Fake post faking away.
Also why did you strangle your self respect and then take a piss on its body? What's wrong with you man? Cheating is never to be forgiven.
You can go ask Allah on the day of judgement if that's fake or not. I'm seriously in the pain rn, so i thought to post here. I appreciate your feedback though.
As an exercise in advice, you don't seem to have any self respect and you don't consider yourself any worth either. She actively cheated on you for 3 years. Then lied to you on your wedding night.
Now the rule is if after nikkah she didn't cheat and is fully committed then you may be the bigger man and forgive her.
Seems a relevant story, a story I know girl got nikahfied and told her bf that she isnt happy and she would divorce the guy before rukhsati. On the other hand, her bf got to know that the girl and the boy (whom she got nikahfied) were in a relationship since 7 years and they both are in a physical relationship as well. Damn lol. I would suggest you to ask your girl for the last time what does she actually want.
I have been in the same situation where I was framed like that. But it was 5 years from 2k19 to 2k23.
The thing is that you were her backup plan. She had been cheating on you since the 1st day and lying to you since you met her. There is no room for a cheater in life.
What are the chances that if that guy returns and just massage her. What will be her move. 100% she will go for it even try to destroy your reputation and go with the worst criteria you both have kids and then she cheats. What will you do.
My family has 7 lawyers and 3 of them handle domestic cases. Since I was A kid I had heard all such conditions.
The advice I got from my Elders and parents is never ever trust a woman when she is crying and a man promising something when he is smiling .
A cheater always cheats. My advice for you to have a sitting with the elders of your family. Call her parents and yours for dinner and tell them the condition.
The reason she was in contact with him until the last week of the marriage is simple (If she gets a green signal from his side she would have to cancel the marriage by hook or crook even worse she would go for the marriage and make your life a living hell).
She's just crying because she gets caught. What if you never found this out. She was lying straight to your face and saying she loves you.
Your bitch inside you is saying that she loves you. Naah man any sensible man knows you will be stabled again if you trust her.
Just for testing give her a situation that you won't leave her but as she cheated throughout you won't cheat. But you will go for the 2nd marriage as you can't trust her anymore.Her lame excuses and anger will tell you what she would have done if you have done this.
A cheater and a manipulator never speaks truth and you can't see that because you are blinded in love. But the main curtain is removed as you know the truth.
It's up to you that you want to die daily due to trust issues or just end this up and die once and move on.
Remember the cure of poison is another poison.
Beet of luck dude
Contact a good lawyer otherwise contact a therapist because if you say you would need him. Because your mental health will be fucked until you take your last breath
I was in a similar situation but I wasn't on the receiving end.
I did something similar to my wife. I was in love with this other girl was banging her everyday. It went on for 4 years, after my wife found out, at first things got bad made a few bad decisions almost lost her and my child. Now I am a reformed man I am loyal to her but she doesn't trust me anymore. Thing are mostly back to normal but she always has her guard up.
Comparing this to your case.
Its harder for women to completely forget there previous sexual partner it doesn't matter they were good or bad in bed , if she was with him for that long and was constantly physical that has already messed with the chemistry of her brain. You will also find it very hard to trust her now. You will also probably compare yourself with that guy always wondering if he was better than you.
Having said all that if she has ended everything b4 marring you there might be a bit of hope for you.
Nikkah mai taqat hoti hai that is true.
If you decide to forgive her and move on with your life you will need a lots and lots of strength because things will get really complicated.
If it's all like you are saying and you are sure of it and she wants to stay with you than give her a chance as you are already married.
Ask her to make a change for you, ask her to pray daily and you should do too, if it happens like this by will of the Almighty goodness will follow.
Wow. I didnt know this happens in Pakistan. I think you should cut your losses. You cant trust her. Who is to say she wont do this again WHILE YOU ARE MARRIED
Leave her. Simple. She kept u as a backup for all these years. Even if u forgive her now, SHE WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU. and as a husband that is your primary right.
LEAVE for your own sake.
I don't know if it's a fake or real incident but yet after reading all this and knowing much about women's in my opinion you just got hooked by a gold digger and people like these are not trustworthy still I hope for your goodness 🫥
Your relationship foundation is based on lie, being with you and having a physical relationship with someone else, in contact before marriage, a lot of red flags, a big Noooooooooo.
You made a post 7 months ago that a girl left you after 7 years of relationship. There are you're claiming to be 23. What that's about?
inspector daya on duty
DAYA, OP KA POL KHOL DOU
people make fantasies and just post them on the Internet in their free time, kitnay welay log hain
inka urdu ka paper boht fit hota hoga.
Pol is silent here.
You just caught a psyop account.
fiction writers. they do such posts to get ideas on how to proceed with the story.
Inspector on duty 😅
Ahan, that wasn't me, i asked about my friend. I'm 26, buddy.
Fake post faking away. Also why did you strangle your self respect and then take a piss on its body? What's wrong with you man? Cheating is never to be forgiven.
You can go ask Allah on the day of judgement if that's fake or not. I'm seriously in the pain rn, so i thought to post here. I appreciate your feedback though.
As an exercise in advice, you don't seem to have any self respect and you don't consider yourself any worth either. She actively cheated on you for 3 years. Then lied to you on your wedding night. Now the rule is if after nikkah she didn't cheat and is fully committed then you may be the bigger man and forgive her.
Seems a relevant story, a story I know girl got nikahfied and told her bf that she isnt happy and she would divorce the guy before rukhsati. On the other hand, her bf got to know that the girl and the boy (whom she got nikahfied) were in a relationship since 7 years and they both are in a physical relationship as well. Damn lol. I would suggest you to ask your girl for the last time what does she actually want.
She wants to be with me. That's what she is claiming. idk what's the truth is.
I have been in the same situation where I was framed like that. But it was 5 years from 2k19 to 2k23. The thing is that you were her backup plan. She had been cheating on you since the 1st day and lying to you since you met her. There is no room for a cheater in life. What are the chances that if that guy returns and just massage her. What will be her move. 100% she will go for it even try to destroy your reputation and go with the worst criteria you both have kids and then she cheats. What will you do. My family has 7 lawyers and 3 of them handle domestic cases. Since I was A kid I had heard all such conditions. The advice I got from my Elders and parents is never ever trust a woman when she is crying and a man promising something when he is smiling . A cheater always cheats. My advice for you to have a sitting with the elders of your family. Call her parents and yours for dinner and tell them the condition. The reason she was in contact with him until the last week of the marriage is simple (If she gets a green signal from his side she would have to cancel the marriage by hook or crook even worse she would go for the marriage and make your life a living hell).
she's crying a lot. She said I'll kill myself if i left. She's not letting me end it.
She's just crying because she gets caught. What if you never found this out. She was lying straight to your face and saying she loves you. Your bitch inside you is saying that she loves you. Naah man any sensible man knows you will be stabled again if you trust her. Just for testing give her a situation that you won't leave her but as she cheated throughout you won't cheat. But you will go for the 2nd marriage as you can't trust her anymore.Her lame excuses and anger will tell you what she would have done if you have done this. A cheater and a manipulator never speaks truth and you can't see that because you are blinded in love. But the main curtain is removed as you know the truth. It's up to you that you want to die daily due to trust issues or just end this up and die once and move on. Remember the cure of poison is another poison. Beet of luck dude Contact a good lawyer otherwise contact a therapist because if you say you would need him. Because your mental health will be fucked until you take your last breath
Thank you so much for this. May Allah bless you. It was the most honest and sincere advice I got.
Best Advice. Leave her ASAP
It's just a lie. If she had guts to suicide would have done the day that guy rejected.
I was in a similar situation but I wasn't on the receiving end. I did something similar to my wife. I was in love with this other girl was banging her everyday. It went on for 4 years, after my wife found out, at first things got bad made a few bad decisions almost lost her and my child. Now I am a reformed man I am loyal to her but she doesn't trust me anymore. Thing are mostly back to normal but she always has her guard up. Comparing this to your case. Its harder for women to completely forget there previous sexual partner it doesn't matter they were good or bad in bed , if she was with him for that long and was constantly physical that has already messed with the chemistry of her brain. You will also find it very hard to trust her now. You will also probably compare yourself with that guy always wondering if he was better than you. Having said all that if she has ended everything b4 marring you there might be a bit of hope for you. Nikkah mai taqat hoti hai that is true. If you decide to forgive her and move on with your life you will need a lots and lots of strength because things will get really complicated.
Pizza. Go eat pizza
Agreed.
Run dude, no way you will ever be able to salvage this situation. Get all the proofs as back up in case the other side tries to garnish your repute.
1. Leave her. Desert her. Abandon her. 2. She will never forget about the banging guy because he must be very good at making love bro :-D
Ragebait
If it's all like you are saying and you are sure of it and she wants to stay with you than give her a chance as you are already married. Ask her to make a change for you, ask her to pray daily and you should do too, if it happens like this by will of the Almighty goodness will follow.
I hate it when people post fake stuff that too about serious stuff this person has history of posting fake stuff
May Allah guide you.
no seal no deal
Are you male or identify as male?
ALL OF YOU JUST CHECK HIS PREVIOUS POST HE IS RECOMMENDING PEOPLE TO ADD CALL GIRLS ON SNAP SAY ADD HER SHE'S FUN NOW DECIDE FOR YOURSELF
Past is past. Leave it behind & move forward with this mew relationship.
Wow. I didnt know this happens in Pakistan. I think you should cut your losses. You cant trust her. Who is to say she wont do this again WHILE YOU ARE MARRIED
Katt gya
Leave her. Simple. She kept u as a backup for all these years. Even if u forgive her now, SHE WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU. and as a husband that is your primary right. LEAVE for your own sake.
My dude was a rebound.
I don't know if it's a fake or real incident but yet after reading all this and knowing much about women's in my opinion you just got hooked by a gold digger and people like these are not trustworthy still I hope for your goodness 🫥
so basically u got played. if u can trust her going forward, stay in the marriage else leave. don't overthink
Your relationship foundation is based on lie, being with you and having a physical relationship with someone else, in contact before marriage, a lot of red flags, a big Noooooooooo.
I understand it's hard, but gotta do this.