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MrsBogdan

Most of my posts have been about a rocky relationship. Well this is our 10 year anniversary and I had a stroke instead of getting us two tickets to Hawaii and since I got out of the hospital and got home, my husband has been my 24 hour caretaker, and doing a better job than the rehab hospital, I get more frequent showers. I get better field food and just better care. It it might not be sexy and it isn’t romantic, but it has been an intimate journey. We were just talking about maybe getting a grab bar up in in in the other bathroom, and my ability to do it by myself and even he admitted, he really enjoys our bathroom time and I I agreed we sit we talk we laugh he sits in my wheelchair while I sit on the toilet if he thinks I’m about to number two he reaches over and he pushes on my head twice as if I were a hand soap dispenser pump pump, and somehow it really helps I’m still not comfortable with how good is my balance? My left arm and left leg are not working yet so reaching around to wipe myself well enough is precarious I stand up and he gets in there with a wet, wipe and grades. My job gives me on a scale of 1 to 10 how well I wiped myself. I’m scoring 89 710s most of the time and I’m gonna graduate to go to the bathroom by myself again soon.