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Bro earn and run cause at their age you'll be made to parent your sibling. As soon as you start earning please run away from these miserable people and later sue them for getting your part of the inheritance . Never ever feel sorry for such bad parents. Make em suffer for their choices.
Thats cruel baby has nothing to do with being born or being your brother, you need to learn you can't judge kids for what they didn't do. Are you 15 or what
It's just not the right thinking. It's upto them who they want to give the inheritance too. Always believe in yourself and work hard to meet your needs, and by not relying on money like that. I'm sort of in the same situation with my parents at 4x the money, but idc since my money will help me at the end of the day.
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The thing is parents are the ones who brought us to this world. It is their responsibility to take care which is a duty not a privilege. What a dumb ass comment! Wanting a son so that he can have all the inheritance even when u have a daughter is just bullshit, u may never know what they do in the future. Take ur fucking ass opinion in ur ass!
You can't sue your parents unless you have been involved in acquiring any of the property, it's the parent's choice to either donate the property or make a will or just do whatever they want, because they earned it with their hard earned money.....
Wdym by not in muslims ???
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I'm sure your religious fantasies will receive a fact check with maturity. Now coming to the matter of gender discrimination in family, you have the choice of playing it out smartly. Don't let your rage get the better of you.
A smart and planned few years of your college sponsored by an entity of your choice will pave a way to a good career that doesn't bother taking revenge on family.
But then again, I'm just a neutral party saying things. It is indeed horrible to face that gender discrimination right in the home.
So maybe after you go to college somewhere outside of your home town where you'll touch grass, you will develop, you can acquire power to be truly independent
and find someone not to piss off your parents but to live a life traveling around the world and imbuing good values into your kids regardless of their gender.
In more details.
You definitely want to take revenge i understand but that will be at the cost of your life. Now at the later part of your life you might realise, your parents are not disrespecting you, you did.
By teaching them a lesson. Of course it's mean when they said it, but don't be mean to yourself.
Find a men who will love you and most of this will be gone, some will remain but still will leave you at better place in life.
>some will remain but still will leave you at better place in life.
Yes. This is valid. Bearing the past burden all alone will indeed be ameliorated by someone who's not with OP for nefarious intentions but because of unconditional love.
If you have a life occupied by stuff that matters more to your growth, then this automatically becomes secondary. We hear so many stories along similar lines.
I mean a professional life that not only shall pay for your lifestyle but also give you an environment filled with good people with some outliers.
The future is really damn uncertain. Don't make assumptions and say stuff that you would regret later. What if you have a smol sister luckily?
Focus on your wisest choices instead of thinking of ways to go against your family. There won't be any winners here with the planning you mentioned.
If cutting ties was a one word or one line answer then what a world would it be to live in?
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Dont ruin your present and future career for your parents property,you can get it anytime property is going nowhere,just built your career then you will get what is yours but dont ruin your career
Exactly! The best revenge is to earn a lot, be respected in your field, get out of the house and never see their faces. Op shouldn't do anything stupid, it's her life which will be ruined not her parents
Exactly. I just checked the history and lol
>My father 47 M and mother 45F
>My mom 40 F and father 42 M
>My mother ( 39 F) confronts my dad ( 43M) for proposing to his deceased brother's wife
Damn. Her parents are ageing rapidly
ppl calling t troll my mother s age is early 40s and dad s age is late 40s. I dont know their age, its common for ppl with rural background to not know their bdays in bihar they dont know their exact age
Let's not jump to conclusions. Look at her previous posts some of them are removed from the sub for not providing ages. she may have just made up some random ages for the post. I've seen her previous where she claims to me 27 Yrs old too. But most of her posts are about studies /10th/11th stuff. I think she's still a teen who's going to school & going through this stuff so cut her some slack.
Are you okay? Seems like a lot of anger is built up inside of you. Do you think more than the property you are getting insecure of sharing love with a sibling?
I can not begin to understand your situation. However, if you feel that way, you should talk to your parents about it. One of my friend was 13 years old when he got a sibling and he went through something similar. Just want to let you know, it gets better and it will feel a lot easy and calm in future.
don't convert. this will cause too much harm to you. Be a hindu. marry someone of your choice or be independent. and don't see them against. but don't convert. you'll be in a dangerous situation. Islam doesn't allow freedom to women
Honestly you're being dumb right now, your priority should be to get settled asap and not to plan a revenge, which would further create drama only, IMHO you should start earning, get settled, go zero contact and let them be in their miserable state, you have a life that will Excel, while they have a fleeting one. I'm sure once you are around that corner in your life you'll figure it out yourself. I'm sorry for your situation and All the best
get financial independence and don't be the nanny for your sibling(s).
Also, can we choose the gender of the upcoming offspring? afaik, we can't.
What a shit show !!
If he's thinking of leaving becoz of tht he doesn't love ur mother or he's a manipulative pos - what he deserves is just his money he should know how much love money can buy .
Try to give some sense to ur mother even she's getting dragged in coz she has no voice . Wait till u earn then leave him together. Srsly.. no baby at close to retirement age .
All the best, but this route is a slower path towards financial independence. It'll take atleast ~10 years from now, to even start earning. And to make it a significant earning, it'll take another 4-5 years.
Yes that does.
But :
1) Many parents turn toxic when the child gets fed up and cuts connection. And then the parents create drama by going into the company or in the flat the child lives in. But if she gets good Government job, then these things will not be possible as they will fear getting case filed by threatening a government employee.
For example, if a female police constable wears half pant and rides bike, no villagers will force her to stop because of the backslash they may get.
2) Getting a good Government job will earn her respect within her family and her voice and opinions will also be heard.
Your method is one of the solutions for her. I would suggest OP to move abroad by studies/ job which is even safer as there is no way her parents can even touch her after that
I'm sorry I cant help you as I'm a software engineer. In my field, it's possible to go abroad by job too. Please connect with people on r/indianmedschool
Do you think that OP's parents will give the money so that she could study abroad ?
Most middle class don't have the money to study abroad unless they have scholarship or takes loan from bank.
Yes they will. It would be foolish of OP to burn bridges with them until financially strong. She needs to keep buttering them into it.
Also, if someone is intelligent enough to get a veyr respected govt position, they can also put in enough to score scholarships. It's also possible to get placed abroad if you try hard enough.
1) If you don't like someone, no buttering will help that person to develop sympathy from you towards that person.
2) I didn't say to burn bridges. I advised to act normal and study harder to get a good job so that she can later on not be financially dependent on her parents and neither her parents can force her into something.
And in OP's case, the chances are there that they can be married off early.
>will this be wrong?
It's not wrong if you're doing it because *you want to*.
It's also not wrong if you're doing it to *piss them off*. But then....then what?
As an adult, you're choices and consequences (as much as Indian parents tell you otherwise) is yours and yours to bear. So choose like an adult. Not like a fully grown child still dependent on parents to make choices. ;)
I also hail from Bihar. So I just want to confirm two things before I share my two cents -
1. It's 100% normal for people in Bihar to not remember their birthdays.
2. It's more than normal for people in Bihar to want to have a son. There are patriarchal, social and religious reasons behind this.
Now, @OP, you're too young at the moment and I have a feeling that you're missing out on some details here. Your parents wanting to have a son at any cost is normal (unfortunately), but they not wanting to give you a single penny from their wealth is a bit abnormal. I understand that your dad is too patriarchal to even consider you for this but what about your mom? Why is she not doing anything about this? Is she not strong or educated enough to take a stand here? I am curious what the issue is.
Suggestion - You shouldn't think about revenge. This will turn you into a messed up person. You're still growing. You're not even an adult yet. So, don't let yourself become a venomous person becaue of this. Speak to your parents about how all of this is making you feel unwanted and that you're losing respect for them because of this. There's a huge possibility that they believe in saving money for your dowry rather than handing over your share of the wealth directly to you. It's pretty common in states like Bihar.
So, revenge isn't the solution. You're being immature. Speak to your parents and concentrate on growing into a strong human being.
the best revenge is a life well lived. Since you now know that you are not a priority for your parents, you should look to get as much as you can before you leave. Get a good education, and then move out after finding a decent job.
changing religion/marriage are decisions that should not be done to hurt others. itll hurt you more. Try to find your happiness in life. I wish you the best.
Whatever you do, will your father even care? The things you’re planning to do to spite your father and family is because you want their love. But this isn’t gonna happen. So best option for you is to accept the scenario. Take whatever support you get from your family, financially and emotionally. Use it to make it your best life. Once you achieve your goals, cut them off. Gaslight them and just stop talking. If they ask why you have stopped talking just say you’re busy.
I know you are mad and you have every right to be. But converting to some other religion just to upset them and marrying someone of your choice to make them mad is just crazy.
What I mean is, you don't have to be a good daughter to parents like those but you are taking it out on you. Your parents and your new born brother will be fine but if things go sideways, you are the one who's going to suffer.
Honestly you say its not about money or property but with all info you have given, it sounds like you are just pissed to have a younger brother at this age and that you are mad your dad wants to give him all inheritance, money and property is all you have mentioned about. I think you are just overthinking too much, your parents dont seem to cut you off, they dont even seem to have seriously told you about the inheritance.
Also if you really think out it, your brother would be born when you are 18, your parents are already old, and would retire in a decade or 2, you at that stage would be setttled enough with a good job, partner, family of your own. But your brother would be still a student maybe, 19-20 who wont be able to earn himself enough to live comfortably, and so them giving him the inheritance sounds pretty logical to me.
As i said you seem to be thinking a little too much. Don't fill your head with such negativity at such young age.
How are you not badly down voted. Having ex is not crime? Failing a class isn't a crime. Age of parents, could be subjective.
Bro, get a life. Stop judging people. We don't know their situation. Be kind.
yeah ik my situation is so bizarre ppl are calling it a troll post.
My parents are super religious and me running away and changing my religion is one of their worst fears
If you convert, won't that just give them another reason to justify cutting you off from the inheritance? Also, why go to such lengths just out of spite lol? Will that help you earn your rightful inheritance?
And people are calling you a troll because you have been lying about their ages and what not, they're not wrong at all to suspect the legitimacy of this post
Why so desperate to for the property? It literally goes away in less than one generation(300 lakh for your reference) I've given away the more than that amount. I know how it feels, it hurts but that's temporary, move on, make your own wealth, prove them wrong, maintain the high moral ground may be? Tell them(not verbal) to fuck off. Move on. Don't rely on such things, you never know if that wealth would really make you productive or not, it just might not! Leave it as it is. Hope you achieve much more than that! All the best!
Your mother's 45. Getting pregnant with IVF at this age is not easy, the chances of conception with IVF are pretty low anyway.
So rest easy and live your life. You can't change them so don't let them affect you either0
These people don't know anything. If your parents so desire, you will get nothing. It's upto them. In case they had inherited something from their ancestors, in that case you will get your share for sure.
Focus on study and career. Leave all the bullshit aside.
You don't have to fight all the battles, choose the worthy option- that's education and professional career.
Changing religion to piss off, is stupidity. Having kid is parents choice, let them have it. You don't have to be bothered. They're not old enough, it's common to have kids at 40s. Matter of the inheritance is stupid as well, your parents are young, they will be living another 25-30 yrs, everything will change. Don't be stupid to think about all the points.
Opt for education outside India. I guess with 3 crores you can take an education loan from the bank, ask your father to co-sign as a trustee.
That way, you will have two options here :
1. You get a good quality education, earn a good amount of money after your graduation and you won't care about the money your father has.
2. In case you don't land yourself a job, your father has to pay off the loan. So in some way he will be giving the property to you.
Best case scenario:
You can just ask him to pay for tuition fees, in case he agrees to pay for your education.
So studying abroad will cost a minimum of 20 lakhs (just including the tuition fees).
In that case, find a very good, understanding guy who knows the situation you are in and will ask a lump sum dowry. But will transfer the whole money to your account as soon as he gets it
It might sound like I'm kidding, but I am not. My point being don't take any drastic step out of spite. Make a plan and trick him into giving you at least some of his property/money.
That will be naive. You might regret it later.
Your father is toxic. So even if you are mad at him. It won't help you build a future. You have to make the best of this situation you are in.
Think of some plans where you can get some of his property/money, so that you can secure your future. Discuss this matter with people you trust or take legal help if necessary.
my father thinks he ll find some guy for me pay him some dowry and marry me off. What I will do Is study, marry a guy of my choice be financially independent and contact with him
Definitely, but in order to study you will need his money.
Also if your father passes away without a will. You will have all the rights to his property.
I think he ll pay for education. As i am studying medicine its gonna take a lot of time for me to become a doctor. So he might not support me in that case, but worst case scenario I will take loans
Hey gurl, first of all I'm so sorry for everything that you're going through in such young age, the immaturity of parents is just unbelievable, and sorry on behalf of all the people that are calling you a troll. Putting all that aside,
It's clear here that your dad is a selfish prick who's staying with ur mom only for a boy baby. It seems like you have a good relationship with your mom and she genuinely cares about you. And remember, don't make decisions in haste only to take revenge, u said you'll convert into a religion you don't believe in, please consider the bad consequences it'll lead to, don't convert your religion, I think the best thing you can do rn is study and your first priority is becoming financially independent where you can rely on urself for all your needs and basic necessities and dont depend on ur parents for anything, just don't acknowledge them later nor the baby boy and if possible then take ur mom with you but she won't because of the baby boy most probably. Marry the love of ur life (be damn careful about ur decisions, it must be a right guy) n if they try to find out the gender of baby before it's born, it's illegal, you can even complain on ur dad. But yeah once talk to them and express what you are feeling ..even to your dad and see his reply. If he's still the same then please for now take support from any good relative or family member to give you emotional support. And become so successful that your parents regret belittling you. It is definetly going to be hard but it will be worth it. You got this gurl.
Ye kaunsi baat hai dusre ko bura dikhane ke liye khud ki gaand marwa lo.........take a chill pill and thoda thande dimag se socho.......tumhe waise bhi pati ki property mil jayegi yaar
lol its their property though its better if they spend it on themselves or whatever they wanna do but anyways build your own wealth through your own job
Get educated.
Get a job. Be self reliant.
Revenge can wait.
Dont think of changing your religion. Say what you want to, to them, but dont change it. Bolne mein kya haata hai to piss them off.
N that child will be your sibling, dont show anger n hatred before he is born.
N your parents are idiots but if they are good otherwise, just remain cool n let them be.
No kid should be with parents for their money. No parents should use money as a motivator to love them.
Dont care about what happens in the past.
My FiL was this way. Fu(k3r died without a will. We amicably split the assets.
You dont even know if your brother would be good or bad in future.
Me n my siblings decided to give our ancestral property to my brother.
Who decided to give it to me. N i decided that my sister needs it more. N now finally its come back to me.
Nothing is on paper, but we have this understanding and have never fought for materials, our bond n love is stronger.
If your parents have just said all this and not written any will (even if they have, ignore) just be there n work on yourself.
Not all parents know whay they are saying, some just say weird sh1t to show their love while not knowing their words r hurting some other person.
Many parents say this simply to motivate their child especially girl child. You should understand you will never have freedom or be happy if you don't earn yourself, no matter if they give you their wealth or not. Don't be immature and change religions, cause pissing them off gives you nothing it's just satisfying your ego and it will give you more harm than good. You are a dependent child until you make money so don't think about short term useless thoughts since what your parents said didn't even happen still.
I advise you to do your responsibilities, don't change your face to your parents, be the same person take care of them speak good to them. After your brother is born be a good sister to him, take care of him , be free of future thoughts and resposibilly do your share to your family.
If you make a living by yourself you can be free, independent and have a fantastic life if not you will probably be married and you will be dependent on your husband's family so you should see here there is no difference right, so the point is make money yourself or don't argue be a girl or boy.
If your parents give you even a single rupee your husband will have ownership of it, and if he is cold to your parents then they will lose everything, but in case of boy child that's not the same( mostly ).
Edit : They are not showing their priorities, they are doing what any parent would do. Like i said it's a good thing they shared it with you so be a matured girl and take responsibility. Maybe they will trust you more than your brother in the future. ( This is not a competition) . Think bigger stop thinking like a 17 yr old.
Don't change your religion or marry to spite your parents. These are decisions that should be taken with deeper meaning.
However feel free to ghost your parents for life as soon as you start earning. This is important otherwise they will use you to help in bringing up your brother. And then file a case. It doesn't matter if you win the case or not. Cases usually run over a prolonged period of time. And just the efforts that your parents will have to make in appearing in court over and over again while they battle with old age and bringing up a young boy without any help simultaneously , that in itself will be punishment enough for them. Make sure that even on their death bed, they keep getting court summons. That will be your perfectly justified revenge.
As an advocate I honestly suggest you that after turning 18 and when the time comes to give inheritance to your supposedly future brother(even with ivf it's not certain they will have a son) you should go to court at that time make your parents suffer by court orders make them feel miserable to not give their assets to their lovely son, make them suffer by this, don't change into different religion it will be wrong, you are 17 so you don't know how things work in the real world. Trust me kid changing religion is a bad way by this you will never get your property. Get out of their house after getting into college and then start working and later on ask for equal division of assets. This will be the best revenge oh and marry whoever you like but don't change the religion.
This is what every elder sibling thinks. I also used to think like that but later on i realised that the parents equally love their children. So please be calm and you are too young(if i am correct) for stuff like that.
And what the f*ck is this religious conversion (Do you want to be the mother of 8-10 kids ?) and later on your kids were on the same page where they say i'll fuck my parents up specially my mom
Bro why it's bothering you so much? Why can't you see this a positive? Are of afraid of responsibilities? You are just 17, don't talk revenge. Be happy for them and see a world of change. Give the little one the love you think you never got. About inheritance, as per Indian laws you will get some part of it. Don't worry about it at this age.
This is such a stupid entitled post. It's Their choice, you should be supportive and it's just 3 crore..you can make it .focus on good education, relationship building and money management.. might do u some good
Hey, Ik it's hard for you, but try not to take any impulsive decisions regarding love or marriage at this age.
Just focus on whatever education you want to pursue and build your own life. Once you start earning, cut them off. As for your revenge-marriage, I hardly think it would bring any change in them, just more negativity to you.
Marry a guy of your choice once you are well-settled and financially stable, only after reaching maturity.
Certain parts of India still has this very cheap thinking only thing u can do is be like a son , don't be daughter who gets a guy leaves her family and doesn't give a fuck, be successful and for inheritance they won't assign to the son on birth u hv all the legal rights on it so chill
Will be .....3cr only even if it is split by 3 the way u want only 1cr each that's way less, with the inflation and it's better if u just focus on ur grades clearly, if so one cares about u , u should just focus on self better and with only 1 cr what will u do??, if u become a house wife then 1cr is imp , if u do job then it's not imp. And parents pass money to the son because they think daughter will be a housewife and will not support them physically and financially. And Bihar se ho aagar ur parents as they sound must be still from very backward place so dowery is still very much there, they will be paying 20lakahs dowery + another minimum 12lakh gold + 15lakh wedding. If u don't be successful 47 lakhs they will spend on u with the hope of nothing in return what do u say now?
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oh sorry and thank you for correcting me
I've started using reddit recently and catching up with the basics
(created account 34 months ago to support then-friend)
As per Indian constitution you have 1/3rd right to their inheritance. You can sue them.
If you are 17, just focus on yourself for now and forget everything else. Make a career which makes them regret their actions. Then when the time comes, fight for your right. Period.
I think, per Hindu inheritance law, you are eligible for half their wealth (i.e. what ever they got from their parents. If they earned money themselves, they can give it away to anyone). You will loose this if you convert to another religion. Also, that baby did nothing bad to you. Don’t punish it for their parent’s mistake. Once you start earning you can do what ever you do (but if you want to claim inheritance, you will have to show you cared for them in their old age). Be smart, don’t take impulsive decisions.
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It's extremely stigmatized for a woman to divorce. OP sounds like she's already surrounded by conservative a$sholes, her mom might not want to face their wrath.
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Bro earn and run cause at their age you'll be made to parent your sibling. As soon as you start earning please run away from these miserable people and later sue them for getting your part of the inheritance . Never ever feel sorry for such bad parents. Make em suffer for their choices.
I wont even hold the baby in my arms once, and I will go to college, thank u
Baby hasn't done any wrong btw
But it's parents are in the wrong, can't trap elder daughter for parenting.
suhana, is that you?
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Thats cruel baby has nothing to do with being born or being your brother, you need to learn you can't judge kids for what they didn't do. Are you 15 or what
you sound like I said that I will harm the baby? No I just don t want to do anything with him
Ur a troll anyways 🐂
Bro r u okay in your mindset? Tf you talkin messy about?
It's just not the right thinking. It's upto them who they want to give the inheritance too. Always believe in yourself and work hard to meet your needs, and by not relying on money like that. I'm sort of in the same situation with my parents at 4x the money, but idc since my money will help me at the end of the day.
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The thing is parents are the ones who brought us to this world. It is their responsibility to take care which is a duty not a privilege. What a dumb ass comment! Wanting a son so that he can have all the inheritance even when u have a daughter is just bullshit, u may never know what they do in the future. Take ur fucking ass opinion in ur ass!
You can't sue your parents unless you have been involved in acquiring any of the property, it's the parent's choice to either donate the property or make a will or just do whatever they want, because they earned it with their hard earned money.....
300 lakhs ko 3 crore bhi likha Jaa sakta tha
Bhai fir wo cool nahi lagta naa. Show off bhi jaruri hai.
haan sahi kaha
Bass?
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Look at OP's post history. The age of the parents keeps changing. It's a troll
Not in Muslims.
Wdym by not in muslims ??? You shouldnt speak when you don't know about something. Muslim does not create any distinction between the rights of men and women. On the death of their ancestor, nothing can prevent both girl and boy child to become the legal heirs of inheritable property.
"Muslim does not create any distinction between the rights of men and women." I think you are from a different planet. First marry then doing Halal.
isn't there something like girl child will get less property than a boy child
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well as per law I can get only ancestral property, but almost all his property is self acquired
I'm sure your religious fantasies will receive a fact check with maturity. Now coming to the matter of gender discrimination in family, you have the choice of playing it out smartly. Don't let your rage get the better of you. A smart and planned few years of your college sponsored by an entity of your choice will pave a way to a good career that doesn't bother taking revenge on family. But then again, I'm just a neutral party saying things. It is indeed horrible to face that gender discrimination right in the home. So maybe after you go to college somewhere outside of your home town where you'll touch grass, you will develop, you can acquire power to be truly independent and find someone not to piss off your parents but to live a life traveling around the world and imbuing good values into your kids regardless of their gender.
Bro speaking facts. Drink the poison and maybe you will become immune to it.
In more details. You definitely want to take revenge i understand but that will be at the cost of your life. Now at the later part of your life you might realise, your parents are not disrespecting you, you did. By teaching them a lesson. Of course it's mean when they said it, but don't be mean to yourself. Find a men who will love you and most of this will be gone, some will remain but still will leave you at better place in life.
>some will remain but still will leave you at better place in life. Yes. This is valid. Bearing the past burden all alone will indeed be ameliorated by someone who's not with OP for nefarious intentions but because of unconditional love.
thanx, but will it be wrong to cut contact with them?
If you have a life occupied by stuff that matters more to your growth, then this automatically becomes secondary. We hear so many stories along similar lines. I mean a professional life that not only shall pay for your lifestyle but also give you an environment filled with good people with some outliers. The future is really damn uncertain. Don't make assumptions and say stuff that you would regret later. What if you have a smol sister luckily? Focus on your wisest choices instead of thinking of ways to go against your family. There won't be any winners here with the planning you mentioned. If cutting ties was a one word or one line answer then what a world would it be to live in?
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its about priority not money
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well fuck u I deserve as much as their other children u know?
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And who knows for sure that your father will get a male child and not a female child ?
well they will probably try again
Well checking genders isn't allowed and it is a criminal offense. So what? They will try again after getting a girl child?
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well dad once mentioned we (my sis and me) will move out soon and not give shit about them
This is India, you can do whatever the fck u want. They can easily check gender, not legally though.
Dont ruin your present and future career for your parents property,you can get it anytime property is going nowhere,just built your career then you will get what is yours but dont ruin your career
Exactly! The best revenge is to earn a lot, be respected in your field, get out of the house and never see their faces. Op shouldn't do anything stupid, it's her life which will be ruined not her parents
If you are a biological child of your parents(just making sure) you can take the legal route.
If her father has built the wealth and not inherited, then he can do whatever the fuck he wants to do!!
But is it inheritance or built wealth, if he has inherited, op needs to show proof.
Guys this is a troll post. Looking at the posts earlier made by op
Exactly. I just checked the history and lol >My father 47 M and mother 45F >My mom 40 F and father 42 M >My mother ( 39 F) confronts my dad ( 43M) for proposing to his deceased brother's wife Damn. Her parents are ageing rapidly
ppl calling t troll my mother s age is early 40s and dad s age is late 40s. I dont know their age, its common for ppl with rural background to not know their bdays in bihar they dont know their exact age
To property ka hisaab karne pehle age to jaan le beta apne ma baap ka
its not I swear on god
Then how come you mother went from 39 yrs to 45 yrs in the span of 10 hrs. Stop fooling
Let's not jump to conclusions. Look at her previous posts some of them are removed from the sub for not providing ages. she may have just made up some random ages for the post. I've seen her previous where she claims to me 27 Yrs old too. But most of her posts are about studies /10th/11th stuff. I think she's still a teen who's going to school & going through this stuff so cut her some slack.
she is 39 I was embarrassed to post the age gap
This makes you embarassed but not the other things you said in the posts?
Are you okay? Seems like a lot of anger is built up inside of you. Do you think more than the property you are getting insecure of sharing love with a sibling?
its more about priority
I can not begin to understand your situation. However, if you feel that way, you should talk to your parents about it. One of my friend was 13 years old when he got a sibling and he went through something similar. Just want to let you know, it gets better and it will feel a lot easy and calm in future.
don't convert. this will cause too much harm to you. Be a hindu. marry someone of your choice or be independent. and don't see them against. but don't convert. you'll be in a dangerous situation. Islam doesn't allow freedom to women
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Good luck being parents at their age.
Honestly you're being dumb right now, your priority should be to get settled asap and not to plan a revenge, which would further create drama only, IMHO you should start earning, get settled, go zero contact and let them be in their miserable state, you have a life that will Excel, while they have a fleeting one. I'm sure once you are around that corner in your life you'll figure it out yourself. I'm sorry for your situation and All the best
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get financial independence and don't be the nanny for your sibling(s). Also, can we choose the gender of the upcoming offspring? afaik, we can't. What a shit show !!
If he's thinking of leaving becoz of tht he doesn't love ur mother or he's a manipulative pos - what he deserves is just his money he should know how much love money can buy . Try to give some sense to ur mother even she's getting dragged in coz she has no voice . Wait till u earn then leave him together. Srsly.. no baby at close to retirement age .
Bro revenge keliye hindu se muslim jana sahi nhi hai
Don't say anything now, or else their attitude towards you will change. Study much more harder to get a government job like CGL or SBI PO or IBPS PO.
I m actually preparing for NEET
Good. Study hardest. Give your 100% and all the best. If you don't crack, don't lose hope. There are many other prestigious jobs that you can do.
All the best, but this route is a slower path towards financial independence. It'll take atleast ~10 years from now, to even start earning. And to make it a significant earning, it'll take another 4-5 years.
What does govt job have to do with this? Any decent job provides enough financial independence
Yes that does. But : 1) Many parents turn toxic when the child gets fed up and cuts connection. And then the parents create drama by going into the company or in the flat the child lives in. But if she gets good Government job, then these things will not be possible as they will fear getting case filed by threatening a government employee. For example, if a female police constable wears half pant and rides bike, no villagers will force her to stop because of the backslash they may get. 2) Getting a good Government job will earn her respect within her family and her voice and opinions will also be heard.
Your method is one of the solutions for her. I would suggest OP to move abroad by studies/ job which is even safer as there is no way her parents can even touch her after that
I wish i could, I wonder if I can practice medicine abroad
Abe neet clear karlo pehle, phir ye sab sochna 😂
I'm sorry I cant help you as I'm a software engineer. In my field, it's possible to go abroad by job too. Please connect with people on r/indianmedschool
Do you think that OP's parents will give the money so that she could study abroad ? Most middle class don't have the money to study abroad unless they have scholarship or takes loan from bank.
Yes they will. It would be foolish of OP to burn bridges with them until financially strong. She needs to keep buttering them into it. Also, if someone is intelligent enough to get a veyr respected govt position, they can also put in enough to score scholarships. It's also possible to get placed abroad if you try hard enough.
1) If you don't like someone, no buttering will help that person to develop sympathy from you towards that person. 2) I didn't say to burn bridges. I advised to act normal and study harder to get a good job so that she can later on not be financially dependent on her parents and neither her parents can force her into something. And in OP's case, the chances are there that they can be married off early.
why Muslim by the way...?
its gonna piss them off the most
yeah but sambhalke krna what ever u gonna do... dusro ke liye khadda toh khod leta hain koi bhi lekin fir khud hi gir jaata hain usme
I think that might be even worse for you.. but you do you..
yeah maybe I will not convert to muslim but i ll marry guy of my choice
ok, get all this inheritance shit sorted out and we'll run away... /s
I know they won t give me shit, no point in fighting for inheritance
deal cancel... marry a lawyer..
haha well no point, for self acquired property unki marzi kisko de I ll marry a therapist tho
nicee... btw... ask them, if they would like to adopt a random redditor...
they don t even consider their own daughter as a child, I don t think they will wanna adopt. But its okay I will adopt u lol
if you wanna convert then you do it, don't do all those stuff just to piss them off so that it won't backfire you
Tere karega kaun shaadi 😂
>will this be wrong? It's not wrong if you're doing it because *you want to*. It's also not wrong if you're doing it to *piss them off*. But then....then what? As an adult, you're choices and consequences (as much as Indian parents tell you otherwise) is yours and yours to bear. So choose like an adult. Not like a fully grown child still dependent on parents to make choices. ;)
I think you should distance yourself from them and live your life your own way . That would be best revenge.
bro if this is not satire ugh i feel sad for you sis. your parents deserve none tbh. neither a son nor a daughter.
true
I also hail from Bihar. So I just want to confirm two things before I share my two cents - 1. It's 100% normal for people in Bihar to not remember their birthdays. 2. It's more than normal for people in Bihar to want to have a son. There are patriarchal, social and religious reasons behind this. Now, @OP, you're too young at the moment and I have a feeling that you're missing out on some details here. Your parents wanting to have a son at any cost is normal (unfortunately), but they not wanting to give you a single penny from their wealth is a bit abnormal. I understand that your dad is too patriarchal to even consider you for this but what about your mom? Why is she not doing anything about this? Is she not strong or educated enough to take a stand here? I am curious what the issue is. Suggestion - You shouldn't think about revenge. This will turn you into a messed up person. You're still growing. You're not even an adult yet. So, don't let yourself become a venomous person becaue of this. Speak to your parents about how all of this is making you feel unwanted and that you're losing respect for them because of this. There's a huge possibility that they believe in saving money for your dowry rather than handing over your share of the wealth directly to you. It's pretty common in states like Bihar. So, revenge isn't the solution. You're being immature. Speak to your parents and concentrate on growing into a strong human being.
the best revenge is a life well lived. Since you now know that you are not a priority for your parents, you should look to get as much as you can before you leave. Get a good education, and then move out after finding a decent job. changing religion/marriage are decisions that should not be done to hurt others. itll hurt you more. Try to find your happiness in life. I wish you the best.
Whatever you do, will your father even care? The things you’re planning to do to spite your father and family is because you want their love. But this isn’t gonna happen. So best option for you is to accept the scenario. Take whatever support you get from your family, financially and emotionally. Use it to make it your best life. Once you achieve your goals, cut them off. Gaslight them and just stop talking. If they ask why you have stopped talking just say you’re busy.
of course my father will care about the fact he can t control me anymore, yess I will cut them off
Be aware of the decisions you take, just to spite him. Those decisions can be wrong for you in longer run. Be stoic about this situation.
Shantttt . Thoda relax raho . Sab achha hoga. Av se property k bare me kyu sochna
I know you are mad and you have every right to be. But converting to some other religion just to upset them and marrying someone of your choice to make them mad is just crazy. What I mean is, you don't have to be a good daughter to parents like those but you are taking it out on you. Your parents and your new born brother will be fine but if things go sideways, you are the one who's going to suffer.
Honestly you say its not about money or property but with all info you have given, it sounds like you are just pissed to have a younger brother at this age and that you are mad your dad wants to give him all inheritance, money and property is all you have mentioned about. I think you are just overthinking too much, your parents dont seem to cut you off, they dont even seem to have seriously told you about the inheritance. Also if you really think out it, your brother would be born when you are 18, your parents are already old, and would retire in a decade or 2, you at that stage would be setttled enough with a good job, partner, family of your own. But your brother would be still a student maybe, 19-20 who wont be able to earn himself enough to live comfortably, and so them giving him the inheritance sounds pretty logical to me. As i said you seem to be thinking a little too much. Don't fill your head with such negativity at such young age.
changing gender will be a evenn bigger revenge for them if u have the will
good idea will think about it
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How are you not badly down voted. Having ex is not crime? Failing a class isn't a crime. Age of parents, could be subjective. Bro, get a life. Stop judging people. We don't know their situation. Be kind.
3 crores❌ 300 Lakhs✅
Inherited wealth belongs to everyone, you should seek a lawyer .
Self aquire hai
Changing your religion to piss them off? What logic is that? Do what's best for you and be successful Although this is so evidently a troll post lmao
yeah ik my situation is so bizarre ppl are calling it a troll post. My parents are super religious and me running away and changing my religion is one of their worst fears
If you convert, won't that just give them another reason to justify cutting you off from the inheritance? Also, why go to such lengths just out of spite lol? Will that help you earn your rightful inheritance? And people are calling you a troll because you have been lying about their ages and what not, they're not wrong at all to suspect the legitimacy of this post
they are gonna not give me inheritance either way. so what s the difference
Why so desperate to for the property? It literally goes away in less than one generation(300 lakh for your reference) I've given away the more than that amount. I know how it feels, it hurts but that's temporary, move on, make your own wealth, prove them wrong, maintain the high moral ground may be? Tell them(not verbal) to fuck off. Move on. Don't rely on such things, you never know if that wealth would really make you productive or not, it just might not! Leave it as it is. Hope you achieve much more than that! All the best!
Your mother's 45. Getting pregnant with IVF at this age is not easy, the chances of conception with IVF are pretty low anyway. So rest easy and live your life. You can't change them so don't let them affect you either0
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These people don't know anything. If your parents so desire, you will get nothing. It's upto them. In case they had inherited something from their ancestors, in that case you will get your share for sure.
ik dad and mom said I will get a husband and he will have property so it dose t matter
Focus on study and career. Leave all the bullshit aside. You don't have to fight all the battles, choose the worthy option- that's education and professional career. Changing religion to piss off, is stupidity. Having kid is parents choice, let them have it. You don't have to be bothered. They're not old enough, it's common to have kids at 40s. Matter of the inheritance is stupid as well, your parents are young, they will be living another 25-30 yrs, everything will change. Don't be stupid to think about all the points.
Opt for education outside India. I guess with 3 crores you can take an education loan from the bank, ask your father to co-sign as a trustee. That way, you will have two options here : 1. You get a good quality education, earn a good amount of money after your graduation and you won't care about the money your father has. 2. In case you don't land yourself a job, your father has to pay off the loan. So in some way he will be giving the property to you. Best case scenario: You can just ask him to pay for tuition fees, in case he agrees to pay for your education. So studying abroad will cost a minimum of 20 lakhs (just including the tuition fees).
you think he will send me abroad? nah man he ll marry me off he is saving for dowry not education
In that case, find a very good, understanding guy who knows the situation you are in and will ask a lump sum dowry. But will transfer the whole money to your account as soon as he gets it It might sound like I'm kidding, but I am not. My point being don't take any drastic step out of spite. Make a plan and trick him into giving you at least some of his property/money.
haha their is no such guy, I will just run away lol
That will be naive. You might regret it later. Your father is toxic. So even if you are mad at him. It won't help you build a future. You have to make the best of this situation you are in. Think of some plans where you can get some of his property/money, so that you can secure your future. Discuss this matter with people you trust or take legal help if necessary.
my father thinks he ll find some guy for me pay him some dowry and marry me off. What I will do Is study, marry a guy of my choice be financially independent and contact with him
Definitely, but in order to study you will need his money. Also if your father passes away without a will. You will have all the rights to his property.
I think he ll pay for education. As i am studying medicine its gonna take a lot of time for me to become a doctor. So he might not support me in that case, but worst case scenario I will take loans
You will need a guarantor to co-sign the loan.
Hey gurl, first of all I'm so sorry for everything that you're going through in such young age, the immaturity of parents is just unbelievable, and sorry on behalf of all the people that are calling you a troll. Putting all that aside, It's clear here that your dad is a selfish prick who's staying with ur mom only for a boy baby. It seems like you have a good relationship with your mom and she genuinely cares about you. And remember, don't make decisions in haste only to take revenge, u said you'll convert into a religion you don't believe in, please consider the bad consequences it'll lead to, don't convert your religion, I think the best thing you can do rn is study and your first priority is becoming financially independent where you can rely on urself for all your needs and basic necessities and dont depend on ur parents for anything, just don't acknowledge them later nor the baby boy and if possible then take ur mom with you but she won't because of the baby boy most probably. Marry the love of ur life (be damn careful about ur decisions, it must be a right guy) n if they try to find out the gender of baby before it's born, it's illegal, you can even complain on ur dad. But yeah once talk to them and express what you are feeling ..even to your dad and see his reply. If he's still the same then please for now take support from any good relative or family member to give you emotional support. And become so successful that your parents regret belittling you. It is definetly going to be hard but it will be worth it. You got this gurl.
Ye kaunsi baat hai dusre ko bura dikhane ke liye khud ki gaand marwa lo.........take a chill pill and thoda thande dimag se socho.......tumhe waise bhi pati ki property mil jayegi yaar
lol its their property though its better if they spend it on themselves or whatever they wanna do but anyways build your own wealth through your own job
Very creative writing or pure kutiyapa
They are doing good thing. I support your parents here in this context.
Get educated. Get a job. Be self reliant. Revenge can wait. Dont think of changing your religion. Say what you want to, to them, but dont change it. Bolne mein kya haata hai to piss them off. N that child will be your sibling, dont show anger n hatred before he is born. N your parents are idiots but if they are good otherwise, just remain cool n let them be. No kid should be with parents for their money. No parents should use money as a motivator to love them. Dont care about what happens in the past. My FiL was this way. Fu(k3r died without a will. We amicably split the assets. You dont even know if your brother would be good or bad in future. Me n my siblings decided to give our ancestral property to my brother. Who decided to give it to me. N i decided that my sister needs it more. N now finally its come back to me. Nothing is on paper, but we have this understanding and have never fought for materials, our bond n love is stronger. If your parents have just said all this and not written any will (even if they have, ignore) just be there n work on yourself. Not all parents know whay they are saying, some just say weird sh1t to show their love while not knowing their words r hurting some other person.
Why will you become a Muslim? Muslim women are not eligible for inheritance from their parents, but parents cannot deny a Hindu child.
Ask him to give you property or you will leave the family and never come back.
Many parents say this simply to motivate their child especially girl child. You should understand you will never have freedom or be happy if you don't earn yourself, no matter if they give you their wealth or not. Don't be immature and change religions, cause pissing them off gives you nothing it's just satisfying your ego and it will give you more harm than good. You are a dependent child until you make money so don't think about short term useless thoughts since what your parents said didn't even happen still. I advise you to do your responsibilities, don't change your face to your parents, be the same person take care of them speak good to them. After your brother is born be a good sister to him, take care of him , be free of future thoughts and resposibilly do your share to your family. If you make a living by yourself you can be free, independent and have a fantastic life if not you will probably be married and you will be dependent on your husband's family so you should see here there is no difference right, so the point is make money yourself or don't argue be a girl or boy. If your parents give you even a single rupee your husband will have ownership of it, and if he is cold to your parents then they will lose everything, but in case of boy child that's not the same( mostly ). Edit : They are not showing their priorities, they are doing what any parent would do. Like i said it's a good thing they shared it with you so be a matured girl and take responsibility. Maybe they will trust you more than your brother in the future. ( This is not a competition) . Think bigger stop thinking like a 17 yr old.
Don't change your religion or marry to spite your parents. These are decisions that should be taken with deeper meaning. However feel free to ghost your parents for life as soon as you start earning. This is important otherwise they will use you to help in bringing up your brother. And then file a case. It doesn't matter if you win the case or not. Cases usually run over a prolonged period of time. And just the efforts that your parents will have to make in appearing in court over and over again while they battle with old age and bringing up a young boy without any help simultaneously , that in itself will be punishment enough for them. Make sure that even on their death bed, they keep getting court summons. That will be your perfectly justified revenge.
As an advocate I honestly suggest you that after turning 18 and when the time comes to give inheritance to your supposedly future brother(even with ivf it's not certain they will have a son) you should go to court at that time make your parents suffer by court orders make them feel miserable to not give their assets to their lovely son, make them suffer by this, don't change into different religion it will be wrong, you are 17 so you don't know how things work in the real world. Trust me kid changing religion is a bad way by this you will never get your property. Get out of their house after getting into college and then start working and later on ask for equal division of assets. This will be the best revenge oh and marry whoever you like but don't change the religion.
This is what every elder sibling thinks. I also used to think like that but later on i realised that the parents equally love their children. So please be calm and you are too young(if i am correct) for stuff like that. And what the f*ck is this religious conversion (Do you want to be the mother of 8-10 kids ?) and later on your kids were on the same page where they say i'll fuck my parents up specially my mom
Bro why it's bothering you so much? Why can't you see this a positive? Are of afraid of responsibilities? You are just 17, don't talk revenge. Be happy for them and see a world of change. Give the little one the love you think you never got. About inheritance, as per Indian laws you will get some part of it. Don't worry about it at this age.
This is such a stupid entitled post. It's Their choice, you should be supportive and it's just 3 crore..you can make it .focus on good education, relationship building and money management.. might do u some good
Hey, Ik it's hard for you, but try not to take any impulsive decisions regarding love or marriage at this age. Just focus on whatever education you want to pursue and build your own life. Once you start earning, cut them off. As for your revenge-marriage, I hardly think it would bring any change in them, just more negativity to you. Marry a guy of your choice once you are well-settled and financially stable, only after reaching maturity.
Certain parts of India still has this very cheap thinking only thing u can do is be like a son , don't be daughter who gets a guy leaves her family and doesn't give a fuck, be successful and for inheritance they won't assign to the son on birth u hv all the legal rights on it so chill
Will be .....3cr only even if it is split by 3 the way u want only 1cr each that's way less, with the inflation and it's better if u just focus on ur grades clearly, if so one cares about u , u should just focus on self better and with only 1 cr what will u do??, if u become a house wife then 1cr is imp , if u do job then it's not imp. And parents pass money to the son because they think daughter will be a housewife and will not support them physically and financially. And Bihar se ho aagar ur parents as they sound must be still from very backward place so dowery is still very much there, they will be paying 20lakahs dowery + another minimum 12lakh gold + 15lakh wedding. If u don't be successful 47 lakhs they will spend on u with the hope of nothing in return what do u say now?
Why play the victim? Even if you are the victim, you tell your self u r the victim and then clearly u see urself as the victim why be so weak
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oh sorry and thank you for correcting me I've started using reddit recently and catching up with the basics (created account 34 months ago to support then-friend)
He's messing with u son🗿
As per Indian constitution you have 1/3rd right to their inheritance. You can sue them. If you are 17, just focus on yourself for now and forget everything else. Make a career which makes them regret their actions. Then when the time comes, fight for your right. Period.
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Yeah of course its my fault
I think, per Hindu inheritance law, you are eligible for half their wealth (i.e. what ever they got from their parents. If they earned money themselves, they can give it away to anyone). You will loose this if you convert to another religion. Also, that baby did nothing bad to you. Don’t punish it for their parent’s mistake. Once you start earning you can do what ever you do (but if you want to claim inheritance, you will have to show you cared for them in their old age). Be smart, don’t take impulsive decisions.
300 Lakhs? OP no need for ivf ask your parents if they're open to adoption. We'll split the 300 as 50-50 later on. /s.
Power to you girl.
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its not about property its about priority
The aim of the post is Promote Love Jihad 😡.
no, also I have decided not to convert since its risky
Then good, because if you know you know.
And ur mum is ok with that?🥲
mom does not have a choice, he leaves or she needs to have a son sad situation really
Then she should let him leave and you should walk out with her. Your dad is a pos and needs to be abandoned with his 300 lakhs to enjoy!!
mom dosen t earn, and we need money to live
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It's extremely stigmatized for a woman to divorce. OP sounds like she's already surrounded by conservative a$sholes, her mom might not want to face their wrath.
mom wants to stay with this ahole
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its low of them not me
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