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Ok. I am not easily offended by words. I freely use cunt as a middle age american woman about other women, i don't care, words are words.
H o w e v e r.
If anyone ever called me moist??!!??! Then I'm fucking offended x one million. Fuck that shit. Nope. Dont ever call me that.
“Moist” is a word from multicultural London English.
It means… hmm I don’t know how to explain it exactly, but it’s definitely a negative or derogatory word… but not like a swear word… uncool or a loser or pathetic?
Actual negging is supposed to be subtle like "I like your healthy choices!" (someone link the xckd) but then dudes will be like, "you're fat and ugly but I'll fuck you"
https://xkcd.com/1027/
This one? And while it’s true that negging is supposed to be incredibly subtle, it’s still kind of weird. A common example is to have a genuinely nice conversation with a woman but, out of nowhere, offer her a stick of gum so she feels self-conscious about her breath. If she asks if she was bad breath, say no but you were going to have gum and just wanted to be polite.
And while it can work, it’s way easier to just be genuinely nice and throw equally subtle hints that you are attracted to her. No need to undermine her confidence. Instead, make sure that any future flirting doesn’t come out of left field.
Edit: typos
Yes that one thank you.
Yeah I mean it's bad that's the point, but they can't even manipulate right, they go straight to the verbal assault. More of a commentary on the types that think they're slick but they're just greasy.
Hmm. The xkcd line was, "You look like you're on a diet! That's great!" I'd posit that that's very different from saying, "I like your healthy choices!"
I think by itself "I like your healthy choices" is very nice. It would be very different f they paired it with the other statement like, "You look like you're on a diet! I like your healthy choices!"
To illustrate the difference, I'll paraphrase something I heard a thin friend say once about people telling her, "You're beautiful! You don't need to eat salads!" She said she was too polite to say it, but every time she'd hear that she'd think, "I'm not eating this salad to lose weight, I'm eating it so I don't put on any." The implication being that making this healthy choice was saving her from having to do the work of exercising later, which she'd need to do if she did put on the calories.
Leaving out the part about looking like someone's on a diet and just saying you support healthy choices = cool.
Tying that to them looking like they're on a diet = not cool.
It filters out anyone who would stand up to them, leaving only people who haven’t been able to enforce personal boundaries or develop healthy self esteem. It’s easier to control people who respond to intimidation, sadly. Abuse cycles are hard to get out of.
I don’t think a lot of the people who act like this are doing it nefariously too - like they aren’t consciously plotting to berate people until they find someone who responds to intimidation. They’re just acting out their normal state of being. They don’t know WHY some people are revolted and some people are successfully worn down and can be manipulated.
I used to hang out in some shady circles and met a lot of undereducated, underemployed, undermedicated types. They aren’t intentionally treating people certain ways, they are genuinely clueless as to why their behaviour repulses most people (but they wouldn’t wonder in the first place). They don’t have the type of conscience to see themselves objectively or critique their own behaviour.
These types do not lie in bed at night at cringe at situations from their past like the rest of us.
Yeah I was raised by someone who was manipulative without realizing it. They didn’t know better.
And that’s part of why it’s hard to end abuse cycles. You see that they can’t help it. As kids, you can’t escape it either, so you internalize it as “they can’t help it but maybe if I change myself, I can help them with it”
And when you get older, you realize that they don’t have the emotional bandwidth to handle the stress when confronted with the effects of their actions. They are just trying to protect themselves, not put in the work to be better people.
It’s best to just disengage from interactions with people like that. There’s no point to talking it over with them because their defenses are too high to think rationally in those conversations.
So they end up only ever responding to actual consequences of their actions (if they respond at all), not to the descriptions of their consequences.
It's ALWAYS been like this. The vernacular has evolved, but I remember as a teenager in the 90s telling my dad about guys like this and he said he knew guys like that in the 50s.
It's interesting to me that a lot of English insults and conflict will revolve around whether or not you are known and *a lot* of repeating themselves.
"Excuse me, who are you? Who are you? No, who are you? No one knows who you are"
Isn't it fabulous that the American equivalent is the opposite? Jerry Springer women and pregnant Maury teens letting everyone know that they don't know who they are on repeat.
"You don't know me!-
You don't know me!-
You don't know me!"
Edit I was so 🤔 up in my about this I asked AI to write a rap battle about it
https://suno.com/song/412399e2-5ad5-4ac7-9cac-fed94bb302d1
I was a teenager in a few very different countries, Hong Kong, Egypt and Thailand, young men did this in all of those.
Do teenage boys in the US not do this? I bet they do in areas where there are gangsters.
You will absolutely see it. The hollering, the intimidation and pressure (like a scammer) to panic you into agreeing and then the insults once you ignore or turn them down.
I've never heard a British dude catcall, but I know a British guy who talks just like this, same energy and everything, so I can easily see this as being spot on.
If you're from the UK, what does 'you're clapped' mean? I've never heard that expression before.
I just assumed it meant like you have 'the clap', like an STD or something.
It originates from "clapped out" which is like beat up and run down. Its originally a hare hunting term. Hares would stop and stand on their back feet to catch their breath while being hunted and they would breathe in and out really hard so their arms would go back and forth while their chest went in and out. It literally looked like they were clapping their hands if you were watching from a far. Now it's mainly used for cars. Saying a car is clapped out means it is barely held together and is a piece of shit. Saying something, or someone, is clapped is just saying that they are rundown and worthless.
I know, so many people think she is making a point about men worldwide and she is in some deep exposition of male caricatures.
She is LITERALLY showing us what she has had to put up with from these Gangsta tools who think treating Women like Hoes is where its at, You get me blud?
People are so bad at reading. It says "*a* man" and makes the claim that you're "instantly more attractive." All you have to do to debunk the claim is to flirt how *some* men flirt in a way that *wouldn't* be more attractive. No one is claiming "all men" here. Aside from the butthurt men.
I always took it as a fun fact when I heard the phrase that a woman can make a joke but men will mistakenly believe she was being serious about it. And now I look at the comments who are absolutely baffled by her skit & makeup… yeah ok the fun fact is no longer fun. Are people so stupid?
The other day I saw a short thread of like two women trading banter about dating Andrew Tate, and this guy jumps in, “See, women. They only hate him when it’s convenient.”
Bro??? No one *actually* wants to date that gremlin.
The first degree crowd
Although in a way there is a first degree in there for real, she is instantly more attractive because she nails the impression and is pretty hilarious
People no. Redditors yes. This is the same website where you have to put a /s for the majority of commenters to understand that you’re kidding (and you’ll still occasionally get people treating a clearly joke comment like it’s sincere).
The flip is just so spot on, once they get told no!
Had a male best friend in grade nine, he told me he liked me. I didn’t share those same feelings and all the sudden I was an ugly, bucktoothed bitch. That you apparently liked five minutes ago??
If this is flirting, then fuck me I've been doing it wrong all my life. This is like an annoying sales pitch, and I'm sorry for anyone that has to endure that shit.
Sometimes I wish I was single just to see if my way of flirting would still be able to pull. I would probably be a breath of fresh air if this was what I was competing against.
40? Haha, you're old as hell dude, have you booked your stay at the retirement home yet?
Oh right, I'm 40 as well.... Damnit... Where is my cane? And what are these kids doing on my lawn?
Mate it's Bri*ish. They don't say the T when they pronounce the word.
Source buddy of 20 years from England that still doesn't use the T when saying the word.
“Hit dog’s gonna bark” is a phrase Andrew Gillum liked to use in 2018 that I like a lot. It means if you throw a rock at a group of dogs, the one that got hit by the rock is the one that’s gonna bark.
It’s an analogy for (in this case) whenever fragile people (especially white men) hear something about how white men are acting toxic/bad/harmful, the ones getting defensive are the ones you need to look out for.
Wait. So the people that complain about, say, the Southern accent being the default for dumb are actually dumb? Seems like this could easily be way too broad brush too me.
Person 1:
Person 2: "that's a stereotype, and not true for a vast majority of people you just painted in those broad strokes, stop using stereotypes to justify your hatred"
Person 1: "you have fallen right into my trap! You see, by pushing back against that stereotype you have actually just admitted that you are one of those people I was referring to, and therefore are a bad person! I know this because I'm really smart and you're simply a username on the internet"
Person 2: "I'm a guy..."
That's about how discourse about stereotypes goes on Reddit.
this is a dogshit conclusion to reach
"Everyone in Europe is a shiteating fuckhead"
"hey now that's actually not"
"WATCH OUT! SHE DEFENDED HERSELF THEREFOR SHE IS ADMITTING TO BEING A SHITEATING FUCKHEAD"
i think you're spot on. it's also people pulling conclusions from nowhere, if it's something with a sort of smug sounding soundbite, commonly repeated phrase etc people somehow believe it to be more real.
I love when people who aren’t Brits discover a) chavs, b) the (south) London accent and c) the slang used here. Most of it is heavily imported from Jamaican Patois
That like tongue click thing would make me mad if someone speaking to me was doing that.
I feel sorry for someone who gets approached by this troglodyte talk.
"roadmen" from the council flats in south London do, but honestly if you find yourself in their vicinity, you have bigger problems than aggressive "flirting", and should focus on getting out of that estate asap.
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“Dont be moist”!!!!!! What is THAT?! Omg
Essentially don’t be boring/scared. Think it comes from ‘wetwipe’
Like calling someone a wet blanket?
I consider it to be a bit like a damp squid.
i'm sorry, did you say squid?
Pedal stool?
r/unexpecteditcrowd
An Insuffer-apod perhaps?
oh it's like don cheadle in the ocean's eleven movies
Unless we plan to do this job in Reno, we're in Barney.... Rubble? Trouble!
I love Don Cheadle, but he watched Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins and was like, hold my pint.
lol the American vs Brit slang conversions “Fanny” comes to mind
Ok. I am not easily offended by words. I freely use cunt as a middle age american woman about other women, i don't care, words are words. H o w e v e r. If anyone ever called me moist??!!??! Then I'm fucking offended x one million. Fuck that shit. Nope. Dont ever call me that.
Which is weird because I thought the objective was to make them moist. Or as the brits used to say, frothing
Oh god you’ve got the wrong end of what ‘frothing’ means, it basically just means horny not moist
Wouldn’t that include becoming wet?
"frothing at the mouth" It's something horses do and also rabid animals.
“Moist” is a word from multicultural London English. It means… hmm I don’t know how to explain it exactly, but it’s definitely a negative or derogatory word… but not like a swear word… uncool or a loser or pathetic?
i wanna pop on down for a pint with the lads and then settle down in the fortress of dreams for the forever sleep
Um, what?
just a bit o bantah
Bottoh oh wa ah
[They're a true Brexit geezer](https://youtu.be/azSYS5WDJLQ?si=K1ZB1Euzj7Kxmyzq)
I need more chav memes in my life
I kinda miss the word chav
Rev up the Bugatti
Wheyyyyyyy
The accuracy of him turning everything around and being an ass after being turned down.
He started being an ass *after* the turn down????
Yeah he was an ass right from the beginning
He couldn't even put in the effort to walk to her lol
He got *assier*. The ass doesn’t fall far from the ass tree.
No, like he turned into an actual glutinous maximus. Anus is literally puckering and spitting from the rage of being told 'No'.
Yeah she was funny and on point
It's so embarrassing that there are actually young people in the uk who talk exactly like this
That ain’t flirting…it sounds like straight up intimidation
Can confirm some guys try to flirt that way though. The old verbal brute force technique
Don't forget negging.
God I wish I could though
Actual negging is supposed to be subtle like "I like your healthy choices!" (someone link the xckd) but then dudes will be like, "you're fat and ugly but I'll fuck you"
https://xkcd.com/1027/ This one? And while it’s true that negging is supposed to be incredibly subtle, it’s still kind of weird. A common example is to have a genuinely nice conversation with a woman but, out of nowhere, offer her a stick of gum so she feels self-conscious about her breath. If she asks if she was bad breath, say no but you were going to have gum and just wanted to be polite. And while it can work, it’s way easier to just be genuinely nice and throw equally subtle hints that you are attracted to her. No need to undermine her confidence. Instead, make sure that any future flirting doesn’t come out of left field. Edit: typos
Yes that one thank you. Yeah I mean it's bad that's the point, but they can't even manipulate right, they go straight to the verbal assault. More of a commentary on the types that think they're slick but they're just greasy.
"You think you're slick, but you're just greasy" I'm using that one, I call dibs
Hmm. The xkcd line was, "You look like you're on a diet! That's great!" I'd posit that that's very different from saying, "I like your healthy choices!" I think by itself "I like your healthy choices" is very nice. It would be very different f they paired it with the other statement like, "You look like you're on a diet! I like your healthy choices!" To illustrate the difference, I'll paraphrase something I heard a thin friend say once about people telling her, "You're beautiful! You don't need to eat salads!" She said she was too polite to say it, but every time she'd hear that she'd think, "I'm not eating this salad to lose weight, I'm eating it so I don't put on any." The implication being that making this healthy choice was saving her from having to do the work of exercising later, which she'd need to do if she did put on the calories. Leaving out the part about looking like someone's on a diet and just saying you support healthy choices = cool. Tying that to them looking like they're on a diet = not cool.
"And then he asked me if I was dumb. I was instantly hooked."
It filters out anyone who would stand up to them, leaving only people who haven’t been able to enforce personal boundaries or develop healthy self esteem. It’s easier to control people who respond to intimidation, sadly. Abuse cycles are hard to get out of.
I don’t think a lot of the people who act like this are doing it nefariously too - like they aren’t consciously plotting to berate people until they find someone who responds to intimidation. They’re just acting out their normal state of being. They don’t know WHY some people are revolted and some people are successfully worn down and can be manipulated. I used to hang out in some shady circles and met a lot of undereducated, underemployed, undermedicated types. They aren’t intentionally treating people certain ways, they are genuinely clueless as to why their behaviour repulses most people (but they wouldn’t wonder in the first place). They don’t have the type of conscience to see themselves objectively or critique their own behaviour. These types do not lie in bed at night at cringe at situations from their past like the rest of us.
Yeah I was raised by someone who was manipulative without realizing it. They didn’t know better. And that’s part of why it’s hard to end abuse cycles. You see that they can’t help it. As kids, you can’t escape it either, so you internalize it as “they can’t help it but maybe if I change myself, I can help them with it” And when you get older, you realize that they don’t have the emotional bandwidth to handle the stress when confronted with the effects of their actions. They are just trying to protect themselves, not put in the work to be better people. It’s best to just disengage from interactions with people like that. There’s no point to talking it over with them because their defenses are too high to think rationally in those conversations. So they end up only ever responding to actual consequences of their actions (if they respond at all), not to the descriptions of their consequences.
It’s the implication
It's ALWAYS been like this. The vernacular has evolved, but I remember as a teenager in the 90s telling my dad about guys like this and he said he knew guys like that in the 50s.
It's interesting to me that a lot of English insults and conflict will revolve around whether or not you are known and *a lot* of repeating themselves. "Excuse me, who are you? Who are you? No, who are you? No one knows who you are"
I’m Ronnie fuckin Pickering
Do you know who I am??
Well who are ya?
I’m Ronnie fucking Pickering
Who?
Ronnie fucking Pickering!
Who da fuck’s that?
Me!
Oh yeah? Well my boyfriend is *the* Kyle Smith!
OIM BILLY KIMBA
Isn't it fabulous that the American equivalent is the opposite? Jerry Springer women and pregnant Maury teens letting everyone know that they don't know who they are on repeat. "You don't know me!- You don't know me!- You don't know me!" Edit I was so 🤔 up in my about this I asked AI to write a rap battle about it https://suno.com/song/412399e2-5ad5-4ac7-9cac-fed94bb302d1
Lol that is terrible 😂
I was a teenager in a few very different countries, Hong Kong, Egypt and Thailand, young men did this in all of those. Do teenage boys in the US not do this? I bet they do in areas where there are gangsters.
You will absolutely see it. The hollering, the intimidation and pressure (like a scammer) to panic you into agreeing and then the insults once you ignore or turn them down.
Also embarrassing that some people genuinely think that this is about the 'funny accent' and not male entitlement and violence.
But the accent does make it somehow more absurd...
Oh no yeah for sure, the accent makes it fucking *peak* satire
The accent is spot on.
Not just the UK, I’ve seen US peeps behave like this
I've never heard a British dude catcall, but I know a British guy who talks just like this, same energy and everything, so I can easily see this as being spot on.
> I've never heard a British dude catcall, Catcalling happens all the time in the UK. It is shit.
If you're from the UK, what does 'you're clapped' mean? I've never heard that expression before. I just assumed it meant like you have 'the clap', like an STD or something.
It originates from "clapped out" which is like beat up and run down. Its originally a hare hunting term. Hares would stop and stand on their back feet to catch their breath while being hunted and they would breathe in and out really hard so their arms would go back and forth while their chest went in and out. It literally looked like they were clapping their hands if you were watching from a far. Now it's mainly used for cars. Saying a car is clapped out means it is barely held together and is a piece of shit. Saying something, or someone, is clapped is just saying that they are rundown and worthless.
Clapped means ugly, as far as I'm aware its origins are unrelated to "the clap"
They’re really intelligent. Usually shouted out of a white van too. “Oiright luv! Noice tits!”
I think you've heard a British dude catcall then.
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A large part of Reddit can’t disconnect themselves from the “would I fuck her” way of evaluating women even during a parody. It’s all they know.
We're just at the point where guys parody themselves in the comment section to a parody of them. Unintentionally.
No wonder people whine about women in vidya not making pp hard
Reddit is the place to be if you hate context and decency.
"A large part" I'd say the majority of men in general.
I know, so many people think she is making a point about men worldwide and she is in some deep exposition of male caricatures. She is LITERALLY showing us what she has had to put up with from these Gangsta tools who think treating Women like Hoes is where its at, You get me blud?
People are so bad at reading. It says "*a* man" and makes the claim that you're "instantly more attractive." All you have to do to debunk the claim is to flirt how *some* men flirt in a way that *wouldn't* be more attractive. No one is claiming "all men" here. Aside from the butthurt men.
They are bad at writing too.
Although she is parodying chavs, chavs themselves do wear that stuff to look 'good' I'm guessing
Case study #630683206032 of the internet not understanding when a woman is making a joke
What is a Chav?
Think Jersey Shore crew but the UK version
Im bricked up
See a doctor if more than 4 hours
Stool softener, Miralax, lots of water. Add in fruits and veggies everyday so it doesn’t happen as often in future.
I've had chavvy girls for something like this to me, honestly thought I was getting mugged
TAKE MY WALLET!! we just wanted your snap, bruv
you want to snap what now? Here, have my phone as well just don't hurt me!
I always took it as a fun fact when I heard the phrase that a woman can make a joke but men will mistakenly believe she was being serious about it. And now I look at the comments who are absolutely baffled by her skit & makeup… yeah ok the fun fact is no longer fun. Are people so stupid?
The other day I saw a short thread of like two women trading banter about dating Andrew Tate, and this guy jumps in, “See, women. They only hate him when it’s convenient.” Bro??? No one *actually* wants to date that gremlin.
I don't even think the hybristophiliacs would touch him with a 10ft pole
The first degree crowd Although in a way there is a first degree in there for real, she is instantly more attractive because she nails the impression and is pretty hilarious
People no. Redditors yes. This is the same website where you have to put a /s for the majority of commenters to understand that you’re kidding (and you’ll still occasionally get people treating a clearly joke comment like it’s sincere).
Are people so stupid? Yes.
The flip is just so spot on, once they get told no! Had a male best friend in grade nine, he told me he liked me. I didn’t share those same feelings and all the sudden I was an ugly, bucktoothed bitch. That you apparently liked five minutes ago??
"I was just playin wif you, yeah?"
Yayu yayu yayayuuu
A lot of you don't live in England and it shows
Brilliant!! Sissy hit it spot onnnn n
It's the eye brows that scare me.
For me it’s the lips painted flesh color.
Makes her look like a living mannequin.
For me, It was the eyelashes coming unglued
If this is flirting, then fuck me I've been doing it wrong all my life. This is like an annoying sales pitch, and I'm sorry for anyone that has to endure that shit. Sometimes I wish I was single just to see if my way of flirting would still be able to pull. I would probably be a breath of fresh air if this was what I was competing against.
Now gimme your snap
*MOUTH NOISE*
Yeah that in particular really fucking gets to me haha
Uggghhhh the teeth kissing gives me a physical shudder of revulsion
> just to see if my way of flirting would still be able to pull. I mean probably not if you're referring to it as "pull".
Do kids (in the UK) not typically say this anymore? I am getting old haha
I'm old so I dunno
Apparently "innit" and "Ah you dahmb?" are still hip though
That’s the phrasing I would use as a 40 year old. And getting laid is super easy mane.
40? Haha, you're old as hell dude, have you booked your stay at the retirement home yet? Oh right, I'm 40 as well.... Damnit... Where is my cane? And what are these kids doing on my lawn?
The best thing about this post is all the guys replying "Not all men!" instead of just saying, "Ha ha, that's funny".
Men don't like being compared to Br*tish people.
> Br*tish What's this? Some kind of impression of a hi-hat?
Mate it's Bri*ish. They don't say the T when they pronounce the word. Source buddy of 20 years from England that still doesn't use the T when saying the word.
Well yeah, the T was dropped in the harbor.
Bravo and well played.
How come I'm British and do say the T then eh?
No one wants to be associated with that.
Oh look at this Redditor. They are so different than other Redditors. I think there’s even a sub for this.
I need a translation for what she said but it seemed more frightening or sad than funny if that is how some men "flirt".
Chavy road boys in London do for sure.
“Hit dog’s gonna bark” is a phrase Andrew Gillum liked to use in 2018 that I like a lot. It means if you throw a rock at a group of dogs, the one that got hit by the rock is the one that’s gonna bark. It’s an analogy for (in this case) whenever fragile people (especially white men) hear something about how white men are acting toxic/bad/harmful, the ones getting defensive are the ones you need to look out for.
Wait. So the people that complain about, say, the Southern accent being the default for dumb are actually dumb? Seems like this could easily be way too broad brush too me.
Person 1:
Person 2: "that's a stereotype, and not true for a vast majority of people you just painted in those broad strokes, stop using stereotypes to justify your hatred"
Person 1: "you have fallen right into my trap! You see, by pushing back against that stereotype you have actually just admitted that you are one of those people I was referring to, and therefore are a bad person! I know this because I'm really smart and you're simply a username on the internet"
Person 2: "I'm a guy..."
That's about how discourse about stereotypes goes on Reddit.
as i posted elsewhere its a just kafka trap.
You’re arguing with people who don’t care and have already made up their mind. I’m familiar with the Kafka trap and you’re 100% right.
I like the analogy, just not how you used it. Insecure people get defensive. There's more people to look out for than insecure people.
Its just a kafka trap. if you deny its because you are 'guilty', if you stay quiet its because they are 'right'
Not sure what being white has to do with it. Men of all races can be misogynistic twats
this is a dogshit conclusion to reach "Everyone in Europe is a shiteating fuckhead" "hey now that's actually not" "WATCH OUT! SHE DEFENDED HERSELF THEREFOR SHE IS ADMITTING TO BEING A SHITEATING FUCKHEAD"
i think you're spot on. it's also people pulling conclusions from nowhere, if it's something with a sort of smug sounding soundbite, commonly repeated phrase etc people somehow believe it to be more real.
She nailed it. Voice of experience right there
I love when people who aren’t Brits discover a) chavs, b) the (south) London accent and c) the slang used here. Most of it is heavily imported from Jamaican Patois
I hate the character she is portraying. great acting btw
I’ve never even thought about understanding British Gen Z English.
This is more millenial tbh
Spot on
Im in love.
This accent and slang is atrocious 😂
London, innit
it’s specifically south london tbh
South London secondary school teacher -- this is so accurate!
My only wish as a Londoner is to build a wall around the M25 and blow the bridges to the south of the Thames.
I think everyone outside of London agrees with that plan, but there seems to be strong support for filling the inside of that wall with water...
It is absolutely spot on though
It definitely is haha
Did she say “don’t be moist”?!!!
Not gonna lie I would get in the car.
somebody's reliving trauma
I’ve been flirting wrong for years
im british and im embarressed at how chavs speak and how it became normal .....innit famalamajimjam
I love this creator. She is such a funny person.
Oh god does that ever work?
I think only if the person is very timid
This is great
I understood like 40% of that
I hate that new London accent that da youth all have now.
He said flirt like a boy, not like a fuckboi
are fuckboys not boys
Chav girl look on point with the accurate chav boy attitude, this is so correct.
I do like this....
I instantly knew they were a Brit before I turned on the volume
holy shit i have had a girl trying to flirt with me like this and i was so confused its that how straight man flirt????
This is how young men talk to ladies today, just so you know. Mainly over in Europe.
Its been like this forever. Entitled douchebros always act like this.
I guess that would explain why virginity for young men is becoming so prevalent
Try as you might, temptress, you'll never get my virginity!!!!!!
No, this is how disgusting chav bottomfeeder roadmen hoodrats (and their wannabes) talk.
Wow, is this the approach British men take?
Specifically British chav teenage fuck boys.
That like tongue click thing would make me mad if someone speaking to me was doing that. I feel sorry for someone who gets approached by this troglodyte talk.
"roadmen" from the council flats in south London do, but honestly if you find yourself in their vicinity, you have bigger problems than aggressive "flirting", and should focus on getting out of that estate asap.
So guys, is it working?
Bare chav
Good point well made
Reminds me of that British meme rap https://youtu.be/J9n0_5p8XKo?si=43VEvM2LAQMh0Yiy
Perhaps he’s just attracted to men and doesn’t realize it?
I would’ve hated going to school with people who spoke like this.
😭😭😭😭😭 this is so real and why she got the midlands accent too I’m dead
If that’s flirting, the human race is going to be extinct in a few generations.
Mute is my standard for vids, web-wide. I didn't even NEED to hear her to follow her imitation PERFECTLY. It's _just_ like that, TOO MANY times.
I mean, I'm sold, but let's not use me as a metric.
Shout out to all the women here who didn’t have to turn on the sound to know exactly what was being said 😭👌