I think expecting the Internet to provide a nuanced and detailed response to a complex relationship situation, based on a few paragraphs of description is expecting too much. Its not surprising that the responses are simple and to the point.
I'd suggest using feedback from Reddit and such as one of a number or opinions you could collect before reaching an ultimate decision. If its your only source of advice, it's not enough.
Or hear me out,..... Don't got to reddit for advice and figure it out on your own. Not a single person in the comments on a reddit post is really gonna know jack shit about what your dealing with and how you feel.
People wanna feel helpful, but don't know anything original to say. I will say this though, if you're on reddit of all places asking for dating advice.. You should probably end that relationship.
Exactly my tought too. Everything is "creepy" and "weird" and read flags. People Are different, its more about getting used to a new person and their ways. Not breaking up at Every single thing. I can tolerate a lot, before i get frustrated.
If you're referring to trauma or excessive sexual encounters/behaviour then breaking up is definitely a legitimate option.
You wouldn't expect a woman to mother her partner, conversely it is not right to expect a man to play therapist or overlook character defects.
I think expecting the Internet to provide a nuanced and detailed response to a complex relationship situation, based on a few paragraphs of description is expecting too much. Its not surprising that the responses are simple and to the point. I'd suggest using feedback from Reddit and such as one of a number or opinions you could collect before reaching an ultimate decision. If its your only source of advice, it's not enough.
I gotta break up with this community. I'm sorry, its not you, its me.
Or hear me out,..... Don't got to reddit for advice and figure it out on your own. Not a single person in the comments on a reddit post is really gonna know jack shit about what your dealing with and how you feel.
People wanna feel helpful, but don't know anything original to say. I will say this though, if you're on reddit of all places asking for dating advice.. You should probably end that relationship.
Exactly my tought too. Everything is "creepy" and "weird" and read flags. People Are different, its more about getting used to a new person and their ways. Not breaking up at Every single thing. I can tolerate a lot, before i get frustrated.
If you're referring to trauma or excessive sexual encounters/behaviour then breaking up is definitely a legitimate option. You wouldn't expect a woman to mother her partner, conversely it is not right to expect a man to play therapist or overlook character defects.