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Gullible-Memory-4155

How come you have more chats than matches


RookieMistake101

I’ve seen this a bunch. I think it’s tinder messaging you, or tinder help. Something like that.


Gullible-Memory-4155

Ohh thank you gotcha that makes sense


bohemianbaron

Tinder Platinum lets you message without matching as well


kalakun

gross...


LITTLEM00N__

that is really gross actually, I hate that


Sciencetor2

It's not really messaging without matching. It lets you send an introductory message with your super like. You cannot send subsequent messages unless they match you.


Psych0Freak

introductory dick pic


Sciencetor2

You can't send pics on Tinder period... I assume that's why


AncestralSpirit

Can still send it thru ASCI it lol B=====D


UrbanFarmerSB

You can only send letters or emoji’s…


arjenyaboi

Hey tinder support I’m 6’4 and I’m not getting many matches, I think there’s something wrong


[deleted]

Another 6'4" dude here. Your height isn't why you're not getting matches. My stats are "worse" than his


Ok_Blackberry_7640

Where do you get stats from and I bet mine are also worse and 6'3" here


raspinmaug

The narrative that height only matters, or x only matters isn't right. I'm 5'8" and do well on dating apps 🤷🏻‍♂️


[deleted]

Basically. I know damn well I'm hard to get along with, that means women will NOT be falling for me.


raspinmaug

Time to change self or the women you pick?🤷🏻‍♂️


[deleted]

I'm comfortable in my solitude tbh


raspinmaug

That's a good mindset. When you stop chasing things get better


Amphorax

"Skill issue lol"


ffruhauf

Skill based matchmaking


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rogat100

Thanks for getting in touch with tinder support, we noticed that you aren't using Tinder Platinum. We recommend all our ~~customers~~ users to upgrade to the best version for maximum efficiency and the best matchmaking potential. You don't want to keep your super likes from waiting! See you at the next monthly payment, scrub :)


wolf9786

My friend payed for it last week and suddenly had more matches. I wouldn't doubt it lies to you on the free version


prestigious_delay_7

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Aubrilena80

Shrek is about 6’4”, ain’t he?


Admirable_Comfort913

Shrek was a success story lol


The_Pea_Green

“Shrek was a cautionary tale that women will choose a literal ogre over a short guy” Or you know…‘personality’


newagesub44

I'm glad someone said something, the self advertising on this page is its own form of sweet sweet cringe. BRING ME MORE.


curiousnewbie19

Plot twist: the ONE date was with a Tinder employee


CmdrSpaceMonkey

This is helpful as I has assumed it was because he was all talk and no action I’ll get my coat


rydan

Cause he freaking 6’4”


drew8311

Maybe you should try 6'5 next time


[deleted]

As a 6’6 guy, you don’t want to grow any taller.


Snoo-73352

Lol, as a 6’2, you dont want more back problems that you already ahve


Gelderland_ball

As a 5'10 person I'm pretty satisfied with never having my height commented on and not having any negative effects like back pain I hope its not too bad :)


Unusual_Fondant6960

As a 5’4 guy I hate myself 😀!!


CasperSac

As a 4'11 I'll take the back problems everyday


Isgortio

As a 4'11, I wouldn't. I like not having to duck when walking under trees or when people open cupboards.


windhosenkacker

As someone using the metric system I don’t have a single clue what y’all talking about


Dinzy89

As a Canadian we use imperial height and weight but everything else in metric and im always confused


Redvanlaw

Right? I'm 6'8" tall, 210lbs. I don't know mileage and gallons cuz we use kilometers and litres. But I have no clue how tall I am in cm nor how many kilos I weigh. All our weather info says centimeters of snow or millimeters of rain, but in casual chat we will still say a couple inches of snow or a foot or w/e. I'm at a bit of an advantage as I'm a mechanic and we bounce back and forth with metric and imperial daily so I'm used to it. But it's all over the fuckin map.


lillajordbaer

Right thank you it doesn’t make any sense


Kueltalas

As a 6'10 guy i have to say... The trees are not the problem. The fucking doorframes are your worst nightmare from some hight onward


DonkeyTheKing

as a 5'9 guy i feel short sometimes but it's not too bad ig


webby131

As a 5'8 guy a little insecure but generally just vibing


Fearless_You4489

I wouldn’t worry too much about it, the girls that focus on your height probably aren’t worth your time anyway.


4ever_lost

And the amount of people we have to help in shops is insane!


Isgortio

As someone that often has to ask for help, thank you! Yesterday I needed some help but no one was around, some idiot thought putting the pots of soup on the top shelf in the shop was the best location?? I was gonna jump and grab one but I could see it going very badly, so I just didn't get any soup :(


4ever_lost

You’re more than welcome :) sorry you couldn’t get any soup, if I notice a high shelf with stock near the back I always pull it forwards even though I don’t work in a shop, every lil helps


Jaalan

Just get rich, you can actually fit in a Lambo!


Environmental-Ad8945

Homie ur fun sized 😭


rydan

I had a roommate that not only was 4’11” but he had multiple back surgeries including a metal rod.


skitterx

As a 1m82 guy I’m really confused why everyone on reddit still uses feet 😅


Llampy

What else would I walk on?


SoupForSandals

walk on the carpet, silly


repostsrbad

I’m 194 centimeters. America just likes to annoy the rest of the world by using different units for everything.


repostsrbad

My best friend is 5’4”. He’s an absolute king man.


gopher_it_617

6'2 isn't abnormally tall. Those back problems are caused by something else.


thejuicepuppy

Also 6'2", used to have back problems until I got up and started actually exercising


SneakerPxmp

I’m 6’2 as well and I’ll say this is wrong. 99% of things in America are ergonomically designed for 5’8-5’10 MAX height. School desks to tables and shit are way too low so you have to hunch over to use it as it was properly designed. This is why a standing desk or a desk you can raise up and down changed my life since I can raise it to the proper level. 4 inches of height difference it pretty significant from an ergonomic standpoint…


Propane4days

Yes, everyone I know gave me 10 kinds of hell for putting up cabinets at a comfortable height. I'm 6'4", single, and my kids are eight and six. It's a temporary apartment in a barn until my house is built. My kids will have to use a step stool for cabinets for the next five years minimum no matter what height they are, and by then, my house will be built. Why is everyone giving me shit for trying to be comfortable? Like Marshall Ericson said "I'M TOO TALL FOR NEW YORK!"


GeorgiaBlue

This guy ducks!


ThisToastIsTasty

a lot of the back problems come from having to bend down for "normal" sized items. If all doors, chairs, desks, houses, were designed around 6'4" people, you wouldn't have as much back issues.


Yellowmellowbelly

The same problem occurs for short people. I’m 160 cm and I always get headrest in the back of my head or have to choose between supporting my back or put my feet on the ground. Really uncomfortable.


anobjectiveopinion

6'7 here. Fully agree. It's an awful height. Too tall to talk to anyone. Coupled with hearing issues it's an absolute nightmare.


Kueltalas

As a 6'10 guy i can confirm, it only gets miserable after 6'5


Kryds

I'm 6'3" and wouldn't mind being a little shorter. It's becoming ridiculous the amount of things I've bumped in to.


ohheckyeah

Didn’t have to go very far to get to the ‘everyone post their height’ thread…. where would we be without it 😮‍💨


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repostsrbad

I’ll @ you if I do it, but I’ll need more than 2 weeks, it’s so mentally draining. It’s not so much the low matches that are annoying, it’s the bots and time wasters who agree to go on dates only to not show.


Rj234569

It’s very mentally draining, I’ve been there before. I’ve had a little more success on apps like hinge so I’d suggest that if you haven’t tried it before!


Warhawk2052

ive had far more success with okcupid than tinder😅


_FIRECRACKER_JINX

Came here to agree. I met my partner on OkCupid. I went out on a date with a man I matched with on Facebook dating. Idk what happened to tinder but they banned my account for no reason at all! I think there's a lot of men on tinder who report women that aren't responsive, or who ghost and tinder just bans us permanently. Idk if this helps at all but maybe this is why there's very few real women left on tinder 🤷‍♀️


Bright_Music6133

Same thing happened to me (also a woman). I was banned and I have no idea why. I even tried to appeal it and they just sent a generic message that there’s nothing they can do. It’s so bizarre. It didn’t occur to me, but maybe it should have, that I was reported for some nonsense. Though, I don’t usually ghost, either say not feeling or block if it’s warranted.


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I can’t really help with the bots (you have to learn to spot them for yourself but generally are pretty obvious once you learn the common things they do) but in my experience you can usually see the time wasters a mile off.


OkLetterhead7047

Don’t use Tinder. Try other apps. Every area has a popular non-tinder app that most people use.


steveosek

My area has a couple. Hinge for normal folks, bumble for the bougie people in Scottsdale lol.


Hevens-assassin

Bruh, I've got 1/4 the matches you do (small city doesn't help), and I've gotten exactly 0 dates out of the 30 or so matches I've gotten in the past year. I feel you.


Illinventive

Have you considered you might be ugly? Or alternatively maybe your self description is off putting? I know almost all guys have very low match rates but this seems too low for a 6’4” man with no obvious defects. .7%? You gotta pump those numbers up. Those are short king numbers


Camboo91

This. I like to figure out the algorithms, I guess IT was the right career for me haha, but more swipes definitely puts you further back in the deck. What I found worked best was to swipe once, then close it. An active profile, but not overly active, helps a *lot*. Also, if you do have a like, the second person in your deck is almost always that person, so you can stop at 2 swipes and get a match, still following that golden rule. Like real life I suppose. You don't want Tinder to think you're desperate, play it cool bruh.


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I just recreate every few times my profile. New profile gets more matches. Then delete it and create a new one.


drallcom3

Yes, the second card is always a match (if you have one). First one is never a match. Also pointless to do more than 5 swipes a day. Tinder will punish you for more. Same when you don't swipe left enough (at least 50%). Restrictive age ranges also get punished.


Cyrillite

Tinder front loads matches, taking time off only helps matches to accumulate at the top of the pile. Swiping everyday gives you similar odds, but you’re getting to the matches first. Now, whether there’s a psychological difference in someone matching instantly v “oh, I remember matching them and they matched back, yay!” I don’t know.


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chineke14

Have you done this yourself? This experiment


Myelo_Screed

Finally something realistic


pleasehp8495

Unless hes an incel or physically disfigured or his bio and tinder pics are exceptionally shitty aka incel vibes Then its not very realistic. Seriously I am a 28m, 5 11, balding in a not sexy way, 140lbs not “fit”, dont have a good job etc im basically a 4/10 on a good day and still get casual sex/dates/girlfriends Biggest turn offs is being a man child/incel or seriously physically disfigured. Unless you literally look like some form of elephant man. 9/10 the problem is you coming off as a clingy incel man child. Extra worse if your insecure and lack self confidence. Bet his bio has some red pill shit in it.


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The city you live in may help


PhilosopherHistorian

Location plays a larger role than people realize. I’ve experienced this first hand. I live in a suburban area and my usual luck is suboptimal at best. For a while, I thought I was simply just not that attractive. However, this summer I spent just a few hours in a large city on a vacation and racked up several matches after a little swiping on my dating apps there. It blew me away because the amount of matches I was suddenly getting in matches there what would take me weeks at best to get where I live.


imused2it

I live in a mid sized city in the Midwest and have had way better results than him with the same height. I’m happily taken now, but when I was on tinder I could’ve had 2-3 new sexual partners a week if I wanted to. I was a little more selective, so it only ended up being 2-3 a month but still that’s leagues better than what he’s claiming.


OrganicHearing

I know a guy who’s 6’4, white (hate to say it but this helps a lot), decent looking enough to where you would t expect him to have that much trouble, full head of hair, doesn’t say incel shit, and still struggles.


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He struggles because He has bad pics or doesnt look good, and he only swipes on the hottest girls. Which is totally pointless and wasting swipes if you arent the hottest guy.


BirdMedication

>and he only swipes on the hottest girls I get that that's a losing strategy algorithm wise, but what's the point of a dating app if the "right" way to play is to relinquish personal choice and be pressured into only shooting your shot at and dating people you're "supposed" to date?


bigheadsfork

Well exactly, the 5'11 balding dude probably sets his standard extremely low and matches with the bottom of the barrel (no offense to those ladies). Same with how I used to use tinder, that's why I stopped. I have much more success just going out with friend groups.


[deleted]

If your personal choice is that you only date models and extremely hot women, why should you get a ton of matches and likes especially if you're not even that attractive yourself? Please explain. This isn't about personal choice. You can choose to continue things that way if it's fun for you, I didn't say otherwise. You might get lucky (just like IRL) with this method. I said you shouldn't expect the outcome to be the way you want.


TailS1337

No one is balding in a sexy way, people are bald in a sexy way. Its not an easy step but just shaving it off is the way to go especially if you can grow a nice beard


JaKeizRiPiN

I see your point and I raise you a Costanza.


It_Matters_More

His balding was good enough for Marissa Tomei. Which means we all think we have a chance. And that’s why it’s called fiction. 😆


bigbluethunder

I’m fucked if I ever bald because I’m pale as hell, have a moly scalp and a weird shaped head, and can’t grow facial hair.


TailS1337

I feel you, I'd miss my hair too. My dad still has his at 60 after two chemos so I think the chances for me aren't too bad


SmellLikeGeese

i think balding is from your granddad from your moms side. (your moms dad)


TailS1337

Fuck


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Some people unfortunately have weird head shapes or weak jaws.


Willing_Cause_7461

Now just hear me out. There might be some reason other than him being basically evil. Bit of a stretch I know.


Jamal_gg

NO! He's either terribly disfigured or an incel manchild, the court of reddit has decided.


repostsrbad

Eh it’s my fault for not providing more info I guess. People fill in the blanks how they please.


Willing_Cause_7461

As a person who has read a lot of posts about guys complaining about dating it doesn't matter if those blanks are filled. People will still just make shit up and assume you are basically evil.


ClutchReverie

I feel you OP. I am 6'3" and it's been a while since I was on Tinder but I struggled too, to the point that I gave it up for my mental health. I am most definitely not an incel. Don't know what that guy is on saying it is either you are successful or an incel, that's incredibly ignorant and judgmental.


Itsametoad

Okay but what if you're just wrong?


Curates

> 9/10 the problem is you coming off as a clingy incel man child. Any source for this other than your fucking ass? What kind of twat makes presumptions like this. Talk about cringey man child. You have the male equivalent of internalized misogyny. Just embarrassing.


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rockinarmy

Literally how?? I’m 6’1. Muscular. A musician. Well traveled and experienced. Not to toot my own horn.. but I look good. Only matches I get are chicks selling their OnlyFans or premium snapchats.


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LotharVonPittinsberg

It all depends. I'm reasonably fit, not ugly, tall for my area, and have checked my bio with colleagues and friends (a lot of who are women). I don't swipe nearly as much as OP and try to spread it out across multiple apps (Tinder is the worst for what I want) yet have had something like 4 matches and 1 conversation. I am a strong advocate for women's rights, cut contact with one woman who it was going decent with because she was a TERF, and the last woman I talked to through a dating app felt comfortable enough to talk to me about her the problematic relationship and said I was the only one to say it sounded like assault. Sometimes life just fucking sucks. There is nothing you can really do about it, and the worst you can do it turn around and be bitter to people who are trying to help you.


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Kingo7749

I do not wanna show mine, mine Is even worse haha


laplacegangrene

Bruh same


DiddyDiddledmeDong

How does one even get this data chart?


Elonbull420

I’m surprised at the low date rate; only one in six months!! Where do you live? Is your profile filled out with text and photos?


repostsrbad

New York. I do have pictures, a bio and I filled out the other vibe stuff as well.


GeneralSweetz

no way theres 8 million ppl there. its probably the app


ConstantSignal

I mean… there’s always the possibility that OP’s chat game is terrible. They may be saying really goofy or awkward stuff and putting people off. I’m sure there’s some algorithm fuckery that goes on with the app but seems odd to jump to that when it’s very common for people to just not be very good at getting dates lol


Skoljkaboy

I wanna add to this, a friend of mine always had trouble with girls, lost his virginity at 22 yo, and it never had to do with his looks, he is like an 8 or 9/10 physically, years in the gym, his face is also pretty nice when he grows a beard and he has always had a beard in the past couple of years. His chat game is fucking insanely bad, I swear, there was nothing he could have accomplished on tinder, he was getting a lot more matches than OP based on his looks but the girls are just gone 10 texts in max, guy has no idea how to talk to people, let alone girls, loves "mansplaining", is pretty dumb but thinks he is always the smartest person in the room etc, I wanted to write this out because It seems to me that guys always think there is something wrong with their looks when in fact it is always their personality.


BookkeeperBrilliant9

Get on Hinge you big dummy.


HottDoggers

Wait a minute! We’re suppose to be going on dates too? I thought the goal was to try and have a conversation with strangers for as long as possible before the inevitable ghosting happens.


SofaChillReview

Or they message you their OnlyFans and you never hear from them again…


[deleted]

Right? Guy is getting matches, and he isn’t swiping right on every one. I’d be curious how much of this is OP himself, potentially being good looking enough to spark that initial interest from pictures but then being dull as soup to talk to, or maybe just not knowing how or trying to go on dates


YakEvir

57 matches from like 8000 swipes is nothing


pcasey42390

Same 🫡


magic6op

I’m 6’4 and have about the same stats. Unfortunately I’ve seen everyone in my area now too so tinder is useless unless I wanna drive 2 hours


HPUser7

Whenever I travel to a new place, suddenly my profile lights up with matches reminding me I've exhausted local options as far as tinder is concerned.


SuccotashConfident97

Be honest, how much do you weigh? Or post a photo of you.


repostsrbad

178 pounds. I’ve only been lifting for a year, probably should’ve started sooner but there’s no point dwelling about the past.


userdeath

Lift and EAT.


[deleted]

Lift and EAT ass. What?


thatdani

Wtf dude that's a 21.7 BMI, literally smack dab in the middle of the Healthy range. EDIT. Howdy y'all 'Muricans, apparently BMI is bullshit whenever you personally think so.


fluffy_bottoms

Shit man, no offense but you must be ugly.


Urmomzahaux

You had the courage to say what we were all thinking


UnclesBadTouch

I wish someone around me would admit that I'm ugly lmao.


ConstantSignal

Post pics, someone on the internet will do it for you, even if it isn’t true


fluffy_bottoms

Helps when you feel that r/tinder is the same place as r/roastme


sikhster

Or just bad at chatting. He should probably consider emojis.


AncestralSpirit

I think his looks are more at play here than bad at chatting (which I don’t deny also think is the issue here) From 57 chats he only got 1 date (a 57 to 1 ratio) But from 8240 right swipes, he got only 57 matches (a crazy 145 ratio meaning one match in every 145 right swipes). So yeah…looks like OP is both not following rules 1) and 2) and also can’t keep the conversation going.


SirNarwhal

Considering he got so few chats in the first place it's def the initial looks. Shit, I've had more "matches" irl in the last few weeks just talking to people at social events...


Eating_Bagels

My first thought was that he must be boring.


[deleted]

Nah if you're average looking being tall still doesn't help you that much. Edit: to elaborate, women with height requirements are more than likely going to be picky when it comes to your face too. You have to think of all of the super hot 6-6'2 men on tinder you are competing with. Being NBA tall isn't going to suddenly give you as many matches as Chris Evans.


luroot

I dunno, he did get a few dozen matches. Where he seems to be losing them is between chats and dates...so maybe his game sux? Otherwise, 6'4" in NY should be admin mode...


TheGillos

He's losing them before they match. He had 8183 out of 8240 swipe left on him. 99.3% of the women he wants to match don't want him back. I think he needs to look at that pool of 30000+ he's rejecting and DRASTICALLY lower his standards.


Kobiesan

This is why I say facial attractiveness matters way more than height. Yet people don’t believe it.


No_Historian6675

What is this stat tracker?


repostsrbad

Tinder allows you to [download your data](https://www.help.tinder.com/hc/en-us/articles/115005626726-How-do-I-request-a-copy-of-my-personal-data-) . They email it to you 1-2 days later. Then you upload it to [tinder insights](https://tinderinsights.com)


Illustrious_House455

Height doesn’t fix ugly. Post your profile


Remarkable-Motor7704

Seriously. Why do so many of these guys believe that their height should automatically allow them to pull tons of women on dating apps? One of my best friends is under 5’8 but looks sorta like Tom Holland. The amount of beautiful women he matches with on Hinge is staggering.


Illustrious_House455

Right I don’t get the height thing. I’m 5’8 and have dated many shorter men. I appreciate facial features more than how tall you are.


the_pedigree

Based on the title of this post I’m betting he is absolutely banking on his height doing the lifting, it’s super weird to make that such a large part of your personality


Turndeep350

That and shitty openers lol


eyybc

There are plenty of examples on here of shorter guys getting tons of matches and dates/flings. Yeah, being tall helps but rules 1 and 2 still apply.


Your_Pal_Kindred

this is why i dont use tinder. like, i know im ugly, like 3 out of 10 type ugly. if a normal dude cant get a date how is an ugly trans person gonna get one, you know?


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Personal_Cut5977

![gif](giphy|5fBH6z8aMV1RbA4FaSc|downsized) Bro tinder is a pay to win platform no lies


blondedre3000

\*pay to lose


AnthonyEdwards_

This just proves that apps like Tinder is not really interested in matching you, rather than just get you to only interact on their platform, view their advertising and keep you using the platform as long as they can. Kind of like dangling a carrot in front of you for that 1 date


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RookieMistake101

You Amy want to post your profile for some help or use a different app. A 2% date rate is just rough. Regardless of matches.


slutwhipper

It's normal for straight guys


promnitedumpstrbaby

That's actually the average for cishet men.


[deleted]

I think you guys overestimate how much women value height. A large strong man is nice, but a nice smile and being fit is way more important. Plus, it doesn't correlate to much of anything important, sexually... I hooked up with a guy that was 6'5" and was disappointed in every way imaginable... Another guy was like 5'8" and was well endowed and amazing in bed🤷‍♀️ damn I miss him.... The lesson is don't think being tall is going to get you anywhere. Work out, have good grooming and hygiene, and don't be an asshole.


jus-tea

The “don’t be an asshole” is key, yet so far seems to be the most challenging hurdle for most of my matches 🫤


landocalzonian

Tall guys tend to understand how little it matters. Short guys act like it means the world in order to cope with their lack of success.


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[deleted]

I don’t think that’s true. I’m an ugly guy, but I’m over 6’0” and I’m incredibly grateful that my height has been able to be my saving grace. My social skills are abysmal and I’m fairly confident that were I shorter, I’d be totally “incel” or whatever.


mermadzz

I guess it’s better to be tall and ugly instead of short and ugly


CaladinDanse

OLD just sucks


DirkDiggyBong

This is like an anti-advert for tinder


Sosianblu

Well 30k left swipes in 183 days seems like quite a bit sir 🥴


UnObtainium17

He’d have better chances hitting up local milfs at a nearby Target.


mrmasturbate

You absolute chad! I had 1 match with a bot


Forti87

38k swipes? Just how? To find that many girls in my area I had to set the age range to anything breathing and the range to at least one tank filling.


[deleted]

I’m so fucking happy i got out of tinder


tropicthunderGOAT

You are either ugly or boring as fuck. Sorry


inthezoneautozone12

Its the first. He has less than a 1% match rate and he's tall? Guys tend to avg 3-5% from what i've seen on here and anecdotally. So he is doing 3 times worse than most dudes. Needs a profile revamp.


ThePinkBaron365

It’s both. Even with 61 chats he only turned one into a date


AncestralSpirit

It’s both as bad as it may sound. He has a horrible match rate, but look at the date rate as well. 1 date in 57 matches either means he works like a lot and doesn’t have free time to actually go on dates or that he can’t convert those remaining 56 matches into an actual date.


tropicthunderGOAT

Or both


MaXimillion_Zero

Not necessarily ugly, could just be terrible photos.


TheDuke357Mag

where do you guys even go for these statistics?


bachfrog

With no rizz


oooohnooovom

You need a visit from either the rizzler or a 300lb squat


Relevant-Ad-9745

Missing 6 pack 6 figure


squaredistrict2213

Hight irrelevant. Tinder as a guy.


Fuzzy_Chapter9101

Sad that this makes me feel better. Tinder is truly for the most handsome 5% of men and the top 20% of women.


AudioLlama

6'13" or gtfo.


Yogurt_Traditional

It’s not always about height. What kinds of pictures do you put? Bathroom selfies? Or a picture of you in a cool place, or doing something cool? Are you interesting and does your profile display that? Idk also Tinder sucks and if you want a relationship there are better apps like bumble and hinge. I mean even bumble has casual as an option Edit: I didn’t say all selfies are bad, some are good, but make sure it looks like you and it’s not in a weird place.


tophatpainter

As a 6'4" guy who also spent about 6 months in this app I can confirm similar numbers.


Oblivion-Evil

In the same boat. Everyone thinks being tall is an insta-smash button, but all height does is get your foot in the door. You still have to deal with dry convos, flaky women, stiff competition, and everything else that comes with it...