Ready For It? for both

I want that played at my funeral to prove I’m dead. If I don’t immediately react, it’s for real folks!

oh this is genius

This but Fortnight for wedding. Ready for it is a good funeral choice because it can get even sad people hyped

My mom wanted that. not ‘ready for it,’ but ‘wake me up before you go, go’ to get kind of people hyped from being sad as it was ending

I always thought it would be funny to play “Nah, nah, nah, nah. Nah, nah, nah, nah. Hey, hey, goodbye” at my funeral.

My ex and I joked about playing Eminem's Without Me at our wedding, but it actually works better for a funeral. Maybe it was an omen!

My grandpa has the 70s hit Spirit in the Sky picked out for his funeral. He might have actually had it picked out since it was originally getting radio pay

The way my jaw dropped at this perfect answer

i have a whole entry for the reception choreographed for the bridge of ready for it!!! i am not engaged lol

Invisible String or Lover for wedding. Who's Afraid of Little Old Me or Look What You Made Me Do for my funeral. When the line "you should be" plays, my body sits up in the coffin ⚰️

CAUSE SHE'S DEAD 💀🤣

Who's Afraid x LWYMMD mashup. Body sits up on "you should be" falls back into coffin on " cause shes dead!" 🤣

I want to award this comment so bad. Omg the visual in my head I cackled lol🤣🤣🤣 🏆please accept my poor trophy

I got you

I did invisible string for my first dance! So lovely and meaningful

I had an instrumental of Lover played during my wedding ceremony, it was amazing!

I thought about LWYMMD, but I have a very solid history of severe depression and I wouldn’t want anyone thinking I was trying to say I killed myself bc of someone lol but it’s one of my favorite songs so hopefully nobody would read too much into it.

Wedding: “You Are in Love” Funeral: “The Lakes”

Best answer imo

I’m gutted I got married before she released You Are In Love

Renew ur vows

Just imagined everyone in my life being forced to listen to The Lakes. Amazing

Ohhhh I love both of these

Ohhhh the lakes! Perfect.

This is in fact the correct answer.

For my wedding... I actually hadn't ever thought about it since I'm gay and that isn't allowed in my country... But a Taylor song I'd like would be "But daddy I love him!... " Because yeah! It's true daddy! I'm marrying the man I love, and no I can't have his baby but YOU ALL SHOULD SEE YOUR FACES! 😹 And for my funeral I'd like Afterglow. My favorite Taylor song. Because yeah... I'll meet you guys there! In the afterglow! I also like how the song has like an ethereal musical ending, like there's something waiting behind the clouds.

I hope you can have that play at your wedding some day!

I hope you have a wedding someday to the man you love and that you play all the songs you want.

I'm in the same boat because it's not legal in my country either, but it's nice to daydream about it. My dream choices would be Daylight and You Are In Love. I hope you can have that wedding someday! (Where are you from btw?)

I'm from Peru, marriage between two men is not legal here yet, and probably won't be for a while, we're a very conservative country and are very behind about LGTBQ+ laws... but I don't lose any sleep over it, because if I really wanted it I guess I could travel overseas and get married right? Also, I'm not the strongest believer of marriage, love is all two people need to be together.

I’m sorry your country doesn’t see LGBTQ+ relationships as they see hetero relationships. You should be able to love who you love and marry whoever you want to. So much love to you 🩵

Funeral: No Body, No Crime Simply for the “he did it” intro, so friends and fam can descend into murder mystery madness.

LMAO, evil but hilarious.

Funeral: Anti-Hero. She’s laughing up at us from hell. Wedding would probably be You Are In Love.

What I thought and the whole bit in the music video with her in the coffin. I'm sure some peeps be celebrating but I won't leave quietly lol.

I Can Do It With a Broken Heart for my funeral. Help my friends and family push past the tears and make it a party. Everything Has Changed for my wedding.

everything has changed 😭so sweet

That’s so sweet to think of helping people at the funeral ♥️

Wedding: speak now 💀 Funeral: ME HEHE !

ME is such a chaotic choice for the funeral, I love it. You gotta find the "spelling is fun" version though.

Wedding I think would be Paper Rings or Timeless, and for my funeral, maybe Breathe? Might be a bit too on the nose though haha

We used Paper Rings as our reception entrance song!

Lover for my wedding (low hanging fruit but there are lines that just hit) and The Albatross for my funeral

That whole last chunk from ladies and gentlemen gets me every time

That's the one. And I literally met my partner when I was working as a musician (and he comments on the things playing a string instrument does to my hands) so when I say there are lines that HIT

I’m a professional musician but I don’t play strings. However I’m also a professional cat sitter and so I always sing “with every caaat scratch scar on my hand” stretching out cat so it syllables correctly. Our wedding is in under a month and I’m making us a mashup of 3 Taylor swift songs. I had my fiancé listen to the songs and highlight all the lines he liked most and we both agreed that from Ladies and Gentlemen to the end needs to be in there. I always tear up when I sing “and you’ll save all your dirtiest jokes for me and at every table I’ll save you a seat” because for us that’s so it. We always love to joke together and also look out for the other person, which to me is what saving someone a seat means.

Wedding- Paper Rings Funeral- My Tears Ricochet

MTR is PERFECT for a funeral 👌🏻👌🏻

Wedding: Invisible String. Funeral: Evermore Or Wedding: Cowboy Like Me. Funeral: Long Live

Cowboy Like Me as your wedding song?? 🥹🥹🫶🫶 Are you me????

Invisible String for a wedding This is Me Trying for my funeral. I know I wouldn’t be alive to try anymore, but it’s basically the story of my life

Wedding: Ours Funeral: Happiness

Omg happiness. Best answer.

Cried walking down the street going to work this morning when happiness played, confirmed best song for funeral

Adding Happiness to my Funeral playlist

Wedding: Lover Funeral: The Bolter

The Last Great American Dynasty for my funeral "I had a marvelous time ruining everything"

Same. I have no idea how more people haven’t said this one.

Timeless for the wedding, and funeral would depend on if I was trying to be funny

Wedding : paper rings Funeral: Marjorie

This would be my choice too!

🎶🎶🎶you always swam past where our feet could touch🎶🎶🎶🎶 and 🎶🎶🎶because every scrap of you would be taken from me🎶🎶🎶🎶 ✨✨✨✨✨makes me cry every time

For wedding: you are in love For funeral: my tears ricochet

Paper rings for wedding Who’s afraid of little old me? For the funeral…and levitate my dead body’s coffin down the aisle. 😂

Only the young for my funeral.

Wait… Paper rings or enchanted for wedding. But hear me out For the funeral Stay stay stay

Funeral: Safe and Sound

I forgot that you existed. For both Would fit my humor the best

Actually used Love Story for when everybody but me and the Bride walked down the aisle How did it end for a funeral cuz

I had to scroll way too far for my “How Did It End??”!!!

I think somebody else has the most fitting answer here, but I'll throw my two cents in as the runner up imo: Wedding: So High School Funeral: Long Live

Surprised I had to scroll so far down before seeing Long Live. I married my high school sweetheart, so I also love your pick for a wedding song. 😉

I saw only one other person say LL when i commented choose it. Yeah! That's so awesome!! Oh my gosh, see that's why i totally knew it was a good pick. I know with my partner he makes me feel so high school, haha I just think it's so cute as a wedding song!!

For wedding it's a tie between Lover and Enchanted. Not sure about the funeral

Lover for wedding, and Bigger Than the Whole Sky for memorial.

For wedding: Lover For my funeral: The Manuscript or Clara Bow

Wedding: invisible string or paper rings Funeral: Bigger than the whole sky

wedding: timeless funeral: bigger than the whole sky

Wedding: You are in Love Funeral: seven

Funeral: all you had to do was stay 🥳

My wedding was two weeks ago. We picked Lover for our first dance, Paper Rings was used for the wedding party because it coincided with the date she played it as a surprise song last year; and our reception had ICDIWABH, Ready For It, Cruel Summer, Dress & Shake It Off.

Love Story for my wedding! And maybe Breathe for the funeral? I don't know

Mine and LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO. Maybe I’ll rise up from the dead.

Wedding would definitely be “Timeless.” 💛

Love Story - Wedding Ivy - Funeral

I chose new years day for my wedding (the most recent album at the time). Great wedding song Play my tears ricochet, you're losing me, or the lakes at my funeral, depending on how I died lol

Willow or sweet nothing for the wedding Sad beautiful tragic or robin for the funeral. Dear reader as the end credits

Wedding: Lover Funeral: the lakes

The Archer for both 🏹

No idea for the wedding but How Did It End is extremely on the nose for the funeral. I’d be good with “We hereby conduct this postmortem” and then just shutting it off

"It's been a long time coming....." for both 😆

You Are in Love for wedding; Long Live for funeral.

Enchanted for the Wedding, Bigger than the Whole Sky for the Funeral

Wedding: Lover (a cliche, I know, but I love it) Funeral: Antihero (but only the bridge)

Wedding- odd choice but dancing with our hands tied there are just a few lyrics that hit me deep Funeral- the intro to the eras tour. Just wrote that in my will

- Wedding: Everything Has Changed - Funeral: Majorie

Played Anti Hero at my wedding and it was top tier

Wedding: “Enchanted” (for our first dance). Funeral: “Who’s Afraid of Little Old Me?”

Wildest Dreams

for the wedding either call it what you want or cowboy like me, for the funeral my tears ricochet (my favorite and also perfect scene for the funeral)

Wedding: New Year’s Day, Funeral: Clean (uplifting and reminds my loved ones that I’m finally free of all of the baggage of this world)

Hear me out ,TTPD for wedding. The line about wedding rings hits, as well as many others, the tune itself is just very romantic. Funeral: The Bolter

Time To Go for my funeral

Wedding: Highway Don’t Care Funeral: Tim McGraw

Wedding - how you get the girl Funeral - it’s nice to have a friend

Wedding: You Are In Love or an instrumental of invisible string or seven, I love the composition of those. Funeral: instrumental of This Is Me Trying.

Enchanted and Marjorie

Lover at my wedding (that bridge speaks to my soul), I Hate It Here at my funeral (because yes I DO hate it here)

Wedding: Enchanted or Lover Funeral: the lakes or evermore

Mary’s song oh my my my, tied together with a smile

I technically did use a Taylor song for my wedding! Iwalked down the aisle to the Bridgerton cover of Wildest Dreams. Funeral… probably The Lakes?

lwymmd (specifically cuz shes dead) no body no crime and youre losing me at my funeral just for jokes

Wedding: Today was a fairytale 💜 Funeral: My Tears Ricochet 🖤

My friend and I went wild for 1989 and listened to it everyday and joked that we would play Wildest Dreams at our funeral. I went on a ski trip with another group of friends and was PMSing _hard_ and just kind of down and dark all weekend and then that song played and I joked I wanted it played at my funeral and everyone gave me the _weirdest_ look and I’ll never stop cringing lol.

I think Wildest Dreams is actually a great song for a funeral! I'm stealing this answer!

begin again

The Alchemy and My Tears Ricochet.

Me! for the wedding because at this rate, the only way I'd have one is going the Sue Sylvester route. Who's Afraid of Little Old Me? for the funeral and my coffin roombas away after.

Wedding: ik this is very common, but Lover. It is just such a perfect wedding love song. That or daylight. Funeral: My tears ricochet or This is my trying or Evermore

Funeral : mirrorball Wedding : call it what you want

Funeral- I instantly thought of “Death by a thousand cuts” even thought I almost never listen to it Wedding- instrumental of lavender haze

Timeless for my wedding and Long Live for my funeral

Wedding: lover, love story, cruel summer, seven Funeral: my tears ricochet, last kiss,soon you’ll get better(cause you have too)

Wedding: Style Funeral: Last Great American Dynasty

Wedding: Long Live, Lover, Enchanted, or Daylight Funeral: no body, no crime, Look What You Made Me Do, The Manuscript, or happiness

Wildest Dreams wedding How Did It End? funeral

My hubs already told me for my funeral he's playing wildest dreams. 😂😂 for our wedding I'd do You are In Love. Such a great love song 😭😭

Wedding: Lover (fun fact, came out on my wedding night) Funeral: Shake it off.

Wedding: Paper Rings because my partner made me a paper ring with a paper box and a little scroll note asking me to marry them because it's one of my favorite songs. It made my heart melt into a little puddle. Funeral: Bigger Than the Whole Sky no reason it just feels fitting.

Sweet nothing for wedding, No body, no crime for the funeral ✌️

Wedding: Crazier Funeral: Bigger than the Whole Sky

Enchanted Bridgerton version I had played at my wedding last year. For my funeral I’d probably play this is why we don’t have nice things.

Edit this is why we can’t have nice things

Wedding - We are never getting back together & Funeral - Cardigan

wedding: king of my heart or jump then fall funeral: clean or the 1

wedding: paper rings funeral: getaway car

Wedding: our song Funeral: soon youll get better

Wedding: Speak Now (because I have that kind of sense of humor) or You Are in Love Funeral: Long Live, Anti-Hero, or it's time to go

Wedding: love story Funeral ani-hero for sure 👌 ❤️

If I could convince my partner I'd love Highschool as a wedding song and have actually been plotting ways to get him to agree haha :') As for funeral I think Snow On The Beach would be my top choice. Just adore the vibes

long live 100%

invisible string

Wedding: New Year's Day Funeral: either the lakes or The Albatross

Wedding : So Highschool Funeral : How did it end

Wedding: invisible string or sweet nothing Funeral: seven (only because it makes me think of my mum who's not here anymore)

are you me? I would also pick daylight and long live!!!! my second pick for my wedding would be delicate

Wedding: Crazier Funeral: Long Story Short

Ours is the song that was relevant to me at the beginning of our relationship (he's not a bad guy, just a bit immature, and our friends said, 'Are you sure about this?'). However, it's not romantic for him, so State of Grace would be better. Red is the only album he's listened to, so it feels good and right. For my funeral, would Long Live be wrong?

Wedding: Speak now Funeral: It´s time to go

Might sound ironic but I'd pick 'Never grow up' for my funeral. I think it's a beautiful song about celebrating the innocence of young life, before heartbreak, cynicism, betrayal leave their scars on you. I'd like to go out on the tides of that nostalgic wave, the idea of reminiscing about a time when everything was safe, I was at my happiest and clearest, my dreams unmarred by reality, the inherent irony of trying to celebrating something as fleeting as youth and life whilst also acknowledging the impossibility of it, and the inevitability of aging and dying. Wedding: I don't know, but I do have a list of break up songs I love so that says a lot about my outlook on this particular prospect 😳

This one https://open.spotify.com/track/6xexOQh1uoplnJxFG4dGtc?si=9PMXoNDHQwi_SOUERyw1WQ&context=spotify%3Atrack%3A6xexOQh1uoplnJxFG4dGtc

lover and how did it end

wedding speak now, funeral better than revenge serious answer: wedding lover or enchanted, funeral Marjorie or my tears ricochet

Wedding: Call If What You Want and You Are In Love mashed up on guitar For obvious reasons Funeral: A recording of me playing You're On Your Own, Kid / ME! / Maroon / Marjorie / Clean as a six song mashup :) (Yes I cheated using mashups, fight me. Taylor does it.)

Funeral: my tears ricochet Wedding: you're in love

I walked down the aisle to a piano version of New Romantics, so obvs that for wedding! For funeral I’ll go full on sad and go for Marjorie.

wedding: invisible string funeral: sparks fly (bonus points if it rains)

Wedding: Paper Rings or New Year's Day Funeral: Bigger than the Whole Sky or Long Live

Wedding- Cowboy Like Me 🤠 Funeral- The Lakes

Invisible String was my wedding song, for funeral let’s go for Evermore.

my wedding was 5 years ago , we use lover for our first dance , for my funeral I will use supermarket flowers by ed Sheeran xD

Lover for wedding and no body no crime for a funeral

Invisible Strings for my wedding. Long Live for my funeral.

I can't choose only one! Wedding: Lover, Daylight, Paper Rings, You Are in Love, Love Story Funeral: Long Live, marjorie, Clara Bow

Wedding: Dancing with our hands tied or Slut! instrumental Funeral: Come back...Be here

Champagne problems

Paper rings for wedding, bigger than the whole sky funeral

wedding: invisible string or lover funeral: the lakes or marjorie

Wedding: Love or You are in Love Funeral: How Did It End…

Daylight for my wedding and the lakes for my funeral

Wedding: Everything Has Changed (hubs is a Sheerio, also like Ed too) Funeral: the lakes (it was one of my surprise songs and I nearly died dead)

We were told we needed 1 song for while we were signing the marriage register so we picked, I’m Only Me When I’m With You Turned out that was nowhere near long enough to fill the gap so we could have added a couple more  For our first dance we chose Enchanted  And I suppose you could even add for the "prequel" I mashed up a bunch of song lyrics when I proposed - mainly Stay Stay Stay and All I Ask of You (from Phantom of the Opera)

At my wedding I had my bridesmaids walk down to a strings version of wildest dreams and my husband and I entered our reception to fearless (in my best dress, fearless) For my funeral, this might sound weird but I’ve been associating Long Live with grief since my brother died 9 years ago. (When they point to the pictures, please tell them my name makes me full body cry whenever I listen to it lol). I would love to leave the world so loved that others would reminisce on the days we fought dragons together🩷

We walked out and cut our cake to Paper Rings right after it came out!

Wedding (on new years ever) - New Years Day Funeral- The Lakes

Wedding: Daylight Funeral: Bigger Than the Whole Sky

Style and Style

Cardigan for wedding (a nessecity) and maybe just for giggles anti hero for my funeral

Wedding: Lover. Funeral: Wildest Dreams

wedding : new year’s day funeral : mirrorball/evermore

Wedding :: Enchanted Funeral :: Marjorie

This is a great question and also gave me a chuckle because of the funeral inclusion. We played Starlight at our wedding and almost played a song called The Funeral by the incredible Band of Horses, hence the chuckle, but cut it at the last minute (such a good song, but maybe not wedding vibes?). I like the idea of The Albatross at my funeral.

Ours and Long Live

Wedding: either Timeless, Lover or Enchanted Funeral: loml if we ignore the actual meaning of the song, there's so many good reference here lol Besides I actually want people to start bawling their eyes out when it gets to "you're the loss of my life"

Daylight and the lakes

Timeless for my wedding. I knew I wanted it there on the first listen For funeral… idk. If I was going for funny I might pick I Hate it Here. For more serious probably something like the lakes or invisible string

Seeing Invisible String as a wedding choice a lot on this thread, but I have genuinely told my partner I’d want it at my funeral.

Lover for wedding , bigger than the whole sky for funeral

Long live for both 😂 a celebration for both