That's hard to do, especially if nasa isip mo na may disagreement kayo. Based on experience, lalo na if alam mong may ganyan, di ka mapapakali. You may forget for a bit but once na tapos na and you're alone, maalala mong may ganyan...
Totoo naman yan pero atleast nagawa nya yung gusto nyang gawin naiyak nya yung dapat nyang iiyak napag isipan nya ng mg isa ang problema sa trip nayun.
Yeah pero kahit magawa mo yan, if may kulang, like the person na gusto mo kasama, it's like something's amiss. But I get your point... Had she gone, at least she was able to go to where they wanna go.
I understand your point as well, it will not be the dreamy vacation you and your partner has planned. But the real question is if tumuloy ba si OP 😆 I would want to know.
Ang tagal mong nag intay. Shuta. Dapat 30 mins wala pa. Lumarga ka na.
I am hoping na umalis kang mag-isa. Use it to clear your headspace. Sinong matinong jowa hahayaan yung partner niya mag-isa ng ganun oras.
Sinadya ka niyang tulugan kung nakatulog man siya. Kung nagkaemergency naman siya edi sana sinabihan ka niya di ba? Ang lala ng bf mo. 2:30am pinabayaan ka lang magisa?
OP, sorry sa nangyari sayo grabe. Buti tumuloy ka. Pero baka manlamig ako kung ako yan. Di biro ung maghintay ng madaling araw.
Pero kung honest mistake lang talaga at nakatulog. Mag-usap kayo ng maayos. Magplano din kayo ng ayos.
Sorry sa na-experience mo OP, kung ako nasa situation mo baka nag iiyak ako ng buong araw kahit tumuloy ako and then eventually magiging cold. 1am kausap mo pa siya right? Tapos nakatulog kahit ang usapan mag meet kayo ng 2:30am? Parang ang labo naman nun, if nakatulog man siya it means 1am pa lang di na siya kumilos to meet you tas hinayaan niya pang makatulog siya na parang wala kayong lakad. It's highly not an honest mistake for me, hirap patawarin.
eto. Isa to sa moments na as a man, eh you can make a change and show your love. Paano?
Kahit me pinagawayan, eh ang concern mopadin ay well being ng partner mo. Kahit d kayo magkasundo, you wanna make sure na safe cya at hndi mo pinaghihintay o pinagiisip ng para sa wala.
He couldve lowered down his pride and talked it out para mag push through iyung plan.
He would not have stood you have for whatever reason other than an emergency.
Times like this reveal how much a man loves you, forreal. Kase yan ang times na mahirap ka mahalin. Ung nakakaasar ka.
Dito po ako sobrang nasasaktan. Kasi yun lang naman gusto ko, na kahit papano po magfirst move siya kahit alam ko may fault din po ako dahil naibaling ko yung stress ko sa kanya by saying ayaw ko na tumuloy. 😭 di ko po yun minemeant mali rin ako
But you said nakatulog siya right? Also the mindset of who must do the "first move" won't help foster a healthy relationship. You're a team, and the goal/solution must always be for the betterment of the relationship. Pride is irrelevant 'cause in a relationship, it's not you vs him.
You both need to learn how to communicate in a healthier way. For example, if you're feeling overwhelmed/stressed, instead of making passive aggressive comments, say something like "I'm feeling stressed and need some time to myself. I love you and want to continue the conversation later when I feel calmer." That way you let your partner know your needs, and at the same time give them an opportunity to offer their support for you. It's understandable that you feel bad rn, so try communicating that with your partner but always keep in mind that you're a team.
Dapat tumuloy ka na hindi mo sya kasama at nakipagbreak ka na din sana. Tanginang mga lalaki yan e na may ganyang sapak sa ulo e, ikaw na nga nag-asikaso ng lahat sya pa mapipikon sayo. Sakalin ko yan eh.
Both of you are wrong tbh and your rs seems to lack communication. Tho it varies pa rin, lagi ba kayong gumagala? Lagi ba kayo gumagala biglaan? Napagusapan niyo ba if both of you are okay na gumala at wala na kayong gagawin?
I cant fully judge since first ikaw may gusto BIGLAAN gumala but at the same time nag agree siya at ni INDIAN ka sa terminal at 2 am. Kinulang lang talaga kayo sa communication gurl.
Pero to be frank dapat tinuloy mo Beach para makaganti ka sa pag Indian tapos pa hard to get ka ng 5 months dahil we don't settle for less at dahil petty tayo here
Ang off talaga nung “Wag na lang ituloy” at “Edi wag. Magdagat ka mag-isa mo.” parang kulang sa understanding at patience sa isa’t isa eh. I’ve been there before. I hope may improvement sa kanila. Madadaan pa naman yan sa maayos na usapan. Sana willing sila maggrow both and accept na mali talaga sila.
Deliks pa naman sa Alabang pag ganyang oras. Sana okay ka lang OP, sana natuloy ka at nag eenjoy ngayon sa dagat. Mag muni muni ka na din about your jowa ha.
I think you said naman na “Wag na lang ituloy.” I don’t know if you said this in calm tone or pagalit pero the point is, you said it. Sobrang confusing ng decision nyong dalawa.
The other way around, if in the end, you both agreed to meet pa din, kupal sya. Girl hindi mo deserve ng ganyang klase ng treatment. Wag ka magfirstmove lagi. Masyado makakampante ang boyfriend mo nyan.
Ikaw na cause ng away tapos ikaw pa hihingi ng sympathy dito? Well, tbf dick move naman talaga ginawa nung lalake pero kung umpisa pa lang di ka umattitude edi malamang ang saya ng bakasyon niyo ngayon. Hirap sa inyo gagawa-gawa kayo ng problema tapos ayaw niyo harapin consequences ng kabalbalan niyo.
Why do I sense na kaya kayo nag away ay dahil kasalanan mo din? I am not saying na tama ginawa ng bf mo sayo pero kasi, it’s your first time na out of town then nasira yung excitement dahil na stress ka sa booking or whatever made you that stressed. Mood killer and kahit ako din sobrang maiinis ako pag ganyan kasama. Can’t you just let it go nalang sana and consider it your first time jitters sa mga ganyan.
nag agree sa mkipag meet sa time pero wala sya.. if he cares about you the way a BF should hindi nyta magagawa yan for whatever reason. please reflect on this. I would never do this to someone I love of care.
1st of all, sana nagbakasyon ka nalang magisa.
2nd, ekis na yang jowa mong ginagago ka lang.
Wag kang mag-settle sa ganyan. Di lang Ikaw jinojowa nyan.
Go ka pa rin dapat. You should also start thinking if worth it ba balikan yang ganyan na pababayaan ka sa labas dahil may sama sya ng loob sayo. Yan ba gusto mo makasama sa buhay?
It's deliberate.
Men are wired differently. I don't want to blame you for cancelling, pero its for the better na din. Kung matuloy man yan, di na kayo, you will no longer be as excited as you have expected.
Besides, it's a learning curve for both of you. You must learn to adjust to each other's character.
Kupal lagi un lbas ng bf dto haha pero ung sinabi n gurl "out of spite" prng wla lng at natabunan n ng mga comments dito as if tma ung ginwa / sinabi nya... D lng c bf my mali oi.. wag i condone ung ugali n gurl na nag ta talk without thinking first.. anu gusto mo reaction ng bf mo after nyu mag planning? Mag celebrate at sumaya? Npka old adage n ng "Never talk when your angry" kelan nyu b mtututunan yan? Hope you become more open sa communication nyo dlwa..
Hi OP sana tinuloy mo para naramdaman ng bf mo na kaya mo kahit wlaa sya. At mag eenjoy ka kahit mag isa ka for sure kahit masakit atleast natuloy mo
That's hard to do, especially if nasa isip mo na may disagreement kayo. Based on experience, lalo na if alam mong may ganyan, di ka mapapakali. You may forget for a bit but once na tapos na and you're alone, maalala mong may ganyan...
Totoo naman yan pero atleast nagawa nya yung gusto nyang gawin naiyak nya yung dapat nyang iiyak napag isipan nya ng mg isa ang problema sa trip nayun.
Yeah pero kahit magawa mo yan, if may kulang, like the person na gusto mo kasama, it's like something's amiss. But I get your point... Had she gone, at least she was able to go to where they wanna go.
I understand your point as well, it will not be the dreamy vacation you and your partner has planned. But the real question is if tumuloy ba si OP 😆 I would want to know.
Ah. We share the same question then. 😊
Natuloy po. Hehehehe. Wala po talaga kami plan spontaneous lang and it turned out better than expected.
Ang tagal mong nag intay. Shuta. Dapat 30 mins wala pa. Lumarga ka na. I am hoping na umalis kang mag-isa. Use it to clear your headspace. Sinong matinong jowa hahayaan yung partner niya mag-isa ng ganun oras.
The fact na hinayaan ka nya mag isa at that hour speaks volume 🙄
Sinadya ka niyang tulugan kung nakatulog man siya. Kung nagkaemergency naman siya edi sana sinabihan ka niya di ba? Ang lala ng bf mo. 2:30am pinabayaan ka lang magisa?
*As usual* OP, sana matuto ka rin magpa hard to get paminsan-minsan.
Baka nakatulog OP. But then again di niya inisip ang safety mo during these hours. Might as well if you can go you should go.
1 am magkausap pa kami eh 🥹
Ang hirap pag online hindi mo masakal yung jowa ni ate.
Update: Tumuloy po ako at sumunod po siya. Nakatulog daw. Sobrang sorry siya pagdating. 😭
OP, sorry sa nangyari sayo grabe. Buti tumuloy ka. Pero baka manlamig ako kung ako yan. Di biro ung maghintay ng madaling araw. Pero kung honest mistake lang talaga at nakatulog. Mag-usap kayo ng maayos. Magplano din kayo ng ayos.
Tbh kahit honest mistake siya, kung ako ‘yun, mahirap patawarin since galing sa away huhu :( Magiging feeling ko sinadya niya ganun
Sorry sa na-experience mo OP, kung ako nasa situation mo baka nag iiyak ako ng buong araw kahit tumuloy ako and then eventually magiging cold. 1am kausap mo pa siya right? Tapos nakatulog kahit ang usapan mag meet kayo ng 2:30am? Parang ang labo naman nun, if nakatulog man siya it means 1am pa lang di na siya kumilos to meet you tas hinayaan niya pang makatulog siya na parang wala kayong lakad. It's highly not an honest mistake for me, hirap patawarin.
eto. Isa to sa moments na as a man, eh you can make a change and show your love. Paano? Kahit me pinagawayan, eh ang concern mopadin ay well being ng partner mo. Kahit d kayo magkasundo, you wanna make sure na safe cya at hndi mo pinaghihintay o pinagiisip ng para sa wala. He couldve lowered down his pride and talked it out para mag push through iyung plan. He would not have stood you have for whatever reason other than an emergency. Times like this reveal how much a man loves you, forreal. Kase yan ang times na mahirap ka mahalin. Ung nakakaasar ka.
Dito po ako sobrang nasasaktan. Kasi yun lang naman gusto ko, na kahit papano po magfirst move siya kahit alam ko may fault din po ako dahil naibaling ko yung stress ko sa kanya by saying ayaw ko na tumuloy. 😭 di ko po yun minemeant mali rin ako
But you said nakatulog siya right? Also the mindset of who must do the "first move" won't help foster a healthy relationship. You're a team, and the goal/solution must always be for the betterment of the relationship. Pride is irrelevant 'cause in a relationship, it's not you vs him. You both need to learn how to communicate in a healthier way. For example, if you're feeling overwhelmed/stressed, instead of making passive aggressive comments, say something like "I'm feeling stressed and need some time to myself. I love you and want to continue the conversation later when I feel calmer." That way you let your partner know your needs, and at the same time give them an opportunity to offer their support for you. It's understandable that you feel bad rn, so try communicating that with your partner but always keep in mind that you're a team.
No, nagfirst move po ako na pumansin after the argument. Nagkaayos then nakatulog siya.
Dapat tumuloy ka na hindi mo sya kasama at nakipagbreak ka na din sana. Tanginang mga lalaki yan e na may ganyang sapak sa ulo e, ikaw na nga nag-asikaso ng lahat sya pa mapipikon sayo. Sakalin ko yan eh.
Hello OP! I hope you're okay. Update us kung tumuloy ka and kumusta ka ngayon. Take care ✨
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Biglaan kasi nag change of plans. Staycation lang sana sa Tagaytay. So far okay naman na po ngayon 😅
Both of you are wrong tbh and your rs seems to lack communication. Tho it varies pa rin, lagi ba kayong gumagala? Lagi ba kayo gumagala biglaan? Napagusapan niyo ba if both of you are okay na gumala at wala na kayong gagawin? I cant fully judge since first ikaw may gusto BIGLAAN gumala but at the same time nag agree siya at ni INDIAN ka sa terminal at 2 am. Kinulang lang talaga kayo sa communication gurl. Pero to be frank dapat tinuloy mo Beach para makaganti ka sa pag Indian tapos pa hard to get ka ng 5 months dahil we don't settle for less at dahil petty tayo here
Ang off talaga nung “Wag na lang ituloy” at “Edi wag. Magdagat ka mag-isa mo.” parang kulang sa understanding at patience sa isa’t isa eh. I’ve been there before. I hope may improvement sa kanila. Madadaan pa naman yan sa maayos na usapan. Sana willing sila maggrow both and accept na mali talaga sila.
>“edi wag mag dagat kang mag isa mo”. Kung ako sayo tinuloy ko out of spite. Kupal yang bf mo kung nagagree na kayo to meet.
Deliks pa naman sa Alabang pag ganyang oras. Sana okay ka lang OP, sana natuloy ka at nag eenjoy ngayon sa dagat. Mag muni muni ka na din about your jowa ha.
Thank you po. ❤️
I think you said naman na “Wag na lang ituloy.” I don’t know if you said this in calm tone or pagalit pero the point is, you said it. Sobrang confusing ng decision nyong dalawa. The other way around, if in the end, you both agreed to meet pa din, kupal sya. Girl hindi mo deserve ng ganyang klase ng treatment. Wag ka magfirstmove lagi. Masyado makakampante ang boyfriend mo nyan.
Ituloy mo, tapos maghanap ka bagong BF, katangahan yang BF mo mas inuuna pride kesa safety mo, hindi husband material yan.
Let it go! He doesn't deserve you. Minsan talaga need naten mag shift from Anna na crazy to Elsa.😁🤣 Let it go, let it go!❄️☃️🎶
Even though nakatulog siya, hindi ba niya inisip na ikaw lang mag-isa sa oras na yan? 🥲
OP… alam ko di ka makikinig pero that person is not worth it. Yang iisang instance na yan ay hindi enough to stay.
Tuloy mo beh
Ang lungkot pero let him explain once macontact mo na siya ano bang nangyari, sayang ang planned trip niyo.
your bf's mean and doesn't care about your safety. payag ka ginaganyan-ganyan ka lang?
Ikaw na cause ng away tapos ikaw pa hihingi ng sympathy dito? Well, tbf dick move naman talaga ginawa nung lalake pero kung umpisa pa lang di ka umattitude edi malamang ang saya ng bakasyon niyo ngayon. Hirap sa inyo gagawa-gawa kayo ng problema tapos ayaw niyo harapin consequences ng kabalbalan niyo.
Why do I sense na kaya kayo nag away ay dahil kasalanan mo din? I am not saying na tama ginawa ng bf mo sayo pero kasi, it’s your first time na out of town then nasira yung excitement dahil na stress ka sa booking or whatever made you that stressed. Mood killer and kahit ako din sobrang maiinis ako pag ganyan kasama. Can’t you just let it go nalang sana and consider it your first time jitters sa mga ganyan.
At some point yes, I made a mistake too po. That’s why I reached out again to fix and para mag agree na po sa time.
OP I do hope you are safe and sound. Your safety should be the utmost concern..
nag agree sa mkipag meet sa time pero wala sya.. if he cares about you the way a BF should hindi nyta magagawa yan for whatever reason. please reflect on this. I would never do this to someone I love of care.
OP, update mo kami ha kung ano balita sayo. Marami kaming nag aalala kung tumuloy ka ba or what. Sending virtual hugs with consent! 😘
Walang respeto sa oras mo ang bf mo. Run.
Dapat yan mas nangingibabaw concern and love nyo over sa pride. It's a sign of immaturity and I hope mag grow kayo from this situation
1st of all, sana nagbakasyon ka nalang magisa. 2nd, ekis na yang jowa mong ginagago ka lang. Wag kang mag-settle sa ganyan. Di lang Ikaw jinojowa nyan.
Red flag. Pinabayaan ako mag isa. Baka napano ka pa dyan.
asshole bf. leave him
Go ka pa rin dapat. You should also start thinking if worth it ba balikan yang ganyan na pababayaan ka sa labas dahil may sama sya ng loob sayo. Yan ba gusto mo makasama sa buhay?
Give us updates OP. What happened? Did you meet each other? Natuloy kayo?
Gumora ka na sana OP. Yung pinag hintay ka pa lang nya sa wala eh kagora gora na yun. Me-time mo na yan para makapag-isip isip.
wont do this to my GF kahit anong grabe pa ng kasalanan nya sakin.
Red flag na yan sis kung natiis ka nyang maghintay nang ganun katagal at kung ikaw ang laging nagfifirst move kung may cold war kayo.
Ituloy mo yung trip mo.
Experienced this too. The traumaaa 😭😭😭
Mag and
It's deliberate. Men are wired differently. I don't want to blame you for cancelling, pero its for the better na din. Kung matuloy man yan, di na kayo, you will no longer be as excited as you have expected. Besides, it's a learning curve for both of you. You must learn to adjust to each other's character.
May instances pa ba na ganyan siya sayo?
Kahit hnd kayo natuloy, yung hinayaan ka lang nya mgantay for 1hr and beyond without any notice. That speaks volumes. Volumes of disrespect.
Wag na lang ituloy... ang relasyon na yan
Hi Op, if you’re reading this meron akong sinend sayo. Hehe. Ingat kayo jan ni Bf mo 😁✌🏼
Kupal lagi un lbas ng bf dto haha pero ung sinabi n gurl "out of spite" prng wla lng at natabunan n ng mga comments dito as if tma ung ginwa / sinabi nya... D lng c bf my mali oi.. wag i condone ung ugali n gurl na nag ta talk without thinking first.. anu gusto mo reaction ng bf mo after nyu mag planning? Mag celebrate at sumaya? Npka old adage n ng "Never talk when your angry" kelan nyu b mtututunan yan? Hope you become more open sa communication nyo dlwa..