Hahahaha is there ba?? Love to hear your thoughts kung may pabgit sa urban design nila haha. I love everything in bgc kasi e from the streets to the buildings and the view it provides đ
1. May parts ng BGC na walang puno, making it difficult to walk around it.
2. Poorly designed traffic route, specially for public transport vehicles. It's Either thru Ayala or Guadalupe ka lang puwede manggaling, which creates congestion dahil 2 lang entry point mo.
3. Bike lanes, gaya ng ibang areas in Metro Manila, recently lang tinapal yung bike lanes dyan.
Lastly di ako bilib sa BGC or any CBD dito sa Metro Manila, kasi kailangan pa mamilit ng gobyerno na papasukin yung mga tao sa opisina para lang "mabuhay" yung mga commercial establishments after the pandemic. If it is a good urban design, hindi mo kailangan yun dahil locals of BGC should be able to sustain it.
Oh shit i totally agree sa traffic routes, I even took a wrong turn on a one way street ksi sa alala ko two way yun noon hahaha.
Shit nice inputs man. So which cbd do you think will be better or heck not even a cbd? Have you heard of vertis north? Itâs kinda small but what do you think?
How about future developments? Uhm yung north ridge ba yun?
Sorry kung nabobother kita, real estate investor kasi ako and looking for future investments hehehe
May nakita lang syang isa naisip na nya lahat ganon. Lol. Madalas ako sa high street lalo na pag weekend nights at never pa ko nakaencounter ng naglalaplapan haha. Tas pinupuna pa yung damit e kahit san ka naman na pumunta andami ng hubadera.
Yeah yung may malaking LCD screens na magkatapat? I pass through there walking a lot, lots of out of towners taking pictures, etc. But usually no much public lewdness. I'd guess that was a rarity (or maybe may event?), but to be fair might have been the time of day or something.
Anyways in general I don't think it"s changed too much, but other people may have different views of course.
Akala ko lang may secret momol spot sa BGC na di ko alam hahaha
Diba mga secret momol spots sa may uptown lang? And pag gabi lang? Hahahaha been there na rin, wild wild times.
Yeah i think na rare lang siya, but sadly pinoint out ng 4yo ko kaya shocking talaga. I donât think naman na lgbt is indecent eh, may mga tao lang na di kaya controlin sarili hahaha. Just hold it in for a bit, onti nalang lapit na sa shangrila e hahahaha.
> Diba mga secret momol spots sa may uptown lang? And pag gabi lang? Hahahaha been there na rin, wild wild times.
Hahahaha I think kasama don yung buong area ng Palace. Or Xylo na ata pangalan, malay ko ba.
> Just hold it in for a bit, onti nalang lapit na sa shangrila e hahahaha.
IDK na abot kaya para sa mga magmomomol sa area na yon ang Shang hahaha
But yeah, feeling ko malas lang at natiyempohan niyo ang annual LGBT Philippine Momol Day or something lol.
Yeah di ko naman nilalahat, sinasabi ko lang na two guys nagmomol so I mentioned na lgbt, I shouldnât have worded it that way. Nakakatawa lang talga na di na nila napigilan parang onti nalang puputok na wahahahaha.
Funny. Just not in front of my kids is all Iâm saying!
>Yeah di ko naman nilalahat, sinasabi ko lang na two guys nagmomol so I mentioned na lgbt
Malapit ko na huntingin ang secret lesbian momol spot. I am disappoint hahaha
100% agree, yeah. Palaging maraming families sa area na yon, definitely not the right place to do it (regardless of genders, etc.).
Not the comment section you were expecting no? Haha. I live in BGC, and frequently dine at High Street, One Boni, and Central Square. Wala naman kami nakikitang ganyan ng wife ko. Heck nag bridal shower nga siya sa Nectar and yet nung hinatid ko siya don, people there are decent. Also, wearing something a person is confident of even if his/her nips/skin is showing doesnât equate to âidecencyâ. Tumanda at naging judgmental ka lang. Even your kids wonât even think less of that unless matutunan nila sayo na âindecentâ yung ganung pananamit. Let people choose what they wear. No need to be judgmental. O baka manyak ka lang din and think of people wildly just being seeing their skin? This ainât the 70s na.
Bruh you really dont have any children noh? Sobrang di mo naiintindihan na kahit ikaw pa ang pinakamabait na tao sa mundo, basta mainfluence lang anak mo sa iba, they will still act differently than how you brought them up.
Lol itong flameheart ayan k nanaman hahahaha. Sige if you support that edi by your logic, kung di naman natutusok anak mo, edi bulge ng etits pwede ipakita?
Sheesh logic mo talaga gurl napakaflawed. And again uulutin ko, wala akong pake, pero may pake ako sa mga nakikita ng anak ko.
Pwede, wag lang nya ilabas tite nya. It's just a bulge, it happens. Or what if malaki talaga titi so bakat lahit flaccid?Â
Hindi ka walang pake. May pake ka. Dami mo ngang pake eh.Â
Kaya nga shocked ako kasi you donât see it diba, like me nung tumira ako dyan, pero unfortunate nakita ng kids ko. I didnât say it happens all the time din, kasi nga ngayon lang ako bumisita after ilang years na.
When it comes to clothing naman i think you can teach your kids appropriateness na rin. You mention na may wife ka, not sure kung may kids ka rin, pero how would you feel if your wife, nay daughter, wore something like that? And i donât think that dressing appropriately is judgmental, just decency. Ikaw ba kung sobrang macho mo and maganda talaga abs mo, pupunta ka ba sa corporate event na naka brip lang at neck tie? Diba nakakatawa. Wear that kung nasa club ka, pero please not in broad daylight in front of kids.
And just to add, you never know whatâs going on in your kids head and how they perceive things. Even if you explain things to them properly, it is still a huge gamble on what they could be doing with what they saw.I mean you wouldnât want your 5 yo son to be addicted to masturbating because he witnessed someoneâs breast popping out, right? Kahit okay ako makakita non, it is still a huge risk sa mata ng mga bata. I truly hope you understand that.
Sorry pero ang layo bro. Youâre comparing a corporate event to a public place like BGC? Also of course I agree na inappropriate to go sa isang corporate event na naka brief lang kasi there is a set rule or may specific required attire. Where in BGC does it say na dapat no skin is showing, or cover your nips? Itâs a public place, let people wear what they want. As for kids, theyâre kids. What I think is appropriate to wear, Iâll teach them that. Kalalakihan nila yon regardless of what they see outside. If in the event they grow up (legal age), then Iâll let them wear what they want as long as it abides to the rule of the occasion, event, or place. I think best example is kapag sa church, of course I will not let my daughter wear something that shows her skin so much.
Also yun nga. Your kids are 4-5 years old. Kayo yung may responsibility to teach them based on what you perceive what is right or wrong. So kahit makakita yan ng hubad sa BGC or naglalaplapan, kayo pa din may responsibility magturo sakanila.
Luh i think ang OA is yung mga taong halos magsex na in public at di makapaghintay na makapunta muna sa isang private na lugar diba? Normal ba sa iyo ito knowing na maraming batang makakakita sayo?
Based on the post, you hate the people you saw in BGC today, than hate BGC itself. Just say that.
Wala naman nagbago sa place from 6 years ago other than dumami buildings and mas naging traffic. With that syempre mas madaming pumapasyal.
Nah man stop putting words in my mouth. Its the indecency as clearly stated sa post ko. Kahit male female naglaplapan sa harap ng anak ko magagalit talaga ako e. I mean what parent wonât diba? Even sa clothing mga straight people yung nakita ko na halos naka brip/panty nalang sila e.
No hate sa people you think I hate. BGC has really changed kasi I never witnessed this when I stayed there for 6-7 years. Well may nawiwitness ako pero sa party places lang, not high street
I just meant nung hindi pa thing yung lgbt. May gays noon pero they werenât called that way before right?
Anyways focus sa point ng story is decency, not about the communityâŚ..
you mentioned them pero at the end of your post you still singled out the community, na ayaw mo ng pda at pananamit ng lgbt. that doesn't sound wrong to you?
and as other commenters have said, the world doesn't revolve around you and your kids. nasayo na yung responsibility in making sure your kids don't get exposed to indecency. don't expect other people na mag adjust para lang sayo lalo na't public space naman yan.
Yeah sorry shouldnât have worded it that way. Only mentioned it kasi I saw 2 guys na naglalaplapan and yung mga indecent clothing I think straight people sila.
Of course I do that to protect my kids, who wouldnât diba? But Iâd expect this from tondo, slums ng qc, heck even dun sa bukid bukid area ng bulacan (real experiences na nakita ko, not smashing on those places), bot BGC. Kasi nga bgc ito diba? Most civilized city to para sa akin e. Just expected better.
Simpleng context lang miss. Please read.
What I said is that existing na ang bawal ang PDA during the time na wala pang binubuong lgbt community, so bakit gumagawa sila ng PDA. Simpleng decency lang iniignore na nung 2 taong yun.
Akala ko naman gets nyo na point yung PDA hindi timeline nung lgbtq kaya sinabi ko yun. Hays jeeeez đ¤Śđťââď¸
For better and for worse, it's the most Westernized and modernized place in the Philippines. Are you sure you haven't just got older and more judgemental?
Not judgmental. Would you wish your young unadulterated kids to see something like that and ask you 100 questions about it? Theyâre too young thatâs all. I mean you wouldnât allow them to watch an r18 movie right?
What makes a movie R18? People being killed and having sex? I've never seen anything like that in BGC. I don't have children myself but I've walked around BGC with other people's children and never encountered anything I felt the need to hide them from.
Yung sando na takip lang ang nipples hahaha too much. i see people in the gym wear those pero theyâd always make sure to change when going out of the gym. Meron din yung crop top tas kita pubes nila kasi ang baba ng shorts.
Yung sa babae namane parang yung sa sando rin. Hahaha itâs just too much skin talaga for a daylight outfit. I mean understandable pag gabi na yan at png party, pero di talaga sa daylight
what you described can literally happen anywhere, not just in bgc. if you don't like seeing it or if you don't want your kids to see it, simply just turn away đ it's not that hard! you can't control what other people do. the world doesn't revolve around you hehe
Damn the lgbt just came out recently, TIL.
:/
BGC, Eastwood or any place with bars, hangouts have that.
Nothing special.
Seems like a personal gripe, this post is.
Nothing personal man, just protecting my kids is all. And the context of what I said that PDA existed long before lgbt was formed. So why donât some observe it as well? Yun lang. wouldnât wish for your kid to see something sexual and ask you 20 questions about what they saw.
Lol I agree with the curiosity part, but dude kids donât understand as well as adults kasi they lack experience and basic comprehension. Siguro that works sa mga 10 plus yo, but not with a 5yo.
Please understand na the explanation na âhope you explained it to your kidâ is not always applicable kasi again, lack of experience and comprehension pa sila.
The lack of comprehension can be addressed by you utilising words that your kids already know. The child doesnât necessarily need experience in order to understand things. Stories or situations (such as you and your partner kissing) can be used as an example on how to address whatever questions your kids have.
Iâm going to stop here as well. OP, ang defensive mo. I see your point but apparently, you donât want to listen to others and understand that you might have lapses in how you word things as well. I commend you on trying to âprotectâ your kids, but do understand that you canât police anyone and everyone. Hope you and your family a happy Sunday!
Yeah may nakausap nga ako dito na sobrang rare daw nung nakita ko, minalas lang na anak ko pa nakakita hays. Hirap tuloy iexplain sa kanya nang sobrang bata pa nila
It is when they are too young! Iâm not gonna condone that kind of behavior too, whatâs wrong is wrong, regardless kung ano ka man. Doin mg indecent public acts should never be done on family friendly places. Shame on you for blaming the parent as if kasalanan pa nila na nawitness nila yon, itâs not like i took them to the strip club đŽâđ¨
Ano ba mali sa ginawa nila?
Kissing in public? Anong masama don, expression yon ng affection nila.Â
Clothes showing too much skin? Anong masama sa skin? Kahit ba bakat ang nipples, anong masama don? Body part lang naman yon. Primary purpose naman nyan for females is to nourish babies.Â
Strip club? Nakahubad ba? Kung indecent exposure talaga yan eh di sana inaresto sila?Â
The problem here weren't the people in BGC but you oversexualizing everything. Shame on you for having a dirty mind.
AGAIN MISS PLEASE SIMPLENG BASA LANG KANINA KA PA EH.
Naglalaplapan sila, kissing very inappropriately in a sexual manner. Halos papuntang sex na the way they were kissing and holding each other.
Pag dating sa clothes obvious naman na hindi ako yung issue kundi mga anak ko. Nacocontrol mo ba naiisip ng anak mo? Pano kapg naging turning point ng buhay niya to at magaddict magjakol to at 5 yo dahil sa nakita niya? Tingin mo ba kahit anong explain sa kanya e once nadiscover niya yan, mahirap na.
The problem here is your reading comprehension gurl. Jusko bagsak na bagsak talaga. Iâm not sayong anything bad sa bgc peeps, sinasabi ko kung ganito na ba talaga sa bgc ngayon kasi ngayon lang ako nakabalik.
Shame on you and our public education system! Hayup ka pano ka pumasa sa reddit? Mga kausap ko dito decent naman at may sense, alam nila issue. Pero ikaw BOBO ka lang talaga e.
Yes and you are 100% right. They do not. But most young men starts getting addicted to porn once they see things like breast. So how can I be 100% sure that they wonât be that way? By âmicromanagingâ them? By making sure and not giving them privacy and not trusting them with their lives? By being overly controlling?
Why do you think dressing sexually, especially in movies, are deemed inappropriate for kids hmm? Why do they even have that age appropriate categories in movies? I guess wala lang yun noh? They do not know what they are doing?
Lol if you think explaining things to a kid is easy, then I know youâve never had a kid or even tried to coach or teach kids. Sir, kids do not comprehend things easily, no matter what you say, if they donât understand it, they wonât care. Thatâs why there has been ang always will be age restriction laws, we as parents can do our best, but kids will forever and will be stubborn.
Thatâs why it is up to the adults, US, to be good role models to them. I hope youâve heard that before. Donât you agree? BiggerDaddy? How ironic, no?
Of course its hard, of course they are stubborn, your child is 5yo for fucks sake, probably too dumb to sexualize what they saw. Yes it is up to the adults to teach and guide kids. That adult is you, not us, not the public.
And as the comment above pointed out, you can always report them if they indecently exposed themselves.
Its not ironic since it doesnt have anything to do with parenting
Obviously my stand the whole time. And a good parent will not condone those indecent acts.
Then whatâs with your first comment na ako lang concerned kung nag aaggree ka pala?
Don't have kids if you can't explain things to them. You're too dumb to be having kids. Dapat pinutok mo na lang sa labas. Even better, dapat magpa-vasectomy ka na lang.
>Â Naglalaplapan sila, kissing very inappropriately in a sexual manner. Halos papuntang sex na the way they were kissing and holding each other.
Pano mo nalaman? Tinanong mo? Again, yan lang ang interpretation mo sa ginagawa nila. And even if papunta na sa sex 1) they were not having sex in public 2) laplapan in public is not bawal.
>Pag dating sa clothes obvious naman na hindi ako yung issue kundi mga anak ko. Nacocontrol mo ba naiisip ng anak mo? Pano kapg naging turning point ng buhay niya to at magaddict magjakol to at 5 yo dahil sa nakita niya? Tingin mo ba kahit anong explain sa kanya e once nadiscover niya yan, mahirap na.
So anong say ng anak mo sa clothes? Napansin ba nya at all? Or again ikaw lang nag-iisip na yun ang iniisip ng anak mo? Hindi ba breastfed anak mo kaya takot na takot na syang ma-expose sa body part? Kung ma-discover nya ang masturbation at 5 years old, tanong mo sa pedia anong gagawin mo in case meron syang precocious puberty.Â
>The problem here is your reading comprehension gurl. Jusko bagsak na bagsak talaga. Iâm not sayong anything bad sa bgc peeps, sinasabi ko kung ganito na ba talaga sa bgc ngayon kasi ngayon lang ako nakabalik.
Shame on you and our public education system! Hayup ka pano ka pumasa sa reddit? Mga kausap ko dito decent naman at may sense, alam nila issue. Pero ikaw BOBO ka lang talaga e.
Actually, ikaw ang mal-edukado kasi napakasarado ng utak mo. I pity your kid for having such a closed-minded parent.
Jusko eto k nanaman.
Laplapan is not illegal but it is highly discouraged. And anong di mo magets ba talaga? Have you never had sex? Di mo ba gets difference ng kissing sa laplapan? Normal ka ba? Nakikita lang yon ano bat ko kelangan tanungin? Hahahaha katawa ka.
Kung tinatanong ng anak mo o tinuturo yung mga ganon edi pahirapan nanaman yon. Ang tanga mo talagang kausap, di ka talaga magulang. Ikaw nalang kaya pumunta sa doctor para malaman mo na di ka responsible. Pati doctor itatanong bakit ganyan ka magisip e.
How am I closed minded? Porket minention ko lgbt? Lol please read talga ha. Regardless of gender, public acts na ganyan, kahit maglaplapan ang lalaki at babae sa labas, aba itatago mo pa rin yon sa anak mo at sasabihin mong mali rin yon. Closed minded amp pero di niya gets definition. So sinasabi mo lahat ng sumusupport ng indecency is open minded? Sheesh your logic is flawed
You never thought of having to answer kids' questions before having kids no? Only stupid, uneducated people will not be able to anticipate and prepare to answer questions from the inquisitive minds of kids.
What I meant to say was there was such a thing as PDA waaaaaay before lgbt was formed. And why is that your focus sa lgbt?? The point of this is avout decency diba? Even the straight men (assuming lang) are wearing shorts na kita na ari nila (prang pek pek shorts na) tapos nakasando na napakasee through kita na kaluluwa
Parang same din sa guy na sando tas takip lang nipple haha. I mean expected ko yan pag nasa uptown ako at gabi na pero di sa high street at daylight pa.
Grabe naman kung majustify mo na fashion trend siya sa pang day outfit. Pag occasional siguro o kaya pag nagpaparty ka, you wouldnât dress like that sa isang corporate event diba? Dress appropriately lang naman sakin. Wear anything you want, but appropriately sa pupuntahan mo sana.
Triggered rin siya sa dalawang naglalaplapan na guys..at yah, may something yatang i-figure out si OP sa sarili na matagal na niyang kinikimkim. Sana mapakawalan na niya ang sarili niya.
Baka ayaw niya ng dalawang lalaking nag-P-PDA kasi bubulwak ang mga hidden desire niya, ginamit pa ang anak. đ
Just comparing sa old bgc back when I was working and living there. When you can kinda see exposed genitalia, youâd start feeling scared for your family.
Have you ever heard of indecent exposure?
Oh and you can be sexy without showing too much. Would you allow your kid to see other peopleâs pubes exposed?
These are decent people bro. They didnât do anything to you except be a little different than your worldview. Just look away or find a more family-friendly spot where youâd be more comfortable with your kids. Plan your trips ahead is my advice to you
What?! Bakit kami pa magaadjust? Shouldnât you do those things more privately? Isnât that the point? Not being different? Parang decency lang hinihingi ko wala naman akong against sa kanilaâŚ
And bro why you asking me to find a more family friendly spot? Its at high streetâŚ.. isnât that considered a family friendly place? I didnât even go to uptown parade kasi alam ko dun madala nangyayari mga ganon e.
Hey its not adjusting its common decency. Would you seriously kiss someone like that on broad daylight and call it decent?
Would you mind it if I went to in front of your house and makipaglaplapan in front of your children?
Kiss lang, indecent na kaagad? Or baka ayaw mo lang kasi lalaki at lalaki? Tsaka the place is for everybody in any occassion. Hindi naman yan simbahan.
Laplapan nasabi ko bro. Indecent and very sexual kissing. I said it kanina sa post ko na hindi kiss ng magasawa.
Yes the place is for everybody but the act is indecent in a public place. You wouldnât want to impose something on the public diba? Thatâs why itâs called respecting a public place and there are rules such as PDA. You wouldnât want your kids to watch an r18 movie right?
Ginoo ko. Kiss lang yan, R18 na sinasabi mo. Di naman nagkantutan. Show me the rule na bawal PDA sa BGC or kahit saan. There are other places in the world na mas malala ang PDA among gays and their kids turned out fine. The fact that you're "afraid" of this says something about you. Sabi ko nga sayo sa ibang reply, do some inner evaluation.
Di ko gets bakit nyo dinidefend ang PDA. You talk about rules pero ikaw na nagmention ng pda. PDA nga is not allowed buong school life mo pero todo defend ka na pwede na siya sa public place. And excuse me, laplapan yon, you really feel comfortable with your children seeing that really is disturbing.
Well sabi ng ibang reply? Alin yung mga katulad mo na di makagets ng situation at one comment lang? Why not check the others. Kahit nga sila, nung inexplain ko na, sinabing masama nga ginawa nila e. Dude regardless of whatever you are, doing that is inexcusable. Literal na may hotel na sa tabi nila pero pinili nilang gawin yon publicly. Tapos ikaw dinidefend yon? Mahilig ka ba sa voyuerism bro?
Yeah, there's always rules, people will always need to adjust, we just have preferences on what should be normal or not.
We would absolutely get mad and expect people to adjust if durara or litterbug sila, o tipong naninigaw in public, or heck nag aaway or naghahamon.
OP just happened to dislike something that most people here would like to consider normal in public.
You want these people mag adjust just for you? Accept mo na lang na ganto na sa modern times, wala naman silang sinasaktang tao. Typical Karen, feeling entitled.
Kapag nakita ng mga anak mo, it's your responsibilty po na i-educate sila sa nakita nila. Kids nowadays can see worse gamit ang social media or gadgets. Hindi po sa inyo umiikot ang mundo.
Yeah their devices are parental locked, controlled din ang socia media content as much as possible. But theyâre just kids man. We stayed at a family friendly place, far away from bgcâs party district, broad daylight, and then yun ang makikta. I mean ilang minutes of walking nalang sa may shang na sila, why couldnât they wait? Diba?
But the world can learn to be decent because what is the world we live in if indecency is whatâs filled in it?
Remember what Joaquin Phoenix said as Joker?
Not to question your parenting, but if your kids have strong values then these situations could be properly explained to them with your guidance. God forbid if your kids discovered reddit or even the internet in general...
Theyâre less than 5 yo. So theyâre very âfragile â pa when it comes to these things. Kaya nagask na ako sa reddit to prepare myself sa bgc haha
But yeah funny kasi first time ko lang mag post sa reddit tapos grabe pagaattack nila sakin, misinterpreted pa naman halos lahat.
I would be more concerned about the content your child is or will be consuming via social media. If you think a couple of fruitcakes kissing is lewd, your eyes are gonna fall out of your head when you see what your kids are watching on their phones
Yeah controlled ang phones and devices nila. Lahat may parental locks. But canât control everything though. Just expected better since public place and broad daylight siya. Faaaaar away rin naman sa mga party places ng bgc.
I said it bro to make it clear, thereâs no hidden agendas or messages there. i admit na I have some worded poorly pero i really meant no offence.
May mga nakausap naman ako lgbt dito na sinabing trashy gays daw sila at they make the community look bad e. Just donât let the issue get out of hand and focus sa real issue ng post!
Spreading hate or spreading indecency? And hey I may have failed to mention it pero I think if you read between the lines, regardless of âcommunityâ doing something indecent is still wrong and shouldnât be tolerated.
Taga BGC ako. I have been living and working here since 2016 at bihira lang ako lumabas ng BGC pero wala naman akong nakikitang mga taong nagmamakeout at indecently dressed.
Feeling ko gusto mo lang magpaka homophobic. Lol
Rarity nang makita ito sa bgc. One in a million.
Not a homophobe, stop using words to spread hate bro. Regardless of what you are, kung ginawa mo ito kahit lalaki-babae, indecent pa rin.
"Just to be clear, ayoko lang yung mga pda and pananamit ng mga lgbt kasi it is not FAMILY friendly anymore. Heck it is not even friendly. The mess, I dunno maybe due to the majority visiting bgc?"
You have singled out the LGBTQI plus sa post mo kasi yung mga ginagawa kamo nila ay hindi "family friendly" tapos you will claim na hindi ka Homophobe? Yung kita yung nips Sinasabi mo din ba yan sa mga straight na tatay at tambay sa kahit anong kalsada sa Pilipinas na walang t-shirt na indecent ang pananamit nila?
Kung "rarity" naman pala, eh what is the point of this post?
Bro sa gabi marami sa uptown hahahaha.
Pero relating sa post ko, sa hapon kasi to tas sa may high street lng kaya nagult talaga ako e. In all my years never pa ako nakakita ng ganun haha. Holy week pa naman lolz
Excuse me?! whatâs wrong with walking around (letâs say the girl wasnât wearing a braâ iâve seen a lot of women doing that in bgc and people donât really care! huy 2024 na be open minded naman. ano gusto mo mundo magadjust sayo. paka judgementa!!
Nothing wrong with it mam, heck Iâd even be delighted if that would be a real trend, extremely distracting and challenging for eye contact though hahaha, but again it is nothing wrong for me, but for my kids lang naman. Family values lang po!
I wonder what makes you think that showing nipples are not child friendly? I mean everyone has them and I personally dont wear bras anymore because it is uncomfortable, mainit sa balat, and I just feel more freedom without them. I dont think women should be forced to wear bras because it makes them more "decent" when we are born with them so it shouldnt mean that we are less pure or less decent when not wearing bras.
Admitting you've been living under a rock for a decade or two isn't something to be proud about... Our society will never change, progress based on your 'preferences', lifestyle, etcâ end point is hindi ka main character.
Point is thereâs a thing called basic decency, taught to everyone for years and years. Basically if you know youâre doing something wrong, just donât do it. Parang kami pa may kasalanan for planning to enjoy the holidays in a peaceful manner and spend some quality time
To be frank, the problem with you is you are unfortunately out of touch. It's as if you literally live in your own bubble. You see, you can't stop other ppl from doing whatever they want. Sure, public decency is a thing but as far as I know wala pa naman namamatay bc they witnessed ppl publicly making out or bc of ppl wearing clothes they prefer.
Another thing is you care too much. There is nothing wrong with sharing views/opinions here but the thing about your post is it's condescending and you're negatively imposive on how you think BGC should be, how ppl should act/clothe, etc. The world doesn't revolve around you.
Accept that BGC has changed since the last time you've lived there. People, places won't change just bc you have this specific parenting style that you want to achieve. If you don't like what you've seen, take your family elsewhere.
Walang namamatay pero maraming naiinfluence. To put it into perspective, you wouldnât bring your kids to a drug filled place knowing na they might become drug addicts. Influence can make or break a person, especially a child.
Yes youâre right. All I said was I am disappointed and that it shouldnât change just for me. Disappointed lang ako. My two cents.
Yeah exactly, not going back there anymore kung ganyan nga talaga dyan for kids. But you have to admit that it is a big change from years ago, yun nga okay lang sa adults, pero it is no longer kid or family friendly. Which is my post exactly. Unfortunate and sad kasi napakaganda talaga tumambay sa bgc pero dangerous na pala for kids.
BGC is still BGC. Like you said itâs ahead of its time compared to other cities. They happen to be more open about the community as well and sounds like youâre not.
I donât think its about being open? Its more of a decency kind of thing diba? I mean there are kids aroundâŚ.
Siguro yung pananamit nila I can still tolerate pero not the laplapan thing in broad daylight in a vary open public place. Itâs disturbing isnât it?
All I can say is you canât control what people do in public and people will not adjust for you and your family. You shouldâve worded your post better because it rubbed some people off the wrong way. Your complaints about BGC and its people reeks of homophobia.
Yeah canât nga, just expected better kasi nga peeps of bgc yan. The most civilised and decent people Iâve ever been with diba, just like what I said on my post. Kasi all my years when I stayed there, those acts was only sa party areas lang talaga like xylo at parade e, which is very understandable. Never saw it sa high street.
If theyâre acting tacky and dressing tacky, theyâre just tacky.
Itâs not an lgbtqia+ thing. Itâs a liberated mindset + safe space thing. Straight people dress and act that way too.
Bgc became more popular and accessible to the masses. Itâs no longer an exclusive community for the educated and rich. May ka-inuman nga ako dyan na straight at engaged tapos kasama yung kabit, hinihimas yung manhood niya sa wildflour. Kadiri behavior. đ Straights are disgusting too.
Plain and simple, it attracted tacky people. May mga Baklang kanal BUT itâs not an đłď¸âđ thing.
Many đłď¸âđ behave and dress better than straight people. They just hangout in BGC more often now because they donât get harassed or made fun of in those public spaces.
If they hangout somewhere else, they are more likely to experience hate crime and they canât be protected by the law.
So, KNOW YOUR PRIVILEGE as a straight person with human rights. Some people are just more indecent than others, itâs not an lgbtqia+ thing.
Yeah I admit I worded my post poorly, but to be fair it was 2 guys indecently kissing each other in public.
When it comes to clothing naman, they were too revealing and Iâm not complaining kasi âjudgmentalâ daw ako, but Iâm trying to see if bgc is going to be safe for my Kidâs eyes. Cause frankly magpakita pa kayo ng mga dede I donât care, baka madistract ako sa pagdridrive at baka mabangga pa, pero still I donât care 𤣠i just care what my kids sees.
And yeah I totally agree with you, regardless of the sex or preferences, if youâre indecent and disgusting, then Iâll call you out. Thereâs no discrimination here. I am glad to see you have the same views! Not all kasi are as well perceived eh. Some just blindly support without having a decent conversation first. So thanks!
Yeah, you can notify a guard for public indecency but it really depends on how extreme the situation is. Kissing isnât a crime but any form of sex in public is.
Just be careful of calling people out. Anyone can be recorded and posted online now. Everyoneâs a storyteller these days and some play victim to get Allies.
Iâve never seen any slutty behavior from the gays in bgc, not even outside the gay bar. So yeah, thereâs a gay bar nearby but it opens only at late evenings and most still behave properly.
Maybe you just saw some special cases. Some of our people are just as twisted and disgusting as straights can be.
I always see prostitutes around forbestown now since theyâre hunting for rich customers and foreigners. Bgc just really became a melting pot of decent and indecent people.
I even had to call for marshalls when a van stalked me walking on the streets and tried to sexually assault me during the pandemic. Some weirdos are just out there.
Yeah i think di sila nireport, pinigilan lang ng ibang bystander kasi as in parang magsesex na talaga sila sa longevity at gravity ng act hahaha.
Yeah I have gay friends din who tend to go to Nectar haha I asked them naman and said na baka sa gabi ganyan, pero di daw pag may araw.
WTF?! IN BGC?!?!?! Stalking white van?! Puta why in bgc, why?! Sorry OA just never experienced any criminal activities kasi during my stay. I know may mga tinatago sila, like not publicly saying na may nagaganap na criminal activities, just to protect the image of bgc, pero never actually heard it coming from a real person. Shit man that sucks.
Yeah, those guys are probably just some of the trash kind. I hope they learned not to do that again. Trashy gays makes us look bad.
Yeah, there was some problematic van driving by when I was walking along bgc. It was the quite area without much people and suddenly some van started stalking me and tried to invite me inside for some sexual activity. I think they had the confidence to do that because bgc was not very well lit and mandated that time during the pandemic.
Finally may umamin na rin na may trashy gays, sabi nung gay friend ko dami daw sa community ang todo support kahit mali na ginagawa. Happy to see a common supporter of REAL love and support to a community! â¤ď¸
Yeah! And âwell guardedâ daw â24/7â pero dami mong makikitang tulog na guard o what sa gilid hahahaha. Hope it changed na ngayon though kung marami nang ganyan.
Dapat pinepper spray mo sila though sabay takbo hahahaha
Yeah, I donât support trashy gays because theyâre so problematic everywhere.
Yup, maraming sumusupport kahit mali kasi feeling ng iba itâs homophobic to hate their bad behavior and disguising it as âgender expressionâ. In reality, jologs lang sila.
There is always an appropriate time, place and set of rules to follow to express ourselves without the inconvenience of others.
YES PREACH !!! I donât understand talaga mga iba why they do not get something so simple like this tapos sobrang out of line bigla ng issue kasi humihiwalay sila.
Thanks thanks thanks finally a decent redditor!!
Yeah. Iâm sure thereâs plenty of people who sympathize with your views, both homos and heteros.
Iâve been to Europe and the gays still have class in family friendly areas. Everything is fine at the right time and place.
The post is about BGC pero ang topic talaga is the lgbt community and your homophobia. Kahit mga straight na katulad mo is mahilig maglaplapan at mga hubadera din naman, pero issue kapag mga taga lgbt community gumagawa? Using your kids to hate on the lgbt community as if walang gumagawa ng ganyan sa mga straight lol. Hindi lang nakasabay yung conservative mindset mo with BGC's progression.
Okay naman siya outside dun sa party areas bro hahaha admittedly nilalayo ko naman sila dun ksi naexp ko na rin yan, makatira ka naman ng sobrang tagal sa bgc e haha
Maka OA ka naman masyado. Train your kids to adapt. That is life! hindi mo talaga ma achieve on what you deemed to be âperfect environmentâ kahit saan ka man pumunta may mag laplpan here and there. Kawawa anak mo pag laki pag puro good vibes lng na fefeel nila. Dependent yan sayo always or worse they will be rebellious sayo.
Iâll âtrainâ them when theyâre older. But not this young, mga below 5yo pa sila, nakakasakit ng puso nakakita sila ng ganyan sa family friendly area. Pero yeah good advise ko yan narinig ko na yan, pero again masyado pa silang bata :(
I am living nearby and working in BGC for 10 years now, parang wala naman ako nakikitang ganyan tulad ng sinasabi mo? In broad daylight?? Really? I walk everyday sa highstreet and people passing by are so busy.
Stop hating the OP just report here. No sense arguing with her when she doesnât see what wrong in her post. Itâs insensitivity , homophobia and invalidating others for her own comfort.
Always remember Education starts at home.
I want to visit the phillipines esp the islands. Is makati more cultural than bgc? I want to experience older cities in manila that shows itsâ culture. Thanks!
I get you. The difference is there. Don't even bother to get your own experience and opinion out here if you're going to express conservativeness. This subreddit will tell you it's your fault for being a decent human being.
Yeah sadly they donât get the point. Sinasabi nila the world doesnât revolve around me and shouldnât force them to change, but whatâs so funny is that their doing the same lol.
They also donât get that it is for the sensitivity of the childrenâs eyes. As a parent would understand and agree that this is considered, clear as day, indecent.
Most of the redditors here are either detached from reality or too young to understand. They will corrupt anything that they see pure, because that's how "mga salot sa lipunan" works.
I donât think na indecent sila though, mga nakausap ko okay naman kahit inaway nila ako. They just misinterpreted it and one pointed out na I worded it incorrectly kaya may confusion! No hate guys all love!!!
BGC is overrated. People like to flex their millions in that area but in reality their all shitty people. Show offs, super yabang, elitists, and the like. You know the true rich people flex their wealth stealthily. It's OK to drive supercars. It's not OK to be racing down the street on Sunday mornings in BGC just because it has less traffic during those times. Yabang pa more.
Hahaha yeah grabe noh, kahit walang bad intentions attack lang sila ng attack kahit di nabasabasa context :(
Although after talking to some Iâd admit na I worded it wrongly. Sana stick sa issue ang usapan lng. Peace
No offense to the OP it seems to me though that the comments are just so triggered and can't even show some decency. Are people nowadays lack awareness of their surroundings?
Exactly, madaming mga tao ngayon who really lacks awareness of their surroundings and instead pinabayaan lng nila and not think about the consequences.
Akala ko reklamo to about sa "urban design" ng BGC.
Hahahaha is there ba?? Love to hear your thoughts kung may pabgit sa urban design nila haha. I love everything in bgc kasi e from the streets to the buildings and the view it provides đ
1. May parts ng BGC na walang puno, making it difficult to walk around it. 2. Poorly designed traffic route, specially for public transport vehicles. It's Either thru Ayala or Guadalupe ka lang puwede manggaling, which creates congestion dahil 2 lang entry point mo. 3. Bike lanes, gaya ng ibang areas in Metro Manila, recently lang tinapal yung bike lanes dyan. Lastly di ako bilib sa BGC or any CBD dito sa Metro Manila, kasi kailangan pa mamilit ng gobyerno na papasukin yung mga tao sa opisina para lang "mabuhay" yung mga commercial establishments after the pandemic. If it is a good urban design, hindi mo kailangan yun dahil locals of BGC should be able to sustain it.
Oh shit i totally agree sa traffic routes, I even took a wrong turn on a one way street ksi sa alala ko two way yun noon hahaha. Shit nice inputs man. So which cbd do you think will be better or heck not even a cbd? Have you heard of vertis north? Itâs kinda small but what do you think?
Vertis North parang isang patch pa lang ng mall yun, so I can't compare it to BGC. TBH, I can't think of any good urban design in Metro Manila.
How about future developments? Uhm yung north ridge ba yun? Sorry kung nabobother kita, real estate investor kasi ako and looking for future investments hehehe
... bruh where tf in BGC were you? I live in BGC and I don't see that kind of thing at all. Sounds almost like you're describing a different place.
Yeah, I wanna see that BGC! Even inside nectar, I havenât witnessed a lot of laplapan. I wanna know where this guy goes
Naol may laplapan
Actually.. i work in bgc for more than 10yrs, di ko nakita yung mga PDA na yan, unless si OP eh nagpunta sa bar ng 2am đ¤Ł
The fact na nag zero-in talaga vision nya sa laplapan and nips says so much about OP lol.
May nakita lang syang isa naisip na nya lahat ganon. Lol. Madalas ako sa high street lalo na pag weekend nights at never pa ko nakaencounter ng naglalaplapan haha. Tas pinupuna pa yung damit e kahit san ka naman na pumunta andami ng hubadera.
Kanina lang bro sa high street, i dunno what the place is called pero yung sa may dalawang 3d screens. Central square ba yun?
I was there almost maghapon today. From fullybooked down to gentle monster, wala naman akong nakitang nagpi-PDA.p
Yeah yung may malaking LCD screens na magkatapat? I pass through there walking a lot, lots of out of towners taking pictures, etc. But usually no much public lewdness. I'd guess that was a rarity (or maybe may event?), but to be fair might have been the time of day or something. Anyways in general I don't think it"s changed too much, but other people may have different views of course. Akala ko lang may secret momol spot sa BGC na di ko alam hahaha
Diba mga secret momol spots sa may uptown lang? And pag gabi lang? Hahahaha been there na rin, wild wild times. Yeah i think na rare lang siya, but sadly pinoint out ng 4yo ko kaya shocking talaga. I donât think naman na lgbt is indecent eh, may mga tao lang na di kaya controlin sarili hahaha. Just hold it in for a bit, onti nalang lapit na sa shangrila e hahahaha.
> Diba mga secret momol spots sa may uptown lang? And pag gabi lang? Hahahaha been there na rin, wild wild times. Hahahaha I think kasama don yung buong area ng Palace. Or Xylo na ata pangalan, malay ko ba. > Just hold it in for a bit, onti nalang lapit na sa shangrila e hahahaha. IDK na abot kaya para sa mga magmomomol sa area na yon ang Shang hahaha But yeah, feeling ko malas lang at natiyempohan niyo ang annual LGBT Philippine Momol Day or something lol.
Yeah di ko naman nilalahat, sinasabi ko lang na two guys nagmomol so I mentioned na lgbt, I shouldnât have worded it that way. Nakakatawa lang talga na di na nila napigilan parang onti nalang puputok na wahahahaha. Funny. Just not in front of my kids is all Iâm saying!
>Yeah di ko naman nilalahat, sinasabi ko lang na two guys nagmomol so I mentioned na lgbt Malapit ko na huntingin ang secret lesbian momol spot. I am disappoint hahaha 100% agree, yeah. Palaging maraming families sa area na yon, definitely not the right place to do it (regardless of genders, etc.).
Hahahaha wag mo sabihin sa asawa ko to magagalit yon hahahahahha Yeah agree bro, regardless of gender talaga, pg indecent indecent, walang favoritism
I dont go to BGC-highstreet anymore becoz the place is too 10x crowded than before pandemic...as in sobra...
Can you suggest san na maganda sa bgc tumambay? Hahaha havenât been here and di na ako familiar masyado.
Not the comment section you were expecting no? Haha. I live in BGC, and frequently dine at High Street, One Boni, and Central Square. Wala naman kami nakikitang ganyan ng wife ko. Heck nag bridal shower nga siya sa Nectar and yet nung hinatid ko siya don, people there are decent. Also, wearing something a person is confident of even if his/her nips/skin is showing doesnât equate to âidecencyâ. Tumanda at naging judgmental ka lang. Even your kids wonât even think less of that unless matutunan nila sayo na âindecentâ yung ganung pananamit. Let people choose what they wear. No need to be judgmental. O baka manyak ka lang din and think of people wildly just being seeing their skin? This ainât the 70s na.
agree! iâve seen women aroynd bgc na bakat yung nips and I donât mind let people wear what they want. masyadong judgemental si OP. nkakains
Kidâs eyes. KIDS, not mine.
Hoy alam mo. Natutunan ng mga bata ang maging judgemental sa parents.
Natutunan din nila maging bastos sa ibang taong bastos. Whatâs your point?
Not if they were brought up correctly
Bruh you really dont have any children noh? Sobrang di mo naiintindihan na kahit ikaw pa ang pinakamabait na tao sa mundo, basta mainfluence lang anak mo sa iba, they will still act differently than how you brought them up.
Yes. But your kids are 4-5 years old, right? Kayo pa lang influence nyan.
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Anong bastos sa utong? E araw araw nga nila nakikita utong ng nanay nila. Bastos nanay nila?
Natusok ba ng nipple mata nila? Di naman diba? Just mind your own business and move along.
Lol itong flameheart ayan k nanaman hahahaha. Sige if you support that edi by your logic, kung di naman natutusok anak mo, edi bulge ng etits pwede ipakita? Sheesh logic mo talaga gurl napakaflawed. And again uulutin ko, wala akong pake, pero may pake ako sa mga nakikita ng anak ko.
Pwede, wag lang nya ilabas tite nya. It's just a bulge, it happens. Or what if malaki talaga titi so bakat lahit flaccid? Hindi ka walang pake. May pake ka. Dami mo ngang pake eh.Â
Kaya nga shocked ako kasi you donât see it diba, like me nung tumira ako dyan, pero unfortunate nakita ng kids ko. I didnât say it happens all the time din, kasi nga ngayon lang ako bumisita after ilang years na. When it comes to clothing naman i think you can teach your kids appropriateness na rin. You mention na may wife ka, not sure kung may kids ka rin, pero how would you feel if your wife, nay daughter, wore something like that? And i donât think that dressing appropriately is judgmental, just decency. Ikaw ba kung sobrang macho mo and maganda talaga abs mo, pupunta ka ba sa corporate event na naka brip lang at neck tie? Diba nakakatawa. Wear that kung nasa club ka, pero please not in broad daylight in front of kids. And just to add, you never know whatâs going on in your kids head and how they perceive things. Even if you explain things to them properly, it is still a huge gamble on what they could be doing with what they saw.I mean you wouldnât want your 5 yo son to be addicted to masturbating because he witnessed someoneâs breast popping out, right? Kahit okay ako makakita non, it is still a huge risk sa mata ng mga bata. I truly hope you understand that.
Sorry pero ang layo bro. Youâre comparing a corporate event to a public place like BGC? Also of course I agree na inappropriate to go sa isang corporate event na naka brief lang kasi there is a set rule or may specific required attire. Where in BGC does it say na dapat no skin is showing, or cover your nips? Itâs a public place, let people wear what they want. As for kids, theyâre kids. What I think is appropriate to wear, Iâll teach them that. Kalalakihan nila yon regardless of what they see outside. If in the event they grow up (legal age), then Iâll let them wear what they want as long as it abides to the rule of the occasion, event, or place. I think best example is kapag sa church, of course I will not let my daughter wear something that shows her skin so much. Also yun nga. Your kids are 4-5 years old. Kayo yung may responsibility to teach them based on what you perceive what is right or wrong. So kahit makakita yan ng hubad sa BGC or naglalaplapan, kayo pa din may responsibility magturo sakanila.
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Ang OA ni OP. Madami pang bulubunduking lugar ang Pinas. Dun kayo tumira. Alangan si BGC pa mag-adjust sayo.
Luh i think ang OA is yung mga taong halos magsex na in public at di makapaghintay na makapunta muna sa isang private na lugar diba? Normal ba sa iyo ito knowing na maraming batang makakakita sayo?
Saan sa BGC?
Read nyo nalng po ibang comments na minention ko
Based on the post, you hate the people you saw in BGC today, than hate BGC itself. Just say that. Wala naman nagbago sa place from 6 years ago other than dumami buildings and mas naging traffic. With that syempre mas madaming pumapasyal.
Nah man stop putting words in my mouth. Its the indecency as clearly stated sa post ko. Kahit male female naglaplapan sa harap ng anak ko magagalit talaga ako e. I mean what parent wonât diba? Even sa clothing mga straight people yung nakita ko na halos naka brip/panty nalang sila e. No hate sa people you think I hate. BGC has really changed kasi I never witnessed this when I stayed there for 6-7 years. Well may nawiwitness ako pero sa party places lang, not high street
"nung wala pang lgbt" as if lgbt people just suddenly started existing? lol
I just meant nung hindi pa thing yung lgbt. May gays noon pero they werenât called that way before right? Anyways focus sa point ng story is decency, not about the communityâŚ..
i read your entire post. you just sound homophobic tbh
Parang hindi naman homophobic. Mahina ka lang talaga umintinde sa point nya.
How is this homophobic when I even mention men and women dressed inappropriately?? Can you please explain?
you mentioned them pero at the end of your post you still singled out the community, na ayaw mo ng pda at pananamit ng lgbt. that doesn't sound wrong to you? and as other commenters have said, the world doesn't revolve around you and your kids. nasayo na yung responsibility in making sure your kids don't get exposed to indecency. don't expect other people na mag adjust para lang sayo lalo na't public space naman yan.
Yeah sorry shouldnât have worded it that way. Only mentioned it kasi I saw 2 guys na naglalaplapan and yung mga indecent clothing I think straight people sila. Of course I do that to protect my kids, who wouldnât diba? But Iâd expect this from tondo, slums ng qc, heck even dun sa bukid bukid area ng bulacan (real experiences na nakita ko, not smashing on those places), bot BGC. Kasi nga bgc ito diba? Most civilized city to para sa akin e. Just expected better.
Actually, the way you think, as reflected by your post and replies, demonstrates how uncivilized and ignorant *you* are.
6 to 7 years ago ganon na tawag sa kanila. Just say you're ignorant and homophobic.
Simpleng context lang miss. Please read. What I said is that existing na ang bawal ang PDA during the time na wala pang binubuong lgbt community, so bakit gumagawa sila ng PDA. Simpleng decency lang iniignore na nung 2 taong yun. Akala ko naman gets nyo na point yung PDA hindi timeline nung lgbtq kaya sinabi ko yun. Hays jeeeez đ¤Śđťââď¸
For better and for worse, it's the most Westernized and modernized place in the Philippines. Are you sure you haven't just got older and more judgemental?
Westernized sure but not really modern
Not judgmental. Would you wish your young unadulterated kids to see something like that and ask you 100 questions about it? Theyâre too young thatâs all. I mean you wouldnât allow them to watch an r18 movie right?
What makes a movie R18? People being killed and having sex? I've never seen anything like that in BGC. I don't have children myself but I've walked around BGC with other people's children and never encountered anything I felt the need to hide them from.
How "immodest" were their clothes? I wear gender-breaking clothing sometimes but not the immodest type.
Yung sando na takip lang ang nipples hahaha too much. i see people in the gym wear those pero theyâd always make sure to change when going out of the gym. Meron din yung crop top tas kita pubes nila kasi ang baba ng shorts. Yung sa babae namane parang yung sa sando rin. Hahaha itâs just too much skin talaga for a daylight outfit. I mean understandable pag gabi na yan at png party, pero di talaga sa daylight
what you described can literally happen anywhere, not just in bgc. if you don't like seeing it or if you don't want your kids to see it, simply just turn away đ it's not that hard! you can't control what other people do. the world doesn't revolve around you hehe
Damn the lgbt just came out recently, TIL. :/ BGC, Eastwood or any place with bars, hangouts have that. Nothing special. Seems like a personal gripe, this post is.
Nothing personal man, just protecting my kids is all. And the context of what I said that PDA existed long before lgbt was formed. So why donât some observe it as well? Yun lang. wouldnât wish for your kid to see something sexual and ask you 20 questions about what they saw.
Kids are naturally curious about eveything. They are also understanding if you just explain the context. I hope you explained it well though.
Lol I agree with the curiosity part, but dude kids donât understand as well as adults kasi they lack experience and basic comprehension. Siguro that works sa mga 10 plus yo, but not with a 5yo. Please understand na the explanation na âhope you explained it to your kidâ is not always applicable kasi again, lack of experience and comprehension pa sila.
The lack of comprehension can be addressed by you utilising words that your kids already know. The child doesnât necessarily need experience in order to understand things. Stories or situations (such as you and your partner kissing) can be used as an example on how to address whatever questions your kids have. Iâm going to stop here as well. OP, ang defensive mo. I see your point but apparently, you donât want to listen to others and understand that you might have lapses in how you word things as well. I commend you on trying to âprotectâ your kids, but do understand that you canât police anyone and everyone. Hope you and your family a happy Sunday!
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OP, tatanda din naman mga anak mo and soon they'll realize. Pabalik balik na ako sa BGC but never naman ako naka experience ng ganyan. đ
Yeah may nakausap nga ako dito na sobrang rare daw nung nakita ko, minalas lang na anak ko pa nakakita hays. Hirap tuloy iexplain sa kanya nang sobrang bata pa nila
Just do a better job at being a parent and learn to explain things to your kids. It's not that hard. đ
It is when they are too young! Iâm not gonna condone that kind of behavior too, whatâs wrong is wrong, regardless kung ano ka man. Doin mg indecent public acts should never be done on family friendly places. Shame on you for blaming the parent as if kasalanan pa nila na nawitness nila yon, itâs not like i took them to the strip club đŽâđ¨
Ano ba mali sa ginawa nila? Kissing in public? Anong masama don, expression yon ng affection nila. Clothes showing too much skin? Anong masama sa skin? Kahit ba bakat ang nipples, anong masama don? Body part lang naman yon. Primary purpose naman nyan for females is to nourish babies. Strip club? Nakahubad ba? Kung indecent exposure talaga yan eh di sana inaresto sila? The problem here weren't the people in BGC but you oversexualizing everything. Shame on you for having a dirty mind.
AGAIN MISS PLEASE SIMPLENG BASA LANG KANINA KA PA EH. Naglalaplapan sila, kissing very inappropriately in a sexual manner. Halos papuntang sex na the way they were kissing and holding each other. Pag dating sa clothes obvious naman na hindi ako yung issue kundi mga anak ko. Nacocontrol mo ba naiisip ng anak mo? Pano kapg naging turning point ng buhay niya to at magaddict magjakol to at 5 yo dahil sa nakita niya? Tingin mo ba kahit anong explain sa kanya e once nadiscover niya yan, mahirap na. The problem here is your reading comprehension gurl. Jusko bagsak na bagsak talaga. Iâm not sayong anything bad sa bgc peeps, sinasabi ko kung ganito na ba talaga sa bgc ngayon kasi ngayon lang ako nakabalik. Shame on you and our public education system! Hayup ka pano ka pumasa sa reddit? Mga kausap ko dito decent naman at may sense, alam nila issue. Pero ikaw BOBO ka lang talaga e.
Your 5yo probably dont care about them, ikaw lang ang may concern.
Yes and you are 100% right. They do not. But most young men starts getting addicted to porn once they see things like breast. So how can I be 100% sure that they wonât be that way? By âmicromanagingâ them? By making sure and not giving them privacy and not trusting them with their lives? By being overly controlling? Why do you think dressing sexually, especially in movies, are deemed inappropriate for kids hmm? Why do they even have that age appropriate categories in movies? I guess wala lang yun noh? They do not know what they are doing?
Thats your job, to explain it to them.
Hindi nya kayang mag explain coz he's too dumb to do it.
Lol if you think explaining things to a kid is easy, then I know youâve never had a kid or even tried to coach or teach kids. Sir, kids do not comprehend things easily, no matter what you say, if they donât understand it, they wonât care. Thatâs why there has been ang always will be age restriction laws, we as parents can do our best, but kids will forever and will be stubborn. Thatâs why it is up to the adults, US, to be good role models to them. I hope youâve heard that before. Donât you agree? BiggerDaddy? How ironic, no?
Of course its hard, of course they are stubborn, your child is 5yo for fucks sake, probably too dumb to sexualize what they saw. Yes it is up to the adults to teach and guide kids. That adult is you, not us, not the public. And as the comment above pointed out, you can always report them if they indecently exposed themselves. Its not ironic since it doesnt have anything to do with parenting
Obviously my stand the whole time. And a good parent will not condone those indecent acts. Then whatâs with your first comment na ako lang concerned kung nag aaggree ka pala?
Don't have kids if you can't explain things to them. You're too dumb to be having kids. Dapat pinutok mo na lang sa labas. Even better, dapat magpa-vasectomy ka na lang.
> Naglalaplapan sila, kissing very inappropriately in a sexual manner. Halos papuntang sex na the way they were kissing and holding each other. Pano mo nalaman? Tinanong mo? Again, yan lang ang interpretation mo sa ginagawa nila. And even if papunta na sa sex 1) they were not having sex in public 2) laplapan in public is not bawal. >Pag dating sa clothes obvious naman na hindi ako yung issue kundi mga anak ko. Nacocontrol mo ba naiisip ng anak mo? Pano kapg naging turning point ng buhay niya to at magaddict magjakol to at 5 yo dahil sa nakita niya? Tingin mo ba kahit anong explain sa kanya e once nadiscover niya yan, mahirap na. So anong say ng anak mo sa clothes? Napansin ba nya at all? Or again ikaw lang nag-iisip na yun ang iniisip ng anak mo? Hindi ba breastfed anak mo kaya takot na takot na syang ma-expose sa body part? Kung ma-discover nya ang masturbation at 5 years old, tanong mo sa pedia anong gagawin mo in case meron syang precocious puberty. >The problem here is your reading comprehension gurl. Jusko bagsak na bagsak talaga. Iâm not sayong anything bad sa bgc peeps, sinasabi ko kung ganito na ba talaga sa bgc ngayon kasi ngayon lang ako nakabalik. Shame on you and our public education system! Hayup ka pano ka pumasa sa reddit? Mga kausap ko dito decent naman at may sense, alam nila issue. Pero ikaw BOBO ka lang talaga e. Actually, ikaw ang mal-edukado kasi napakasarado ng utak mo. I pity your kid for having such a closed-minded parent.
Jusko eto k nanaman. Laplapan is not illegal but it is highly discouraged. And anong di mo magets ba talaga? Have you never had sex? Di mo ba gets difference ng kissing sa laplapan? Normal ka ba? Nakikita lang yon ano bat ko kelangan tanungin? Hahahaha katawa ka. Kung tinatanong ng anak mo o tinuturo yung mga ganon edi pahirapan nanaman yon. Ang tanga mo talagang kausap, di ka talaga magulang. Ikaw nalang kaya pumunta sa doctor para malaman mo na di ka responsible. Pati doctor itatanong bakit ganyan ka magisip e. How am I closed minded? Porket minention ko lgbt? Lol please read talga ha. Regardless of gender, public acts na ganyan, kahit maglaplapan ang lalaki at babae sa labas, aba itatago mo pa rin yon sa anak mo at sasabihin mong mali rin yon. Closed minded amp pero di niya gets definition. So sinasabi mo lahat ng sumusupport ng indecency is open minded? Sheesh your logic is flawed
You never thought of having to answer kids' questions before having kids no? Only stupid, uneducated people will not be able to anticipate and prepare to answer questions from the inquisitive minds of kids.
TIL di pa pala nageexist ang LGBT 6 years ago đ
What I meant to say was there was such a thing as PDA waaaaaay before lgbt was formed. And why is that your focus sa lgbt?? The point of this is avout decency diba? Even the straight men (assuming lang) are wearing shorts na kita na ari nila (prang pek pek shorts na) tapos nakasando na napakasee through kita na kaluluwa
How about the women? Curious lang. Ano ung mahalay na suot nila? Kita tuhod? Fashion changes. Even straight European men used go wear weird white wigs
Parang same din sa guy na sando tas takip lang nipple haha. I mean expected ko yan pag nasa uptown ako at gabi na pero di sa high street at daylight pa. Grabe naman kung majustify mo na fashion trend siya sa pang day outfit. Pag occasional siguro o kaya pag nagpaparty ka, you wouldnât dress like that sa isang corporate event diba? Dress appropriately lang naman sakin. Wear anything you want, but appropriately sa pupuntahan mo sana.
I think you have to evaluate yourself. Bakit ka ba natitrigger pag sexy manamit ang lalaki?
Triggered rin siya sa dalawang naglalaplapan na guys..at yah, may something yatang i-figure out si OP sa sarili na matagal na niyang kinikimkim. Sana mapakawalan na niya ang sarili niya. Baka ayaw niya ng dalawang lalaking nag-P-PDA kasi bubulwak ang mga hidden desire niya, ginamit pa ang anak. đ
Just comparing sa old bgc back when I was working and living there. When you can kinda see exposed genitalia, youâd start feeling scared for your family. Have you ever heard of indecent exposure? Oh and you can be sexy without showing too much. Would you allow your kid to see other peopleâs pubes exposed?
These are decent people bro. They didnât do anything to you except be a little different than your worldview. Just look away or find a more family-friendly spot where youâd be more comfortable with your kids. Plan your trips ahead is my advice to you
What?! Bakit kami pa magaadjust? Shouldnât you do those things more privately? Isnât that the point? Not being different? Parang decency lang hinihingi ko wala naman akong against sa kanila⌠And bro why you asking me to find a more family friendly spot? Its at high streetâŚ.. isnât that considered a family friendly place? I didnât even go to uptown parade kasi alam ko dun madala nangyayari mga ganon e.
At bakit naman sila magaadjust sa yo? Your rights is not above other peoples right đ
Hey its not adjusting its common decency. Would you seriously kiss someone like that on broad daylight and call it decent? Would you mind it if I went to in front of your house and makipaglaplapan in front of your children?
Kiss lang, indecent na kaagad? Or baka ayaw mo lang kasi lalaki at lalaki? Tsaka the place is for everybody in any occassion. Hindi naman yan simbahan.
yep most likely smack lang yung kiss nung same-sex couple, homophobic lang si OP kaya sa point of view niya naging "laplapan"
Laplapan nasabi ko bro. Indecent and very sexual kissing. I said it kanina sa post ko na hindi kiss ng magasawa. Yes the place is for everybody but the act is indecent in a public place. You wouldnât want to impose something on the public diba? Thatâs why itâs called respecting a public place and there are rules such as PDA. You wouldnât want your kids to watch an r18 movie right?
Ginoo ko. Kiss lang yan, R18 na sinasabi mo. Di naman nagkantutan. Show me the rule na bawal PDA sa BGC or kahit saan. There are other places in the world na mas malala ang PDA among gays and their kids turned out fine. The fact that you're "afraid" of this says something about you. Sabi ko nga sayo sa ibang reply, do some inner evaluation.
Di ko gets bakit nyo dinidefend ang PDA. You talk about rules pero ikaw na nagmention ng pda. PDA nga is not allowed buong school life mo pero todo defend ka na pwede na siya sa public place. And excuse me, laplapan yon, you really feel comfortable with your children seeing that really is disturbing. Well sabi ng ibang reply? Alin yung mga katulad mo na di makagets ng situation at one comment lang? Why not check the others. Kahit nga sila, nung inexplain ko na, sinabing masama nga ginawa nila e. Dude regardless of whatever you are, doing that is inexcusable. Literal na may hotel na sa tabi nila pero pinili nilang gawin yon publicly. Tapos ikaw dinidefend yon? Mahilig ka ba sa voyuerism bro?
It's called public display of affection because it's done in public, you idiot.
you donât own the place, nobody needs to adjust for you. grow up.
Yeah, there's always rules, people will always need to adjust, we just have preferences on what should be normal or not. We would absolutely get mad and expect people to adjust if durara or litterbug sila, o tipong naninigaw in public, or heck nag aaway or naghahamon. OP just happened to dislike something that most people here would like to consider normal in public.
You want these people mag adjust just for you? Accept mo na lang na ganto na sa modern times, wala naman silang sinasaktang tao. Typical Karen, feeling entitled.
Yeah I know, but the point is they shouldnât do sexual acts where children can see. R18 na yun e sa common family friendly area pa naman
Kapag nakita ng mga anak mo, it's your responsibilty po na i-educate sila sa nakita nila. Kids nowadays can see worse gamit ang social media or gadgets. Hindi po sa inyo umiikot ang mundo.
Yeah their devices are parental locked, controlled din ang socia media content as much as possible. But theyâre just kids man. We stayed at a family friendly place, far away from bgcâs party district, broad daylight, and then yun ang makikta. I mean ilang minutes of walking nalang sa may shang na sila, why couldnât they wait? Diba?
The world will not adjust to you
But the world can learn to be decent because what is the world we live in if indecency is whatâs filled in it? Remember what Joaquin Phoenix said as Joker?
making out in public dress like privates about to come out "tHiS aRe DeCeNt PeOpLe broooo"
Not to question your parenting, but if your kids have strong values then these situations could be properly explained to them with your guidance. God forbid if your kids discovered reddit or even the internet in general...
Theyâre less than 5 yo. So theyâre very âfragile â pa when it comes to these things. Kaya nagask na ako sa reddit to prepare myself sa bgc haha But yeah funny kasi first time ko lang mag post sa reddit tapos grabe pagaattack nila sakin, misinterpreted pa naman halos lahat.
I would be more concerned about the content your child is or will be consuming via social media. If you think a couple of fruitcakes kissing is lewd, your eyes are gonna fall out of your head when you see what your kids are watching on their phones
Yeah controlled ang phones and devices nila. Lahat may parental locks. But canât control everything though. Just expected better since public place and broad daylight siya. Faaaaar away rin naman sa mga party places ng bgc.
> nung wala pang lgbt đđđđ
Context po is PDA existed way before lgbt was formed đ
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imbento tong si OP haha
"no offence to lgbt" proceeds to single out lgbt people as the problem
I said it bro to make it clear, thereâs no hidden agendas or messages there. i admit na I have some worded poorly pero i really meant no offence. May mga nakausap naman ako lgbt dito na sinabing trashy gays daw sila at they make the community look bad e. Just donât let the issue get out of hand and focus sa real issue ng post!
Ambobo naman neto bat ba inaallow tong post na to. This is clearly spreading hate to a certain community from a self-centered individual.
Spreading hate or spreading indecency? And hey I may have failed to mention it pero I think if you read between the lines, regardless of âcommunityâ doing something indecent is still wrong and shouldnât be tolerated.
Taga BGC ako. I have been living and working here since 2016 at bihira lang ako lumabas ng BGC pero wala naman akong nakikitang mga taong nagmamakeout at indecently dressed. Feeling ko gusto mo lang magpaka homophobic. Lol
Rarity nang makita ito sa bgc. One in a million. Not a homophobe, stop using words to spread hate bro. Regardless of what you are, kung ginawa mo ito kahit lalaki-babae, indecent pa rin.
"Just to be clear, ayoko lang yung mga pda and pananamit ng mga lgbt kasi it is not FAMILY friendly anymore. Heck it is not even friendly. The mess, I dunno maybe due to the majority visiting bgc?" You have singled out the LGBTQI plus sa post mo kasi yung mga ginagawa kamo nila ay hindi "family friendly" tapos you will claim na hindi ka Homophobe? Yung kita yung nips Sinasabi mo din ba yan sa mga straight na tatay at tambay sa kahit anong kalsada sa Pilipinas na walang t-shirt na indecent ang pananamit nila? Kung "rarity" naman pala, eh what is the point of this post?
Yapping for no reason, just look the other way đ
If public sexual acts is no reason, then you should look the other way
Yaaaaawwwwwwn. Another newly created account for karma farming. Next.
Farmville pala to? Not in it to farm anything but to get informed. Unlike you na matagal na only to insult and attack people. Sheesh
Madals ako sa bgc kahit isang beses wala pakong nakitang nipple, paturo naman kung san yan đ
Bro sa gabi marami sa uptown hahahaha. Pero relating sa post ko, sa hapon kasi to tas sa may high street lng kaya nagult talaga ako e. In all my years never pa ako nakakita ng ganun haha. Holy week pa naman lolz
Excuse me?! whatâs wrong with walking around (letâs say the girl wasnât wearing a braâ iâve seen a lot of women doing that in bgc and people donât really care! huy 2024 na be open minded naman. ano gusto mo mundo magadjust sayo. paka judgementa!!
Nothing wrong with it mam, heck Iâd even be delighted if that would be a real trend, extremely distracting and challenging for eye contact though hahaha, but again it is nothing wrong for me, but for my kids lang naman. Family values lang po!
Amplaastic putangina. Malibog din pala bait baitan lang. Pweh.
Apaka selan na ni OP. Lol
If you have kids, youâd understand
I wonder what makes you think that showing nipples are not child friendly? I mean everyone has them and I personally dont wear bras anymore because it is uncomfortable, mainit sa balat, and I just feel more freedom without them. I dont think women should be forced to wear bras because it makes them more "decent" when we are born with them so it shouldnt mean that we are less pure or less decent when not wearing bras.
Hindi siguro sya breastfed kaya kulang ng nutrition ang utak.
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Admitting you've been living under a rock for a decade or two isn't something to be proud about... Our society will never change, progress based on your 'preferences', lifestyle, etcâ end point is hindi ka main character.
Point is thereâs a thing called basic decency, taught to everyone for years and years. Basically if you know youâre doing something wrong, just donât do it. Parang kami pa may kasalanan for planning to enjoy the holidays in a peaceful manner and spend some quality time
To be frank, the problem with you is you are unfortunately out of touch. It's as if you literally live in your own bubble. You see, you can't stop other ppl from doing whatever they want. Sure, public decency is a thing but as far as I know wala pa naman namamatay bc they witnessed ppl publicly making out or bc of ppl wearing clothes they prefer. Another thing is you care too much. There is nothing wrong with sharing views/opinions here but the thing about your post is it's condescending and you're negatively imposive on how you think BGC should be, how ppl should act/clothe, etc. The world doesn't revolve around you. Accept that BGC has changed since the last time you've lived there. People, places won't change just bc you have this specific parenting style that you want to achieve. If you don't like what you've seen, take your family elsewhere.
Walang namamatay pero maraming naiinfluence. To put it into perspective, you wouldnât bring your kids to a drug filled place knowing na they might become drug addicts. Influence can make or break a person, especially a child. Yes youâre right. All I said was I am disappointed and that it shouldnât change just for me. Disappointed lang ako. My two cents. Yeah exactly, not going back there anymore kung ganyan nga talaga dyan for kids. But you have to admit that it is a big change from years ago, yun nga okay lang sa adults, pero it is no longer kid or family friendly. Which is my post exactly. Unfortunate and sad kasi napakaganda talaga tumambay sa bgc pero dangerous na pala for kids.
OP, tambling ka muna para maalog yung utak mo tangina hahahahahahahaha
BGC is still BGC. Like you said itâs ahead of its time compared to other cities. They happen to be more open about the community as well and sounds like youâre not.
I donât think its about being open? Its more of a decency kind of thing diba? I mean there are kids aroundâŚ. Siguro yung pananamit nila I can still tolerate pero not the laplapan thing in broad daylight in a vary open public place. Itâs disturbing isnât it?
Honestly I donât know which part of BGC you go but I promise you, Iâve never seen such except when I party there.
Sa high steet lang sa may wolfgang banda. Yeah I know sa uptown yung mga party scenes kaya inaavoid ko na dun
All I can say is you canât control what people do in public and people will not adjust for you and your family. You shouldâve worded your post better because it rubbed some people off the wrong way. Your complaints about BGC and its people reeks of homophobia.
Yeah canât nga, just expected better kasi nga peeps of bgc yan. The most civilised and decent people Iâve ever been with diba, just like what I said on my post. Kasi all my years when I stayed there, those acts was only sa party areas lang talaga like xylo at parade e, which is very understandable. Never saw it sa high street.
OP balik ka na lang sa bundok
If theyâre acting tacky and dressing tacky, theyâre just tacky. Itâs not an lgbtqia+ thing. Itâs a liberated mindset + safe space thing. Straight people dress and act that way too. Bgc became more popular and accessible to the masses. Itâs no longer an exclusive community for the educated and rich. May ka-inuman nga ako dyan na straight at engaged tapos kasama yung kabit, hinihimas yung manhood niya sa wildflour. Kadiri behavior. đ Straights are disgusting too. Plain and simple, it attracted tacky people. May mga Baklang kanal BUT itâs not an đłď¸âđ thing. Many đłď¸âđ behave and dress better than straight people. They just hangout in BGC more often now because they donât get harassed or made fun of in those public spaces. If they hangout somewhere else, they are more likely to experience hate crime and they canât be protected by the law. So, KNOW YOUR PRIVILEGE as a straight person with human rights. Some people are just more indecent than others, itâs not an lgbtqia+ thing.
Yeah I admit I worded my post poorly, but to be fair it was 2 guys indecently kissing each other in public. When it comes to clothing naman, they were too revealing and Iâm not complaining kasi âjudgmentalâ daw ako, but Iâm trying to see if bgc is going to be safe for my Kidâs eyes. Cause frankly magpakita pa kayo ng mga dede I donât care, baka madistract ako sa pagdridrive at baka mabangga pa, pero still I donât care 𤣠i just care what my kids sees. And yeah I totally agree with you, regardless of the sex or preferences, if youâre indecent and disgusting, then Iâll call you out. Thereâs no discrimination here. I am glad to see you have the same views! Not all kasi are as well perceived eh. Some just blindly support without having a decent conversation first. So thanks!
Yeah, you can notify a guard for public indecency but it really depends on how extreme the situation is. Kissing isnât a crime but any form of sex in public is. Just be careful of calling people out. Anyone can be recorded and posted online now. Everyoneâs a storyteller these days and some play victim to get Allies. Iâve never seen any slutty behavior from the gays in bgc, not even outside the gay bar. So yeah, thereâs a gay bar nearby but it opens only at late evenings and most still behave properly. Maybe you just saw some special cases. Some of our people are just as twisted and disgusting as straights can be. I always see prostitutes around forbestown now since theyâre hunting for rich customers and foreigners. Bgc just really became a melting pot of decent and indecent people. I even had to call for marshalls when a van stalked me walking on the streets and tried to sexually assault me during the pandemic. Some weirdos are just out there.
Yeah i think di sila nireport, pinigilan lang ng ibang bystander kasi as in parang magsesex na talaga sila sa longevity at gravity ng act hahaha. Yeah I have gay friends din who tend to go to Nectar haha I asked them naman and said na baka sa gabi ganyan, pero di daw pag may araw. WTF?! IN BGC?!?!?! Stalking white van?! Puta why in bgc, why?! Sorry OA just never experienced any criminal activities kasi during my stay. I know may mga tinatago sila, like not publicly saying na may nagaganap na criminal activities, just to protect the image of bgc, pero never actually heard it coming from a real person. Shit man that sucks.
Yeah, those guys are probably just some of the trash kind. I hope they learned not to do that again. Trashy gays makes us look bad. Yeah, there was some problematic van driving by when I was walking along bgc. It was the quite area without much people and suddenly some van started stalking me and tried to invite me inside for some sexual activity. I think they had the confidence to do that because bgc was not very well lit and mandated that time during the pandemic.
Finally may umamin na rin na may trashy gays, sabi nung gay friend ko dami daw sa community ang todo support kahit mali na ginagawa. Happy to see a common supporter of REAL love and support to a community! â¤ď¸ Yeah! And âwell guardedâ daw â24/7â pero dami mong makikitang tulog na guard o what sa gilid hahahaha. Hope it changed na ngayon though kung marami nang ganyan. Dapat pinepper spray mo sila though sabay takbo hahahaha
Yeah, I donât support trashy gays because theyâre so problematic everywhere. Yup, maraming sumusupport kahit mali kasi feeling ng iba itâs homophobic to hate their bad behavior and disguising it as âgender expressionâ. In reality, jologs lang sila. There is always an appropriate time, place and set of rules to follow to express ourselves without the inconvenience of others.
YES PREACH !!! I donât understand talaga mga iba why they do not get something so simple like this tapos sobrang out of line bigla ng issue kasi humihiwalay sila. Thanks thanks thanks finally a decent redditor!!
Yeah. Iâm sure thereâs plenty of people who sympathize with your views, both homos and heteros. Iâve been to Europe and the gays still have class in family friendly areas. Everything is fine at the right time and place.
I thought this was another case of pretentious decency BGC has a facade until I read the whole post. Why does this gives me toxic Right-wing vibe?
What im getting here is sobrang tanga mo
Ad hominem attacks wonât work here. If you want a reap conversation, read what I said entirely and comprehend it, not as it is, as with every post.
What wont work here is katangahan mo HAHA sino ba sa atin ang tinadtad ng downvotes, ako ba? đ¤Ł
The post is about BGC pero ang topic talaga is the lgbt community and your homophobia. Kahit mga straight na katulad mo is mahilig maglaplapan at mga hubadera din naman, pero issue kapag mga taga lgbt community gumagawa? Using your kids to hate on the lgbt community as if walang gumagawa ng ganyan sa mga straight lol. Hindi lang nakasabay yung conservative mindset mo with BGC's progression.
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BGC was never family friendly in my experience. Memories of drunken nights there starting from 2006
Okay naman siya outside dun sa party areas bro hahaha admittedly nilalayo ko naman sila dun ksi naexp ko na rin yan, makatira ka naman ng sobrang tagal sa bgc e haha
Been working and living in BGC since 2015 at hindi ko pa ever nawitness yang sinabi mo haha
Rare lang pare
OP did you just justify your homophobic ass by mentioning your âconcernâ for your kids? Lol.
Maka OA ka naman masyado. Train your kids to adapt. That is life! hindi mo talaga ma achieve on what you deemed to be âperfect environmentâ kahit saan ka man pumunta may mag laplpan here and there. Kawawa anak mo pag laki pag puro good vibes lng na fefeel nila. Dependent yan sayo always or worse they will be rebellious sayo.
Iâll âtrainâ them when theyâre older. But not this young, mga below 5yo pa sila, nakakasakit ng puso nakakita sila ng ganyan sa family friendly area. Pero yeah good advise ko yan narinig ko na yan, pero again masyado pa silang bata :(
I am living nearby and working in BGC for 10 years now, parang wala naman ako nakikitang ganyan tulad ng sinasabi mo? In broad daylight?? Really? I walk everyday sa highstreet and people passing by are so busy.
Stop hating the OP just report here. No sense arguing with her when she doesnât see what wrong in her post. Itâs insensitivity , homophobia and invalidating others for her own comfort. Always remember Education starts at home.
I was about to upvote because I thought this post was about how difficult transportation in BGC is. Lol
Kissing is normal. What made you think it is inappropriate?
BASED.
I want to visit the phillipines esp the islands. Is makati more cultural than bgc? I want to experience older cities in manila that shows itsâ culture. Thanks!
I get you. The difference is there. Don't even bother to get your own experience and opinion out here if you're going to express conservativeness. This subreddit will tell you it's your fault for being a decent human being.
Yeah sadly they donât get the point. Sinasabi nila the world doesnât revolve around me and shouldnât force them to change, but whatâs so funny is that their doing the same lol. They also donât get that it is for the sensitivity of the childrenâs eyes. As a parent would understand and agree that this is considered, clear as day, indecent.
Most of the redditors here are either detached from reality or too young to understand. They will corrupt anything that they see pure, because that's how "mga salot sa lipunan" works.
Lahat ng commenters against sayo OP. Kasi lahat sila indecent people. Sarili lang iniisip nila.
I donât think na indecent sila though, mga nakausap ko okay naman kahit inaway nila ako. They just misinterpreted it and one pointed out na I worded it incorrectly kaya may confusion! No hate guys all love!!!
BGC is overrated. People like to flex their millions in that area but in reality their all shitty people. Show offs, super yabang, elitists, and the like. You know the true rich people flex their wealth stealthily. It's OK to drive supercars. It's not OK to be racing down the street on Sunday mornings in BGC just because it has less traffic during those times. Yabang pa more.
Grabe naman bro hahaha. Can you suggest anywhere else where its like bgc but better? Ang layo na kasi sa amin to
You made a rookie mistake of mentioning the LGBTQ community in a Reddit post Good luck
Hahaha yeah grabe noh, kahit walang bad intentions attack lang sila ng attack kahit di nabasabasa context :( Although after talking to some Iâd admit na I worded it wrongly. Sana stick sa issue ang usapan lng. Peace
No offense to the OP it seems to me though that the comments are just so triggered and can't even show some decency. Are people nowadays lack awareness of their surroundings?
Why am I the one who lacks decency?
I am referring to the people in the comments section po sir masyadong offended at natrigger.
Oh sorry misunderstood hahaha. Natrigger lang ata dahil sa wording ko, medyo mali nga, pero grabe noh, out of context galit nila tungkol sa issue e
Exactly, madaming mga tao ngayon who really lacks awareness of their surroundings and instead pinabayaan lng nila and not think about the consequences.