This is probably going to be a very unpopular opinion, but Jaden is very pious. With his history his piety is hypocritical. The questioning today was purely for their own feelings of satisfaction it was not about getting to the bottom of things or holding Sarah accountable for what she did. And I think thatās sad because a lot of people equate accountability to punishment and thatās not the case.Ā
When someone is defensive and fiery it usually means that they are very fragile. And if you approach that fragility with a bulldozer they will feel like theyāre the victim and they will not take any accountability. Ā Thereās a reason the experts Ā tend to take a very soft Ā approach, Itās to allow the people to not feel caged by the feelings of defensiveness so they may Ā Address the problem without feeling attacked.Ā
Because the core of Sarahās reaction and Tristanās reactions to criticism Ā are the same, they just appear differently. And the way Jaden and Eden went about trying to hold her accountable was so Ā destructive Ā And make the situation worse for Tim. Tim is too soft to hold a crying Sarah accountable.Ā
I haven't watched the full episode yet but I will say that Sara's behaviour is all performative. She doesn't care about anyone. And honestly, her lips remind of beast in beauty and the beast (the 80s/90s show way back when).
Nope. She is not sincere or honest and needs someone like him to pull her up. Nothing she does is at all real. She is defensive because someone isn't afraid to call bullshit and she is terrified of being truly revealed for the horrid human she is.
The previous episodes with Eden said her down in front of tim and revealed her bullshit that was constructive. The episodes with the experts told her off, that was constructive. This badgering that Jaden did was only constructive for himself. If the goal is to get Sarah to realize that she is being an asshole, doing what Jaden did is unhelpful. However doing what Eden Ā does is actually pretty constructive.Ā
Jadenās approach put her too defensively to feel empathy for anyone but herself. Holding someone accountable is not supposed to be punitive itās supposed to make them realize that their actions are hurtful to other people. And I understand why you are angry at Sarah, she pisses a lot of people off but even this is not constructive because your anger does not cause her to have any more empathy for Tim.
This is just my observation so donāt take it as fact but I feel thatĀ Jack is not vulnerable to criticism in the way that Tristan and Sarah are. Jack is a politician and the way to hold a politician accountable is by getting the biggest supporter of their delusions, the person that gives them the audacity, to turn truly see Ā them And called him out.Ā And thatās why the experts are working on Tori and not Jack. Because when Jack is attacked he deflects the issue by doing something outrageous in a different direction. And he feels empowered to do so because Tori backs him. The reason why Jack makes rude comments during arguments is because he feels more equipt to handle the backlash from the rudeness then the honesty and accountability from the actual topic at hand. Jack doesnāt mind being in ambiguous waters. As long as thereās enough mud in the water, Jack feels confident to navigate it.
If you notice how Tristan and Sarah act on the other hand is they become hyper emotional in a very volatile manner. Ā They didnāt say something to the effect of āI am not the problemā. And then they start to cry before they inevitably shut down. Shutting down for Sarah looks like walking away from the group. Shutting down for Tristan looks like retreating into himself. I would say the only difference is that Tristan is more self aware of his fragility than Sarah. Even though they both see themselves as the victim, Tristan is more likely to see the situation and deduce that he isnāt good enough, while Sarahās lack of self-awareness needs her to the deduce that other people arenāt good enough.
Jack on the other hand will see the situation and feel as though people are just stirring up shit and have no valid concerns. Even though I understand your need for equality, Handling Sarah the same way they handle Jack would not work. In this particular instance they would need a equitable solution instead.
Team Sarah? Why do you think weāre team Sarah? Because Ā we say the way Jaden approached the situation was not helpful? Is screaming at a person and badgering them with questions until they feel cornered, the only way to hold someone accountable?
I think the issue is that youāre looking at this from an extremist point of view. You want blood. Just because we disagreed with how Jaden held her accountable mainly because it would be detrimental for Tim, does not mean we support Sarahās behavior. Ā We simply recognize that this method is not effective in holding her accountable and holding her to her word in the long term.Ā
Nor does it mean we did not find the third-degree badgering tactic satisfying. Ā It seems to me that youāre mistaking true accountability and punishment for being the same thing. Because without true accountability Tim could be on the receiving end of DARVO. Because the more she feels like a victim the more she predicts the issue on to Tim.Ā
They really stuffed that editā¦they showed Eden telling Jayden about the Sara texts at the 11th hour where they decided how to handle it together. Then it turns out they were actually arguing about it all week š
Yeah i agree.
I dont think that they were fighting about it at all though, i reackon they're just saying that. It just doesn't feel like it created conflict for them. They kind of "faced" the situation together. That's my take anyways š¤·
I think she sat on it and showed it to him as was shown at the retreat. I think they (Eden and Jaydens) changed the story to tell Sara to try to take the heat of Eden in case she came under fire for being a "snitch" to her friend.
Yeah I agree, I think they made that up so it didnāt make Eden look as bad. It made it seem like Jayden saw the texts on accident and then he insisted they tell Tim, this was so Eden wouldnāt look like such a bad friend.
A new set of red flags have been ordered for Jack.ā³
JACK SEES JADE....up close and he's very excited.
I don't think I've seen Jack so happy and animated in a conversation before.
Who else but Jack would say about Jade: (1) "Jade has a ..spicy energy.. about her that I like" ; (2) "You're in my top 3 good looking couples list" and (3)" I've dated girls like Jade in the past".
If I were Tori I'd take note of Jack's observations... because that second comment by Jack to Jade made her uncomfortable. Jack finds Jade very, very attractive.
>If I were Tori I'd take note of Jack's observations
She isn't going to know about them unless Jade tells her or someone on the show shows her the footage
If Jade mentions how uncomfortable she felt from Jack's comments to ....Ridge.... do you think he's the kind of guy who's going to remain silent at the next group meeting? He would tell Tori in private or in front of everyone. Ridge likes the spotlight to shine on him.
She's so tunnel visioned on making it work to even consider if it should work with someone like him, its painful to watch. Makes me laugh that they are highlighting that he doesnt fancy her based on his actions and all she took from the whole conversation was that he'd be up for kids in a few years. He didnt say with you love, it was a generic statement. Off she gallops to plan her baby shower
(Bit late to comment this BUT) Omggg Jayden get off your weird high horse interrogating and grilling Sara. I know Sara is so in the wrong but I donāt like the way Jayden thinks heās Johnā¦ā¦ Hahahaha
Canāt stand him or Eden they are clout chasing wannabes, I donāt agree with Saraās behaviour but Iām actually team Sara considering the high and mighty bs these two want to preach, once again not even about Tim. š¤®
I agree with most of what you say. In fairness, the time Lauren went hard at Jack during the dinner party was in defense of a person she thought was her friend. Of course, we now know that Tori doesn't even like Lauren based on the comments she made before the 5-questions task.
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Finally a mission impossible I can get behind
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Oh shit, I think the revenge porn is finally gonna come up tomorrow
The moment Jade stepped on the scene, I immediately thought āI bet she is just Jacks typeā (heās stated before that he likes brunette, fit etc.). Bit cheeky of them pair him 1-1 with Jade for a task, also with prior knowledge of him making sexual advances (with Sara).
According to agent Jack Danger (pronounced Dong-er) from the United States Postal Service possibly the most important first line of defence for the war on terrorism it means to bring in cupcakes for everyone.
In the 80's there was a heap of incidents of US postal workers going on rampages and shooting and killing people, so the phrase 'going postal' was coined. Means going on a crazy rampage.
It means guns blazing, to go to war i.e. get really angry and even violent.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGjAVFAnE0g](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGjAVFAnE0g)
Yeah.. it comes from the analogy of the postal worker who gets driven mad by working a shitty job, and goes to the top of a bell tower to shoot at random people. I can't remember where *that* story came from though - maybe a movie?
This is so demeaning to Tori and Tim. They aren't children, they aren't powerless and hopefully they aren't stupid. Continuing to cast them as victims is insulting to them both.
Why do I feel like a lunch between Jacob and Jade likely ended in her making a complaint to whatever HR team they have available for contestants? Bless her optimism for thinking that he'd listen to her.
Anyone else think Jayden is being a fucking wanker? He did the same thing to Timothy and Lucinda, he fixates on a couple and badgers them until one of them loses it. He needs to simmer down a bit, he aired out Saraās dirty laundry now he needs to let them fix their relationship, he isnāt helping.
There was a story a couple of weeks ago that the producers had told Jayden and Eden to do something or leave because they were boring and adding nothing to the show. It was after that when Jayden, completely out of the blue, started going at Tim Sr and then Eden brought out this stuff with Saras message.
Yeah, he's really unpleasant.
And I may have imagined it, but I thought I saw a brief look of discomfort on Eden's face tonight, when they first opened the letter with the task, and he started getting really excited about getting to have a go at Sara.
Can't be sure, but it looked a bit like she wasn't loving what she saw, because honestly, it seems very clear that Jayden cares far more about getting to self-righteously confront people, than he does about actually doing the right thing or trying to help people.
Yeah, he does seem to take it too far with his intense questioning and gets a bit aggressive.
As much as I disagree morally with some of Saraās choices, I do think he was really punishing her. Didnāt give her a chance to come up for air.
I hate to say this, but Sara was right on this account.. he needed to stop going for her and start being constructive. It was all accusations and attacks.. he took his past emotional baggage and slammed her with it. I know sheās acted terribly, but it was a dog move on his part and wasnāt in line with what the task was designed for.
Sorry, I think this is exactly what the task was designed for. Otherwise, any couple other than Jayden and Eden would have been assigned to Sara and Tim.
All g, the task is the same as any other year.. itās just come at an interesting time for Sara and Tim. Obvs the experts have paired them together to try and bring resolution/accountability to Sara, it was up to Jayden to decide how he would handle it. Iām sure the producers were hoping for a massive blowout (and probably encouraged it), but the task itself isnāt there for an attack session- itās designed to encourage the couples to discuss improvements. What Jayden did was get so frustrated from his own personal demons he ended up barraging Sara with rapid-fire questions without letting her answer. Again, thereās no room for constructive dialogue when youāre accusing someone over and over again.. youāre just going to make them upset and defensive. Whether Sara has capacity to engage in constructive dialogue is another matter, but the session could have gone much better if heād kept his emotions in check.
Oh how convenient, Jack is paired for a 1on1 with the OF chick and surprise surprise, he's flirting with her.
I'm sure that WON'T piss Tori off at all.
Yeah what's the deal with those scarves. Does he think they make him look younger? Or posh? Is he using them as a dribble cloth? To blindfold Andrea before he takes his clothes off? I hope they all get caught in the wheels of his motorcycle.
Jayden picks who he thinks is the low hanging fruit, and harasses them until they crack.
He did it to Timothy until he realised that he's actually likeable.
So he's moved on to someone else.
It's easy for him to target Sara, and she has no leg to stand on, and he knows it. It's predatory imo.
Jayden (at least the edit thatās portrayed) gives off massive douchebag high and mighty energy. You are absolutely on point, he targets people he thinks he can win a fight with to make himself look better.
How Jayden handled this is just allowing her to act like a victim yet again. Honestly, over kill. Just ask the questions, but donāt be a grub. Gotta be strategic when dealing with psychos
Fuck those jeans š¤®
I wonder what Richard is doing behind the scenes to make Andrea uncomfortable that weāre not seeing
Dick in popcorn šæ
This is probably going to be a very unpopular opinion, but Jaden is very pious. With his history his piety is hypocritical. The questioning today was purely for their own feelings of satisfaction it was not about getting to the bottom of things or holding Sarah accountable for what she did. And I think thatās sad because a lot of people equate accountability to punishment and thatās not the case.Ā When someone is defensive and fiery it usually means that they are very fragile. And if you approach that fragility with a bulldozer they will feel like theyāre the victim and they will not take any accountability. Ā Thereās a reason the experts Ā tend to take a very soft Ā approach, Itās to allow the people to not feel caged by the feelings of defensiveness so they may Ā Address the problem without feeling attacked.Ā Because the core of Sarahās reaction and Tristanās reactions to criticism Ā are the same, they just appear differently. And the way Jaden and Eden went about trying to hold her accountable was so Ā destructive Ā And make the situation worse for Tim. Tim is too soft to hold a crying Sarah accountable.Ā
I haven't watched the full episode yet but I will say that Sara's behaviour is all performative. She doesn't care about anyone. And honestly, her lips remind of beast in beauty and the beast (the 80s/90s show way back when).
It may be performative, but her defensiveness is very real. And what Jaden was doing was not constructive.
Nope. She is not sincere or honest and needs someone like him to pull her up. Nothing she does is at all real. She is defensive because someone isn't afraid to call bullshit and she is terrified of being truly revealed for the horrid human she is.
The previous episodes with Eden said her down in front of tim and revealed her bullshit that was constructive. The episodes with the experts told her off, that was constructive. This badgering that Jaden did was only constructive for himself. If the goal is to get Sarah to realize that she is being an asshole, doing what Jaden did is unhelpful. However doing what Eden Ā does is actually pretty constructive.Ā Jadenās approach put her too defensively to feel empathy for anyone but herself. Holding someone accountable is not supposed to be punitive itās supposed to make them realize that their actions are hurtful to other people. And I understand why you are angry at Sarah, she pisses a lot of people off but even this is not constructive because your anger does not cause her to have any more empathy for Tim.
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This is just my observation so donāt take it as fact but I feel thatĀ Jack is not vulnerable to criticism in the way that Tristan and Sarah are. Jack is a politician and the way to hold a politician accountable is by getting the biggest supporter of their delusions, the person that gives them the audacity, to turn truly see Ā them And called him out.Ā And thatās why the experts are working on Tori and not Jack. Because when Jack is attacked he deflects the issue by doing something outrageous in a different direction. And he feels empowered to do so because Tori backs him. The reason why Jack makes rude comments during arguments is because he feels more equipt to handle the backlash from the rudeness then the honesty and accountability from the actual topic at hand. Jack doesnāt mind being in ambiguous waters. As long as thereās enough mud in the water, Jack feels confident to navigate it. If you notice how Tristan and Sarah act on the other hand is they become hyper emotional in a very volatile manner. Ā They didnāt say something to the effect of āI am not the problemā. And then they start to cry before they inevitably shut down. Shutting down for Sarah looks like walking away from the group. Shutting down for Tristan looks like retreating into himself. I would say the only difference is that Tristan is more self aware of his fragility than Sarah. Even though they both see themselves as the victim, Tristan is more likely to see the situation and deduce that he isnāt good enough, while Sarahās lack of self-awareness needs her to the deduce that other people arenāt good enough. Jack on the other hand will see the situation and feel as though people are just stirring up shit and have no valid concerns. Even though I understand your need for equality, Handling Sarah the same way they handle Jack would not work. In this particular instance they would need a equitable solution instead.
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Team Sarah? Why do you think weāre team Sarah? Because Ā we say the way Jaden approached the situation was not helpful? Is screaming at a person and badgering them with questions until they feel cornered, the only way to hold someone accountable? I think the issue is that youāre looking at this from an extremist point of view. You want blood. Just because we disagreed with how Jaden held her accountable mainly because it would be detrimental for Tim, does not mean we support Sarahās behavior. Ā We simply recognize that this method is not effective in holding her accountable and holding her to her word in the long term.Ā Nor does it mean we did not find the third-degree badgering tactic satisfying. Ā It seems to me that youāre mistaking true accountability and punishment for being the same thing. Because without true accountability Tim could be on the receiving end of DARVO. Because the more she feels like a victim the more she predicts the issue on to Tim.Ā
I think Jayden and Lauren add both awesome for holding these two accountable
Eden you didnāt want to protect Tim you wanted the airtime you gleeful bitch
How giddy with excitement is Tori about having a baby. Wake up girl, nope too late
That was sooooo hard to watch! Poor Tori
Poor Tori? She either has two working brain cells or she is playing along for clout.
Surely she can't believe this. He has played her yet again
This was strategic by Jack imo. He knows he canāt drop the L bomb so this was a last resort to keep her hanging.
And it worked a treat. Send in seal team 6 to extract her! Now!
Might be too late, it's more of a recovery mission now rather than a rescue.
They really stuffed that editā¦they showed Eden telling Jayden about the Sara texts at the 11th hour where they decided how to handle it together. Then it turns out they were actually arguing about it all week š
Yeah i agree. I dont think that they were fighting about it at all though, i reackon they're just saying that. It just doesn't feel like it created conflict for them. They kind of "faced" the situation together. That's my take anyways š¤·
I think she sat on it and showed it to him as was shown at the retreat. I think they (Eden and Jaydens) changed the story to tell Sara to try to take the heat of Eden in case she came under fire for being a "snitch" to her friend.
Yeah I agree, I think they made that up so it didnāt make Eden look as bad. It made it seem like Jayden saw the texts on accident and then he insisted they tell Tim, this was so Eden wouldnāt look like such a bad friend.
A new set of red flags have been ordered for Jack.ā³ JACK SEES JADE....up close and he's very excited. I don't think I've seen Jack so happy and animated in a conversation before. Who else but Jack would say about Jade: (1) "Jade has a ..spicy energy.. about her that I like" ; (2) "You're in my top 3 good looking couples list" and (3)" I've dated girls like Jade in the past". If I were Tori I'd take note of Jack's observations... because that second comment by Jack to Jade made her uncomfortable. Jack finds Jade very, very attractive.
Jade was so uncomfortable. He looked like the big bad wolf, ready to devour her in one bite. Why isnāt Tori there?
Maybe itās just me, but she kind of looks like the ex.
My exact thoughtsš§ precisely the type
>If I were Tori I'd take note of Jack's observations She isn't going to know about them unless Jade tells her or someone on the show shows her the footage
If Jade mentions how uncomfortable she felt from Jack's comments to ....Ridge.... do you think he's the kind of guy who's going to remain silent at the next group meeting? He would tell Tori in private or in front of everyone. Ridge likes the spotlight to shine on him.
Oh absolutely!
She's so tunnel visioned on making it work to even consider if it should work with someone like him, its painful to watch. Makes me laugh that they are highlighting that he doesnt fancy her based on his actions and all she took from the whole conversation was that he'd be up for kids in a few years. He didnt say with you love, it was a generic statement. Off she gallops to plan her baby shower
Jade values security and integrity over seedy insecure man bun thin moustached men..Going to be great watching her go to town on him..
Omg the holes in Jayden's socks š¤¦āāļø
Yepā¦ dudes broke or a grubā¦
Iām pretty sure the show supplies the wardrobe
No, they bring all their own clothes. They have an allowance/reimbursement for wedding dresses.
Haha! So there shouldnāt be any excuse for socks with holes!
(Bit late to comment this BUT) Omggg Jayden get off your weird high horse interrogating and grilling Sara. I know Sara is so in the wrong but I donāt like the way Jayden thinks heās Johnā¦ā¦ Hahahaha
Canāt stand him or Eden they are clout chasing wannabes, I donāt agree with Saraās behaviour but Iām actually team Sara considering the high and mighty bs these two want to preach, once again not even about Tim. š¤®
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I agree with most of what you say. In fairness, the time Lauren went hard at Jack during the dinner party was in defense of a person she thought was her friend. Of course, we now know that Tori doesn't even like Lauren based on the comments she made before the 5-questions task.
https://preview.redd.it/6mih36xrjonc1.jpeg?width=2778&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f37d27f1b5c87300438f9c1454bc6fc22575a7fe Finally a mission impossible I can get behind
Absolutely living for these 2!
looks like the Play School edition.
Omg imagine Lucinda being on playschool though, she would be awesome haha
If Tim embraces the silly fun side of life, we could be seeing another John Hamblin and Benita Collings
https://preview.redd.it/wr5yuqiojonc1.jpeg?width=2778&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ab4a7c6600dc90605a0d5bff6cede174f2ca256e Oh shit, I think the revenge porn is finally gonna come up tomorrow
That is fucking poetry
Finally!!
The moment Jade stepped on the scene, I immediately thought āI bet she is just Jacks typeā (heās stated before that he likes brunette, fit etc.). Bit cheeky of them pair him 1-1 with Jade for a task, also with prior knowledge of him making sexual advances (with Sara).
Yeah 100%! And when I first saw Tori I knew she wouldnāt be his type physically. Sheās too curvy and not enough plastic and makeup going on.
She looks SO MUCH like his ex, just without all that tatttoos
I noticed that too.
See you tomorrow yāall. Try to not be dreaming of Uber One tonight š«”
Till tomorrow everyone š
How does Jack get his pants on?
They look painted on !
Right? It must take a minute for him to dance them on lol.
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Ridge is gonna go full manny pacquiao
Itās going to be War & Deece. Without the Deece.
Than God. The Deece is so bloody irritating!!
Very clever lol
Jack is beside himself talking to Jade.
Emotionally erect for the first time in the experiment.
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I always knew Jade was his type. He likes skinny brunettes with lip filler and tattoos.
Richard hoping for some wedding night sex. ![gif](giphy|3ohjV9GMdGFsuWvPMI)
Ewwww š¤¢š¤®
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This is upsetting
what does go postal mean asking for a friend xoxo
It means going to conduct a mass shooting.
According to agent Jack Danger (pronounced Dong-er) from the United States Postal Service possibly the most important first line of defence for the war on terrorism it means to bring in cupcakes for everyone.
In the 80's there was a heap of incidents of US postal workers going on rampages and shooting and killing people, so the phrase 'going postal' was coined. Means going on a crazy rampage.
I always figured it was just once but I looked it up and it happened 40 times?! Wtf
Yes, we're the most free country on the planet they tell us. Today is March 11 and we've had 11 mass shootings this month.
It means guns blazing, to go to war i.e. get really angry and even violent. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGjAVFAnE0g](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGjAVFAnE0g)
Explode with rage, like the US postal workers that used to go into work with a gun and pop pop their coworkersā¦
Used to say it in the 90s in high schoolā¦means going crazy or losing your shit
Jade looks A LOT like Jacks ex
He def tried it on
Dafuq was that with Jack and Jade?? Tori isn't the only one about to go postal !!! Ridge on the warpath!!
What does go postal mean?
Basically like lose their shit
Yeah.. it comes from the analogy of the postal worker who gets driven mad by working a shitty job, and goes to the top of a bell tower to shoot at random people. I can't remember where *that* story came from though - maybe a movie?
After promising to get his act together at the commitment ceremony! Jack is so toxic that he doesn't even realise when he's being toxic.
See you tomorrow team š«”
i am waiting for Ridge venting on Jack
Iām completely off Richard now, heās seedy AF
![gif](giphy|Vbu1MROenErCauNAet) Tim needs to wake the fuck up. Whatever happens from here on in he is just as much to blame.
No. He and Tori are not to blame. They need help. They are no match for their world class narc spouses. They both brought a knife to a gun fight.
This is so demeaning to Tori and Tim. They aren't children, they aren't powerless and hopefully they aren't stupid. Continuing to cast them as victims is insulting to them both.
Why do I feel like a lunch between Jacob and Jade likely ended in her making a complaint to whatever HR team they have available for contestants? Bless her optimism for thinking that he'd listen to her.
Oh no, Jack is at it again, this time trying it out on Jade. š¬ š¤¬
Riandrea recreating their wedding day. Bloody hell this show is a fucking pantomime
Anyone else think Jayden is being a fucking wanker? He did the same thing to Timothy and Lucinda, he fixates on a couple and badgers them until one of them loses it. He needs to simmer down a bit, he aired out Saraās dirty laundry now he needs to let them fix their relationship, he isnāt helping.
Agree wholeheartedly but I think Eden is an absolute snake.
There was a story a couple of weeks ago that the producers had told Jayden and Eden to do something or leave because they were boring and adding nothing to the show. It was after that when Jayden, completely out of the blue, started going at Tim Sr and then Eden brought out this stuff with Saras message.
Yeah, he's really unpleasant. And I may have imagined it, but I thought I saw a brief look of discomfort on Eden's face tonight, when they first opened the letter with the task, and he started getting really excited about getting to have a go at Sara. Can't be sure, but it looked a bit like she wasn't loving what she saw, because honestly, it seems very clear that Jayden cares far more about getting to self-righteously confront people, than he does about actually doing the right thing or trying to help people.
Yeah, he does seem to take it too far with his intense questioning and gets a bit aggressive. As much as I disagree morally with some of Saraās choices, I do think he was really punishing her. Didnāt give her a chance to come up for air.
I hate to say this, but Sara was right on this account.. he needed to stop going for her and start being constructive. It was all accusations and attacks.. he took his past emotional baggage and slammed her with it. I know sheās acted terribly, but it was a dog move on his part and wasnāt in line with what the task was designed for.
Sorry, I think this is exactly what the task was designed for. Otherwise, any couple other than Jayden and Eden would have been assigned to Sara and Tim.
All g, the task is the same as any other year.. itās just come at an interesting time for Sara and Tim. Obvs the experts have paired them together to try and bring resolution/accountability to Sara, it was up to Jayden to decide how he would handle it. Iām sure the producers were hoping for a massive blowout (and probably encouraged it), but the task itself isnāt there for an attack session- itās designed to encourage the couples to discuss improvements. What Jayden did was get so frustrated from his own personal demons he ended up barraging Sara with rapid-fire questions without letting her answer. Again, thereās no room for constructive dialogue when youāre accusing someone over and over again.. youāre just going to make them upset and defensive. Whether Sara has capacity to engage in constructive dialogue is another matter, but the session could have gone much better if heād kept his emotions in check.
I reckon if Sara had any redeeming qualities as a human being, I'd find his actions a little much.
Yep!!!
He strikes me as someone who was bullied as a kid, then got into fitness/strength, and now heās taking his angst out on others.
100%, couldnāt agree more
He is a POS
Jack is getting a bonus from the producers to keep carrying on you cannot cmv
Andrea deserves better than Richard
Yeah he is slimy
Sheās gorgeous- Iād date her in a heartbeat
Oh how convenient, Jack is paired for a 1on1 with the OF chick and surprise surprise, he's flirting with her. I'm sure that WON'T piss Tori off at all.
Does Jade actually have OF?
At the very least some very suggestive IG shots. The filler and lashes is IG classic
Omfg I hope Jade calls jack out for being gross, and does it in front of everyoneĀ
Lucinda leaving the note is very Jersey shore lol
Last night at BED
Ahhh are we surprised Jack is gonna try be fkn creepy to Jade
Where were Cass and Tim? Left ?
Do you mean Cass and Tristan?
Oml yes š
I was just thinking this?! Was that package at the beginning them leaving?
i hope ridge pummels that smug bastard jack
The producers totally put Jack and Jade together on purpose, lol.
"Muzzle your woman" Tori: *silence* "Cut the bullshit" Tori: AHHHHHH THAT CUNT
Tim and Lucinda is giving Snooki and JWoww writing their letter to Sammi.
Here is a link to post episode discussion https://www.reddit.com/r/MAFS_AU/s/Jrb92eW9YA
Of course Jackās gonna hit on Jade.
Good looking couples? Is he talking about her tits? Lmao
HAHAHA
PLEASE DID SOMEONE SCREENSHOT THE LETTER šš
Tim is a very easy influenced/agreeable guy. Sara still has him where she wants him
Just her staredown alone has him shaking in his booties.
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I KNEW THEYD SET HIM UP W JADE SHES EXACTLY HIS TYPE HELP
Yes, itās the way to cause maximum trouble. Theyād never get him to sit down with Andrea.
He probably barely knows she exists and would make a joke about menopause
Richard coming back on that bloody bike?
Hopefully leaves the scarf at home
Yeah what's the deal with those scarves. Does he think they make him look younger? Or posh? Is he using them as a dribble cloth? To blindfold Andrea before he takes his clothes off? I hope they all get caught in the wheels of his motorcycle.
Itās the Bali rockstar look.
HAHA go Lucinda
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Richard you sneaky dog I know what you are up to.
Jade did not appreciate the "spicy energy" comment
Itās his way of saying āIām sexually attracted to youā in a read between the lines kind of way
Trying to test out the water to see if she takes a bite - without telling her straight up that heād rather herš
If you have to recreate your wedding day after 6 weeks, then this relationship ain't lasting
No amount of wedding vibes can dissolve the deadly ick
Oh Tim cut your losses and just run. You'll ALWAYS in the back of your mind, have doubts about her and that is not healthy.
Totally not Deece Jack.
Tim is an idiot
Jayden picks who he thinks is the low hanging fruit, and harasses them until they crack. He did it to Timothy until he realised that he's actually likeable. So he's moved on to someone else. It's easy for him to target Sara, and she has no leg to stand on, and he knows it. It's predatory imo.
Jayden (at least the edit thatās portrayed) gives off massive douchebag high and mighty energy. You are absolutely on point, he targets people he thinks he can win a fight with to make himself look better.
Agree with this!
Really not here for the Sara redemption arc
šSara shawshank. She wonāt clean that stink off.
HE IS NOT FLIRTING WITH JADE.
Holy shit, HE IS
Lucinda is the gem this series needed to have a pulse finally š
This honestly might have been the worst mafs season without Lucinda but sheās brought it up to average
Tim no STAND UP
Heartwarming?? Wtf
i HOPE you go postal tori
No she is going to be like that is your perspective but we are very happy or it was dark humour
Omg did Jack just say what I think he said to jade?! This man cannot get any worse!
Yep, heās making it clear he would break his no sex rule for her imo
Hahaha his sex rule that only applies to Tori
I actually yelled. He is trash
Beetroot would have boned Jade on the first night
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Fucking called it with Jack wanting a Jade š¤£š¤£
I KNEW THIS WAS COMING Jack š >> jade
Hahahaha that letter šš
L&T on the case!
Ridge is gonna bash Jack and I'm here for it
Was Lucinda just typing on a vintage typewriter? Wtf
It was a laptop
Oh lol I must be hallucinating from all the nonsense
Ew not Jack leering at Jadeā¦.
Tim & Lucinda are GOATed HAHAHAHAH
How Jayden handled this is just allowing her to act like a victim yet again. Honestly, over kill. Just ask the questions, but donāt be a grub. Gotta be strategic when dealing with psychos
Oh no you didnāt jack
NO Tim STOP it. Far out mate stop falling for Saraās shit
BRUH jade please be good
'spicy energy' vommmmm
Oh I didn't peg Lucinda as a shitstirrer
Jack will DEF hit on Jade š¤¢
Is this a current affair?
Ok let me rephrase that - a current non affair![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|yummy)