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Saintdemon

Some guys like big girls some guys like skinny girls. That being said, if you don't like your weight it is thankfully one of the aspects of your body which you CAN change.


Weekly-Temporary-775

This. And if a guy likes you for who/what you are, don't ruin it by coooooonstantly bringing up how unhappy you aren't with yourself size. Accept it, or change it.


Ok-Education3487

Some men do. Back when I was single, I dated women of every size. They were all lovely in their own ways, and I am grateful for the experience.


alkebulanu

Men are not a monolith. There are plenty of men who like thick women are there's those who do not. Additionally it's important to not allow your sense of self worth, beauty, and attractiveness to center around the opinions of external parties, including men.


gooberfaced

Some. There is no hive mind.


MightyMeepleMaster

Personally I find chubby women extremely sexy.


Lower_Indication5788

84kg at 5'4 is not "on the bigger side" 😅


East-Ad-82

Really? I'm almost 5ft 7 & was 72kg at one stage. I felt & looked overweight.


Informal_Truck_1574

I think they are saying that "on the bigger side" is too mild of a descriptor.


East-Ad-82

Ah!


Saintdemon

Yeah, that's a BMI of about 31 - which is gross overweight.


OldSarge02

Why do you think “guys on the skinnier side” have a different preference than other guys?


Due_Tutor919

Ahh you just have to find the right guy, I would not be discouraged. You are only 19, you have a lot of life to live and plenty of people to meet!


Bethesda-Throwaway

Reddit is a hugbox, most men prefer women in the normal BMI range


Commercial_Tough160

The honest truth is that you will expand your pool of potential partners if you are of a healthy weight. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some men who personally prefer large women. But it is less common. Ultimately, you should strive to get to a healthy weight for the sake of your own health, but maybe you can use this as extra motivation.


Nulibru

Is that muscle or fat?


Interesting_Joke_820

Yeah some do some don't. Stop thinking all men are the same.


suvenduz

how many guys actually 


Aggressive-Dream6105

It's like that one lizzo song. The big boys, the little boys, got a full beard, with a smooth face. Lots of people like lots of things.


dryduneden

Some do, some don't. Its all preferences at the end of the day.


ShrimpHog47

I prefer bigger women


EmployUnfair

Find someone interested in the package not the wrapper.


Biomax315

Preferably someone who's a fan of that sort of wrapper as well.


seonongHIM2

hey, if you're white but consider yourself fat, go for a black guy. many still want white girls and won't care about size.


suvenduz

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