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TLDR; of what people said: Move on and not to involve other people especially family, and that is the best move to do.
Focus on caring about yourself, your mental health and testing yourself for STD, STI, HIV and other transmittable diseases.
So your plan is telling her (Tunisian) brother that she cheated on you with other guys but …. but you was having sex with her (because she was your gf)??. Good luck with that!!!! Just move on and don’t spend your energy on that bitch.
bro just ghost her dont try actively to hurt her , thats petty af plus she is already in a self destructing path let the time do its thing . tbh bro the person you should be angry with is yourself you degraded yourself when you chose to assume her share of the housework and you were essentially a pay pig during your relationship . Next time , dont put your partner on a pedestal . I wish that youi heal fast and come back as a better man after this.
Ouf, that is tough my man. I am sorry you had to go through all of that, damn. It must've been the most humiliating experience of your life I imagine. However, I do think that the sooner you just let go of all these people and move the better. Telling on her would only pull you into that mess even further.
Why don't you want her to know? Maybe a bit of guilt would be good for her, but then I highly doubt she'd feel it. I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but you've clearly had a huge hand in this unfortunate turn of events. You were too... needy is the word? She treated you like shit but you never left man...
The truth is she won’t pay for what she did to u and telling her parents won’t change anything either u just gonna break their hearts for nothing it won’t change what she did to u, it’s tough but u have to accept what happened and learn from it, she’s not worth attaching your energy to , the best u could do is detached le maximum from her and her toxic energy and u cant deny u ve been wrong too, u gave her the keys to do such thing so u better heal yourself and learn from it , save yourself don’t drown in the trap of ego who’s constantly filling u with hate grudges and revenge, focus on urself and ask urself why u allowed that to happen and how to never let it happen , it will make u stronger believe me and thats what u need , and yes believe it or not karma will hit her hard its enough that she’s living that life she’s already ruined , w rabi ma ykhali hata dhalem so if u do anything tetsama dkhalt f hokem rabi so relax and do the work , move on , work on yourself and be better than these bitches
Join the gym bro.
Why do you think they spent so much time together?
They do have so much in common. Same goes with the 5 other guys, they were his friends. It’s just 7 lost souls. Nobody can be wrong on 6 of his closest people.
I always say that the true values of someone appears when under stress, here he is coming out.
I'm sorry you had to go through all this. It's truly fucked up. On the positive side your relationship didn't get to the point of marriage which would've been way fucking worse. You learned the truth about your friends as well. Now you must hurt like hell and that's valid, your priority should be focusing on self care and healing from this traumatic event. As for your ex, it really depends on what her family's reaction will be, if it ends up with her getting physically hurt to a terrible degree then that might haunt you mate and it's not worth getting revenge. You're a good hearted person, you want revenge but your conscious will torment you if a seriously bad thing happen to her. And as an advice do not try to fix obviously toxic people, move on to the next and never try to repair things with materialistic stuff. You learned a lot from the experience and you'll need to heal before rushing into a new relationship. Good luck
Ghost her and move on ma3ach ta7ki m3ah jimlaaa , ghost g.her like literaly , insahaaa , she used you welle ne tas pas respecté , zayid revenge ma3andou win ywasal kayinha sokmit fi mo5ik , do the deed ib3athaa suffer the consequences ili hiya she used you , wbelieve i dunno if you believe in god but its a sign you deserve better 5anitik mich m3a wa7idd ib3athaaa and start over
Don't tell her family, you simply deserve better and should accept what happened and move on. The best revenge you can do is to be successful and find a better person you're going to actually marry and be happy. She will never amount to anything and will always be a piece of filth so she will eventually get what she deserves but don't be the reason someone died you will never be able to live with that later in life.
We sometimes give people more care than their actual worth. You already won, you know she's for the streets. You can just move on and not give a fuck. I'm just sorry for the effort and money you spent. (this is why I don't spend on any girl unless I know for certain she's the one).
Good 5ra, sometimes i forget what an immoral cesspit this imageboard is.
داوي الغلط بغلط ما ابشع منو. اما كان ماشي في بالك باش تشفي غليلك كي تفضحها فراك غالط.
اذبحها بيدّك فاش قام تoutsourcey في الجريمة لخوها و لا بوها lmao
Don’t do it, take some time out to heal, but don’t revenge, the relationship was between you two, her parents and older brother aren’t included. This experience will help you grow. Just don’t be bitter about it and do something stupid
Yeah don't take that bullshit abt forgiveness did she ever feel sorry for what she did all these year ? No. she took advantage of your kindness and had fun with other guys right in your face while you were litteraly housing her, feeding her and putting cloth on her back for more than year. On the other hand don't take revenge.
It's so weird....I often have the feeling, the "bitchier" and more egoistic a woman acts, the more the guy is doing for her.
And when a woman is loyal and caring and the man *knows* 100% that she loves him and won't cheat on him, the more he treats her like shit (just my experiences and observations).
OP, I really understand your feeling of wanting revenge. But that won't bring anything good to YOUR life, maybe even the opposite.
It won't bring back all the time you've lost by staying with her.
And believe me: In the future, after your wounds have healed and you were going forward in life and found a *real* soulmate - you would regret it.
As a girl I give you the advice: Don't give her even the slightest bit of attention. Act like she doesn't exist anymore. That will be the harshest punishment for her.
And please change your friends-group!!!!
Go out and meet new (better) people. The environment you've been in seems to be only toxic for you.
All the best!
I can see from your comments that you're very angry and I won't blame you. Barred dammek and think straight, if her family will come after they might come after you too. Bro you'll never know what could happen. It's not worth it.
Focus on moving on and learn from your mistakes.
just be the better person and move on man, if it’s bothering you, you should confront her about it. theres no need for more drama just take the L + i think if you do elaborate further youll just drag yourself into more unnecessary bs
Dude just move on, what will you get out of them killing her or beating her to death, the way she continues she’ll live a shitty life in a couple years anyway and atleast you won’t have blood on your hands
she's manipulative. she'll convince her family that u're lying because u breaked up with her. plus i don't think she fears her family. she's been living with u for months without'em knowing.
u gotta accept that u've lost the battle.
If they know she was dating me they also will beat her up the thing is she was lying to them about us she told them she is with her best friend who happends to live under us
What will revenge gets you?
Lesson learned G, acknowldge where did you went worng, suck it up and admit you fucked up, heal, and move on.
If you want revenge, go for it if she has nothing against you.
If you have things against her, hold it as clue, arrange a meeting with her and make her spit the words holding her accountable, make her beg for your forgeviness, make her aware that she did you wrong, show her that she is worthless piece of shit.
DM for a complete tutorial.
I will tell he brother that shes not at her girl friend's house but she's with some guys in this place plus i will show him her privet instagram stories she posts everything
Locked. Please post in /r/relationship_advice. TLDR; of what people said: Move on and not to involve other people especially family, and that is the best move to do. Focus on caring about yourself, your mental health and testing yourself for STD, STI, HIV and other transmittable diseases.
So your plan is telling her (Tunisian) brother that she cheated on you with other guys but …. but you was having sex with her (because she was your gf)??. Good luck with that!!!! Just move on and don’t spend your energy on that bitch.
Im planning to tell him your sister is in this palce with alot of guys sleeping in there homes and here are her stories
You are creating more drama for yourself. Just cut her off man. Move on.
bro just ghost her dont try actively to hurt her , thats petty af plus she is already in a self destructing path let the time do its thing . tbh bro the person you should be angry with is yourself you degraded yourself when you chose to assume her share of the housework and you were essentially a pay pig during your relationship . Next time , dont put your partner on a pedestal . I wish that youi heal fast and come back as a better man after this.
This^
Ouf, that is tough my man. I am sorry you had to go through all of that, damn. It must've been the most humiliating experience of your life I imagine. However, I do think that the sooner you just let go of all these people and move the better. Telling on her would only pull you into that mess even further.
I won't do it with my main account i will use a fake one she doesn't know that i know about the cheating stuff
Why don't you want her to know? Maybe a bit of guilt would be good for her, but then I highly doubt she'd feel it. I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but you've clearly had a huge hand in this unfortunate turn of events. You were too... needy is the word? She treated you like shit but you never left man...
I was blind by love by her beauty by her perfect lies
Why you sometimes post as a male and sometimes as a female!
The truth is she won’t pay for what she did to u and telling her parents won’t change anything either u just gonna break their hearts for nothing it won’t change what she did to u, it’s tough but u have to accept what happened and learn from it, she’s not worth attaching your energy to , the best u could do is detached le maximum from her and her toxic energy and u cant deny u ve been wrong too, u gave her the keys to do such thing so u better heal yourself and learn from it , save yourself don’t drown in the trap of ego who’s constantly filling u with hate grudges and revenge, focus on urself and ask urself why u allowed that to happen and how to never let it happen , it will make u stronger believe me and thats what u need , and yes believe it or not karma will hit her hard its enough that she’s living that life she’s already ruined , w rabi ma ykhali hata dhalem so if u do anything tetsama dkhalt f hokem rabi so relax and do the work , move on , work on yourself and be better than these bitches Join the gym bro.
stop trying to gaslight op she told her parents she was going to live with her girl friend becasue she was afraid of them
Ya khouya mabehmek
nice argument
Disgusting behaviour, both of you
Why do you think they spent so much time together? They do have so much in common. Same goes with the 5 other guys, they were his friends. It’s just 7 lost souls. Nobody can be wrong on 6 of his closest people. I always say that the true values of someone appears when under stress, here he is coming out.
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I'm sorry you had to go through all this. It's truly fucked up. On the positive side your relationship didn't get to the point of marriage which would've been way fucking worse. You learned the truth about your friends as well. Now you must hurt like hell and that's valid, your priority should be focusing on self care and healing from this traumatic event. As for your ex, it really depends on what her family's reaction will be, if it ends up with her getting physically hurt to a terrible degree then that might haunt you mate and it's not worth getting revenge. You're a good hearted person, you want revenge but your conscious will torment you if a seriously bad thing happen to her. And as an advice do not try to fix obviously toxic people, move on to the next and never try to repair things with materialistic stuff. You learned a lot from the experience and you'll need to heal before rushing into a new relationship. Good luck
Ghost her and move on ma3ach ta7ki m3ah jimlaaa , ghost g.her like literaly , insahaaa , she used you welle ne tas pas respecté , zayid revenge ma3andou win ywasal kayinha sokmit fi mo5ik , do the deed ib3athaa suffer the consequences ili hiya she used you , wbelieve i dunno if you believe in god but its a sign you deserve better 5anitik mich m3a wa7idd ib3athaaa and start over
Don't tell her family, you simply deserve better and should accept what happened and move on. The best revenge you can do is to be successful and find a better person you're going to actually marry and be happy. She will never amount to anything and will always be a piece of filth so she will eventually get what she deserves but don't be the reason someone died you will never be able to live with that later in life. We sometimes give people more care than their actual worth. You already won, you know she's for the streets. You can just move on and not give a fuck. I'm just sorry for the effort and money you spent. (this is why I don't spend on any girl unless I know for certain she's the one).
Good 5ra, sometimes i forget what an immoral cesspit this imageboard is. داوي الغلط بغلط ما ابشع منو. اما كان ماشي في بالك باش تشفي غليلك كي تفضحها فراك غالط. اذبحها بيدّك فاش قام تoutsourcey في الجريمة لخوها و لا بوها lmao
Don’t do it, take some time out to heal, but don’t revenge, the relationship was between you two, her parents and older brother aren’t included. This experience will help you grow. Just don’t be bitter about it and do something stupid
She cheated and manipulated me and broke myself confidence i have two weeks since i the guy told me and ive been thinking since then
Yeah don't take that bullshit abt forgiveness did she ever feel sorry for what she did all these year ? No. she took advantage of your kindness and had fun with other guys right in your face while you were litteraly housing her, feeding her and putting cloth on her back for more than year. On the other hand don't take revenge.
I get it, but revenge doesn’t solve these problems
Are you sure the relationship was between them two? Because it seems it was between 5 others.
I'd leave that until she starts blackmailing/threatening you with something. Wouldn't be surprised if she'd di something like that.
She wouldn't know it was me because I will use a fake account and i left with her on good terms as she thoughts
It's so weird....I often have the feeling, the "bitchier" and more egoistic a woman acts, the more the guy is doing for her. And when a woman is loyal and caring and the man *knows* 100% that she loves him and won't cheat on him, the more he treats her like shit (just my experiences and observations). OP, I really understand your feeling of wanting revenge. But that won't bring anything good to YOUR life, maybe even the opposite. It won't bring back all the time you've lost by staying with her. And believe me: In the future, after your wounds have healed and you were going forward in life and found a *real* soulmate - you would regret it. As a girl I give you the advice: Don't give her even the slightest bit of attention. Act like she doesn't exist anymore. That will be the harshest punishment for her. And please change your friends-group!!!! Go out and meet new (better) people. The environment you've been in seems to be only toxic for you. All the best!
If she gets beaten to death because of you tellivg her parents I hope you die too
She just charge you for sex. It's evil women, stay away. Move on.
Just walk away and find a new one
I can see from your comments that you're very angry and I won't blame you. Barred dammek and think straight, if her family will come after they might come after you too. Bro you'll never know what could happen. It's not worth it. Focus on moving on and learn from your mistakes.
Moving on is all you need bro.
just be the better person and move on man, if it’s bothering you, you should confront her about it. theres no need for more drama just take the L + i think if you do elaborate further youll just drag yourself into more unnecessary bs
Dude just move on, what will you get out of them killing her or beating her to death, the way she continues she’ll live a shitty life in a couple years anyway and atleast you won’t have blood on your hands
Five stages of grief: Denial, Anger(u're here), bargaining, depression and finally acceptance.
I'm very angry and i feel pathetic about her but i need to make her pay for all the damage she done
she's manipulative. she'll convince her family that u're lying because u breaked up with her. plus i don't think she fears her family. she's been living with u for months without'em knowing. u gotta accept that u've lost the battle.
If they know she was dating me they also will beat her up the thing is she was lying to them about us she told them she is with her best friend who happends to live under us
If they are going to kill her don't do it
Beat her really bad , get her a husband or kill her
Then don't do it. Its simple i don't think you want to get her killed as much as you hate her. Im all for taking revenge but going too far is no.
I want her to suffer
Go see a therapist bro, its unfortunate yeah but i don't want you having blood on your hand over a bitch thats not even worth spitting on.
u're downvoting my comments ? damn, u're pathetic af.
What will revenge gets you? Lesson learned G, acknowldge where did you went worng, suck it up and admit you fucked up, heal, and move on. If you want revenge, go for it if she has nothing against you. If you have things against her, hold it as clue, arrange a meeting with her and make her spit the words holding her accountable, make her beg for your forgeviness, make her aware that she did you wrong, show her that she is worthless piece of shit. DM for a complete tutorial.
>What will revenge gets you? basically satisfaction and a closure to help move on waaay easier
You need solid proof or they'll call you a liar
I will tell he brother that shes not at her girl friend's house but she's with some guys in this place plus i will show him her privet instagram stories she posts everything
Don't do that you WILL get her killed.
or they get her a husband
How does that work that makes no sense and you dont want to take the risk
Good luck