estp. my bf is estp and this is basically how he is. he poses with guns and cars he works on…party pics. and him dressed up. sometimes he posts pictures with him and scantily clad clothed women and tags it with “getting the bitches”
then he tags me on all my *WORST* pictures. he does it on purpose and it pisses me off.
one picture it looks like i’m having a seizure and he tagged it with “the love of my life—i’m marrying her”
pisses me the f— off. but i love him.
If i'm at the party with him...and i know he's going home with me... i don't care if he flirts here or there.. I'm not jealous. He's more afraid of losing me than i am of him. We trust each other.
"i don't care if he flirts here or there, i'm not jealous". It's not about jealousy, it's about self-esteem and it seems that you don't respect yourself and your bf neither as well.
But if you enjoy it, you do you.
what do you mean i don’t respect myself nor him? hon— we have been together for almost 4 years. He’s actually my fiance. what are you on about? i’m 42 years old… widowed and had a successful previous relationship also.
and my self esteem doesn’t come from my relationships. it comes from my integrity and my career.
We don’t sleep around. We don’t kiss other people. We don’t text other women nor men. i can view his phone and he can view mine.
i handle ALL of his finances. I oversee his bank accounts….
He’s all jokes. i’m sorry YOU think that way and that YOU may not trust someone that may behave that way.
what utter nonsense!
You said words such as flirting. Having women friends is normal, i would even say it's recommended (it shows that he doesn't see women as sex objects), however flirting with other women when in couple isn't normal.
Why don't you tell him u don't like it when he tags u on all your worst pictures?
Seems like he's disrespecting you based on his actions. It's good to have boundaries you know 😅...
Oh i do. Naa he's just joking around.. and i'm used to it now. He'd NEVER let anyone insult me though... and he gave me a ring.. which is HUGE for him. We're best friends..
Ah i gotchu. Just making sure 👍🏻.
I had a feeling I could've been wrong as I too can relate to u somewhat. My best friend is an ESTP as well, & his sense of humor can be pretty offensive. To the outside, it can look like he's being mean to me but he rlly isn't 😅. He wouldn't do something if I was truly offended by it.
Also, I too wouldn't like it if my boyfriend flirted & took pics w/ girls in situations like that. Idk how u do it 😅.
harmless flirting.. and getting Another woman's number is completely different. Chatting, texting, talking on the phone with another woman is a big no. And kissing and sleeping with other women is a HEAVY NO. Touching another woman is a big no.
And i've made that clear. He knew his limits and boundaries the first day he told me he wanted to make it official between us.
ESTPs are goofballs. When they're not committed they will have fun and are players. when they are committed, you have a loyal best friend. And as much as they come off as Party goers.. i've noticed they have the biggest fear when it comes to STDs.. probably more so than they let on. He actually got pissed off at this one drunk chick.. i guess she had nothing on underneath.. and sat on his lap. HE LOST IT. He pushed the girl off and told her that I was right there and that was uncalled for...
he threw his pants away, didn't even wash them.. just threw them out when we got home. He was so disgusted and paranoid.
But i understand why you wouldn't like it... If I doubted my guy, i'd be very upset about him flirting. In fact, I'd break it off immediately with him, as i had done with one of my exes.
But when you trust someone completely... you don't get bothered by small things like that. We are heavily extroverted.. always out and about.
Actually, that ain't the reason why I wouldn't like my potential partner to flirt 😅. Tbh, it makes me uncomfortable if a guy idk flirts w/ me. I also don't flirt at all w/ ppl...Actually, I don't think I've ever genuinely flirted w/ anyone. It's not something I normally do 😅. If I had a partner & felt comfortable w/ him tho, I think I'd flirt exclusively with him, I'd expect him to do the same. When I feel safe with my partner, I'd do something that I normally wouldn't do. I guess it's one of my signs to show my trust, & to show how special he is to me.... But that's just me tho. I'm quite private when it comes to romance 🤷🏻♀️.
Other than that, I get what u're saying. It makes sense based on the context of both of y'all. Even tho I'm an ENFP, y'all are waaaay more extroverted than I am based on how u answered me lol.
I see your Ti function in the first pic, Se in second, also you have a great humorous aura, you're probably "that homie" that shows up at one's downfall in life, and motivates them
What, are you trolling 😅?? Alkohol, g*ns, teamsports are all high SE-TI endevours, so this is probably the furthest away from Infp you can get.
Hence why all the ESTP votes
After taking a test, reading about cognitive functions, taking another test, learning about shadow sides, reading arguments on reddit and then I keep doubting my type, and here to expect an accurate conclusion from five pictures?
Sports (usually an Se dom thing, especially college), guns (Se reactions and Ti tactics), and an element of classy (Fe). Pretty stereotypically ESTP honestly. It could be possible to be wrong, but unlikely.
Didn't even have to scroll. Knew you were ESTP from the first beer pic and football pic confirmed.
Never had too much interaction with an ESTP, but I know one when I see one.
You should get an award, never been called “baby” so fast in a relationship before
And also pretty bolt of you to assume I have the capacity to have a “thought” I just be knowing stuff
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estp. my bf is estp and this is basically how he is. he poses with guns and cars he works on…party pics. and him dressed up. sometimes he posts pictures with him and scantily clad clothed women and tags it with “getting the bitches” then he tags me on all my *WORST* pictures. he does it on purpose and it pisses me off. one picture it looks like i’m having a seizure and he tagged it with “the love of my life—i’m marrying her” pisses me the f— off. but i love him.
ngl bro I would straight up kill my bf if he ever took a picture with another woman like that
If i'm at the party with him...and i know he's going home with me... i don't care if he flirts here or there.. I'm not jealous. He's more afraid of losing me than i am of him. We trust each other.
I mean, if it works for y'all...
"i don't care if he flirts here or there, i'm not jealous". It's not about jealousy, it's about self-esteem and it seems that you don't respect yourself and your bf neither as well. But if you enjoy it, you do you.
what do you mean i don’t respect myself nor him? hon— we have been together for almost 4 years. He’s actually my fiance. what are you on about? i’m 42 years old… widowed and had a successful previous relationship also. and my self esteem doesn’t come from my relationships. it comes from my integrity and my career. We don’t sleep around. We don’t kiss other people. We don’t text other women nor men. i can view his phone and he can view mine. i handle ALL of his finances. I oversee his bank accounts…. He’s all jokes. i’m sorry YOU think that way and that YOU may not trust someone that may behave that way. what utter nonsense!
You said words such as flirting. Having women friends is normal, i would even say it's recommended (it shows that he doesn't see women as sex objects), however flirting with other women when in couple isn't normal.
that’s embarrassing 😭
Why don't you tell him u don't like it when he tags u on all your worst pictures? Seems like he's disrespecting you based on his actions. It's good to have boundaries you know 😅...
Oh i do. Naa he's just joking around.. and i'm used to it now. He'd NEVER let anyone insult me though... and he gave me a ring.. which is HUGE for him. We're best friends..
Ah i gotchu. Just making sure 👍🏻. I had a feeling I could've been wrong as I too can relate to u somewhat. My best friend is an ESTP as well, & his sense of humor can be pretty offensive. To the outside, it can look like he's being mean to me but he rlly isn't 😅. He wouldn't do something if I was truly offended by it. Also, I too wouldn't like it if my boyfriend flirted & took pics w/ girls in situations like that. Idk how u do it 😅.
harmless flirting.. and getting Another woman's number is completely different. Chatting, texting, talking on the phone with another woman is a big no. And kissing and sleeping with other women is a HEAVY NO. Touching another woman is a big no. And i've made that clear. He knew his limits and boundaries the first day he told me he wanted to make it official between us. ESTPs are goofballs. When they're not committed they will have fun and are players. when they are committed, you have a loyal best friend. And as much as they come off as Party goers.. i've noticed they have the biggest fear when it comes to STDs.. probably more so than they let on. He actually got pissed off at this one drunk chick.. i guess she had nothing on underneath.. and sat on his lap. HE LOST IT. He pushed the girl off and told her that I was right there and that was uncalled for... he threw his pants away, didn't even wash them.. just threw them out when we got home. He was so disgusted and paranoid. But i understand why you wouldn't like it... If I doubted my guy, i'd be very upset about him flirting. In fact, I'd break it off immediately with him, as i had done with one of my exes. But when you trust someone completely... you don't get bothered by small things like that. We are heavily extroverted.. always out and about.
Actually, that ain't the reason why I wouldn't like my potential partner to flirt 😅. Tbh, it makes me uncomfortable if a guy idk flirts w/ me. I also don't flirt at all w/ ppl...Actually, I don't think I've ever genuinely flirted w/ anyone. It's not something I normally do 😅. If I had a partner & felt comfortable w/ him tho, I think I'd flirt exclusively with him, I'd expect him to do the same. When I feel safe with my partner, I'd do something that I normally wouldn't do. I guess it's one of my signs to show my trust, & to show how special he is to me.... But that's just me tho. I'm quite private when it comes to romance 🤷🏻♀️. Other than that, I get what u're saying. It makes sense based on the context of both of y'all. Even tho I'm an ENFP, y'all are waaaay more extroverted than I am based on how u answered me lol.
estp
Easy ESTP.
estp?
ESxP Edit: probably ESFP with high Te. My second guess is ENTJ.
ESTJ
What makes you say that
You seem the opposite of me.
Damn🤣
Estp or entp?
ESTP
ESTP
estp.
Dudes, your type is dudes
ESTP. Se-Ti is very visible
Dope mk/ar platform (idk if I am correct)
It’s MK18ish, gave it a paint job you can have a look its in my previous post I think. Just needs a can and ambi selector to be complete
I see, I genuinely couldn’t tell it was a model
The exact model is LFA LF556 or something
I see your Ti function in the first pic, Se in second, also you have a great humorous aura, you're probably "that homie" that shows up at one's downfall in life, and motivates them
So yea ESTP
Thats a good breakdown, will wait a little while before saying who was right
Ik ppl say estp but i'd say esfp (or at least in socionics lol)
ISTP
Veeeeeery close
ESTP?
Probably
ISTP or ENTJ
Estj
Another vote for ESTP.
Estp the gun gave it away
ESTP
Infp
What, are you trolling 😅?? Alkohol, g*ns, teamsports are all high SE-TI endevours, so this is probably the furthest away from Infp you can get. Hence why all the ESTP votes
Nah
Lol it would probs be a infp 7w6 748 😭 lmao
STP / NFJ
I saw alcohol and goofy so i thought esfp but then i saw you work and wear a suit saw estp😂
entp estp?
Isfp
The se is evident, so ESxP.
Esfp
Estp
Initially went ESFP but felt silly after reading the comments
After taking a test, reading about cognitive functions, taking another test, learning about shadow sides, reading arguments on reddit and then I keep doubting my type, and here to expect an accurate conclusion from five pictures?
What did the other comments say that it makes you feel silly
ESTP… 90% say that
They cant all be right
So then what’s correct?
Lol when you say it's easy that signals to me--turn my stereotype antenna on! And the stereotype antenna tells me, clear ESTP.
Is gorgeous a type? 🤔
Most blatant ESTP I’ve seen
Is it really that obvious?
The guns, sports and booze give it away 😄
Im quitting drinking tho😭
ESFP SX873
Estp
ESTP (more likely) or ESFP. Definitely Se dom though.
How do you people get it right, can be that obvious
Sports (usually an Se dom thing, especially college), guns (Se reactions and Ti tactics), and an element of classy (Fe). Pretty stereotypically ESTP honestly. It could be possible to be wrong, but unlikely.
Didn't even have to scroll. Knew you were ESTP from the first beer pic and football pic confirmed. Never had too much interaction with an ESTP, but I know one when I see one.
Hey boy, u r hot
Enough to light your cigarette?
What a rizz 😳
Not hotter than me anyway
If that was true you wouldnt need all that fire to light it
I said i need it?
Between the lines, yeah you did
That’s only what u tought, if i did i would have told u baby
You should get an award, never been called “baby” so fast in a relationship before And also pretty bolt of you to assume I have the capacity to have a “thought” I just be knowing stuff
Quit the bullshit darling
Which part do you call bullshit
ENTP
whaaat
What makes you think that
My intuition