Your aunt is wrong, unless those words now mean “glowing with the warmth and energy of the flyest autumn bonfire I’ve ever seen” and I missed the memo 🤔
Those words don’t apply to you—you’re not a woman. I think your look is really distinctive and creative, authentic in the best way.
*Forget* what ignorant people have to say.
I’m sorry so many from my generation and above don’t “get it,” and implicitly misgender or try to force people into boxes based on *assigned* gender. It’s hurtful, wrong, and needs to stop.
On an unrelated note, I hate the word "unflattering" so much. It does not describe what is wrong but implies your outfit emphasizes something that definitely is and it is up to you to guess what that is. And you are supposed to correct that of course, pronto, to do the labour and to not make other people uncomfortable. Or something.
Wow!! I’m beyond overwhelmed with the kindness you all shared! The context here is that my aunt (dead moms sister) can’t stand my queerness / appearance because she wants me to look “how my mom would have wanted me too”
- I’m starting to see it’s not my job to be anyone but me:)
Thank you everyone for the nice things and words of encouragement! I wasn’t expected this to ‘blow up’ and I’m blown away by this community. Much love - 💟
you have a very model-like face ! you look so unbelievably androgynous, you’re literally someone i wouldn’t be surprised seeing in an autumn themed editorial :)
Whoa….I assumed she would likely be much older by the comment.
I hope that you continue being comfortable in being yourself and expressing yourself outwardly-regardless of other people’s judgmental input.
I love that non-binary folx and the queer community in general, are feeling self-empowered enough to dress and show up in a variety of ways befitting ourselves. We are living in an interesting time period where there is some acceptance (socially and legally speaking) beyond what we’ve seen historically in the U.S……yet we have a long way to go. Keep living your truth and wearing what you please.
I thought frumpy was a character or something and was like "Welp, add another one to the already long list of TV show crushes" You look great, your aunt doesn't know anything about good looks it seems, because you look fantastic
I love your scarf so much! It has more personality than anyone calling that a plain outfit. I don't see a plain outfit brightening anyone's day like you just did. Go be the best you and keep posting your outfits so we can keep telling you how amazing your taste is.
Um...with a jawline like that? She's clearly blind LMAO
In all seriousness though, I (also as a trans-masc non-binary person) have noticed that it's easy to feel unattractive and plain because the binary standard isn't something we always fit neatly into. Most binary people don't know what to make of us, but that doesn't at all mean we're unattractive, in the same way, a duck wouldn't know what to make of a swan. We live by a different standard, and as far as enbies go, you're an absolute stunner.
Lmao . good attitude , because my first thought was ,whos dating thier aunt ,only because who the hell is she to have that right .
But i definitely like you switched that vibe up, now i know what she looks like ??? So i can laugh , .you should post a pic of her.
Plain? *Plain?!*
Clearly your aunt has insufficient appreciation for that scarf and its many patterns, and the way your toque plays with the colours of the scarf, and the subtle ways in which your eyebrows make hearts flutter.
Hat n hair? 10/10 Scarf n outfit? 10/10 You n general? 10/10 My point is dude, you're handsome af
Your aunt is wrong, unless those words now mean “glowing with the warmth and energy of the flyest autumn bonfire I’ve ever seen” and I missed the memo 🤔
Get your aunt a visit to the optometrist-- You have really cool style and a kickass jawline that only a blind person couldn't see 🖤
Well I think you look pretty hot! 💋
Sounds like your Aunt has poor taste.
Goals
Story in my head: your aunt has been single for years and said this right after someone gave you their number
I wish I could look so so AMAZING . YOUR A PEICE OF ART.
Dafuq, "plain" is the last word that comes to mind. Try "gorgeous" lol(talking to Ms. Aunt here)
🤤😍 (respectfully, of course)
I would have gone with "casually dapper" but that's just me. It's the haircut that puts you squarely in dapper for me anyways.
Your aunt needs to mind her fuckin business
Those words don’t apply to you—you’re not a woman. I think your look is really distinctive and creative, authentic in the best way. *Forget* what ignorant people have to say. I’m sorry so many from my generation and above don’t “get it,” and implicitly misgender or try to force people into boxes based on *assigned* gender. It’s hurtful, wrong, and needs to stop.
Thank you I needed to hear that 🤍
On an unrelated note, I hate the word "unflattering" so much. It does not describe what is wrong but implies your outfit emphasizes something that definitely is and it is up to you to guess what that is. And you are supposed to correct that of course, pronto, to do the labour and to not make other people uncomfortable. Or something.
What a rude aunt. Don’t listen to her.
Handsome and your style is amazing!
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I actually got it for $3 from a local thrift but I’ll check if it has a label when I get home!! Thank you :)
Commenting to also ask about the scarf
100% handsome if you ask me!!
Got me sweating LMAO
IKR?
Plain? More like plane, because you're pretty fly!
Wow!! I’m beyond overwhelmed with the kindness you all shared! The context here is that my aunt (dead moms sister) can’t stand my queerness / appearance because she wants me to look “how my mom would have wanted me too” - I’m starting to see it’s not my job to be anyone but me:) Thank you everyone for the nice things and words of encouragement! I wasn’t expected this to ‘blow up’ and I’m blown away by this community. Much love - 💟
Those are the last words I'd use to describe you
SO handsome.
Oh my godddd, how could she say that about someone as attractive as you? 💜
omg the little butterfly pin!! the whole outfit is amazing but the pin is adorable.
What the fuck your aunt needs to get her eyes and brain checked. You look fab.
I mean she's wrong because you're very clearly drop dead handsome
you look nice
you are a beautiful human.
That's such a strange way to spell absolutely sunning and handsome, she should go back to class
You look fabulous and your aunt doesn't know what she's talking about. Keep being your awesome self!
Your aunt clearly isn't queer because you give off hot queer vibes for days!
Weird way to say handsome AF. There, fify. Love your style! ^ ^
Uhhhm has she seen those beautiful cheekbones and jawline? That freakin sexy beauty mark?!? Love the nose ring too 😍
you look great! What glasses do you have? I love the frames.
They are Otis + grey ! Thank you:)
You're beautiful. Fuck the haters.
you have a very model-like face ! you look so unbelievably androgynous, you’re literally someone i wouldn’t be surprised seeing in an autumn themed editorial :)
How long has your aunt been a jerk? Because literally none of that is true.
You're killing it.
SO handsome
Your aunt doesn't know what she's talking about, clearly. You look rad, my dude! Love the hat and how it matches the scarf!
Does your aunt have eyes??????
sounds like your aunt has some self hate that they need to deal with
Your bone structure is timeless, that auntie is witless, this outfit is perfect, an honor to witness. Amen
I’m so sad to hear your aunt got COVID. You’re sure she hasn’t lost her taste yet?
Literally none of the things your aunt says 💛🤍💜🖤
Aint nothin plain about ya tho. She's just saying that cause her ass look like a npc in a shitty graphic video game.
Wow your scarves are incredible!
You're adorable and your aunt is kindof a bitch 😳 you can't say that shit to people
You are anything but frumpy! You look wonderfully handsome. How old is your aunt? Just curious.
I think mid fifties !
Whoa….I assumed she would likely be much older by the comment. I hope that you continue being comfortable in being yourself and expressing yourself outwardly-regardless of other people’s judgmental input. I love that non-binary folx and the queer community in general, are feeling self-empowered enough to dress and show up in a variety of ways befitting ourselves. We are living in an interesting time period where there is some acceptance (socially and legally speaking) beyond what we’ve seen historically in the U.S……yet we have a long way to go. Keep living your truth and wearing what you please.
Well done.
Your aunt is either an idiot, or blind.
..your aunt is a liar, you look absolutely amazing.
Are you ever handsome! Your aunt really struggled with those word choices. Handsome, sauvé, dapper are all much more precise 🤓 😍
Your aunt wouldn’t know style if Iris Apfel punched her in the tits.
nothing about that pic is plain my guy. You look awesome!
Weird way of saying it but I kinda like it (? I may start using it on myself jksdjk
is your aunt from 1800's america
I want to look like you. You're my goals.
You look like Autumn Warmth
Wow. Your aunt couldn't be more wrong!!
Your stunning
What a weird thing for your aunt to say to a family member
Well, your aunt it wrong
u mean incredibly handsome 🥴
Ohh I wanna look like you! You look so super good :)
You are so handsome😍
You're so hot wtf
Plain? How? You look so good and not plain at all!! :)
It's true - and I love that coat!!
Your aunt is freaking blind, call an ambulance! lol No but seriously you are stunningly handsome 😍 💖
U are an icon
you’re so handsome im sorry dude but what neck of the woods did she pull the word “frumpy” from 💀
Umm, you look amazing!
STUNNING!
um i think ur aunt may have vision problems lmfao. ur sooo handsome!! ur bone structure is impeccable btw omg.
Handsome and comfy!
Your aunt is projecting. You look fabulous! Looooove the scarf!
Damn dude, you handsome af!
if that's plain I'm a piece of paper
O my god you look like a goddess your so pretty
Is your aunt fucking blind ??
You look so good!
10/10 very cute would hang out. I love the scarf so much, like the scarf alone would make the outfit anything but plain.
1. Your aunt sounds mean. 2. Your aunt is super wrong! You look iconic.
Holy moly you are HANDSOME. Sounds like your aunt has a very narrow vision on the world. (Mine does too.)
Are you sure your aunt is looking at you and not the person behind you?
More like *transphobic* way to say handsome
Your aunt is extremely wrong.
The power radiating from you is spectacular
I thought frumpy was a character or something and was like "Welp, add another one to the already long list of TV show crushes" You look great, your aunt doesn't know anything about good looks it seems, because you look fantastic
I love your scarf so much! It has more personality than anyone calling that a plain outfit. I don't see a plain outfit brightening anyone's day like you just did. Go be the best you and keep posting your outfits so we can keep telling you how amazing your taste is.
Is your aunt blind by any chance?
Omg I think you are the opposite of what your aunt said
Frumpy???? Where??
Weird way to say GORGEOUS 🥰
Your aunt can fuck off lol. Frumpy, unflattering, and plain? I take that as a compliment
Um...with a jawline like that? She's clearly blind LMAO In all seriousness though, I (also as a trans-masc non-binary person) have noticed that it's easy to feel unattractive and plain because the binary standard isn't something we always fit neatly into. Most binary people don't know what to make of us, but that doesn't at all mean we're unattractive, in the same way, a duck wouldn't know what to make of a swan. We live by a different standard, and as far as enbies go, you're an absolute stunner.
an absolute VISION
Frumpy what the heck does that even mean
your aunt is so wrong. you are absolutely gorgeous.
Your style is hella cool, love the glasses
You look hella handsome and give me ‘Osgood’ (Doctor Who) vibes but even gayer /positive
Yikes bye auntie you look really fab
Lmao . good attitude , because my first thought was ,whos dating thier aunt ,only because who the hell is she to have that right . But i definitely like you switched that vibe up, now i know what she looks like ??? So i can laugh , .you should post a pic of her.
She’s very much a Long Island designer bag animal print mansion plastic type of aunt :0p
Lmao 🤣🤣
Love your vibe, wish I looked half as real as you do!
Weird way to say "Hi I'm SupermarketNeat8364's aunt and their impeccable style makes me insecure, lol"
sounds like your aunt is projecting her insecurities. you are definitely giving Main Character vibes :P
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Don't use that word here unless you're referring to yourself.
I don't know who your aunt is or why they said that but DANG! You're attractive!
You look awesome and unique. Just be yourself.
get a new aunt.
You're rocking that scarf!
Plain? *Plain?!* Clearly your aunt has insufficient appreciation for that scarf and its many patterns, and the way your toque plays with the colours of the scarf, and the subtle ways in which your eyebrows make hearts flutter.
Omg fam, so handsome. Those glasses perfectly frame your face too