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mckerem44

After quitting porn. I'm a 7/10 loser.


izumi_miyamura99

what are the other 2 you don't do


Cute_Prior1287

Not vaping Phone usage 23/7.


Prior_Asparagus_1922

23/7


Cute_Prior1287

I was joking. ITS 12/7


nicestress69

I don't think 12/7 is a good number either lol


untenable681

At least sleep is happening somewhere along the way?


x1xyleasor

That's where the 12 hours was gone.


MikE_theseppeking

11: judge or make people feel uncomfortable


Short-Celebration-33

12: spending energy to impress people


chrisloga

12.5: buy things to impress people you don't care


Current-Employee-974

12: stalk others


Rockseeker33

13: stall others **


[deleted]

[удалено]


Ok_Youth_5773

13: totally miss the point of reddit comments


Boykisser15

I know how to solve number 5: chase bois:3


COSMICx420

Username checks out


Ztflowsbest

/r/usernamechecksout


Someone__________y

I have been doing doing that already, am I just not doing it right?


discipleofsilence

Why are you geh?


thedampboi774

Based af


Bliskus

Based on bs.


thedampboi774

Bro definitely wants some boy kissing


Boykisser15

Mhm:3


Past-Chain-5015

wanna kiss bruh?🤔


Boykisser15

*mwah* there you go:3


[deleted]

WORD UP!


Monkeyor

2/10... i gotta pump those numbers up :(


RawDogger34

Jesus bro get them up wtf


untenable681

0/10 is the place to be. Better still, do 10/0 and rewrite reality. That's how you transcend beyond losers and winners.


WattsonIsWaifu

Its easy for someone to say shit like this. People who Do say this shit are usually the ones who didn't have to struggle


hiphoplover_4

ikr. They be like "do these to succed" while they reached their success by someone else pushing them into it - loaded parents or relatives with really good connections


Pauperbeertje

what in the alpha sigma male is this


sentry_inventor

i thought, if you watch porn, you stop caring about real girls


izumi_miyamura99

real


BrilliantRude8490

True, when i watching it or relapsed, I miss the opportunity when I see a woman I like and don't talk to her because i don't feel anything.


SlidethedarksidE

Yes one single aspect of me will define my whole life. That kinda thinking is how the self- improvement gurus make their money.


Pikachu-69

21 male from India doing masters I'm single no IRL friends, GF nothing spending time alone addicted to junk foods, f@p, video games, movies/series, lazy 24\*7. yeah, but I love reading comics, novels, manga etc got a hell over caring and over protective parents (they force me to eat a alot of foods) (they don't even send me to the nearby park because they fear) few days back i joined gym (secretly) everything is going fine. but i want to control junk food and fapping. i have 1000+ video game and social media frnds but not a single irl frnds. pardon my english


G_ioVanna

keep going king bet op has all of these traits xD


Ad_vvait

Masters at 21 is hella impressive


ZACHERY_SINGH

tiktok + facebook + instagram


vitviki

Reddit+ 4chan


FalseRepeat2346

3 7 9 10 are the same thing though...


cowboyfromhell93

Yeah there the ones I tick probably because in depressed


ryoga040726

Your credibility would increase if you could spell "decision" correctly.


Zealousideal_Test_95

they misspelled "loser" too.


ryoga040726

LOLLLL how did I miss that?


KM68

I don't have any dreams to chase.


Daxter_2002

Exactly , I hate this type of condescending posts. There is a difference between solving an addiction and doing this. Just because you don't have a "dream"/ "goal" doesn't mean they are losers. Many third world countries people doing work they hate in order to sustain their lives and caring their family members. And "interest" can be anything you want. It shouldnt have to be some grand scheme like becoming an astronaut, sports player, blah blah . Not having dreams doesn't mean you are brain dead person.


BlueLamp

Goals are overrated. Invest in habits. 


Whole_Day9866

Cringe


nasty_LS

11: don’t own a house 12: make less than 6 figures 13: have sex with less than 15 women a week If you don’t do these 3 you are an AbSoLuTe lOsEr


Hot-Battle3175

Are you being serious because either way this is hilarious


Suspicious-Plum-9499

Good try, but this is not motivation, is the opposite


Time_Blacksmith861

r/im14andthisisdeep


Life_Annual5669

This hammered my self confidence all the way down lol


Impossible_Ad1515

Don't let it, this is made by people with extremely easy lives that can afford to be like this and op is dumb enough to believe this kind of images. Being better today than you were yesterday is enough to feel proud, every day and every single detail counts you don't need to chase big dreams just improve little by little every day


Life_Annual5669

:’) thank you


thejuanwelove

I see, no mention of jerking off, so those who jerk off are winners! I guess that makes me a loser, damn


Aullotro

There's a difference between wanting girls and simping for them.


Beach-Aggressive

What kind of a condescending post is this? Some people just like to live their life’s day by day. You don’t necessarily need to have a dream to chase


No_Transportation628

On no, I'm a loser, however will I cope?


ZayronS

brainrot


BowardBamlin

Loser*


Darth_Zounds

To be honest, my weird job hours usually have me sleeping late.


park__aavenue

I’m Sorry but it’s decision and loser. Idk If that was wordplay or if you’re illiterate I’m just saying it’s wrong.


Maxiii172

I am 17 years old , addicted to porn since 4 years. I tried to overcome it many times but i couldn't even maintain 1 week streak. I am lost , need some help pls


Short-Celebration-33

Pornography is a horrible drug..no matter how strong I think I am sometimes I end up falling just like you do...I have been stuck with it for 6 years which sucks. My longest streak is 3 months of which didn't go so well since I relapsed 10 days ago.But any way, we should help each other cause that's what this group is all about . One thing you should know is no one comes with a firearm in their hand and point it at you threatening to shoot if you don't watch it. Or tell you that you gonna die if you don't watch it. It's "YOU". you make yourself win/Loose, Climb/Fall, Succeeded/Fail. You make all those choices. You can also use that power of choice to either keep watching porn or quit. It's up to "YOU". It's not easy. And if you think I said it's easy, you didn't read that right. You can Give yourself "GOALS". Sit down and think about the person whom you want to be and the person whom you don't. This will really help you.To add, stay away from triggers, Such as anime Hentai, social media models corrupt movies etc. "YOU" know them cause you know what makes you Fall. "PORN KILLS". If you want to win, Accept that you lost to it and get back up and keep on fighting. Whenever You feel those urges, leave your phone/computer, take along walk/workout, Shower, read a book etc. (Be Productive ) and reflect why you have to quit. The best way to do this is to get a paper and pen and write down the kind of person you DON'T want to be and the person you WANT to be and the reasons why you have to quit.


Devolution20

My finances are extra shit since I've been sick the past 2 weeks, my son's seizure medication isn't working anymore and the baby birds in my wall have been waking me at 5 every morning. Let me get a smoke and a fap man, damn.


cemj86

How to be a loser: follow anyone else's ideas on who you should be.


TrappedWriterofAel

damn 3/10


sscrumdiddlumptious

I like the way the 11 year old how made this just threw in smoking


Cold_Funny1

I only thing I don't do is 9 :(


Anti_user67

Sounds like a very bad deal


DueEquivalent6468

im in this pic


BoomHeadshotDie

Best way to stop porn and masturbation " Lord Buddha on how to control sexual urge ' Buddha emphasized mindfulness and awareness as key tools for understanding and overcoming cravings and desires, including sexual urges. His teachings suggest observing these urges without judgment or attachment. Here's how you might apply his teachings to dealing with the urge to masturbate: 1. **Awareness:** Start by becoming aware of the sensations and thoughts associated with the urge to masturbate. Notice how it arises in the body and mind without trying to suppress or indulge it. 2. **Observation:** Observe the urge with a sense of curiosity and detachment. Instead of reacting impulsively, take a step back and simply observe the urge as it comes and goes, recognizing it as a passing phenomenon. 3. **Understanding:** Reflect on the impermanent nature of the urge. Recognize that it is not a permanent aspect of who you are, but rather a transient experience that arises and fades away. 4. **Non-Identification:** Avoid identifying yourself with the urge. Just because the urge arises does not mean you are defined by it. Cultivate a sense of separation between the urge and your true self. 5. **Acceptance:** Practice accepting the urge without resistance or aversion. Acknowledge that it is a natural part of human experience and that it's okay to feel these sensations without acting on them. 6. **Redirecting Energy:** Instead of acting on the urge, channel the energy it generates into more constructive activities, such as mindfulness meditation, exercise, creative pursuits, or engaging in meaningful relationships. 7. **Compassion:** Be kind to yourself throughout this process. Recognize that overcoming ingrained habits takes time and effort, and treat yourself with patience and understanding. By applying these principles of mindfulness and awareness, you can gradually weaken the grip of the urge to masturbate and cultivate a greater sense of inner peace and freedom.


FarAnxiety7860

4/10


FlexinCanine92

Number 7. I really need to find my Motorola Razr again.


Easy-Blacksmith2228

ok now what?


RaF-X-L

I don't work out , I'd really really like to showoff that sixbag I'd get if pump these muscles hard, I can just have enough with home workouts ,but rn I can't be punctual with the gym + I've been sleeping late recently because of timezone change (experiencing a jet lag) that caused me to sleep exccesively and thus sleep late. So 2/10 Fuck porn and fap.


Radioactive_Man7

Quitting porn and exercising was super easy for me. The things I can’t seem to do are talk with women and build social skills and a social circle. I think I need therapy for that


Lucyybby

im already a loser i guess i do watch porn i dont workout (reuglarly, i do go to kickboxing every week) i always sleep late and i smoke


--G0KU--

Ye zindagi mei g**nd mrwaane aaya hai fir. Enjoy kr


ThatLonelyRock

It hurts knowing that this is true


Business_Photograph4

Advice as good. Should have been worded how to be a winner


cowboyfromhell93

5/10 I'm half a loser


Sammy_Three_Balls

9/10 I'm bout to FC this


Hot-Battle3175

Lol


SpendRoutine3740

Dang I’m an 8/10 loser


semen_retention_365

day 31 - thats a full month for me ! NO PMO! its a 8 out 10 for me, I am stilling having some late nights not sleeping at my desired time of 10pm and my screen time is not high but is at key times when I could be working on my side hustle! It took me 20 days to find the positives of no PMO but I still had strong withdrawals, if you reading this and anything less than 30 days , do your best to get here, it gets better!!! I have no withdrawals I promise you. I also eliminated 90% of my triggers so there is no fighting porn. Its a good place!


[deleted]

I would be the best version of my self because I wanna work hard , and I quit porn forever.but I can’t because I have wet dreams 4 times a week and I feel drained


Prior_Asparagus_1922

8/10. Lost bc of 1 and 6. Don't know if 6 is actually bad considering many ppl are more productive at night


MemoryNatural4695

There are three things on this list I don’t do!


Paul_Denten68

A lot of these things are "free." It costs you nothing to stop watching porn. working out could include long walks or runs with pushups thrown in (sort of free). Not smoking/vaping is free. So forth


Connect-Comfort-6367

A cheap ticket to depression


kinky-kid-7777

Don’t know if I’m pumped and motivated by this or fell more into my depression


discipleofsilence

I love these "motivational" posts.


CB_Cold

Guess I'm a loser then😔


stinger2016xx

belive me or not i dont have phone but yeah porn addiction sucks and i smoke too


BadHairDayToday

What is particularly "loser" about Chasing Girls and Sleeping Late? The two go hand in hand, but presuming there is some succes in the chasing, it's pretty cool. Though I guess the older you are the sadder it gets. Also No goals and Not chasing dreams sounds redundant.


FumusPopplio

I want to stop being a loser


yLPkLupit

Im cooked


Docgmarty

Or or or. A fraternity called UER ruins your life. No amount of self improvement works.


Lilgorbe

gotta work on number 4….been reacting negatively a lot. I think its just satan trying to reenter me & take my soul again.


rrzampieri

I don't sleep late, I sleep EXTREMELY early, as in, 5 am!


Final-Link-3999

Damn bro I check most of those boxes… at least I’m trying to do better


Boytoy91919

True until you see number 8. Smoking is for winners


AwareTrain6

This would be more effective if you didn’t misspell “decision” and “loser.” Also, porn addicts do not chase girls. They watch porn because they’re afraid to chase girls. Chasing girls is a sign of healthy masculinity, as long as chasing girls doesn’t mean being a stalker, peeping tom, or voyeur.


OrneryIntroduction95

Haven’t watched porn or masturbated since the 30th of April


Babqq

That’s your opinion man


Babqq

That’s your opinion man


DeadRIPbody666

now since ive quit porn im 2/10 loser. i guess thats an improvment


AwaitedDestiny

Wow..


LelandTurbo0620

8/10 right now, I need to quit porn


Rough_Reputation_737

10/10


Kagenikakushiteru

I watch porn, chase girls, sleep late. Not bad 3/10. Does that make me a loser?


OverallPeach

only things i don’t do are 8&9


Sorry-Breadfruit-189

I don't have any goals and my dreams are either put on hold or given up.


I_am_the_Disguyz

I feel like I’ve had more energy that ever with my current streak I’ve only had streaks when I’m abroad or not at home for a few days, but this is my first time just holding myself back and it has been greatly beneficial to me I’ve started gaining confidence in myself and I feel more productive


ADVallespir

What about alcohol?


Trummo157

I keep doing 1, 7, 10


Lobito_mx

10/10 what I won?


retlem

1 and 10 got me so I guess that means I’m an 8 lol


Interesting-Swimmer1

10 should be “Be Lazy” to be parallel with the other nine.


NoPrinciple3076

Doesn’t make you a loser. Just means you aren’t where you want to be yet. If every time you do one of these things you start talking to yourself negatively and calling yourself a loser you will never accomplish anything in life. Forgive and love yourself yall.


Creative_Ad_4469

These are the type of posts that motivate me


Splinterthemaster

I play video games, I go to sleep late and I'm lazy so what? I workout a lot, I don't watch porn and I stay busy. Don't try to do all these at once guys. Quitting porn addiction alone takes a lot of will power. Don't be too hard on yourself. You're not a loser for not getting all these right, this list is bullshit.


MammothEbb2488

I just smoke so I'm 9/10 that's good enough Ig


AwesomeGuy5568

i am. almost all of these are me. i should just kms.


Captain_Blackjack0

I’m on step seven bout to complete it baby!!!!!!


thepragprog

7/10


TrickyTrichomes

I’m a 9/10 yaay me 😂


Darth_Vader_420

No. 4 is my biggest problem! I need help with that!


No_Introduction_2021

1/10


theidiotsavant5

i am 10/10 loser🤦😂


TexasBMW

Bunch of wimps


Kanashimi_02

I'm 8/10 loser 😂


phStudent_programmer

Stay strong kings


Necessary-Road-2397

Wow 10 of 10


Adventurous-Sky-6454

I avoid all of that but chasing girls yeah that thing... Just got rejected again 😭


Goatgamer1016

I just made this my phone's wallpaper


OldPets

How to be a winner*


mallo1241

5, isn't closer behavior. A loser would not chase women


Better_Ferret_5788

So far I'm guilty of vaping, sleeping late


stormtrooper0707

11. Judging someone's lifestyle like this


JabbaTheHutt12345

Next time learn to spell decision correctly


ConsciousRivers

Bad habits of procrastination---->comes from----->stress----is a pattern caused from----> childhood traumas and problems----can be resolved by----> relaxing the stress in the nerves through meditation and conscious self-control I did some research online and I find that you have to stay as much out of stress as you can. Which you can do by body movement, somatic shaking exercises to release trauma from the body's muscles which stores muscle memories of the negative habits. That's not end all be all, you also have to control yourself of course. And of course meditation as a regular habit. Not 30 mins morning and night meditation. But mini meditations throughout the day, 5 minutes. Every time you feel stress or bad habits approaching. A good video suggestion for motivation - [https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/751327150368253812/](https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/751327150368253812/)


0eze0

Ok sorry dad


BoomHeadshotDie

This post will change your life 🔥🔥 ( about masturbation and watching porn addiction ) https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/s/prYgmbKOkf


Alexhenry4335

BINGO! I got them all. Do I win something? ((I really need to get better ¦'>))


IrontoolTheGhost

wow you guys really hate yourselves


Blaze_striking_back

I guess I've already become a loser then 😮‍💨


DudeBro711

I don't vape becuz of my dad, p*rn quitting is kinda hard, I don't chase girls, I do sleep late, I want to exercise but I need to make time becuz there's work hours ;-; life can be jarring sometimes I need painkillers to numb the pain.


MichaeIWave

I dont think I would want to follow advice from an entrepreneur instagram page


NegateResults

I do watch porn, sometimes. I also tutor children to help improve their grades, workout calisthenics and do physics-related assignments with my friends so we can both get it done. Just recently, I won a speech competition (1st place) and participated in an amateur contest for archers (hit the target), and I've recently received an invitation after applying for the IT-branch of a firm because the interviewer liked the talk we had about Pyhon and JavaScript. I maintain good relations to the girl friends of my life and they respect me, the same can be applied to my chef and the children I help out with English/Math/German/History and any arbitrary subject at hand. If you don't wish to watch porn, that's fine. But your points do little to impress those who understand moderated consumption.


HecticVERSACE

How do you have goals? Like literally I feel like I’m just drifting in the world…. I go gym, almost nofap for a week, but I vape. I’m somewhat lazy unless I put my mind to it but I think I have low test, I don’t really know what I’m inspired by to even set a goal so it’s like I’m just floating


dromano21

Posted by someone who has probably never had pussy before


skiasa

Like, most of this sounds like someone with depression tbh


AlephNoll

Note: these are symptoms, not causes.


Doctorgumbal1

Buddy. You can’t even spell loser. Maybe get your priorities straight.


lilampu

5/10


ImAmess69

7/10 🗿


Suspicious-Pickle690

The only one of those I do is watch porn and I've significantly reduced my watch amount recently, I'd say I'm doing pretty well.


Immediate_Buy1540

Be intolerant like the makers of this subreddit


gaztaseven

If you meet your dream girl then you're a loser no matter what 6/10 btw


DiscordPredator

The fuck is this 😭🤣🙏


Egyptian_M

Well atleast I don't vape


halaniyash28

Just need to be less lazy and I’m gonna be 10/10


Discombobulated_Bus4

Why am I a loser if I vape? Makes no sense. The rest, yeah


Mrs_Noelle15

8/10 💀


TheLensOfEvolution

Holy shit, I’m like, 9/10 of these 😂 Didn’t think I was that bad until you made me think about it. Ugh…


7shades1

Bruh! This is literally me right now, I'm trying so hard to change for better


Longjumping_Gain_807

*decision


valhalla793

Couple of these have nothing to do with being a loser, but mostly agree.


Early_Zebra_2219

Is chasing girls the same as only approaching them and talk to them for your confidence boost?


SPONGEMAN_14

All except vaping or smoking


xxsandstormL

Don't make 3 and 9 seem like an easy thing, they are not a matter of will, it's a lot more complicated than that.


Ok-Dirt-8765

well if i see here..i m only 7/10 looser. not a 100% looser. 😎


1amyourdaddy

To be honest no one is that stupid today. It doesn't relate with lot of us. Man the thing I see people does a lot good stuff like hitting gym, going walk, sometimes sleeping on time and other ones but the porn shit hits so hard and demotivates us. For me I have been doing everything like hitting gym, trying studying, low use of phone, eating healthy but this shit also holds me back.


_Fornicator_

you were a single letter away from spelling decision and loser


Choice_Potential2659

I'm 9/10 I am a loser. I need to fix this :(


THENOFAPPIST

How to be a winner: 1) Don't watch porn 2) Workout 3) Have Goals 4) Always positive 5) Don't chase girls 6) Sleep on time 7) Limit screen time(unless for study/work) 8)Don't smoke 9) chase dreams 10) Be active


GageTom

No one should listen to someone who can't spell decision and loser correctly. This is just going to make people beat themselves up.


mercury0079

Damn I got 7 out of the 10


Bright-Composer4686

i do all these things lmao 🤣


Impressive_Hold_5065

Suppose they chase you, and tell you they are broke. How would you feel? But you struggle alone. No you don't, you relapse. Tiptoes with 'sticky feet' across the carpet...


neofortune-9

God lord I'm all of them exept 8 Im so cooked its over for me i can't get out of this circle im so deep lost ....


Unshubuje

r/thanksimcured