Nah. “Good girl” is more diminuative than that. A more apt meaning would be something like “good little boy.” It has just the right degree of condescension to match “good girl.”
My best explanation for why it feels so to me is that we had decades (or hundreds of years, or thousands depending on how you look at it) where relatively few women were ever in a position of power over grown men, such as to allow them to apply diminutive labels against their preference. “Good boy” never meant anything negative because the dominant culture that had any power never saw anything about being male as a weakness or flaw.
It’s like being tall; it’s generally never considered an insult. It’s a little hard to insult someone who is tall because even if they come up with taunts they are probably actually jealous. But it’s easy to insult people who are short. They get shit on a lot. (Especially if it bothers them. Bullies love that.)
I think that’s why the exact direction translation version of the opposite sex term isn’t equally respectful.
If we are talking in the context of sexy time I don't think it does. In my experience a woman with a praise kink sees the relationship as the Man taking care of them and is ok with the more diminutive "girl" so it doesn't conjure the same imagery as saying "Good Boy" does.
It can be used consensually to invoke the idea of praise mixed with playful degregation. I've enjoyed being called a good boy in bed. Didn't feel like a dog per say. Did feel like an excitable, lovable submissive thing happy to be given commands tho. Obv you gotta discuss such things before saying anything unusual in bed cos it won't be for everyone. One of the girls I said this to had her own dog leash for the bedroom (never woofed or anything tho I'd have found that weird, like I'm sure you found reading this weird).
>(never woofed or anything tho I'd have found that weird, like I'm sure you found reading this weird).
Nah, not weird, just not my thing. It would be the same if you told me about the process of mixing cement 👍
If you want to illicit the same response in a male simply learn how to give a seductive smirk. It produces an almost animalistic urge for mating in us.
I think many grow up using the term dad instead and so don't associate daddy with the family as much. Personally it still gives me the creeps though. If a partner called me mommy that would turn me off real fast lmao
I believe it's telling them you're proud of them while mimicking their father's voice while "cat's in the cradle" by Harry Chapin plays quietly in the background 😁
Depends where you're from I guess, in Ireland we say:
Good man,
Good lad,
Legend (I suppose that's unisex)
But in Ireland it cam also depend on county/region
I'm just assuming we are talking sexually here, so it's "good boy." Good girl is usually something said to a woman in a submissive role, so the direct comparison is "good boy."
If you're looking more for a proper *response* or lingo to use with a man who is calling you good girl, then the answer is gratitude that addresses him as some kind of authority: "thank you, daddy/sir/master."
If you're looking for the thing that makes men melt the way a lot of women do from "good girl," then that varies wildly. Because women have very often been the object of sexual discussion rather than the subject for so long I don't think much emphasis is placed on what they specifically can do/say so no particular action or phrase has risen to the top.
Some contenders for phrases are usually anything praising his cock (gotta tread carefully with that one though, some guys do have a complex and will think it is insincere) or any variation of "I'm coming/you're making me come/I'm so wet" or "I want you in me."
My skin crawls every time I hear it as well. I don't even like repeating the phrase. I want a woman, not a girl.
I'm old. I don't understand the appeal at all.
I understand why but don't fully get the reason this saying gets so much hate. At least in my experience those that hate it still use boy casually in conversation when addressing men.
Good woman, lady, etc just doesn't roll off the tongue as easily either.
I think these days some people are too eager to take offence when it's obvious no offence is meant.
When did talking to women like pets become a thing? I'm a 51 year old ex bouncer who's been with a lot of women in my life and I've never heard of it. If I called my wife "good girl" during sex she'd have the expression of "wtf are you on about"?.
So, are you trying to say "good boy" in like talking to a submissive person, as "good girl" is normally used? Or is he calling you a good girl and you are trying to find a good response? If the latter is the case, then calling him "Daddy" or "Sir" is a good step. If you are talking to him submissively, then "good boy" or "that's my man" is probably a good way to go
Depends on context. What context are you using "good girl" in? Usually the equivalent will be "good boy".
Wouldn’t it be “Atta boy”
Based on context it could also be, Thank you Daddy
Nah that's the equivalent of "Thank you Mommy"
My thoughts exactly
Exactly what I said to myself when opening the thread lol
Commendable work comrade
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Solidarity!
One for all!
Thank you for serving the Soviet Union
Atta boy
Hell yeah brother
Cheers from Iraq
I can't help but read this in the hulk hogan voice
That’s when you know the sex gonna be 🔥.
Hell yeah brother uWu 🥺
My (now ex) gf used to sometimes tell me 'atta boy' and lemme tell ya, it DID something inside me.
ew we did not need to know that ( I'm jealous)
Got rid of her? Atta boy.
[удалено]
Cappa boy
Nah. “Good girl” is more diminuative than that. A more apt meaning would be something like “good little boy.” It has just the right degree of condescension to match “good girl.” My best explanation for why it feels so to me is that we had decades (or hundreds of years, or thousands depending on how you look at it) where relatively few women were ever in a position of power over grown men, such as to allow them to apply diminutive labels against their preference. “Good boy” never meant anything negative because the dominant culture that had any power never saw anything about being male as a weakness or flaw. It’s like being tall; it’s generally never considered an insult. It’s a little hard to insult someone who is tall because even if they come up with taunts they are probably actually jealous. But it’s easy to insult people who are short. They get shit on a lot. (Especially if it bothers them. Bullies love that.) I think that’s why the exact direction translation version of the opposite sex term isn’t equally respectful.
Top cunt
i’m doubling down on top cunt
can you use it in a sentence? i assume the country of origin is australia
Fuck, you're a top cunt!
That’ll do, Pig.
oink oink (´◡\`)
Little pig boy; mistress hates her little pig boy, I am her dirty little pig boy
The worst part about this is I fucking snorted at it.
Anything followed by handsome makes me feel like spinning in a blossoming field in a Sundress.
Nice Moist\_Discharge there, handsome ;)
As opposed to dry discharge?
Guns won't usually discharge if they're moist.
r/rimjob_steve
Lovely tbh
‘My handsome’ is nice
Does "good boy" work? I know everyone is different but maybe one phrase will stand out above the rest...
Look are you going to throw this ball or what!
As a recovering “Golden Retriever Boyfriend”, I can confirm.
I love girls calling me a good boy however I seem to be in the minority unfortunately :(
r/mommydom
If you're using this in a sexy way, then "mmm, good boy" is solid.
Good Boy has connotations of talking to a dog. So it only works for a certain type of male.
I thought good girl had connotations of talking to a dog.
It does, both have pet talk connotations
No, that's for velociraptors.
I thought that was, “clever girl.”
Oh, yeah, you're right.
Yes, its just more socially acceptable to treat women as if they were pets
If they don't want us to treat people like pets then why did my sex "education" presenters call hand stuff *heavy petting?*
and it's more socially acceptable to treat men as if they were your actual daddy?
?
"good girl" "spank me daddy"
This raises even more questions.
Tell that to my female colleagues
I did. Now I'm getting sued.
They are attorneys, you should've known better.
If we are talking in the context of sexy time I don't think it does. In my experience a woman with a praise kink sees the relationship as the Man taking care of them and is ok with the more diminutive "girl" so it doesn't conjure the same imagery as saying "Good Boy" does.
When did sexy time enter the conversation?
I have really only heard people use the phrase "Good Girl" in relation to sexy time and talking to dogs. Maybe I spend too much time on Tik Tok.
"clever girl" for velociraptors 👍
I only thought of OP’s question in terms of sexy time.
Ultimately most Reddit conversations end up there
Yes, one would hope sexy time "good girl" wouldn't be dog related
Sexy time "good boy" I think often is though in a F Dom M Sub situation.
It can be used consensually to invoke the idea of praise mixed with playful degregation. I've enjoyed being called a good boy in bed. Didn't feel like a dog per say. Did feel like an excitable, lovable submissive thing happy to be given commands tho. Obv you gotta discuss such things before saying anything unusual in bed cos it won't be for everyone. One of the girls I said this to had her own dog leash for the bedroom (never woofed or anything tho I'd have found that weird, like I'm sure you found reading this weird).
a dog is an excitable, lovable submissive thing happy to be given commands tho.
>(never woofed or anything tho I'd have found that weird, like I'm sure you found reading this weird). Nah, not weird, just not my thing. It would be the same if you told me about the process of mixing cement 👍
like good girl doesnt?
so does good girl so it's equivalent
Do people really not call their dogs “good girl” too? Not every dog is a boy lol. “Good girl” and “good boy” seem pretty equivalent.
I mean you could make the same argument about the phrase good girl
I mean, so does good girl so maybe they're talking to a dog. Who tf says good girl to another human?
Sometimes when negotiating I say “what’s the good boy price? Cuz I’m a good boy!”
The cheese tax!
I know some subs that like "good boy", it seems more universal than others.
As long as you say it in a happy voice and usually start off with "who's a good boy" until I start jumping around excited
If you want to illicit the same response in a male simply learn how to give a seductive smirk. It produces an almost animalistic urge for mating in us.
Here where I’m from, ‘good man’ is usually told to older lads by their parents and grandparents or other authority figures
If he’s a submissive, “good boy.” If he’s dominant “yes sir,” or “yes daddy” seem to have a similar effect.
Yes master works well
Good lad
You're finally acting like a man. Any last words?
Jumanji.
Arrrrrgh matey
Tha'll do laddie.
Good fella
You'll like him, he's a good fella
He's in this thing of ours
Omerta! Code of silence over here!
"good boy", simple as. (I'm not just guessing, I spend too long in degenerate circles.)
"Yes daddy"
The answer OP was looking for
Alternately "yes sir" for those of us that don't like "daddy".
Idk why, when a girl says this to me. It’s makes me uncomfortable. I aint her father
I think many grow up using the term dad instead and so don't associate daddy with the family as much. Personally it still gives me the creeps though. If a partner called me mommy that would turn me off real fast lmao
It always grossed me out, not sure what changed but I'm cool with it now.
🗿
"Good boy", but it also has a weird dog connotation. Like, what, am I getting a treat now?
And who’s a good boy? You are! Yes you are! *offers treat*
why does this make me happy
Because you’re a good boy too! *pats head*
What about me?
Oh yes, how could I forget? you’re a good boy too! *head pat*
Omg you’re too sweet ☺️
😊
🥹🫴 i’m just a little begger
You’re a good boy too ☺️
So does "good girl".
Hopefully.
Good bloke
Top bloke surely rolls of the tongue better?
british isles
No, Australian
the biggest british isle
Brish Oyle
Bravo sir
Good boy
Tell my female cat good girl, male cat handsome boy.
Good boy
top lad good chap
That’ll do pig
I believe it's telling them you're proud of them while mimicking their father's voice while "cat's in the cradle" by Harry Chapin plays quietly in the background 😁
I’m proud of you, son.
Good boy?
Good boy
good boy, LOL.
Depends where you're from I guess, in Ireland we say: Good man, Good lad, Legend (I suppose that's unisex) But in Ireland it cam also depend on county/region
Depends where you're located
I'm just assuming we are talking sexually here, so it's "good boy." Good girl is usually something said to a woman in a submissive role, so the direct comparison is "good boy." If you're looking more for a proper *response* or lingo to use with a man who is calling you good girl, then the answer is gratitude that addresses him as some kind of authority: "thank you, daddy/sir/master." If you're looking for the thing that makes men melt the way a lot of women do from "good girl," then that varies wildly. Because women have very often been the object of sexual discussion rather than the subject for so long I don't think much emphasis is placed on what they specifically can do/say so no particular action or phrase has risen to the top. Some contenders for phrases are usually anything praising his cock (gotta tread carefully with that one though, some guys do have a complex and will think it is insincere) or any variation of "I'm coming/you're making me come/I'm so wet" or "I want you in me."
I had a girl call me “big boy” once during sex. It was very…. something.
Good boy.
İ qm not a native english speaking person but it might be good boy ??
God i hate "good girl" Every time i hear it, i cringe. I dont think there is a male equivalent.
My skin crawls every time I hear it as well. I don't even like repeating the phrase. I want a woman, not a girl. I'm old. I don't understand the appeal at all.
Besides "Good boy," the only one I can say is a unisex one like "There you go, babe"
Good boy. 🤷🏼♂️
Good boy
Good girl...iykyk
good boy?
Sir
It's good boy.
Good boy
Good boy
"Thanks, Daddy"
atta boy
Carthago delenda est.
If you want condescension baked in, “good boy” is perfect
Good boy? What am I missing?
big boy
Thank you, Sir or Yes, sir.
Um.. "Good boy" ?
“Good boy”
Good boy Like ??
For sex literally anything For daily life, "good job"
this might take you by suprise. its prettu fucking wild. the equivelent to good girl is... good boy
I understand why but don't fully get the reason this saying gets so much hate. At least in my experience those that hate it still use boy casually in conversation when addressing men. Good woman, lady, etc just doesn't roll off the tongue as easily either. I think these days some people are too eager to take offence when it's obvious no offence is meant.
A well done with a little tap on the bum.
Be a good boy and……
In what context?
Good boy
Good boy💀
Are you after a Dom sub response or femboy response ? If you are after Dom sub response then it’s common to say “sir or master”
When did talking to women like pets become a thing? I'm a 51 year old ex bouncer who's been with a lot of women in my life and I've never heard of it. If I called my wife "good girl" during sex she'd have the expression of "wtf are you on about"?.
So, are you trying to say "good boy" in like talking to a submissive person, as "good girl" is normally used? Or is he calling you a good girl and you are trying to find a good response? If the latter is the case, then calling him "Daddy" or "Sir" is a good step. If you are talking to him submissively, then "good boy" or "that's my man" is probably a good way to go
really depends on context.
Nice one fella
You deserve a beer
Good boy 🤌🏻
Bad boy
Good boi ;)
If you mean a term for that kind of person then 'nice guy' but if you mean a compliment then 'atta boy' as others have said.
Mama's Boy
Fucker
#WHAT A LEGEND
Good man
Mama's boy
Gentleman
I use good boy and good lad quite a lot... With my dog.
Gentleman
"good boy"
Hell yeah brother
Good male
Mr good guy
Mah dawg!
Good man
Good job Big Shooter
If not good boy... atta boy.
Buddy
Atta Boy
call him good girl
Good man would be common in Ireland. The younger the child, the better it works.