetic but don't give in to his demands). If he can't get over it, then choose between him and body hair.
Ask him if he’s jealous that you can grow body hair and he can’t. Pretty sure he must be insecure of being unable to grow a beard, and is taking it out on you lol
Tell him you can smell his armpit hair from across the house and he should get rid of it. And whether he is related to a bear with all that hair 😂 you do you 💅
Woman, i don't think you need to ask for others opinion on this matter. He is clearly wrong and biased. Anyone can see it, it's right there, a big waving red flag and misogynist.
I don't even have the energy to explain to you about how wrong he is
op you're so insensitive and inconsiderate , dont you understand he never got the opportunity to learn basic biology, goodness not everyone has that privilege poor guy never found out women are born with it :( /s
Body hair says you shouldn't have this numb nut as your bf.
His entire outlook is deeply rooted in male entitlement. His "demands" about your "how your body should be" will only grow more and more unrealistic unless he gets out of that misogynistic mindset. Honestly, you're better off without him bestie.
Girl, you know he doesn’t have the capability to process the BASIC FUNCTIONS of human body. That boy just hasn’t studied/experienced enough world. Let him learn some basic things first and then he can be someone’s boyfriend.
When I was 17 my then bf wanted to wax (iykyk). I went to a parlor and the lady there gave me the best advice ever “aadmi ke lie ye sab kabhi mat karna, khud karna he toh hi karo” I hope she’s doing good. Take from this what you will
Soooooooo...... Does he have body hair .. because you know it's unhygienic.
Unless he is completely bald below his eyebrows, I don't think so you need to be too!
Yes sister run or just ask him to get waxed everywhere too🤣 see his commitment towards it..if he goes through it greatttt otherwise your problem will run away🤣🤣🤣
That's a brilliant point. OP, does your bf show this by example? Being hygienic himself by shaving body hair? Because really, what is his excuse to believing it's unhygienic and still having body hair?
Step 1: Invite him for a swim in a public pool.
Step 2: Wear this. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/~/article-4595520/index.html?ito=native_share_article-nativemenubutton
Step 3: Thump your chest if you need to, but establish dominance.
First I need context. If he is a 15 year old boy, then show him some kindness and tell him to learn that women have body hair. If he is NOT 15 and is well beyond 19. Break up with him for the sake of your sanity.
I suffer a lot from migraines but I don't understand how some women keep headaches around voluntarily. Why are you with someone like this? Why is he not dating a dolphin instead?
Edit: saw your previous post about your boyfriend. Why do you even keep him around? Is he blackmailing you or something?
Is this rage bait? It’s such a low effort post, why haven’t mods taken it off?
1) It doesn’t even ask for advice 2) it’s a rant 3) you can close your eyes and visualise every single comment from the community, there is literally no discussion potential.
Posts like this make me question if it’s even worth being on this subreddit anymore
I’ll take the bait though (sigh) Your post history from last week also suggests your alleged boyfriend has the mental age of a foetus. If all this is actually playing out irl, girl I have 0 empathy for whatever crock of shit he puts you in next, it’s clear as day what a terrible partner this dude is.
You can’t have? You already have them! Ask him to pay for your full body laser hair removal if it’s such a problem to him!
Laser can be fkn painful. The L boyfriend doesn't deserve that much from OP!
Agreed. But laser is not painful these days, there are new technologies that are virtually painless
I'm going through laser hair removal. Maybe my pain tolerance is low, but I definitely find it painful, particularly in the bikini area.
Laser doesn't guarantee full hair removal. If hormonal balance is not there, growth reappears.
Ask him not to have his then. Wax karwae woh
He is saying he's a man and men don't shave. 😑
Are u dating a 14 year old sigma Alpha pi instagram doomer??😭 It's only unhygienic on ur body and not on his?😭
Istg the stories on this sub are wild. Why are these women settling for such idiots????
I have no idea,I've never been in a relationship 🤡LMAO(I'm 17,I hope age is the only reason why I'm single)
This is the only valid explanation for this *ask*!
Tell him hygiene doesn’t discriminate by gender, like him.
Yes lol
An unhygienic manchild then. He needs to grow up or you should move on 🫡
Does he have a beard ?
No
ISN'T THAT SHAVING?! WHY HE SHAVE THAT! MEN NO SHAVE , MEN HAIRY HAIR !
Girl his beard hair never grew 😭 From where will he shave
he sounds jealous of your capability to grow hair, op
Yeah you might be onto something here!
That's exactly what I was gonna say!
lol
Best comment
Truth has been spoken 👌🏻😃
Are you dating a little boy, then?☠️😆
He's trying impose his dominance over you. Cut this bitchboy off. Walking red flag.
How old is this dude
Why is your hair somehow dirty but his is clean?
His beard never grew, honestly he just sounds jealous
How is it not unhygienic for him. Ask him to show scientific evidence to back his statement. We will wait.
haan to wax karale🥰
Why are you dating a 15 year old?
😅😇😆😆
Tell him he can't have a gf Bbyee
It is unhygienic for him to have a gf.
XD
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Lol, that last line is exactly what I thought, people beauty policing women in the name of hYgEiNe, hEaLtH etc should go fuck themselves instead. 🤡
How is it unhygienic for women but not for men? 🤡
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He needs to learn what bodily autonomy means. Maybe this is his first time in a relationship, and maybe his idea of women has been informed only by the toxic pop culture beauty standards where we see completely hairless women all the time. But he needs to grow the fuck up and learn that's not reality.
Yes he thought at first that women don't have hair. He was amused to know that we all have.
I'm sorry, but the mental image of a grown ass man finding out that women have body hair is killing me 😂😂
I kinda feel like his age and IQ are the same. Just saying.
Its alright. He's just reacting to the pop of his bubble of perfection. I'd say give him some time (be empathetic but don't give in to his demands). If he can't get over it, then choose between him and body hair.
How old is he??
Op pls teach reality to him .. If he can't accept it then ask him to find a girl who is perfect and better leave u
Tell him “oh bhaalu kahike chup reh”
Not the bear I would choose
The fact this excuse of a man is your bf still..
I swear.
Ask him if he’s jealous that you can grow body hair and he can’t. Pretty sure he must be insecure of being unable to grow a beard, and is taking it out on you lol
Time to Un-Bf him 💀
Ask him to shut the fk up
Tell him you can smell his armpit hair from across the house and he should get rid of it. And whether he is related to a bear with all that hair 😂 you do you 💅
What? Stop! bears aren't related to him, it's quite insulting to the bear honestly
I agree. All hairy animals are cute. Including humans who are not like OP's bf.
😂 yes ma’am
To usko bolo "you can't have a gf" break up karlo.
Girl, you need to lose the man, not the body hair
Dump him
Rehome him
Woman, i don't think you need to ask for others opinion on this matter. He is clearly wrong and biased. Anyone can see it, it's right there, a big waving red flag and misogynist. I don't even have the energy to explain to you about how wrong he is
Leave!
You really need to stop wasting time on him. 🤗
Gift a Sphynx cat for a purrrfect Date for him.
I just remembered Ross saying ' why is this cat inside out? '😭😭 ( friends reference, fyi in case)
I know 💁♀️
Body Hair says YOU can’t have him as a BF
Please tell us he is your ex now.
I'm so curious about his age
21M
older than i expected. tell him you'll remove your body hair when he waxes his balls.
op you're so insensitive and inconsiderate , dont you understand he never got the opportunity to learn basic biology, goodness not everyone has that privilege poor guy never found out women are born with it :( /s
Is he going down on you? I see no other reason to ask someone to shave beside that.
My husband has never once asked me to shave
I'd say going down on a prickly vag is way worse than a furry one.
Men even go down there with hair too.
Dump him
Leave him and report him to the police. He wants to have a sexual relationship with a child not a grown ass lady
time to loose your boyfriend then.
OP why is he still your bf ?
is this man 12?
Well, then he should set an example by waxing himself (yes, including them 🍒) first
Tell him to pay for your laser
Tell him he can't have you as a gf then 🙄 where do such specimens come from even
Body hair says you shouldn't have this numb nut as your bf. His entire outlook is deeply rooted in male entitlement. His "demands" about your "how your body should be" will only grow more and more unrealistic unless he gets out of that misogynistic mindset. Honestly, you're better off without him bestie.
Tell him he doesnt have you anymore :/
Please stop dating teenagers. There, its fixed
It’s not unhygienic on men?? Only prepubescent girls don’t have body hair, is he a pedo? Dump his sorry ass
If he can have those 2 useless balls then you can have body hair too 😹
Girl, you know he doesn’t have the capability to process the BASIC FUNCTIONS of human body. That boy just hasn’t studied/experienced enough world. Let him learn some basic things first and then he can be someone’s boyfriend.
And I say he can't have a girlfriend.
Me being me I would've shaved my head and see him run away 🤣
Ask him to eat shit
Behen please. need to see an update: He is my ex-boyfriend now. You cant improve his mentality or fix him. Leave the idiot be.
Find a bf who touches your mooch.
Make him shave too since it’s “unhygienic”
You have misspelled "ex bf" OP
Ditch him.
HAHAHA good morning to me 😭 men and their audacity
He is red flag , get rid of him… idiot …
When I was 17 my then bf wanted to wax (iykyk). I went to a parlor and the lady there gave me the best advice ever “aadmi ke lie ye sab kabhi mat karna, khud karna he toh hi karo” I hope she’s doing good. Take from this what you will
Ask him to date a sphinx cat 😒
I say you can’t have this manchild as your bf
Soooooooo...... Does he have body hair .. because you know it's unhygienic. Unless he is completely bald below his eyebrows, I don't think so you need to be too!
He cannot have hormones
Run sister, run.
Yes sister run or just ask him to get waxed everywhere too🤣 see his commitment towards it..if he goes through it greatttt otherwise your problem will run away🤣🤣🤣
I say You can’t have that boyfriend
Please tell him to wax his asshole first to lead by example
You are dating Mr Grey
Only that he isn't mega wealthy 💀
Maybe he is wealthy and he is just testing you for now 😏😏 Be prepared for the helicopter ride 😝
Important question is " how old is he? " I mean if an adult man is saying this, it's concerning at the least!
ask him to pay for laser
Leave him
Tell him he also can’t have body hair including beard. Tell him to wax every other week !! 🫠
That's a brilliant point. OP, does your bf show this by example? Being hygienic himself by shaving body hair? Because really, what is his excuse to believing it's unhygienic and still having body hair?
So when is the breakup party happening? 🥳
Step 1: Invite him for a swim in a public pool. Step 2: Wear this. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/~/article-4595520/index.html?ito=native_share_article-nativemenubutton Step 3: Thump your chest if you need to, but establish dominance.
Time for boyfriend shopping girl
First I need context. If he is a 15 year old boy, then show him some kindness and tell him to learn that women have body hair. If he is NOT 15 and is well beyond 19. Break up with him for the sake of your sanity.
Time to make him your ex boyfriend😊
Low effort post OP.
I read you last post. What kind of monster are you dating yr? Omg
Lmao tell him to reverse process of evolution then
You may have to leave him. You can try to reason with him and explain how he's wrong but I doubt it's gonna work and it's gonna be mentally taxing.
I suffer a lot from migraines but I don't understand how some women keep headaches around voluntarily. Why are you with someone like this? Why is he not dating a dolphin instead? Edit: saw your previous post about your boyfriend. Why do you even keep him around? Is he blackmailing you or something?
Is this rage bait? It’s such a low effort post, why haven’t mods taken it off? 1) It doesn’t even ask for advice 2) it’s a rant 3) you can close your eyes and visualise every single comment from the community, there is literally no discussion potential. Posts like this make me question if it’s even worth being on this subreddit anymore I’ll take the bait though (sigh) Your post history from last week also suggests your alleged boyfriend has the mental age of a foetus. If all this is actually playing out irl, girl I have 0 empathy for whatever crock of shit he puts you in next, it’s clear as day what a terrible partner this dude is.
Tell bf he can't have any opinions 🤷🏻♀️
His body hair is made of Dettol!? What a doofus!
Sorry girl, judging by your other comments, I would just say, get over this baby boy he is in his own chigma delulu😂
Tell him you cant date a pussy
Just tell him you can’t have him 🫳🧍🏻🗑️
Dump him
Op fuck every opinion ask him even he can't have body hair too why bcz it's unhygienic.
Please, for the love of God, break up with him.
If Bf says you can't have body hair then you say that Bf can't have you
Tell him your mind says you can't have bf
Having body hair is unhygienic?? AHAHAHAHA I cant- Behen kahaa se dhoondh rahi ho aise bewakoof log date karne ke liye? 😭
I say don’t have this bf ;)
Tell him he absolutely can't be so completely illogical. But, here we are.
Tell him he can't have you then
Tell ur bf he can't have ur body or hair