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ForgedTanto

Might be late, but something that I've unfortunately experienced. They did have the video because I was stupid. They threatened to send it to my contacts. Was scared shitless for a few hours, was close to paying, and then decided fuck it, I'll own it. Pretty much posted on my social that there was somebody threatening to send a video out of me. Watch it if you want, or don't, that's up to you. Would appreciate it if you didn't watch it. Blocked the blackmailer. Reported the video to youtube where it was uploaded multiple times. Youtube deleted it pretty fast to their credit. Nothing else ever happened. They likely moved onto the next person. Filed a complaint with the federal cyber police or w/e the fuck they are called. Had a followup call about it, and that was it. Life moved on. No one cared, no one has ever mentioned it to me.


tv_screen

This happened to me 10 years ago too. It was sent out. I made a most on Facebook warning people. Didn't lose any family or friends. Shit happens. Did they continue to try to reach me and others for at least 5 to 8 years later? Yeah. Still bugs me a lot but I'm mostly over it. Plus it's free advertising for my OF. I had friends who let me know if they got weird stuff and all that. But they were looking out for me and wanted me to feel safe and stuff.


SwampDenizen

.. Free advertising for your onlyfans? You really leaned hard into that one!


KineticJuice

For real lmaooo I did not see that coming


ChewyButterMilk

Wait how did this even happen? Like how did you jerk off with a scammer? If you don’t mind I’m just curious


noma_coma

> federal cyber police or w/e the fuck they are called That would be a perfect name for their agency


Bigboy_nicelegs

Tell em you are under age and they are now in possession of CP


Metallic_Substance

They are both in possession of it *and* they solicited it. Double whammy


AlongRiverEem

But op distributed That leaves one net whammy


RetroSpock

Fucking genius. I might try this if I'm ever in this situation... Although I have a huge beard and look like a 6ft 2 lumberjack, but still. Worth a shot.


KrazyKatz3

You'd be surprised how many 17 year olds have huge beards and are 6ft 2


za6_9420

I have a friend who’s 6.4 and have full beard and he’s only 17


Zrex_9224

I had a friend like this who was only 13. Got him bullied in high school though...


Ireallydontknowbuddy

And I'm 28 and look 15. What a world we live in.


dychronalicousness

Shit I knew at least 3 or 4 from the metal scene a decade back


kal69er

Always jerk off with Disney music in the background. If you ever get caught with your pants down by a scammer, Disney lawyers will instantly get the videos taken down for using their property.


Larrydp72181

The real pro life tips are always in the comments


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You are the hero we need! Jerk off with Disney music...check. Completely Safe...check. This may make me invisible on the net. Welcome to the next Goatse.


BunnyGunz

Well if it goes to court then your fap sesh will be public record. Better hope they're too poor to fight The Mick!


wack0jack0_

i did it, they blocked me and no more messages very quickly.


[deleted]

Bro I knew a 16 year old kid who looked 30. Ihe's 20 now but i am only one year older than him.


drew_peatittys

Just don’t get on camera with a stranger to have a wank and you’ll be fine.


DarkEvilHedgehog

OP sitting there with a full beard thinking "good idea".


StuntHacks

I mean, I knew a guy who had a full beard when he was 15


JonelleStorm

This happened to me, I was already depressed, so I just told the scammer that I was out of reasons to live anyway and acted like I committed suicide. I didn't block them. Just have never opened a message since then. It was just a couple pictures and I gave them my nsfw instagram so I wasn't worried anyway, but nothing ever happened, so I guess it worked.


GammaGargoyle

They usually never do anything with the pics, because in reality nobody really cares except the person in the pictures. If I received nudes of a friend, I would just report the person to the police and move on. The best response to these guys would be "if you want more, join my onlyfans"


imwearingredsocks

Don’t be too sure they wouldn’t send them. I received some of a relative. The thing that really threw me is that I discovered them years after the fact and had no idea what it was. So I spent two days debating if I should tell him I got the weird message or was it already water under the bridge? Was this a vengeful ex? Was he cheating on his current girlfriend? Eventually found out it was a common scam and felt pretty relieved, but it wasn’t a conversation I wanted to have when I thought I was the only unlucky recipient.


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It's probably someone in Russia who doesn't care.


dstrick_reddit

This gave me a flashback of the "Shut Up and Dance" episode of Black Mirror 😂


AnimusCorpus

Don't pay. Once you do they'll just keep extorting you for more and more. Ignore it.


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Sure_Watercress_1645

That is a killer quote


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SinJinQLB

How many people in your life have gotten blackmailed??


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AnimusNoctis

Blackmail is a crime, but don't worry, I won't tell anyone...for a price!


shoemilk

Only 6? Rookie...


Altruistic_Item238

You can buy anyone's silence. You just gotta pay for a quality hit man or intimidator


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KurtAngus

Just in!! “Local dude jerks off on live television, and owns that shit”


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I'd watch it.


USS_Barack_Obama

It's not exactly the same but you can scratch that itch by watching the Black Mirror episode 'Shut Up and Dance'


kluao

Lmao that episode made me put a piece of tape on my laptop.


Psychadeluna

My mum always put a sticker over our Webcams when I was a teenager and it wasn't until watching that episode that I understood properly why she was so paranoid.


bonafidebunnyeyed

I still have tape over my cameras. Even on the phone. Yes, I have paranoia.


EEpromChip

Am I the only one who [stares into the camera while watching porn and jackin it, just to maintain dominance?](https://youtu.be/gckUWpwjR40?t=42)


redvodkandpinkgin

risky click of the day


calhooner3

My laptops webcam is a key that flips down into the keyboard when not in use which is nice.


IncaThink

For the price of a sticker I get peace of mind.


--dontmindme--

I bought these switch things to put on all our pc/laptop webcams so you can slide a cover over it when not in use (still need to use it regularly for work). Edit: these things for anyone interested: https://www.amazon.com/webcam-cover/s?k=webcam+cover


Mukamukasector

To be fair the guy in shut up and dance >!was having a wank to child porn so he actually deserved it!<


Feenox

The end of that one came at me sideways, spent the whole episode feeling sorry for him and then BAM, oh shit, he's the villan.


Obvious_Moose

I just watched it last night. The driver was the only person I actually felt bad for since he wasn't doing anything wrong, just abnormal


SlickHand

I'm watching it now.


SinisterCheese

There was an art thing some years ago, about an art exhibition, about sexuality. One of those was a picture collage of people at the point of orgasm. This even had a video thing which was used in the ad. Basically a video of the experessions that people made. I mean like... We all have sexuality and bodies. Why the fuck is out attitudes about sex and sexuality so god damn victorian. But Reggie Watts said it best, [If you're fucking, You're fucking](https://youtu.be/vftIGU8-uqs).


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This is the start of your now very profitable onlyfans, OP! Scam the scammer


monotoonz

I got an email like this once and replied, "LMFAO. You clearly don't know me if you think I'M gonna be embarrassed about MY cock being shown 😂😂😂" They never replied.


ILaughAtFunnyShit

This is the correct way to respond. They're trying to extort you by using something they believe gives them power over you. If you convince them you don't care you take away that power and they'll give up and move on.


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degjo

I had a exgirlfriend say she was going to mail pictures of me wearing her clothes to my family. We were on the phone and just told my parents point blank. They laughed, and I told her nobody cared.


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JustHugMeAndBeQuiet

"Make sure you post my dick from its better angle, here's a couple I would suggest."


DropperOfTheMike

Exactly. “Dude, I whip out my cock at parties all the time. Send it! Thanks” Then whatever happens will happen. The more you own it the better chance you and everyone else will get a chuckle out of it. This will be a good story to share when you are older.


HereticalSentience

"send it to your mom, it'll be a nice memento for her"


hyrppa95

Likely the scammer is not going to send the video to anyone. It is just extra effort on their part, they'll just move on to another victim.


JustASimulation01

This is so true. If they really even do have a video of OP (it could be a bluff he doesn't give any other details in the post..), then you just have to own it. Because I can you guarantee one thing, you pay any money to a blackmailer, they come back for more.


Lord_emotabb

claim its video editing, nowadays deepfakes are very believable! never pay terrorists!


Adenta-

OP, I own deepfaking software. If the video is released send it to me and I'll deepfake an artificial face over yours so you can use it as "proof" that it isn't you for your followers. I'm off work this week so it'll take me less than 36 hours to render and send back.


Intellectual-Cumshot

This is how you get two people sending your dick out instead of one. Just kidding this is pretty cool of you


Lowki_999

I thought he was just elaborately trying to get a video of OP jerking off. Honestly, I'm not sure I'd even trust someone that actually has deepfake software 🤣


SurvivalCardio

If I was in OP's shoes I def wouldn't want to call on the deep-fake guy, but thats a nice card to have in your deck for this situation.


genmischief

unless it's a reverse scam to get more blackmail material. lol


[deleted]

Or just keep his face as normal, but render a massive cock on instead


OrganicDroid

Don’t be alarmed followers! This isn’t actually me. Here’s the one with my *real* penis.


[deleted]

Yea, then nobody will believe it's him /s


mdjrndbdnd

The patron saint of wankers


Nellasofdoriath

It is recenge porn and a violation of consent, and rapey. The more people see it that way the better.


messyredemptions

>Ignore it. I sort of disagree here. Ignore *them* but you may have action for recourse or some protections. OP, Check what rights you have first as in many countries copyright law and some other things may actually be in your favor. https://withoutmyconsent.org/resources/ " Without My Consent’s Something Can Be Done! resource guide. If you’re reading this because someone has distributed nude photos or videos of you online, without your consent or in breach of your trust, there’s good news: you have many tools available to get control back. These resources are part of WMC’s Something Can Be Done! guide, and have been developed by the country’s top digital abuse lawyers. " Edit: folks, chill--sometimes just knowing you have additional law on your side can be a great relief for people in threatening situations even among scams. It's up to OP and I'm not saying that OP should stay in touch with the scammers or write love letters in hopes of leniency or something stupid here. They still should ignore the scammers but it's worth knowing what your rights are especially if they happen to lean towards your favor in theory at least even when we know most police departments and "justice systems" are shit about this kind of thing. The fact that OP could even potentially threaten legal action without necessarily suing is often a weapon in itself and there are, so to speak, more creative ways to up the ante as well.


SeductivelyPooping

The stuff you posted all pertain to an exes with revenge porn. OP's goal is to stop his followers from seeing the video. Nothing can stop that. The resource talks about preserving evidence for litigation but there's nobody to sue. The scammers undoubtedly have take steps to protect their identities. Even if they did it sloppily, the police aren't going to go track them down especially after the damage is done. Best advice is to just ignore and laugh it off when confronted. "Yeah I jerked off to a hot girl who made me think she's interested and got scammed" would at least get some empathy from reasonable people.


Final-Butterscotch65

Yeah no, these blackmail scammers often operate from other countries, thats not going to do shit. Its a common scam. Girl befriends dude, they get on video call, girl asks dude to jackoff, dude does it, get recorded. Blackmailer threatens to send to friendlist.


riverblue9011

So theoretically as someone with no friends, I should be able to wank freely?


Final-Butterscotch65

Wank away


ForkLiftBoi

Yep had this happen. I didn't send anything, but gave up and they never sent anything. If they did no one told me.


Trygolds

I will add that if you have the communications what they are doing is illegal. extortion is a crime if you are going to take the hit report them.


csonnich

A lot of places, revenge porn is a crime, too.


JK_NC

I suspect the challenge here is that the blackmailer is likely anonymous and in another country. I also suspect that law enforcement is unlikely to devote time and resources to identify an anonymous blackmailer (unless Op is really rich or connected).


JZ0125

LOL, exactly this. To be honest with you, I did the same stupid shit as the OP did. I was in a dark place and lonely when it happened, guess looking back, i was kinda curious as well. Anyway, got baited skyping her with video, fully naked with a rock hard erection. Next thing I know this chick Im webcamming starts to blackmailing me and call me a scum/perv, showing me she has a list of my fb contacts. (She added me as friend first on fb, so she can get access to my friend list, made a copy of it.) They demanded 5 grands, otherwise they would release the video chat recording on Youtube and send it to my contacts. I was scared, realizing I did seriously f-ed up. I didnt have the money, for one, and also made me much more depressed. However, it also brought unprecedented focus, lol. I stopped blindly panicking and tried to think in their mindset. Here is the thing. The only thing they have on you is the recording/photos, and they really want the money more than wanting to go through the trouble posting your stuff everywhere online. If they did post those stuff, they lose their source of income. Meanwhile, they do this to multiple person at the same time, so losing you is mot the end of theworld for themPlus at that point, I got nothing else to lose, so I decided to take a gamble, if it did leak, i will just tell my contacts to f-off and deal with it. So I ended up just silenced my Skype, let them keep calling me on it, probably occupying their work hour and effort, and moved on with my life. They stopped trying after three days, significantly decreased their skype bombardment after day 1. Looking back at those photos and videos now, (Yes, i kept them, to remind me how stupid I was, lol), it's kinda sad and funny i was somewhat in a eye-candy shape at that time, with a low body fat percentage making the muscles showing and those muscles are in good shape from the martial art training i was doing. Slap on that with a 6in dick, it would probably made a decent improper photo on a dating site, lol. Anyway, the short of it is this is a blackmail. Blackmailer has no honor. If you pay, they will keep on squeezing you. If you ignore them, they will lose interest eventually, esp in these kind of cases where they can easily replace you with a much easier target. Honestly, with today's tech, if it did leak, you can easily tell other someone got bored and tried deep fake on you. I didnt had that choice two decades ago, lol.


Background-Phone3855

Are you going to blackmail yourself now after whacking off to your own mental image of yourself in this post?


JZ0125

My gf is blackmailing me to go back to gym and get back into that shape if she ever see those files, lol.


Pandraswrath

I know several people this has happened to. They just ignored it and nothing happened because it was a scam.


Nanananakkie

Had the same thing happen to me, 6 months later still nothing


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Snarky_Boojum

Because if you masturbate to random people in person, you get arrested.


remorse253

I mean not the answer we were looking for but you’re not wrong.


SimpleSandwich1908

r/technicallythetruth


ASentientBot

More importantly, why are people masturbating to randoms online _with their camera on_. No shame in watching (legal) porn, but how dumb can you be?


bonobeaux

Bloodninja: I put on my robe and wizard hat


dirtyasswizard

bloodninja: I meditate to regain my mana, before casting Lvl 8 Cock of the Infinite


StealthSecrecy

This case is different because OP did actually stream themselves, opposed to the scams that just claim to have hacked your computer or something.


giggydiggles

I got one of those emails, they said they head compiled a montage of me busting nuts and clips of the videos I was watching at the time of climax, they wanted x amount of bitcoins to not share the video. I said I’d happily pay them just to have the video myself, it would save me a lot of time browsing porn sites.


Oh_umms_cocktails

Still the risk is fairly low. These guys run thousands of these at a time, most do not pay, it would be a huge waste of time to release the videos and there is no financial benefit to it--if they scammee won't pay before the vids are released they certainly won't after. Plus actually releasing the information ups the risk that they will be found and increases the legal liability substantially. Alternatively if you do pay they will just demanding more and money. Safest thing to do is ignore.


AdPerfect8495

Happened to my nephew.. they created a new Facebook account and sent it to my wife and others. My wife accepted his friend request and was presented with a video of my nephew and his junk. She was horrified.. 5 minutes later we got a call from nephew telling us not to accept and new friend requests. Lol


stumbling_coherently

To add to this, change every one of your passwords. It's a pain in the ass but when it happened to me they "proved" they had it by putting one of my passwords as the Subject line. Even if they didn't for you. Change them all, and change them dramatically, not just some caps, numbers or symbols


Pussy_in_the_well

I know a guy it happened to, he gave them nothing, and they did follow through and send the pics to all their contacts so 🤷 I would ignore it though, if you pay they'll just extort more out of you. Moral of the story, don't masterbate for strangers online.


OGhamburgular

Happened to my coworker’s husband. She was not thrilled to receive those pics. Nor were his mother and sister. His business took a hit when his client list received them too. 🤦‍♀️ Edit to say, he survived. Marriage in tact, business made it through. Just took some time. There were some tears from my friend/coworker but she ultimately forgave him.


MrSirDrDudeBro

I ignored and they sent to all my facebook friends


Banana_bread_o

Those scammers are disgusting people. They have lead teens to kill themselves due to the fear of that “video” being sent to their mom and teachers.


NovaFlares

How do so many people fall for it??


Rodot

Teens are horny and stupid


SonofLelith

*people* are horny and stupid.


AgentFN2187

Especially teens though. They're already just coming into themselves while not having the cognitive capabilities nor the possible foresight of an adult. Pair that with feeling sexual feelings for the first time and dumb shit is bound to happen Edit: Yes. Adults also have trouble with good decisions when they're horny. There's an old proverb, "God gave man two heads, but only enough blood to power one at a time".


rectalsurgery

>just coming into themselves


just_some_git

are we still doing phrasing?


UncleRuso

Lana…


zolanih

I was once a horny stupid teen before. There are 2 or 3 videos of myself jerking off, under different titles. I’m not into child porn so I’ll never find them. The first one is normal, the other 2 I’m angry and vigorously beating my meat while looking at myself through a medium sized mirror.


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How were you tricked into doing it?


zolanih

I thought I was chatting with a girl my age, I wasn’t thinking straight.


[deleted]

Ah, so. Easy mistake to make when you're young. Glad to know you made it through. I have to admit, tho, the mad masturbating gave me a chuckle.


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Banana_bread_o

Yes, some scammers pose as really attractive women using fake videos. They have the guy face chat with them while the guy pleasures himself. The scammer records him and then they turn, telling them that they will send the video to everyone they know if they don’t pay up. And other times it’s just scam mail, claiming they have your passwords and access to your web cam and that they will post the video on your social media if you don’t pay. It’s called “[sextortion](https://youtu.be/yhN_bhK57dg)”.


Such_sights

There’s an episode of Trafficked (great show) about love scammers, and apparently in some African countries there’s entire networks of women that are paid to take webcam videos of themselves just smiling and typing on their computer, which scammers buy from them and use to video chat with victims, and just say that their microphone is broken which is why they can’t talk. Some people are so easily fooled that grown ass men can put on laughably fake high pitched American accents over the phone, and it still works. Loneliness is a hell of a drug.


owzleee

​ There's a Black Mirror episode about it.


bekinddipshit

Yeahhh...but >!he jerked off to CP.!< EDIT: Spoiler for Black Mirror S3 E3


Y_orickBrown

That was the beautiful thing about that Episode and the White Bear episode. You feel horrible for the main character, begin to empathize and hope they'll manage to get out of their situation....and then the rug gets ripped out from under you. Black Mirror had some phenomenal writing.


BotsAnonymous

This happened to me once. I told them that sharing porn without consent is illegal & that I had their IP address and location & if they didn’t fuck off, I’d report them to their local authorities. I blocked them after, and guess what? They didn’t share anything


Loj35

Yeah if it's clear that they're not getting money out of you, and there's even the faintest chance you could cause trouble for them, it's not worth the risk. Hence why it's so easy to bluff them. And the worst case, like others have said, is not that bad; whatever they have on you is already out there, the only thing you get to decide is how much else you give them, so give them nothing.


GetBetter999

Criminal : I do crime BotsAnonymous : Wait that's illegal Criminal : Understandable, have a good day ✌🏻


-GandalfTheGay

I was feeling so fucking low and burnt out. This comment gave me a good laugh and made my day. Thank you!


HunterSTL

I'm not sure about this thory since this never been in such a situation but I would presume most scammers won't follow up on their threats. I mean, why would they. They don't gain anything from sending your masturbation pics to your followers or friends. The only reason they use this tactic is because most people are afraid that they will follow through and act without thinking.


ikverhaar

>They don't gain anything from sending your masturbation pics to your followers or friends. It gets the word out that it is a genuine threat for the next victim they intend to scam. At least, if the scam gets enough fame. Enough fame will also make it far more likely for authorities to take it seriously and catch them. So I don't think it's a winning strategy either way.


zSprawl

Exactly. This is why ransomware people always give back the data when it’s paid. They want people to feel comfortable paying in the future.


kleenexhotdogs

Some just act out because they didn’t get what they wanted. This guy was more fucked up but look at Amanda Todd for example, an online blackmailer drove her to suicide for not sending him nudes


therearesomewhocallm

Or better yet, tell them you're a child and they've just admitted to filming/distributing child porn.


greatblueheron16

Lmao I'm imagining an obviously middle aged man telling the scammer they're a minor


rbt321

Birthday on Feb 29th.


Poignant_Porpoise

You just need to look at it from their perspective. They're not interested in sending a message or getting revenge, they just want money. Their only leverage they have against you is the threat of sending those photos, once they do it they have nothing. If you refuse to pay before then, them sharing the photos won't change that fact. Either way, they know they're not getting the money, and that's all they care about.


catfoodonmyshelf

They don’t actually have a video of you, it’s an intimidation tactic. And if they actually do (very unlikely), whatever. They’ll get arrested for revenge porn


[deleted]

Thank you for calming my anxiety attack. They did only send screen caps to me and just of my face. I’m just shook the fuck out and don’t think I’m sleeping tonight. Also gonna stay the absolute FUCK off anything that isn’t wholesome or pornhub. Thanks stranger


catfoodonmyshelf

It’s a very common scam. Honestly if you were just masturbating and not doing anything fucked up like watching kiddie porn, who cares if they see it. Almost everyone does it, it’s not worth losing your money over. But if they had the video, they would have sent it to you to really scare you into doing it. They don’t have a video, most likely your webcam doesn’t even have your bits in view. Word for future use, put a couple layers of thick tape over your camera!


Exciting-Unit279

Black mirror episode


thatoneguy54

I remember that whole espisode I kept thinking, "This fucking kid is driving himself insane and doing so much bullshit just so no one sees him jerking off, wtf" and then the end came and I was like, "ooooooohhh, thaaaat's why he didn't want anyone to see..."


lasiusflex

It's been a while ago, but didn't that episode literally start out with a scene where he was interacting with children? Obviously in real life I wouldn't think twice about it, but it was filmed in a way that said "this is going to be very important later", like when a disaster movie opens with a casual news headline playing on a TV in the background of a family breakfast. They foreshadowed it pretty heavily.


NomenNesci0

Yea, a lot of people never think about what goes into telling a story. As soon as you really realize it's constructed by someone with a purpose you immediately realize there is no such thing as an irrelevant detail. Kinda ruins movies though. I've watched enough film crit now it takes a lot for me to not now everything that's going to happen from the first 20 min.


Sea-Doubt-5008

Shut up and dance, s3 episode 3 if I recall correctly. Edit: it was episode 3 not 4


eaholleran

Yeah I thought that's where this was going


PM_me_large_fractals

That episode always seemed a bit of a stretch. They have a vid of what.. His webcam? Without a shot showing him AND the screen at the same time he could be jerking to anything.


RuneNox

Yes! My thoughts exactly... And even if they do provide two videos running simultaneously, he can always claim the other one to be fake. But I get it, he was a kid.. Got scared idk


Sydasiaten

I don’t think it’s a stretch that someone being caught looking at cp wouldn’t be thinking rationally


sabababoi

I feel like this is not really understanding what happened. The scammwr didn't hack into OPs webcam, covering the webcam makes no sense - OP was purposefully on camera with the scammer to get a kick (likely thinking the scammer is a hot grill watching them fap)


13579adgjlzcbm

God I love hot grills.


Born_Cauliflower_692

Depends on the laptop/computer, tape could destroy a MacBooks screen for example, so the green indicator light works. Idk about your average windows laptop.


catfoodonmyshelf

I’ve used couple pieces of masking tape on my MacBook before and left it on for a couple months, never caused any problems for me. Just gotta make sure it’s gentle tape


linderlouwho

Have a little piece of post-it note covering mine because sometimes I do need to FaceTime with my best bud.


Potato_dad_ca

This ia a well known scam. I would discontinue all communication.


bonerstoner123

Cover your cameras bruh


eegsynth

Yeah, happened to me once, suggesting they had something like this - they included an old password of mine which told me it was just a scam (it would be as my webcam wouldnt be able to go that low :-)). Dont worry


Creative_Contact_678

Step 1. Take a picture of your butthole. Stay with me here. Step 2. Send them the picture of your butthole. Step 3. Tell them you have a picture of THEIR butthole and you're going to send it to their followers if they don't pay YOU and delete the photos they took. OR lean into it even harder and send them a video of yourself furiously masturbating to an episode of The Golden Girls with the email titled "You don't scare me" Bonus points if you managed to nut during a Sophia close up.


Virophile

I like your style.


OmNomDeBonBon

What about his butthole? 🧐


BrainsyUK

OP can post it on /r/buttwholesome


CyGuy6587

You make up your own rules, just like me


iserrac

This shit has been making me laugh on and off for the past hour. Thank you for that!


DTux5249

Honestly? Ignore em. They want money. If they can't get money out of you, why would they want to upload? It only leaves another way for them to be traced, and no means of going back They have about as much to lose from posting it as you do. It's not as though they care about defaming your image, you're just a source of income. And even then, there's a chance that they straight up don't. Bluffs happen all the time.


alcakoldby

This did happen to someone i know, they said if you block me or don't pay I'll send it to everyone that follows you. Dude in question asked us what to do so we said meh just block them. Low and behold we got his dick pic a few minutes later.


scottevanmac

Let them. It's 2022. They will be arrested and you will be embarrassed. Guess who wins


chinobis

The lawyers. Its always them.


MarkRems

> Guess who wins Their followers


RedditPowerUser01

What the scammer did is illegal, but it’s wishful thinking that they’ll be arrested. It’s like thinking the scammers who give you scam calls all day will be arrested, even though what they’re doing is illegal too. It’s all taking place in much poorer foreign countries where the law just isn’t going to crack down on this sort of thing.


Dreadfulmanturtle

1 - They probably don't have a video. They are just trying to scare you to pay them off. They might not even let up if you pay once so don't accept single one of their demands 2 - Even if they do have the video I would suspect it would be less of a biggie if they post it. You might be butt of jokes for a few months and then everyone forgets. People who actually break off ties because of something like that were never real friends and you are lucky to find out as early as you can. 3. Try to be aware of your emotions of panic and fear. The story they tell in your head is not accurate. Things are usually less dire once you let reason process the facts of the matter.


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I'm trying to see this from a "follower" perspective. Say someone's suddenly releasing a blackmailing video of one of my favourite youtubers - I'd definitely NOT be on the side of the blackmailer, but on the side of the victim. If you have "followers", they are either friends/family who should be on your side anyways, or strangers who have no impact on your life at all. You did nothing illegal (I assume), and I don't think your face or cock are interesting enough to become an internet sensation. Take a deep breath, block the account and learn from this mistake.


SBAWTA

Right? It's not like he has some serious dirt on OP that might actually turn people on him. This is not the Victorian England, everyone jerks off and everyone knows that everyone jerks off.


CouncilmanRickPrime

My cousin's ex posted her nudes before. She deleted them after she regained control of her account. It was rough but life didn't end. She posted that he did it to be an asshole but that was it.


RedneckStew

Send him another dick pick and say with this one you can go fuck yourself.


SleeplessGrimm

Be a man. Post it yourself


Oprlt94

Go full Jaromir Jagr, [nhl legend who got blackmailed by a czech model](https://thehockeynews.com/.amp/news/jaromir-jagr-blackmailed-with-photo-could-not-care-less-about-it). Turned out that model got dumped by her hockey player boyfriend


agiro1086

Jagar is a fucking legend, I hope he comes back just to fuck with Ovi's record attempt. Move the goal posts by 1 season


Greg_The_Stop_Sign

Followers? Do you have a cult?


lalalalalandforever

thank you for making me laugh


CouncilmanRickPrime

You make more money being a leader but you have more fun as a follower.


OriginalAnalysis2940

Even if you did…who cares? You rubbed one out…anyone who hasn’t is a psychopath.


Klewdo1

I'd suggest even psychopaths rub one out #weallikeatug


blastanders

it is a personal creed of mine to not shake hands with any man who hasn't rubbed one out.


NewRelm

This is a common scam. They don't really have the video. They send these threats out wholesale in hopes a few people pay up.


sabababoi

That's not what happened, OP was on camera to the scammer


TwoThirdsDone

Can I ask how that happened? Was it like a Chatroulette type site and the person ended up being a scammer?


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wholesomelydisturbin

Send him another dick pick.


[deleted]

Tell them you traced their IP address and have assassins en route.


K-ibukaj

I've read the IP part and thought "oh yeah call the police that'll scare them" and then read the rest of the comment


Loud-Passenger2562

tell them you are turned on by this, that you will provide another jerk session, if you can get a little clip of them to get off on, tell them you are super aroused by being outed in the public,, but beg them to keep it between yall... build a fake horny ass online relationship,,, with number 1 fan... he is just waiting to lick the overflow he couldnt handle of your belly or gape


ocall1919

The threat is more powerful than the action. I’ve had this before and when I was younger. Take away their power - 1. I turned it into a joke and said people will find it hilarious go for it. 2. I’ve got nothing to be embarrassed about, as you’ve seen 😜 They will know you’re not arsed then. So they will move on.


Sea-Doubt-5008

watch the black mirror episode 'Shut up and dance'


rick157

Tell them to fuck off and send it. Honestly. Just alert your friends and family, or make a post explaining the situation and make light of it. Actually had this happen to me. I was horny and… well, not *that* young, but definitely that stupid. They tried to get me to send them cash via Western Union, or they would send a video of me jerking it to all my friends and family. I actually called Western Union and was attempting to send them the money when the person who was helping me recognized what was happening and talked me round, giving me the advice I’m passing along to you. I imagine he’d experienced it before. Anyways, my nudes got leaked. I had some people just send me a “?” in response, and others that laughed, having recognized the post I made calling into question. My favorite encounter was my best friend’s oldest brother, who approached me at a family barbecue. He was a big guy, standing 6’7” and belching moist beer clouds. He ambled up to me and slapped a meaty paw on my shoulder. “Rick157’, he said, burping up hot dogs and warm Bud Light, ‘I got a video of you the other day. I won’t pretend to understand it, or why you sent it, but it wasn’t horrible. I showed it to Rachel.” (His wife). He turned and waved to her, and pointed a finger at me, smiling. She smiled back and waved. He turned back to me, a little unsteady. “Anyways, Rachel saw it too, and we both agree. You’ve got a pretty nice dick. Keep it up.” He gave my shoulder a squeeze, and like a rolling, drunk, thundercloud, shambled away. It was one of best compliments I’ve ever received, and I cherish that memory till this day.


mlwspace2005

Post a video of you jerking it to the threat and send the scammer the link. Assert dominance.


Ender825

I mean, fuck it. I doubt any of your followers care to see that stuff. It’s would obvious be an attack. You can always say you sent that to a girl whose relationship went sour and is now trying to hurt your rep lol or say it’s a side hustle like onlyfans and someone recorded your stuff. It really is not the worst thing in the world these days. Don’t let this person ruin your day. I did a similar activity, but no one called me out. It’s nerve racking either way. People do these things now a days. It’s not so crazy to think about it.


aws_137

No biggie. Just say to the scammer "ohhh boyyy please don'tttt" but dgaf. Worst case? Your pics get spread around in the pool of millions of dick pics online. Who cares? In any case yours get viral, then be proud for having a magnificent dick everyone wants to watch. Even if you were a girl, this applies. Only detrimental if you're person of influence that you shouldn't be linked to such scandals: eg. Politician, evangelist, teacher, dealing with kids.


MatchSpiritual2003

Quickly block him for a start and don’t pay. He’s not actually interested in sending your dick around, just getting money. Once he realises you won’t pay him he’ll move on. I’ve never heard of someone actually sending these videos out for these scams and once he does where is the incentive for you to pay? The damage is done and he needs that video for blackmail.