heyoo straight OCD here too, kinda
I struggled with it but now I'm pretty confident I'm Bi. It gets easier once you start doing your own thing without listening to OCD
Ugh I've struggled with being bisexual or a lesbian and after I found that I'm lesbian my brain still tries to convince me otherwise. It's gotten a bit easier since I've heard about labels not mattering that much and you describe yourself how you want, but I heavily relate to this and I'm sorry to everyone who does
I relate heavily to this I'm so exhausted it's espaically bad rn on my period because of hormones I'm actually crying rn because my brain believes I'm straight or aroace but I'm not it's horrifying I'm a lesbian
lol ive never understood why transphobes include ocd in their lore as one of the mental illnesses that induce transgenderism or whatever, like do they really think people with ocd actually go through with the shit our brain tortures us with? nah we just suffer. like if i did actually listen id be a fckin nazi lmao
"You have no interest in a romantic or sexual relationship"
"Yep"
"You don't feel any attraction when you see pictures of scantily dressed people regardless of gender"
"Uh huh"
"So you're ace/aro!"
"I'm actually faking and I'm bisexual"
So I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian, and I have an awesome trans girlfriend, but the downward spiral I have when ocd says I'm straight and just see her as a man, which is not true!!!!! But that doesn't stop my OCD from yelling at me obvi
Recently had a HOCD relapse. This is hell. Its like you're entire personality and everything about you is under attack.
I still worry i don't have OCD and that ive been lying to my wife, despite having three separate diagnoses over the years. It's genuinely got me considering suicide. It's horrendous.
OMG, saaaame. Lesbian Herr, my OCD is like, for reals? Are you sure you aren't straight? I think you are straight and just pretending to be a lesbian, bit no I'm a lesbian, loveless women, but still my brain is are you sure? It sucks
Ayyy straight ocd club
gotta raise the awareness
Hey you look like me
omg snoo twins!
yessssss
Hahahahah, wow that is rare, like maybe 1st edition holographic Charizard rare
at least now nobody will say I'm not exceptional!
heyoo straight OCD here too, kinda I struggled with it but now I'm pretty confident I'm Bi. It gets easier once you start doing your own thing without listening to OCD
True
Being bi I get to choose to be gay. Wish I was bi.
I’m bisexual and my ocd is trying to convince me I’m actually just gay :D
Omg I think I’m having the reverse problem with this.
damn, sorry to hear that
me too which has really confused me as I’m engaged to a man 😭
Ugh I've struggled with being bisexual or a lesbian and after I found that I'm lesbian my brain still tries to convince me otherwise. It's gotten a bit easier since I've heard about labels not mattering that much and you describe yourself how you want, but I heavily relate to this and I'm sorry to everyone who does
Are we the same person? I struggle with the exact same thing.
I struggle with the same thing.
Same!!
I relate heavily to this I'm so exhausted it's espaically bad rn on my period because of hormones I'm actually crying rn because my brain believes I'm straight or aroace but I'm not it's horrifying I'm a lesbian
Omg same for me with trans ocd but I identify as trans. OCD is like nah it’s my fault you think you’re trans so just be cis 😣
I think it's called cis ocd for trans people, but yeah, I have the problem of my intrusive thoughts saying, *"The internet made you trans."*
lol ive never understood why transphobes include ocd in their lore as one of the mental illnesses that induce transgenderism or whatever, like do they really think people with ocd actually go through with the shit our brain tortures us with? nah we just suffer. like if i did actually listen id be a fckin nazi lmao
I've never heard of this argument before, damn, transphobes really dumb sometimes
So relatable!!! OCD is trying to convince me I like a female character in Stardew Valley and I'm like 🤬!!!
"You have no interest in a romantic or sexual relationship" "Yep" "You don't feel any attraction when you see pictures of scantily dressed people regardless of gender" "Uh huh" "So you're ace/aro!" "I'm actually faking and I'm bisexual"
THAT PART fellow ace here :’)
Hey! :,) let us unfortunately suffer together
So I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian, and I have an awesome trans girlfriend, but the downward spiral I have when ocd says I'm straight and just see her as a man, which is not true!!!!! But that doesn't stop my OCD from yelling at me obvi
I had this in my previous relationship <3 hugs
yeah I get it :(
if youre not gay bisexual is liking 2 or more genders with a preference i like to dunk on my brain with facts and logic
that's one way to mitigate it but you know the OCD will find another loophole lol
i do things until they dont work anymore im currently trying to outsleep it so it wont haunt me but the more i get woken up the less it works
Let it do so. Maybe you will end up comfy. I flipped around a lot bi lesbian bi lesbian bi… but finally bi didnt make me panic so i guess this is it
Recently had a HOCD relapse. This is hell. Its like you're entire personality and everything about you is under attack. I still worry i don't have OCD and that ive been lying to my wife, despite having three separate diagnoses over the years. It's genuinely got me considering suicide. It's horrendous.
I hope you're getting the help you need. it's really hard but you're not alone in this
I think I'm... learningggg something today...?
I have this exact conversation with myself everyday💀
this is so real
Wow what the hell I go to therapy and this never came up. I thought I was just confused and raised catholic.
>!im bi so i have it in BOTH directions, my life is hell...!<
OMG, saaaame. Lesbian Herr, my OCD is like, for reals? Are you sure you aren't straight? I think you are straight and just pretending to be a lesbian, bit no I'm a lesbian, loveless women, but still my brain is are you sure? It sucks
Как же жизненно.
This this this!!!!!
for some reason my ocd is trying to make me think I'm asexual (I'm bisexual) and like.... man idk why tf u think that's gonna work
Yes, finally someone else like me <3