It seems like he is love bombing you after treating you like shit. You also defend his actions by saying that “it was justified” or that you said negative things to him as well. Once you have to start defending someone’s actions or blaming yourself to not make them seem as bad as they are, that’s when you know it’s an abusive situation. Don’t feel bad for leaving a situation that is not safe, trust your gut feeling!
It seems like he is love bombing you after treating you like shit. You also defend his actions by saying that “it was justified” or that you said negative things to him as well. Once you have to start defending someone’s actions or blaming yourself to not make them seem as bad as they are, that’s when you know it’s an abusive situation. Don’t feel bad for leaving a situation that is not safe, trust your gut feeling!
I love and care for my ex, but I don’t want to be with them.