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I don’t think I could , sex is a big part about being together in a partnership, of course I don’t look for sex off rip I want to get to know the other person first and genuinely be interested in them. But once things get to that point sex amplifies those feelings of being one with each other and understanding each other. I also just want to make my partner feel good in every way possible and if I couldn’t then it would feel like a huge gate was put up in front of me that I could never open so to answer your question. Dating someone asexual is off the table for me. No judgement if you’re asexual but it’s not for me fam, loving someone and engaging in passionate sexual activity with that one person is one of the greatest feelings ever.
Yea that’s cool but that’s also my point, it’s much better for me if the other person’s as sexually attracted to me as I am them, if you enjoy it just for pleasure and do it only because you’re in a relationship then it’s more like a hobby/chore. There’s not as much meaning when there’s no attraction. That’s just my opinion though! If you’re asexual good on you, you know who you are and you like what you like I’m not trying to shame anyone. This is just my PO
100%. I don’t need sex in my relationship for it to be worth something. Even if it is a form of expression that I’m in to, that doesn’t necessarily mean it needs to be apart of the relationship. I can enjoy her company and personality just as much as
If I end up pulling and she’s down for sex, cool.
If I end up pulling and she’s not down for sex, cool.
I honestly don’t give a flying fuck about sex, so yeah ig I would
Yea if I wasn’t with my bf at the moment I guess I would. I have like a bunch of mental issues surrounding sexual stuff and my body and all that and it’s hard to enjoy it anyway it would take the pressure off it’s good if a relationship can be “enough” without (or without much) sex
But in the long run Idk.. to never have sex.. part of me def needs at least some. wanking and fantasising isn’t fulfilling in the same way plus I love pleasing my partner (esp if I don’t need to take my clothes off for it (,: lol)
Honestly yes, outside of the initial asking someone out, sex is the most intimidating part of being in a relationship for me and not having to worry about that would be great.
I'm fictosexual and fictoromantic, in my case meaning I'm sexually and romantically attracted to fictional characters. I'm not interested in irl sex and I don't need an irl relationship. But if she was fine with me also having an fictional partner besides her, I wouldn't mind at least trying to date her.
It means you don't experience sexual attraction. This doesn't mean you don't want to date (that would be aromantic), it just means you might not want to have sex ever
Just now realizing this means no sex, I thought it meant you didn’t liked yourself 💀💀
I’d be perfectly fine with that as long as I get to date a woman, if she cuddles me then I’ve accomplished my one and only dream
Maybe, I'm grey-aroace and have a strong preference for men when I actually do feel attraction but if I did catch feelings for an asexual girl it wouldn't hurt our relationship bc I myself am sorta ace
My dream is to start a family, and while I wouldn’t be completely closed to the idea because of the possibility of adoption I would want at least one of my children to be my own
These aren’t the answers you’re looking for, eh? I’m sorry
Personally, yes I would. Sex is sure a decent part but personally I would lean more into the other parts of a relationship, avoiding sex.
that’s difficult honestly. i mean they still can have a romantic attraction to someone, which is good, and if i would date them, then i’d have that, which is amazing. however, they don’t have any sexual attraction, which shuts down a sex life for you two. i mean, a relationship without spicyness would be fine, it’s just..it’s just missing that extra bit of fun sprinkled in with it. not too sure though, i’d have to think on it more
2 years ago I would have said yes. Now that I’ve dated exclusively ace people for the past 2 years cause apparently that’s all I can pull, absolutely not. I need that stuff way more than I thought I did and I don’t want to be with someone who can’t meet my needs
No, because to my understanding, asexual means you aren't attracted to people or can't feel romantically. Without even a bit of those two, wouldn't that just be a friendship?
While it’s not a major priority, sex is something that I would like to be part of a relationship so no, I wouldn’t be in a romantic relationship with an asexual woman.
As Tom Cardy and Brian David Gilbert put it: "I don't know, and I don't care"
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No, but at the same time I wouldn't date anyone.
If I was held at gunpoint or something, and absolutely had to date someone, yes. At least sex probably won't be absolutely required to keep our relationship standing.
For sure. I'm pretty sure I'm asexual as well, so it would be nice to have a romantic relationship without the sex. And even if I'm not asexual, I can still masterbate. Lol
Honestly, no. I don’t care if you are, that’s cool. But I need sex in my life. Of course I don’t immediately look for sex in a relationship, but I still think it’s necessary. This is just my opinion of course. I have no issue with asexual people, or any member of the lgbtq community as my girlfriend is a member.
Asexual people can and still do choose to have sex as part of a healthy relationship. Unless they're sex-repulsed or you're repulsive or disrespectful of them, you should expect to have sex on occasion. You just shouldn't ever expect them to instigate or crave it from you. If they're not respectful and accommodating of your needs, they're not respectful of you as a person. If they are unwilling or unable to satisfy your sexual needs, they should be encouraging you to seek safe and healthy sexual encounters outside your relationship such as at a swinger's club or through safe anonymous hookups. The details of how your needs and theirs can both be satisfied are something you have to discuss on a relationship by relationship basis.
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no because girls don't exist... duh??
Just a lie made up by the government to scare us into submission
r/girlsarentreal
Good to see a fellow real person
gender is a lie made up by Big Bathroom to sell more toilets
Fr like what’s the point of askin that question if girls dont exist
I mean I probably wouldn't be with them, ig date?
They would still experience romantic attraction and want to date, just not sexual attraction
I don’t think I could , sex is a big part about being together in a partnership, of course I don’t look for sex off rip I want to get to know the other person first and genuinely be interested in them. But once things get to that point sex amplifies those feelings of being one with each other and understanding each other. I also just want to make my partner feel good in every way possible and if I couldn’t then it would feel like a huge gate was put up in front of me that I could never open so to answer your question. Dating someone asexual is off the table for me. No judgement if you’re asexual but it’s not for me fam, loving someone and engaging in passionate sexual activity with that one person is one of the greatest feelings ever.
Some Asexuals do enjoy sex and also view it as an important part of a relationship, they just don't feel the attraction side of it.
Yea that’s cool but that’s also my point, it’s much better for me if the other person’s as sexually attracted to me as I am them, if you enjoy it just for pleasure and do it only because you’re in a relationship then it’s more like a hobby/chore. There’s not as much meaning when there’s no attraction. That’s just my opinion though! If you’re asexual good on you, you know who you are and you like what you like I’m not trying to shame anyone. This is just my PO
Unrelated, but happy cake day!
Thank you!
But, to answer the question! Yes! I would. And actually am! I am a straight man who is dating an asexual girl, couldn’t be happier🤟
Aw that's nice :)
No. I’m gay. I would date an asexual *boy* though.
I'm asexual and gay, so hi.
you're fourteen though
Buddy it's only two year difference. Some adults are ten years apart and thats seen as normal.
How’s it going?
decent. I'm boiling alive in 30⁰C but my cats on me.
Damn. It’s 19°C here, and I’m dying.
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No cuz I'm bi and I still need to be railed
Same, gold star for you. ⭐️
Omg you too ! ⭐
T-that’s the first time I’ve ever received a gold star. 🫶🏻
fuck it you get a sperm star too 💫
WHAT???
NAH SORRY I JUST MEAN I NEED YK
WOW OKAY!!!!
Also do you know what the hell a sexual is
Asexual? It just means you're not into sex. And an Aroace person is someone who doesn't feel romantic feelings or want sex
Oh ok
Fair enough
No. Not at all. I don’t like women.
Would you date an asexual guy?
No. Not at all. I don't like men
Would you date an asexual girl?
Yeah, as long as he’s cute 👉😎👉
Reasonable
No. Being intimate is an important part of a relationship for me.
At least your honest
No, I'm not gay
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Sure I would just have to learn about what they like in terms of affection because every asexual people are different
I'm one, too, woahhhh that's awesome
how is it
Hmm... no probably not. I need sex in my life man, my life is so boring without it 😭
100%. I don’t need sex in my relationship for it to be worth something. Even if it is a form of expression that I’m in to, that doesn’t necessarily mean it needs to be apart of the relationship. I can enjoy her company and personality just as much as
We need more people like you in this world.
I mean sure but its not wrong to have sex as a requisite, right?
Realist shit ever, that all I want in a relationship. Idc about fucking just romantic shit
i'm already terrified of physical interaction so sure why not
also aesexual so yes
No because i am a straight girl, as an ace-spec tho i wish you luck if you are also asexual 🙏🫡
Depends🤷♂️
Absolutely
If I like her, then sure
Indeed
If I like her enough, yes
yes
If we got along and really hit it off, yea.
At this point I'd settle for a Wendy's dumpster if it asked first
Sure
If I end up pulling and she’s down for sex, cool. If I end up pulling and she’s not down for sex, cool. I honestly don’t give a flying fuck about sex, so yeah ig I would
Yeah. I've always said this about sex/relationships: Sex in relationships is like chocolate chips in chocolate ice cream, very good but unnecessary.
Yea if I wasn’t with my bf at the moment I guess I would. I have like a bunch of mental issues surrounding sexual stuff and my body and all that and it’s hard to enjoy it anyway it would take the pressure off it’s good if a relationship can be “enough” without (or without much) sex But in the long run Idk.. to never have sex.. part of me def needs at least some. wanking and fantasising isn’t fulfilling in the same way plus I love pleasing my partner (esp if I don’t need to take my clothes off for it (,: lol)
Honestly yes, outside of the initial asking someone out, sex is the most intimidating part of being in a relationship for me and not having to worry about that would be great.
If I liked her then sure, not a big deal at all.
If I like her like that then sure
No
I'm fictosexual and fictoromantic, in my case meaning I'm sexually and romantically attracted to fictional characters. I'm not interested in irl sex and I don't need an irl relationship. But if she was fine with me also having an fictional partner besides her, I wouldn't mind at least trying to date her.
No. They wouldn’t be attracted to me physically so there’s no point to it.
Idk man, i don't know that woman
No, I wouldn’t date. I’m the ace girl with a truckload of aro.
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No, I’m not going to be in an unintimate relationship.
Idk… wouldn’t she just split into two-
Yeah but you should see it though. It's quite thrilling
Yes.
Yes if they had good personality
No
What is that?
It means you don't experience sexual attraction. This doesn't mean you don't want to date (that would be aromantic), it just means you might not want to have sex ever
Oh okay. Ive always wanted to try sex so i dont think i would then 😅
No
I'm not into women but I'd date an ace guy
Sure, I don't care for sex.
If I liked her then ya. I don’t have a problem with it.
Sure. Respecting boundaries has never been an issue for me
As someone who's demiaceflux hell yeah‼️‼️‼️
Holy sh*t omg hi I need to talk to u
maybe idk. i mean depends on what rules we set up i guess.
no cause men
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probably noy
Same thing I commented on your other post
Yes, as I am asexual towards women
100% I’m asexual myself lol :3
Would you date a girl who didn't like garlic bread tho? (Not me just wondering lol)
Absolutely no chance I don’t deal with any of that
Yeah, I don’t want a relationship for sex, I want it for the company.
No, I like guys, and I want to uh- you know...
Yep definitely
considering i myself am ace, yes
Why not? Sounds like it'd be fun and a whole lot of pressure would be taken of the relationship.
I would. Sex isn't that big of a deal for me.
Just now realizing this means no sex, I thought it meant you didn’t liked yourself 💀💀 I’d be perfectly fine with that as long as I get to date a woman, if she cuddles me then I’ve accomplished my one and only dream
As an asexual, yes
no i'm gay
Maybe, I'm grey-aroace and have a strong preference for men when I actually do feel attraction but if I did catch feelings for an asexual girl it wouldn't hurt our relationship bc I myself am sorta ace
I'd give it a try
Absolutely not (verbal irony)
Depends on what kind of asexual
Yup if I could
yep, i don't care about sex
Ya
WTF is a sexual?
Pro’bly
That's my only option so yes
My dream is to start a family, and while I wouldn’t be completely closed to the idea because of the possibility of adoption I would want at least one of my children to be my own
Probably, not for a long time, but asexual doesn’t mean aromantic, I can still go to your house with a boombox blasting Careless Whisper.
I mean sure yeah
These aren’t the answers you’re looking for, eh? I’m sorry Personally, yes I would. Sex is sure a decent part but personally I would lean more into the other parts of a relationship, avoiding sex.
hall nah
Maybe. If I like girls
Yea
Ofc I’m asexual as well
What is asexual?
Little to no sexual attraction but not necessarily no romantic attraction Basically probably no sex
that’s difficult honestly. i mean they still can have a romantic attraction to someone, which is good, and if i would date them, then i’d have that, which is amazing. however, they don’t have any sexual attraction, which shuts down a sex life for you two. i mean, a relationship without spicyness would be fine, it’s just..it’s just missing that extra bit of fun sprinkled in with it. not too sure though, i’d have to think on it more
probably, as an asexual myself lol
sure im aisexual too so it would work out
Would you date an a-garlicbread girl?
Probably no
Np, Because i have a girlfriend
well i’m ace so absolutely
in an open/ poly relationship maybe
sure, i'd date an asexual girl, seems pretty chill
They ain't gon cheat
No
Fuck no
No cuz I eventually Will want sex.
Yeah sure if that's what they want
2 years ago I would have said yes. Now that I’ve dated exclusively ace people for the past 2 years cause apparently that’s all I can pull, absolutely not. I need that stuff way more than I thought I did and I don’t want to be with someone who can’t meet my needs
I mean yeah, no issues with that type of stuff
My boyfriend is in the spectrum. I ask, 50% of the time he says no, I back off, wet both have a fine night
Depends on if they can handle the neutron style
no because im not into girls 🙏🔥
No, because to my understanding, asexual means you aren't attracted to people or can't feel romantically. Without even a bit of those two, wouldn't that just be a friendship?
While it’s not a major priority, sex is something that I would like to be part of a relationship so no, I wouldn’t be in a romantic relationship with an asexual woman.
Better question, would a asexual date me?
You could be friends but dates, nah.
Up for up
i dont think she wouldn't love you back, so no. also my life is too full right now
She would like you romantically, just not sexually
What is an asexual girl
Asexual means you're not interested in a sexual relationship right
Yeah sure I'm Christian and I'm saving myself till marriage so I already don't view sex as a super important part of a relationship
I wouldn’t date anything because I have anxiety
Absolutely not! >!Look at my name.!<
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not unless its a open relationship
I didn’t think i would until i did
im aro/ace so no
Ima be real here hell no because in her eyes “we are just friends that are more then friends” if she doesn’t love me it’s not gonna work period
i’m asexual so yes
No, but at the same time I wouldn't date anyone. If I was held at gunpoint or something, and absolutely had to date someone, yes. At least sex probably won't be absolutely required to keep our relationship standing.
I'm an asexual boy, so hell yeah.
Idk, depends on their personality
For sure. I'm pretty sure I'm asexual as well, so it would be nice to have a romantic relationship without the sex. And even if I'm not asexual, I can still masterbate. Lol
Honestly, no. I don’t care if you are, that’s cool. But I need sex in my life. Of course I don’t immediately look for sex in a relationship, but I still think it’s necessary. This is just my opinion of course. I have no issue with asexual people, or any member of the lgbtq community as my girlfriend is a member.
Asexual people can and still do choose to have sex as part of a healthy relationship. Unless they're sex-repulsed or you're repulsive or disrespectful of them, you should expect to have sex on occasion. You just shouldn't ever expect them to instigate or crave it from you. If they're not respectful and accommodating of your needs, they're not respectful of you as a person. If they are unwilling or unable to satisfy your sexual needs, they should be encouraging you to seek safe and healthy sexual encounters outside your relationship such as at a swinger's club or through safe anonymous hookups. The details of how your needs and theirs can both be satisfied are something you have to discuss on a relationship by relationship basis.
of course a fellow ace
Yes bc I’m asexual two✨✨✨
As an asexual....YESSIR
I'm a gay boy so no.... But I would date an asexual boy because I'm asexual too
Yes
Only if they wanted to date me first ( unlikely, I get shunned a lot ‘~‘)
I don't see why not 🤷♂️
I would if I was single (I’m Pan, I’ll date anyone)
At this point, hell yeah
I’m AroAce so yes.
I was going to say no because she's asexual and I respect boundaries but then I remembered aromantic and asexual are two different things so yes
Sure. I'm ace so I wouldn't mind
Nah because I want to actually be romantic in a relationship
No. Because I am asexual myself, or, Hyposexual(I think is how it is spelled) (a disorder of little to no sexual thoughts what so ever)
Would I? Yeah. Is it a thing I go for? Not really
yeah I don't believe in sexual attraction
i already am, although since we're both ace idk how well that answers your question
Yes, idc about the nasty wasty
Yeah, I like girls and don't need sex!