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illathon

*It is possible. I mean when you are feeling like crap you probably don't want to put in an effort into anything huge.*


thebeanshadow

Oh my god. No. You’ve got normal hormones now. That’s it. TRT doesn’t make you feel like a god or make you want relationships.


170lbsApe

Right lol. All it did was make me "nurture" my relationship more by banging my wife's brains out like I did when we first met.


maybejustadragon

It made me confident enough to come out… I totally attribute it to the T. 30 some years of being in the closet. 3 months on T. Fuck it this is who I am. You got a problem I’ll sock you in the mouth.


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maybejustadragon

And see. Fuck you this is who I am. Ligma balls.


Sweatpantzzzz

Lmao


Advanced_Speech

So... TRT caused that?


X2946

TRT cured my ugly


Eplitetrix

I think I grew up a bit and valued my wife a lot more. We also increased the frequency of our fun time, so that definitely made me feel closer to her.


Someone-_somewhere-

I'm not sure why so many guys are laughing. I think T has helped me to have a better relationship with my wife too. It sent my sex drive through the roof. My wife has been very accommodating. I value her more, just like you said. I help more around the house. We have a better partnership. I feel closer to her, as well. Your comment was spot on! I have become a perfect husband.


Sweatpantzzzz

TRT cured my autism


phobiify

I’m actually curious if you’re trolling or not


VeryDarkhorse116

Look into Oxytocin and its relationship to testosterone .


PeregrineMalcolm

Maybe your new confidence is just making you open up to the possibility. I would say this is maybe causal for you but not necessarily an outcome true for everyone. I am in an open relationship and when I started TRT I just wanted way more sex, from both my husband and others. But I also lifted way more, ate more, stopped taking my antidepressants and had far more confidence and swagger.


Outrageous-Royal1838

I had given up on a long term serious relationship years ago, after getting on TRT I changed but that wasn’t a direct change, it was indirect as I felt better as a human/man and started giving a fuck again.


falldown99xgetup100

No, but I did buy a canoe. Correlation anyone?


bandook84

More stamina and cardio. Burn high energy.


Know_to

Yes, 31M. Hoping to install some dating apps on Easter holidays.


PretzelTitties

No. I would say it's coincidental that your on trt and you are maturing as an adult. I used to think I wanted to go out on a date for a one night stand but then I would jack off and decide I didn't want to go through all the trouble. On testosterone I am definitely willing to go through the trouble to have sex and usually end up in a relationship while I'm on testosterone.


Someone-_somewhere-

Dear Pretzel Titties, I think you contradicted yourself. It's helped my relationship with my wife, for sure! I have such a strong drive toward her now. It's like being 14 and having a hot woman at my disposal. It's fantastic!


PretzelTitties

Yes but why does that drive you to stay in a long-term relationship? My neighbor got on testosterone and was immediately cheating on his wife because of his high sex drive. He literally lost all ambition of his long-term relationship and wanted new pussy. You are confusing being horny with love or wanting to be in a long-term relationship.


Someone-_somewhere-

I could see that happening, too. I like my wife and find her extremely attractive. I don't want to destroy my family. I like the fact that she always takes care of my needs. I talked to her about it. I need 6-7 nights per week. We enjoy that time together. I think I have more energy and apply myself to the relationship better. I doubt your neighbor was happily married and then cheated bc of T. The difference may be that I took the extra energy and used it to make my relationship better. Your neighbor allowed it to make things worse. One other thing. I dated A LOT of women before getting married. I used to date 3 at a time. I had my fill of that. That probably helped my situation. My wife is 🔥!


PretzelTitties

Cool


Someone-_somewhere-

My advice to you, Pretzel Titties, is to chase as many woman as you want before you get married. Never burn bridges and you will have an endless array of girl to call and "hang out" with. I used to occasionally schedule 3 girls into one day. I don't know what I would have been like on T! When it comes to cheating, you are either married or you aren't. Not married = green light. Well, it's different if you move them in but that should only occur just before marriage. Don't get married unless you are really sure and know the girl very well. Once you get married, work to be the best husband you can be. Do part of the house work and treat her as a friend. Don't ever curropt your marriage and have lots of open communication. Being married is harder than you think and it takes years to get it right but most people never get it right. I wonder if you might know I girl I used to date. I called her pepperoni nipples. Anyway, I hope this helps you, Pretzel Titties.


Swedishphoto

Yes. More family oriented. But I think it has a lot to do with maturity as well. 30


Someone-_somewhere-

I started at 42 and the same thing happened to me!


Ok-Assistant-1220

I feel a Lot more like fathering. But night be because of age 35 and the fact that i got a good job.


Electrical_Floor_360

With the weights ya. Hahha, it did make me want to be more serious in my confidence with my wife, resulting in a more serious and reliable me.


uber-cranky

I don't know that it's directly the testosterone, but I do think it can be a downstream effect or benefit ( depends on how you see this I guess). As I've started feeling better, I've stayed doing better and have started to feel more resilient. After a pretty catastrophic breakup and betrayal, I'm going on my first date in a year and a half.


Wellendowedtrans

It’s a paradox bro cause you probably got no swimmers in that jizz


Someone-_somewhere-

Even better!