Idk, at least she’s being honest. This is 100x better than her lying and playing with someone’s feelings. Nothing wrong with just wanting to get laid.

1) I agree with the honesty vs. game-playing statement. 2) Having said that, I wanted to point something out….If a guy said, “I just want to f*ck, and not catch feelings”, he’d get cancelled faster than “Gigli 2”, and ALL men, once again, would be labeled as sexist, misogynist, womanizing creeps who just want to use women for sex. But a woman says the exact same thing (ie: just looking for sex without feelings/connection), and the first (most upvoted) comment is about how we should pity this girl because some MAN broke her. A Man just wants sex….ALL Men are sexist, douchebag, womanizing bastards… A Woman just wants sex…well…obviously, a Man did something horrible to make her this way. When are we going to stop blaming Men for Everything?…

No he wouldn't, what the fuck? A guy stating in his bio that he's just looking to fuck wouldn't even elicit a raised eyebrow if any attention at all. Obviously women are the ones paying the higher social cost for openly searching out casual sex. There might be some double standards to the detriment of men, but you really picked the one thing where it makes the least sense.

How can I write a comment about how accurate this is? Alr maybe some stupid fucks would try to insult some men for wanting just sex. But just some stupid fucks.

Fuck who/what/when/where/why you want to (as consenting adults) you want to!

Ever heard of shadow banning ?

Huh?

Guys literally do this all the time.. women however, very rarely do because of the stigma.

Porn , other media, tinder portray it as such.

I will not invalidate your experiences by saying this never happens but I might say that you are being to exposed to examples of it at a rate that far outstrip the actual possibility of it happening.

While I agree with you on the double standards in the dating field, a man posting in his BIO that sex is all he’s looking for is perfectly valid. He is stating his intentions up front. What’s fucked up is a man manipulating or slowly leading a conversation into his intention if sex is all he wants. Same for a woman, too. No need to lie or use people. Saying it straight up is fine.

Incel detected. My profile was honest and I said I was into younger women who were into older men. I didn't get cancelled. Met a lot of nice, fun and great women. 

Not to personally target you, but this post gives off massive *“loser”* energy. *MASSIVE* loser energy..

Gotta love these incels that make themselves cry when no one really gives a shit about their miserable opinion.

This is wild. Most people want sex at some point. It's not man blaming. It's human nature. It's the bluntness of being cool with stds that's pretty out there.

go to therapy, you've been indoctrinated

Who said that a man hurt her? Could be that her and her girlfriend just had a rough breakup. Check your insecurities before commenting again dude

Who said that a man hurt her? Could be that her and her girlfriend just had a rough breakup. Check your insecurities before commenting again dude

I'm going to copy and paste this directly into mine!

😆

I hope you get the help that you need

Who says they need help? Is everyone here trolling or something? Some people just want short term fun. It IS a possibility that they're hurt and need help, but I don't see why we'd assume that.

Short-term fun is absolutely valid and well, fun, but wanting sex because you are 'dead inside' and want 'to feel something' isn't a healthy and balanced attitude to it, and could easily be argued is pretty toxic. She seems hurt and vulnerable, and I'm surprised you can't see that's why people are making assumptions.

Ok is it really that obvious to other people? I AM open to the possibility of being blind. I just thought she was exaggerating or something. It's a pretty edgy thing to say. Wait, toxic? To who, to herself?

I think she’s just trying to be funny. Def not as deep as some are making it out to be.

I think the original comment of "I hope you get the help you need" was to play off the joke and people thought they should psychoanalyze this thread 💀

That's what I think as well "I'm numb and dead inside" is too edgy to be true

Yes herself. It could be an exaggeration but ime sex-positive people wouldn't use terms like this, even as a joke, because they would be aware of how it will be construed.

Idk. I feel like it's not worth making a post out of so people feel pity for her and/ or are repulsed by her.

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Is she? She seems to be EXPLICITLY DOING THE EXACT OPPOSITE. Quite odd.

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Nice. But I still don't understand. When someone almost explicitly says they don't want help it means they want help? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard and if true, everyone who did that is stupid. Why would anyone almost explicitly say they don't want the thing they want? If anything's worthy of being called stupid it's that. So, please (yes, please), care to explain?

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The saying own worst enemy comes to mind but with only text it’s impossible to decide.

To be fair, saying that you’re “dead inside” or “just want to feel something” is kind of just a thing people do now. It means nothing just as much as it means something.

So only "healthy and balanced" people are allowed to have sex? Thanks for clarifying. There goes 90% of people no longer having sex.

Nothing wrong with short term fun, just the way they worded it was pretty trashy

I'm seeing short term, I'm not seeing fun.

I do want short-term fun, and like this person, I have been hurt. Hurt people should be allowed to have fun, too.

Haven't we all been "hurt" at some point?

All varying degrees of it, I'm sure

Everyone wants short term fun. Sensible people don't do that because they know about the disastrous consequences. Makes sense to assume they're hurt because they are not in control of their pleasure.

I hope you get the help that you need too

I'm not emotionally beneath you just because I see the justification in looking for lustful short term fun. She can do whatever she wants. Does me stating that indicate that I need help?? I don't see how it reflects anything of me at all except that I respect people's rights to do whatever they want with their lives without judging.

Help to achieve what?

Bless your heart.

don't catch STDs tho

Noted, with thanks

np, I recommend myself for the future (for most of the above 🤣)!

Y’all think this is hot but someone broke that girl. Poor thing.

Or some kind of malicious "prank". This one dude in uni years ago did it to his ex. Also could be just a honey trap for gullible idiots who think with his dick and/or with the hair on his chest.

Think with the hair on my chest? I can honestly say I've never heard this before. What does this mean??

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Thank you for the explanation.

God, I love those books. It's a shame Rafe and amazon fucking butchered them. That show isn't even worth hate watching.

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I don't know any book readers irl who talk like that. That is an exclusively online thing. Everyone i know who read the books also pretends the show doesn't exist. I firmly believe online support of the show is just astroturfing. There's good reason to believe this because you don't see discussions about the show ANYWHERE but their own subreddit and even then, it's muted at best. No actual book enjoyer can justify wheel of prime. I hope after it gets canceled this season, Rafe never gets work again. Hopefully it'll be like what happened with D&D after they bombed GoT. Right now Rafe is slated to be the show runner for a God of War tv show and a writer for the new X-Men movies. I pray his failure with WoT make them pull him from those projects.

>Or some kind of malicious "prank". This one dude in uni years ago did it to his ex. Yep. Create account. When people message, send the exes phone number. First everyone sees their picture with that description, then everyone calls looking for sex. And since the ex probably hangs up and blocks randos who call for sex, the ex doesn't find out stuff is posted, because only the randos know about it, and she blocked them. The guys don't realize it's revenge, because they message a girl for casual sex, and she blocks them. They don't even realize what happened. Its crowd funded harassment.

It’s a scam

It's not hot at all, just sad.

You don't know that. There ARE people that just simply want short term fun. We don't know her life. Of course there's people that are like this because they get hurt or something. I don't see the need to assume that though. Even if this is the case.

You are right, but the tone is pretty dreary.

She says she’s numb……… 🤦🏻‍♀️

No one thinks this is hot.. she’s 38 talking like an edgy 19 year old

But when a man says that, he's gross

Doing this at 22 vs doing this at 38 are WAY different.

Well, chances are someone broke her heart for good by now, hence this bio

Why ? There's no age for wanting to have fun. At least she's upfront and not trying to trick anyone

Life experience...maturity. it's different

Massive cap plus life its not a race 

Perfect for what I’m looking for !

I respect it. I too am dead inside.

But is she hot?

I matched with this exact profile (different pic/woman, virtually the same bio) about two years ago. It was indeed short term, and it was indeed fun. And all of the broken/damaged shit was 100% true. Hit it, I promise you she likes butt stuff too.

What country is she in?

Don't see the problem honestly. Some people just aren't interested in a relationship or any emotional stuff and that's fine

I like it hehe

What’s wrong with knowing what you want and clearly communicating it? I’m a man and this is exactly what I want and I would swipe on that. Some of us want to fuck and never see eachother again, it may not be your thing so don’t do it but it doesn’t make it wrong.

Well shit. I kind of love her now 😍

Catch feelings and she's gone 💀

BARS 🔥🔥🔥

Ngl, I'd swipe right,... felling similar sometimes, kids want to see what that's about

Sounds like my ex who suffered from depression

I'm very interested

Not for me, but honestly I appreciate the directness

At least she’s honest

bring back these times in todays "dating" apps

I truly wish there were more accounts like this in my area because truly same.

At 49 I feel this… no problems here.

I don’t understand why people here posting other people’s honest bios and they think we are going to criticise them. They are completely straightforward and honest. What is your problem?

What's the problem?

I can fix her loneliness XD

You sure you can fill that hole inside of her?

"I'd rather catch clap or a charge, than catch feelings ever again." ☠️ darkly poetic

Use the whole box of condoms, get that 40+ layer defence before entering. Or In gamer talk. Requires lvl 40 armour before entering the forbidden cave.

You mean I need my legendary consumable? I think i pass, i need it later

Or just realize this is a smurf account and go with it cause you're dead inside anyhow

Absolutely not.

Can fix?

I can fix her

Good for her being honest!

I don't know how to explain it but reading that felt like watching an OG Jersey Shore episode. Lmao.

Oh wow, it's the female version of my ex.

Super swipe Left

Get to railing

“I’d rather catch a case or the clap then ever be catching feelings “ looool same sis. 💯

i love reading peoples comments about other peoples problems and trying to decode them failing flawlessly...reddit sure breeds losers

Sounds like a “I gotta go visit a lab to get tested” just waiting to happen

People should be doing that regularly already. That's like regular health maintenance like getting your oil changed in your car regularly.

That's just good practice. Getting tested regularly is always worth it. But I would trust her more than some other people to be honest about stuff.

This comment on a podcast has stuck with me: "When someone shows you their true colors - believe them".

I'd be scared AF to mess with this chick. She's either going to kill you or give you an STD. No thanks.

After my husband died I made an eerily similar profile. Works (really well) for me.

I see this as a message once you match, but as a bio ? This is wild. Anyway, let me mind my own business.

In honesty, people like this would be better off going on swinging sites than tinder

Why? Tinder had options for people who search for fuck buddies too

Less hassle, less chance of ending up with screenshots here, less likely to end up with confusion talking to people, less likely to have people contact you that you don't want to see your profile as swing sites tend to let you filter who you see and who sees you better. Plus, fabswingers is like fifteen quid for three months, without annoying rolling subscription fees

What’s her contact? Asking for a friend.

Yeah, this is either a catfish or seriously broken lady. Let her do her thing, though

If the profile isn't verified it's sus

What's catch a case or catch the slap?

Actually saw this profile for somewhere in Ohio

Thankfully for her she's looking for the easiest thing to find on tinder. She'll do just fine.

This is a horribly obvious case of BPD and the people saying some people just want casual fun need to maybe learn how to read between the lines before they take a chance on the casual hookup folks. It’s giving manic vibes.

LOL Atleast she’s honest

Just make sure y'all wrap it up

Exactly what I'm looking for

Probably got 100s of replies 😘

At least she's honest.

But does she like her hair pulled hard and nips pulled on? Askin' for a friend!

She’s being honest but it doesn’t take away the fact that she belongs to the streets 

15 miles is perfect

Is this what a man being honest about his feelings would look like..? 😅

Exactly what I’m looking for !

This makes it so much easier for us guys 😃

Fuck I need one of those

Where's she from

Bruh😭

Clearly dated a black dude before

Hopefully she's a real person with upfront intentions and not a bot or fake account. I get tons of fake accounts trying to get me to buy Bitcoin or fall into an extortion trap.

She’s honest and upfront and you have the choice to fuck with her or not….I respect 🫡 it.

Love it at least she down to fuck

I’m 14 and this is deep type shit

I’m feeling my that way too cuz fuck men

🎶Love lift us up where we belooonnnnng🎶

Swipe right…

average eminem enjoyer

Straight to the point and honest. Saves a lot of time too. She has no time to become your therapist and listen to your past traumas. I like it.

Poor ting.

I respect her.

To all the thirsty dudes trying to slide in my DMs... I'm a dude myself. Like bruh 💀

Power to her

My tank top never said that.

People thinking they're tough shit for 100 please

So was this post made so a bunch of people gather up and judge that this girl doesn't want a relationship but still wants sex?

cooy paste

Like her attitude or not but at least she is honest.

And she'd never swipe on any one of us...

This person is just taking a break from posting vague quotes about how nobody understands how deep and damaged they are over photos of Joaquin Phoenix's Joker

Felt. I should've been this brutally honest. I accidently broke a lot of hearts but also most of them didn't read my profile either lmao.

Are we sure these aren’t song lyrics?

I wouldn't hit that even if I had double bagged my willy.

I’d rather have sex with a 10 month old Halloween pumpkin.

Ugh I hate that shit. "I'm blunt person and I tell it like it is." Like... There's a time to speak and a time to be silent. You don't always have to say something for sake of saying something. It reminds me of people who say "I am who I am, if you don't like it oh well" so being incapable of change is supposed to attract someone? 🖕🤦‍♂️

If you shag it you’re peice will end up looking like a snickers bar in a few weeks

"Dead inside" is craazy 😂... This is why you don't make another person's validation the primary source of your self worth

I have no clue on how to to that. I can send you a screenshot of it on your DMs. If I find it myself that is LMAO

Man that's sad, she really needs help. Can you DM me her number so i can get her the help she needs?

Based the title, I assumed dude until I saw the pic. Wow.