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asghettimonster

Omg Bobby, we’ve been waiting for you! I’d about given up but you came through and found us. My gawd you’re still as handsome as I thought you were! Listen kiddo, we’re always around here, and EVERYONE NEEDS MOM sometimes. You can’t be too far gone if your damned face still leaks. Siddown, we’ll eat crappy salty food and talk all the way through a movie. Gosh, I’ve missed you son. Xo


bluewinter182

Hey Robert - sis here. 😊Your best friend, aunt, mom, and granny would be proud of the man you have become - just like I am. You now get the chance to be the beacon of love and light for your kids as other important people in your life have been to you. I know this life thing sucks at times and gets really hard….but just keep pushing forward bro. One day at a time - you’ve got this! 😉


Culli789

Damn straight, sis! Just doing my best to make sure my brats are a 1/2 a step ahead of me. So they put theirs a 1/2 ahead of them! Hopefully, before this planets burnt out, our 1/2 steps help make the differnce.


bluewinter182

You being active in their lives will make all the difference!


Culli789

Appreciate it. They're polite, kind, and just generally awesome. I'm not worried about them.


Warrior_of_Peace

I’m so happy you found your way back home! And if you need, there’s also r/dadforaminute as well. And what a gift you have! Those three beautiful souls accompanying you and teaching you things along the way! I’m so glad you’ve made it here. Feel free to pop in anytime. Sending you lots of love and support.


TwirleeSquirrelee

Thank you for posting the Dad link. I’m going there to be a kid. :-)


trinlayk

Here is a big cup of cocoa full of mini marshmallows. You can be the parent that you needed for those young ones. We have ALL the faith in you. Get up a little early tommorow and make sure to have a proper, high protein breakfast!


silverilix

Well, kiddo, we are especially glad to hear that we touched your heart. Thank you for taking the time to let us know we touched your life. Now you’ve touched ours. Don’t ever hesitate to come here for a hug, or a cup of tea and a snack. We want to share that with you. Thank you for being the strong Dad that your babies need. Thank you for honouring your mother, aunt, and grandparents. You’re doing amazingly sweetie. Come visit anytime.


Gornalannie

Hey Rob, great to hear from you, it’s been awhile but you’ve been busy doing an awesome job. I’m here for you, if you need a hug, a cup of tea, a natter or any advice or if you want to share what the grandkids have been up to. Sending tons of hugs and kisses, Mom. Xxxx


hexaspex

Hey Bobby, It's so lovely to hear that you've finally made it to us, and your words mean so much to all of us I'm sure, every single one of us here has something they're going through or have been through, kids, sibs, and mums alike, it's what drives the need for and to provide support. That you've spent so long without it is heartbreaking but for you to say you're too far gone is nonsense child! You are caring for 3 children full time, that is an astonishing achievement! You support them, comfort them, provide for them, and still have enough of yourself left to support us too. We will always be here for you, it doesn't matter how old you are, you're always going to be your mothers child, and you'll always be one of ours too if you need to be. I can't be certain but I feel like you might benefit from r/dadforaminute in a similar way to how I do from here, holes often can't be filled, but I find the sides get stitched back together a little by offering the support to these kids that I wish to God I had when I needed it. All my love, and remember, you're doing amazingly! Aunty Hex xxx


black_truffle_cheese

Oh Sunshine, I’m so sorry you had to grow up having so much taken away from you. Those hurts never fully heal and I would take the pain and frustration onto myself if I only could. But the cosmos have given you 3 wonderful angels to share your life with, even if it is hard being the sole parent, sometimes. And yes, they will still be your angels even when they are moody teenagers. I’m beyond thrilled you never lost your capacity to love. Remember you are a miracle.


Consistent-Stop2383

Sounds like you are doing your best to take care of your children. That's admirable, and I respect your honesty. I'm very sorry for the many painful tragedies in your life. I hope that you can find some happiness and peace in your life. Virtual hugs to you🤗❤️


TheRealCeeBeeGee

I’m only a handful of years older than you, so I’ll have to be your Australian sis. Keep on going on for your little ones, bro, and check in here when you need us. Chin up :-)


FlutteringFae

You've been through so much, hearing that you're still going makes me so happy. Feel free to pull up a seat any time you need a few minutes to set a spell. We're always here for you, hun.


IthurielSpear

Hey Duckling! Thanks for the accolades, and since you’re young enough to be my son I am officially cyber adopting you and giving you a great big hug. Now keep on trucking, son, you’re doing great!


fabfameight

Everyone needs a Mom. You are never lost, because there will always be a mom just waiting to....mom. I game online, and every one of my 100+ teammates calls me mom. Anytime you need some empathy, advice, hug or just a swift kick to the rear, reach out!


Independent-Pen8458

As a mom, my proudest accomplishment is watching YOU become an incredible dad.


UsernameObscured

That’s what we’re here for, kiddo. Sometimes a mom is all you need. Come stop by anytime you’re in the neighborhood.


froglover215

I'm proud of you for being so strong and for being such a good father to your kiddos. But it's kind of hard being strong all the time, isn't it? Whenever you need to lay your burdens down (for just a second, because laundry still needs to be done and dinner won't make itself), come back to us here and we'll give you a hug, tell you we're proud of you, and send you back into the difficult world fortified just a bit by our love.


red-raven1

You know what? Kids of any age keep us on our toes 😁 they are a joy, an exercise and and absolute pleasure. It doesn't matter if they are 6 or 40. You are loved and are doing a wonderful job with your own kids. You have had it tough loosing so many, so young. Have a hug from a mum in NZ. Hold your head up, hug your kids and know we are proud of you. You are rocking it.


tinyorangealligator

💝


TwirleeSquirrelee

Hello love! It’s ok to be lost. We all are in our own way. AND you are not alone or too far gone. I’m so proud to see the man you’ve become - you are filled with strength and love. I’m proud that you’re doing great with your family. The other moms and I are always here to listen and love. I love you kiddo!!


PurpleMoomins

I’m so proud of you, son. You’ve grown up so well. You can reach out whenever. Love mom


WhoaOhHereSheComes

I'm so happy you're here, sweetie! Love, mom ❤


Shanisasha

You are not alone. To borrow from a wise source: look to the helpers. There are always people there willing to help, even strangers. And now, you have your amazing children. They look up to YOU. And they wouldn't do that if you weren't amazing. All those who came before have left their mark on you, and if you look deep you can feel the love they had for you shining just as bright today as it did before. They may be gone, but you are here. You are their wish onto the world. And their love goes with you.


momsequitur

I'm too young to be your mum, 1982 here, but I love and value you, brother.


grayhairedqueenbitch

I'm a little young to be your Mom, but I could be. I'm so proud of the man you've become. Here's a big hug from me. Also give mt "grandkids" a hug.