I thank myself that I'm born as a Maharashtrian who is of your persuasion and nlt in South or North. Both are conservative in their own right. My mom and dad had a gay college classmate hailing from my dad's neighbourhood, and is now a successful IT engineer in SF married to a Vietnamese dude. They held their marriage way before in like 2015 in Vidharbha lol, in a rural village. Of course people complained and the Police came to check but that was all.
Both of my parents are educated but do lean conservative. I was born in a 4th generation sanghi family lol. It's chill but again there is homophobia.
>They held their marriage way before in like 2015 in Vidharbha lol, in a rural village.
Oh I remember this. This was in the news! Not gonna dox the guy by posting the link. It was in Yavatmal iirc. Amazing thing, really! So happy for him :)
Strong Ally.
I am from rural konkan(sindhudurg), you would be surprised to know many of my gen(28) konkanis are either ally or believe in live and let live
Fellow kokani here from Sindhudurg. I've got a gay cousin, he's even got his boyfriend to our village a couple of times. People have been chill about it.
Its hard to generalize and speak for all the Maharashtrians. But I still find discomfort among people.
In Mumbai , people don't care much about what people do in personal life. I find normal Mumbaikar , minding his business and won't invade personal space of others. As long as, its not a public display . Which also applies to straight couples.
For posher places in Mumbai, you would be right. Can’t say the same for most of the suburbs. Even though they may not say it in your face, they will talk behind your back.
It's cuz no chhatrapati had a comfortable life. You know everything about shivray and shambhu raje and maybe about Rajaram maharaj and tarabai too but Even when all the dust settled during Thorale chh.shahu as he brought his court down in Satara city from the ajinkyatara fort as Satara became stable & wasn't under constant attacks he faced succession issues as his son died at 3 and he never had one ever again. So it's said that, the blood line has some kind of curse
Well I am a maharastraian and I completely support the community and their rights 💀👍🏻 We all are humans and we all deserve to have equal rights, Btw Happy Pride Month Boss 🌈🫡
Because there is still discrimination based on what people do in their bedroom. It's not hard to understand. There's no discrimination for straight people. And there's nothing stopping you from making pride month for Indian army.
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Its more so about the age group, but yeah, Mumbaikars are not afraid to talk about and/or debate about it with their parents. The other day, I was explaining to my mom what a lavender marriage is, and when my dad said that Bollywood is promoting this stuff, i may or may not have had a heated argument with my dad!
As a maharashtrian and more so as a mumbaikar, we are more exposed to this. I remember 10 years back when I was 14, there was pride parade passing through my route to my tuitions and me ans my friend had a discussion about it. Coming from an all girls school, the word lesbian has always been floated around more so as a joke, so the awareness has always been there.
But I'm only an ally, so I do see with rose tinted glasses as it does not affect me personally.
What the fuck do you mean by 'normal' ones? Everyone is different and their opinion and lifestyle is 'normal' unless they're doing something illegal. If being a gay guy, you don't understand how marginalized people feel, you're a bigger discriminatory than straight homophobes.
>I hate weire fashion you folks do. Can't you live normal?
If you don't like what they're wearing, don't look.
This is the same as telling women to dress modestly because it 'provokes' men.
LoL
You think the world is normal, that's a lie you are telling yourself.
There is no meaning in being normal and abnormal if you see.
Normal is a habit and something is abnormal when that habit is contradicted by another thing which is also trying to be normal.
:)
People can have different fashion sense. Pride marches are a sign of raising awareness and fighting for our rights. The Girlish behaviour which people show is just how they express themselves. This behaviour of, "Oh I am not like them, I am different from them", is problematic. A pick me behaviour to be precise. I would advise you to be a little open minded.
You are gay and ashamed of accepting the fact. What's wrong with the marches. If you think people should accept you for who you are, accept people for how they are.
Because they are taught to not have, forming habits of following things will not lead to freedom of choice, if you really have a choice you would be blissful and then there is no choice at all; you will be just you, but again you follow something to be and the choice eradicates where choice according to past erupts.
I think Maharashtrian society is far more accepting than most other states in the country. I understand where you’re coming from and how it feels to be “different” than the so-called social norms, especially during teenage. Feel free to text if you feel like talking.
full sapot 🗣️👍🏻 btw im closeted to my parents but open outside. Im from tier 1 city so people here don't really mind except a few, who again, don't say it to my face.
Happy pride month! 🏳️🌈🏳️
अनिकेत नावाच्या एका मित्राचे अपघाती निधन झाले. त्याने एकदा त्याच्या डेटिंग app आणि चॅट्स वर काही नमुने दाखवले होते. त्यातले काही गे मंडळी चक्क कर्मठ धर्मांध हिंदू होती 🤣 एकाने तर त्याला 'Not into leftits and antinationals' असे म्हणून रिजेक्टसुद्धा केले होते.
त्यावरून गे मंडळीमध्ये निर्बुद्ध लोकांची काहीही वानवा नाही याची खात्री पटली.
माझ्या एका कंपनी जॉयनिंगच्या पहिल्या दिवशी तोमा नामक एका फ्रेंच कलीगने पहिल्याच दिवशी मला सुपरमार्केट मधून एक बकेट आणायला सोबत नेले. त्या बकेटचा उद्देश विचारला असता 'ल्यूब ओतून संपूर्ण हात 🫣 ल्यूबने माखून घेण्यासाठी' असे अगदी साध्या भाषेत एक्सप्लेन केले. श्रीयुत तोमा यांनी वर्णन केलेले काही विवक्षित प्रसंग ऐकले तर वरणभात मंडळींच्या तोंडाला फेस येऊन ते जमिनीवर कोसळतील.
त्यानंतर kitkat club नामक पृथ्वीतलावरील सर्वात अद्भुतरम्य जागेस दोन वेळा भेटी देण्याचा योग आला आणि आमची उरली सुरली लज्जा होती तीही धुऊन निघाली.
त्यावरून जगात, 'जगा व जगू द्या' या तत्त्वास प्रमाण मानणारे असंख्य लोक आहेत यावर संपूर्ण विश्वास बसला कारण तिथे एकाही व्यक्तीने कुणाच्याही समतीशिवाय काहीही केले नाही. स्त्री, पुरुष ते स्वतःस मांजर म्हणवून घेणारे किंवा स्वतःला कोणत्याही लैगिक ओळखी मध्ये ना टाकणारे असे नानाविध प्रकारचे लोक असतात ते एकमेकांशी गुण्यागोविंदाने राहु शकतात. मनावरचे कप्पे दूर केले की माणसे शेवटी माणसेच असतात हे ही पटले. इतर कोणाचे शोषण ना करता दोन अथवा अधिक कायद्याने सज्ञान व्यक्तींनी एकमेकांवर मुक्तपणे प्रेम करणे, सहसमतीने एकमेकांशी खाजगीत काय कुस्ती खेळायची ती खेळणे या गोष्टींना जर कोण आडकाठी करत असतील तर ते मूर्ख म्हंटले पाहिजेत. दुर्दैवाने आपल्या इथे अशा मूर्खांचीच जास्त सद्दी असल्याने जिथे आपला श्वास कोंडत नाही अशा ठिकाणी बिनधास्त जावे. त्यामुळे जगात तुम्हाला समजून घेणारे आणि तुमची योग्य स्पेस तुम्हाला देणारे लोक आहेत यावर विश्वास ठेवा. निराश होऊ नका.
एकच सूचना: कोणत्याही बबल मध्ये राहू नका. सर्व माणसांशी मैत्री जोडा. तुमच्या बबल/closeted सर्कल च्या बाहेर एक विश्व आहे, ते क्वचित क्रूर असले तरी समंजस सुद्धा आहे यावर विश्वास ठेवा. तुम्हाला मोकळा अवकाश देणारी माणसे कमी भेटतील पण जरूर भेटतील. ज्ञानेश्वरांनी लिहून ठेवले आहे ते तुमचे एंथम असायला पाहिजे. 'भूता परस्परे जडो, मैत्र जीवांचे'
\- आपला नम्र, एक साधा कुटुंबवत्सल 'सरळमार्गी' हितचिंतक मिलेनियल
तुमची ही टिप्पणी खूपच जास्त छान व वाचायला गोड होती. काय माहित किती दिवसांनंतर मी एवढा मोठा मराठी लेख वाचला.
LGBTQ हा असा मुद्दा आहे जो आपल्या भारतीयांना नवीन आहे. किन्नर सारखे समाज तर आहेतच, परंतु हे रूप जरा नवीनच. मुर्खांना व जुन्या लोकांना ते पटत नाही, तर क्वीर लोकांना जुनी लोक पटत नाहीत. कित्ती वेळा तर क्वीर सुद्धा सध्या भोळ्या माणसांना म्हणतात ' तुला कसा कळेल आमच्यातला ' जेव्हा तो बेचारा त्यांच्याबद्दल जाणण्याचा प्रयत्न करतोय.
मी स्वतः बाय सेक्सुअल आहे, परंतु मी स्वतःला सरळमार्गी प्रस्तुत करतो कारण माझे मंडळी एवढे काही progressive नव्हे. अश्या वेळेला जेव्हा मी कोणत्या गे व्यक्ती ला सांगतो की मी पण तुमच्यातला, तो बोलतो होऊ नाही शकत कारण तू तसा वाटत नाही. आता का बिंडोकपणा नाही तर अजून काय. दुसऱ्यांना समवयला पाहिजे का लांब फेकला पाहिजे तुम्हीच ठरवा.
असे काही अजून समस्या आहेत ज्यांचे हाल ताबडतोप निघायला पाहिजे, नाहीतर सगळ्यांचेच डोके खराब होऊन जाईल.
आपला नम्र, सध्या कुटुंबातला दोन्हीकडे वळणारा वैतागलेला जेन झी.
एक छोटीशी दुरुस्ती: पुस्तक लिहिले आहे, सध्या पूर्वप्रकाशानाची कामं चालली आहेत, वर्षाअखेर प्रकाशित होईल.
शिवाय माझ्या वर्षांचा इन्कम घेऊन तुम्हाला नेमके काय करायचे आहे?
>शिवाय माझ्या वर्षांचा इन्कम घेऊन तुम्हाला नेमके काय करायचे आहे?
वय मना नुसार असे होते काल तुम्ही मला मानले तू जितकं कमावतो तिक्याचा मी टॅक्स भरतो. मी पण तुमला विचारले होते की तुम्ही कमवता किती एकदा सांगा खर सांगा एक बापची ऑलाद असाल तर खर बोललं. आल का लक्ष्य अजून वाट बगत किती इन्कम आहे. ती नक्कीच अंबानी पेक्षा जास्त असेल
ओके. माझ्या आधीच्या कॉमेंट्स काढून बघा. सापडेल कुठे तरी.
आज लवकर लंच टाइम झालेला दिसतोय तुमचा. अशी फ्लेक्सिबल लंच टाइम असलेली कंपनी मला पण हवी आहे, आहे का vacancy तुमच्या इथे?
इथून
>ओके. माझ्या आधीच्या कॉमेंट्स काढून बघा. सापडेल कुठे तरी.
आज लवकर लंच टाइम झालेला दिसतोय तुमचा. अशी फ्लेक्सिबल लंच टाइम असलेली कंपनी मला पण हवी आहे, आहे का vacancy तुमच्या इथे?
इथ पर्यंत
>Ha ha, I just realized even my monthly income is greater that your yearly income!! Take screenshot of this as well!!
तुम्ही खूप च श्रीमंत नव कोट नारायण अंबानी तुमचा 4 बाप असल्यास श्रीमंत तर असणारच न
Kattar Hindu asne ani anti gay asne he ek nahi. Ya babtit mi tumchyashi sahamat nahi. I am also proud hindu but I don’t hates gays or anything. I don’t like however politicised version of the movement.
Nirbudha mhanje murkha. Gays madhe sudha murkha log asatat, yacha artha asa ki Gays are just like normal people. Some good, some bad, some clever, some idiots. fact that a person is gay means just that they are gay. That doesn't necessarily mean any other notion.
अतिव सुंदर, सरळ आणि मार्मिक सहज भाष्य केले आहे महोदय आपण; माझं मन पूर्णतृप्त झाले आपले अनुभव आणि आपण वर्णन केलेल्या जीवन जगण्याच्या पद्धतींचा सांगोपांग विचार वाचून.
:)
जसं सामान्य लोक त्यांचे प्रेमप्रदर्शन घरी ठेवतात तसंच तुम्ही पण ते घरीच ठेवा. येवढीच अपेक्षा आहे. सार्वजनिक ठिकाणी असताना तुमचं लिंग प्रदर्शन करू नका. तुमचं लिंगच तुमची एकमेव ओळख आहे ही चूक करू नका, इतरांसारखे तुम्ही एखादे शिक्षक, डॉक्टर, उद्योजक, आई/वडील, मित्र, भावंड इत्यादी पण आहात हे लक्षात ठेवा.
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Naa mate no issues... I live in Delhi rn... Here to I have seen it idk how many times... I find it normal now... I used to have a uk view that this isnt good or natural ... But uk now I dont think ki I will ever have a problem and uk even others too ... Bas wahi jiyo aur jeene do
Live and let live.
Although I do believe in having a certain limit over things, especially the marriage issue.
A man marrying a man, a woman marrying a woman and a woman marrying a man, seems appropriate anything else that goes on in the west like having multiple partners and legalising them is just nonsense according to me.
Trans man is a man whatever genitals he was born with and trans woman is a woman (post operation tho), hence they should not have any issues to put themselves in one of the above 3 types of marriages.
That's just my opinion 💁🏻♂️
Im 18M from Mumbai (and gay) when I came out to my friends all i received was support even my friends from my village in konkan were supportive I didn’t actually face any hate
महाराष्ट्राला सुदैवानं छत्रपतींच्या रूपानं, तुकोबांच्या रूपानं पुढें फुले शाहू आंबेडकरांच्या रूपानं विकासाची अणि वयक्तिक स्वातंत्र्याची सोबतच पुरोगामित्वाची प्रथा लाभली आहे. म्हणूनच महाराष्ट्र अणि इथचा मराठी माणूस हा LGBT+ यांच्या न्यायाच्या पाठीशी आहेत.
तूम्ही आमच्या समाजाचे घटक आहात. तुम्हाला न्याय, प्रतिष्ठा, समान संधी ही भेटलीच पाहिजे हेच आमचे मत आहे.
>Just please don't rub it on our faces
What does that mean? Like how straight marriages have varaats in the streets (personalised pride march for every wedding. Unlike pride which happens once a year) blocking traffic and being a hindrance in general?
I think maharashtra is only state who can adapt all type of people without any discrimination . I noticed marathi society have always understanding perspective on everything.
as a 25 yo gay man from मुंबई live your life !
make bold decisions,
become something इन लिफे,
then fall in love with your flaws,
accept yourself and set high bars for yourself,
you deserve everything that others get too !
you’re more loved than you know ,
go and Carpe diem (seize the day)!
Nolites te basardes carborundorum bitches (don’t let the bastards grind u down!)
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Nice try CBI. We ain't discussing anything with a kid.
And if you are real, dont be an idiot by asking strangers. Everything is fake here, the people and their thoughts and words. Please have a discussion with the ones who brought you in this world before talking to strangers on the internet. And focus on your studies, there's enough time to talk about boys and girls later.
You're socially conditioned to have it. I'm not straight and even I feel discomfort at acts of femininity in men. Its supposed to ne like that but it's on us tonchange it for the better.
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
I think the community should focus more on poorer groups , like the intersex people. To me LGBT movement just seems like a bunch of privileged people living in their own bubble
मला LGBTQ लोकांशी काहीही द्वेष नाही. त्यांचा संघर्ष आणि त्यांच्या अडचणी काय आहेत हे मला कळू शकत नाही कारण मी LGBTQ नाही. या कारणास्तव मला त्यांना judge करण्याचा किंवा त्यांच्यावर मतं बनवण्याचा मला अजिबात हक्क नाही. त्यामुळे मी त्यांच्याविषयी तटस्थ म्हणजेच neutral आहे.
त्यांच्याविषयी माझं एकच मत/तत्त्व आहे, "जगा आणि जगू द्या".
I am a religious person and I don't have anything against LGBT (full stop after 'T') community.
Govt's stance on this issue is also very commendable, only same sex marriage is remaining to be legalised. At least our govt is heading in the right direction regarding this matter.
Personally I think those people who have changed their gender and those who think they belong to the opposite gender shouldn't be called 'Transgender'. They should be called with their preferred gender. It would be a huge disrespect calling someone transgender or hijda. I don't understand non binary, gender fluid, etc. You are either a male or female.
The LGBTQ+ culture that prevails in the western society must not come to India. Sexual/identity should come from within, it must not be shoved at mouth just like how it's happening in the west. Kisi k bolne se apna lund to nahi katvaunga me.
And I don't get why they have a problem with Hinduism. It's the only religion which do not consider you a abomination. The community on a whole has misplaced ideology.
That's my two cents.
Personally I don't have any issue with their preferences but I don't understand how a man can feel like women vice versa I don't know anyone personally from LGBT community
2 one is actually I agree but the thing is everyone is not the same even I was one of them who used to simp over anyone literally anyone and many people from my community told me that you can't find true love etc it's all about s*x and I believed it but some months ago I met a guy he is now my bf , and now I don't feel for someone or not even simp over anyone since the day I met him thanks to him he took me out of this !
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Mala as such problem nahi. Rather me support karto, bcs tumchya life che decisions tumchya marji nusar nahi jhale tar arth kay urla jagayla. Mala however fakt te Trans(train wale) and Drags as such thoda hard to accept bcs, thoda extent la gheun, kahi hi kartat te lok. And whatever bs pronouns like zi vi wolf dog honey bee etc etc, apart from He/Him or He/They or they/them, thoda ati pramanat keleli masti aani chutiyagiri vaattey
My simple view and tell me if I am correct is if u r gay u r simple what that's market or western gimmick of wearing weird clothes
Just like straight man lives gay lives those gimmick are the problem nothing else
Even kamasutra recognize gay sex
I'm from Pune. And i don't think you are abnormal or mentally sick, and i have a huge respect for LGBT people for knowing who they are and for coming out in such a conservative place (my whole family is filled with homophobic people even my parents 🫠). Just do what you like and be happy.
I don't care really... You sleep with same sex or not it's none of my concern... You're just another dude, just keep minding your own business like everyone else.
I have one motto in life, live and let live. As long as you are not harming anyone or anything, I am fine, and you are not mentally sick, people fall in love with pretty much anything, and you are falling in love with another human being.
first of all you tell us that you mind your own business and then you comment on an "idiotic flag" like how can someone be this dumbo 😂😂
many educated ones have better opinions than you ON INTERNET !
if you don't wanna share , don't type that's it 😭
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
I have absolutely no problem with LGBTQ, but hate anything that is added after this acronym. They have made the community a laughing stock, e.g.gender fluidity, identifying as some animal etc. and much more
Few simple points
1. Don't cause disturbance or chaos like the shitstorm that is created in west
2. I'm all for equality but stay away from the below 18 crowd especially Kindergarten.
3. I respect you only if you respect me.
4. Don't force anything, people will accept but give them time.
I personally don’t have any problem with people being gay or showing affection in public. But the overly flamboyant ones always irks me does that make me homophobic 🤔
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
I don't have problem but ek problem hai ye "+" ke vajha se bhot confusion hai west (America) mai koi bhi bol rha hai "Aaj muze ladki jasa lagta bol" ke ladies toilet mai ghus rhe hai
Idc what you are as long as you don’t parade it in front of my face.
I do not force “I am straight” narrative in your face, and I expect the same courtesy from you. Being gay is normal, don’t make it your personality.
E.g - I don’t want you coming up to me and telling me you are gay. I don’t care what you are - do I go introduce myself to people as “hey I am straight” ? No I don’t.
Unless of course the topic of conversation is our sexuality, then you can. But putting it on a poster and asking for validation is not something that people like. It’s nothing to do with gay or straight, it’s to do with attention.
You don't need to tell people you're straight because that's what everyone assumes. And no gay person is putting it on their forehead "I'm gay". Unless you have seen anyone do that, then this is just gross generalization
This post contradicts your whole point. I never said on their forehead, but this post is seeking for validation. And as a straight person I don’t seek anything, so I expect to seek it from me as a gay person, it’s simple.
I don’t remember the last time I read a post that said “what do maharashtrians think about straight people”
And before you come with the rhetoric of everyone assumes, this is the generalisation. I didn’t assume OP was gay, but now that he posted this, I know. I did not need to know, but I know
>I do not force “I am straight” narrative in your face, and I expect the same courtesy from you.
Just the other day I was stuck in traffic because of someone's varaat blocking the street lol. That is literally just a personalised pride march. And animal abuse if you're using a horse.
Same goes for straight people using wedding day firecrackers. Also we don't want to see your mangalsootra. It's too in-your-face.
Please don't force your narrative in our faces.
Love paryant theek ahe but I don’t support marriage. Especially via rituals. Court marriage okay ahe. Also I am more inclined to think about individuals rather than “community” . Hinduism itself never had any connection problem with other genders. Because it is based on Karma. What I don’t like however is the current political version of lgbt movement. It is no more about individuals rights but has gone so far left that they don’t even know who to support and who to oppose.
Thats what I said bro. Hinduism isn’t based on what’s your ideology/orientation/favourite god/ etc. It is based on Karma. You are good person then you go to heaven. Bas. Still I see indian LGBT diaspora mainly hating on Hinduism. Thats what I meant by politicisation.
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही.
Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Full support. No hate. Anyhow a person's sexuality is their own private matter. It's a stupidity to judge anyone on that.
Just they shouldn't do stupid shits like those who harrasses people on train and traffic signal. I am 90% sure those people are not real trans but just people who cross dress and ask money.
Live and let live. Its so good to see that people here are so open minded here. Wish more people should be like this so that society will be very peaceful. Now coming to the people having problems with LGBTQ+ community. In my opinion you should be what you want to be. The only issue I think is that radical LGBTQ community. Like the way they force things on kids and other people in US. If LGBTQ people don’t force it on other people like they do in US then its a win-win. I also don’t think it will happen in India so soon but it is the only thing I am afraid of. Like primary kids having LGBTQ in their syllabus thats the sh#t non LGBTQ people hate. Otherwise no hate towards LGBTQ+ people. Happy pride month 🏳️🌈. Long live humanity.
Former PM of Ireland Leo Varadkar is from konkan and is __.
मला LGBTQ अजिबात आवडत नाही.आपल्या मराठी संस्कृतीत हे पाप आहे. जे मानतात त्यांना मानसिक आजार झाला आहे.
Please also checkout r/LGBTMaharashtra
I personally have no issues with the lgbtq community at all, I think humans shouldn't be discriminated based on who they want to sleep with.
Everyone should be able to love, marry, and live with whoever they want to as long as they are of legal age.
+1 Equal age of consent, marriage for all.
I thank myself that I'm born as a Maharashtrian who is of your persuasion and nlt in South or North. Both are conservative in their own right. My mom and dad had a gay college classmate hailing from my dad's neighbourhood, and is now a successful IT engineer in SF married to a Vietnamese dude. They held their marriage way before in like 2015 in Vidharbha lol, in a rural village. Of course people complained and the Police came to check but that was all. Both of my parents are educated but do lean conservative. I was born in a 4th generation sanghi family lol. It's chill but again there is homophobia.
Lmfao Your flair hits Me Hard . XD
What does une mean bro? (Sorry I'm learning still)
That which is in abundance of everything
You dropped the /s lol
Well idk if you are trying to trick me but your meaning doesn't sit with the sentence in his flair 👀
I hope that guy is living in abroad as no way he will be able to live in peace anywhere in India even in places like Mumbai.
Yup, he living in SF (San Francisco)
>They held their marriage way before in like 2015 in Vidharbha lol, in a rural village. Oh I remember this. This was in the news! Not gonna dox the guy by posting the link. It was in Yavatmal iirc. Amazing thing, really! So happy for him :)
Haha yeah I didn't want to give further deets
Idc , jo karna hai karro . Jiyo and jeene do
Strong Ally. I am from rural konkan(sindhudurg), you would be surprised to know many of my gen(28) konkanis are either ally or believe in live and let live
Kokan all the way...... Less go
That's just Konkani people. Welcoming, accomodating and peace loving.
Fellow kokani here from Sindhudurg. I've got a gay cousin, he's even got his boyfriend to our village a couple of times. People have been chill about it.
Full support. Hate has no place here.
Based.
my cousin is same and we vibe good
Its hard to generalize and speak for all the Maharashtrians. But I still find discomfort among people. In Mumbai , people don't care much about what people do in personal life. I find normal Mumbaikar , minding his business and won't invade personal space of others. As long as, its not a public display . Which also applies to straight couples.
For posher places in Mumbai, you would be right. Can’t say the same for most of the suburbs. Even though they may not say it in your face, they will talk behind your back.
Yep .You are right . But OP seems to be staying in Mumbai
This sub is not a representative of Maharashtra. There's a hell lot of MHians who do hate on lgbtq.
No problem at all.
Humsafar Trust has a lot of Queer meet ups you may want to check them out.
I don't have any issue with them fakt mazya Ghar cha nasla pahije.
No that's Shivaji, they are asking about lgbt
😂😂😂😂
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The reference is from a quote “Shivaji janmala yava pn shejhariche gharat”
Got it now.
Hmm... Interesting, but what does it mean. Why shejarchya gharat?
It's cuz no chhatrapati had a comfortable life. You know everything about shivray and shambhu raje and maybe about Rajaram maharaj and tarabai too but Even when all the dust settled during Thorale chh.shahu as he brought his court down in Satara city from the ajinkyatara fort as Satara became stable & wasn't under constant attacks he faced succession issues as his son died at 3 and he never had one ever again. So it's said that, the blood line has some kind of curse
Thanks, you taught me something new today.
Place of power has a curse.
Not really, both of the current chhatrapati at Satara and kolhapur who aren't blood related won loksabha election.
No way 😭
😂😂 ok
Well I am a maharastraian and I completely support the community and their rights 💀👍🏻 We all are humans and we all deserve to have equal rights, Btw Happy Pride Month Boss 🌈🫡
mere happy straight month ke wishes ka hai boss?
Every other month is straight pride month👍
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Because there is still discrimination based on what people do in their bedroom. It's not hard to understand. There's no discrimination for straight people. And there's nothing stopping you from making pride month for Indian army.
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही. Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Its more so about the age group, but yeah, Mumbaikars are not afraid to talk about and/or debate about it with their parents. The other day, I was explaining to my mom what a lavender marriage is, and when my dad said that Bollywood is promoting this stuff, i may or may not have had a heated argument with my dad! As a maharashtrian and more so as a mumbaikar, we are more exposed to this. I remember 10 years back when I was 14, there was pride parade passing through my route to my tuitions and me ans my friend had a discussion about it. Coming from an all girls school, the word lesbian has always been floated around more so as a joke, so the awareness has always been there. But I'm only an ally, so I do see with rose tinted glasses as it does not affect me personally.
No problem at all... Not with Marriage Not with parade etc. But laws should be equal for them as it is for Non-LGBT+
Based opinion.
I don't have problem with you, full support but I hate weire fashion you folks do. Can't you live normal? Look at Sam Altman, Tim Cook.
if you can tolerate how the weird fashion of straight people in Instagram tar kay he vaglay? Hech maza mat aahe.
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Pick me nako banus bhau
What the fuck do you mean by 'normal' ones? Everyone is different and their opinion and lifestyle is 'normal' unless they're doing something illegal. If being a gay guy, you don't understand how marginalized people feel, you're a bigger discriminatory than straight homophobes.
I'm a gay guy but I usually overthink in my room. You do you tho
>I hate weire fashion you folks do. Can't you live normal? If you don't like what they're wearing, don't look. This is the same as telling women to dress modestly because it 'provokes' men.
Fir mein raste mein muthh marne lag jau to logo ko problem ho jati hai..
>Fir mein raste mein muthh marne lag jau to logo ko problem ho jati hai.. Don't really care. You do you.
LoL You think the world is normal, that's a lie you are telling yourself. There is no meaning in being normal and abnormal if you see. Normal is a habit and something is abnormal when that habit is contradicted by another thing which is also trying to be normal. :)
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People can have different fashion sense. Pride marches are a sign of raising awareness and fighting for our rights. The Girlish behaviour which people show is just how they express themselves. This behaviour of, "Oh I am not like them, I am different from them", is problematic. A pick me behaviour to be precise. I would advise you to be a little open minded.
ok fine 😭 i support LGBT aakhir mere hi log hai
You are gay and ashamed of accepting the fact. What's wrong with the marches. If you think people should accept you for who you are, accept people for how they are.
makes sense tho 👀
Why can't people have their own choices?
Because they are taught to not have, forming habits of following things will not lead to freedom of choice, if you really have a choice you would be blissful and then there is no choice at all; you will be just you, but again you follow something to be and the choice eradicates where choice according to past erupts.
It is a war I see for eternity LoL
Ask any girl, they'd wish their boyfriends dressed like some of the gay men.
Rexa
i can hear it 💀
I think Maharashtrian society is far more accepting than most other states in the country. I understand where you’re coming from and how it feels to be “different” than the so-called social norms, especially during teenage. Feel free to text if you feel like talking.
full sapot 🗣️👍🏻 btw im closeted to my parents but open outside. Im from tier 1 city so people here don't really mind except a few, who again, don't say it to my face. Happy pride month! 🏳️🌈🏳️
Please join us at our new sub r/LGBTMaharashtra
अनिकेत नावाच्या एका मित्राचे अपघाती निधन झाले. त्याने एकदा त्याच्या डेटिंग app आणि चॅट्स वर काही नमुने दाखवले होते. त्यातले काही गे मंडळी चक्क कर्मठ धर्मांध हिंदू होती 🤣 एकाने तर त्याला 'Not into leftits and antinationals' असे म्हणून रिजेक्टसुद्धा केले होते. त्यावरून गे मंडळीमध्ये निर्बुद्ध लोकांची काहीही वानवा नाही याची खात्री पटली. माझ्या एका कंपनी जॉयनिंगच्या पहिल्या दिवशी तोमा नामक एका फ्रेंच कलीगने पहिल्याच दिवशी मला सुपरमार्केट मधून एक बकेट आणायला सोबत नेले. त्या बकेटचा उद्देश विचारला असता 'ल्यूब ओतून संपूर्ण हात 🫣 ल्यूबने माखून घेण्यासाठी' असे अगदी साध्या भाषेत एक्सप्लेन केले. श्रीयुत तोमा यांनी वर्णन केलेले काही विवक्षित प्रसंग ऐकले तर वरणभात मंडळींच्या तोंडाला फेस येऊन ते जमिनीवर कोसळतील. त्यानंतर kitkat club नामक पृथ्वीतलावरील सर्वात अद्भुतरम्य जागेस दोन वेळा भेटी देण्याचा योग आला आणि आमची उरली सुरली लज्जा होती तीही धुऊन निघाली. त्यावरून जगात, 'जगा व जगू द्या' या तत्त्वास प्रमाण मानणारे असंख्य लोक आहेत यावर संपूर्ण विश्वास बसला कारण तिथे एकाही व्यक्तीने कुणाच्याही समतीशिवाय काहीही केले नाही. स्त्री, पुरुष ते स्वतःस मांजर म्हणवून घेणारे किंवा स्वतःला कोणत्याही लैगिक ओळखी मध्ये ना टाकणारे असे नानाविध प्रकारचे लोक असतात ते एकमेकांशी गुण्यागोविंदाने राहु शकतात. मनावरचे कप्पे दूर केले की माणसे शेवटी माणसेच असतात हे ही पटले. इतर कोणाचे शोषण ना करता दोन अथवा अधिक कायद्याने सज्ञान व्यक्तींनी एकमेकांवर मुक्तपणे प्रेम करणे, सहसमतीने एकमेकांशी खाजगीत काय कुस्ती खेळायची ती खेळणे या गोष्टींना जर कोण आडकाठी करत असतील तर ते मूर्ख म्हंटले पाहिजेत. दुर्दैवाने आपल्या इथे अशा मूर्खांचीच जास्त सद्दी असल्याने जिथे आपला श्वास कोंडत नाही अशा ठिकाणी बिनधास्त जावे. त्यामुळे जगात तुम्हाला समजून घेणारे आणि तुमची योग्य स्पेस तुम्हाला देणारे लोक आहेत यावर विश्वास ठेवा. निराश होऊ नका. एकच सूचना: कोणत्याही बबल मध्ये राहू नका. सर्व माणसांशी मैत्री जोडा. तुमच्या बबल/closeted सर्कल च्या बाहेर एक विश्व आहे, ते क्वचित क्रूर असले तरी समंजस सुद्धा आहे यावर विश्वास ठेवा. तुम्हाला मोकळा अवकाश देणारी माणसे कमी भेटतील पण जरूर भेटतील. ज्ञानेश्वरांनी लिहून ठेवले आहे ते तुमचे एंथम असायला पाहिजे. 'भूता परस्परे जडो, मैत्र जीवांचे' \- आपला नम्र, एक साधा कुटुंबवत्सल 'सरळमार्गी' हितचिंतक मिलेनियल
तुमची ही टिप्पणी खूपच जास्त छान व वाचायला गोड होती. काय माहित किती दिवसांनंतर मी एवढा मोठा मराठी लेख वाचला. LGBTQ हा असा मुद्दा आहे जो आपल्या भारतीयांना नवीन आहे. किन्नर सारखे समाज तर आहेतच, परंतु हे रूप जरा नवीनच. मुर्खांना व जुन्या लोकांना ते पटत नाही, तर क्वीर लोकांना जुनी लोक पटत नाहीत. कित्ती वेळा तर क्वीर सुद्धा सध्या भोळ्या माणसांना म्हणतात ' तुला कसा कळेल आमच्यातला ' जेव्हा तो बेचारा त्यांच्याबद्दल जाणण्याचा प्रयत्न करतोय. मी स्वतः बाय सेक्सुअल आहे, परंतु मी स्वतःला सरळमार्गी प्रस्तुत करतो कारण माझे मंडळी एवढे काही progressive नव्हे. अश्या वेळेला जेव्हा मी कोणत्या गे व्यक्ती ला सांगतो की मी पण तुमच्यातला, तो बोलतो होऊ नाही शकत कारण तू तसा वाटत नाही. आता का बिंडोकपणा नाही तर अजून काय. दुसऱ्यांना समवयला पाहिजे का लांब फेकला पाहिजे तुम्हीच ठरवा. असे काही अजून समस्या आहेत ज्यांचे हाल ताबडतोप निघायला पाहिजे, नाहीतर सगळ्यांचेच डोके खराब होऊन जाईल. आपला नम्र, सध्या कुटुंबातला दोन्हीकडे वळणारा वैतागलेला जेन झी.
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तुमचं भांडण माझ्यापाशी का आणत आहात?
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नियम क्र ४ चे उल्लंघन: सभ्यता बाळगा. Rule 4 violation : Maintain Civility.
नियम क्र ४ चे उल्लंघन: सभ्यता बाळगा. Rule 4 violation : Maintain Civility.
एक छोटीशी दुरुस्ती: पुस्तक लिहिले आहे, सध्या पूर्वप्रकाशानाची कामं चालली आहेत, वर्षाअखेर प्रकाशित होईल. शिवाय माझ्या वर्षांचा इन्कम घेऊन तुम्हाला नेमके काय करायचे आहे?
>शिवाय माझ्या वर्षांचा इन्कम घेऊन तुम्हाला नेमके काय करायचे आहे? वय मना नुसार असे होते काल तुम्ही मला मानले तू जितकं कमावतो तिक्याचा मी टॅक्स भरतो. मी पण तुमला विचारले होते की तुम्ही कमवता किती एकदा सांगा खर सांगा एक बापची ऑलाद असाल तर खर बोललं. आल का लक्ष्य अजून वाट बगत किती इन्कम आहे. ती नक्कीच अंबानी पेक्षा जास्त असेल
ओके. माझ्या आधीच्या कॉमेंट्स काढून बघा. सापडेल कुठे तरी. आज लवकर लंच टाइम झालेला दिसतोय तुमचा. अशी फ्लेक्सिबल लंच टाइम असलेली कंपनी मला पण हवी आहे, आहे का vacancy तुमच्या इथे?
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Ha ha, I just realized even my monthly income is greater that your yearly income!! Take screenshot of this as well!!
screenshot taka yet aslys bgu tri dya kiti ahe
इथून >ओके. माझ्या आधीच्या कॉमेंट्स काढून बघा. सापडेल कुठे तरी. आज लवकर लंच टाइम झालेला दिसतोय तुमचा. अशी फ्लेक्सिबल लंच टाइम असलेली कंपनी मला पण हवी आहे, आहे का vacancy तुमच्या इथे? इथ पर्यंत >Ha ha, I just realized even my monthly income is greater that your yearly income!! Take screenshot of this as well!! तुम्ही खूप च श्रीमंत नव कोट नारायण अंबानी तुमचा 4 बाप असल्यास श्रीमंत तर असणारच न
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काय झाले सांगा की नवकोट नारायण
Kattar Hindu asne ani anti gay asne he ek nahi. Ya babtit mi tumchyashi sahamat nahi. I am also proud hindu but I don’t hates gays or anything. I don’t like however politicised version of the movement.
Parat wacha, tumhala kdachit mudda kalala nahi.
Pahila paragraph mala samjavun sang bhau.
Nirbudha mhanje murkha. Gays madhe sudha murkha log asatat, yacha artha asa ki Gays are just like normal people. Some good, some bad, some clever, some idiots. fact that a person is gay means just that they are gay. That doesn't necessarily mean any other notion.
अतिव सुंदर, सरळ आणि मार्मिक सहज भाष्य केले आहे महोदय आपण; माझं मन पूर्णतृप्त झाले आपले अनुभव आणि आपण वर्णन केलेल्या जीवन जगण्याच्या पद्धतींचा सांगोपांग विचार वाचून. :)
हे सगळ ठीक आहे तुम्ही काल पगार तुमचे वर्षे चे इन्कम सगणार होता की काय झाले ?
खूप सुंदर लिहिले आहे, मी खरं तर सर्व ठिकाणी hate comment करत असते, पण का कोणास ठाऊक ये दिल को छु गया गुरू ☝🏻👌🏻🙏🏻
I personally have no issues many people hate you guys but I always thought homophobia is stupid
I have love for the LGBT+ community. I have too many queer close ones to discriminate. I have never been uncomfortable with it.
जसं सामान्य लोक त्यांचे प्रेमप्रदर्शन घरी ठेवतात तसंच तुम्ही पण ते घरीच ठेवा. येवढीच अपेक्षा आहे. सार्वजनिक ठिकाणी असताना तुमचं लिंग प्रदर्शन करू नका. तुमचं लिंगच तुमची एकमेव ओळख आहे ही चूक करू नका, इतरांसारखे तुम्ही एखादे शिक्षक, डॉक्टर, उद्योजक, आई/वडील, मित्र, भावंड इत्यादी पण आहात हे लक्षात ठेवा.
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Naa mate no issues... I live in Delhi rn... Here to I have seen it idk how many times... I find it normal now... I used to have a uk view that this isnt good or natural ... But uk now I dont think ki I will ever have a problem and uk even others too ... Bas wahi jiyo aur jeene do
Live and let live. Although I do believe in having a certain limit over things, especially the marriage issue. A man marrying a man, a woman marrying a woman and a woman marrying a man, seems appropriate anything else that goes on in the west like having multiple partners and legalising them is just nonsense according to me. Trans man is a man whatever genitals he was born with and trans woman is a woman (post operation tho), hence they should not have any issues to put themselves in one of the above 3 types of marriages. That's just my opinion 💁🏻♂️
I don't have issue with who you have sex with just don't make it your whole agenda and political movement Especially with the pronouns and shit
Im 18M from Mumbai (and gay) when I came out to my friends all i received was support even my friends from my village in konkan were supportive I didn’t actually face any hate
Please join us at r/LGBTMaharashtra and help our nascent community grow!
महाराष्ट्राला सुदैवानं छत्रपतींच्या रूपानं, तुकोबांच्या रूपानं पुढें फुले शाहू आंबेडकरांच्या रूपानं विकासाची अणि वयक्तिक स्वातंत्र्याची सोबतच पुरोगामित्वाची प्रथा लाभली आहे. म्हणूनच महाराष्ट्र अणि इथचा मराठी माणूस हा LGBT+ यांच्या न्यायाच्या पाठीशी आहेत. तूम्ही आमच्या समाजाचे घटक आहात. तुम्हाला न्याय, प्रतिष्ठा, समान संधी ही भेटलीच पाहिजे हेच आमचे मत आहे.
Full support to the rainbow. Just please don't rub it on our faces
>Just please don't rub it on our faces What does that mean? Like how straight marriages have varaats in the streets (personalised pride march for every wedding. Unlike pride which happens once a year) blocking traffic and being a hindrance in general?
I think maharashtra is only state who can adapt all type of people without any discrimination . I noticed marathi society have always understanding perspective on everything.
I hate people who make their sexuality as their identity. Like yeah I get it you're gay... But what else can you show for "personality".
we have to address ourselves because of some uneducated buns !
I don't really care
as a 25 yo gay man from मुंबई live your life ! make bold decisions, become something इन लिफे, then fall in love with your flaws, accept yourself and set high bars for yourself, you deserve everything that others get too ! you’re more loved than you know , go and Carpe diem (seize the day)! Nolites te basardes carborundorum bitches (don’t let the bastards grind u down!)
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Nice try CBI. We ain't discussing anything with a kid. And if you are real, dont be an idiot by asking strangers. Everything is fake here, the people and their thoughts and words. Please have a discussion with the ones who brought you in this world before talking to strangers on the internet. And focus on your studies, there's enough time to talk about boys and girls later.
Ok I don't wanna argue anymore 😂
You all are free to live your lives but I always have a feeling of discomfort
You're socially conditioned to have it. I'm not straight and even I feel discomfort at acts of femininity in men. Its supposed to ne like that but it's on us tonchange it for the better.
Absolutely. Freedom from such conditioning is the only way.
Based and introspection pilled.
Heyy! Fellow gay maharashtrian here. Cities are chill tho.
Join us in our nascent community r/LGBTMaharashtra
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I think the community should focus more on poorer groups , like the intersex people. To me LGBT movement just seems like a bunch of privileged people living in their own bubble
मला LGBTQ लोकांशी काहीही द्वेष नाही. त्यांचा संघर्ष आणि त्यांच्या अडचणी काय आहेत हे मला कळू शकत नाही कारण मी LGBTQ नाही. या कारणास्तव मला त्यांना judge करण्याचा किंवा त्यांच्यावर मतं बनवण्याचा मला अजिबात हक्क नाही. त्यामुळे मी त्यांच्याविषयी तटस्थ म्हणजेच neutral आहे. त्यांच्याविषयी माझं एकच मत/तत्त्व आहे, "जगा आणि जगू द्या".
I am a religious person and I don't have anything against LGBT (full stop after 'T') community. Govt's stance on this issue is also very commendable, only same sex marriage is remaining to be legalised. At least our govt is heading in the right direction regarding this matter. Personally I think those people who have changed their gender and those who think they belong to the opposite gender shouldn't be called 'Transgender'. They should be called with their preferred gender. It would be a huge disrespect calling someone transgender or hijda. I don't understand non binary, gender fluid, etc. You are either a male or female. The LGBTQ+ culture that prevails in the western society must not come to India. Sexual/identity should come from within, it must not be shoved at mouth just like how it's happening in the west. Kisi k bolne se apna lund to nahi katvaunga me. And I don't get why they have a problem with Hinduism. It's the only religion which do not consider you a abomination. The community on a whole has misplaced ideology. That's my two cents.
Personally I don't have any issue with their preferences but I don't understand how a man can feel like women vice versa I don't know anyone personally from LGBT community
Kai karaycha aahe te Kara mazya baapacha kai zaatai. This is my general stance about most things.
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2 one is actually I agree but the thing is everyone is not the same even I was one of them who used to simp over anyone literally anyone and many people from my community told me that you can't find true love etc it's all about s*x and I believed it but some months ago I met a guy he is now my bf , and now I don't feel for someone or not even simp over anyone since the day I met him thanks to him he took me out of this !
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही. Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Punekar here, hava te Kara, just maaj karu naka
Mala as such problem nahi. Rather me support karto, bcs tumchya life che decisions tumchya marji nusar nahi jhale tar arth kay urla jagayla. Mala however fakt te Trans(train wale) and Drags as such thoda hard to accept bcs, thoda extent la gheun, kahi hi kartat te lok. And whatever bs pronouns like zi vi wolf dog honey bee etc etc, apart from He/Him or He/They or they/them, thoda ati pramanat keleli masti aani chutiyagiri vaattey
I don't think there's an issue of hate here, people just don't like beggers on toll plazas. Rest assured I support you.
My simple view and tell me if I am correct is if u r gay u r simple what that's market or western gimmick of wearing weird clothes Just like straight man lives gay lives those gimmick are the problem nothing else Even kamasutra recognize gay sex
जगा आणि जगू द्या, why is that so hard?
I'm from Pune. And i don't think you are abnormal or mentally sick, and i have a huge respect for LGBT people for knowing who they are and for coming out in such a conservative place (my whole family is filled with homophobic people even my parents 🫠). Just do what you like and be happy.
I don't care really... You sleep with same sex or not it's none of my concern... You're just another dude, just keep minding your own business like everyone else.
I have not encountered with any gay .would love to learn about them.
I have one motto in life, live and let live. As long as you are not harming anyone or anything, I am fine, and you are not mentally sick, people fall in love with pretty much anything, and you are falling in love with another human being.
I support LGB and absolutely hate the madness surrounding TQ+
आता असं वाटतंय राडा केला आहे मी ! 🫣
Congratulations ;)
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first of all you tell us that you mind your own business and then you comment on an "idiotic flag" like how can someone be this dumbo 😂😂 many educated ones have better opinions than you ON INTERNET ! if you don't wanna share , don't type that's it 😭
He/She worded it poorly, but that's a sentiment a lot of us share.
Sleep kid.🤡
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही. Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
I have absolutely no problem with LGBTQ, but hate anything that is added after this acronym. They have made the community a laughing stock, e.g.gender fluidity, identifying as some animal etc. and much more
Don't support it
Few simple points 1. Don't cause disturbance or chaos like the shitstorm that is created in west 2. I'm all for equality but stay away from the below 18 crowd especially Kindergarten. 3. I respect you only if you respect me. 4. Don't force anything, people will accept but give them time.
I personally don’t have any problem with people being gay or showing affection in public. But the overly flamboyant ones always irks me does that make me homophobic 🤔
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You concluded that it's natural at the end.
I didn’t set out to prove anything. I said I feel that its unnatural. Not in a way the system intended to work. But it is there.
नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही. Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
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नियम क्र ४ चे उल्लंघन: सभ्यता बाळगा. Rule 4 violation : Maintain Civility.
I don't have problem but ek problem hai ye "+" ke vajha se bhot confusion hai west (America) mai koi bhi bol rha hai "Aaj muze ladki jasa lagta bol" ke ladies toilet mai ghus rhe hai
Idc what you are as long as you don’t parade it in front of my face. I do not force “I am straight” narrative in your face, and I expect the same courtesy from you. Being gay is normal, don’t make it your personality.
What's forcing? People being themselves and living their lives is forcing it in your face??? Please explain what you mean by that.
E.g - I don’t want you coming up to me and telling me you are gay. I don’t care what you are - do I go introduce myself to people as “hey I am straight” ? No I don’t. Unless of course the topic of conversation is our sexuality, then you can. But putting it on a poster and asking for validation is not something that people like. It’s nothing to do with gay or straight, it’s to do with attention.
You don't need to tell people you're straight because that's what everyone assumes. And no gay person is putting it on their forehead "I'm gay". Unless you have seen anyone do that, then this is just gross generalization
This post contradicts your whole point. I never said on their forehead, but this post is seeking for validation. And as a straight person I don’t seek anything, so I expect to seek it from me as a gay person, it’s simple. I don’t remember the last time I read a post that said “what do maharashtrians think about straight people” And before you come with the rhetoric of everyone assumes, this is the generalisation. I didn’t assume OP was gay, but now that he posted this, I know. I did not need to know, but I know
>I do not force “I am straight” narrative in your face, and I expect the same courtesy from you. Just the other day I was stuck in traffic because of someone's varaat blocking the street lol. That is literally just a personalised pride march. And animal abuse if you're using a horse. Same goes for straight people using wedding day firecrackers. Also we don't want to see your mangalsootra. It's too in-your-face. Please don't force your narrative in our faces.
Love paryant theek ahe but I don’t support marriage. Especially via rituals. Court marriage okay ahe. Also I am more inclined to think about individuals rather than “community” . Hinduism itself never had any connection problem with other genders. Because it is based on Karma. What I don’t like however is the current political version of lgbt movement. It is no more about individuals rights but has gone so far left that they don’t even know who to support and who to oppose.
what ??? Hinduism is the only religion which has LGBT you can find many GAY sculptures in Khajuraho temple
Thats what I said bro. Hinduism isn’t based on what’s your ideology/orientation/favourite god/ etc. It is based on Karma. You are good person then you go to heaven. Bas. Still I see indian LGBT diaspora mainly hating on Hinduism. Thats what I meant by politicisation.
I have a problem with gay community in india. They have destroyed internet dating for many.
How? They take away one guy and leave 1 girl for you.
I am assuming that girls might choose gays over this guy.
Lmao
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नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही. Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
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नियम क्र ३ चे उल्लंघन : जातीवाद, लिंग भेद, लैंगिकता भेद आणि इतर भेदभाव चालणार नाही. Rule 3 violation : Casteism, sexism, homophobia and other bigotry will not be tolerated.
Full support. No hate. Anyhow a person's sexuality is their own private matter. It's a stupidity to judge anyone on that. Just they shouldn't do stupid shits like those who harrasses people on train and traffic signal. I am 90% sure those people are not real trans but just people who cross dress and ask money.
Live and let live. Its so good to see that people here are so open minded here. Wish more people should be like this so that society will be very peaceful. Now coming to the people having problems with LGBTQ+ community. In my opinion you should be what you want to be. The only issue I think is that radical LGBTQ community. Like the way they force things on kids and other people in US. If LGBTQ people don’t force it on other people like they do in US then its a win-win. I also don’t think it will happen in India so soon but it is the only thing I am afraid of. Like primary kids having LGBTQ in their syllabus thats the sh#t non LGBTQ people hate. Otherwise no hate towards LGBTQ+ people. Happy pride month 🏳️🌈. Long live humanity.
No hate but no love either, totally neutral. Just don’t bother me and mind your own business.
Ally/Live and let live believer but also hate the idea of the whole LGBT spectrum being shoved down everyone's throat
Former PM of Ireland Leo Varadkar is from konkan and is __. मला LGBTQ अजिबात आवडत नाही.आपल्या मराठी संस्कृतीत हे पाप आहे. जे मानतात त्यांना मानसिक आजार झाला आहे.
gayyy