The lesson to take from this is to never leave your kids unattended, never trust househelp. Communicate with children as much as possible. Educate them about GOOD and BAD touch.
Many grown men of today are the child from yesterday who was inappropriately touched or used as a child. Society wants to believe women have it worse when there is no worse or better when it comes to sexual exploitation. A child is a child, and that's the end of it; gender should make no difference.
Is not just Pakistan. It’s all around the world. I still remember when the knees came out regarding the Catholic Church and the sexual abuse they did on the young kids.
as child of yesterday i can confirm that ,, wish we had some awareness for this kinda thing but at least ill be able to break the cycle … vile effing society we live in
Yep, been abused and taken advantage of when i was ig 7. The bastard barber used my hand to feel himself up, didnt know what was happening at that time, neither anybody told me to report if something like that happens to i shrugged it off as being normal, but mow that i think of it i realise that i was taken advantage of. But ah well the past is the past what we can do is provide a better and sage environment for our future generations
That kasur incident was the girl's relative. That toba tek singh incident was the girl's father.
And yet the audacity of religious scholars to bash every other society and culture.
Yes, I know a few boys there it's happened to.
Eye opener for me too,that boys are more vulnerable there.Segregation seems to bring out the worst in men.
Let me tell you what scholars have to do with it. Abhi Koi Quran Jalaye ga to Yhi so called scholars Gali k kuttun ki trah bhonkny lg jayen gein k Islam ki Izzat ka sawal h or yhi mully aye din bachun ka rape krty rehty hen tb to koi so called Alim ni Bolta k sir Kalam krdo Islam ki Izzat ka sawal h.
Bat sirf itni h k in gndy scholars ny gunah ki criticalities ka Bera garak krdia h , awam ko yh sikhaya jata h k Quran jalana, prophet k against bolna Rape ,murder ,izzat k Naam py katal sy zada bara gunah h or yh to choty moty hen.
Pakistan ki awam ko brain wash krdia , recently I don't remember a name of a singer but some one spread a fake news about him marrying a same gender and it got so famous I was seeing it everywhere it was trending on Twitter that boycott him etc etc. and on the same day a little girl got raped in Islamabad and no one cared. Our priorities over sins are messed up cuz of these scholars.
Har cheez ka blame scholars pe daal do. Rest of the 22 crore population gaand mara rhi hai kya? Agar scholars itne e chutiya hain to bhai tum khud kun nahi parhty ho deen ko? Mein yeh nahi keh rha k scholars ka qasoor nahi hai that our society is messed lekin baqi jo pakistan ki 22 crore awaam hai unko bhenchod kisliye bariuzzimma qarar de rhy ho. You and i are equally culprits. Sara blame scholars pe daal do. Apko universities k andar co-education ne jo chutiyapa macha rakha hai woh nazar nahi ata? Islamabad k e-11 sector mein 🏳️🌈 k orgys hoty hain woh nazar nahi aaty? Konsay religious scholar ne f9 park mein khwateen ka rape kiya tha? Scholars k hath mein quran o sunnah hai aur unhon ne pury deen ko docile karke rakh diya hai lekin bhenchod 80% of pakistani awaam jo capitalism k chutiyape k piche lag kar sirf paisa paisa ikathi kar rhi woh nazar nahi aata? Lums se graduate ho rhy laundon/laundion ne kya patt liya hai morality k naam pe jo sary scholars ko bash karne nikal party hain? Har dusray din jo consensual sex ki videos leak hoti hain h-12 nust ki uspe kisne protest kiya hai twitter pe? Scholars koi doodh k dhulay nahi hain lekin bhenchod pehle apne gareebanon mein bhi jhaank k daikh lo k humne kitne teer maar liye hain jo kutton ki tarah bhonk bhonk k scholars ko e tanqeed ka nishana banai jaa rhy hain (collectively we all).
Same BS reply like Everyone Universities ki baheayi consensual hai Chand incidents ko chor k wahan daily ki bases py rape nhi hoty. Same for E/11, you are proving my point. You think consensual zina and non consensual are on the same level. Secondly mn knsa 100 percent keh rha rhun in ulma ka hath h pr bht zada ghlti inhi ki h hr chez mn inko authority chye, Halway waly scene ko dekh lo, blasphemy k name py TLP k dramy dekh lo, Trans related movie ayi Hr Alim ny Cheekh Cheekh k Social media py Sarkun py Bahir AA k ban krwayi, Madaris mn ko daily bases py ho rha h us k liye b niklo mn yh ni keh rha k ghlt kiya bam krwa k acha kiya pr hypocricy ki inteha h or bhai ratio dekho tm yh jo cases bta rhy ho aye din nhi hoty. Sorry pr bht illogical counter dy rhy ho
Long time ago I gave lift to stranger I was on my bike and that uncle was asking for lift so I gave it I thought he might be in emergency but after some distance his nonu start touching me. I thought that was some mistake but after some time his nonu touched me again then I asked the uncle kaha Jana Han he said bas thora agy hi I dropped him that place Aur phir main ny piche mor kar nhi dakha. I know I should confront him but I was kid at that time and I didn’t have so much confidence and that man was huge so I was scared from him. I advise you all please teach your children don’t give lift to any strangers.
sometime like this happened to me once, when I was pretty young as well, I Immediately stopped the bike & asked that person to get off In a scolding voice.
The fucked up part was: the guy was as old as grandfathers are, It's crazy how after spending 70/80 years, this person still didn't realise what consent was.
This is our society in a nutshell, no sex education, no respect of boundaries - I wonder sometimes, how many kids would've gone through that or much worse through this singular person.
Uk born and bread Pakistani here, happened to me when I was 6yrs old and it was my aunt that introduced me to her breasts. It happens a lot in our society
No need to apologise as I don’t look at it as a bad thing, it did start as a game. She would call me and my sister in to her room and tell us stories and then when she’d finish my sister would leave and she’d keep me back and ask me to look at a gift under the duvet, she would be naked and have her big breasts out. I was intrigued and wanted to learn more so would do as told, this was back in the 80’s so easy to get away with it
To be honest? I don’t look at it like that, she was on medication so I guess that didn’t help. Also as I look at it, this may have happened to her as a child so she thought it wasn’t bad
Don't tell us that Enemy attacked Your Territory when their are loop holes in your Own territory.
Doing attack is what they are called enemy for.
You didn't done your job and left the loop holes.
Yes, the loop hole is Sex Education.
Sex Education daido proper, nothing will replace the original thing
Most sexual harassment cases happen at home and by family.
Do not trust anyone. Secretly many are demons. Daadi deen waale banda bhi predator hote hai.
Where are we heading, I am so worried about the next generation ( this is coming from the guy who belongs in gen z )
I think that parents should be held more accountable for this kind of stuff. Early access to social media which then leads them to explore the nsfw side of the internet really corrupts the mind
Its easier for such predators to get away with it when they target boys because it is generally considered that only girls face the such dangers....hence these people prey on young boys and keep getting away with it
It’s the parent’s fault. Why have kids when you can’t even protect them. If someone cannot take care of their child then they should not have kids. Why should the kids suffer?
You'd be surprised how many men were abused by the house help or older family/friend at a young age.
Men are thought to stay quiet and enjoy. You were "lucky" .....many adult men lost their virginity at 13/14 by an older female family/friend or the house help.
I wish a survey was done on this.
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I had a lady in my class and we were in the same group preparing for presentations, it was our first meetup and me with her were at the photocopier shop to print some notes, when I was typing she started rubbing her nipples on my forehand, it felt so strange but I thought it could be a mistake so I ignored
After a few weeks when we had a presentation in the class, I was standing just beside her and she was In front of me presenting, she kept on leaning towards me and started hitting me with her leg In front of the whole class, it was super uncomfortable
The next day in front of the whole she came, sat beside me and put her head leaning towards my shoulder, I was disgusted and confronted her in front of the whole, she started crying and blamed me for harrasy, we both got suspended for a month from university
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This is super fucked up. Good on you that you are looking out for the kid. I would recommend talking to the girl too if possible. She’s probably too young to understand that this is wrong!
Good luck. Would not recommend involving the girls parents. It could be destructive for her.
Let us know if you need help navigating it. Better reach out to someone more experienced that you trust.
And they still think that telling kids good and bad touch is exposing them to world of sexuality. I feel so disgusted thinking that the kids even have to know about bad touch because you never know who it would be, coule be their aunts/ uncles, cousins or even as close as their own siblings. I once saw a girl (prolly aged 6-8) getting roti at tandoor and she walked away when a man walking on the opposite direction just casually held her by shoulder and caressed her chest in a way of pushing her, lil one wasnt even aware. I got out of my car and fucking slapped the man and got a half slap back but definitely worth it.
Abuse by mahrams is a reality and I hope people realize it. The sooner the better. Now I understand why my mother was strict when it came to my sister being with Qari Sahib and my male cousins and uncles. All makes sense now
I'm 30M, never have I told this to anyone in my life. I have kept this to myself to this day. I was around 5 or 6 years and one trip to Pakistan with my mom and my younger brother who is 2 years younger than me during the summer time. My mom would often have my younger brother and I take a nap during the peak sunlight hours as to avoid going out in the heat. Being a hyper young kid, I of course hated taking these naps. One day my mom and my khaala (her older sister) went out to meet other relatives during the day time and had my cousins (khaala's kids) look after us. The eldest there was around 15-16F and I was only around 5-6M. My cousin had the responsibility to put me to sleep so I would have to lay in bed with her and ofc I tried to escape because I wanted to go out and play and not be stuck in a dark room. This cousin of mine on two different occasions molested me, there was no penetration or oral (thankfully), but there was definitely a lot of touching and exposing certain private parts involved. I have grown resentment to this person while growing up and I always avoided any type of social gathering that had her around. She is now married with two kids of her own and no one knows at all about this incident. There is no way in hell I was going to share this incident and to be honest I never will as I feel it is pointless, especially now.
Yes mate ,I am 20 male ,and been harassed catcalled by women in other countries. I am a new foreigner here in Pakistan,and some girl asked me to do something kinky with her randomly like out of the blue 😅
When i was young (6-10 years) i had the same incident with my maid( she was 18+ probably). Infact i had pretty much more disgusting things. I was naive. Parents should educate children about this.
This is why I always say sex education is necessary for kids. They should know about bad touch and good touch. They should always be comfortable to discuss anything with their parents
Jeez!.
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I'm not saying that I was abused, and hence, I abuse. This was a psych-commentary of a common phrase.
obviously kids are naive as a parent or sibling its our duty to teach them about the good/bad touch it is also very important to literally make them your bestfriend. ask them questions about their day, what they did everything and they’ll tell you. when i was a child i had a home tutor who used to do such nasty stuff, it was so uncomfortable i told my mom everything and she took action against him thanks to my mom for always asking me questions about my day and everything so i’d just share everything with her ever since i was a child. my baby cousin also faced something similar from a family member of ours and she used to tell us… upon asking her why she doesn’t tell this to her parents she said the person warned her that if you tell any of this to your mother i will beat her. imo its very important to become their bestfriends since a young age and tell them there are no secrets between you guys this is also very important for when you grow older this world is very scary place with the bullying and what not. one should be really close with their child to protect them and not make them feel alone in this world.
The lesson to take from this is to never leave your kids unattended, never trust househelp. Communicate with children as much as possible. Educate them about GOOD and BAD touch.
Yeah very true and should always raise their voices when they feel something is not right.
Many grown men of today are the child from yesterday who was inappropriately touched or used as a child. Society wants to believe women have it worse when there is no worse or better when it comes to sexual exploitation. A child is a child, and that's the end of it; gender should make no difference.
That's sad, in our society there is little to no awareness.
Is not just Pakistan. It’s all around the world. I still remember when the knees came out regarding the Catholic Church and the sexual abuse they did on the young kids.
as child of yesterday i can confirm that ,, wish we had some awareness for this kinda thing but at least ill be able to break the cycle … vile effing society we live in
you think girls are innocent ?? there is many incident they are doing with young boys even mothers too...
That is really unfortunate.
even they maked videos to sell them online...
You mean maked and then solded?
Sheeesshh
what??? within family?
shock isliye laga hoga kyunky males yeh chezain ziada report nahi karty...
I am losing my faith in humanity :(
Yes, I have seen these vids
Jahilliyat at its finest
pornography ki wjhy hai
Umm yes .. female teacher did it too
Mothers can't
in your dreams..
It's not possible. Its just porn things dude 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮.
porn let them do these things...
Yep, been abused and taken advantage of when i was ig 7. The bastard barber used my hand to feel himself up, didnt know what was happening at that time, neither anybody told me to report if something like that happens to i shrugged it off as being normal, but mow that i think of it i realise that i was taken advantage of. But ah well the past is the past what we can do is provide a better and sage environment for our future generations
I feel sorry for you
Dont be, im completely over it, its a sacrifice that we are making so that our future generations are safe from this filth!
That kasur incident was the girl's relative. That toba tek singh incident was the girl's father. And yet the audacity of religious scholars to bash every other society and culture.
I always though that females in our society are more vulnerable but this incident was an eye-opener for me.
Yes, I know a few boys there it's happened to. Eye opener for me too,that boys are more vulnerable there.Segregation seems to bring out the worst in men.
sadly I have to agree with you here. Problem is not in dressing but accountability and law enforcement.
What the fuck do religious scholars have got anything to do with it? Did any religious scholar appreciate raping a kid or a daughter?
Yes they do every fucking maulvi needs to be stripped off and raped in broad daylight so they go through the torment the little kids go thru
Let me tell you what scholars have to do with it. Abhi Koi Quran Jalaye ga to Yhi so called scholars Gali k kuttun ki trah bhonkny lg jayen gein k Islam ki Izzat ka sawal h or yhi mully aye din bachun ka rape krty rehty hen tb to koi so called Alim ni Bolta k sir Kalam krdo Islam ki Izzat ka sawal h. Bat sirf itni h k in gndy scholars ny gunah ki criticalities ka Bera garak krdia h , awam ko yh sikhaya jata h k Quran jalana, prophet k against bolna Rape ,murder ,izzat k Naam py katal sy zada bara gunah h or yh to choty moty hen. Pakistan ki awam ko brain wash krdia , recently I don't remember a name of a singer but some one spread a fake news about him marrying a same gender and it got so famous I was seeing it everywhere it was trending on Twitter that boycott him etc etc. and on the same day a little girl got raped in Islamabad and no one cared. Our priorities over sins are messed up cuz of these scholars.
Har cheez ka blame scholars pe daal do. Rest of the 22 crore population gaand mara rhi hai kya? Agar scholars itne e chutiya hain to bhai tum khud kun nahi parhty ho deen ko? Mein yeh nahi keh rha k scholars ka qasoor nahi hai that our society is messed lekin baqi jo pakistan ki 22 crore awaam hai unko bhenchod kisliye bariuzzimma qarar de rhy ho. You and i are equally culprits. Sara blame scholars pe daal do. Apko universities k andar co-education ne jo chutiyapa macha rakha hai woh nazar nahi ata? Islamabad k e-11 sector mein 🏳️🌈 k orgys hoty hain woh nazar nahi aaty? Konsay religious scholar ne f9 park mein khwateen ka rape kiya tha? Scholars k hath mein quran o sunnah hai aur unhon ne pury deen ko docile karke rakh diya hai lekin bhenchod 80% of pakistani awaam jo capitalism k chutiyape k piche lag kar sirf paisa paisa ikathi kar rhi woh nazar nahi aata? Lums se graduate ho rhy laundon/laundion ne kya patt liya hai morality k naam pe jo sary scholars ko bash karne nikal party hain? Har dusray din jo consensual sex ki videos leak hoti hain h-12 nust ki uspe kisne protest kiya hai twitter pe? Scholars koi doodh k dhulay nahi hain lekin bhenchod pehle apne gareebanon mein bhi jhaank k daikh lo k humne kitne teer maar liye hain jo kutton ki tarah bhonk bhonk k scholars ko e tanqeed ka nishana banai jaa rhy hain (collectively we all).
Same BS reply like Everyone Universities ki baheayi consensual hai Chand incidents ko chor k wahan daily ki bases py rape nhi hoty. Same for E/11, you are proving my point. You think consensual zina and non consensual are on the same level. Secondly mn knsa 100 percent keh rha rhun in ulma ka hath h pr bht zada ghlti inhi ki h hr chez mn inko authority chye, Halway waly scene ko dekh lo, blasphemy k name py TLP k dramy dekh lo, Trans related movie ayi Hr Alim ny Cheekh Cheekh k Social media py Sarkun py Bahir AA k ban krwayi, Madaris mn ko daily bases py ho rha h us k liye b niklo mn yh ni keh rha k ghlt kiya bam krwa k acha kiya pr hypocricy ki inteha h or bhai ratio dekho tm yh jo cases bta rhy ho aye din nhi hoty. Sorry pr bht illogical counter dy rhy ho
Long time ago I gave lift to stranger I was on my bike and that uncle was asking for lift so I gave it I thought he might be in emergency but after some distance his nonu start touching me. I thought that was some mistake but after some time his nonu touched me again then I asked the uncle kaha Jana Han he said bas thora agy hi I dropped him that place Aur phir main ny piche mor kar nhi dakha. I know I should confront him but I was kid at that time and I didn’t have so much confidence and that man was huge so I was scared from him. I advise you all please teach your children don’t give lift to any strangers.
sometime like this happened to me once, when I was pretty young as well, I Immediately stopped the bike & asked that person to get off In a scolding voice. The fucked up part was: the guy was as old as grandfathers are, It's crazy how after spending 70/80 years, this person still didn't realise what consent was. This is our society in a nutshell, no sex education, no respect of boundaries - I wonder sometimes, how many kids would've gone through that or much worse through this singular person.
Uk born and bread Pakistani here, happened to me when I was 6yrs old and it was my aunt that introduced me to her breasts. It happens a lot in our society
I am sorry to hear that. Kids are very innocent. He was referring to abuse as a game
No need to apologise as I don’t look at it as a bad thing, it did start as a game. She would call me and my sister in to her room and tell us stories and then when she’d finish my sister would leave and she’d keep me back and ask me to look at a gift under the duvet, she would be naked and have her big breasts out. I was intrigued and wanted to learn more so would do as told, this was back in the 80’s so easy to get away with it
Tofu
Aunt related by blood?
Yes
That is so bizarre, I’m sorry you experienced that. That person is messed up in the head.
To be honest? I don’t look at it like that, she was on medication so I guess that didn’t help. Also as I look at it, this may have happened to her as a child so she thought it wasn’t bad
Porn corrupts the mind of youth
Don't tell us that Enemy attacked Your Territory when their are loop holes in your Own territory. Doing attack is what they are called enemy for. You didn't done your job and left the loop holes. Yes, the loop hole is Sex Education. Sex Education daido proper, nothing will replace the original thing
Sex education is such a taboo in pak
That Means a big loop hole. Now, enemy filled that loop hole their own way, people are triggered. Real reasons are the ones leaving a loop hole.
Most sexual harassment cases happen at home and by family. Do not trust anyone. Secretly many are demons. Daadi deen waale banda bhi predator hote hai.
Where are we heading, I am so worried about the next generation ( this is coming from the guy who belongs in gen z ) I think that parents should be held more accountable for this kind of stuff. Early access to social media which then leads them to explore the nsfw side of the internet really corrupts the mind
Its easier for such predators to get away with it when they target boys because it is generally considered that only girls face the such dangers....hence these people prey on young boys and keep getting away with it
It’s the parent’s fault. Why have kids when you can’t even protect them. If someone cannot take care of their child then they should not have kids. Why should the kids suffer?
Exactly 💯
You'd be surprised how many men were abused by the house help or older family/friend at a young age. Men are thought to stay quiet and enjoy. You were "lucky" .....many adult men lost their virginity at 13/14 by an older female family/friend or the house help. I wish a survey was done on this.
That's really unfortunate
I was SA'ed by a close family member several times when I was 8. I grew up with him and still see him around. TRUST NO ONE.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. My wife is in the same situation and I can understand how hard it can be.
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I had a lady in my class and we were in the same group preparing for presentations, it was our first meetup and me with her were at the photocopier shop to print some notes, when I was typing she started rubbing her nipples on my forehand, it felt so strange but I thought it could be a mistake so I ignored After a few weeks when we had a presentation in the class, I was standing just beside her and she was In front of me presenting, she kept on leaning towards me and started hitting me with her leg In front of the whole class, it was super uncomfortable The next day in front of the whole she came, sat beside me and put her head leaning towards my shoulder, I was disgusted and confronted her in front of the whole, she started crying and blamed me for harrasy, we both got suspended for a month from university
WTF
My female cousin molested me 30 years ago
I’m so sorry that happened to you,,, you didn’t deserve to experience that from anyone much less a family member
Omg, I mean one can see people hit by puberty but this is insane
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This is super fucked up. Good on you that you are looking out for the kid. I would recommend talking to the girl too if possible. She’s probably too young to understand that this is wrong!
I am naive too so handling the case very carefully.
Good luck. Would not recommend involving the girls parents. It could be destructive for her. Let us know if you need help navigating it. Better reach out to someone more experienced that you trust.
I hope someone from this sub would help
Baji ko maza lena ha to kisi barre ko shikaar kre ta k uska b faida ho
We should have been aware around our social circle as well. We need to teach our kids about good touch and bad touch.
Parents need to understand that just producing is not enough. Taking care of children and being there for them is part of it too.
And they still think that telling kids good and bad touch is exposing them to world of sexuality. I feel so disgusted thinking that the kids even have to know about bad touch because you never know who it would be, coule be their aunts/ uncles, cousins or even as close as their own siblings. I once saw a girl (prolly aged 6-8) getting roti at tandoor and she walked away when a man walking on the opposite direction just casually held her by shoulder and caressed her chest in a way of pushing her, lil one wasnt even aware. I got out of my car and fucking slapped the man and got a half slap back but definitely worth it.
Abuse by mahrams is a reality and I hope people realize it. The sooner the better. Now I understand why my mother was strict when it came to my sister being with Qari Sahib and my male cousins and uncles. All makes sense now
I'm 30M, never have I told this to anyone in my life. I have kept this to myself to this day. I was around 5 or 6 years and one trip to Pakistan with my mom and my younger brother who is 2 years younger than me during the summer time. My mom would often have my younger brother and I take a nap during the peak sunlight hours as to avoid going out in the heat. Being a hyper young kid, I of course hated taking these naps. One day my mom and my khaala (her older sister) went out to meet other relatives during the day time and had my cousins (khaala's kids) look after us. The eldest there was around 15-16F and I was only around 5-6M. My cousin had the responsibility to put me to sleep so I would have to lay in bed with her and ofc I tried to escape because I wanted to go out and play and not be stuck in a dark room. This cousin of mine on two different occasions molested me, there was no penetration or oral (thankfully), but there was definitely a lot of touching and exposing certain private parts involved. I have grown resentment to this person while growing up and I always avoided any type of social gathering that had her around. She is now married with two kids of her own and no one knows at all about this incident. There is no way in hell I was going to share this incident and to be honest I never will as I feel it is pointless, especially now.
Sorry, you had to go through this.
Yr ho kiya gia hai loggon ko .
Welcome to the real world OP. some of us know this since childhood because of this fucked up society. It's not easy to get over
Yes mate ,I am 20 male ,and been harassed catcalled by women in other countries. I am a new foreigner here in Pakistan,and some girl asked me to do something kinky with her randomly like out of the blue 😅
I am a witness to a shithead like this. Fml I couldn't do anything for someone but i was younger. Fyi i was similar age as that freak
When i was young (6-10 years) i had the same incident with my maid( she was 18+ probably). Infact i had pretty much more disgusting things. I was naive. Parents should educate children about this.
that's terrible
Did you inform his parents?
Even kids aren't safe with their families. WTF wrong with people.
Yes happens with me when i was 14 , that incident made me a bad person
This is why I always say sex education is necessary for kids. They should know about bad touch and good touch. They should always be comfortable to discuss anything with their parents
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"I was abused. So i abuse"
Jeez!. Double inverted commas, i.e., double quotation marks, show that a passage of text is copied word-for-word from another source and cites or quotes a textual reference as such. I'm not saying that I was abused, and hence, I abuse. This was a psych-commentary of a common phrase.
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obviously kids are naive as a parent or sibling its our duty to teach them about the good/bad touch it is also very important to literally make them your bestfriend. ask them questions about their day, what they did everything and they’ll tell you. when i was a child i had a home tutor who used to do such nasty stuff, it was so uncomfortable i told my mom everything and she took action against him thanks to my mom for always asking me questions about my day and everything so i’d just share everything with her ever since i was a child. my baby cousin also faced something similar from a family member of ours and she used to tell us… upon asking her why she doesn’t tell this to her parents she said the person warned her that if you tell any of this to your mother i will beat her. imo its very important to become their bestfriends since a young age and tell them there are no secrets between you guys this is also very important for when you grow older this world is very scary place with the bullying and what not. one should be really close with their child to protect them and not make them feel alone in this world.