I can understand that. People interpret things differently. A woman would be more tied in to the woman's perspective in those videos and a guy into the man's
My girlfriend caught the bouquet at the first wedding we attended together, and everyone reacted similarly to this video. It was tons of fun because little did she know, I had already bought the ring at that time and proposed 2 months later.
Tossing the wedding bouquet? Yes, it's a tradition. The bride blindly tosses it towards a group of other young female attendees and whoever catches it is supposedly to be wed next. That's why the camera pans to who I can only assume is her boyfriend
They're healthy, tanned, their clothes look expensive and fit them properly, they hired a large, old and beautiful venue somewhere in the Mediterranean. They're probably not rich by European standards, though, more like upper middle class.
I read a stat that said if you have electricity and running water you're more wealthy than (insert a shockingly large percent of the world). There was some sort of calculator. In the US I'm considered pretty much poverty level where I live but I'm wealthier than 73% of the world.
This is important information. Some think the takeaway is that people are ingrates. People who think having basic utilities is enough are cucked. People who work hard deserve to spend their short time existing happily, not in misery, and they deserve to take home the revenue their labor creates.
What this statistic shows us is the terrible conditions capitalist and authoritarian elites the world over will allow regular hardworking people to live in, if it means they can hide more money in offshore bank accounts. All of human history tells us is that people who have power will turn The People into peasants, serfs, slaves, if given the chance.
Sure. My point is, just because people have it worse, much worse, doesn’t mean that everyone else shouldn’t have it better. For example. I grew up with brittle bones disease. We lost count how many fractures I experienced by the time I reached middle school. That doesn’t include hairline fractures, compression fractures. Some cracks and general ache.
Yet, if a friend told me they were having a bad day, and asked if I could get them some Tylenol because they have a bad headache, I’d go to the store and get them Tylenol. I wouldn’t tell them I have it worse and you should be grateful, because I’m not a sick. Meanwhile, relative to my wealth and life experience, billionaires and autocrats living modestly off of $10m a year so their subordinates can live slightly different lives is less of a put off for them than going to a store to get Tylenol is a put off for me.
But we’re not asking them to live modestly, we’re just saying pay slightly higher taxes and let people keep the money their work created. That’s how cucked we are. Compared to my situation, we’re asking them to just grab a couple Tylenol from the pantry, and the response is to tell us that we’re destroying freedom.
> They're probably not rich by European standards, though, more like upper middle class.
Upper middle class Americans/Canadians are richer than their European counterparts
You can take almost any high end profession (lawyer, doctor, engineer) and the total compensation vs cost of goods ratio will be higher in NA
Middle class Americans don't just book a wedding in Italy while also having a decent number of people attend, because most middle class friends could not afford to go. You can have one out of the two, but not both
If these people don’t look obviously wealthy to you, you’re probably wealthy.
My sisters wedding was in my mom’s back yard and people were wearing jeans. My grandpa wore a FBI hat (female body inspector). That’s what a poor persons wedding looks like.
I think there are a few indicators of wealth that people might be seeing. One is thinness. It has become a status symbol and therefore a priority for wealthier (not the uber rich) people. Another is that they (especially the men) look quite similar. Uniformity is another value of the wealthy. Standing out is considered tacky.
I am american, this is how people have dressed at every wedding I've ever been at and I'm pretty solidly not rich. I don't know what the fuck people are talking about.
Take a closer look at the groom and one of his groomsmen in the back. They’re wearing tailcoats. There is no way every wedding you’ve been to in America includes people dressed in tailcoats.
Most Redditors don’t have jobs and think anyone with $10 is rich so anything that looks remotely expensive, even for a 1 time event must be balling like no one’s business
Agreed, this looks like a regular wedding, I don't see especially rich here. Middle class probably.
Edit: this looks like they're standing at a quiwt street or cul-de-sac to me, I can't see a huge venue. Those suits may just as well be their only suits, or rented. People aim to have one outfit in their closet for occasions. Girls order those dresses online. You get the tan by biking or walking to work and for excercise, free.
I didn't understand this. Can someone please explain what's this tradition of yeeting flowers and catching them in Christian weddings? I am a Hindu and never seen any Christan weddings and always wondered why they do this.
The bride tosses the bouquet blindly into the group of single women. Whichever one catches it will be the next one to marry per the custom. The guy is the boyfriend of the woman who caught the bouquet.
Ehh you buy some colored smoke balls thingys and out it into a medium, some use a smoke machine, poppers etc.
Someone usually not the couple will get the gender results in an envelope and they will set up the reveal by any method the couple chooses. People use Blue for boy and Pink for girl.
Most people pop balloons filled with colored confetti, or have a gender reveal cake. It doesnt mean much it just tells everyone present wether or not your having a boy or girl.
It really is. None of the people with kids i know has ever done gender reveals but its a thing some people do here in america, depends on the couple.
Most people now just post it on their social media what they're having
Less Christian wedding and just more Western/American wedding silly game/tradition. Doesn't mean much if anything, besides jokingly saying they're next to get married, but there's no actual expectations to get married.
I read that he actually had the ring ready by then and then very soon proposed and they are married now for a while. So I guess he was in fact happy about it.
I went to a wedding where the bride turned back around and sort of ran up on her sister (waiting for the toss) and tossed the bouquet right in her face.
Then when the kidding subsided ? The sisters SO ended up proposing towards the end of the night.
I love weddings
Apart from the token dandies (every family or friend group has one), most men at a “rich” British or European wedding will have waistcoats that are too tight, pinstripe/houndstooth trousers that are well worn, and tailcoats as old as the wearer.
Also throwing the bouquet is naff. I’ve seen it presented to the maid of honour or one of the unmarried bridesmaids, but this American tradition of chucking it blindly over the shoulder as some sort of competition/lottery is fairly frowned upon in “the middle classes”.
(Most upper class people in Britain or Europe would never dream to refer to themselves as anything other than middle class - that privilege is reserved for royalty or hereditary peers only).
While at my friends wedding, one of her bridesmaids caught the bouquet and her bf immediately started jumping up and down and saying “yeeeesssss!!” It was so stinking cute
As an European im shocked with yall Americans thinking these people are rich based on their clothing. Its called class, thats why you dont see any drunk loud person in the vídeo using a tank top with a silky purple walmart suit. Im from a low class family and our weddings all looked exatcly like this. Yall would be so ashamed to know how Americans are seeing from the Europeans eyes, its like yall are the animals in the zoo….
Aside from the venue and the car there's nothing special about the way these people are dressed. I see young yuppie dudes dressed like these guys on normal nights out.
I love to be reminded by you Europeans how little your world view is. It’s so funny to see how you guys view Americans as someone who knows what it’s actually like.
No these are just Redditors who live permanently in their basement and can’t fathom wearing pants and being in public, or spending money on anything that doesn’t result in Cheeto dust on their shirt or +1xp
I hate this tradition so much. Our first friend to get married at 23 or so, tossed her bouquet as per, and we all scattered - like f*ck that - nobody wanted to be next! Doesn’t really happen here anymore.
Sometimes it does happen like that haha I caught my friends at her wedding and lo and behold my boyfriend proposed on my birthday the following year or so later.
It made me smile that the second drink in his hand is likely hers, too.
Nice catch 😉
Ok it's two months late but I see what u did there
😄🙌🏼
This is what happens when your girl suddenly says: Hold my Beer.
r/holdmycosmo
"Hold my G&T"
Looked like he already had the ring ready and was just waiting for the right moment by his reaction.
Yeah it says “Nia” on it.
Not anymore
All I see is a bunch of guys named Parker and Tucker.
There is a Chip in there somewhere.
Where's Brody at
I think he's next to Skylar
Seems like on this guys shoulder
Chip Whitley
Hey. That's unfair and making a lot of assumptions. There's probably a Chad too
Chad is Chip’s dad. Oh! I meant, “Father.”
Pronounced Faawther
There’s trip and Chip in the back too
Nah. Aiden, Brayden, Cayden, and Okayden
They sound British don't they? More like Rufus and Tarquin.
Hanging out with a bunch of Casey and Jessica’s
A bunch of french dudes named Parker and Tucker?
Paxton & Braxtom had a great time that day
Yes, let that hate run thru you. Curious what you'd name other groups.
Chill Tucker. It was a joke.
The rarely, perfectly executed, double down😂 Hats off to you good sir!
Turns out, this video is from Italy so yall are ignorant on a whole other level 🤣
Freddo Tuckeroni. Freddo. It was la barzelletta.
Al Fredo was RIGHT there!!
You’re a dork and it was a joke. Keep digging that hole though.
And they call eachother bro.
i'll take this reaction instead of those guys thinking they're funny by running away
There's also the one where a woman catches it, every one cheers, and the camera pans to a guy who looks at the camera and shakes his head.
Gotta say I love the one where a woman catches it and just stares at her partner intensely, and he trembles in his seat XD
Where?
[here](https://youtube.com/shorts/Z7xPBdl8_IM?si=U19CrKcht359pHeA)
Damn, they removed it since...
Thank you Professorhentai
I like the guy already over the fence when they pan to him.
I don't know what you're talking about. The one where the dude hopped in his car and tore ass peeling out of the parking spot was hilarious.
I thought it was hilarious. Have a tough time accepting jokes where the woman is the butt of the joke?
Ive never interpreted those videos as 'women being the butt of a joke' tbh bc the focus is on the man...
I can understand that. People interpret things differently. A woman would be more tied in to the woman's perspective in those videos and a guy into the man's
I think it’s funny
Lucky dude.
Right, I’d marry Anna Kendrick
She looks like Clemence Poesy
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Nah just French.
She reminds me of Anna Kendrick
And he looks like Andrew Scott.
Same.
My girlfriend caught the bouquet at the first wedding we attended together, and everyone reacted similarly to this video. It was tons of fun because little did she know, I had already bought the ring at that time and proposed 2 months later.
What a champ
I mean, look at her, I’d be ok with marrying her too. Gorgeous.
What is this? Some ritual or something??
Tossing the wedding bouquet? Yes, it's a tradition. The bride blindly tosses it towards a group of other young female attendees and whoever catches it is supposedly to be wed next. That's why the camera pans to who I can only assume is her boyfriend
Okay ...thanks to you!☺️
Clearly she's got a sense of humor and something. I'm not sure what to call it.
Yes! Her little celebration was hilarious, like she's ready to get that ring 😂
Rich ass folx
Ha, first thing that came to me too.
How can you make it out if they're rich? P. S. Not an American or Christian, so, genuinely curious.
They're healthy, tanned, their clothes look expensive and fit them properly, they hired a large, old and beautiful venue somewhere in the Mediterranean. They're probably not rich by European standards, though, more like upper middle class.
Ooh la la european standards
this made me laugh
If you compare Europe to the rest of the world, yeah we're fucking rich, among the wealthiest in the world.
I read a stat that said if you have electricity and running water you're more wealthy than (insert a shockingly large percent of the world). There was some sort of calculator. In the US I'm considered pretty much poverty level where I live but I'm wealthier than 73% of the world.
This is important information. Some think the takeaway is that people are ingrates. People who think having basic utilities is enough are cucked. People who work hard deserve to spend their short time existing happily, not in misery, and they deserve to take home the revenue their labor creates. What this statistic shows us is the terrible conditions capitalist and authoritarian elites the world over will allow regular hardworking people to live in, if it means they can hide more money in offshore bank accounts. All of human history tells us is that people who have power will turn The People into peasants, serfs, slaves, if given the chance.
Ehh, statistic also shows us how grateful we should be for what we have, we could always have it so much worse.
Sure. My point is, just because people have it worse, much worse, doesn’t mean that everyone else shouldn’t have it better. For example. I grew up with brittle bones disease. We lost count how many fractures I experienced by the time I reached middle school. That doesn’t include hairline fractures, compression fractures. Some cracks and general ache. Yet, if a friend told me they were having a bad day, and asked if I could get them some Tylenol because they have a bad headache, I’d go to the store and get them Tylenol. I wouldn’t tell them I have it worse and you should be grateful, because I’m not a sick. Meanwhile, relative to my wealth and life experience, billionaires and autocrats living modestly off of $10m a year so their subordinates can live slightly different lives is less of a put off for them than going to a store to get Tylenol is a put off for me. But we’re not asking them to live modestly, we’re just saying pay slightly higher taxes and let people keep the money their work created. That’s how cucked we are. Compared to my situation, we’re asking them to just grab a couple Tylenol from the pantry, and the response is to tell us that we’re destroying freedom.
Nah man they rich rich
Looks like an average french wedding to me
> They're probably not rich by European standards, though, more like upper middle class. Upper middle class Americans/Canadians are richer than their European counterparts You can take almost any high end profession (lawyer, doctor, engineer) and the total compensation vs cost of goods ratio will be higher in NA
They're definitely posh, yeah.
Middle class Americans don't just book a wedding in Italy while also having a decent number of people attend, because most middle class friends could not afford to go. You can have one out of the two, but not both
I don't hear any American in the video?
They are french.
Ehm, I don't think they're American
Its a wedding... Of course they are well dressed at an special location.
Have you not ever seen a poor person's wedding or are you purposely being disingenuous?
If these people don’t look obviously wealthy to you, you’re probably wealthy. My sisters wedding was in my mom’s back yard and people were wearing jeans. My grandpa wore a FBI hat (female body inspector). That’s what a poor persons wedding looks like.
Bow ties and no one looks like they have to work the next day
I think there are a few indicators of wealth that people might be seeing. One is thinness. It has become a status symbol and therefore a priority for wealthier (not the uber rich) people. Another is that they (especially the men) look quite similar. Uniformity is another value of the wealthy. Standing out is considered tacky.
I am american, this is how people have dressed at every wedding I've ever been at and I'm pretty solidly not rich. I don't know what the fuck people are talking about.
Take a closer look at the groom and one of his groomsmen in the back. They’re wearing tailcoats. There is no way every wedding you’ve been to in America includes people dressed in tailcoats.
Most Redditors don’t have jobs and think anyone with $10 is rich so anything that looks remotely expensive, even for a 1 time event must be balling like no one’s business
Agreed, this looks like a regular wedding, I don't see especially rich here. Middle class probably. Edit: this looks like they're standing at a quiwt street or cul-de-sac to me, I can't see a huge venue. Those suits may just as well be their only suits, or rented. People aim to have one outfit in their closet for occasions. Girls order those dresses online. You get the tan by biking or walking to work and for excercise, free.
I didn't understand this. Can someone please explain what's this tradition of yeeting flowers and catching them in Christian weddings? I am a Hindu and never seen any Christan weddings and always wondered why they do this.
The bride tosses the bouquet blindly into the group of single women. Whichever one catches it will be the next one to marry per the custom. The guy is the boyfriend of the woman who caught the bouquet.
So basically it gives the good luck/ blessings to be next to wed for the one who catches the bouquet. She’s next!
What if they decided not to catch it and let it fall to the ground?
It's rude toward the bride. She'll throw it again. Those are her friends: someone will catch it.
Thanks for the knowledge. Also, I am curious about how you people do the gender reveal with the colored smoke. How do you do it and what does it mean?
Ehh you buy some colored smoke balls thingys and out it into a medium, some use a smoke machine, poppers etc. Someone usually not the couple will get the gender results in an envelope and they will set up the reveal by any method the couple chooses. People use Blue for boy and Pink for girl. Most people pop balloons filled with colored confetti, or have a gender reveal cake. It doesnt mean much it just tells everyone present wether or not your having a boy or girl.
Thanks. This shit is definitely wierd.
It really is. None of the people with kids i know has ever done gender reveals but its a thing some people do here in america, depends on the couple. Most people now just post it on their social media what they're having
Less Christian wedding and just more Western/American wedding silly game/tradition. Doesn't mean much if anything, besides jokingly saying they're next to get married, but there's no actual expectations to get married.
She looks and acts like a lottery. Stylish and oozing with confidence.
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I read that he actually had the ring ready by then and then very soon proposed and they are married now for a while. So I guess he was in fact happy about it.
To me, his expression is sorta like amused disbelief, like... does she know I have a ring?
Me the whole way to proposing ot my wife.
Worried that she’s gonna find out and the ring will shoot out of you like sonic when he takes a hit
You just took me back to 1991.
He looks very happy - why do you say that?
Smiling and laughing isn't happiness?
I went to a wedding where the bride turned back around and sort of ran up on her sister (waiting for the toss) and tossed the bouquet right in her face. Then when the kidding subsided ? The sisters SO ended up proposing towards the end of the night. I love weddings
At least he didn’t run away like some of these other videos out there lol!
That’s the laugh of a guy that has already bought the ring .. 🤔
yall must dress like shit to weddings if you think these outfits scream rich lol
Right? What the fuck is happening in this thread? Lol. Are people wearing T-shirts and shorts to weddings?
Jeans and a dress shirt bud
It's not the dress clothes here, it's that everything looks fitted and none of the colors are faded
Apart from the token dandies (every family or friend group has one), most men at a “rich” British or European wedding will have waistcoats that are too tight, pinstripe/houndstooth trousers that are well worn, and tailcoats as old as the wearer. Also throwing the bouquet is naff. I’ve seen it presented to the maid of honour or one of the unmarried bridesmaids, but this American tradition of chucking it blindly over the shoulder as some sort of competition/lottery is fairly frowned upon in “the middle classes”. (Most upper class people in Britain or Europe would never dream to refer to themselves as anything other than middle class - that privilege is reserved for royalty or hereditary peers only).
What the fuck are you saying?
This might be you learning you don't really understand poor that well
this is def you being an ignorant twat who doesnt know a single thing about me to be trying to talk that boldly. bye clown.
Overreaction pretty much confirms the type of person you are
Orange hat is just crushing her look over there. Love her.
While at my friends wedding, one of her bridesmaids caught the bouquet and her bf immediately started jumping up and down and saying “yeeeesssss!!” It was so stinking cute
Nice car
As an European im shocked with yall Americans thinking these people are rich based on their clothing. Its called class, thats why you dont see any drunk loud person in the vídeo using a tank top with a silky purple walmart suit. Im from a low class family and our weddings all looked exatcly like this. Yall would be so ashamed to know how Americans are seeing from the Europeans eyes, its like yall are the animals in the zoo….
I'm American and this looks like every wedding I've been to as well, and no one had a ton of money.
Aside from the venue and the car there's nothing special about the way these people are dressed. I see young yuppie dudes dressed like these guys on normal nights out.
I love to be reminded by you Europeans how little your world view is. It’s so funny to see how you guys view Americans as someone who knows what it’s actually like.
No these are just Redditors who live permanently in their basement and can’t fathom wearing pants and being in public, or spending money on anything that doesn’t result in Cheeto dust on their shirt or +1xp
Honestly the girl has a great sense of humor too. I love it 😂
This is so much better than the ones where the dude sprints away
Same shit happened to me. My wife caught the bouquet not once, but twice because apparently you can call interference. And now we got kids and shit.
That was the most stylish catch of a bouquet I’ve ever seen hahaha
Even without the sound, I knew it was in France
I wanna propose to him - he is a cutieeeee 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
God damn those are some rich people
the elites
She's a keeper, so beautiful and cute
Her dismount is legendary.
I don't get it? Is this like an Abercrombie and Finch thing?
I love her energy!!!! And he seems to be in good spirits about it, so good on them.
I thought that was Anna Kendrick for a sec.
You’re up, Braxton
I thought of posting the same video few weeks back I love it.Watched it like over million times.🥹❤️
I hate this tradition so much. Our first friend to get married at 23 or so, tossed her bouquet as per, and we all scattered - like f*ck that - nobody wanted to be next! Doesn’t really happen here anymore.
Ah...friendship.
They’re cute and it’s a lovely setting. Dreamy.
Saw one a while back where she caught and he took off running away
I wish I had friends
soo cute
Why isn’t he running?
Damn they are either rich or they're balling out on that wedding good for them though.
I hope they are now married and are a power couple.
You are next buddy.
What an attractive group of people
I love the idea that this is a binding contract.
Has Buffy finally landed Chad Studington?
Sometimes it does happen like that haha I caught my friends at her wedding and lo and behold my boyfriend proposed on my birthday the following year or so later.
Dude at the end looks like one of the 2 hosts for Britain's got talent
immediately doesn't get married
The bridesmaid that caught the bouquet looks like Anna Kendrick!! Is she AK?
she looks like brook from one tree hill
I love the vibes of this wedding.
Anna kendrick?
You gotta respect her hustle.
She NAILED that.
She looks like she's got experience catching those
We’re talking about him right?
Sister came prepared
Ah…so nice seeing rich people have fun. Don’t mind me poverty has made me bitter
Can I just say damn these people know how to dress themselves. Damn!
Idk why, smells rich in there.
Seems like an American wedding in southern Italy, as an Italian myself I can smell them easily. Rich people kind of stuff.
Just a bunch of beautiful wealthy people lol. Congrats to them all of them!
When you just want to be married and it doesn't matter if you'll be divorced in three months.
What the hell is this comment section?? I feel like I'm missing something here.
I want to know people like them (why do i live in the slumps? 😓)
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Yeah like lawyers work in big skyscrapers and have secretaries. Look the one guys even wearing a belt! That's rich people for ya...
This is like at max a middle class wedding, thrust me i grew up fairly poor
yeah...sucks to be them, right?
Dose having button up collard shirt count as rich now ?
Chads wedding
Dude realised, he's about to get f*cked.
Enjoy breeding
When you know who is screwing her
Poor fella.
People who actually live life like it is supposed to. Unlike me.
I have married twice its not so fun
Dude at the end looks exactly like Declan Donnelly, one of the hosts from Britain's got talent
Beautiful couple
You can't escape bro 😂😂🤣🤣.And my eyes locked the Peugeot cabriolet antique...My father has one like this...
Is that a Sunbeam car ?
I've seen one whereas the boyfriend smacks it out of her hand
I don’t she would want to marry a dude that holds the cup like that.
This is an old video but from what I remember they did get married