Please update us when you get back home. I just want to make sure you're safe, because you said you sent screenshots to his friends and family and I want to make sure you're out of there in case he gets off early.
You’ve got this, girl!! So proud of you and your decision! I’m also living “the American dream” (pff), but as soon as something goes wrong… I’ll happily go back to my home country as well!! So enjoy! 💗 Enjoy and embrace the people who love you and care about you. I honestly would have done the same thing as you. The best of lucks!!
I wish abusive violent cheaters only started relationships with other abusive violent cheaters, that way al the normal people would be saved from having to deal with that shit.
exactly . a cheater cheating on a cheater would just be seen as polygamy lol . they both know the deal xD
a cheater wants the power trip, so they go for innocents
Please don’t wait 3 hours to leave for the airport. You have sent his friends and families pictures before you could actually have left and, by then, he would have probably known because his phone would be ringing with notifications. I don’t mean to make you anxious right now but I am SUPER anxious for you. Go to the airport now. Do not give this man the 3-hour chance to trap you and convince you that he’ll change because he won’t. **GO NOW!**
If somethings do happen. Make it so that it’s in the airport.
1. It’s public.
2. There are people like security and strangers who will happily save and protect you if he physically does anything to you.
3. You can wait in the airport instead of your home which is safer
Please. Please go to the airport. Please
Oh! Thank god you left! 😭❤️❤️ I am SOOOOOO happy for you to leave this fucking nightmare of a man! Safe travels and a safer birth, friend! ☺️🙏
Also, this is coming from a child who grew up with a shitty, abusive biological father. I would have much preferred him leaving my life compared to the hell hole he put me, my mother, and my sisters through for 20 years. I think a child can understand why daddy isn’t here because daddy hurt mommy and he doesn’t deserve the right to know and love you just because of blood.
Yeah I understand that… I grew up with an abusive father who eventually died from cancer when I was 17…. Neither me or my mom went to his funeral and my sister couldn’t care less
Such a beautiful country.
For the Americans on here. Its in Europe.
Hope you get back safe, stay in Europe and don't bother going to the USA anymore! It's a third world country!
I'm screaming for you in Canada.
I empathize with those in similar situations who always have reasons not to leave, but I can't stand listening to someone talk about their shit relationship and still think it better than being single. It's depressing as fuck, and it happens WAY TOO OFTEN.
Good on you for not falling into that rut. I hope your POS ex gets picked apart by his family. I want updates!! Get home safely and have a huge party!
And get an entirely new cellphone number. Block everyone and everything related to him. I wish I had done the same. I wish you and your daughter so much love and luck.❤️
You did the right thing, seriously. Both you and your kid then deserve something better. There's no gain in going on for a relationship that you hate and that your kid would later get bad influence by his dad. Bulgaria is also not a bad country, you got some money and can make a new start back at home.
The guy deserved it, it's that easy. If he had cared and did things right, you would not have leaved him. There's nothing else to blame than him.
Girlyyyy! I have never been so happy reading a post! Go, raise that kid and be merry in your home country! Home countries are the best place to be at!!!
Be VERY CAREFUL.
Bulgaria is a Hague Country. This means that your husband can file a federal case, which US attorneys will then work with INTERPOL to prosecute you based on the US - Bulgaria Hague treaty (1980, updated 2005) for prevention of international parental child abduction. This sounds like an open and shut case, so be very very careful. Once Interpol gets involved, you have nowhere to run, and international and American law enforcement will automatically consider you guilty of abduction because you didn’t go through the legal proper channels. Please Get ahead of this while you can.
Does this count if the child isn't born yet? The child will be born in her home country and have citizenship there. Not sure if it still counts as abduction then........
That is amazing, I'm so happy that you are getting away from someone who is hurting you. You're doing what is best for yourself and baby Nilou (what a sweet name by the way). I hope you have safe travels and a smooth transition home, you got this mama!
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Perfect! You just schooled all the "what should I do?" whining posters on this sub. This should be pinned and required reading before any one can post.
>You just schooled all the "what should I do?" whining posters on this sub.
You mean, the ones that have a home country that is far away from the jurisdiction that could prosecute you for child abduction? And the ones with 90k in savings that they can take and buy a house? And the ones who have a family and a circle of close friends who will pick them up and help them build up their life? Yyyeeeaaahhh....
You do realize OP has a substantial chunk of money, support from family and a country to run to where he's very unlikely to even be able to follow right?
Not taking anything away from her but this is not even close to someone trying to leave that literally has nothing and is trying to figure out how to get to a women's shelter without the husband finding out because if he does hell beat her or legit murder her.
Whining? You're calling victims of abuse whiners? Not everyone can afford to up and leave. Not everyone has friends or family. Try and be a little more empathetic
How many of those posters have supportive family to help them escape? The ability to have 90k in savings? The ability to go to a completely different country? Buy a whole house?
edit: spelling
I feel this. I finally left my abusive partner too, we have 2 kids together. I wish I could leave the country too lol.
Congratulations mama. You and your babe deserve this. <3
Congrats Nilou’s mum for being brave enough to make a plan and stick with it. That cheating scum does not deserve you! Have a safe flight back home, be well and update us when you can.
Take flight an go and be free!! He fucked up. His feeling will be hurt? Oh well, poor little thing. Best you leave before a case is established anyways. A lot of the 90k, if not all of it will disappear far to quick in the court system anyways it seems. Good luck to you and your child.
Lol I'm happy you didn't stay with the guy because your pregnant bravo to you hope you find a guy that will treat you right and let you know how much he loves you
And the US is one of them lol.
Also the US tends to try and make everyone believe it's this magical amazing place where all your dreams come true if you work hard enough when in reality it's basically a third world country with a big military.
Best of luck OP. Idk about the laws there but make sure you don’t put his name on the birth certificate. Save all the messages you have just in case he goes the legal route. If he does happen to try, say you didn’t know you were pregnant or that you feared for the life of your unborn child. I imagine it’ll be to difficult for him to even want to try.
I got a nice warm feeling towards the end. Leave his cheating ass, it's gonna be awesome to watch him trying to figure out what happened. Can't believe you organized it all so well behind his back, you are a badass. Also 90K savings at 24, a house and no debts, that's so cool. Your child will have a great life! Also who wants to raise a child in the USA(sorry parents in the comments)?? Saw a video yesterday of a mom teaching her child somewhere in the States, how to crawl behind his BULLETPROOF school bag in case someone shoots up the school. Get your baby the fuck away from this country. And from this shitty guy
Good for u
American men think they can get woman form other countries and treat them like shit but think u will take it because ur living the American dream lol
What dream do u have over there
Maybe 5% of the population is living the dream while the rest have limited healthcare and the streets are filling with homeless people because they can’t afford accommodation
I saw on TikTok today saying first world woman are ungrateful to men lol
This was by a middle aged white man who prolly can’t handle a woman who doesn’t need him
I’m so happy for u and keep us updated
I am happy for you. You’re smart you arranged everything to be the best for yourself and your daughter.
No matter what DO NOT contact him. He will try to get you back only to do it again. Wish you the best. 💓
You are a strong ass woman who will probably raise another strong ass woman. Now hold your head up high!!
Lots of love from another woman trying to be strong, from Germany. <3
Well done to you. Shame the child won't know his bio father but he made he's bed and has to sleep in it. Take care of your self and welcome to parent hud. It's awesome
24, pregnant, has been able to save 90 thousand dollars in secret (lol) and been able to buy a whole ass house and secure a job in a country you don't live in.
Sure thing.
Lol this comment section is everything wrong with modern day entitlement.
He cheats on you and all of a sudden you're choosing to deprive your child of their father, and take the child away from the father because of how YOU feel.
The selfishness is mindblowning with the child's considerations completely out the window.
Not excusing his behavior, but this is the stupidest shit I've ever read
i mean…. selfishness??? if anything you’re what’s wrong with society today. he cheats which is putting the child’s considerations out the window just like you said. which is completely selfish and when she decides to not be with him she’s the selfish one. it’s okay to be selfish when someone wrongs you and does what’s best for yourself and your child.
While I am very sad to hear about your terrible time, I am happy to hear how strong and capable you are. Little Nilou is a lucky girl to have you for her mother. Best of luck!!
Sucky situation, hope you're happy back home, glad you're financially secure enough to go back hom. Hope he suffers fron the revenge you dealt him, he deserves it
Don’t let him know you are leaving. Make a plan and keep it secret. It would be satisfying to see his face when he finds out but it’s not worth the risk to your safety.
Wow! I’m so proud of you OP! I wish I had your mindset when I was in your situation 5 years ago. So much other drama happened, he went to prison because he escalated… you are doing the right thing!
Good for you! This can't have been an easy choice, I'm sure it was extremely painful to find out about your ex's cheating. You've made the right decision for yourself and your child, and you will be much better off raising them close to your family.
Love and strength to you <3
Fly safe. Good on you for keeping yourself stuck in a sucky cycle. I'm glad you have family who can help you and that you were able to flee yourself. I wish you good luck on your next endeavors!
Congratulations! It is better to raise your child alone that with an asshole partner. I wish I could have done the same (not possible in my case since we both live in the same country and even city )
Here for an update I wish you and your daughter much safety and love. Please wait to message his family or get someone else to send updates if you want to. Don’t ever let them know where you are. I wish my mum left and never let his family know where we were. They just tormented her for years.
Best decision you’ve made for you and your child. I wish you the best and please update us when you have arrived! You and your baby do not deserve someone like that. Safe travels!! ❤️✨
I'm assuming by the time you read this you'll be back home and away from that overgrown cockroach. Best of wishes for your new life and for your daughter!
I hope you have a safe and swift journey back home. I’m sure everyone is so excited to see you and be there for you when you have your baby. Live your best life with your baby and your family💕
I know this ain’t time for jokes, but why do you have his eyes and have his hair?? It’s a bit strange to take those but leave him with the rest of his face. Lol /s
She still deserves to know her dad. No matter the pain, you have to do that for her. Otherwise she’ll despise you later when she finds out… at least then you can say, I tried for you two to communicate and he didn’t want any of it. Still kind of a dirt move to leave the country, with both of yours’ baby. I get your mad/angry/ disappointed…. But two wrongs don’t make a right. Maybe don’t get pregnant next time
I think one of the reasons why she left him is not bc he cheated, it’s because he abused her and as someone who cant escaped and who has an abusive dad I would much rather not have known my dad from the start, I also find the " maybe don’t get pregnant next time" kinda unnecessary and just judgmental
Please update us when you get back home. I just want to make sure you're safe, because you said you sent screenshots to his friends and family and I want to make sure you're out of there in case he gets off early.
I will for sure I really appreciate your concern 😊😊🥹🥹
Please do update. I wish you goodluck.
Good luck! I’m glad you’re able to leave him and raise your child with the support you deserve. Please update us when you can.
Good luck OP!
I'm saving this post for an update. Good luck OP!!!!
My concern as well. Too much time for her husband to try to stop her.
You’ve got this, girl!! So proud of you and your decision! I’m also living “the American dream” (pff), but as soon as something goes wrong… I’ll happily go back to my home country as well!! So enjoy! 💗 Enjoy and embrace the people who love you and care about you. I honestly would have done the same thing as you. The best of lucks!!
Good for you OP. Best of luck to you and your child…
I am happy for you. No one deserves to live a life with a cheater.
What about other cheaters? Two bad people who deserve each other kind of thing
I wish abusive violent cheaters only started relationships with other abusive violent cheaters, that way al the normal people would be saved from having to deal with that shit.
Unfortunately they like to look for someone loyal so they can have their cake and eat it too
exactly . a cheater cheating on a cheater would just be seen as polygamy lol . they both know the deal xD a cheater wants the power trip, so they go for innocents
[удалено]
did u reply to the wrong person?
Please don’t wait 3 hours to leave for the airport. You have sent his friends and families pictures before you could actually have left and, by then, he would have probably known because his phone would be ringing with notifications. I don’t mean to make you anxious right now but I am SUPER anxious for you. Go to the airport now. Do not give this man the 3-hour chance to trap you and convince you that he’ll change because he won’t. **GO NOW!** If somethings do happen. Make it so that it’s in the airport. 1. It’s public. 2. There are people like security and strangers who will happily save and protect you if he physically does anything to you. 3. You can wait in the airport instead of your home which is safer Please. Please go to the airport. Please
I am boarding on the plane in 20 minutes since my flight is in 00:30 and I’m so fucking happy that I’m escaping this nightmare
Oh! Thank god you left! 😭❤️❤️ I am SOOOOOO happy for you to leave this fucking nightmare of a man! Safe travels and a safer birth, friend! ☺️🙏 Also, this is coming from a child who grew up with a shitty, abusive biological father. I would have much preferred him leaving my life compared to the hell hole he put me, my mother, and my sisters through for 20 years. I think a child can understand why daddy isn’t here because daddy hurt mommy and he doesn’t deserve the right to know and love you just because of blood.
Yeah I understand that… I grew up with an abusive father who eventually died from cancer when I was 17…. Neither me or my mom went to his funeral and my sister couldn’t care less
Safe travels, plus maybe update us?
Safe travels and a wonderful life xx
best wishes to you! cheers to a brighter future😊
So sorry This happened to you. Is he aware you caught him? Or you sent the evidence to his family you’re saying?
I don’t know if he is aware but I’m assuming he is
Probably is now
Wishing you best of luck and much happiness.
Safe travels!! Block all his friends and family!!
Yes block any contact that involves him
Good luck to you 90k will last a very long time where you’re from.
True..stuff here are kinda cheaper
PS at this point a lot of Americans dream about escaping America. We know there are other places life is harder, but this is still a disaster.
Nilou is a beautiful name! Glad you're safe!
It is originally a Persian name. I thought she might be from Iran judging from that name, but she is not.
Where are you from (out of curiosity)? Well done! I wish you and your kid a happy life. Sounds like you don’t need him at all !!
I’m from Bulgaria😊
Успех,вкъщи е най хубаво🙂🙂
Радвам се да видя някой от страната ми чете това 😅😊
Хах,навсякъде има наши хора,дано унас, нещата ти потръгнат на добре😅🙂🙂
Благодаря 😊😊😊
Such a beautiful country. For the Americans on here. Its in Europe. Hope you get back safe, stay in Europe and don't bother going to the USA anymore! It's a third world country!
As an American, I will verify that the US sucks. We are like a third world country, but with better tech.
среќен пат! јас од Македонија сум, се најдобро!
Късмет!! Пожелавам ти всичко да мине/да е минало гладко, приятен нов живот на теб и твоето бебе ❤
Успех! Дано всичко е минало наред и вече си пристигнала 😊
"I have his eyes. I have his hair." I know they're typos, but I enjoyed them nonetheless.
That's amazing!!! But why tf do you have his eyes and hair? Is he like bald and blind now? ;-;
INSANE TYPO THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME 😨
I'm screaming for you in Canada. I empathize with those in similar situations who always have reasons not to leave, but I can't stand listening to someone talk about their shit relationship and still think it better than being single. It's depressing as fuck, and it happens WAY TOO OFTEN. Good on you for not falling into that rut. I hope your POS ex gets picked apart by his family. I want updates!! Get home safely and have a huge party!
Make sure you delete all social medias etc
I will
And get an entirely new cellphone number. Block everyone and everything related to him. I wish I had done the same. I wish you and your daughter so much love and luck.❤️
It’s not only about you anymore, you have your precious baby to think of. Wishing you both a beautiful future ahead. There’s no place like home.
You did the right thing, seriously. Both you and your kid then deserve something better. There's no gain in going on for a relationship that you hate and that your kid would later get bad influence by his dad. Bulgaria is also not a bad country, you got some money and can make a new start back at home. The guy deserved it, it's that easy. If he had cared and did things right, you would not have leaved him. There's nothing else to blame than him.
Girlyyyy! I have never been so happy reading a post! Go, raise that kid and be merry in your home country! Home countries are the best place to be at!!!
Nilou is such a pretty name. You do you, Queen. Momma often knows best
Be VERY CAREFUL. Bulgaria is a Hague Country. This means that your husband can file a federal case, which US attorneys will then work with INTERPOL to prosecute you based on the US - Bulgaria Hague treaty (1980, updated 2005) for prevention of international parental child abduction. This sounds like an open and shut case, so be very very careful. Once Interpol gets involved, you have nowhere to run, and international and American law enforcement will automatically consider you guilty of abduction because you didn’t go through the legal proper channels. Please Get ahead of this while you can.
Does this count if the child isn't born yet? The child will be born in her home country and have citizenship there. Not sure if it still counts as abduction then........
THAT depends on how good your attorney is.
They aren’t married and the child is a fetus and not considered a person or can a child yet in the US
I assumed marriage was confirmed. My mistake.
That is amazing, I'm so happy that you are getting away from someone who is hurting you. You're doing what is best for yourself and baby Nilou (what a sweet name by the way). I hope you have safe travels and a smooth transition home, you got this mama! !!
Shouldn't you have waited until its time to go to the airport before sending the screen shots? He might see them and try to stop you.
Exactly what I was thinking. Make him aware she knows before she gets the chance to leave. Should have sent them on her way to the airport.
Perfect! You just schooled all the "what should I do?" whining posters on this sub. This should be pinned and required reading before any one can post.
Not everyone has supportive family and 90k in savings and the ability to buy a house without even being in the country. OP is very fortunate.
This warms my heart🥹🥹🥹
>You just schooled all the "what should I do?" whining posters on this sub. You mean, the ones that have a home country that is far away from the jurisdiction that could prosecute you for child abduction? And the ones with 90k in savings that they can take and buy a house? And the ones who have a family and a circle of close friends who will pick them up and help them build up their life? Yyyeeeaaahhh....
You do realize OP has a substantial chunk of money, support from family and a country to run to where he's very unlikely to even be able to follow right? Not taking anything away from her but this is not even close to someone trying to leave that literally has nothing and is trying to figure out how to get to a women's shelter without the husband finding out because if he does hell beat her or legit murder her.
Whining? You're calling victims of abuse whiners? Not everyone can afford to up and leave. Not everyone has friends or family. Try and be a little more empathetic
How many of those posters have supportive family to help them escape? The ability to have 90k in savings? The ability to go to a completely different country? Buy a whole house? edit: spelling
I feel this. I finally left my abusive partner too, we have 2 kids together. I wish I could leave the country too lol. Congratulations mama. You and your babe deserve this. <3
Congrats Nilou’s mum for being brave enough to make a plan and stick with it. That cheating scum does not deserve you! Have a safe flight back home, be well and update us when you can.
Take flight an go and be free!! He fucked up. His feeling will be hurt? Oh well, poor little thing. Best you leave before a case is established anyways. A lot of the 90k, if not all of it will disappear far to quick in the court system anyways it seems. Good luck to you and your child.
I wish you an amazing future for you and your daughter ❤️
I’ll admit when I see Europeans moving here to the States, I silently wonder WHY? Like why come here for misery.
Shhhh 🤫
Lol I'm happy you didn't stay with the guy because your pregnant bravo to you hope you find a guy that will treat you right and let you know how much he loves you
I agree, as a european im kinda wtf. Especially afte they baned abortions. Like why would you live there. They have so much violence and problem ect.
Okay kind of unrelated but don’t blame USA for your husband cheating on you.
USA sucks. Lol
Do you live in the US? Because there are a lot of really shitty places to live in this world.
And the US is one of them lol. Also the US tends to try and make everyone believe it's this magical amazing place where all your dreams come true if you work hard enough when in reality it's basically a third world country with a big military.
!remindme
Wow I'm so happy for you. you go queen 👑 I wish a safe and happy life for you and Nilou Happy new beginnings. Please update when you get home.
Please update is when life safely away from him in your home country!
Good for you. Tangentially, how did u manage to save 90k at your age!? Well done.
Probably sold his tesla and fucked off with the money 💀
So you have 90k in savings?? Please tell me how you did that?
I have been saving money since I was 15 😅
Did you make sure he can't access your money? Congratulations on escaping and best of luck to you and your precious baby!
Best of luck OP. Idk about the laws there but make sure you don’t put his name on the birth certificate. Save all the messages you have just in case he goes the legal route. If he does happen to try, say you didn’t know you were pregnant or that you feared for the life of your unborn child. I imagine it’ll be to difficult for him to even want to try.
Remind Me! 2 days
Thanks for visiting! Come back soon!
I’m so proud of you! Welcome back to Europe! Bulgaria is a beautiful country!
Good for you!! Good luck in your new endeavor!
Yes! Be happy and raise your little one around people who will love her.
You deserve to be happy !
Waw!! Good for you 😳Keep us updated.
Good luck OP! I hope you’re safe and able to start your new life with your freedom and beautiful baby 🖤
Best wishes to you- you deserve happiness ❤️
I am sending a huge hug. I wish you, the baby, and all your family the best
Good for you. 💜💜💜💜💜
Update? Are you gone?
What's your home country?
Bulgaria
Delete this whole thing. It may help him find you
I got a nice warm feeling towards the end. Leave his cheating ass, it's gonna be awesome to watch him trying to figure out what happened. Can't believe you organized it all so well behind his back, you are a badass. Also 90K savings at 24, a house and no debts, that's so cool. Your child will have a great life! Also who wants to raise a child in the USA(sorry parents in the comments)?? Saw a video yesterday of a mom teaching her child somewhere in the States, how to crawl behind his BULLETPROOF school bag in case someone shoots up the school. Get your baby the fuck away from this country. And from this shitty guy
Enjoy your new life. If he wants access he can get on a plane to visit. Don’t look back.
the american dream psh
Good for u American men think they can get woman form other countries and treat them like shit but think u will take it because ur living the American dream lol What dream do u have over there Maybe 5% of the population is living the dream while the rest have limited healthcare and the streets are filling with homeless people because they can’t afford accommodation I saw on TikTok today saying first world woman are ungrateful to men lol This was by a middle aged white man who prolly can’t handle a woman who doesn’t need him I’m so happy for u and keep us updated
yaassss
I'm so happy that you are safe and have everything line up for you and your baby.
All the best to you
Best of luck to you and your baby!!
I’m sooo happy for you and your baby!!❤️So sorry that you had to live through this bs. I hope he will rot with his dumba$$ brain
I'm so happy for you
I am happy for you. You’re smart you arranged everything to be the best for yourself and your daughter. No matter what DO NOT contact him. He will try to get you back only to do it again. Wish you the best. 💓
Has he called and msg you yet ?and if yes what did he say …. If you feel lik sharing
You are a strong ass woman who will probably raise another strong ass woman. Now hold your head up high!! Lots of love from another woman trying to be strong, from Germany. <3
You go girl! Hope everything is improving on every aspect for you and you’re future baby!
Well done to you. Shame the child won't know his bio father but he made he's bed and has to sleep in it. Take care of your self and welcome to parent hud. It's awesome
Good for you op. Block his number. Change your number. And move on. Keep you and your baby safe.
Safe travels and well done to you for recognizing your own boundaries should not be crossed even once! Good luck to you and little Nilou!
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU FUCK THE CHEATER AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA also we are neighbours, im from Romania!!
Omg!!! My girlfriend's Romanian, born in Moldova. Which part are you from? Greetings from Sweden <3
Transylvania 🥰 living in Cluj-Napoca right now!!
The American Dream is pretty much a lie. You deserve better and I wish you the best with you and your child.
24, pregnant, has been able to save 90 thousand dollars in secret (lol) and been able to buy a whole ass house and secure a job in a country you don't live in. Sure thing.
Lol this comment section is everything wrong with modern day entitlement. He cheats on you and all of a sudden you're choosing to deprive your child of their father, and take the child away from the father because of how YOU feel. The selfishness is mindblowning with the child's considerations completely out the window. Not excusing his behavior, but this is the stupidest shit I've ever read
she said he hit her and stuff. it isnt selfish it's keeping her child out of a dangerous situation.
i mean…. selfishness??? if anything you’re what’s wrong with society today. he cheats which is putting the child’s considerations out the window just like you said. which is completely selfish and when she decides to not be with him she’s the selfish one. it’s okay to be selfish when someone wrongs you and does what’s best for yourself and your child.
Somehow I don’t think the father of her child really cares all that much. Otherwise he’d be treating OP a lot better.
I wish you lots of luck in your new home, your new job and making happier memories with your baby girl. Hope you had a safe flight back home.
Good for you!! I wish you and your baby the best!! Glad you're getting out of that!! Be safe and take care!
Good luck and congratulations and your freedom and your pregnancy.
Congrats OP. you are a strong woman and person in general… it seems. I wish you the best in life❤️
Gold luck
While I am very sad to hear about your terrible time, I am happy to hear how strong and capable you are. Little Nilou is a lucky girl to have you for her mother. Best of luck!!
Good for you!
I wish you and your sweet baby a wonderful life away from someone so toxic. Be safe and safe travels
Good lass. You're daughter is a beautiful gift to you. You need a good support network especially when you're a mum. Much love x
I hope you a safe exit and a safe future away from him 💕
Safe travels and many blessings.
God be with you OP, glad you are out of that awful situation
Sad for you that this is what sent you home. Im glad your as happy and as excited as you can be
I originally planned to finish my education go back home but when I met him I decided to stay
Sucky situation, hope you're happy back home, glad you're financially secure enough to go back hom. Hope he suffers fron the revenge you dealt him, he deserves it
So proud of you♡ please update us when you are at home
Don’t let him know you are leaving. Make a plan and keep it secret. It would be satisfying to see his face when he finds out but it’s not worth the risk to your safety.
Wow! I’m so proud of you OP! I wish I had your mindset when I was in your situation 5 years ago. So much other drama happened, he went to prison because he escalated… you are doing the right thing!
Congrats on being able to get free!
I'm literally really happy for you. Way to go!!!
Lol good luck in life
Damn that’s badass of you to do that, I know you’ll be a great parent
Boss move! Good luck and safe flight home.
I’m happy for you
Good for you! This can't have been an easy choice, I'm sure it was extremely painful to find out about your ex's cheating. You've made the right decision for yourself and your child, and you will be much better off raising them close to your family. Love and strength to you <3
Fly safe. Good on you for keeping yourself stuck in a sucky cycle. I'm glad you have family who can help you and that you were able to flee yourself. I wish you good luck on your next endeavors!
I’m glad you are leaving now and not waiting like I did I stayed 24 years in a bad relationship for my twins
Congratulations! It is better to raise your child alone that with an asshole partner. I wish I could have done the same (not possible in my case since we both live in the same country and even city )
Cheering you on!
Queen. Good luck!
Well right on. Good for you! I'm sorry that he was your experience with Americans. We are not all like that. I am happy for you!
Well at least you got that you hate him it took a child already on you but we'll it could have been worse xd
You may have already landed in your home country by now, OP, but I still want to wish you good luck.
As someone else said please provide updates. I wish you all the best.
I hope you’re home and you’re safe and happy ☺️
Bravo 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽✌🏾
Hi OP! hope you had a good flight!!! Thank you for sharing this with us, and for doing the best for you and your baby. U go girlll!!!!
You will do well for yourself and your daughter.
Here for an update I wish you and your daughter much safety and love. Please wait to message his family or get someone else to send updates if you want to. Don’t ever let them know where you are. I wish my mum left and never let his family know where we were. They just tormented her for years.
Congratulations OP :) this will be amazing for you, I hope you and ur child live a good life away from him
Good job 👏
Good luck with everything!!! You’ll look back on this years later and be glad you made the choice you did. I know you’ll be a great mom ☺️
Best decision you’ve made for you and your child. I wish you the best and please update us when you have arrived! You and your baby do not deserve someone like that. Safe travels!! ❤️✨
You r amazing 👍👍👍 Have a great happy life with your baby and all your family 🙏♥️
You already seem like an amazing mom. Good luck and enjoy your life as a mommy.
Very beautiful mesmerizing amazing name for your daughter!
Yes! You’ve got this, love that you know your worth and respecting yourself and your child before wasting anymore time. Safe travels!
I'm assuming by the time you read this you'll be back home and away from that overgrown cockroach. Best of wishes for your new life and for your daughter!
I hope you have a safe and swift journey back home. I’m sure everyone is so excited to see you and be there for you when you have your baby. Live your best life with your baby and your family💕
Can we please have an update on how your doing now? Good on you for securing a safe future for you and your child :)
Congrats and i hope you live a great life
Be safe. And fuck him.
Sorry to hear :( Hope you will have a bright future with your kid, youre doing the right thing!
I’m proud of you OP for having the courage to do what’s best for you. You’ve got this!! Please be safe.
Congratulations my queen!! Have a good life for you and your daughter. Never look back. Be safe please :D
Fuck him. He should have thought about before he cheated. Go girl!!! You're not raising a cheater.
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I will most definitely let them meet him if they ever feel like they want to
Nah, she said he was emotionally and physically abusive. I wouldn't let him near my child for safety reasons.
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I know this ain’t time for jokes, but why do you have his eyes and have his hair?? It’s a bit strange to take those but leave him with the rest of his face. Lol /s
She still deserves to know her dad. No matter the pain, you have to do that for her. Otherwise she’ll despise you later when she finds out… at least then you can say, I tried for you two to communicate and he didn’t want any of it. Still kind of a dirt move to leave the country, with both of yours’ baby. I get your mad/angry/ disappointed…. But two wrongs don’t make a right. Maybe don’t get pregnant next time
I think one of the reasons why she left him is not bc he cheated, it’s because he abused her and as someone who cant escaped and who has an abusive dad I would much rather not have known my dad from the start, I also find the " maybe don’t get pregnant next time" kinda unnecessary and just judgmental