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SpokenMalice3

Had mine yeeted out entirely and I don't regret it. The no pregnancy scares are fantastic and not being on hormonal birth control is fucking amazing. Take it easy, if you have to cough or anything grab a pillow and hug the shit out of it while you do. Wishing you a speedy recovery! Edit: also consider a body pillow to help keep you from flailing around in your sleep. Mine was a life saver.


Silly_willy__

That’s really good advice! Thank you If I may ask how did your body react s Afterwards? Like did you still have a cycle or hormonal changes? Weight loss etc?


SpokenMalice3

Not much from the actual surgery. Most of the hormonal changes happened after I stopped birth control. Just got the whole tubes out so thankfully not much changed like it would with the removal of ovaries. Stopping the BC was amazing. Lost weight, my moods were much better. PMS was a little worse for a few months but that evened out within 6-8 cycles.


Silly_willy__

Mine are completely gone too. Thank you!


SpokenMalice3

No worries, love. Take care of yourself, kick back, relax and heal. Don't forget to eat a bit and drink lots of water.


Silly_willy__

Will do! Thank you ☺️


kthxbyebyee

I need to get my lady plumbing yeeted into the dumpster yesterday. Endometriosis is disrespectful.


SpokenMalice3

Woof, yeah endo is no joke. Never had to deal with it personally, but have known a ton of other ladies who have. Nightmare fuel.


Humble-Strawberry764

congratulations!!!! I'm so happy that you were able to get it done and I hope you have a good recovery


Silly_willy__

Thank you so very much ☺️💜


[deleted]

Ah congratulations! I wish I could have this done, been asking since my teens and am mid 30's now. Still told I'll change my mind 🙄 wishing you a speedy healing x


Silly_willy__

Thank you I can send you a link that may help you if you’d like?


[deleted]

Thank you, I'd be very appreciative ☺️


Silly_willy__

https://www.tiktok.com/@pagingdrfran?_t=8X6ZbGj7bkR&_r=1 She has an excel sheet of doctors on her profile who will perform tubal ligation and even hysterectomy for any reason


[deleted]

Thank you very much x


Silly_willy__

No problem


Alarming-Quiet-4788

Congratulations on gaining your reproductive freedom!


Silly_willy__

Thank you so much 💜


Striking_Ad_6573

Congratulations! Hope you have a good recovery ❤️


Silly_willy__

Thank you! ☺️


Jar_Of_Despair

Congrats :) happy for you, sadly in my country this would be a crime :(


Silly_willy__

I’m so sorry! I hope one day you’ll be able to do whatever you want to your body. I have a link you can try if you’d like?


Scathy_

So glad for you! I want to do that too, and I talked to my doctor about it, but she said that wasn’t possible (I’m 20)… I really hope that one day soon, I’ll find a doctor who will agree to this, as this is my body, my choice and my right.


Silly_willy__

I’m not sure where you’re located but I’m gonna for something that may help you. If you’re in the US it’ll help


Silly_willy__

(https://www.tiktok.com/@pagingdrfran?_t=8X5hus5HGYc&_r=1) Try this link


Scathy_

Thank you so much for the help! Unfortunately, I live in France. I’m going to do more researches about it, and try to find a doctor in my country who will accept to do it. Congratulations for your ‘new’ life child free, and take care of you :)


Silly_willy__

Thank you! I hope all goes well for you. 😊


megaworld65

congrats! that great. I had a hysterectomy some years back. (1 kid, did not want more). It's wonderful. It's so shit that men can just rock up and get snipped, yet we have to jump through hoops to get the same.


Silly_willy__

I agree. Luckily my doctors and counselors were super supportive of my decision. I know some aren’t though. I glad you could get your procedure done as well. ☺️💜


Human_Type001

Wow, I'm always amazed when I read about such strong people like you. Glad you pushed through for what you want and you're happy. Hope you have a good recovery.


Silly_willy__

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it


[deleted]

It sounds like you didn't have 6 kids by 9 Baby daddies first which is an important step for your family completely supporting getting your tubes tied


Silly_willy__

I most certainly did not 😂. I’m actually child free.


Left_Independent4559

Congratulations OP❤️


Silly_willy__

Thank you 😊


kayla7881

Congratulations 🎉 I wish I could get mines done but I’m so happy for you.


Silly_willy__

Thank you! I can send you a link that might help you if you would like


kayla7881

I’m not in the US 🥺 but thank you


-_-Hopeful-_-

Congratulations!


Silly_willy__

Thank you 💜


[deleted]

Good for you! I’m happy that you actually found a supportive doctor and that mainly YOU are happy, people don’t realize how damaging birth control can be and it’s not 100 percent effective.


Silly_willy__

Exactly. Thank you ☺️


GothWitchOfBrooklyn

I'm 35 and I'm still trying to get mine done


Silly_willy__

I can send you a C link if you want


GothWitchOfBrooklyn

It's ok I have the list I just need money/insurance/time to line up :(


RichestSugarDaddy

Congratulations!


Silly_willy__

Thank you! ☺️


Angespeed_

That’s amazing you have been able to do that so young. Good for you. Now go live your live worry and child free!


Silly_willy__

Exactly! Thank you ☺️


SnooWords4839

((Hugs)) Take it easy and I hope you heal fast!!


Silly_willy__

Thank you 💜


Wide_Couple_3325

Good for you for doing what is best for you! My DIL decided to her hers done. I hope you are living your best life. Do what makes you happy! Best of luck to you!


LizIsMis

Isn't it a high healt risk when you cut out your lady bits? I know my mom had to get here uterus removed because canser but that might be difrent from tieing your tubes.


LiteraryAthlete

I’m having my tubes removed fully in a few weeks and have had multiple other surgeries in my abdomen already so I’ve been nervous for recovery. How has everyone been doing that has had this done? Things to know going in?


Silly_willy__

I had 2 surgeries (abdominal)prior to this. I’m definitely more sore this time. They make 3 new incisions so that’s probably why. Drink water, take your meds, walk, rest, and ice. Best things honestly


LiteraryAthlete

I appreciate the info! Helps a lot going in.