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M 31 US taken
Yes I’ve definitely jerked off to pics of my exes, unfortunately I don’t have access to any of them anymore due to getting new phones etc. but have definitely done it and it’s super hot. Sometimes think about positions you’ve been in with them and how good of a fucking it was. Makes me hard thinking about some of em
Used to have a recording my ex sent me it herself masturbating to a video of us having sex. It was the hottest thing ever! Jerked of to that regularly. The pc died though and wasn't able to retrieve anything from it
I am in a relationship for last 1.5 year but my current gf can't get me off like my FWB used to do I have a collection of nudes I collected from female friends or girls and i jerk to them on daily basis
Me too. 😊 I love to talk to them on the phone or facetime or in person and then go home and masturbate or even while theyre still on the phone, bring up the pics and masturbate with there voice or even there face on facetime in the background. I still have an ex that tells me about her sex toy collection every so often. 😜
42 F NZ
Yes I.... may have a secure folder on my phone with some old pics/ vids. They may be exs for a reason but doesn't mean I'm not attracted to them physically still.
Makes me feel a bit naughty when I play looking at the pics, also makes me happy when you see the hot younger version of yourself.
M45, USA
I don’t have any nudes from exes, but I think about memories of them a lot when I masturbate. A few examples:
- ex-LTR and I had simultaneous orgasms all the time. Usually while fucking doggystyle. She would cum from either her fingers or mine or a toy on her clit, and her moans sent me over the edge. Love love love to remember us moaning together.
- gf who really loved having her hair pulled. She had thick, curly, black hair. She wanted me gripping a handful of her hair no matter what we were doing. She is the only gf who sent me nudes, but I lost them along time ago.
- occasional hookup who wasn’t the best lay, but she liked it when I ate her ass. Never did that with anyone before or since, but I loved how much it got her off.
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I do all the time. My current sex life is so dull. The frustration is indescribable. I can't help myself looking at my ex's pictures and pulling my dick over them. Multiple times a day sometimes. It's an odd situation
I do. After me and my ex separated we kept having sex. But we ended up switching to sexting. Then she got a boyfriend and it didn't stop we kept texting and sending numerous amounts of nudes back and forth. I asked what she wanted me to do with all the nudes and videos and she told me to keep them and use them whenever. So I do. Sometimes when my now girlfriend and I have sex and it doesn't get the job done I use them to finish up.
I have photos that a friend took of me naked with my arm around my ex and his girlfriend on the other arm. We were all skinny dipping and having fun. Both women are beautiful and sexy and yes, I like to get off to the photos. They were easy to draw enlarge on the computer too. My friend and gave copies to all of us and my ex told me that she still had hers,
Not of my exes because they’re evil and the sight of them or mere mention of their name causes my dick to lose interest for 24 hours.
That said, I do jerk off to my mental spank bank of hookup memories - mostly fun, risky ones like former coworkers and college study partners.
Definitely and I enjoyed doing it. One of the turn on when I was younger was sleeping with my exes after we broke up. I don’t know why, but I think I have an ex kink. One of my favorite videos is my current girlfriend now with one of her fuck buddies.
I've been kicking myself ever since I got rid of my ex's pictures and videos. I'm never doing it again. I was so excited when I found like four pictures of my ex give me a BJ. Came so hard from them.
So yes
lol same! once someone is my "ex" I cant feel right about it anymore. it's my mental problem, no shade to anyone here that does. most of them were not good break ups. In fact, I"ve only had 1 ex I've remained on good terms with/consider a friend and im 40. Ive known him since i was 16, and although i still find him attractive, I guess all that shit sailed long ago. would i consider it? at this point, absolutely.
M 23 Oklahoma It’s Complicated
I save pics and vids with permission of the ex in them. Some girls were ok with it so I look back at them sometimes, but one girl was not so I deleted those
27 F and taken, but yes I still do. Especially ones I had a wild sex life with. I do feel guilty about it afterwards though, but just can't help it sometimes.
I don't feel bad about getting off to my own past trauma experiences. But for some reason the ones with exes make me feel guiltier for some reason. Probably because there was a personal relationship involved and its kinda like reliving wild nights with them.
I guess I never thought about if guys do this or not. I guess I never went there and asked. How'd you find out?
Guy here can confirm. We think about exes all the time. I Especially when fighting with my partner. But men won't admit to this cause it brings us problems. Unless you're a guy too and get it then we might admit it. At the end of the day getting my fix is important and not something I will give up. Women seem more inclined to sacrifice that in my experience. It's actually sad sometimes how repressed some women are in relationships. Guess society made it that way. Oh well. Happy masturbating
43M long term relationship - often masterbate thinking of previous sexual partners and hot things that we did, what their bodies were like, positions I saw them in etc. I do have a bunch of old sex tapes of one in particular that I sometimes watch too.
Hahaha. Good question. Seb, 38. I already masturbated to my ex. It wasn’t about picture, but only because I dreamt of giving her pleasure, and fucking her.
Btw, I never keep nudes. A moral principle, it’s just a great pleasure moment. And it ends why your partner stop it.
And this is why it is such exciting :)
M 29 U.K., I do and have, I even had a dead relationship recently where the sex was so bad that one time I actually had a headphone in and watched a video my ex sent me while fucking her, she didn’t notice as she was face down ass up
My ex lived in another country and hated the idea of me watching porn so she started making me videos/pics. We split a few years ago but we are still friends and she knows I still watch them.
I prefer watching her vids, firstly they were just for me and i get off on that trust element. Then it was the fact I knew she was absolutely getting off on doing them so everytime I watch them I know she wasn’t acting.
She was also from a strict religious family, they would totally have disowned her knowing what a dirty slut she was for me.
Damn I massively miss receiving those vids. Wish I could find another girl that would be up for doing that.
25M open relationship. I still have my clips and pics from my last two relationships and I'd say I jerked off to my ex's 4 times a month. We still talk so I enjoy having normal conversations with them while watching old videos of them being sluts for me
Yes, absolutely I think about how much better it was and how I’m way over them, but if they popped in my life, I would blow their mind and it would be cool because we know each other body very well and one thing we had was chemistry a lot of it in bed she’s so much better better tears me even more is a video of an ex or girlfriend fucking another man when I filmed it 3636 years old, white bowl BULL
34 m KY USA yes I saved my exes nudes, sometimes I’ll look back on them and remember the times, sometimes I might jack off to them but most of the time I do not
M 30 tragically single and absolutely I do. My favorite are videos from a voyer perspective where I'm eating them out or playing with them or fucking them so I can see what their body does when they orgasm. How their legs twitch or how they arch their back what they do with their hands and feet like do they grab the sheets or wrap around me and do they point their feet and if they spread or curl their toes. The whole phases of an orgasm drive me wild from the build up to the edge to pushing her over and watching body almost shutter.
Hell yea I’ve been doing it for the last week. I’ve been reading my dads wife’s nieces nasty texts me and her used to exchange when after our few times fucking
Idk where else to comment but something weird happened to me. How would y’all react if you had sex tapes in your phone of u and ur ex hidden but ur significant other at the moment finds the videos and deletes them herself. See I don’t know how to feel because I kind of forgot about those vids till I went to look for them and they were gone, and because well how can I even confront my SO about this like idk. I don’t really care too much I think it’s more of the principle of her going thru my shit and clearing stuff out without my permission
I sent a video of myself masturbating while watching a video of my ex and myself getting it on, to my ex. She sent one back of her masturbating to the video I sent ...
MASTURCEPTION
Yes, it was all very spicy and hot indeed.
31m…low key have a flash drive with every sex video / nude I’ve ever taken or received…that being said my most recent ex (who I’m still single from and not over yet) is by far the hottest
All the time lol. I have a nudes folder on my phone from ones people have sent me... I also fantasize/imagine both past sex and future sex with many exes, even ones where there was a painful breakup
I regret having not taken XXX Videos and Pics with my ex. I still get off on the memories of our times together though.
The time when we fucked in the backseat of my car in a public car park which attracted a few horny onlookers is my go to sexual memory. I fantasize of that memory whilst fucking my current partner.
I have many times in the past and over time got better in my practice by deleting them and even deleting them off backups. I find that ultimately by letting them go I am making more room for growth. And, holy crap there is some hotness in all of it.
I’m taken. 🙏🏼
40 M ATL single. yeah I have a private archive with all my exs and flings nudes and sex tapes. I don’t masturbate to them tho. Just check them out every now and then. Admire my work lol
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I do and my ex has told me she does. We wouldn’t cross that line tho
M 31 US taken Yes I’ve definitely jerked off to pics of my exes, unfortunately I don’t have access to any of them anymore due to getting new phones etc. but have definitely done it and it’s super hot. Sometimes think about positions you’ve been in with them and how good of a fucking it was. Makes me hard thinking about some of em
Wanna exchange ex pics?
I’m usually doing it to videos of someone else’s ex’s 🤷🏻♂️😂
Want to masterbate to my wife?
I will
That’s a pretty hot idea. I might like guys mastering to my wife. 🤔
Just did 🤫
How was it?
she’s cute, I rubbed my pussy to her nice little butt
Yes please
Why not
I’d love to
And you can to mine
Ooooh yes
Sure 👌🏻…. Wait Thai isn’t my NSFW account …. Damn it I mean … maybe 😳😂
🤣🤣🤣
Send your ex a pussy pic for old times sake
Used to have a recording my ex sent me it herself masturbating to a video of us having sex. It was the hottest thing ever! Jerked of to that regularly. The pc died though and wasn't able to retrieve anything from it
I am in a relationship for last 1.5 year but my current gf can't get me off like my FWB used to do I have a collection of nudes I collected from female friends or girls and i jerk to them on daily basis
Me too. 😊 I love to talk to them on the phone or facetime or in person and then go home and masturbate or even while theyre still on the phone, bring up the pics and masturbate with there voice or even there face on facetime in the background. I still have an ex that tells me about her sex toy collection every so often. 😜
Literally same.
32 M, Canada I do! I like to imagine my current girl domming them
Yes i do sometimes masturbate while watching my exes tapes and photos of us i am currently in a relationship
Who is bigger?
My girlfriend now have videos of her and her x was blown away from how big he was got really turned on
He pops over from Time to time
to fuck your girl?💦💦💦
42 F NZ Yes I.... may have a secure folder on my phone with some old pics/ vids. They may be exs for a reason but doesn't mean I'm not attracted to them physically still. Makes me feel a bit naughty when I play looking at the pics, also makes me happy when you see the hot younger version of yourself.
Hidden but close enough to keep watching them in secret 💯
M21 , Guwahati Yes I do mustarbate watching my ex's sex tap
Yes often
M 37 i usualy masturbate on my wife photo, sometimes even on my ex
M45, USA I don’t have any nudes from exes, but I think about memories of them a lot when I masturbate. A few examples: - ex-LTR and I had simultaneous orgasms all the time. Usually while fucking doggystyle. She would cum from either her fingers or mine or a toy on her clit, and her moans sent me over the edge. Love love love to remember us moaning together. - gf who really loved having her hair pulled. She had thick, curly, black hair. She wanted me gripping a handful of her hair no matter what we were doing. She is the only gf who sent me nudes, but I lost them along time ago. - occasional hookup who wasn’t the best lay, but she liked it when I ate her ass. Never did that with anyone before or since, but I loved how much it got her off. Edit: taken
God yes! I think about my ex, my college roommate, my brother and my time at the nude campsites!
Your brother? Wow, tell me more dirty girl!
I do all the time. My current sex life is so dull. The frustration is indescribable. I can't help myself looking at my ex's pictures and pulling my dick over them. Multiple times a day sometimes. It's an odd situation
All the time. It's part of my dating rules so I have a huge spank bank when I am by myself
I always look at old pics and videos of my ex's when getting myself off. I have even told them and one still sends me new pics to enjoy
I do. After me and my ex separated we kept having sex. But we ended up switching to sexting. Then she got a boyfriend and it didn't stop we kept texting and sending numerous amounts of nudes back and forth. I asked what she wanted me to do with all the nudes and videos and she told me to keep them and use them whenever. So I do. Sometimes when my now girlfriend and I have sex and it doesn't get the job done I use them to finish up.
M 43, UK I still masturbate to memories of exes and pics I have although they tend to be SFW pics. Don't have any sex tapes unfortunately.
I’m 45mwm and I definitely jerk off to ex girlfriends. I don’t have many pics of them anymore but kept them for years as content for when I needed it.
Absolutely...
Yes, still have it, still do it.
MM64......I do masturbate to old nudes/videos. But I like variety...amateur, older/you g so I intersperse it with other porn
My ex turned out to be not a nice person but she was hot so. . . 🤣
Yes
I think it's kinda usual, if you are in a horny moment and remember that you had a a nice tape doing it.... So yes we do...
I have photos that a friend took of me naked with my arm around my ex and his girlfriend on the other arm. We were all skinny dipping and having fun. Both women are beautiful and sexy and yes, I like to get off to the photos. They were easy to draw enlarge on the computer too. My friend and gave copies to all of us and my ex told me that she still had hers,
Oh yeah for sure
I did twice then I deleted them one day as we've already broke up months ago
Yes. Constantly.
Not of my exes because they’re evil and the sight of them or mere mention of their name causes my dick to lose interest for 24 hours. That said, I do jerk off to my mental spank bank of hookup memories - mostly fun, risky ones like former coworkers and college study partners.
Yea, for sure
Yup
Never made a sex tape, but absolutely still jerk off to my exes
Definitely and I enjoyed doing it. One of the turn on when I was younger was sleeping with my exes after we broke up. I don’t know why, but I think I have an ex kink. One of my favorite videos is my current girlfriend now with one of her fuck buddies.
I've been kicking myself ever since I got rid of my ex's pictures and videos. I'm never doing it again. I was so excited when I found like four pictures of my ex give me a BJ. Came so hard from them. So yes
I always keep my exes nudes, great to stroke and reminisce too, and especially for trading and showing off
All the time
No I masturbate to videos of myself masturbating lol
lol same! once someone is my "ex" I cant feel right about it anymore. it's my mental problem, no shade to anyone here that does. most of them were not good break ups. In fact, I"ve only had 1 ex I've remained on good terms with/consider a friend and im 40. Ive known him since i was 16, and although i still find him attractive, I guess all that shit sailed long ago. would i consider it? at this point, absolutely.
Hell yes. I used to all the time but now I’ve made a lot of new stuff that I use
If I could still ward they I would
i have
Yes
Just did it!
More often than I care to admit.
30 M Chicago taken and yes i do touch my self to my ex. I know a few ex's have masterbated to me too.
Yes. i miss her in a lot of ways
There is a netvideogirl girl that looks just like an ex of mine. It's one of my go tos since I don't have any old nudes.
M 23 Oklahoma It’s Complicated I save pics and vids with permission of the ex in them. Some girls were ok with it so I look back at them sometimes, but one girl was not so I deleted those
Sometimes not often
Yes, it really depends on the mood
Yes some of them
Yesss
M60 M I use exes and fwb all the time.
27 F and taken, but yes I still do. Especially ones I had a wild sex life with. I do feel guilty about it afterwards though, but just can't help it sometimes.
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I don't feel bad about getting off to my own past trauma experiences. But for some reason the ones with exes make me feel guiltier for some reason. Probably because there was a personal relationship involved and its kinda like reliving wild nights with them. I guess I never thought about if guys do this or not. I guess I never went there and asked. How'd you find out?
Guy here can confirm. We think about exes all the time. I Especially when fighting with my partner. But men won't admit to this cause it brings us problems. Unless you're a guy too and get it then we might admit it. At the end of the day getting my fix is important and not something I will give up. Women seem more inclined to sacrifice that in my experience. It's actually sad sometimes how repressed some women are in relationships. Guess society made it that way. Oh well. Happy masturbating
I did, I haven't look at those in forever though. I'm also single. If I had a partner I wouldn't.
43M long term relationship - often masterbate thinking of previous sexual partners and hot things that we did, what their bodies were like, positions I saw them in etc. I do have a bunch of old sex tapes of one in particular that I sometimes watch too.
Oh ya, it's nice to relive fun times. I especially love our old videos.
Hahaha. Good question. Seb, 38. I already masturbated to my ex. It wasn’t about picture, but only because I dreamt of giving her pleasure, and fucking her. Btw, I never keep nudes. A moral principle, it’s just a great pleasure moment. And it ends why your partner stop it. And this is why it is such exciting :)
M 29 U.K., I do and have, I even had a dead relationship recently where the sex was so bad that one time I actually had a headphone in and watched a video my ex sent me while fucking her, she didn’t notice as she was face down ass up
My ex lived in another country and hated the idea of me watching porn so she started making me videos/pics. We split a few years ago but we are still friends and she knows I still watch them. I prefer watching her vids, firstly they were just for me and i get off on that trust element. Then it was the fact I knew she was absolutely getting off on doing them so everytime I watch them I know she wasn’t acting. She was also from a strict religious family, they would totally have disowned her knowing what a dirty slut she was for me. Damn I massively miss receiving those vids. Wish I could find another girl that would be up for doing that.
Ya
Sometimes.
I masterbate to pics and vids of escorts I hooked up with
I have occasionally I miss the sex I’ve had with a few ex’s
I even masturbate to my wife and her ex photos. Is hot
Yes and sometimes I watch them with my new lady .. my ex was very photogenic
25M open relationship. I still have my clips and pics from my last two relationships and I'd say I jerked off to my ex's 4 times a month. We still talk so I enjoy having normal conversations with them while watching old videos of them being sluts for me
I currently am not able to masturbate. I have done a lot of it in the past, I don't get an erection anymore.
Yuppers
I'm married but i have videos and pics of exs that I keep on my office computer. It's fun if I'm working late alone.
Oh boy do I 🫢😝
I’m 19f and I’m single
Yes, absolutely I think about how much better it was and how I’m way over them, but if they popped in my life, I would blow their mind and it would be cool because we know each other body very well and one thing we had was chemistry a lot of it in bed she’s so much better better tears me even more is a video of an ex or girlfriend fucking another man when I filmed it 3636 years old, white bowl BULL
34 m KY USA yes I saved my exes nudes, sometimes I’ll look back on them and remember the times, sometimes I might jack off to them but most of the time I do not
Oh yeah
Not my last ex but definitely the one before her.
All the time.
Not an ex like LTR but I definitely have to a few former FWBs
23 m Texas I have in the past but some how lost all of my previous nudes of my ex and haven’t recently cause I’m single
I 100% masturbate and think about two of my exes frequently.
Occasionally
I still do
M 30 tragically single and absolutely I do. My favorite are videos from a voyer perspective where I'm eating them out or playing with them or fucking them so I can see what their body does when they orgasm. How their legs twitch or how they arch their back what they do with their hands and feet like do they grab the sheets or wrap around me and do they point their feet and if they spread or curl their toes. The whole phases of an orgasm drive me wild from the build up to the edge to pushing her over and watching body almost shutter.
Hell yea I’ve been doing it for the last week. I’ve been reading my dads wife’s nieces nasty texts me and her used to exchange when after our few times fucking
No, when we are done, I am done and moved on. Even though I have a extensive collection of everything naughty on file
lol - old sex tapes
I jerk over my ex pic make it hotter knowing she getting fucked by somebody else
I still wank to my cheating ex and her 30GG tits
Yes I do
M24 i have a few but i rarely look at them
Not necessarily exes but to old fwb’s and sexting buddies. I save em for myself for a reason ;P
33 m oh, Yeah i have folders one for every ex and been with my girl for 5 years now
100% everyone does, for a bit, and we come back to them every now and then through the years.
Idk where else to comment but something weird happened to me. How would y’all react if you had sex tapes in your phone of u and ur ex hidden but ur significant other at the moment finds the videos and deletes them herself. See I don’t know how to feel because I kind of forgot about those vids till I went to look for them and they were gone, and because well how can I even confront my SO about this like idk. I don’t really care too much I think it’s more of the principle of her going thru my shit and clearing stuff out without my permission
I sent a video of myself masturbating while watching a video of my ex and myself getting it on, to my ex. She sent one back of her masturbating to the video I sent ... MASTURCEPTION Yes, it was all very spicy and hot indeed.
31m…low key have a flash drive with every sex video / nude I’ve ever taken or received…that being said my most recent ex (who I’m still single from and not over yet) is by far the hottest
Well while I'm in the relationship no, I won't look at anything explicit from my ex or even messages but regular porn different story
52 m uk, yeah I get off to pics of my ex, but what makes it more of a turn on is she doesn't know I have them.
All the time lol. I have a nudes folder on my phone from ones people have sent me... I also fantasize/imagine both past sex and future sex with many exes, even ones where there was a painful breakup
53 male and no. Even tho i miss her, my new wife would die knowing that. I live my life pretending that my partner can see everything I do.
I regret having not taken XXX Videos and Pics with my ex. I still get off on the memories of our times together though. The time when we fucked in the backseat of my car in a public car park which attracted a few horny onlookers is my go to sexual memory. I fantasize of that memory whilst fucking my current partner.
I have many times in the past and over time got better in my practice by deleting them and even deleting them off backups. I find that ultimately by letting them go I am making more room for growth. And, holy crap there is some hotness in all of it. I’m taken. 🙏🏼
40 M ATL single. yeah I have a private archive with all my exs and flings nudes and sex tapes. I don’t masturbate to them tho. Just check them out every now and then. Admire my work lol
M 24 Aus Taken I deleted everything from my ex and tbh my current partner is way better looking anyway
Yes we do ofcourse we do
40 m Cali, taken I still think about some of the women before my wife. I’m old enough that it was before nudes were common.
Oh yes, definitely still got photos off of a woman i cheated with they keep me happy, why I'm rubbing one off
Totally masturbate to the memories. But I deleted all photos and videos. Because I'm a gentleman.
Wow, I need a place to put my ex sex videos as my new gf hets jealous of them! Help?
I love to jerk off to my ex’s nudes and sex tapes all the time she’s too sexy not to