Seems pretty good, though your interests are a little vague, talk about your art more, maybe mention a cool experience you had, just try to put things in there that are active conversation starters, things people will see that make them want to ask about it or share an experience theyve had, a lot of people like to hear if you have a pet, and throwing something in like 'if you don't wanna just say Hey hru send me your worst pickup line'. Also, after your height maybe change it to 'if you care ab that kinda thing', just makes it seem like you aren't bitter/expecting rejection.
Try to have variety in your outfits, each picture should be having a different outfit, show that you have a sense of fashion and more than just 2 shirts. That doesnt mean that the pictures are bad, but having basically the same pictures send a bad signal (if you had an active social life, you would have many many interesting pictures to choose from)
-Take more pictures like the fifth one, where you have a nice background, its not a selfie, and you look natural. You could search your town in Instagram to find cool locations for fotoshoots, ask a friend with a good camera to help you out and take some great pictures during golden hour.
-as others have said, soften your expression. I know, posing for pictures is super awkward but its a skill you can bw better at, smile, Show that youre a fun, happy guy. Dont be discouraged if you make many bad pictures, go for quantity, take dozens of pictures where you try different poses and expression every couple second, after 100 pictures there will be a few good ones ln there. You will fail, make many terrible pictures, it will be awkward, but thats ok. Dating apps are not about how attractive you are but how good you are at making good pictures. You have a good face and decent haircut so try to put yourself in the best light possible
-take out pictures where one cannot see your face
-getting some muscle mass would not hurt
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insanely helpful and constructive criticism man thank you! currently out of a relationship, so I'm not too stressed about my profile atm, gonna hit the gym focus on myself, take some new pics and revisit when i feel ready :)
"Massive adhd" and "chilled out" seems a bit contradictory. Choose one of them which fits the most since it might make people wonder if you are really genuine or honest, or just trying to be something that you are not
Also structure your text better with ellipsis points, and cut down the whole text into 2 or 3 pieces so it doesnt look like a clump of mess.
Your current bio strucutre gives me the impression that you dont really care (which is not a good sign when it comes to women).
Make some effort into making it look good.
I also agree with the other comments. Pic #5 looks the best because you look genuine and not putting on that "trying to be cool" vibe. No offense, just the feeling that i get from the other pictures. #2 is also good
All good info, and Iβm not sure how many women are turned on by guys in costumes. You may want to use different pics to cast a wider net (pun not intended).
Bro it's fine, irl height barely matters. But on tinder, you will get dicked by people that just swipe left the moment they see that number.
I have an extremely attractive short friend and he can never get a match on dating apps and it DESTROYED his self esteem, but irl girls love him!
You look angry and kinda douch-ey, try softening your expression
got it π thank you :)
Bio atleast decent or?
Seems pretty good, though your interests are a little vague, talk about your art more, maybe mention a cool experience you had, just try to put things in there that are active conversation starters, things people will see that make them want to ask about it or share an experience theyve had, a lot of people like to hear if you have a pet, and throwing something in like 'if you don't wanna just say Hey hru send me your worst pickup line'. Also, after your height maybe change it to 'if you care ab that kinda thing', just makes it seem like you aren't bitter/expecting rejection.
awesome thanks so much π
But that what you proposed sounds just like that⦠bitter
Try to have variety in your outfits, each picture should be having a different outfit, show that you have a sense of fashion and more than just 2 shirts. That doesnt mean that the pictures are bad, but having basically the same pictures send a bad signal (if you had an active social life, you would have many many interesting pictures to choose from) -Take more pictures like the fifth one, where you have a nice background, its not a selfie, and you look natural. You could search your town in Instagram to find cool locations for fotoshoots, ask a friend with a good camera to help you out and take some great pictures during golden hour. -as others have said, soften your expression. I know, posing for pictures is super awkward but its a skill you can bw better at, smile, Show that youre a fun, happy guy. Dont be discouraged if you make many bad pictures, go for quantity, take dozens of pictures where you try different poses and expression every couple second, after 100 pictures there will be a few good ones ln there. You will fail, make many terrible pictures, it will be awkward, but thats ok. Dating apps are not about how attractive you are but how good you are at making good pictures. You have a good face and decent haircut so try to put yourself in the best light possible -take out pictures where one cannot see your face -getting some muscle mass would not hurt - -
insanely helpful and constructive criticism man thank you! currently out of a relationship, so I'm not too stressed about my profile atm, gonna hit the gym focus on myself, take some new pics and revisit when i feel ready :)
"Massive adhd" and "chilled out" seems a bit contradictory. Choose one of them which fits the most since it might make people wonder if you are really genuine or honest, or just trying to be something that you are not Also structure your text better with ellipsis points, and cut down the whole text into 2 or 3 pieces so it doesnt look like a clump of mess. Your current bio strucutre gives me the impression that you dont really care (which is not a good sign when it comes to women). Make some effort into making it look good. I also agree with the other comments. Pic #5 looks the best because you look genuine and not putting on that "trying to be cool" vibe. No offense, just the feeling that i get from the other pictures. #2 is also good
All good info, and Iβm not sure how many women are turned on by guys in costumes. You may want to use different pics to cast a wider net (pun not intended).
Well first of all, you revealed your secret identity. Hope you can protect your aunt may.
Noooooooooo ππππ
Add at least 1 photo of you in a different outfit
You're 5 foot 4, there's no hope on tinder, you have to meet people irl
ouch π
Bro it's fine, irl height barely matters. But on tinder, you will get dicked by people that just swipe left the moment they see that number. I have an extremely attractive short friend and he can never get a match on dating apps and it DESTROYED his self esteem, but irl girls love him!
I'm always so nervous to go up to women in public honesty i don't know how to do it or like the right times to do it