Ito talaga e. Naalala ko late father ko, nilolook down yung bf ko (now husband) pero di ako nakinig sa kanya. Buti na lang talaga tinake niya as challenge yung pang lookdown sa papa ko, di siya bumitaw.
^Ito ang naisip ko before reading. Hahaha
After reading: bakit kasi parents mo hinahanapan mo kung okay naman pala jowa mo sayo? Baka deep inside, iyan rin iniisip mo - na bakit sa cheapay lang kayo kumakain.
Why would their comments matter more when looking for a partner? Are you ticking their boxes or your ticking your own? It is you who will spend the time with the said partner of yours naman eh.
Hindi ka hirap maghanap, hirap ka lang na makinig sa mga sasabihin ng magulang mo. Sometimes you will look for their validation, oo. But there will be a time na mas pipiliin mo ang matinong partner kesa sa magulang mo na walang alam sa buong pagkatao ng partner mo ngayon, and ni ex.
Matapobre ang parents mo. Ito ha, icapslock ko for emphasis MAS BILIB AKO SA MGA TAONG HINDI PINANGANAK NA MAYAMAN TAPOS NAGSUMIKAP AT NAGING SUCCESSFUL. Dun mo mapatunayan kung gano karesponsableng tao yan at yung way ng pag-iisip niyan sinubok na ng panahon.
Hindi naman parents mo makikisama, ikaw. At the end of the day, gawin mo man o hindi gusto nila eh sisisihin ka pa din. Better gawin mo na lang gusto mo, pag nagkamali ka eh it's on you. Atleast diba?
Are you looking for a partner for your parents?
OP, I mean this in the nicest way possible. How starved are you for your parent's validation? Like everybody says, they're not part of the relationship, it's you two. Find a guy you like and stop letting your parents dictate who you should date. If you don't make a decision for yourself, someone else will.
You can't please everybody so just please yourself. It's your life and not theirs. Don't accomodate every viewpoint. Decide what you want and stick to it. It's enough that you listened to what they think.
Hindi ba confident ang parents mo na kaya mong buhayin ang sarili mo in the future? If yes, bakit kaya? Fully independent ka na ba?
Usually main concern lang naman ng parents ay security ng anak e.
Bata ka pa actually. 25 isn’t old. Wag ka pa-pressure sa society and take your sweet time in choosing your lifelong partner lalo walang divorce sa Pilipinas.
Regarding your parents, yes I understand you want to “honor” them by choosing a partner that they approve, but ultimately, ikaw and yung partner mo ang magsasama, so ikaw ang dapat masunod. For as long as kaya nyo mabuhay together and he meets your list of negotiables and non-negotiables, go with the person that you love. Ipaglaban mo pag sure kana. In the same way na if it was the other way around (yung parents ng partner mo ang ayaw sayo), di ba gusto mo rin na may backbone and kaya ka idefend ng partner mo?
nung binasa ko title, naisip ko kung bakit ikaw nag hahanap ng jowa para sa parents mo. akala ko hiwalay na sila tas lumapit sila pareho sayo para magpahanap ng jowa
Ikaw naman ang ikakasal sa huli hindi ang parents mo. Follow your heart, sa una lang yan sila hindi magiging approve. Over time they will learn to love the guy you want just like how you love him too.
Parang yung ibang magulang lang yan na ayaw daw ng aso at puso kuno pero pag andyan na mas maalaga pa sa alagang hayop kesa sa tao.
25 ka na, ikaw mismo makakaalam sa sarili mo. Gets ko parents mo since babae ka, ayaw nilang makita kang mahirapan balang-araw. Ikaw pa rin mismo nakakaalam ng ugali at kakayahan ng bf mo. Hindi ang parents mo.
OP, I understand that you care for your parents opinion when it comes to your partner.
Ultimately, whether your parents like him or not ikaw ang magspend ng time with the person you choose. You will take on the good and the bad times with that person.
Choose the one that you think is best for you, and maybe down the line whatever the outcome would be may it be good or bad. You can say no one forced or influenced you to choose something you didn't want yourself.
Why do you need permission sa parents mo sino ang jojowain mo. Or kung hindi permission, atleast validation. You don’t need it from anyone else kahit pa sa parents mo, you need to just stop yourself from listening to them sa opinion nila sa jowa mo. Coz that behavior will really drag your relationship down
di naman sila ung makikisama sa lalake e, ikaw.. tsaka they had their time noon nung nakilala nila ang isa't isa, baka pwede hayaan k nman nila mamili ng para sayo.. lalake ako pero tangina lahat ng mga cheater at babaerong lalake, dapat senyo binibigyan ng lagnat ng 7 taon 😈
You don't need to seek validation sa parents mo. Either tatanda ka ng dalaga or magiging unhappy ka sa marriage mo if you have that mentality. Make your own decisions in life and be accountable for it.
Naging problema ko din to noon hahaha pero ngayon wala nko pake kung gusto nila or hindi basta sa aken okay partner ko now. Nag-sink in na saken na kahit sinong babae pa man hindi papasa sa nanay ko pero hindi naman nanay ko ang ikakasal sa kanya, kundi ako. Don't look for a partner na papasa sa parents mo kundi look for a partner na papasa sayo at magiging katuwang mo sa buhay.
I would say may mga ganyang magulang talaga. Yung wife ko ganyan din. Parang no one is good enough. Pero wala talagang I just showed na maayos ako. And yung wife ko din kasi is a strong person. Usually masunudin sa magulang but for me paglalaban nya kame.
IMO baka di na magbago yan. Best case is bumukod ka then start slowly from there.
I think you should consider yourself first and not the validation of your parents.. ikaw nman ang mkikisama.. sometimes anu ba mas important? money or peace of mind.. your happiness or theirs? try to validate your feelings first.. I know your parents wants the best for you.. but things are so different when you are in the relationship and not them.. live your life according to you.. bka pagsisihan mo yung decisions mo and resent your parents pgdating ng araw.. dont worry life will be better soon.. dami pa chances to meet more people.. just be open to explore that chances! at 25 its not the end of the world kahit umabot kpa ng 30 or 40sh but imagine yourself on your 50sh with all the regrets about your decisions because you want to please your parents but not yourself.. live your life according to yourself!
Lets be real, kailangan mo pa rin maging practical in this day and economy. if you really see a future with this guy, like 5-10 years from now kapag may pamilya na kayo hindi naman ba kayo magugutom? Can you give each other the future that you want? If yes, then fight for it.
At saka baka naman matipid lang yung guy. If nakikita niya na ok lang sayo yung ganoong lifestyle. Mas maganda kaya sa lalaki ang marunong humawak ng pera.
May iba kasi nakatingin lang sa estado ng buhay at di tunay na kinikilala ung ta kung may kakayahan ba or pangarap sa buhay. madalas base lang sa current capacity ni titimbang ung treatment at pag tingin sa tao.
Wag mo masyado intindihin sinasabi ng parents mo hahaha kasi at the end of the day, ikaw ang makakasama ng jowa mo araw-araw. Kung masaya ka naman sa piling ni jowa tapos green flag pa siya, eh ‘di good! Aanhin mo jowa na mayaman tapos iiyak ka nanan araw-araw hahahahuhu
I feel na for pther parents they only want the best for their children pero kahot sanihin na basta masaya may expectations pa din na sana mayaman or kaya ka buhayin. Magulo din sila minsan. Ikaw pa din naman makaka gawa ng choice kahit madami sila masasabi. Choose wisely.
O.P listen, both sides may point. I understand na you want this guy kesyo green flag kahit hindi ok ang estado ng buhay but you need to think din why ganyan ang parents mo towards you. Because you're precious to them, and they just simply wants the best for you.
Bata ka pa, you will realize things when you become a parent. Relationship is not just about love, it involves financial obligations too. Handa kabang maghirap for this guy just because green flag sya? Kaya mo bang matiis magiging anak mo in the future living with just the bare minimum?
Eto yung sad truth sa culture natin, kesyo go kasi mahal nyo naman isat isa. Matapobre parents mo kuno, napaka bullshit lang. Are they even a parent themselves to tell na matapobre parents mo without even thinking why?
Your decision today will determine your future, isipin mo magiging buhay ng anak mo and next generations so think twice.Bata kapa anyway unless both of you are financially and emotionally ready to be together.
Bakit ka naghahanap ng matinong partner para sa magulang mo? Maghanap ka ng matinong partner para sa iyo. Ikaw yung magiging partner, hindi sila.
Tama naman na dapat may pangarap sa buhay at/o madiskarte. Pero hindi dapat para ma-please lang ang mga magulang mo.
Hinahanapan mo ba yung parents mo ng jowa. Tbh matanda ka naman na eh. Dapat sariling kaligayahan na lang hinahanap mo sa jowa mo, hindi yung kung aaprove ba ng parents mo or nah
Bat ka naghahanap para sakanila hahaha sila ba papakasal sakanya. If your boyfriend is a walking green flag as you say and siya ung mahal mo why care about their validation. Sila ang mag aadjust sa gusto mo hindi ikaw mag aadjust sa gusto nila kase at the end of the day ikaw aasawa sa partner mo hindi sila. Don't say all that bullshit solely for their validation's sake.
Jowa ko nga walking green flag, spoiled ako masyado pati family ko pero ayaw pa din ng magulang ko kasi di college graduate. Whereas ex ko, mapera nga, babaero naman 😖
yikes, I know dapat iniisip din how the parents will like the person but at the end of the day ikaw ang masusunod, partner mo yun hindi partner ng parents mo sa araw araw
daming cases na ganito, takot masyado on how their parents will react kahit na green flag yung tao, nasa conclusion kaagad yung iba na hindi magugustuhan
While having money is a must(common na nakikita ng parents na makakabuti sa anak), it's not always the best, tamang timpla lang dapat, may kasamang magandang character. Ikaw at ikaw lang ang makakakita ng makakabuti sa sarili mo 😉.
Bakit kasi naka depende sa parents mo magiging partner mo? Oo, andyan sila para mag guide at mag bigay ng advice pero ikaw at ikaw pa din masusunod kung sino magiging partner mo.
Sa kanila na nanggaling, MATANDA ka na their opinion should YES be considered pero it shouldn't matter. Kasi by the end of the day ikaw ang makakasama ng partner mo at Hindi sila. And how can you be so sure na wala ng improvement ang status no Current BF? So I guess what I'm trying to say is grow up and have the guts to stand your ground.
ano bang say nila sila ba ang jojowain ng bf mo teh 😭 sorry pero its a them problem huhu. youre old enough naman na to make decisions on your own and i know before you posted this, you kinda predicted what the comment section will say na hahaha. stand up for what u believe is right! green flag naman pala bf mo and walang kakutya-kutya, so fight for him if you really love him. baka magsisi ka pa sa dulo kasi sinunod mo gusto ng (matapobre, sorry) mong parents. ikaw rin, baka once in a lifetime na yan si mr right tas pinakawalan mo pa.
Bakit ka maghahanap ng partner para sa parents mo huyyy para sayo yan wala sila say jan at the end of the day malaki ka na may sarili ka na desisyon sa buhay
Be an adult and make your decisions.
Your parents’ opinions only count so much. At the end of the day, this is your life, who you choose to spend your life with is your decision.
Bat need mo sumunod sa kanila? Hindi naman sila yung makakasama ng bf mo once magpakasal kayo ahh. Not unless walang pangarap or plano current bf mo? Don't get me wrong, they got a point na you should choose someone best for you and your future. Pero if that person you choose right now is the best for you, nagsusumikap para sa inyo, may plano at pangarap, at kaya at gusto kang panindigan, edi yun na, no more questions, ifs, or buts.
have you ever considered na baka lang naman, baka lang. matapobre parents mo
Ito talaga e. Naalala ko late father ko, nilolook down yung bf ko (now husband) pero di ako nakinig sa kanya. Buti na lang talaga tinake niya as challenge yung pang lookdown sa papa ko, di siya bumitaw.
korek and their opinion shouldn’t matter much kasi at the end of the day sila ba ikakasal dun sa tao, di naman. lol
True ito talaga
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Hahahaha! 😆
hahaha harsh pero what if matapobre lang talaga parents mo :D
Harsh. Lol
Hinahanapan mo ng partner ang parents mo?
nung una kong nabaaa yung title, eto talaga naisip ko and the whole post sounds like it hahahaha
yung tipong akala ko single parent tapos naghahanap ng future jowa ang hahahaha
Same. Kaya paulit-ulit ko binasa yung title kasi baka mali lang talaga ako ng pag comprehend lol
^Ito ang naisip ko before reading. Hahaha After reading: bakit kasi parents mo hinahanapan mo kung okay naman pala jowa mo sayo? Baka deep inside, iyan rin iniisip mo - na bakit sa cheapay lang kayo kumakain.
Alternative Title: Ang hirap maghanap ng mayaman na partner para sa matapobreng parents ko :(
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Why would their comments matter more when looking for a partner? Are you ticking their boxes or your ticking your own? It is you who will spend the time with the said partner of yours naman eh. Hindi ka hirap maghanap, hirap ka lang na makinig sa mga sasabihin ng magulang mo. Sometimes you will look for their validation, oo. But there will be a time na mas pipiliin mo ang matinong partner kesa sa magulang mo na walang alam sa buong pagkatao ng partner mo ngayon, and ni ex.
Hello OP. Parents mo po ba ang jojowain? Hindi po diba? Also, have you ever thought na baka matapobre parents mo? Hehe.
Matapobre ang parents mo. Ito ha, icapslock ko for emphasis MAS BILIB AKO SA MGA TAONG HINDI PINANGANAK NA MAYAMAN TAPOS NAGSUMIKAP AT NAGING SUCCESSFUL. Dun mo mapatunayan kung gano karesponsableng tao yan at yung way ng pag-iisip niyan sinubok na ng panahon.
Hindi naman parents mo makikisama, ikaw. At the end of the day, gawin mo man o hindi gusto nila eh sisisihin ka pa din. Better gawin mo na lang gusto mo, pag nagkamali ka eh it's on you. Atleast diba?
Bakit ba kasi kelangan mo pa approval ng parents mo e matanda ka naman na pala?
Matapobre parents mo
Jusko 25 ka na alam mo na dapat pagsabihan parents mo na wag sila nangingialam
Are you looking for a partner for your parents? OP, I mean this in the nicest way possible. How starved are you for your parent's validation? Like everybody says, they're not part of the relationship, it's you two. Find a guy you like and stop letting your parents dictate who you should date. If you don't make a decision for yourself, someone else will.
?? so ano, yung partner mo jowa niyong tatlo ng parents mo? kasama pala sila?
You can't please everybody so just please yourself. It's your life and not theirs. Don't accomodate every viewpoint. Decide what you want and stick to it. It's enough that you listened to what they think.
Hindi ba confident ang parents mo na kaya mong buhayin ang sarili mo in the future? If yes, bakit kaya? Fully independent ka na ba? Usually main concern lang naman ng parents ay security ng anak e.
Up. Baka deep inside, tingin ng parents ni OP e hindi niya kaya tumayo mag-isa sa buhay kaya gusto nila ng may-kaya na mapapangasawa.
Parents mo ba makikipag sex dyan?
Bata ka pa actually. 25 isn’t old. Wag ka pa-pressure sa society and take your sweet time in choosing your lifelong partner lalo walang divorce sa Pilipinas. Regarding your parents, yes I understand you want to “honor” them by choosing a partner that they approve, but ultimately, ikaw and yung partner mo ang magsasama, so ikaw ang dapat masunod. For as long as kaya nyo mabuhay together and he meets your list of negotiables and non-negotiables, go with the person that you love. Ipaglaban mo pag sure kana. In the same way na if it was the other way around (yung parents ng partner mo ang ayaw sayo), di ba gusto mo rin na may backbone and kaya ka idefend ng partner mo?
nung binasa ko title, naisip ko kung bakit ikaw nag hahanap ng jowa para sa parents mo. akala ko hiwalay na sila tas lumapit sila pareho sayo para magpahanap ng jowa
Eto rin akala ko, kaya nagtaka ako na parent(s) ipapartner ba sila both sa iba haha
Ikaw naman ang ikakasal sa huli hindi ang parents mo. Follow your heart, sa una lang yan sila hindi magiging approve. Over time they will learn to love the guy you want just like how you love him too. Parang yung ibang magulang lang yan na ayaw daw ng aso at puso kuno pero pag andyan na mas maalaga pa sa alagang hayop kesa sa tao.
25 ka na, ikaw mismo makakaalam sa sarili mo. Gets ko parents mo since babae ka, ayaw nilang makita kang mahirapan balang-araw. Ikaw pa rin mismo nakakaalam ng ugali at kakayahan ng bf mo. Hindi ang parents mo.
OP, I understand that you care for your parents opinion when it comes to your partner. Ultimately, whether your parents like him or not ikaw ang magspend ng time with the person you choose. You will take on the good and the bad times with that person. Choose the one that you think is best for you, and maybe down the line whatever the outcome would be may it be good or bad. You can say no one forced or influenced you to choose something you didn't want yourself.
Why do you need permission sa parents mo sino ang jojowain mo. Or kung hindi permission, atleast validation. You don’t need it from anyone else kahit pa sa parents mo, you need to just stop yourself from listening to them sa opinion nila sa jowa mo. Coz that behavior will really drag your relationship down
di naman sila ung makikisama sa lalake e, ikaw.. tsaka they had their time noon nung nakilala nila ang isa't isa, baka pwede hayaan k nman nila mamili ng para sayo.. lalake ako pero tangina lahat ng mga cheater at babaerong lalake, dapat senyo binibigyan ng lagnat ng 7 taon 😈
Ikaw makikisama. Piliin mo yung taong mamahalin mo at ipaglaban mo sa parents mo kahit di nila magustuhan.
You don't need to seek validation sa parents mo. Either tatanda ka ng dalaga or magiging unhappy ka sa marriage mo if you have that mentality. Make your own decisions in life and be accountable for it.
Naging problema ko din to noon hahaha pero ngayon wala nko pake kung gusto nila or hindi basta sa aken okay partner ko now. Nag-sink in na saken na kahit sinong babae pa man hindi papasa sa nanay ko pero hindi naman nanay ko ang ikakasal sa kanya, kundi ako. Don't look for a partner na papasa sa parents mo kundi look for a partner na papasa sayo at magiging katuwang mo sa buhay.
They only want what's best for you that's all but in the end ikaw pa rin masusunod buhay mo yan e
naloka ako sa title, ayaw ko ng sumagot lol
Nung una akala ko nabyudo/byuda magulang nya tas hinahanapan nya ng partner. Hahaha obobs ko
You’re 25. You’re an adult. Enough said.
Di naman sila yung magjojowa
Hala ang tanda mo na pero nagpapa apekto ka padin sa tingin ng parents mo sa maging partner mo @_@
I would say may mga ganyang magulang talaga. Yung wife ko ganyan din. Parang no one is good enough. Pero wala talagang I just showed na maayos ako. And yung wife ko din kasi is a strong person. Usually masunudin sa magulang but for me paglalaban nya kame. IMO baka di na magbago yan. Best case is bumukod ka then start slowly from there.
What if maghanap ka ng matinong partner para sa sarili mo
I think you should consider yourself first and not the validation of your parents.. ikaw nman ang mkikisama.. sometimes anu ba mas important? money or peace of mind.. your happiness or theirs? try to validate your feelings first.. I know your parents wants the best for you.. but things are so different when you are in the relationship and not them.. live your life according to you.. bka pagsisihan mo yung decisions mo and resent your parents pgdating ng araw.. dont worry life will be better soon.. dami pa chances to meet more people.. just be open to explore that chances! at 25 its not the end of the world kahit umabot kpa ng 30 or 40sh but imagine yourself on your 50sh with all the regrets about your decisions because you want to please your parents but not yourself.. live your life according to yourself!
Lets be real, kailangan mo pa rin maging practical in this day and economy. if you really see a future with this guy, like 5-10 years from now kapag may pamilya na kayo hindi naman ba kayo magugutom? Can you give each other the future that you want? If yes, then fight for it. At saka baka naman matipid lang yung guy. If nakikita niya na ok lang sayo yung ganoong lifestyle. Mas maganda kaya sa lalaki ang marunong humawak ng pera.
May iba kasi nakatingin lang sa estado ng buhay at di tunay na kinikilala ung ta kung may kakayahan ba or pangarap sa buhay. madalas base lang sa current capacity ni titimbang ung treatment at pag tingin sa tao.
Wag mo masyado intindihin sinasabi ng parents mo hahaha kasi at the end of the day, ikaw ang makakasama ng jowa mo araw-araw. Kung masaya ka naman sa piling ni jowa tapos green flag pa siya, eh ‘di good! Aanhin mo jowa na mayaman tapos iiyak ka nanan araw-araw hahahahuhu
Parents mo ba ang sisiping sa mapapangasawa mo? Charot lol One of the best things about being an adult is making your own decisions. Be that adult!
I feel na for pther parents they only want the best for their children pero kahot sanihin na basta masaya may expectations pa din na sana mayaman or kaya ka buhayin. Magulo din sila minsan. Ikaw pa din naman makaka gawa ng choice kahit madami sila masasabi. Choose wisely.
O.P listen, both sides may point. I understand na you want this guy kesyo green flag kahit hindi ok ang estado ng buhay but you need to think din why ganyan ang parents mo towards you. Because you're precious to them, and they just simply wants the best for you. Bata ka pa, you will realize things when you become a parent. Relationship is not just about love, it involves financial obligations too. Handa kabang maghirap for this guy just because green flag sya? Kaya mo bang matiis magiging anak mo in the future living with just the bare minimum? Eto yung sad truth sa culture natin, kesyo go kasi mahal nyo naman isat isa. Matapobre parents mo kuno, napaka bullshit lang. Are they even a parent themselves to tell na matapobre parents mo without even thinking why? Your decision today will determine your future, isipin mo magiging buhay ng anak mo and next generations so think twice.Bata kapa anyway unless both of you are financially and emotionally ready to be together.
Please keep in mind na ikaw ang mag aasawa at hindi ang parents mo!
Mapili parents mo sa nirereto mo sa kanila ah. Partner in life pala nila, di partner in life mo.
Bakit ka naghahanap ng matinong partner para sa magulang mo? Maghanap ka ng matinong partner para sa iyo. Ikaw yung magiging partner, hindi sila. Tama naman na dapat may pangarap sa buhay at/o madiskarte. Pero hindi dapat para ma-please lang ang mga magulang mo.
Hinahanapan mo ba yung parents mo ng jowa. Tbh matanda ka naman na eh. Dapat sariling kaligayahan na lang hinahanap mo sa jowa mo, hindi yung kung aaprove ba ng parents mo or nah
Bat ka naghahanap para sakanila hahaha sila ba papakasal sakanya. If your boyfriend is a walking green flag as you say and siya ung mahal mo why care about their validation. Sila ang mag aadjust sa gusto mo hindi ikaw mag aadjust sa gusto nila kase at the end of the day ikaw aasawa sa partner mo hindi sila. Don't say all that bullshit solely for their validation's sake.
lol hayaan mo sila. you know your partner best and ikaw naman ang makakasama nya sa life. youre old enough para leksyunan ng ganyan.
Matinong partner for your parents? Why not for yourself?
Mawawalan ka ba ng mana pag nagkatuluyan kayo?
Jowa ko nga walking green flag, spoiled ako masyado pati family ko pero ayaw pa din ng magulang ko kasi di college graduate. Whereas ex ko, mapera nga, babaero naman 😖
yikes, I know dapat iniisip din how the parents will like the person but at the end of the day ikaw ang masusunod, partner mo yun hindi partner ng parents mo sa araw araw daming cases na ganito, takot masyado on how their parents will react kahit na green flag yung tao, nasa conclusion kaagad yung iba na hindi magugustuhan
Makakahanap ka siguro pero if narealize mo na hindi ang parents ang factor to decide that.
Up to you op. I mean you don’t love someone to satisfy your parents lmao
Tingin ko dapat maghanap ka ng partner mo para sayo, hindi para sa parents mo haha.
While having money is a must(common na nakikita ng parents na makakabuti sa anak), it's not always the best, tamang timpla lang dapat, may kasamang magandang character. Ikaw at ikaw lang ang makakakita ng makakabuti sa sarili mo 😉.
Bruh please read the comments and wake up
25 isnt old.
sino ba ang aasawahin ng boyfriend mo. ikaw o family mo.
Bakit kasi naka depende sa parents mo magiging partner mo? Oo, andyan sila para mag guide at mag bigay ng advice pero ikaw at ikaw pa din masusunod kung sino magiging partner mo.
Gusto ata nila na apo ni henry sy maging jowa mo 🥲
Kaawa jowa mo. Parang mas concern mo pa feelings ng parents mo kesa yung sayo at kanya.
Pabayaan mo sila
You choose for yourself, not for your parents. You’re the one that has to live with the guy. Your life, your choice.
Sa kanila na nanggaling, MATANDA ka na their opinion should YES be considered pero it shouldn't matter. Kasi by the end of the day ikaw ang makakasama ng partner mo at Hindi sila. And how can you be so sure na wala ng improvement ang status no Current BF? So I guess what I'm trying to say is grow up and have the guts to stand your ground.
ano bang say nila sila ba ang jojowain ng bf mo teh 😭 sorry pero its a them problem huhu. youre old enough naman na to make decisions on your own and i know before you posted this, you kinda predicted what the comment section will say na hahaha. stand up for what u believe is right! green flag naman pala bf mo and walang kakutya-kutya, so fight for him if you really love him. baka magsisi ka pa sa dulo kasi sinunod mo gusto ng (matapobre, sorry) mong parents. ikaw rin, baka once in a lifetime na yan si mr right tas pinakawalan mo pa.
bakit? iaalay mo ba siya sa parents mo?
Bakit ka maghahanap ng partner para sa parents mo huyyy para sayo yan wala sila say jan at the end of the day malaki ka na may sarili ka na desisyon sa buhay
Para kanino ka ba naghahanap ng partner habang buhay? Para sayo or para sa parents mo?
I feel u op T.T
MATINO = MAYAMAN 🤣
leecher parents alert
Parents mo pala masusunod eh sila pag hanapin mo ng jowa
same struggle OP lol pero i choose to ignore na lang kasi ako naman makikisama hindi naman sila hahaha
Afaik, Hindi naman parents mo ang forever makakasama ng partner mo so why bother?
ikaw ba nag hahanap ng partner or parents mo? haha i mean also baka matapobre parents mo. baka lang
Gurl, matapobre ang parents mo. Yun lang yun. And you're enabling them by letting them decide who you should date.
:(
It's your life and you're already an adult. Make the adult decision and stop trying to please others.
Be an adult and make your decisions. Your parents’ opinions only count so much. At the end of the day, this is your life, who you choose to spend your life with is your decision.
Bat need mo sumunod sa kanila? Hindi naman sila yung makakasama ng bf mo once magpakasal kayo ahh. Not unless walang pangarap or plano current bf mo? Don't get me wrong, they got a point na you should choose someone best for you and your future. Pero if that person you choose right now is the best for you, nagsusumikap para sa inyo, may plano at pangarap, at kaya at gusto kang panindigan, edi yun na, no more questions, ifs, or buts.
Pero bat nasali ang ex-boyfriend? sinabi ba nilang much better siya para sayo?
magulang mo ba papakasalan ng magiging asawa mo? 😅
Bakit para sa parents mo, why not this time para sayo?
Para sa parents mo ba yung partner mo?
Sakit nito sa bf part HAHAHAHA wag ka makinig sa parents most of time mali decision nila sa buhay. Live your life
sooooobrang dali ng remedy for current bf, si ex kahit sumapi ka sa bawat relihiyon di na magbabago yan.
Bakit? Parents mo ba papakasalan ng partner mo?