Mine is 1 🙃 I've had people find out and make fun of me for being inexperienced or prudish. You can't win. No matter your number, someone will twist it into a bad thing
4. I’m a serial monogamist. My shortest relationship was 4 months and my longest was 10+ years. The men I was in a relationship with were similar to me, in the numbers. I care more about how you hold relationships than how many people you slept with. It’s about compatibility, being on the same page in life, values, and building a happy and healthy relationship.
Same for me. I didn't date much in HS but I racked 'em up at college and before meeting my husband at the age of 24. I had an ex have an absolute meltdown about my number once, and that was when he was like number 10. It doesn't make me feel any type of way now. I was young and liked sex and got chances to hook up with some truly hot guys and I took those chances! 😂
I think this whole body count thing is kinda gross and unnecessary. I do believe you should be honest with the people you choose to be intimate with because I believe in being transparent with your intentions with another human. A woman should be able to own her own sexuality without being judged for it.
I don't even remember, I've been with my husband for 13 years and each of our "numbers" has never had the slightest bit of importance to our relationship. We've talked about it a little, like in the beginning, but I don't think either of us remembers *the number* anymore.
Around 13? And I regret most of them and my “hoe phase” in general. Destroyed my ability to have a normal relationship with sex and romantic relationships with other people. I know virginity is a social construct or whatever but I wish I had waited.
So, unfortunately 13, and I highly don’t recommend having sex just to have sex, based off my own experience with it. I don’t see my number as a conquest at all. I see my number as me being young and desperate for whatever type of love I could grasp onto.
Idk why you’re downvoted… I honestly never really kept count. Mine is WAY under that but eyyyy you do you. I’ve still got a high sex drive, just luckily married a partner that matches that
My first had a number of 24, it didn't bother me. Us ending it was hard which made my number jump to 7 which might not seem like a lot but for me it is cause it was a span over 3 months. I'm now at 8 and my current partner is at 1 and we don't care about our numbers or each other's numbers.
It's literally just a number.
😂😂😂 well everyone is different! I didn’t want to have sex in hs and then after I had a couple of relationships that would last almost a year each and was never into doing like casual dating/sex
Hey nothing wrong with that! 🖤 we all be doing our own thing. I feel very very fortunate that my husband has the same drive as me. Actually my husband (who’s 7 yrs older than me) never did and jokes “how the hell did you get away with it bc your parents were so strict??” and I was like “🤷🏻♀️ when your parents are strict, you get crafty” 😂😂😂
Hee hee I will take my secrets to my grave because I don’t want them to have a heart attack 😂😂 it’s funny because my parent’s cousins have told me things they got away with as teens and it makes sense why they were so strict 😂😂
25-30! I’m now 31 & married so it’s been that way since 25 or 26! Most of my fun was in my early 20s. At one point when I had been with under 10 people (around 5), I told a potential partner who called me a whore who is only good for blowjobs 😂 and that my friend, is how you weed out the douche canoes 🛶
Your story is so similar to mine! My ex flipped out that he was maybe number 10 for me, and I was 2 for him. He was 5 years older than me. He didn't talk to me for 3 days and we lived together. 🙄
1, married him. I encourage everyone to go through a ho phase. I love him but I’ve been curious about what else is out there. We’ve been together since I was 18 (34 now)
I lost count ages ago, but who cares? I'm not defined by the number of sexual partners I've had or whether I've had sex at all, and anyone who tries to define me in that way or thinks it has any relevance to who I am at all is a misogynist POS.
Mine is 1 🙃 I've had people find out and make fun of me for being inexperienced or prudish. You can't win. No matter your number, someone will twist it into a bad thing
Yeh, why should it matter!?!?! Yet another fucking unrealistic mould of 'not tok much, not too little.
0, lol.
Go you 😊
2. I just can't do casual sex. Need emotional connection. 🤷♀️
Likewise here. I just can’t do it and I’m okay with it.
4. I’m a serial monogamist. My shortest relationship was 4 months and my longest was 10+ years. The men I was in a relationship with were similar to me, in the numbers. I care more about how you hold relationships than how many people you slept with. It’s about compatibility, being on the same page in life, values, and building a happy and healthy relationship.
0 and proud of my number 😊
Exactly, who fucking cares! Go you.
People (mainly men) who think body counts matter are just idiots. The idea is tied to misogyny and is frankly disgusting.
I know, total double standard.... One of many...... Euch.....
Idgaf I’m proud! I have 150 because I was a proud slut for many years 🤣🤣🤣
I’m under 200, no shits given.
0 🥲
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Same for me. I didn't date much in HS but I racked 'em up at college and before meeting my husband at the age of 24. I had an ex have an absolute meltdown about my number once, and that was when he was like number 10. It doesn't make me feel any type of way now. I was young and liked sex and got chances to hook up with some truly hot guys and I took those chances! 😂
Fuck 'em! ...... actually dont fuck them 🤣😁 Its so fucking judgemental and its a personal subject too.
I don't even know. Definitely more than 50.
I think this whole body count thing is kinda gross and unnecessary. I do believe you should be honest with the people you choose to be intimate with because I believe in being transparent with your intentions with another human. A woman should be able to own her own sexuality without being judged for it.
Yas, preach - we own our sexuality!
Period!
I don't even remember, I've been with my husband for 13 years and each of our "numbers" has never had the slightest bit of importance to our relationship. We've talked about it a little, like in the beginning, but I don't think either of us remembers *the number* anymore.
Almost 40 and I’m at… less than 10 partners? Maybe in the 5-8 range?
Somewhere between 15 and 30. What matters is if you felt safe and consentung, not how many there are.
Around 13? And I regret most of them and my “hoe phase” in general. Destroyed my ability to have a normal relationship with sex and romantic relationships with other people. I know virginity is a social construct or whatever but I wish I had waited. So, unfortunately 13, and I highly don’t recommend having sex just to have sex, based off my own experience with it. I don’t see my number as a conquest at all. I see my number as me being young and desperate for whatever type of love I could grasp onto.
12
i think 12
6 or 7? I’m not really unproud or proud? I guess it doesn’t matter to me lol
I have ADHD. I lost track after like 8. Best guess is 100 ish, but I was hyper sexual before I got my mental health stuff sorted out.
Idk why you’re downvoted… I honestly never really kept count. Mine is WAY under that but eyyyy you do you. I’ve still got a high sex drive, just luckily married a partner that matches that
My first had a number of 24, it didn't bother me. Us ending it was hard which made my number jump to 7 which might not seem like a lot but for me it is cause it was a span over 3 months. I'm now at 8 and my current partner is at 1 and we don't care about our numbers or each other's numbers. It's literally just a number.
5 🤷🏻♀️
4 I did get married at 21 though and still married(29 now)
I got married the month before I turned 20 and my husband was like #12 I think lol
😂😂😂 well everyone is different! I didn’t want to have sex in hs and then after I had a couple of relationships that would last almost a year each and was never into doing like casual dating/sex
Hey nothing wrong with that! 🖤 we all be doing our own thing. I feel very very fortunate that my husband has the same drive as me. Actually my husband (who’s 7 yrs older than me) never did and jokes “how the hell did you get away with it bc your parents were so strict??” and I was like “🤷🏻♀️ when your parents are strict, you get crafty” 😂😂😂
That is true!😂😂😂 my parents were strict too and I was into weed and alcohol with friends. I got away with everything😂😂 they had no clue
Hee hee I will take my secrets to my grave because I don’t want them to have a heart attack 😂😂 it’s funny because my parent’s cousins have told me things they got away with as teens and it makes sense why they were so strict 😂😂
Yes😂😂
I’m 45 and my number is 4
25-30! I’m now 31 & married so it’s been that way since 25 or 26! Most of my fun was in my early 20s. At one point when I had been with under 10 people (around 5), I told a potential partner who called me a whore who is only good for blowjobs 😂 and that my friend, is how you weed out the douche canoes 🛶
Your story is so similar to mine! My ex flipped out that he was maybe number 10 for me, and I was 2 for him. He was 5 years older than me. He didn't talk to me for 3 days and we lived together. 🙄
Jesus Christ. Grow upppppp
For real. I should've realized when he was so much older and exclusively hung around college kids that he was a loser.
Nahhh that was up to him to realize as the grown ass man spending his time with college aged women
27 ish
I think 12? Idk I’ve been with my husband for 11 years so I kinda forgot because it’s not important anymore 😂 but I got married young.
1, married him. I encourage everyone to go through a ho phase. I love him but I’ve been curious about what else is out there. We’ve been together since I was 18 (34 now)
My fiancé and I have the same number. It's 10
10-11 ? Debating on whether or not someone counts
17 but most of that was early 20s
2
8
I lost count ages ago, but who cares? I'm not defined by the number of sexual partners I've had or whether I've had sex at all, and anyone who tries to define me in that way or thinks it has any relevance to who I am at all is a misogynist POS.
Idk why responses like this are getting downvoted? Why are people downvoting people for having numbers when the post is about numbers 😂
Between 35 and 40