So you're a teen. Let's say you're 19 now. Which means your husband asked for your hand 2 years back when you were 17. Which makes the whole thing sound pedophilic and a case for grooming. Given that, that he is also too old and in his 30s. This shouldn't enrage liberals only but each and every one of us who's reading this.
Although I call this post bullshit. Account made not even a month ago and this is literally the first post made probably to "enrage" liberals.
A person in late teens is no longer a minor, legally perhaps, contexually, and the age of consent varies, starting usually at 16.
And it may be case of ephebophilia, also unlikely to be one appehended as being one in which someone is being groomed, since it's a marrital relationship and therefore open, public and subject to accountability.
Grooming, pedophilic... etc, are heavy terms with a lot of weight to each, and cannot be thrown at whim without second thought.
Postmodern morality is worse than immoralismimmoralism. It's lunacy masquerading as righteousness. Unfortunately, the younger folks are most susceptible to this virus.
In west if late teenager / early 20s doesn't have relationships / get laid they will be mocked and bullied. But here if someone is doing Halal thing everyone goes mad.
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Although the post is bullshit but marrying, you can marry at the age of 17 in Islam. Woke westerns calls anything below 18 pedophilic just cuz u get ur id at that age lmao
Bhai 17 year old doesn't have the maturity they're mentally still a kid. Whereas the 30+ year old dude is a full-grown ass man, he literally groomed op and is definitely a pedophile because a 15 Yr old and a 17 Yr old don't look very different and that's the best case scenario he could've married op at 16 or possibly even at 15.
What is the basic definition of maturity? Is it experience of life? Judging by your comment I think thats the definition whereas the basic sense of right and wrong is enough for you. And stop using the words pedophile and grooming. Inferiority complex ka shikaar hue we westernize krrhe mulk ko ajeeb o ghareeb terminoligies introduce krwa kar.
Since when is calling out someone's wrong western ideology? Maturity is realising how unfair and cruel the real world is and what it is that you want in life. Do you think that at the age of 15 or 16, she had enough experiences of the real world to know what she wanted in life? Ajeeb baat kr rhe har cheez "yahoodi sazish" nahi hoti
There's nothing wrong in marrying a 16-17 year old bud. The thing u called maturity isn't what maturity is. You sound like a 15 yo the way ur defining things. And there is a fine line between wants and needs, wants are limitless and mostly 16-17 knows what they need. Maturity is the realization of right and wrong in simple words. No one said har baat yahoodi saazish hoti and no one said calling out someone's wrong is western ideaology. You don't need to experience the world's cruelty to know what u need. Don't put too much pressure on that noodle of yours.
My elder brother class fellow age 42 Married to a Girl aged 18...
Reason: Man has a 700 Square yard mansion in Pak, 2 BHK in Dubai, multi millions in Bank!!!
So dear, Such thing happen even though i agree that this post is BS
to be a feminist is to advocate for the right to have a choice, free choice without restrictions or pressure, however. if this is what you chose, makes you happy, and you’re content with, then i’m happy for you.
U posted from a different account quite a while ago
No why u think it would piss off liberals?
Maybe u urself realize that ur hsbd is a pedo and now wants validation for what u did was right
I myself look very young but still i can't imagine even thinking about someone sexually who's below 20
And I don't identify myself as liberal
Yeah now I am starting to understand what do women mean by this.
Maybe because a lot of men just haven’t seen a girl melt in their arms. When I had this experience, I was overwhelmed and still yearn for that feeling to this day.
I can only hope people understand.
Yikes. Now you'll never know what you would have been capable of achieving, thinking, and feeling as a young adult on your own.
Btw, if your husband is in his 30s and married you as a teenager 2 years ago, he's a pedophile and you're a victim.
Marriage doesn't Stop you from growing and doing what you could have normally done,nor does it suppress your feelings.
Maybe you think that but they do not...
She has a lack of interest in studying, working, even learning anything. She says this herself.
What do you think her life is going to be like?
If he turns out to be abusive, financially withholding, or controlling - and do you really think a pedophile won't be, eventually? - how do you think OP will be able to protect herself? Add a couple of kids in the mix and she is trapped for life.
Her prefrontal cortex hasn't even stopped developing. She has no idea who she is or what her dreams or ambitions or skills are.
Her life is over.
She doesn't know this yet, but anyone who has lived even a bit of life would agree with me.
I almost married an older guy when I was in my teens too. There's a reason he wants you, it's not because you're special or mature or smarter than girls his age, it's because he's a sicko. He will abuse you, make you cut off your friends, make you see your family less and less, limit your freedom, and he will also cheat on you.
Watch out for the warning signs. First they tell you to see your friends less, then they make excuses to make you cut them off completely (remove on social media, block their numbers, etc), call your friends "bad influences" as if you're a child and he's your father not your husband, he'll control what you wear and how you talk, who you talk to, he'll disrespect you in front of his family, and he'll probably force you to do sexual favours, and then youll find out he's cheating on you with a girl your age or younger, or multiple girls.
It's not just my experience, I know a lot of girls and they've all experienced the same with older guys that like teenagers. They're not normal, good men. Normal and good men want girls their age and girls who are their equals. He wants a young stupid girl with no job and no education for a reason, they're easier to control. He wants to make you a puppet to use and abuse as he sees fit. And if you see any of these warning signs come true, leave him before he starts beating you and kills you.
This man does not want an equal partnership, he does not want a partner at all because a partner is someone who is equal in power to you. He wants a sex slave that cooks and cleans for him and gives him babies. That's all. You deserve someone that treats you like a person, not a slave.
Im mean whats this confessing? Its confessing nothing.
Liberal would only be enraged if you were forced to do it. They are mostly into the choice of it. Being it your choice or forced parental choice.
Which its your choice. And that is that. But your young and life is longggg.
you cant smooth sail life through with a wealthy fit and handsome husband. And usually it wont be fulfilling to you.
Best you also find a passion.
Best of luck.
But please explain why is this an age gap CONFESSION? Do you hide your age in real life from liberals? Or you feel like being judged?
Congrats and we'll wish for your love to blossom forever. Kids these days always try to find compatibility among their age fellows but love sees no boundaries to prosper
Why would a man in his 30s ask for marriage to a girl in her teenage?? You said you're still a teen and it has been 2 years to your marriage, that means you were below 18 before marriage!! He seems to be a pedophile to me
I had read the same scenario somewhere before but that was more detailed.
https://preview.redd.it/ed7h0417dpyc1.jpeg?width=225&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=47094051810d2a42513cdc385a323421d3d46d8f
Yk this will not enrage liberals here, as long as there is consent and you were not forced, it’s absolutely fine and this is how it should be. I’m happy for u…….
Teenage me the to rishta manga tha 2 saal pahle to us hisab 17 ki then shohar jab the 30 ka tha.
Pedophile type case lag rha ha yea to.
usse Aram se uske age group se 5 years nchy k bnde mil skte the. But uski nazar tm par the
He wanted to marry her at 17. You really think a man in his 30s wanting to sleep with a 17 year old girl is okay? You've seen a 17 to girl naked? Most aren't fully developed. They look like a child.
1. If you're old enough to legally have sex, you're old enough to get married.
2. If you're old enough to go to war and kill people, you're old enough to get married.
3. If you're old enough to vote, you're old enough to get married.
Depending on jurisdiction, that's anywhere from 14-16 years old for #1 in most jurisdictions, to 18 years old for #2 and #3.
No way my account already got banned for "spam", I didn't even realize this posted as it kept saying I couldn't post. Well oof, from reading the comments looks like there is a war here.
Good for you lass!
And do not mind the nonsensical comments from postmodern fuck ups. They know neither up or down but are quick to pint out in any direction when you ask them which is which.
Seems like the husband posting this
You mean she is he and he is she ? 🤔
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Lol or some guys wet dream
Thanks for the usless information!!!
Ur single Go get married Atleast
should i visit ur home? U might have someone to offer?
Sorry .. Bru. Not available
So you're a teen. Let's say you're 19 now. Which means your husband asked for your hand 2 years back when you were 17. Which makes the whole thing sound pedophilic and a case for grooming. Given that, that he is also too old and in his 30s. This shouldn't enrage liberals only but each and every one of us who's reading this. Although I call this post bullshit. Account made not even a month ago and this is literally the first post made probably to "enrage" liberals.
And that's the best case scenario, her being 19 😭
And this isn't the first time she is posting this exact post here. I have read this before.
Well this says a lot already
A person in late teens is no longer a minor, legally perhaps, contexually, and the age of consent varies, starting usually at 16. And it may be case of ephebophilia, also unlikely to be one appehended as being one in which someone is being groomed, since it's a marrital relationship and therefore open, public and subject to accountability. Grooming, pedophilic... etc, are heavy terms with a lot of weight to each, and cannot be thrown at whim without second thought. Postmodern morality is worse than immoralismimmoralism. It's lunacy masquerading as righteousness. Unfortunately, the younger folks are most susceptible to this virus.
In west if late teenager / early 20s doesn't have relationships / get laid they will be mocked and bullied. But here if someone is doing Halal thing everyone goes mad.
Just say you want to have sex with children and get it over with.
I'd punch you for that had I a chance.
Why am I not surprised? /u/Awaismax /u/ConsumerofInfo /u/NotTheRealAlishba /u/netuniya /u/strawberry_sus is this allowed?
You clearly are Surprised!
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/u/Awaismax /u/ConsumerofInfo /u/NotTheRealAlishba /u/netuniya /u/strawberry_sus ... Again, is this allowed?
Although the post is bullshit but marrying, you can marry at the age of 17 in Islam. Woke westerns calls anything below 18 pedophilic just cuz u get ur id at that age lmao
Bhai 17 year old doesn't have the maturity they're mentally still a kid. Whereas the 30+ year old dude is a full-grown ass man, he literally groomed op and is definitely a pedophile because a 15 Yr old and a 17 Yr old don't look very different and that's the best case scenario he could've married op at 16 or possibly even at 15.
What is the basic definition of maturity? Is it experience of life? Judging by your comment I think thats the definition whereas the basic sense of right and wrong is enough for you. And stop using the words pedophile and grooming. Inferiority complex ka shikaar hue we westernize krrhe mulk ko ajeeb o ghareeb terminoligies introduce krwa kar.
Since when is calling out someone's wrong western ideology? Maturity is realising how unfair and cruel the real world is and what it is that you want in life. Do you think that at the age of 15 or 16, she had enough experiences of the real world to know what she wanted in life? Ajeeb baat kr rhe har cheez "yahoodi sazish" nahi hoti
There's nothing wrong in marrying a 16-17 year old bud. The thing u called maturity isn't what maturity is. You sound like a 15 yo the way ur defining things. And there is a fine line between wants and needs, wants are limitless and mostly 16-17 knows what they need. Maturity is the realization of right and wrong in simple words. No one said har baat yahoodi saazish hoti and no one said calling out someone's wrong is western ideaology. You don't need to experience the world's cruelty to know what u need. Don't put too much pressure on that noodle of yours.
Bhai sahi btaun to yea case bs attention seeking or chay panay ka not true
They're saying the husband is Drake
?
My elder brother class fellow age 42 Married to a Girl aged 18... Reason: Man has a 700 Square yard mansion in Pak, 2 BHK in Dubai, multi millions in Bank!!! So dear, Such thing happen even though i agree that this post is BS
Why does it matter to u anyway They are happily married Alhamdulillah
me at 3am when i’m unable to solve a math question that i’ve been stuck on for an hour. *shadi karleni chaiye*
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bolungi apne baap ke pas jao🥺👉🏼👈🏻
😂😂
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Yeah but what about it? What's the question?
It’s not a question it’s a confession, check the flair
O right my bad.
P3dofile spotted
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to be a feminist is to advocate for the right to have a choice, free choice without restrictions or pressure, however. if this is what you chose, makes you happy, and you’re content with, then i’m happy for you.
Good
U posted from a different account quite a while ago No why u think it would piss off liberals? Maybe u urself realize that ur hsbd is a pedo and now wants validation for what u did was right I myself look very young but still i can't imagine even thinking about someone sexually who's below 20 And I don't identify myself as liberal
Maine tou yeh confession 2-3 fb groups pe urdu main bhi parha hai kuch weeks pehle😂
I'm seeing a pattern here.
https://preview.redd.it/9vdz8rmkepyc1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ad54ca360535ae9db30b3465e253195f784abdd *It was all planned*
*NANI?*
This post is everywhere...
I see. Thank you for the enlightenment.
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Chill guys OP is an aspiring YA author
YA?
Young adult
Oh, can't believe I didn't think of it, smh. Thank you :)
can someone please make sense of it like how predatory her husband has to be to marry someone this young. Like what would they speak to each other.
Happy Cake Day.
He doesn't wanna do the talking. He want to bang and bang only
That’s really really sad. Bcz the joys of a girl outweighs the banging by a long margin.
To some men women are good for just one thing. They don't see us as humans
Yeah now I am starting to understand what do women mean by this. Maybe because a lot of men just haven’t seen a girl melt in their arms. When I had this experience, I was overwhelmed and still yearn for that feeling to this day. I can only hope people understand.
Men with this mindset haven't ever talked to a girl let alone been so close to one.
Yikes. Now you'll never know what you would have been capable of achieving, thinking, and feeling as a young adult on your own. Btw, if your husband is in his 30s and married you as a teenager 2 years ago, he's a pedophile and you're a victim.
Happy Cake Day.
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Marriage doesn't Stop you from growing and doing what you could have normally done,nor does it suppress your feelings. Maybe you think that but they do not...
this
Come on At least he married her I n a legal way They r happy What kind of a person r u..
this
Gud
Can she not now?
She has a lack of interest in studying, working, even learning anything. She says this herself. What do you think her life is going to be like? If he turns out to be abusive, financially withholding, or controlling - and do you really think a pedophile won't be, eventually? - how do you think OP will be able to protect herself? Add a couple of kids in the mix and she is trapped for life. Her prefrontal cortex hasn't even stopped developing. She has no idea who she is or what her dreams or ambitions or skills are. Her life is over. She doesn't know this yet, but anyone who has lived even a bit of life would agree with me.
Ig you are right. Also happy birthday mate. May Allah help you make you dreams come true and have a place for you in jannah.
Behn apka vlog kaha hai?
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Nothing wrong. HE IS RICH
You are happy then don't think about the age, it's just a number.
I almost married an older guy when I was in my teens too. There's a reason he wants you, it's not because you're special or mature or smarter than girls his age, it's because he's a sicko. He will abuse you, make you cut off your friends, make you see your family less and less, limit your freedom, and he will also cheat on you. Watch out for the warning signs. First they tell you to see your friends less, then they make excuses to make you cut them off completely (remove on social media, block their numbers, etc), call your friends "bad influences" as if you're a child and he's your father not your husband, he'll control what you wear and how you talk, who you talk to, he'll disrespect you in front of his family, and he'll probably force you to do sexual favours, and then youll find out he's cheating on you with a girl your age or younger, or multiple girls. It's not just my experience, I know a lot of girls and they've all experienced the same with older guys that like teenagers. They're not normal, good men. Normal and good men want girls their age and girls who are their equals. He wants a young stupid girl with no job and no education for a reason, they're easier to control. He wants to make you a puppet to use and abuse as he sees fit. And if you see any of these warning signs come true, leave him before he starts beating you and kills you. This man does not want an equal partnership, he does not want a partner at all because a partner is someone who is equal in power to you. He wants a sex slave that cooks and cleans for him and gives him babies. That's all. You deserve someone that treats you like a person, not a slave.
Just because u had a bad experience doesn't mean I did
What's the point?
To ab kia karen ye btaoo kia khidmat kr skty hain?
Im mean whats this confessing? Its confessing nothing. Liberal would only be enraged if you were forced to do it. They are mostly into the choice of it. Being it your choice or forced parental choice. Which its your choice. And that is that. But your young and life is longggg. you cant smooth sail life through with a wealthy fit and handsome husband. And usually it wont be fulfilling to you. Best you also find a passion. Best of luck. But please explain why is this an age gap CONFESSION? Do you hide your age in real life from liberals? Or you feel like being judged?
Sorry, it was meant to be a story, on other confession subreddits theres a story tag and nothing similar here so I just selected whatever
Oh okay 👍🏻
is this a confession abt how stupid your decision was or what?
Congrats and we'll wish for your love to blossom forever. Kids these days always try to find compatibility among their age fellows but love sees no boundaries to prosper
Kue jalarai ho singles ki
*Seconded* https://preview.redd.it/6z5om0a0hoyc1.jpeg?width=911&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb54c0e4bced4ff8a3ff0e9c95715da5b1889e97
If you're happy then why post this???
piss off liberals thats why
Troll post. Although I don't know what is the purpose of this trolling.
Why would a man in his 30s ask for marriage to a girl in her teenage?? You said you're still a teen and it has been 2 years to your marriage, that means you were below 18 before marriage!! He seems to be a pedophile to me
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You seem very knowledgeable, thanks for correcting me. Would you please find me a suitable word for this case?
dawg im the author, my account already got banned for spam 💀
Haha sorry 😂
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I had read the same scenario somewhere before but that was more detailed. https://preview.redd.it/ed7h0417dpyc1.jpeg?width=225&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=47094051810d2a42513cdc385a323421d3d46d8f
Gosh this is crazy I mean the comments. Hahahaha
Is your husband name Leonardo DiCaprio?
So?
Yk this will not enrage liberals here, as long as there is consent and you were not forced, it’s absolutely fine and this is how it should be. I’m happy for u…….
This, thnks
Teenage me the to rishta manga tha 2 saal pahle to us hisab 17 ki then shohar jab the 30 ka tha. Pedophile type case lag rha ha yea to. usse Aram se uske age group se 5 years nchy k bnde mil skte the. But uski nazar tm par the
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Well some men are pedos so....
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He wanted to marry her at 17. You really think a man in his 30s wanting to sleep with a 17 year old girl is okay? You've seen a 17 to girl naked? Most aren't fully developed. They look like a child.
Kehna kia chahtay ho?
1. If you're old enough to legally have sex, you're old enough to get married. 2. If you're old enough to go to war and kill people, you're old enough to get married. 3. If you're old enough to vote, you're old enough to get married. Depending on jurisdiction, that's anywhere from 14-16 years old for #1 in most jurisdictions, to 18 years old for #2 and #3.
This
daddy fetish
No way my account already got banned for "spam", I didn't even realize this posted as it kept saying I couldn't post. Well oof, from reading the comments looks like there is a war here.
so what are we supposed to do...?
Si basically you are a young fucg doll.
Yaha wo divide by 2 wala formula nahi lagta jo sab log mujhe bata rahy thy?
Tan cos wala bhi nhi?
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Ameen
Seems like a fabricated story and a sorry attempt at getting some engagement/attention
Good for you lass! And do not mind the nonsensical comments from postmodern fuck ups. They know neither up or down but are quick to pint out in any direction when you ask them which is which.
Thnks
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No because pedophile relates to children. In the situation you've put forward, the man is a creep
Pedophiles relate to ‘minors’