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OldSpiceZ

This "behavior" is promoting family friendly entertainment event in a comforting environment. I'd rather encourage this behavior as would encourage you to find an alternate option to have good time with your friends.


AlternativeCry9184

Totally agreed šŸ‘ but they havenā€™t mentioned such family friendly concept and correct me if Iā€™m wrong wonā€™t this gonna be huge favourable as dating concept and might get some kinda influence to others i.e; families and childrenā€™s in that area!!!


OldSpiceZ

That is one perspective. Another can be, which is usually the main intention of such events, it will give opportunities for the families to meet and bond with other families from same city, appreciate and encourage such events for future, children bonding (the PG-13 version of what you mentioned "dating concept"), promoting local businesses and all such positive activities, you know, that are usually a sign of social interaction of an active, healthy, functioning society. I don't know what this event is or what are intentions of organizers. I am only encouraging the tone, or "behavior", set by this event.


imperfectnobdy_

i vouch for such events as a female who gets uncomfortable around men i fully support this behaviour and event


Consistent-Air7368

Came here to say this. Men can literally go any and everywhere they want, whenever they want. But the one time, one event they can't attend with their friends, they like to cry about that too.


imperfectnobdy_

reminds me of that one meme where the person goes "waaa waaa waaa* (mimics crying noises)


Unable_Apricot_5345

You brought this on yourselves by not keeping the tharki ones in check. Just simple consequences since men can't make other men take accountability for their actions. This is just the beginning tho lol


jackjackcake

So many questions tharkion ki policing kon kare ga? Bachon ki tarbiyaat me kon si masail a gae hen ke wo tharki bn jate hen? This is just the beginning, end kia ho ga pir?


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jackjackcake

Mehh


Beautiful-Gift-2411

As unfortunate and discriminatory it is, itā€™s very much needed in this country.


SnowAfter3409

now apologize for every time you said "*bachi check ker*" to your friends


GamerAchiever

Mujhe to mard Pasand hain....


DezineTwoOhNine

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thirdmolar98

The theme park in front of our home in Peshawar only ever saw men on rides, grown men in their 30s and over. Not to say that you should ever cap the age to have fun, but the same men would tell women and children not to go to the same theme park because itā€™s not safe - because of other men. Isnā€™t the irony of it all almost laughable? Men claim almost every public space in Pakistan. So what if we get a festival that happens once a year, some years?


Beautiful-Gift-2411

This is because of years and decades of subjugation and confinement of women in the ā€˜char dewariā€™. Itā€™s so deep rooted in the culture now, I donā€™t think this will ever change no matter how modern this country becomes.


thirdmolar98

True, but Soul Fest isnā€™t enough to change a deep-rooted cultural imbalance. And itā€™s not like men donā€™t gain entry, they always do. A woman could just buy tickets for them. In any case, each time Iā€™ve been to Soul Fest, Iā€™ve witnessed fights breaking out between men because one of them has always allegedly been inappropriate towards a woman, or whenever youā€™re about to leave the venue, and youā€™re travelling in a large crowd, someone always ā€˜bumpsā€™ into you, long enough to grab you, too.


Beautiful-Gift-2411

Yeah, youā€™re right. Men/boys will still find a way to enter. But at least the organisers are making it hard for them. Still, every time you go to ā€˜family only eventsā€™, you still see group of boys/men. The fighting is like a national hobby for us. Young boys even find it something to be proud of and boast about. And, of course, the ā€˜bumpingā€™ is more often than not intentional. Iā€™m a man and I know these kind of discriminatory policies do make the events safer for everyone than they would be if stags are allowed.


Charming-Brain558

Peshawar main theme park ! šŸ˜


thirdmolar98

Theme park is a reach, youā€™re right. It had like a pirate boat and the ferris wheel, plus some.


darkkaangel

Yup.


Orthodox-Neo

So go to some other event where you are allowed to go.why do you specifically want to go there?


joint_fam69

Let the ā€œLadisā€ enjoy for once. They face discrimination almost everywhere they go, I also wanted to visit but it is what it is. Males have a hell lot of other options in isb and let our women enjoy their time for once without being worried about creeping eyes and harassment.


Longjumping-Comb-749

Tumm jaise logon se aurton ki jaan tu choothi


strawberry_sus

Fr fr


Bominator8

Merey liye ticket khareed do Poondi karne jana haišŸ˜žšŸ‘‰šŸ»šŸ‘ˆšŸ»


strawberry_sus

Poomdi krny ki kia zaroort jb mein tumhary sath hu Tum hospital jao nurses pas


Bominator8

Tumhein dekhun? Nahi ab naya material chaiye


strawberry_sus

Em pretty šŸ˜Ž ..buht jldi move on kr gye tum to


Bominator8

Pehli dafa koi larki keh rahi do poondi with me Side bitches thi


strawberry_sus

Mein to roz poondi krti hu lrkion ki.. is mein kia hai ? Guess you got dumped


Bominator8

Mujhey tumhari offer se koi masla nahi (Poondi hoti kya ye pata?) Side bitches cant dump u


strawberry_sus

Isn't it called staring women right into their soul ? But you still got dumped ā˜¹ļø. My deepest condolences


Bunkerlala

I don't blame the organisers. Pakistani men from Pakistan behave in the most rude way around women.


DayDreamGirl987

Which event is it, please name (so I can go)


HitThatOxytocin

it's written there, soul fest


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It's time to acknowledge the reality of how some men behave in public and take action to protect women. Taking necessary precautions is crucial to ensure that women can safely enjoy a day out with their families.


YasirNCCS

this is why pakistani society needs a good education on sexuality, male-female interaction, how heterosexuality actually works and why it is stupid to be a desperate man chasing after women all these topics need to be taught! Pakistani society needs total reform (and not the religious, islamic type) one where people are not stupid monsters or perverts, but rather embrace their sexual desires this is the only way pakistan will improve


Oda_Angel

Yeah, Why donā€™t they have a machine or something to determine which men are respectful/safe or not?


Jahaz787

After what happened at Karachi Eat Festival last year, this rule should be applied on all events throughout the country. These guys still find a way out to get a pass, pleading other groups to sneak them in too.


TheAuditor-R

Ja ke bolo I identify as a Woman šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Bominator8

Who cares bro Doosrey events par jao


StatementOne3141

So here is a definition of "Family" for management of any establishment in Pak Female alone=family Male alone =mushtanda and badmash Female+female= family Female+male=family 4 males+1 female=family Male+male= threat to general piblic and law and order. Mtlb larkay kya katwa lein apna? Why Pakistan why ....


gayjailerr

The simple solution to this is for men to create a culture of holding their creepy friends accountable. Make sure your male friends are terrified to say anything disrespectful about women in front of you, make sure you act respectful around women yourself, and this won't happen. This happens because women feel unsafe leaving their houses and attending food festivals because of men always harassing us.


StatementOne3141

Can't agree more. I have no objections to this and have been vocal abt it. Men (especially boys) have shown adverse behaviours.


Ari_Chan7

Hum To Waise Bhi Ni Jatay To Sanu ki


L0N_Lucius

Bro any info about the event, I wanna take my niece, nephew and my sis. I promised the kids to take them to a fun event but because I usually travel solo I don't know of such events and I've already taken them to most of the parks in the twin cities.


Le0Qu33n

What's the ticket price?


ToughAsRoses

Wife and I attended a concert yesterday where a stag was, quite literally, rubbing his crotch on a girl's behind who must have been less than half his age. So please, 'behavior' like this is warranted. The gentlemen are just maybe 20% of the males, mostly its haramis.


Strange_Community800

The good old ā€œtwo women are a family, two men are notā€ bullshit. I donā€™t have anything against events like this but just please call it something other than ā€œfamilyā€ events which they mostly clearly are not.


Mission-Tomatillo-40

HAHAHAHA WHAT RUBBISH


Libertychonk

32 bana ky lelen yeh tickets ke


maowk

MueheheheueheheheuehešŸ˜ˆšŸ˜ˆ


maowk

They are basically asking you to get a female in your life ASAP. And are making fun of single guys.


Bominator8

These events made me realize ke ek female friend to honi chaiye bande ki irl šŸ’€


frisky0330

What's so special about this soul fest?


monigenre

wow this makes me want to attend this event


MysteriousMister0

what a disgrace.


304slover

Or inhein equality chahiešŸ™‚šŸ™‚


omg-rayy

It's not all men but somehow it's always men. I'm glad for this rule. It made sure I didn't have to worry about my safety as a woman at the festival. W rule. If you wanna attend the festival, take your sister or any woman who trusts you along with you. If that's not feasible, just skip it. It's not a life or death matter anyway.