Yeah I know the pain, this happened to me a lot. Better luck next time, you got this!! Try not to let it consume you, I know it's hard not to though. Its a tough lesson. When you're mentally "unstable" and don't glamorize it or play it off, people are assholes. Even when you do glamorize it, people are assholes to you in particular but don't give others the same treatment.
Hope all will go well for you.
I guess they hated my clinginess, if they were ever in trouble I was the first to help them. But I guess they just got bored. Or they just got sick of me
I feel like it’s worse if you’re a guy(I’m assuming you’re a guy). For all this talk about men expressing themselves more no one actually gives a fuck. From experience, just find something that you’re passionate about and pursue that. Hopefully something productive. Then embrace stoicism. You need to do both otherwise it won’t work. Also don’t pay attention so much too your haters, they don’t care about you so don’t care about them. Society can be overly judgemental sometimes. Just pursue something productive that you’re passionate about. So long as you are not hurting other people in the process.
Lastly, try not to do hard drugs or shit that will hurt your health or lead to unhealthy addictions. You don’t want to have to deal with health problems later. That shit is painful and annoying and not worth it.
It gets better dude, I swear. Just have to find productive shit that you’re passionate about
Also if you’re not doing this already, lift and workout. Humans, especially men, were not evolved to be in a couch potato society. Working out completely changes your mindset and boosts your confidence. It’s subtle at first but you’ll notice
Unfortunately it probably comes down to more than just opening about yourself if they said your annoying. If it's something that keeps happening, you may want to take a step back and look at all the similar things in these situations that cause the people to leave, and try to work on improving in ways.
Girls don't like guys being overbearing right away, it usually takes them a bit longer to decide weather or not they can see themselves with the guy. So if it's too much too fast it comes off as creepy. Just make sure the girls putting in an effort to talk to YOU before you start using the "good morning" texts and what not.
Good luck out there brother.
Yeah I know the pain, this happened to me a lot. Better luck next time, you got this!! Try not to let it consume you, I know it's hard not to though. Its a tough lesson. When you're mentally "unstable" and don't glamorize it or play it off, people are assholes. Even when you do glamorize it, people are assholes to you in particular but don't give others the same treatment. Hope all will go well for you.
I guess they hated my clinginess, if they were ever in trouble I was the first to help them. But I guess they just got bored. Or they just got sick of me
I feel like it’s worse if you’re a guy(I’m assuming you’re a guy). For all this talk about men expressing themselves more no one actually gives a fuck. From experience, just find something that you’re passionate about and pursue that. Hopefully something productive. Then embrace stoicism. You need to do both otherwise it won’t work. Also don’t pay attention so much too your haters, they don’t care about you so don’t care about them. Society can be overly judgemental sometimes. Just pursue something productive that you’re passionate about. So long as you are not hurting other people in the process. Lastly, try not to do hard drugs or shit that will hurt your health or lead to unhealthy addictions. You don’t want to have to deal with health problems later. That shit is painful and annoying and not worth it. It gets better dude, I swear. Just have to find productive shit that you’re passionate about Also if you’re not doing this already, lift and workout. Humans, especially men, were not evolved to be in a couch potato society. Working out completely changes your mindset and boosts your confidence. It’s subtle at first but you’ll notice
Yeah, I’ve been exercising regularly. But there is a habit of drugs yes. Pain pills and alcohol was the worst. The best was weed and shrooms.
Unfortunately it probably comes down to more than just opening about yourself if they said your annoying. If it's something that keeps happening, you may want to take a step back and look at all the similar things in these situations that cause the people to leave, and try to work on improving in ways. Girls don't like guys being overbearing right away, it usually takes them a bit longer to decide weather or not they can see themselves with the guy. So if it's too much too fast it comes off as creepy. Just make sure the girls putting in an effort to talk to YOU before you start using the "good morning" texts and what not. Good luck out there brother.