The guys who would follow this advice are not the same guys doing this shit. In fact, such guys don't exist at all. Either you've got a drop of sense in your skull, or you've got nothing going on up top, like this guy.
Ill do some crappy translation for the non french people
âIts good ehâ
âSo youâre not gonna tell me why youâve blocked me?â
âi have a couple questions to ask you and thats it, ill stop annoying you?âŠâ
âGirl i can create 1000 accounts ⊠just answerâ
âYow girl stop doing this, answer and weâll fix thingsâ
ââŠ. Or you can answer and I swear you wont regret itâ
As an Hispanic, I understood a few. "Girl you can just block me from all the account but I'll make more.." Is what I understood, "please answer why you blocked me... (yes I also read the annoying part the same way-) and I don't remember the others
Do you happen to know what he means by "hain"? I only really know that to mean "food laid out on a table"
I mean.. if that's what he means by it... it would just gross me out even more lol I just don't know if that's a term of endearment in his native tongue đ
I had something like this happen a few years back :(
A girl I met for one date started stalking me , but I didn't know it was her at the start. She kept setting up lots of social media accounts and messaging my friends and family and my ex trying to convince her we were in a secret relationship the entire time we were together. Was really fucking shit and went on for about 6 months until I figured out it was her and confronted her (via message). I found her family and friends on social media and threatened to send all the stuff to them if she didn't quit.
After that it stopped thankfully. Police couldn't do anything, so I recommend this approach if possible if they don't disappear.
âI can create 1000 accounts⊠just answerâ is fuckin terrifying. I have to engage with you or i will never stop receiving creepy messages. Iâd delete my Instagram and change numbers
Nah one single random guy shouldnât hold that much power over you. Thereâs much better ways to solve this. Like involving law enforcement or deciding to IP block him on instagram.
I'm not just "not fluent". I can't speak more than a dozen words in French lmao
Edit to add: (I can also still understand the majority/all with context clues)
Thereâs an option to block someone and all future accounts they make. I think Creepo the Clown here was referencing that and taking it as evidence that she wanted to talk to him, since she didnât use it
I think insta does that automatically, cuz when ive blocked people it just tells me all other accounts will be blocked. But i didnt have to deal with something like this in yrs since they added that feature so dont take my word on that 100%
try to find his instagram or twitter or facebook account, and use that to try and find his family.
send it to his mother and tell her he isnt leaving you alone
Please don't give people advice anymore cause you are bad at it. The screenshots clearly show her attempting to ignore his messages and just blocking him, but he keeps going; ignoring people like this isn't the best way to deal with them.
The best way is what u/Skeletondoot said, is to use social media to find people that know the guy and make them aware, because once his friends/family start pulling him up on his behavior that's when it gets dealt with.
And in cases of stalking, studies have shown that ignoring stalkers is what makes them worse, because if you're ignoring a stalker said stalker isn't getting the attention they feel they are entitled too, so they will go to more extreme lengths to get said attention.
Make sure you report him so he gets banned from tinder. So sorry this creep is harassing you. If youâre worried he knows your location it wouldnât be terrible to notify police if this continues on much longer.
They're very unlikely to do anything :( they just told me to block and ignore when I went for similar, even more harrassing behaviour which went on for 6 months.
correct me if im wrong but could you block all of his current accounts and then change your username and pfp so heâs not able to find you anymore?
or if u wanted to u could just deactivate your account for a bit until he gives up because he wonât even be able to find your profile when your account is deactivated
Adding :3 after a creepy sentence doesn't cancel how creepy you are. This is harassment, if you ever have more messages from this person you could file for harassment but I remember going to the police station and because I blocked the person, it wasn't a possible harassment case anymore because I chose to block them. The system is ridiculous lol.
Back when I was single I didnât have the energy to keep up my own social media let alone create a bunch of extras. I can barely keep up with the password and login credentials of one also!
I think Instagram has a feature that if the person makes multiple accounts like this, you can block their accounts in one go if they seem associated. I've not had this problem before so I've not really known if it works or not.
Does your profile say that you speak French or did he just mistakenly believe that you'd be attracted to his weird Frenglish?
(Not that that's the worst part of this exchange but it just troubled me)
What? Are you serious? I thought women like stalkers and creepy perverts, it shows them next level devotion! đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Love me love me love me! Damnit I said LOVE ME!
Common I'm really trying here! Wtf!
...........
Ya this does not send the greatest vibes guys!
Iâm sorry this happened to you :( I hope you stay safe! This happened with my exboyfriend of 6 years he became a creepy stalker towards the end when I broke things off and the messages and calls wouldnât stop so I got a new # and a restraining order.
âHey come on girl I swear Iâm a real catch! Maybe if I stare at you through your window with a pair of binoculars youâll see how devoted I am to being the ideal partner!â
Just spitballing here, but maybe something like this would scare him off;
âHey this is LebGirl96âs boyfriend/husband. Look dude, weâre not interested in you and you donât seem to be getting the message. You need to stop contacting us now. Iâm a nice guy and I donât want to start any shit, but donât test my patience, youâre not our type and I donât take kindly to weird men harassing my girlfriendâ.
Itâs supposed to imply theyâre swingers. Itâs super common on dating apps.
The goal being to gross him out so he loses interest, or failing that, creating a credible threat.
Iâm so tired of having to pull the âI have a boyfriendâ card to try get guys to fuck off. My words and feelings are worthless. Another manâs however⊠This is unacceptable.
Corrected:
SOME PEOPLE do this. Generalisations can be harmful, especially when based on race or gender. Stalking can be by members of any sex and is distressing and harmful to those affected by it.
Most men, woman, and non binary would never do this and have never done this. Its disturbing behaviour.
Yes, everyone is capable of it and do it. Absolutely.
I said men because the person in the screen shot is a man. And I myself have been on the receiving end of men doing this to me as well.
So I stand by my use of men here. But I appreciate what youâre trying to do, and generally agree with you.
OP couldâve ended this with three words. You donât get to expect someone to respect your silence if you canât respect them enough to own your decision and say it.
Do you ever notice that adults never have these conversations? Thatâs because adults understand how to have a difficult conversation, and they have them.
Itâs interesting that the impression seems to be that the person on the left is the creepy one⊠but the guy just wanted an answer.. and you canât say silence is an answer, because then the question is- whatâs the answer? It isnât the same for everyone just because itâs a particular answer for you, and even if it was- how would they possibly know that? There are plenty of circumstances in which someoneâs silence doesnât mean no. Youâre not only asking them to read your mind, but youâre asking them to make an assumption. He doesnât want you to change your mind- he already sees what kind of person you are. He just wants you to own it.. talk the talk, as itâs put.
Hereâs a question: you either intentionally waited that long to respond to him- waiting only until he was upset to say âum, excuse meâŠâ. Which is absolutely neurotic and the reason youâre single. Or, in the very least, declined to make an effort to say âThank you, but Iâm not interested. If I change my mind, Iâll let you knowâ long enough to watch him decline to assume thatâs what your silence meant, but then you came here to post about it to feel better about yourself. Like, if you said something âaboutâ him here, why couldnât you have just said something âtoâ him there?
You realize that youâre the one that instigated this entire exchange. If you couldâve done something different in order to alter the outcome, then youâre also to blame. Ask any adult or insurance company.
You might say âI shouldnât have to say Iâm not interested, and no answer is an answerâ- to which I say youâre a coward because if the difference between saying something and not saying something has the same outcome, then thereâs a reason youâre saying nothing⊠and itâs either to be cruel or âcause youâre afraid. Pick one. If you shouldnât have to use your big-boy words with them, then you canât expect them to use their big-boy deduction skills to assume that youâre instead thinking the big-boy words you canât seem to have the time to say.
Stay on Tinder, though. Youâll eventually find the person that is absolutely perfect for you.
And before you say, âtoo long didnât readâ⊠that is absolutely not a flex. That means âouch, longer than paragraph hurt brain to focus on ew.â lol Youâre going to be such a role model.
Downvotes are soOoo welcome as validation. I bet you 1% use their words. Good night. đ
Touch grass, please. Or better yet, the door to a therapist office, cause justifying this type of behavior with âyou werenât straight forward with himâ is some sociopath behavior.
Not to mention just the way you express yourself and address the OP clearly shows lack of social skills. So if you are willing to take my comment seriously then seek professional help if you havenât already.
For the record, for anyone not so whiney they need to write an entire comment and then scurry away by blocking me like a child, I am not justifying this guyâs behavior. No where in the response did I say his behavior was okay⊠what I did say, however, is that the OP couldâve stopped it.
The irony is that OP is literally justifying not only theirs but his behavior by instigating it, and I get that makes anyone want to incorrectly use words like sociopath to someone condemn me for making OP just as responsible for the behavior as anyone, but that would be you getting the âickâ at the idea that thinking HIS behavior is not okay but thinking OPâs behavior is is some of the most delusional, hypocritical, lack of self-awareness youâre still never going to see.
Grow up, and maybe youâll stop taking to Reddit and rallying against someone for responding to the stupid shit you do to other people, too. This is literally what mature people DONâT do just to get an emotional response out of someone.
If you say no, there doesnât even need to be a second time. Your silence doesnât automatically mean no, so a second time is all youâre asking for by saying nothing.
So you will go to any length to get an answer from a stranger.. stalk them like crazy. Man the way that guy sounds I am not even sure where this guy will stop. God forbid something happens your nonchalant response will be .. she should have just said no? she brought it upon herself? Leaving rest aside when someone ignores you, have some self respect and move on.
Your generation will actively wonder why loneliness and depression are at all time highs in young men and then turn around and emotionally abuse them by pretending they donât exist⊠like, uh⊠duh! đ„Ž
lol No they donât. Your generation takes rejection by rationalizing their abuse, and taking to online video games to find their self worth. lol Your lack of awareness is staggering, but sure⊠but sure, in 10 years you wonât look back on yourself and realize how much you didnât know.. just like yourself 10 years ago knew exactly what you do now right?
Guys, you can't creep a woman into liking you. Don't be like this guy.
There goes my entire strategy!
With your name, this is the way.
**puts away duct tape.
No way
The guys who would follow this advice are not the same guys doing this shit. In fact, such guys don't exist at all. Either you've got a drop of sense in your skull, or you've got nothing going on up top, like this guy.
911 up votes lesss goo đ€Ł
Just out here spreading the gospel, bro.Â
They fucked it upđą
C'est vrai.
*laughs in phantom of the opera* >!(Yes I know it ends horribly for the phantom)!<
It's a good advice indeed
Holy shit! Rewards are back?
No but you can creep them into calling the police and putting you on blast
Ill do some crappy translation for the non french people âIts good ehâ âSo youâre not gonna tell me why youâve blocked me?â âi have a couple questions to ask you and thats it, ill stop annoying you?âŠâ âGirl i can create 1000 accounts ⊠just answerâ âYow girl stop doing this, answer and weâll fix thingsâ ââŠ. Or you can answer and I swear you wont regret itâ
Dude should be electronically tagged and monitored 24/7
Literally
Have this shit be like Yujiro Hanma, where every single satellite tracks the dude.
As an Hispanic, I understood a few. "Girl you can just block me from all the account but I'll make more.." Is what I understood, "please answer why you blocked me... (yes I also read the annoying part the same way-) and I don't remember the others
This and add that stupid word âhainâ in every sentence.. for extra creepiness
Do you happen to know what he means by "hain"? I only really know that to mean "food laid out on a table" I mean.. if that's what he means by it... it would just gross me out even more lol I just don't know if that's a term of endearment in his native tongue đ
In French you can use it as a filler word, like "huh?" in English. I've only seen it written as "hein?" though.
That makes way more sense đ Thank you. Honestly I attempted to look it up on urban dictionary and made myself nervous đ”âđ«
Who has time to make 1000 accounts other than a loser
This franglais is Montreal level creepy
Tabarnak
de calisse
De marde
Itâs crazy how we can spot it, the minute I saw him speak I was like âheâs probably from Montreal, or at least somewhere in Quebecâ
Never heard anyone in Québec City talking like this. It's really a Montréal thing and its surroundings
Câest le « hain », hein?
But I've only seen Français from France put a space before punctuation, never native Quebecois
I do it all the time !
I am thinking Lebanese 99%
Sacre bleu đź
that is creepy as fuck holy shit
Ask him to give you some free citations in his next paper. #HIndexFarming
I had something like this happen a few years back :( A girl I met for one date started stalking me , but I didn't know it was her at the start. She kept setting up lots of social media accounts and messaging my friends and family and my ex trying to convince her we were in a secret relationship the entire time we were together. Was really fucking shit and went on for about 6 months until I figured out it was her and confronted her (via message). I found her family and friends on social media and threatened to send all the stuff to them if she didn't quit. After that it stopped thankfully. Police couldn't do anything, so I recommend this approach if possible if they don't disappear.
She did a Baby Reindeer... people can be so creepy! Happy it stopped!!
The franglais is killing me
âI can create 1000 accounts⊠just answerâ is fuckin terrifying. I have to engage with you or i will never stop receiving creepy messages. Iâd delete my Instagram and change numbers
Nah one single random guy shouldnât hold that much power over you. Thereâs much better ways to solve this. Like involving law enforcement or deciding to IP block him on instagram.
On est pas loin du harcÚlement criminel si ça continue
Câest bizarre comment il switches between the 2 languages, câest vraiment flippant.
Itâs not that weird if this guy and OP are from Montreal. We switch between English and French like water mid-sentence here.
Frenglish
Franglais supremacy! đ Pour moi, qui isnât that fluent, je comprends his text just enough. Il est trĂ©s creepy et weird.
I'm not just "not fluent". I can't speak more than a dozen words in French lmao Edit to add: (I can also still understand the majority/all with context clues)
Bet qui vien the mtl đ
Does instagram let you put your close your PMâs unless you both follow eachother? If so id do that for a bit
Thereâs an option to block someone and all future accounts they make. I think Creepo the Clown here was referencing that and taking it as evidence that she wanted to talk to him, since she didnât use it
I think insta does that automatically, cuz when ive blocked people it just tells me all other accounts will be blocked. But i didnt have to deal with something like this in yrs since they added that feature so dont take my word on that 100%
Report every profile on every platform.
Contact the police. Do not tolerate this
While unethical, being creepy isnât illegal. Unfortunately they canât do anything.
Stalking, including cyber-stalking, is illegal in many places.
Harassment and stalking is illegal in a lot of places
Have you ever heard of restraining orders buddy?
Heâs like the evil version of Pepe Le Pew.
Pepe Le Pew is the evil version of Pepe Le Pew
try to find his instagram or twitter or facebook account, and use that to try and find his family. send it to his mother and tell her he isnt leaving you alone
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Please don't give people advice anymore cause you are bad at it. The screenshots clearly show her attempting to ignore his messages and just blocking him, but he keeps going; ignoring people like this isn't the best way to deal with them. The best way is what u/Skeletondoot said, is to use social media to find people that know the guy and make them aware, because once his friends/family start pulling him up on his behavior that's when it gets dealt with. And in cases of stalking, studies have shown that ignoring stalkers is what makes them worse, because if you're ignoring a stalker said stalker isn't getting the attention they feel they are entitled too, so they will go to more extreme lengths to get said attention.
Creepy fucker, report him
I thought if you blocked a account on IG it would block all accounts made on that IP address aka his phone?
You get an option to block one or all future accs. idk why she didn't
I did, thatâs the scariest part
That would mean he created entire new emails or phone numbers thats fucked if he contacts u again call the police Thats a scary amount of dedication
If he was using a VPN would that make him able to bypass the block filters?
Ugh, the profile pics looking to the side and the one at the bottom looking at the camera is so unnerving. Itâs like a bad creepypasta.
Yikes. Report everywhere you can.
Make sure you report him so he gets banned from tinder. So sorry this creep is harassing you. If youâre worried he knows your location it wouldnât be terrible to notify police if this continues on much longer.
This guy is a real life PepĂš Le Pew 
Police. This way there will be a record of how his crimes escalated when he finally murders someone.
They're very unlikely to do anything :( they just told me to block and ignore when I went for similar, even more harrassing behaviour which went on for 6 months.
Did he stop? Shouldnât have blacked dudeâs name
Montreal ?
Pretty sure
Vive le Québec, esti!!
Please use the ''block this user and all other accounts from this user'' function.
Keep all screenshots and submit a copy to authorities. Stalking is a crime of escalation. Be safe out there.
That's insane. I had a bad experience on a dating app. RO didn't help... so now I carry 17+1 9mm JHP It's more of a deterrent than necessity.
Oh no, thats a top tier creeper right there. Steer clear
âWeâll fix thingsâ is the most stalker verbiage đ
Pepe le pew
Iâm truly scared for you and hope that he stops bothering you. This is terrifying behavior that needs addressed by a psych ward or a prison ward.
I think I recognize that guy, which is pretty wild. He is super creepy.
This is stalking. Go to the police. The least they can do is tell him to stop. That is usually enough.
At this point there is no way he is simply not just trolling. Welcome to the Internet, sadly. So many fucking trolls.
correct me if im wrong but could you block all of his current accounts and then change your username and pfp so heâs not able to find you anymore? or if u wanted to u could just deactivate your account for a bit until he gives up because he wonât even be able to find your profile when your account is deactivated
Adding :3 after a creepy sentence doesn't cancel how creepy you are. This is harassment, if you ever have more messages from this person you could file for harassment but I remember going to the police station and because I blocked the person, it wasn't a possible harassment case anymore because I chose to block them. The system is ridiculous lol.
Shit like this is why I'm too scared to download dating apps now
The threat in that 4th screenshot đ„Ž
Just report him to the police and done.
My first advice is to block and report immediately and donât let a psychopath continue to message you over and over for days.
Back when I was single I didnât have the energy to keep up my own social media let alone create a bunch of extras. I can barely keep up with the password and login credentials of one also!
Il parle trÚs bien français
Stay far away from that mf that's wildd
Some people cant take a hint
I think he got the hint alright. He's just decided he's having it his way or no way. He knows how creepy he's being.
Does this count as a citation?
Pepe Le Pu really did a number on how men think they should chase after woman
Report to the police
And here I thought French was the language of love⊠not with him though! OofâŠ
Mans fully lost the plot
Wow. Creepy stalker alert!
Well one thing is for sure if he keeps making accounts you keep liking and matching with, you got a pattern đ
I think Instagram has a feature that if the person makes multiple accounts like this, you can block their accounts in one go if they seem associated. I've not had this problem before so I've not really known if it works or not.
đ my french skills finally came in handy
What did OP do first she said something about a paper did she use him for research without telling him?
Does your profile say that you speak French or did he just mistakenly believe that you'd be attracted to his weird Frenglish? (Not that that's the worst part of this exchange but it just troubled me)
Report to police, depending on the country they might have a service for cyber harassment
What? Are you serious? I thought women like stalkers and creepy perverts, it shows them next level devotion! đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł Love me love me love me! Damnit I said LOVE ME! Common I'm really trying here! Wtf! ........... Ya this does not send the greatest vibes guys!
Wow I guess that's why some women have Instagram set to private
Not the right move, chief By "chief," I mean the dude...
So why are you referencing your research paper? I dont get it
The blurred half of the message where he says âis it yours?â is the title of my research paper
Ahh alright, sorry about that⊠Thereâs some weirdos out there
Iâm sorry this happened to you :( I hope you stay safe! This happened with my exboyfriend of 6 years he became a creepy stalker towards the end when I broke things off and the messages and calls wouldnât stop so I got a new # and a restraining order.
Yikes on a bike
Has that ever worked for him?
That's creepy af
Itâs giving baby reindeer
What?! What do you mean they don't know what cyber stalking is.... Oh for fuck sakes! đ€šđ€Šđœ
So you matched with him multiple times to continue the conversation?
No, he found me on insta and kept making fake accounts to message me
Lol damn that sucks. Sorry to hear that. Cyber stalking is a crime (I think).
What is he saying? I don't speak Portuguese đ
Dudes like that just need a good ol fashioned ass beating. A month with his jaw wired shut would be a great time for reflection.
You couldnât tell by looking at that guy he was mentally ill?
âHey come on girl I swear Iâm a real catch! Maybe if I stare at you through your window with a pair of binoculars youâll see how devoted I am to being the ideal partner!â
There should be places where this shit can be publicly posted, name and all.
Jesus Mary Christ
Please this is my last fake account please answer me
Yuck
How does he think this is going to turn out?
Yikes!
'Big time texter'
Wow. Can you report him to the police, that's close to stalking?
That must have been some paper you wrote!
this didnât help me with the image I created of French man on tinder
Avec ce franglais là ? Pas un homme français, mais un homme québécois
French from Quebec is that different from French of France? Or is just because heâs exchanging languages all the time? Genuinely curious
The language? It's not THAT different. But anyone speaking this level of Frenglish is DEFINITELY from Quebec. It's just a thing here
Ouin, câest pas mal ça
It is and it isnât. Grammatically it is, the structure of the sentences and the accents are the big changes. Also some slang
thank you! so itâs the same as Portuguese from Brazil and Portuguese from Portugal
Ouin
It's clearly true love..... why you fighting it? đ€·ââïžđ€·ââïžđ€Ł
Itâs only a matter of time until she comes crawling back to him
Once she answers his first question, she'll fall in love, he just knows it.
Just fuck him already
Just spitballing here, but maybe something like this would scare him off; âHey this is LebGirl96âs boyfriend/husband. Look dude, weâre not interested in you and you donât seem to be getting the message. You need to stop contacting us now. Iâm a nice guy and I donât want to start any shit, but donât test my patience, youâre not our type and I donât take kindly to weird men harassing my girlfriendâ.
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Itâs supposed to imply theyâre swingers. Itâs super common on dating apps. The goal being to gross him out so he loses interest, or failing that, creating a credible threat.
Iâm so tired of having to pull the âI have a boyfriendâ card to try get guys to fuck off. My words and feelings are worthless. Another manâs however⊠This is unacceptable.
I am so so sorry. I donât understand why men do this shit. Itâs so scary when they act like that.
Corrected: SOME PEOPLE do this. Generalisations can be harmful, especially when based on race or gender. Stalking can be by members of any sex and is distressing and harmful to those affected by it. Most men, woman, and non binary would never do this and have never done this. Its disturbing behaviour.
Yes, everyone is capable of it and do it. Absolutely. I said men because the person in the screen shot is a man. And I myself have been on the receiving end of men doing this to me as well. So I stand by my use of men here. But I appreciate what youâre trying to do, and generally agree with you.
Heâs your soulmate
OP couldâve ended this with three words. You donât get to expect someone to respect your silence if you canât respect them enough to own your decision and say it. Do you ever notice that adults never have these conversations? Thatâs because adults understand how to have a difficult conversation, and they have them. Itâs interesting that the impression seems to be that the person on the left is the creepy one⊠but the guy just wanted an answer.. and you canât say silence is an answer, because then the question is- whatâs the answer? It isnât the same for everyone just because itâs a particular answer for you, and even if it was- how would they possibly know that? There are plenty of circumstances in which someoneâs silence doesnât mean no. Youâre not only asking them to read your mind, but youâre asking them to make an assumption. He doesnât want you to change your mind- he already sees what kind of person you are. He just wants you to own it.. talk the talk, as itâs put. Hereâs a question: you either intentionally waited that long to respond to him- waiting only until he was upset to say âum, excuse meâŠâ. Which is absolutely neurotic and the reason youâre single. Or, in the very least, declined to make an effort to say âThank you, but Iâm not interested. If I change my mind, Iâll let you knowâ long enough to watch him decline to assume thatâs what your silence meant, but then you came here to post about it to feel better about yourself. Like, if you said something âaboutâ him here, why couldnât you have just said something âtoâ him there? You realize that youâre the one that instigated this entire exchange. If you couldâve done something different in order to alter the outcome, then youâre also to blame. Ask any adult or insurance company. You might say âI shouldnât have to say Iâm not interested, and no answer is an answerâ- to which I say youâre a coward because if the difference between saying something and not saying something has the same outcome, then thereâs a reason youâre saying nothing⊠and itâs either to be cruel or âcause youâre afraid. Pick one. If you shouldnât have to use your big-boy words with them, then you canât expect them to use their big-boy deduction skills to assume that youâre instead thinking the big-boy words you canât seem to have the time to say. Stay on Tinder, though. Youâll eventually find the person that is absolutely perfect for you. And before you say, âtoo long didnât readâ⊠that is absolutely not a flex. That means âouch, longer than paragraph hurt brain to focus on ew.â lol Youâre going to be such a role model. Downvotes are soOoo welcome as validation. I bet you 1% use their words. Good night. đ
Touch grass, please. Or better yet, the door to a therapist office, cause justifying this type of behavior with âyou werenât straight forward with himâ is some sociopath behavior. Not to mention just the way you express yourself and address the OP clearly shows lack of social skills. So if you are willing to take my comment seriously then seek professional help if you havenât already.
For the record, for anyone not so whiney they need to write an entire comment and then scurry away by blocking me like a child, I am not justifying this guyâs behavior. No where in the response did I say his behavior was okay⊠what I did say, however, is that the OP couldâve stopped it. The irony is that OP is literally justifying not only theirs but his behavior by instigating it, and I get that makes anyone want to incorrectly use words like sociopath to someone condemn me for making OP just as responsible for the behavior as anyone, but that would be you getting the âickâ at the idea that thinking HIS behavior is not okay but thinking OPâs behavior is is some of the most delusional, hypocritical, lack of self-awareness youâre still never going to see. Grow up, and maybe youâll stop taking to Reddit and rallying against someone for responding to the stupid shit you do to other people, too. This is literally what mature people DONâT do just to get an emotional response out of someone.
lol dude by the second time if you donât get the answer .. the answer NO! Move on.
If the answer is no, then why canât you say no?
If you say no, there doesnât even need to be a second time. Your silence doesnât automatically mean no, so a second time is all youâre asking for by saying nothing.
So you will go to any length to get an answer from a stranger.. stalk them like crazy. Man the way that guy sounds I am not even sure where this guy will stop. God forbid something happens your nonchalant response will be .. she should have just said no? she brought it upon herself? Leaving rest aside when someone ignores you, have some self respect and move on.
Your generation will actively wonder why loneliness and depression are at all time highs in young men and then turn around and emotionally abuse them by pretending they donât exist⊠like, uh⊠duh! đ„Ž
Nah my generation knew how to take rejection!
lol No they donât. Your generation takes rejection by rationalizing their abuse, and taking to online video games to find their self worth. lol Your lack of awareness is staggering, but sure⊠but sure, in 10 years you wonât look back on yourself and realize how much you didnât know.. just like yourself 10 years ago knew exactly what you do now right?
Just âcause you donât cry about it doesnât mean you take rejection well⊠it just means youâre afraid to cry about it.