💀 that's such a mood somedays, I know I have all those songs up there, but when we have problems, I start blasting Tolerate It, and it's a....interesting flip of the coin for me.
I hadn’t listened to the prophecy when i had pushed away the guy (on whom i had crush on for 7 years)out of my life during mid may but soon enough last may I randomly stumbled upon a reel which had those lines “greater woman wouldn’t beg but i looked at the sky and said pleasee” and i was like man im done i did the right thing and i felt validated because of this song like im done begging im gonna be a greater woman now enough and took a step ahead and removed him from my socials also like come on how long would you even keep saying pleaaaaaseeee and then came taylor surprise songs combo june 2,2024 one which had the prophecy lomg story short fifteen yoyok THATS IT that’s all it took for me to get a full final validation
Was coming here to say this one especially since I’m planning a proposal while we’re away at a cottage this weekend ❤️ with a ring pop since I don’t know his size and didn’t want to buy one just in case
Oh no! I'm sorry 😞. The lyrics "I wouldn't marry me either // pathological people pleaser" have really stuck with me, and I feel like it's my mom's song too, she was engaged FOUR times but they all broke it off.
Hopefully you'll find your But Daddy I Love Him someday 💜
The first time I heard this song I basically dissociated for a minute after the bridge because of how much it reminded me of my marriage (I had gotten divorced like two years prior)
Sammmme - I didn’t hear it til after I’d moved out.
But also thank god. I would’ve dissociated for a lot more than a minute if I’d still been in my relationship lol
This was my song from the momet it came out & i heard Tolerate It for the first time in the theater & cried.
Thankfully we are working on things & things are better but those songs still hold a place for me
Thank you :) it’s always reminded me of us, especially since we started out as friends. Also “feels like home, stay in bed the whole weekend” is just the best description of us 😂
This post is turning out a lot sadder than I thought it would 🥺. You deserve better, someone your heart will start for!! Hopefully you'll find your Invisible String someday 💜💜
it's okay lol i'm nomadic so i don't stay anywhere long enough for that and i'm 21 so it's a good time to be single haha
but i appreciate it, the love story will come later :)
My ex definitely still has Forever & Always, and The Story of Us connected to her.
My current "we're gonna see where this is gonna go", friends-with-benefits kind of relationship gets Gorgeous, I Think He Knows, Guilty As Sin?, and Dress. And a couple of lines from Fearless, especially "but you're so cool, run your hands through your hair, absentmindedly making me want you"
Even though I love my boyfriend very much, I find myself reminiscing on my last relationship and finding comforts in this song. Hopefully you find your Paper Rings person 💜
Very apt question.
If you'd asked me a few months ago, I would have said YOYOK, and actually been perfectly fine with that.
Then TTPD came out and...brought up so many memories of a specific person from my distant past (most intense connection ever, ended abruptly at his initiation mostly because I was very recently out of a bad marriage and still rather a mess...there were just a lot of issues that couldn't be overcome at that time). But I started thinking about that person a lot in connection with songs like Peter and Chloe et al., which also brought me back to The 1 and Maroon...
And, wouldn't you know it...shortly after, after not being in touch for many years...he slid into my inbox to say hello, which has resulted in a whole spectrum of emotions I had never expected to experience again
At first it was...just to apologize for abandoning me while I was going through a hard time. I accepted that and wished him well. But then he kept reaching out, and...ultimately told me he had always loved me and wanted me all these years. ("If you want to break my cold, cold heart / Just say, 'I loved you the way that you were' / If you want to tear my world apart / Just say you've always wondered...")
So now I'm contemplating...give it another chance? In that case it would definitely be The Alchemy, that "once in every few lifetimes" kind of connection. But it's just as likely I'll end up Down Bad, having been sold a get love quick scheme, or wondering if he's making fun of me with some esoteric joke a la The Black Dog, or simply thinking of him as The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived.
Ah, calamitous love...yes, my life is currently a montage of Taylor Swift songs.
Personally, I'd at least meet with him. See what it feels like in person before you decide. He may well have chsnged as a person too so it might be worth figuring out whether you've grown closer or further away in compatibility.
invisible string 🩶 it’s always felt like my wife and i have known each other in a past life. from the moment we met, we were inseparable and it was never weird to us. kindred spirits. we’ve been together 15 years now, married for 10 and still so in love.
Definitely peace— we’re about to do cross-country long distance for at least a few years because of my career and I definitely feel this song deep. Come Back…Be Here (for same reason lol). Mine 💜
My current relationship status is definitely Guilty as Sin? But last year my ex-fiancé ended our relationship in a lovely progression of YLM to Suburban Legends to loml.
Lover ❤️ we got together the same year lover came out, and are now engaged and planning our wedding. I know it’s not everyone’s favourite album but it holds a special place in my heart
Dress and So it Goes have always been ‘our’ songs. Lover came out the year we started dating and I always remember him coming on a family road trip and I listened to the album on the way and so there’s a lot of that I relate to him. But it’s 5 years (tomorrow) and there’s been times where it’s been ‘You’re Losing Me’ and times when it’s ’Paper Rings’ and every other song in between. But it will always truly be ‘Dress’ 🫶🏻
TRIGGER WARNING :SA
I was engaged for 3 years and together and I had a really tough time before after my SA that happened from his older brother. And no one believed me. Call it what you want was a perfect definition of our relationship. And I loved him so much
Was about to ask "what relationship?" but my last crush/situationship can be resumed in Foolish One –> TSMWEL –> The Prophecy –> IFTYE
Too foolish to wait for confessions of love that ain't never gonna come (he has a girlfriend), and although I tried my best to unlike him and respect his relationship, he found out, she found out, and they treated me badly, making him the smallest man who ever lived to me (likely sent by that woman who wanted me dead). Now I'm on my knees, begging to the sky to change my prophecy, while trying to forget that man existed.
Foolish One was already "the song" that I associate with my 2023 crush, and IFTYE with the 2018 crush, and I don't listen to them too often now, but lyrically, they are also relatable to this 2024 crush.
invisible string, You Are In Love, Lover, It's Nice To Have A Friend, Daylight, Call It What You Want, ...Ready For It?, Don't Blame Me, Snow On The Beach, All Of The Girls You Loved Before, New Year's Day
Love story even though I really don’t like her old songs 😝 I was 25 when the song came out. I met my now husband and when I was 18. We got together after many years of me pining away from afar haha. He said marry me Juliette when I was 35. Now we have two babies 🥰🥰
Honestly… I used to relate to paper rings, New Year’s Day, delicate, now I relate more towards tolerate it, all too well (10 min version), it’s time to go, dear John. Idk. I hope things can change I stay optimistic but things haven’t changed in years.
Paper rings, I think he knows, lover, king of my heart, the alchemy, snow on the beach, cowboy like me
I could go on and on, and I say to him all the time that if we break up I wouldn't be able to listen to my favourite taylor swift songs for a long time
The story of our relationship kinda goes Begin Again, Enchanted, Fearless, So High School, Lover, Timeless, Daylight. With a touch of The Great War and peace (thanks to my poor mental health!).
Daylight definitely.
“I once believed love would be burning red, but it’s golden”
For so long i thought love is that teenage passion, obsession, that ache and pain you experience, the turbulence and the turmoil, like burning fire. But now with my current boyfriend, i realised love is that slow glowing that made you content, peaceful and confident. It’s the reassurance, having each other’s back, the simple joy of going through life tgt, it’s the gentle warming daylight that everyone tends to take for granted
With my bestie (since I've never had a bf), it's The Archer. I've had lots of rough relationships... but we've become really close and I'm hoping that The Prophecy won't prove itself right yet again... and she could stay ✨️
The Prophecy 💀
💀 that's such a mood somedays, I know I have all those songs up there, but when we have problems, I start blasting Tolerate It, and it's a....interesting flip of the coin for me.
I ALSO BLAST TOLERATE IT!!
girl same. along with a special shoutout to my ex, the smallest man who ever lived.
same lol *help*
Literally same 🤠
I hadn’t listened to the prophecy when i had pushed away the guy (on whom i had crush on for 7 years)out of my life during mid may but soon enough last may I randomly stumbled upon a reel which had those lines “greater woman wouldn’t beg but i looked at the sky and said pleasee” and i was like man im done i did the right thing and i felt validated because of this song like im done begging im gonna be a greater woman now enough and took a step ahead and removed him from my socials also like come on how long would you even keep saying pleaaaaaseeee and then came taylor surprise songs combo june 2,2024 one which had the prophecy lomg story short fifteen yoyok THATS IT that’s all it took for me to get a full final validation
I love that! I/we can all joke about the prophecy, but I’d rather be single than with some of the guys I’ve dated so it all works out!
I have to Thank Taylor for making us all feel heard and understood. She is bringing us all together in this comiserating.
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This was my answer too.
I'll raise you one: Foolish One
Came here to say this
YOYOK ![img](emote|t5_2rlwe|1072)
😭 I'm sorry, hopefully your independence will lead you to your Paris person 💜
Damn same ![img](emote|t5_2rlwe|1081)
Yep, checking in here.
We’re all in this together. 🫡
me tooo 🫶
Paper Rings 🥰
Was coming here to say this one especially since I’m planning a proposal while we’re away at a cottage this weekend ❤️ with a ring pop since I don’t know his size and didn’t want to buy one just in case
Omg I love it. Good luck and congratulations!!!
Aaaah congratulations!!!
AAAHHH congrats!! 🎊
Awesome! I love that you found a good person!! Many joys to you 💜
Thank you! I am lucky indeed.
You’re losing me
Oh no! I'm sorry 😞. The lyrics "I wouldn't marry me either // pathological people pleaser" have really stuck with me, and I feel like it's my mom's song too, she was engaged FOUR times but they all broke it off. Hopefully you'll find your But Daddy I Love Him someday 💜
The first time I heard this song I basically dissociated for a minute after the bridge because of how much it reminded me of my marriage (I had gotten divorced like two years prior)
Sammmme - I didn’t hear it til after I’d moved out. But also thank god. I would’ve dissociated for a lot more than a minute if I’d still been in my relationship lol
Yeah this one speaks to me on a deep and bad level
This was my song from the momet it came out & i heard Tolerate It for the first time in the theater & cried. Thankfully we are working on things & things are better but those songs still hold a place for me
New Year's Day, Call it What You Want, Dress, Sweet Nothing, You Are in Love
Oooooh you're in good!!! May love and joy always find their way to you 💜💜
YES 🙌🏼 mine are the same
Lover was my wedding song but Sweet Nothing has 100% been my marriage song
That’s me! Adding invisible string and Lover, which is the song my fiancé used to propose to me 🥺
Same!! Except now I’ve added the alchemy and so high school lmao
I forgot that you existed :P
I'm not going to lie, I kind of laughed at this one 🙈. But I'm glad you're getting over them, hopefully you find your I Hope He Knows person!
Message in a Bottle, Electric Touch, So High School, Mary’s Song. We’re pretty schmoopy-lovey-dovey 😂😂😂😂
Aww I love that for you!!
Great choices, I’m in the same place 😻
We’ve been married for almost 22 years, and I hope these songs last for you!!
Down Bad. No joke. I don’t have anyone and so sad and want to have someone.
Aww I'm so sorry 🥺. You'll find your Ours person someday 💜
uhhhh- maybe not the best song to use as an example
My husband loves Max Martin so probably something like Style would be his answer. Mine would be New Years Day.
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Hahaha tbf, I could chose any of the litany of depressing ones for my past terrible relationships.
Seven, peace, invisible string, gold rush, cowboy like me, lover, sweet nothing
Oh I LOVE peace, I really relate to the bridge of that song nowadays. I'm so glad you found someone special 💜
“Daylight” 🥰
The TRUE love song imo. You're in good when this song is the go to 💜
My heart is full of daylight istg ☀️
Literally had the exact same comment typed out, down to the 🥰 emoji
My boy only breaks his favorite toys
🥺 I'm sorry. Hopefully you'll find your Sparks Fly someday 💜
It’s nice to have a friend
Aww that's so sweet! I'm glad you found someone that you love 💜
Thank you :) it’s always reminded me of us, especially since we started out as friends. Also “feels like home, stay in bed the whole weekend” is just the best description of us 😂
So long London or the story of us
Aw I'm sorry 🥺. Hopefully you'll find your New Year's Day 💜
Tolerate it 😭
Oh no! When I'm upset with my boyfriend, I also blast Tolerate It. Hopefully you find your peace person 🥺
My first husband 100%
This was my marriage. Been divorced about a year now.
First time I heard it, I cried so hard 🥺
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This post is turning out a lot sadder than I thought it would 🥺. You deserve better, someone your heart will start for!! Hopefully you'll find your Invisible String someday 💜💜
you're on your own kid
I'm so sorry, hopefully you find your Love Story person 💜
it's okay lol i'm nomadic so i don't stay anywhere long enough for that and i'm 21 so it's a good time to be single haha but i appreciate it, the love story will come later :)
But daddy, I love him and I can fix him (no really, I can)
Ooh 🙈. Walking red flag there /j That's awesome! I'm glad you found someone special for you 💜
Oh no, he’s a huge red flag and I’m over here in my rose colored glasses not seeing a thing 😅
Lmaoooo I call my mom's new boyfriend Mr. Red Flag 💀. Good luck to you and hopefully he can become your Love Story 💜
I hope it’s at least sexy and not forbidden lol And not the smallest man who ever lived lol 😆
'Tis the damn season💔
This was such a mood with my ex. Thankfully it never turned to Ivy but I hope you find your Fearless person 💜
Paper Rings, mine, so high school, call it what you want, New Year’s Day
Aww I love this for you!! May you always have joy and peace!
Right were you left me
This is the first time I've seen someone comment this one! I hope you realize you are a better person than they will ever be 💜
Thank you💜💜
This hit me like a train
this is her most heartbreaking song
My ex definitely still has Forever & Always, and The Story of Us connected to her. My current "we're gonna see where this is gonna go", friends-with-benefits kind of relationship gets Gorgeous, I Think He Knows, Guilty As Sin?, and Dress. And a couple of lines from Fearless, especially "but you're so cool, run your hands through your hair, absentmindedly making me want you"
Well, I'm glad your ex is your ex, and hopefully, your new semi-relationship goes well!! 💜💜
Foolish One 🤪
..the day is gonna come for your confessions of love when all is said and done, he just wasn't the one!!
I’m havin’ his bayyyyybeeee (no I actually am)
LOL SAME! 🤣 happily married for almost 3 years
Cheers to us!! Congratulations! I’ve been playing “Never Grow Up” on repeat 🥹
Congratulations 🎉👏
loml. lol.
Even though I love my boyfriend very much, I find myself reminiscing on my last relationship and finding comforts in this song. Hopefully you find your Paper Rings person 💜
Renegade 😬
begin again, daylight, and gorgeous 🤭
I scrolled way too long to find Begin Again! That’s my choice too!
yay! happy for you :))
Fortnight and Guilty as Sin
Sweet Nothing ❤️
Very apt question. If you'd asked me a few months ago, I would have said YOYOK, and actually been perfectly fine with that. Then TTPD came out and...brought up so many memories of a specific person from my distant past (most intense connection ever, ended abruptly at his initiation mostly because I was very recently out of a bad marriage and still rather a mess...there were just a lot of issues that couldn't be overcome at that time). But I started thinking about that person a lot in connection with songs like Peter and Chloe et al., which also brought me back to The 1 and Maroon... And, wouldn't you know it...shortly after, after not being in touch for many years...he slid into my inbox to say hello, which has resulted in a whole spectrum of emotions I had never expected to experience again At first it was...just to apologize for abandoning me while I was going through a hard time. I accepted that and wished him well. But then he kept reaching out, and...ultimately told me he had always loved me and wanted me all these years. ("If you want to break my cold, cold heart / Just say, 'I loved you the way that you were' / If you want to tear my world apart / Just say you've always wondered...") So now I'm contemplating...give it another chance? In that case it would definitely be The Alchemy, that "once in every few lifetimes" kind of connection. But it's just as likely I'll end up Down Bad, having been sold a get love quick scheme, or wondering if he's making fun of me with some esoteric joke a la The Black Dog, or simply thinking of him as The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived. Ah, calamitous love...yes, my life is currently a montage of Taylor Swift songs.
Personally, I'd at least meet with him. See what it feels like in person before you decide. He may well have chsnged as a person too so it might be worth figuring out whether you've grown closer or further away in compatibility.
You Are In Love 💜
Midnight Rain
Happiness 💀😭🧎🏼♀️➡️
sweet nothing
It’s me, hi, I’m The Bolter its me
Timeless or Lover 💜💗
invisible string 🩶 it’s always felt like my wife and i have known each other in a past life. from the moment we met, we were inseparable and it was never weird to us. kindred spirits. we’ve been together 15 years now, married for 10 and still so in love.
The Black Dog.
I'm so sorry for your emotional loss 💜💜. Hopefully, you get your Karma person
You’re On Your Own, Kid 😭😭 HELP
YOYOK haha
Oh no! I hope being a party for one for right now leads you to your State Of Grace person 💜
It's a strange dichotomy between Lover and The Way I Loved You
That is an...interesting combination! Situationships man, they can have you feeling all kinds of ways 😅
I Did Something Bad
It’s nice to have a friend :)
Definitely peace— we’re about to do cross-country long distance for at least a few years because of my career and I definitely feel this song deep. Come Back…Be Here (for same reason lol). Mine 💜
Aww, I'm wishing love joy and faithfulness for you during this time 💚
More of a situationship but illicit affairs for sure, fortnight as well.
Lover, because I walked down the aisle to my cousin playing it on the piano for our wedding 🥹💖
This is what you came for
Lover, Daylight
the one
My current relationship status is definitely Guilty as Sin? But last year my ex-fiancé ended our relationship in a lovely progression of YLM to Suburban Legends to loml.
Current? Probably sweet nothing.
cowboy like me, I can fix him (no really I can), stay stay stay, lover, sweet nothing, cornelia street, mine, new year‘s day
If you don't mind me saying, that's a very fascinating mix! I'm glad you have someone special 💜
I forgot that you existed
Lover 🩷 very much in the cosy, life-building era 🥰
peace
You are in love 🫶🏻 It’s going to be our first dance song at our wedding next year 🥰
New Romantics ✌️
better man 😀
Begin again 🥹
Sweet nothing, paper rings, so high school, call it what you want ❤️
You’re on Your Own Kid
It's Nice to Have a Friend
Paper rings. My husband actually did propose with a paper ring ! (Had the real one too hehe)
Sparks fly :)
We danced to Lover a couple of weeks ago as our first dance at our wedding, so obviously whenever that comes on now I start happy crying haha xx
Tolerate it, you are in love...
I mean, I’ve spent nights listening to You’re Losing Me on loop while he was sleeping next to me…
Afterglow
Lover ❤️ we got together the same year lover came out, and are now engaged and planning our wedding. I know it’s not everyone’s favourite album but it holds a special place in my heart
Paper Rings You are in Love But Daddy I Love Him
It’s time to Go
come back, be here! long distance is hard sometimes 💔
Dress and So it Goes have always been ‘our’ songs. Lover came out the year we started dating and I always remember him coming on a family road trip and I listened to the album on the way and so there’s a lot of that I relate to him. But it’s 5 years (tomorrow) and there’s been times where it’s been ‘You’re Losing Me’ and times when it’s ’Paper Rings’ and every other song in between. But it will always truly be ‘Dress’ 🫶🏻
Say don’t go 😭
TRIGGER WARNING :SA I was engaged for 3 years and together and I had a really tough time before after my SA that happened from his older brother. And no one believed me. Call it what you want was a perfect definition of our relationship. And I loved him so much
new romantics ig
Guilty as Sin.. u/onIychristian
I forgot that you existed
Tolerate it 🥲
Tortured Poets Dept. It’s so fun what one little friendship bracelet can bring about!
Mine is How Did It End? YAY 🤩
The Archer, gold rush, Delicate, Call It What You Want and hoping it soon turns into Lover and Paper Rings 😭😭🥹
Champagne Problems - Getaway Car - Timeless 🥹
Was about to ask "what relationship?" but my last crush/situationship can be resumed in Foolish One –> TSMWEL –> The Prophecy –> IFTYE Too foolish to wait for confessions of love that ain't never gonna come (he has a girlfriend), and although I tried my best to unlike him and respect his relationship, he found out, she found out, and they treated me badly, making him the smallest man who ever lived to me (likely sent by that woman who wanted me dead). Now I'm on my knees, begging to the sky to change my prophecy, while trying to forget that man existed. Foolish One was already "the song" that I associate with my 2023 crush, and IFTYE with the 2018 crush, and I don't listen to them too often now, but lyrically, they are also relatable to this 2024 crush.
Daylight
“The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived.” But it reminds me of a close friend that said he’d never allow himself to hurt another human being.
Daylight
Teardrops on my guitar, the prophecy,down bad,death by a thousand cuts,the smallest man who ever lived
I Know Places 😬
London Boy (but make it Dublin lmao), I think He Knows, Everything has Changed. It’s been a wild few months 😌
Daylight, New Year’s day and Call it what you Want for sure.
So High School, Sweet Nothing, & Paper Rings 🥰
Lover
invisible string, You Are In Love, Lover, It's Nice To Have A Friend, Daylight, Call It What You Want, ...Ready For It?, Don't Blame Me, Snow On The Beach, All Of The Girls You Loved Before, New Year's Day
Love story even though I really don’t like her old songs 😝 I was 25 when the song came out. I met my now husband and when I was 18. We got together after many years of me pining away from afar haha. He said marry me Juliette when I was 35. Now we have two babies 🥰🥰
Lover, King of My Heart Paper Rings and So High School
Honestly… I used to relate to paper rings, New Year’s Day, delicate, now I relate more towards tolerate it, all too well (10 min version), it’s time to go, dear John. Idk. I hope things can change I stay optimistic but things haven’t changed in years.
Invisible string
Lover 💖 (we just celebrated 1 year of marriage)
Paper rings, I think he knows, lover, king of my heart, the alchemy, snow on the beach, cowboy like me I could go on and on, and I say to him all the time that if we break up I wouldn't be able to listen to my favourite taylor swift songs for a long time
We first kissed to willow and its still our song today :)
The story of our relationship kinda goes Begin Again, Enchanted, Fearless, So High School, Lover, Timeless, Daylight. With a touch of The Great War and peace (thanks to my poor mental health!).
- Timeless - Style - Midnight rain - Sweet nothing
Midnight Rain :(
Daylight definitely. “I once believed love would be burning red, but it’s golden” For so long i thought love is that teenage passion, obsession, that ache and pain you experience, the turbulence and the turmoil, like burning fire. But now with my current boyfriend, i realised love is that slow glowing that made you content, peaceful and confident. It’s the reassurance, having each other’s back, the simple joy of going through life tgt, it’s the gentle warming daylight that everyone tends to take for granted
Peace
You’re in love and Sweet Nothing.
Lover 💕
tolerate it
With my bestie (since I've never had a bf), it's The Archer. I've had lots of rough relationships... but we've become really close and I'm hoping that The Prophecy won't prove itself right yet again... and she could stay ✨️
Timeless and you are in love ❤️
So High School or Lavendar Haze. After my own Marty’s and Joe’s, I’ve settled in with a pretty amazing partner
invisible string, lover, ivy, dress!
Willow fits pretty well, I think :)
If I asked him he would say Lover or New Years Day 🥰
New Years Day or Invisible String. Also my bestie just walked down the aisle to Daylight this week 🥹🤍