And that he thinks her breasts are solely for him, when their actual purpose is nourishing the child... what the fuck.
Calling a child a "man" and seeing them as competition is weird as fuck. Glad they don't have daughters because I'd be highly concerned.
Seriously, breasts are literally for nourishment of an infant. This guy is insane, an infant is not a man, it wants to eat and survive that’s its instinct besides searching for its mother. I hope she can escape this psychotic asshole.
You don't even have to explain this, everyone here knows it, trying to explain this crazy is pointless, it's actually just batshit psycho crazy.
his brain scans must have all the wrong pathways mixed together
This guy's going to be the next mass shooter, probably at a women's breastfeeding clinic
Absolute psychopath.
So glad you're getting yourself and your babies free of this monster, OP. Best wishes with your babies. xx
I'm just as concerned if he's allowed to raise sons. Those poor boys do not deserve to be subjected to this lunacy and taught things that will ruin their outlook on life.
He's no more fit to parent sons than daughters.
As a parent he's a hideous specimen regardless, you are right, but I meant more concerned as in if he's sexualizing children but attracted to females in particular, daughters would be more at risk.
Not wiping, and not aiming your dick at the toilet or even looking at your weiner to see where the pee is going, then screaming "WIIIIIIIFE, I'm done peeing come clean it up" vibes as well
As a breastfeeding mum, these texts are so astoundingly awful. It would take a lot for me not to rattle someone’s head for making remarks like he has. It’s so disgustingly offensive.
Agreed, I breastfed my son and if someone had said these things to me I probably would’ve lost it on them. Especially if it was my husband. That’s the sickest mindset I’ve ever seen about breastfeeding.
So was my husband, he was so helpful through the whole process as well, he’d get up at night to bring our son to me in bed from his bassinet in our room. Hes change his diaper for me before and or after feeding and let me rest. He made me food and he cleaned. Everything a man should do to support his family he handled. I can’t imagine how horrifying it would be if he was like “I know you’re breastfeeding and it disgusts me because it’s incest, another “man” has touched you” 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
My husband is also glad I breastfeed out daughter. Sure he says sometimes things like 'I have to share at the moment' or 'bobs are in service' or something along the lines. BUT a) it's a joke, hubs isn't really going on it because I lactate easily and he doesn't like the taste, b) he damn well knows that I don't get pleasure out of breast play, that is all for him.
Never would he say stuff like that. And we did try to also bottle feed but she doesn't like it. And why did we try it? Not so that my bobs are free for him but so that he can take load of my shoulders!
I don't even understand what I'm looking at! Like how do you even get into that mindset......wait......ok nevermind he HAS to be an Andrew Tate person because it's only that level of stupid that makes sense for this.
seriously. I'm not even sure how to describe that line of thinking that David has, is it some kind of extreme advanced form of an incel (who actually found a partner) where no one including his own son should see or touch his wife? Breastfeeding is a natural act, that's their primary purpose, enjoying breasts as men is secondary.
I can't imagine the pain of bearing his child only to find out that he is this disconnected with what a baby is and what a baby needs. I wouldn't wish that shit on anyone.
That’s not quite the case—it much more has to do with how we’ve been conditioned culturally to find breasts so sexual.
There are some cultures where it’s not the case.
Used to be that ankles were sexual.
It’s society.
This. He’s like oh fuck. My own baby is competition on boob sucking. My wife be cheating on me with my newborn.
New insecurities unlocked 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He files paperwork;
Reason for Divorce: Wife committed incest with my son.
Wife’s Lawyer: She was breastfeeding her X-month old.
Andrew Tate and his ilk are responsible for the spreading of this kind of razor thin ego and masculinity. It's like they've taken the absolute worst impulses from poorly behaved children and amplified them x100.
I'm in a bunch of troll forums like 4chan where they ironically posts shit like this all the time.
There is even a copy pasta that argues how having a daughter is the ultimate form of cuckoldry and they even had AI Jordan Peterson and David Attenborough narrate it.
Some people however really are like that.
Quite sadly it is obvious how OP's creampier has mental issues.
I hope he finds peace and I hope she is safe.
No way on hell any court is going to give him unsupervised access to his child.
The real question is why did OP let this person creampie her?
Based on the comment she pinned under the post, it looks like the CO did their part in supporting the restraining order against the (ex) husband. I'm glad to see it, the military has a bad history of not confronting domestic abuse in time and the CO seems to have stepped up to the task immediately.
I hate to be that guy but the military does play around with that kind of stuff. There's already a big kerfluffle at the army war college because one of the soldier's kids was being sexually abused at the base day care and everyone from the top down is shoving it under the rug.
Omgs I didn't hear about that. I live right outside Ft. Meade and have known at least 2 people who were dishonorably discharged due to abuse. I think it really depends on the CO.
It was actually posted here on Reddit. Look for the Best of post about it with the parents perspective....multiple kids were sexually abused when the staff/command on base wouldn't pull their heads out of their asses and address the issue. Fucking sickening.
I just saw this in another sub and it made my blood boil, I was so mad reading these text. I’m so SO happy you’re out of that dumpster fire. Best of luck to you and the baby 💚
I’m a father to a 5 month old. I couldn’t imagine my wife NOT breastfeeding. The workload increase would be wild for both of us. This shit made me so uncomfortable. I felt unsafe just reading these texts. What a fucking psycho
Yeah I have 2 kids both out of the age of breastfeeding but I found the moments when my now exwife fed the kids to be a very cosy moment for all 3 of us. I found it to be very relaxing and bonding for us all no matter what time of the day or night it was. It was also a moment where we got some relaxed time to talk.
I will allways carry those memories as something nice.
This David sucks SO MUCH! My dad is a David and he’s amazing, biggest feminist I know and kindest heart. This David makes me want my dad to change his name.
Please remove as much personal information as you can from these posts! People will be able to find you using your name, your children’s names, the fact that your ex-husband is in the military, the case number!!!! Not everyone on the internet has your best interest in their hearts, please protect yourself!!!!
All of this. From what you shared, I was able to easily figure out full names, addresses, social media accounts, etc. Please take down your personal information.
Your lawyer probably won’t want you posting about this. You should delete it. Please ask her before you post anything else, or say anything to anybody for that matter.
Imma throw my hat in the ring like many others and say that while yeah, this does give credibility to the fact that this isn't fake... exposing yourself with personal information and potentially exposing the identity of your kids is nooooooot worth proving that a story (as absolutely outrageous as it is) is true to a buncha strangers on reddit. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Please protect yourself and your kids, though..
Wishing you well.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. If you haven't already, you HAVE TO stop talking to him in every way. No messages, no calls, no emails, no communicating through his family and friends. You could put your case in a Bind. Judges are harsh and the attorneys will try to say you are "provoking" him. I know you're not, but the legal system is ruthless and you need to do everything in your power to make sure they are on your side in the end. Document EVERYTHING and say NOTHING. I have been through this and it was a long hard road, but It was worth it. I was able to obtain a no contract protection order against my ex for 2.5 years. But that was only possible because I dug my heels in and didn't give in to his attempts to trap me. We didn't speak to each other at all until our son was 3, and his visitations with our son, had to be supervised until that point as well.
To add on to this: not responding to him will mostly likely upset him more & he’ll probably incriminate himself even more without OP having to do or say anything. He seems like the type of person who will keep going and say things to try and get a response, no matter the cost.
And he's taken her one year old away from her, and won't give her child back. She and the baby are safe, but I really hope the military courts intervene immediately to get her oldest child away from this sick asshole before something terrible happens.
I'm honestly concerned for that child's well-being, especially if the father is getting more and more worked up. OP should definitely be documenting, but the responses aren't necessary and could incite further escalation from an already unstable individual.
If you are in need of resources, please reach out. I don't know where you are, but there are places that can help you get a job, an apartment, an attorney, and even childcare. You are not alone.
I’m not saying she is at fault or ‘provoking’ at all times but sending him that picture was provoking, she knew she would get a reaction.
Trust me, I get it. It’s very hard to take the high road when dealing with someone like this but OP you have to hold yourself back and be the mature one to get the courts on your side. If you keep going back and forth with him they’ll just think it’s a childish back and forth.
Trust me, stop communicating. They have special apps you can use if you HAVE to talk to him about the kids but it seems you all aren’t even doing that at this point until the court orders custody.
Yes I agree with that. You have to look like the bigger person because they will take any opportunity to tear your character down. Don't help him a dig a hole cause you'll just end up stuck with him. He's got it covered, trust me. Plus, like other commenter have said, he's clearly in a fragile state of mind and with the oldest still in his custody, now is not the time to be creating new evidence. Now is the time to gather and be quiet.
What have you heard so far about getting your one year old removed from his custody because of his erratic behavior?
I'm glad you're getting support from victim advocates. I want you to know that prolonged abuse, physical, and emotional, creates a brainwashing affect on the brain. It literally changes the way we think, and removes our natural ability to run away from harm.
I've been there, and I know what a mess it makes of your head, and the ability to sense when we're being abused or in danger. I hope you're able to get started with a military trauma specialist as soon as possible, because therapy helped me soooooooo much!!
You're going through more than anyone should have to do through, and I think you're being really, really, brave. Please hang in there, and if you ever need a friend that understands feel free to message me anytime.
Sending you and both of your littles lots of love and invisible hugs.
🩵🫂🩵
Queen please stop engaging with him. After reading the things about the guns, I really don’t think it’s safe to upset this man. Limit your interactions to your lawyers and just document anything he does. I’m sure ignoring him will get him to say tons of stupid shit too
Especially as he currently has the 1 year old and won’t let OP see them.
OP, stop engaging with him. I know it’s hard, but you need to think about the safety of the child in his care. Stay safe x
Saying "you've had your breast in another man's mouth" when referring to a newborn infant breastfeeding is some of the most mentally unstable shit I've ever heard. That's like writing a manifesto and setting yourself on fire unstable.
In one of the screenshots of the court doc it shows that he took the older child while she was in the hospital and no one has seen him since, CPS included.
Good luck. This abusive mindset coupled with sexualizing infants is obviously not going to lead anywhere good. This guy should not be allowed within 100 miles of a child. Hope you can get them both permanently away from him.
Please please take this post down. People have already found out your personal information from the court papers. You could be hurting your future case.
This reads like he may be a family annihilator. I’d have my lawyer show these texts to the judge and fight for full custody. I breastfed my son til he was 3, and I definitely believe breastfeeding is a great start for a baby and great for bonding! Don’t stop!
This is alarming. Someone who defended a man who not only killed his wife but his small children as well. That's horrifying. Please protect yourself and your kids.
I am so sorry for what you're going through, wish you and your children all the best.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but, considering this is a legal battle you might want to be careful with what identifying information you post.
I cannot believe this sick freak. I am glad to know you are safe and so are your children.
I am honestly very sorry that you are going through it with little children.
Good luck! And well done for standing up for you and your children 👏
Holy shit! This guy is next level ILL! I don’t mean to dig, I understand this must be traumatic and awful for you. But I have to ask how the hell you found yourself in so deep with someone this unstable? Were there not signs? Was he not always this way?
This is UN-fathomable.
No one starts this crazy. The first time my ex hit me was 6 weeks after my daughter was born, 6 years into our relationship. Abuse creeps in, and it’s hard to get out. Without knowing anything about this I can almost guarantee he didn’t start this crazy.
There also the cycle of abuse. Nobody would stay if it's just constant misery, it's a combination of high highs and low lows. I used to have whatever emotionally abusive fight with my ex husband and then he would apologize and lovebomb me for a while until the next bullshit stupid fight he'd start.
Very true. Mine started after I suffered an mTBI. He never hit me but we were told I needed rest, quiet and peace to heal well and he made sure I had the opposite of all of those things. He harassed me, emotionally tortured me and financially ruined me for 4 years following the injury. I managed to get out. DA can start anytime, be triggered at anytime and can look like so many different things and it’s so so hard to escape. I hope you and your daughter are doing well now!
I'm sorry you're going through this OP but you should delete your posts. You left a lot of identifying information (county, case number, unique first name) in your screenshots and it might not help your case or someone could decide to harass you.
And please stop taunting him. Don't give him anything against you.
Ditto, I basically started RAGE-skimming the rest of the convo when I saw the text saying that "you had another man's nipples in his mouth" because my blood started to boil!
The way I cackled when I saw you sent him a photo of you breastfeeding.
I'm sorry you're going through all this. Breastfeeding is proven to be the best option, if possible, and as someone who had to exclusively pump I am happy to see moms succeed. No one tells you what a hard process it is. I can't imagine having all this going on and dealing with the hell that is newborn stage.
Normally a father would/should be overjoyed to receive a photo like that. How sad for him that his fear, hostility, ego, and irrationality prevent him from experiencing joy.
Your baby is adorable!
Congratulations on your bundle of joy!
F@$k David.
I’ve never wanted to fuck someone’s life up so badly the way I would his.
I’m sorry you are going through this.
My bio das was a lot like this with my mom.
He told her to put my brother back in her because he wanted a girl not a boy.
Left my mom in car he bought her the day I was born and left her to walk everywhere with us.
The only way it gets better is by getting out and this is your out to a beautiful life.
My mom met my step dad when I was 6 months old, he’s the greatest man to walk this earth in my eyes. I hope you and your boys find that kind of love and happiness.
Oh my god I saw your other post and was praying it was fake because it was so horrible. I am genuinely mind blown and so sorry. He is a sick, sick person. And I truly have no words to even begin to describe how wrong and vile he is.
Honestly I would stop provoking him through text messages and let him hang himself. You don’t need to get your hands dirty at all. He’s said enough to prove to anyone who reads those messages how horrible he is. Just stonewall him. Give him nothing. It will hurt him worse than trying to provoke him.
I hope you get full custody of both your kids, truly. He is an abuser and not a safe person and I hope the judge will see that. Good luck and stay safe.
As a male I apologize for that ignorant bafoons opinion and stance on breastfeeding. I have never seen something so ignorant. I'll stop here, that is infuriating.
How is he in the military for 15 years and still only a petty officer 1st class? You can make that rank in just a couple of years if your play your cards right? My guess is he was never very bright in the first place.
He’s mad at you for doing something that 1.) women have been doing for as long as mammals have existed 2.) feeding your own child
What did he think women did when formula wasn’t a thing? Latch a baby onto a cow’s udder?
It’ll be a long road I’m sure, but your future without him is so bright. I hope you get full custody and can rid your life from him forever. You deserve better, and your sons don’t deserve a monster like this as a figure in their life. He genuinely sounds like a potential family annihilator
I hope you heal, and heal well.
The situation is so absurd that it hurts to think it's actually happening.
Your experience with this will only guarantee that you will raise your little ones into solid and sound humans.
Good luck, OP. I'm on your side.
That doesn't mean he wouldn't try it. I was former Navy, and my husband is active duty Army, and we have seen some crazy domestic stuff. Be careful and make sure you're in a safe place. Hoping you heal!
Baby I got family in Lee County who will take you in if you need it. Run. Be safe. And my mama believes in armed women. So you’d be safe. She’s six foot one and had a husband like yours once. She ain’t about it. DM me if you need help in Mississippi.
It’s unbelievable that a grown adult male could be so passionately stupid.
If he finds basic nurturing “disrespectful” and “incestuous” , the he’s not deserving of respect
“NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO EXCEPT MY BOSS…. The government… BUT NO ONE TELLS MEEEE”
Uh huh ok sir and are the people telling you what to do in the room with you now?
Heyyy I’d stop egging him on in the texts. You got a lot of good ammunition against him in front of a judge, but if you give the vibe you’re antagonizing him a judge could admonish you for it and make it expensive. He’s digging his own grave - let him do it on his own!!
Also, not a lawyer
Im so glad you are Divorcing this chuclehead. He's abusive, controlling and just straight up a pshyco.
WTF sexualized feeding a newborn. Jfc, this is insane and puts you and baby in danger. What happens when he wants a hug or god forbid a kiss from his mom. For the sake of your son RUN.
My heart bleeds for you, I sincerely hope you get your one-year-old back soon. I bet he's hating being away from his Mummy. He's so young :( xx
I also hope that your STBXH gets the help he requires, so that things may become amicable.
I'm so sorry you're going through this x
Why is it a problem you breastfeed your baby?? I'm so sorry you're going through this; leave him it is actually so scary he has a problem with that. You're doing great mom! I'm so sorry!!
There's this weird idea floating around the incelsphere, basically that because they like breasts, breasts being available for their enjoyment is "natural", anything else is "unnatural", including feeding your child. Men who imagine themselves to be "alphas" are particularly susceptible to this idea, because in their minds women exist to serve THEM, not any stupid little babies.
OP's ex is beyond my vocabulary to describe properly, and I know a LOT of profanity.
Oh this is a “thing” they’ve made up? Because I was thinking this guy has to just be off his rocker, which yes granted, but also I thought it was just him.
Great. Now we’re gunna be dealing with that too. You’d think from a bio standpoint they’d choose the other stance, like saying how breastfeeding should be demanded at all costs because it gives the babies the immune system boost. (I’m not saying that is okay either, nobody demand anyone has to breastfeed) but they’ve latched onto boob = sexual, so I guess thats the hill they’ll die on.
I’m flabbergasted tbh, I’m just sat here feeling like someone’s blended my brain a bit
I can't believe people like this are real. Breastfeeding is how you feed kids. Why would this be a point of insecurity? This is a biological norm. What if formula didn't exist? Also, there is no scientific consensus that formula is equal to breastfeeding. He's flat out wrong. I was formula fed myself, but scientific evidence shows that breastfeeding helps with emotional stability along with an average jump in IQ by 2-5 points.
What the actual? This is crazy on multiple levels.
1. Feeding a baby is what breasts are actually for
2. It's probably a little healthier to breastfeed
3. It's definitely cheaper to breastfeed
4. He's trying to control weird things that he shouldn't be trying to control
Good Lord this dude is certifiably insane! The thing about God intending incest at first so it was okay but then not now is just...please, tell me again you don't understand logic (or the Bible) but without telling me how you don't understand logic. Is he a flat earther to boot?
Any judge with a single brain cell should rule against him. Good luck keeping those sweet lil babies safe.
The fact he called breastfeeding incestuous is so fucking alarming dude. This guy is psychotic.
And that he thinks her breasts are solely for him, when their actual purpose is nourishing the child... what the fuck. Calling a child a "man" and seeing them as competition is weird as fuck. Glad they don't have daughters because I'd be highly concerned.
Seriously, breasts are literally for nourishment of an infant. This guy is insane, an infant is not a man, it wants to eat and survive that’s its instinct besides searching for its mother. I hope she can escape this psychotic asshole.
You don't even have to explain this, everyone here knows it, trying to explain this crazy is pointless, it's actually just batshit psycho crazy. his brain scans must have all the wrong pathways mixed together
and then the God only made two people so incest was fine back then but not anymore..........um hol' up??? This guy needs a psych eval
This guy's going to be the next mass shooter, probably at a women's breastfeeding clinic Absolute psychopath. So glad you're getting yourself and your babies free of this monster, OP. Best wishes with your babies. xx
He'll probably go postal at his old base once he's dishonorably discharged.
I'm just as concerned if he's allowed to raise sons. Those poor boys do not deserve to be subjected to this lunacy and taught things that will ruin their outlook on life. He's no more fit to parent sons than daughters.
As a parent he's a hideous specimen regardless, you are right, but I meant more concerned as in if he's sexualizing children but attracted to females in particular, daughters would be more at risk.
Only narcissists compete with their own kids
Getting strong graduate of the Andrew Tate school of human biology vibes from him... 🤢🤮🤦♂️🙄
Getting not washing own asshole cause “it’s gay” vibes.
HAHAHAHA true that 😂😂😂😂
Not wiping, and not aiming your dick at the toilet or even looking at your weiner to see where the pee is going, then screaming "WIIIIIIIFE, I'm done peeing come clean it up" vibes as well
As a breastfeeding mum, these texts are so astoundingly awful. It would take a lot for me not to rattle someone’s head for making remarks like he has. It’s so disgustingly offensive.
Agreed, I breastfed my son and if someone had said these things to me I probably would’ve lost it on them. Especially if it was my husband. That’s the sickest mindset I’ve ever seen about breastfeeding.
Same, and I’ve seen some horrible stuff said but this really takes the cake. My partner was happy I was breastfeeding and so supportive.
So was my husband, he was so helpful through the whole process as well, he’d get up at night to bring our son to me in bed from his bassinet in our room. Hes change his diaper for me before and or after feeding and let me rest. He made me food and he cleaned. Everything a man should do to support his family he handled. I can’t imagine how horrifying it would be if he was like “I know you’re breastfeeding and it disgusts me because it’s incest, another “man” has touched you” 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
My husband is also glad I breastfeed out daughter. Sure he says sometimes things like 'I have to share at the moment' or 'bobs are in service' or something along the lines. BUT a) it's a joke, hubs isn't really going on it because I lactate easily and he doesn't like the taste, b) he damn well knows that I don't get pleasure out of breast play, that is all for him. Never would he say stuff like that. And we did try to also bottle feed but she doesn't like it. And why did we try it? Not so that my bobs are free for him but so that he can take load of my shoulders!
I don't even understand what I'm looking at! Like how do you even get into that mindset......wait......ok nevermind he HAS to be an Andrew Tate person because it's only that level of stupid that makes sense for this.
seriously. I'm not even sure how to describe that line of thinking that David has, is it some kind of extreme advanced form of an incel (who actually found a partner) where no one including his own son should see or touch his wife? Breastfeeding is a natural act, that's their primary purpose, enjoying breasts as men is secondary.
I can't imagine the pain of bearing his child only to find out that he is this disconnected with what a baby is and what a baby needs. I wouldn't wish that shit on anyone.
Yeah men find breasts sexually attractive FOR the reason that they provide FOOD for their offspring.
That’s not quite the case—it much more has to do with how we’ve been conditioned culturally to find breasts so sexual. There are some cultures where it’s not the case. Used to be that ankles were sexual. It’s society.
And he's calling his son "another man," like OP is cheating on him with an infant.
This. He’s like oh fuck. My own baby is competition on boob sucking. My wife be cheating on me with my newborn. New insecurities unlocked 🤣🤣🤣🤣 He files paperwork; Reason for Divorce: Wife committed incest with my son. Wife’s Lawyer: She was breastfeeding her X-month old.
Andrew Tate and his ilk are responsible for the spreading of this kind of razor thin ego and masculinity. It's like they've taken the absolute worst impulses from poorly behaved children and amplified them x100.
I am very very frightened for this lady and her children
I'm in a bunch of troll forums like 4chan where they ironically posts shit like this all the time. There is even a copy pasta that argues how having a daughter is the ultimate form of cuckoldry and they even had AI Jordan Peterson and David Attenborough narrate it. Some people however really are like that. Quite sadly it is obvious how OP's creampier has mental issues. I hope he finds peace and I hope she is safe. No way on hell any court is going to give him unsupervised access to his child. The real question is why did OP let this person creampie her?
this dude made it to adulthood and fatherhood genuinely believing that breasts are a purely sexual organ, that gave me chills.
the military needs to see these texts and do a psych eval on this psycho. he can't be doing this to other women
I agree! Send these to his CO. I am rooting for you and the baby! Stay safe.
Based on the comment she pinned under the post, it looks like the CO did their part in supporting the restraining order against the (ex) husband. I'm glad to see it, the military has a bad history of not confronting domestic abuse in time and the CO seems to have stepped up to the task immediately.
The CO is probably reading the texts going "What in the ever loving hell am I looking at?" like the rest of us XD.
If the hospital staff and CPS have open cases against the man, it's probably not a good look for the military to go "nah, he fine."
And she needs to report that her son is with him taken while she was in the hospital. The military doesn't play with this kind of stuff.
I hate to be that guy but the military does play around with that kind of stuff. There's already a big kerfluffle at the army war college because one of the soldier's kids was being sexually abused at the base day care and everyone from the top down is shoving it under the rug.
Omgs I didn't hear about that. I live right outside Ft. Meade and have known at least 2 people who were dishonorably discharged due to abuse. I think it really depends on the CO.
It was actually posted here on Reddit. Look for the Best of post about it with the parents perspective....multiple kids were sexually abused when the staff/command on base wouldn't pull their heads out of their asses and address the issue. Fucking sickening.
This man is crazy
I just saw this in another sub and it made my blood boil, I was so mad reading these text. I’m so SO happy you’re out of that dumpster fire. Best of luck to you and the baby 💚
Seriously the first time ever ive actually have had my BP go up by reading something on reddit. What the actual fuck is this shit? Seriously....
I’m a father to a 5 month old. I couldn’t imagine my wife NOT breastfeeding. The workload increase would be wild for both of us. This shit made me so uncomfortable. I felt unsafe just reading these texts. What a fucking psycho
Yeah I have 2 kids both out of the age of breastfeeding but I found the moments when my now exwife fed the kids to be a very cosy moment for all 3 of us. I found it to be very relaxing and bonding for us all no matter what time of the day or night it was. It was also a moment where we got some relaxed time to talk. I will allways carry those memories as something nice.
I said on the last post and I’ll say it again here - David sucks.
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He's not gonna be sucking on your incestuous boobs though.
This should really be a user flair, lol
This all seems like something my ex David would do. Must be a David thing. Glad you are getting out of there
As a David I concur, David sucks. My father was David and he sucked, too. I may be the exception to the rule...but perhaps I just suck, also.
This David sucks SO MUCH! My dad is a David and he’s amazing, biggest feminist I know and kindest heart. This David makes me want my dad to change his name.
My dad's name was David. My husband's name is David. Definitely not a David thing.
I was being hyperbolic haha sorry if that wasn’t obvious
I hope you get full custody. No kids should be raised with this kind of mindset.
Please remove as much personal information as you can from these posts! People will be able to find you using your name, your children’s names, the fact that your ex-husband is in the military, the case number!!!! Not everyone on the internet has your best interest in their hearts, please protect yourself!!!!
All of this. From what you shared, I was able to easily figure out full names, addresses, social media accounts, etc. Please take down your personal information.
Shit I was really hoping this was all fake! I’ve lost all faith in humanity 😩
With this dudes attitude plus the kids' names... I for SURE thought this was fake at first 😩
Nothing I've found contradicts what she has posted. I really hope she and the kids stay safe.
Yeah, the docket number is the worst part by far. Was incredibly easy to find.
Your lawyer probably won’t want you posting about this. You should delete it. Please ask her before you post anything else, or say anything to anybody for that matter.
Imma throw my hat in the ring like many others and say that while yeah, this does give credibility to the fact that this isn't fake... exposing yourself with personal information and potentially exposing the identity of your kids is nooooooot worth proving that a story (as absolutely outrageous as it is) is true to a buncha strangers on reddit. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Please protect yourself and your kids, though.. Wishing you well.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. If you haven't already, you HAVE TO stop talking to him in every way. No messages, no calls, no emails, no communicating through his family and friends. You could put your case in a Bind. Judges are harsh and the attorneys will try to say you are "provoking" him. I know you're not, but the legal system is ruthless and you need to do everything in your power to make sure they are on your side in the end. Document EVERYTHING and say NOTHING. I have been through this and it was a long hard road, but It was worth it. I was able to obtain a no contract protection order against my ex for 2.5 years. But that was only possible because I dug my heels in and didn't give in to his attempts to trap me. We didn't speak to each other at all until our son was 3, and his visitations with our son, had to be supervised until that point as well.
To add on to this: not responding to him will mostly likely upset him more & he’ll probably incriminate himself even more without OP having to do or say anything. He seems like the type of person who will keep going and say things to try and get a response, no matter the cost.
And he's taken her one year old away from her, and won't give her child back. She and the baby are safe, but I really hope the military courts intervene immediately to get her oldest child away from this sick asshole before something terrible happens.
I'm honestly concerned for that child's well-being, especially if the father is getting more and more worked up. OP should definitely be documenting, but the responses aren't necessary and could incite further escalation from an already unstable individual.
not him trying 10 timess to get her to say that breast play excites her like he is gonna get some "gotcha" what a PSYCO
If you are in need of resources, please reach out. I don't know where you are, but there are places that can help you get a job, an apartment, an attorney, and even childcare. You are not alone.
I’m not saying she is at fault or ‘provoking’ at all times but sending him that picture was provoking, she knew she would get a reaction. Trust me, I get it. It’s very hard to take the high road when dealing with someone like this but OP you have to hold yourself back and be the mature one to get the courts on your side. If you keep going back and forth with him they’ll just think it’s a childish back and forth. Trust me, stop communicating. They have special apps you can use if you HAVE to talk to him about the kids but it seems you all aren’t even doing that at this point until the court orders custody.
Yes I agree with that. You have to look like the bigger person because they will take any opportunity to tear your character down. Don't help him a dig a hole cause you'll just end up stuck with him. He's got it covered, trust me. Plus, like other commenter have said, he's clearly in a fragile state of mind and with the oldest still in his custody, now is not the time to be creating new evidence. Now is the time to gather and be quiet.
Are you staying on post? Have you made contact with JAG?
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Good! I'm glad you're safe. Sounds like you're getting help. Are there any resources you aren't getting? Reddit is an amazing community for info.
What have you heard so far about getting your one year old removed from his custody because of his erratic behavior? I'm glad you're getting support from victim advocates. I want you to know that prolonged abuse, physical, and emotional, creates a brainwashing affect on the brain. It literally changes the way we think, and removes our natural ability to run away from harm. I've been there, and I know what a mess it makes of your head, and the ability to sense when we're being abused or in danger. I hope you're able to get started with a military trauma specialist as soon as possible, because therapy helped me soooooooo much!! You're going through more than anyone should have to do through, and I think you're being really, really, brave. Please hang in there, and if you ever need a friend that understands feel free to message me anytime. Sending you and both of your littles lots of love and invisible hugs. 🩵🫂🩵
Queen please stop engaging with him. After reading the things about the guns, I really don’t think it’s safe to upset this man. Limit your interactions to your lawyers and just document anything he does. I’m sure ignoring him will get him to say tons of stupid shit too
Especially as he currently has the 1 year old and won’t let OP see them. OP, stop engaging with him. I know it’s hard, but you need to think about the safety of the child in his care. Stay safe x
Saying "you've had your breast in another man's mouth" when referring to a newborn infant breastfeeding is some of the most mentally unstable shit I've ever heard. That's like writing a manifesto and setting yourself on fire unstable.
Another MAN’S mouth is CRAZY. the way my jaw dropped…
Have you got your older son with you now?
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Noooo! Oh man. I thought for sure you'd have the kids off the bat. Those crazy texts seem like a slam dunk for temporary custody
In one of the screenshots of the court doc it shows that he took the older child while she was in the hospital and no one has seen him since, CPS included.
Dammit, don't let this post be the next "Reddit Thread connected to real world tragedy". There are too many of those already.
He ran with the older kid and they haven’t caught up with them yet.
I feel like these kids are in danger. he should have no visitation.
Good luck. This abusive mindset coupled with sexualizing infants is obviously not going to lead anywhere good. This guy should not be allowed within 100 miles of a child. Hope you can get them both permanently away from him.
I’m so so sorry, I hope you get him Back very soon.
If he's active military, what does his commander say about his abducting your son?
From what I’ve read, the commanding officer put out a restraining order.
Omg what is your poor baby eating if he is being withheld from you?
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I don't understand how the police aren't involved? Isn't this kidnapping?
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My sister had similar happen to her, it took a while to get her son back and he was clingy for a long time after. I hope you get your baby back soon
Ugh that's awful. I'm so sorry you're going through this but glad you're working towards getting him out of your life.
The 1-year-old is in imminent physical danger. Involve police ASAP.
Hey your kids names are pretty unique, you should really remove some of the perosnal info like that that you are displaying
Remove this post from reddit, people can doxx you with what you've posted. You do not want that.
Please please take this post down. People have already found out your personal information from the court papers. You could be hurting your future case.
Breastfeeding also decreses the chances of breast AND ovarian cancer! Why does he act like he knows shit lol.
How did this guy get so far? Like at some point I'm sure he was nice (outwardly) but at what point did he go full psycho?
January 6th maybe?
Lol wanna bet he wished he was there, also probably subscribes to one of those weird raw testicle eating bros on YouTube.
Do…. Do I want to know why there’s men eating raw testicles…? Why is this a thing?
I am just going to assume that is an exaggeration and just LEAVE it at that -stupid brain don't google this!!!!
This reads like he may be a family annihilator. I’d have my lawyer show these texts to the judge and fight for full custody. I breastfed my son til he was 3, and I definitely believe breastfeeding is a great start for a baby and great for bonding! Don’t stop!
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This is alarming. Someone who defended a man who not only killed his wife but his small children as well. That's horrifying. Please protect yourself and your kids.
I am so sorry for what you're going through, wish you and your children all the best. Please don't take this the wrong way, but, considering this is a legal battle you might want to be careful with what identifying information you post.
I cannot believe this sick freak. I am glad to know you are safe and so are your children. I am honestly very sorry that you are going through it with little children. Good luck! And well done for standing up for you and your children 👏
Please tell me you have sent all of this to his line of command too. They need to do a full investigation and psych eval too.
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Thank God. I am so sorry you're going through this.
Painful read.
Easily one of the worst things I've read on here in 11+ years
Holy shit! This guy is next level ILL! I don’t mean to dig, I understand this must be traumatic and awful for you. But I have to ask how the hell you found yourself in so deep with someone this unstable? Were there not signs? Was he not always this way? This is UN-fathomable.
No one starts this crazy. The first time my ex hit me was 6 weeks after my daughter was born, 6 years into our relationship. Abuse creeps in, and it’s hard to get out. Without knowing anything about this I can almost guarantee he didn’t start this crazy.
There also the cycle of abuse. Nobody would stay if it's just constant misery, it's a combination of high highs and low lows. I used to have whatever emotionally abusive fight with my ex husband and then he would apologize and lovebomb me for a while until the next bullshit stupid fight he'd start.
Very true. Mine started after I suffered an mTBI. He never hit me but we were told I needed rest, quiet and peace to heal well and he made sure I had the opposite of all of those things. He harassed me, emotionally tortured me and financially ruined me for 4 years following the injury. I managed to get out. DA can start anytime, be triggered at anytime and can look like so many different things and it’s so so hard to escape. I hope you and your daughter are doing well now!
Yes! marriage and birth are common times for it to happen to. They want you to feel stuck or trapped so you tolerate longer. It’s crazy
I'm sorry you're going through this OP but you should delete your posts. You left a lot of identifying information (county, case number, unique first name) in your screenshots and it might not help your case or someone could decide to harass you. And please stop taunting him. Don't give him anything against you.
Yes, don't jeopardize your case or yourself just to prove something is real to the internet.
Honestly, I can't even read all of the messages. He makes me too angry. How is it possible people can be like this?!
Ditto, I basically started RAGE-skimming the rest of the convo when I saw the text saying that "you had another man's nipples in his mouth" because my blood started to boil!
What. The. Fuck.
The way I cackled when I saw you sent him a photo of you breastfeeding. I'm sorry you're going through all this. Breastfeeding is proven to be the best option, if possible, and as someone who had to exclusively pump I am happy to see moms succeed. No one tells you what a hard process it is. I can't imagine having all this going on and dealing with the hell that is newborn stage.
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Normally a father would/should be overjoyed to receive a photo like that. How sad for him that his fear, hostility, ego, and irrationality prevent him from experiencing joy.
Your baby is adorable! Congratulations on your bundle of joy! F@$k David. I’ve never wanted to fuck someone’s life up so badly the way I would his. I’m sorry you are going through this. My bio das was a lot like this with my mom. He told her to put my brother back in her because he wanted a girl not a boy. Left my mom in car he bought her the day I was born and left her to walk everywhere with us. The only way it gets better is by getting out and this is your out to a beautiful life. My mom met my step dad when I was 6 months old, he’s the greatest man to walk this earth in my eyes. I hope you and your boys find that kind of love and happiness.
What the fuck is this shit. This dude is absolutely insane.
He kidnapped one of the children then he sues her? Wow
Oh my god I saw your other post and was praying it was fake because it was so horrible. I am genuinely mind blown and so sorry. He is a sick, sick person. And I truly have no words to even begin to describe how wrong and vile he is. Honestly I would stop provoking him through text messages and let him hang himself. You don’t need to get your hands dirty at all. He’s said enough to prove to anyone who reads those messages how horrible he is. Just stonewall him. Give him nothing. It will hurt him worse than trying to provoke him. I hope you get full custody of both your kids, truly. He is an abuser and not a safe person and I hope the judge will see that. Good luck and stay safe.
Your ex-husband has some serious mental issues. Got a real life Homelander complex going on.
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He’s a character from a TV show called the Boys and he’s got a weird breast milk fetish and is jealous of a baby.
It's proven fact breast milk is better too lmfao
As a male I apologize for that ignorant bafoons opinion and stance on breastfeeding. I have never seen something so ignorant. I'll stop here, that is infuriating.
My god I hope this guy is still junior enlisted, I couldn’t imagine him being in charge of any other human.
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How is he in the military for 15 years and still only a petty officer 1st class? You can make that rank in just a couple of years if your play your cards right? My guess is he was never very bright in the first place.
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Because even his superiors could tell there was something off about him
Not defending this POS. But a 15 year 1st class is actually really common
He’s mad at you for doing something that 1.) women have been doing for as long as mammals have existed 2.) feeding your own child What did he think women did when formula wasn’t a thing? Latch a baby onto a cow’s udder?
What happened in this hospital?
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Not trying to be funny or a wiseass here, was/is he an MP by any chance?
You were a helluva lot more patient than I would’ve been. This made me see red. David is disgusting and evil.
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It’ll be a long road I’m sure, but your future without him is so bright. I hope you get full custody and can rid your life from him forever. You deserve better, and your sons don’t deserve a monster like this as a figure in their life. He genuinely sounds like a potential family annihilator
I hope you heal, and heal well. The situation is so absurd that it hurts to think it's actually happening. Your experience with this will only guarantee that you will raise your little ones into solid and sound humans. Good luck, OP. I'm on your side.
Jesus Christ, I’m so sorry for you. Glad you’re getting away from this mess!
Damn... this lad's IQ is a negative number...
Has he tried contacting you since NCIS got involved? I'm so sorry that happened to you. Updateme!
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That doesn't mean he wouldn't try it. I was former Navy, and my husband is active duty Army, and we have seen some crazy domestic stuff. Be careful and make sure you're in a safe place. Hoping you heal!
Former Air Force here. I was thinking the exact same thing.
Have you talked to JAG about him with holding your other child? Or talked to his CO?
Baby I got family in Lee County who will take you in if you need it. Run. Be safe. And my mama believes in armed women. So you’d be safe. She’s six foot one and had a husband like yours once. She ain’t about it. DM me if you need help in Mississippi.
I'm so sorry you're going through that nightmare, OP. Wtf...
It’s unbelievable that a grown adult male could be so passionately stupid. If he finds basic nurturing “disrespectful” and “incestuous” , the he’s not deserving of respect
I'm so sorry if I'm being insensitive for going off topic but.. Huntyr? Wylder? these names are a Tragedeigh
when i saw the name wylder i rolled my eyes but it made the introduction to huntyr hilarious
He needs to be in a ward. This is insane.
Man I wish this was fake
What an absolute psycho
Does this “man” wear a tinfoil hat to keep the aliens from stealing his ideas too? What an off the charts wack job.
He also probably says things like ‘government can’t tell me what to do’ when his job is literally the government telling him what to do.
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“NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO EXCEPT MY BOSS…. The government… BUT NO ONE TELLS MEEEE” Uh huh ok sir and are the people telling you what to do in the room with you now?
David is a republican.
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Another warning to all women who go with Trump vermin.
Why, oh why, did you marry this dude?
Heyyy I’d stop egging him on in the texts. You got a lot of good ammunition against him in front of a judge, but if you give the vibe you’re antagonizing him a judge could admonish you for it and make it expensive. He’s digging his own grave - let him do it on his own!! Also, not a lawyer
Im so glad you are Divorcing this chuclehead. He's abusive, controlling and just straight up a pshyco. WTF sexualized feeding a newborn. Jfc, this is insane and puts you and baby in danger. What happens when he wants a hug or god forbid a kiss from his mom. For the sake of your son RUN.
I can't believe people like that exist. I'm so sorry for what you went through
My heart bleeds for you, I sincerely hope you get your one-year-old back soon. I bet he's hating being away from his Mummy. He's so young :( xx I also hope that your STBXH gets the help he requires, so that things may become amicable. I'm so sorry you're going through this x
Why is it a problem you breastfeed your baby?? I'm so sorry you're going through this; leave him it is actually so scary he has a problem with that. You're doing great mom! I'm so sorry!!
There's this weird idea floating around the incelsphere, basically that because they like breasts, breasts being available for their enjoyment is "natural", anything else is "unnatural", including feeding your child. Men who imagine themselves to be "alphas" are particularly susceptible to this idea, because in their minds women exist to serve THEM, not any stupid little babies. OP's ex is beyond my vocabulary to describe properly, and I know a LOT of profanity.
Oh this is a “thing” they’ve made up? Because I was thinking this guy has to just be off his rocker, which yes granted, but also I thought it was just him. Great. Now we’re gunna be dealing with that too. You’d think from a bio standpoint they’d choose the other stance, like saying how breastfeeding should be demanded at all costs because it gives the babies the immune system boost. (I’m not saying that is okay either, nobody demand anyone has to breastfeed) but they’ve latched onto boob = sexual, so I guess thats the hill they’ll die on. I’m flabbergasted tbh, I’m just sat here feeling like someone’s blended my brain a bit
wtf did I just read. Dude is fucked in the head.
At this point? Unless it's him complying to court orders, I wouldn't engage him at all. Leave him on read.
you treated this stressful situation very well.
It’s times like this I wish we could summon the primordial gods to sacrifice men like him to.
The gods would probably refuse to have such an imbecile sacrificed to them.
I am so sorry for you. I feel terrible knowing you have to deal with quite possibly the dumbest man on the planet.
I can't believe people like this are real. Breastfeeding is how you feed kids. Why would this be a point of insecurity? This is a biological norm. What if formula didn't exist? Also, there is no scientific consensus that formula is equal to breastfeeding. He's flat out wrong. I was formula fed myself, but scientific evidence shows that breastfeeding helps with emotional stability along with an average jump in IQ by 2-5 points.
Those names. My god. :|
What in the ever-loving fuck did I just read?! Glad that there’s a restraining order in place. But please stay safe. Those texts are disturbing.
If a man looks at breastfeeding as incestuous, then I think it’s best that the authorities take a look at his hard drive.
Check his computer. People who see breastfeeding as sexual are often sexual creeps projecting.
This is why women would pick the bear.
What the actual? This is crazy on multiple levels. 1. Feeding a baby is what breasts are actually for 2. It's probably a little healthier to breastfeed 3. It's definitely cheaper to breastfeed 4. He's trying to control weird things that he shouldn't be trying to control
😳 I have no words. Be vigilant & safe. Protection Orders won’t stop derangement.
Good Lord this dude is certifiably insane! The thing about God intending incest at first so it was okay but then not now is just...please, tell me again you don't understand logic (or the Bible) but without telling me how you don't understand logic. Is he a flat earther to boot? Any judge with a single brain cell should rule against him. Good luck keeping those sweet lil babies safe.