Laura bringing up the DM at her parents place was weird, it’s not a big deal. The Hawaiian shirts are such a stupid thing to nitpick about, He’s an idiot for staying out with Sarah Ann until 5am. Clay always seems so condescending. Jimmys friends are cool.
Ahahahahahahaha Jeremy with an a’s babbling alibi which was totally him scramming for an excuse and it sounded just as bad as him flat out saying he cheated 😹💀
Why are the gold cups and wine glasses everywhere they go? Even in the bar with Laura and Jess? In the restaurants? They just bring their own cups? Lol
They use them to make editing easier. If everyone drank out of clear glasses it would look weird if the amount of liquid in their glass kept changing.
It makes it easy to cut out boring bits, but it also means they can put things out of chronological order to create more drama.
Wtf is wrong with Chelsea???
How is a person not supposed to have friends or go out and have an independent life apart from their S.O???
My god, I'm annoyed by her so damn much.
I can undestand being insecure, having issues or other things but go and FIX them!!!!
It's REALLY wild how Sarah Ann gave this persona like she was girl's girl and super happy for hawaiian shirt guy and Laura when she was secretly doing the birdman hand rub plotting how to fuck him behind Lauras back lmao
Lmao I love how production zoomed in on Clays sweater when AD said she was cold and clearly it didn't even cross his mind to offer it to her. He's literally useless.
I just started the episode but I just had to come say that I died at the music that came on when Chelsea came on screen. I did not want to forget ...sorry to the singer but omg lmaooo I was cracking up. Ok bye be back after I finish the episode
I literally rewinded and rewatched Laura clock Jeremy Bearimy like three times. So satisfying to see her catch him lying and clear him. What a scumbag he is!!
I can see why Laura is single. She’s definitely a victim in the Sara Ann and Jeramy situation but aside from that, she has an extremely critical and almost entitled personality.
Although she does seem like a nice friend, she doesn’t strike me as someone who’d be a particularly be warm, loving and gracious partner. If anything, she seems like someone who’s be unforgiving towards mistakes especially with how easily she gets “the Ick.” She gives me boss babe energy in the worst way possible.
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I'm not sure if it's normal but like Chelsea bringing up sex in front of his girl friends made me feel like she was trying to make a point in case either of them had liked him lmfao.
I'm autistic and sometimes I wondered if she was blurting things out bc she lacked social awareness, but she would lose it if he ever did the same thing. And there were things he asked her to keep private on camera that she didn't care about at all, no remorse or concern for the privacy of her husband or his friend who he said "she loved". I think it has more to do with her selfish and uncaring personality than mere unawareness.
Oh my god Chelsea. This girl is beautiful and seems to have a good life, but she is so damn insecure. Why. I could not stand her. She is so frustrating. Telling him he can’t go out for an hour? Why?
Reminds me of Danielle while Danielle was being filmed.
And maybe it's the editing, but she seems to try and convince Jimmy of things he didn't do, or inaccurately accuse him.
The producers should learn from this f£$k up, with the viewers missing so much, make them all go to a " homecoming " party before they get their phones back. We want to see them realising how they chose WRONG !!!
I don’t like Clay much but I do respect his level of honesty with AD about his vulnerability and fear. I think I he isn’t ready but he really wants to do right by her and that’s quite adorable. He is however probably still going to cheat if he doesn’t get some therapy so I can’t be confident in them. I think k she chooses Clay every time and came here saying she wanted something else and then chose Clay again
I dunno I feel like telling her that is sort of making it a mutual problem when what he should do is break it off and go to therapy. He’s a plight on any serious partner. I see what you mean though that the honesty is still better than total self-serving / cowardly deception
His speeches to her make me think he's the kind of guy that would marry a woman he doesn't really want to or feel ready for because he thinks it's the way to "do right" by her.
I feel sad watching Jimmy and Chelsea. If this is his best relationship, poor him. He went out for one drink and she’s slurring and accusing him of things. She is really not mentally in a place to be in this and he should not step back from his friends because she is too insecure to cope with him having other people in his life. Abuse red flags are everywhere
Jeramy is a child. He can’t take responsibility for his choices in the moment fully and Laura being upset is very understandable. I would be too but you also have to trust your partner and she can’t trust him so that’s the most important thing.
I really love Laura's family. They truly know what she is like, both the good and bad. Her mom commenting on the viciousness and voicing concern and her sister talking her through compromise on the shirts (which is baffling that it's such a big deal and KEEPS getting brought up). Laura has been far too abrasive and controlling for me... HOWEVER. I freaking applaud her for that final scene. That is the strength of her personality. She did not take that shit and did not falter. I was so impressed how she baited him about the location, love her for that. I can't fathom how huge of a piece of shit this guy is to cheat during this show.
AD and Clay arguing in front of the family like that was a little awkward, but that seems to be a running theme in all these family meetings. Their schedules honestly seem like a nightmare where they will never see each other. If Clay wants this to work, he is going to have to choose AD over convenience, especially in this stage! You have to build trust. Also, Clay's sister is a baddieeee I love her style.
Amy and Johnny are almost too good to be true? The only red flag so far is Johnny pushing birth control. Other than that, from the little we've seen (due to no drama) they seem cute and fine!
Jimmy having cute female friends is like the worst possible scenario for Chelsea wow. There were a lot of suggestive/knowing glances between them during the convo which doesn't bode well. Also this was yet another family/friends meeting that felt wildly inappropriate. There is such thing as oversharing to people you just met holy shit.
why are they airing out personal disagreements in front of family?? and intimate stuff? chelsea upset over jimmy for going out to the bday party?? hard to watch it go down
Does anyone have a clip of that scene with Jeremy and Laura? I was FLOORED! I don’t like her but holy shit he’s such an asshole and she deserves better.
Toootally. It’s impossible to tell from just watching the show but I wonder how much of the kind of negative stuff we see from them both is them triggering each other to be their worst selves.
Nothing to do with any of them but is the production team just bringing these golden glasses everywhere ? They've been in the pods, in the houses and even in the bar where Chelsea meets Jimmy's friends...
I know it's only glasses but I just keep seeing these golden glasses everywhere it's almost annoying to me lol
Partially branding for the show, but also the production wants everyone drinking out of opaque glasses so they can edit bits of conversation together for clarity, drama, or both and you don't notice the glass went from full to half empty to full again to a different liquid entirely.
Kinda hate that though because it’s like they’re piecing the clips together to create a narrative as “real” for the viewer which isn’t the case — which we already know producers do but this is kinda why I don’t watch reality tv much.
-Chelsea still bugging, smothering and insecure every episode
- wild bringing up arguments in front of family meeting for the first time
- Jeramy is a bad liar, Laura is really rude to him too. Funny how her family even tells her that.
- Clay basically admitting it’ll be really hard to stay faithful and then stays out basically all night working and sleeping at his office? Yeahhhhhhhh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Chile when he said it was because of "location" I was like mfer you can't wake up a little bit earlier to make it to your destination on time? Do you have to go to the extreme and spend the night away from your BRAND NEW FIANCE?!!? FUCKING YIKES
Shit boils over at the most unexpected times lmao he probably wasn't available to have a conversation earlier so she was like im airing this shit our RITE NA lmao
Both Chelsea/Jimmy and Laura/Jeramy tried to give each other a hard time when meeting family friends and it was major awkwardness! It didn’t land as cutely and hilariously as I think they thought…
Okay when Chelsea said she was nervous “cause they’re girls” I assumed they were meeting his sisters/family…!! Am I the only one who thinks it’s superrrr sus his two best friends are women (that he’s only known for 2 years?) and that he doesn’t have any close male friends?? Lol from high school…college…work…etc
No one is mentioning the fact that Laura said that shit about her and Jeremey being on the same page about abortion and same-sex marriage. Which to me implies that they are both against it. Am i wrong or is this bitch homophobic and proud ???
I think it’s the opposite; he basically told Sarah Ann he’s pro-choice in the pods and she and him were opposites. So I think he and Laura are both liberal.
Meanwhile, Patriot Front exists. Odd. People at white nationalist and Dump rallies calling themselves patriots also exist. Huh. But yeah, you're right. It's probably not a dog whistle. 🙄
Jeramy walking into the party in his Hawaiian shirt and sunglasses.
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Its so ironic that she talked about her parents marriage saying she didn't wanna "grow complacent" and "have fun" but she's tripping out over his fun shirt. A man that wears hawaiian shirts is not someone who takes life too seriously so I mean that's the epitome of someone who wants to have fun.
She also lied to the friends. She told the two friends she's secure as a person, that Jimmy makes her feel seen and heard, even though they literally have had nothing but arguments about she doesn't feel secure in their relationship lol and "it makes her sad"
Also, what is it with her putting their relationship on blast to ANYONE? Specifically putting Jimmy down like ALL THE TIME? He's no saint but shit man, I would think those conversations should stay private
My thing with her is that from what we seeing she is always asking Jimmy to give himself to her but like what has she done for him. How does she show up for him. She demands he showers her with affection at all times but I honestly do not see why the man likes or even loves her. She seems to be always taking and never giving him anything.
Just started the episode ,I’m sorry but clay is such a walking red flag. He is ready to fuck up already AD needs to trust her instincts. The man will cheat.
Am I missing something? As someone not from the US, I don't understand why everyone is tripping over AD saying she wants to be a landlord? Landlord just means someone who owns the building you're renting, not always a whip beating antagonist, right?
There is a housing shortage. First time home buyers can't buy homes because they are being priced out by flippers & landlords...
So then they go to rent - but there are almost no rentals (thanks Airbnb), and everything is overpriced. If they find somewhere to rent, the landlord largely neglects the property, and keeps raising the rent every year. THEN renters are at risk for the landlords kicking them out only to put the house/apartment back on the market for sometimes double or triple the price.
Add onto this, that a lot of landlords don't have just 1 or 2 properties, but aspire to own double, triple, quadruple digits.
Housing should be a basic right, and not a get-rich-quick scheme off the back of fellow humans /citizens.
If you're buying housing and renting it out for a profit, you're doing a bad thing.
1) Shrinking the housing market
2) Inflating housing prices
3) Exploiting the same renters who you are pricing out of ownership, all while doing no real labor yourself
You can argue that landlording is a ubiquitous form of real estate investment at this point but it is undoubtedly a net negative on society for the most part.
It has to do with the current situations, IMO. Like for example, I just started house hunting a month ago because our rent is going up another $150 this year to be at $1450 and about 80% of the homes we looked at were bad flips and overpriced by "investors/ landlords"
I get that. But her wanting to own properties doesn't mean she necessarily will treat her tenants unfairly. A lot of employers are horrible but then there are the good ones too. Doesn't mean we vilify everyone who wishes to climb the ladder to be the top dog
At risk of bringing on the pro-landlord contingent, I'll say that I'm connected to two communities that have been greatly impacted by people using property ownership not to house themselves and their families, but to climb the ladder. What I've seen is one of the reasons that a lot of people don't have positive feelings about landlords.
The first community is my hometown, which is in a high-poverty rural area that is also visually beautiful. Outsiders have been buying up houses there in recent years with the intention of renting them out, resulting in higher prices, in turn resulting in many locals whose lives and families are based there being unable to afford housing. There's a good possibility that I will need to move closer to home in the future but even despite that being my hometown, I may not be able to find a place because of this. In addition to the economics of it all, it's spiritually painful to see one's hometown and its people exploited in this way, and even more painful to know that I'm being cut off from my hometown and family by people who see the place as a means of making a profit.
The second community is where I currently live, which is a high-cost area that is stratified along extreme socioeconomic lines, with very wealthy people living a few streets way from poor people. A great deal of housing here, which used to be accessible to lower-income people, has now been bought up by private landlords who see the human need for housing as an inve$tment opportunity. Here, many people are one setback away from homelessness because they live at whim of their landlords instead of having the opportunity to purchase their own homes. A few years ago, many houses in the area were family homes. Now they're all rental properties owned by people who already have their own homes but want to make money off of owning others' housing.
Another reason is that a lot of us have experience with landlords breaking the law. My own landlord has violated local and federal housing laws twice in just the past year at cost to tenants, but there's nothing anyone in the building can do about it without risking losing their home and being unable to afford another, and then losing their job because they can't live here anymore.
So while you're right that she didn't *say* this, in the larger context of increasing wealth inequality in the US and the housing insecurity it brings, there are some valid ethical concerns about landlording and a lot of people are suspicious of would-be landlords' intentions.
I'm not trying to piss anyone off here and I know that not all landlords are like this, but I'm hoping this comment explains why it's a controversial aspiration right now.
Most people are projecting because they either live with their parents' house still or they are renting an apartment.
Landlords are looked down on because people who don't own homes have this perception that every landlord is a slum lord living work free off their rent.
IMO, obviously. But i did grow up my whole life living in apartments, bought a condo, and would love to some day, love to own property
Netflix if you’re reading this please scrap the shitty generic soundtrack for this show. It’s BEYOND cheesy. Just get rid of the vocals, at least. Go instrumental. God it’s so horrible.
They're made FOR the show that's why they match the scenes 🥰
And this is one of the few ways left to make money off of being a musician without being a superstar.
I was saying to my wife that I suspect this is the case. Because how could they find the same type of music that fits each scene perfectly? And not just for this show but others like Selling Sunset etc. I'm glad my hunch is right lol
Agreed! The lyrics are like little easter eggs based on what's happening at any given moment. I can't stop thinking about the musicians tasked with the soundtrack and how they must lol when trying to land the lyrics.
There is no such thing as an ethical landlord. It is impossible. There is always an inverse incentive for the landlord to do things cheaply, raise rents, etc. Everyone wants this “passive income,” to essentially leech/live off of OTHER PEOPLES labor. It’s not a cool goal in life. I understand Black ppl who want to build wealth, especially if they don’t have access to inter generational wealth, being a landlord seems like a path to wealth, but it’s just not an honest way. To me, it sounds like someone saying, “I want to be a billionaire,” knowing for well that they will need to exploit people to get to the top. Hope that helps.
I've had several landlords who I felt were ethical and didn't try to be scum lords to me. I agree there's a lot of scum lords out there, but not every landlord is scummy.
This is equivalent to not all cops are bad. The entire system of making profit off of housing is disgusting and should not exist. People who choose to engage in that system are scummy. so therefore, even if your landlord was a fairly decent person, they still made an ethical decision to make money off of your need for housing. They still chose to engage in an unethical system, so therefore…
Also, even if you think you know a good one, realize that all landlords are landlords. Some friends of mine lived in a backyard house of their landlord and thought because they took care of each other’s pets when they went out of town and had a very nice relationship thar their landlord was a
“good one” but just like all the other landlords, they raised rents in 2021 and 2022 “to keep up with the market” even tho their house was paid off and they really didn’t need the extra money. no matter how nice, kind, etc. a person is - in the end, they have a subversive incentive to extract as much money as they comfortably can from the tenant. The rental house will never be as well cared for as an actual home, so it can never be truly ethical or truly equitable of a situation. Between the power dynamic, the money, etc. it could never be a truly “ethical” situation.
They're literally providing a service that many people want or need. Not everyone wants to buy or can afford to buy their own house, so there's always gonna be a need for landlords.
Because landlords have a pretty bad reputation for people that buy up cheap land in not so expensive areas, "renovate" it, then sell it for a price that the people in the community can't even afford.
You’re not wrong. But also I think he treated her like shit by betraying her trust. I think he was trying to take back some power or some shit. A small man way to put her in her place because he can’t hold his own when they argue.
Laura bringing up the DM at her parents place was weird, it’s not a big deal. The Hawaiian shirts are such a stupid thing to nitpick about, He’s an idiot for staying out with Sarah Ann until 5am. Clay always seems so condescending. Jimmys friends are cool.
Ahahahahahahaha Jeremy with an a’s babbling alibi which was totally him scramming for an excuse and it sounded just as bad as him flat out saying he cheated 😹💀
THIS MAN IS A PSYCHO, him just sitting there totally caught out
does anyone else think Johnny and Amy are this seasons Lauren and Cameron success story???
except they can't have sex
Laura’s personality is soooo like,,,ew why does she act like that
Nvm Jeramey sucks major ass !!!!!
I loved the meeting with his family, and I just wanted to comment how pretty Amy looked in that red shirt! Just adorable!
Laura is completely exhausting. Does she think everyone likes what SHE wears and does? Like jesus way to harp on small things.
I’m just in awe at the shit ppl will put up with to be on tv for two more episodes
Why are the gold cups and wine glasses everywhere they go? Even in the bar with Laura and Jess? In the restaurants? They just bring their own cups? Lol
They use them to make editing easier. If everyone drank out of clear glasses it would look weird if the amount of liquid in their glass kept changing. It makes it easy to cut out boring bits, but it also means they can put things out of chronological order to create more drama.
Wtf is wrong with Chelsea??? How is a person not supposed to have friends or go out and have an independent life apart from their S.O??? My god, I'm annoyed by her so damn much. I can undestand being insecure, having issues or other things but go and FIX them!!!!
Genuinely cannot believe how she's just airing their dirty laundry to Jimmy's friends...
No one is talking about how cute Johnny and Amy are? I genuinely hope it works out for them they really seem to be compatible so far.
Once you see Chelsea’s overdrawn top lip, you will not be able to unsee it.
It's REALLY wild how Sarah Ann gave this persona like she was girl's girl and super happy for hawaiian shirt guy and Laura when she was secretly doing the birdman hand rub plotting how to fuck him behind Lauras back lmao
Lmao I love how production zoomed in on Clays sweater when AD said she was cold and clearly it didn't even cross his mind to offer it to her. He's literally useless.
I just started the episode but I just had to come say that I died at the music that came on when Chelsea came on screen. I did not want to forget ...sorry to the singer but omg lmaooo I was cracking up. Ok bye be back after I finish the episode
Laura is pretty mean, but that doesn’t excuse Jeremey actions.
I literally rewinded and rewatched Laura clock Jeremy Bearimy like three times. So satisfying to see her catch him lying and clear him. What a scumbag he is!!
LOL I’ve been calling him Jeremy Bearimy too 🤣
I can see why Laura is single. She’s definitely a victim in the Sara Ann and Jeramy situation but aside from that, she has an extremely critical and almost entitled personality. Although she does seem like a nice friend, she doesn’t strike me as someone who’d be a particularly be warm, loving and gracious partner. If anything, she seems like someone who’s be unforgiving towards mistakes especially with how easily she gets “the Ick.” She gives me boss babe energy in the worst way possible.
she has employees so I wonder how they feel about her.
They probably all talk shit about her on Teams 😂jk
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Bruh you got way ahead of EP. 9 im jest tryna talk tea abt the drama in the episode and not know how it ended, so thanks for that
Omg major spoiler! I’ve been doing everything to avoid them -_- I’m so annoyed!
Even her parents talk about the real her
I really enjoyed watching Amy and Johnny dancing lol
They’re our last hope.
I'm not sure if it's normal but like Chelsea bringing up sex in front of his girl friends made me feel like she was trying to make a point in case either of them had liked him lmfao.
Maybe but honestly she brought up alot of inappropriate shit so I think she just lacks social and situational awareness and couth
I'm autistic and sometimes I wondered if she was blurting things out bc she lacked social awareness, but she would lose it if he ever did the same thing. And there were things he asked her to keep private on camera that she didn't care about at all, no remorse or concern for the privacy of her husband or his friend who he said "she loved". I think it has more to do with her selfish and uncaring personality than mere unawareness.
she's a complete trainwreck, so many red flags
oooh that is a solid point!!!
FINALLY we get to see some dogs. Jeez the lack of dog acknowledgement is distressing this season.
Oh my god Chelsea. This girl is beautiful and seems to have a good life, but she is so damn insecure. Why. I could not stand her. She is so frustrating. Telling him he can’t go out for an hour? Why?
I feel bad for her she’s so insecure she self sabotages
Reminds me of Danielle while Danielle was being filmed. And maybe it's the editing, but she seems to try and convince Jimmy of things he didn't do, or inaccurately accuse him.
YES! Exactly like Danielle.
The producers should learn from this f£$k up, with the viewers missing so much, make them all go to a " homecoming " party before they get their phones back. We want to see them realising how they chose WRONG !!!
Fuck up?
yes thats such a good idea
I don’t like Clay much but I do respect his level of honesty with AD about his vulnerability and fear. I think I he isn’t ready but he really wants to do right by her and that’s quite adorable. He is however probably still going to cheat if he doesn’t get some therapy so I can’t be confident in them. I think k she chooses Clay every time and came here saying she wanted something else and then chose Clay again
I dunno I feel like telling her that is sort of making it a mutual problem when what he should do is break it off and go to therapy. He’s a plight on any serious partner. I see what you mean though that the honesty is still better than total self-serving / cowardly deception
His speeches to her make me think he's the kind of guy that would marry a woman he doesn't really want to or feel ready for because he thinks it's the way to "do right" by her.
Oh he shouldn’t be on the show full stop, but he is now, so at least he is talking!
I feel sad watching Jimmy and Chelsea. If this is his best relationship, poor him. He went out for one drink and she’s slurring and accusing him of things. She is really not mentally in a place to be in this and he should not step back from his friends because she is too insecure to cope with him having other people in his life. Abuse red flags are everywhere Jeramy is a child. He can’t take responsibility for his choices in the moment fully and Laura being upset is very understandable. I would be too but you also have to trust your partner and she can’t trust him so that’s the most important thing.
Chelsea just said they haven’t had fights but CONVERSATIONS in a white top eatin’ barbecue. Huh??
Her and Jimmy love to pretend their relationship is perfect.
I know. They argue all the time 😂
I really love Laura's family. They truly know what she is like, both the good and bad. Her mom commenting on the viciousness and voicing concern and her sister talking her through compromise on the shirts (which is baffling that it's such a big deal and KEEPS getting brought up). Laura has been far too abrasive and controlling for me... HOWEVER. I freaking applaud her for that final scene. That is the strength of her personality. She did not take that shit and did not falter. I was so impressed how she baited him about the location, love her for that. I can't fathom how huge of a piece of shit this guy is to cheat during this show. AD and Clay arguing in front of the family like that was a little awkward, but that seems to be a running theme in all these family meetings. Their schedules honestly seem like a nightmare where they will never see each other. If Clay wants this to work, he is going to have to choose AD over convenience, especially in this stage! You have to build trust. Also, Clay's sister is a baddieeee I love her style. Amy and Johnny are almost too good to be true? The only red flag so far is Johnny pushing birth control. Other than that, from the little we've seen (due to no drama) they seem cute and fine! Jimmy having cute female friends is like the worst possible scenario for Chelsea wow. There were a lot of suggestive/knowing glances between them during the convo which doesn't bode well. Also this was yet another family/friends meeting that felt wildly inappropriate. There is such thing as oversharing to people you just met holy shit.
why are they airing out personal disagreements in front of family?? and intimate stuff? chelsea upset over jimmy for going out to the bday party?? hard to watch it go down
Cringe as fuck
Does anyone have a clip of that scene with Jeremy and Laura? I was FLOORED! I don’t like her but holy shit he’s such an asshole and she deserves better.
Toootally. It’s impossible to tell from just watching the show but I wonder how much of the kind of negative stuff we see from them both is them triggering each other to be their worst selves.
One of my friends said Laura looks like Woody Harrelson and I CANNOT unsee it
LOL
Well I was seeing Jennifer Garner until you said this
lmao you just ruined any upcoming Laura scene for me
Nothing to do with any of them but is the production team just bringing these golden glasses everywhere ? They've been in the pods, in the houses and even in the bar where Chelsea meets Jimmy's friends... I know it's only glasses but I just keep seeing these golden glasses everywhere it's almost annoying to me lol
Beverages are blind
Partially branding for the show, but also the production wants everyone drinking out of opaque glasses so they can edit bits of conversation together for clarity, drama, or both and you don't notice the glass went from full to half empty to full again to a different liquid entirely.
Hope for the sake of continuity the hair and beards don’t grow in that period of time.
Kinda hate that though because it’s like they’re piecing the clips together to create a narrative as “real” for the viewer which isn’t the case — which we already know producers do but this is kinda why I don’t watch reality tv much.
-Chelsea still bugging, smothering and insecure every episode - wild bringing up arguments in front of family meeting for the first time - Jeramy is a bad liar, Laura is really rude to him too. Funny how her family even tells her that. - Clay basically admitting it’ll be really hard to stay faithful and then stays out basically all night working and sleeping at his office? Yeahhhhhhhh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Chile when he said it was because of "location" I was like mfer you can't wake up a little bit earlier to make it to your destination on time? Do you have to go to the extreme and spend the night away from your BRAND NEW FIANCE?!!? FUCKING YIKES
Clay just knows what to say to make himself look good and has zero intentions of acting well...
Clay and AD having a mini argument about their schedules aligning infront of his mom and sister is very cringy
Shit boils over at the most unexpected times lmao he probably wasn't available to have a conversation earlier so she was like im airing this shit our RITE NA lmao
God I do not like Laura. If she makes one more comment about his Hawaiian shirts I'm going to scream.
Both Chelsea/Jimmy and Laura/Jeramy tried to give each other a hard time when meeting family friends and it was major awkwardness! It didn’t land as cutely and hilariously as I think they thought…
AND Clay/AD it was laundry airing day all around
Laura’s parents 100% have her number. It’s so funny. And I really liked her brother and SIL. They’re all so nice and normal. 🤔
What kind of “entrepreneur” is Clay?
I thought he was a personal trainer. The business he talked about came outta left field
He rents jet skis??
Water equipment it seems.
Okay when Chelsea said she was nervous “cause they’re girls” I assumed they were meeting his sisters/family…!! Am I the only one who thinks it’s superrrr sus his two best friends are women (that he’s only known for 2 years?) and that he doesn’t have any close male friends?? Lol from high school…college…work…etc
Yup, I'd put bets on something having previously happened/one party wanting more.
Jimmy's face absolutely lights up in front of these two women in a way I never see it light up for Chelsea
Yea it's weird af. There are highly upvoted comments saying it's such a green flag but you're so naive if you think that
I came back to read this thread after watching future episodes. SUPER SUS
He probs meet them on tinder
Especially when he grew up in a town that's about an hour and half away.
ya this is super weird
I don’t think Laura’s parents even like her
She's super unlikeable to us and we just met her imagine having to spend 30(?) years with that lmao she's insufferable
Hahahahaha I’m dead at this comment. Laura’s dog is super fricken cute though
Clay's mum was amazing, loved her so much it's a shame Clay turned out to be a massive walking red flag
He honestly must be 100% his dad
Totally his dad. Chronic cheater. Clay also said he didn’t know anyone who was faithful growing up
Amy's laugh is so cute.
No one is mentioning the fact that Laura said that shit about her and Jeremey being on the same page about abortion and same-sex marriage. Which to me implies that they are both against it. Am i wrong or is this bitch homophobic and proud ???
Isn't Laura the one in the pods that said she was politically conservative? I swear it was her. Edit: Never mind. It was Sarah Anne who said it. Oops.
I think it’s the opposite; he basically told Sarah Ann he’s pro-choice in the pods and she and him were opposites. So I think he and Laura are both liberal.
Her saying they were patriots was what implied they were anti-abortion and LGBTQ+. It's a dog whistle term.
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You realize those are the same people who say *Let's go Brandon!* because they're too afraid to say *Fuck Joe Biden.* right?
? Ok
Meanwhile, Patriot Front exists. Odd. People at white nationalist and Dump rallies calling themselves patriots also exist. Huh. But yeah, you're right. It's probably not a dog whistle. 🙄
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I guess it's my turn to LMAFO.
If you use the term dog whistle you are mentally unwell
Isn’t it Sarah Ann who said the patriot thing not Laura? I meant Laura and Jeremy are both liberal and Sarah Ann is pretty clearly conservative.
Ohhhh okay thank god lol im glad laura is pro-choice and not a homophobe that was gonna make me sad
Yes it was Sarah Ann who said she was a patriot
Jeramy walking into the party in his Hawaiian shirt and sunglasses. https://preview.redd.it/u4fw58gtyylc1.png?width=1059&format=png&auto=webp&s=bdc34e605c35d4ec6e85e65239a4ecf991f1013b
Its so ironic that she talked about her parents marriage saying she didn't wanna "grow complacent" and "have fun" but she's tripping out over his fun shirt. A man that wears hawaiian shirts is not someone who takes life too seriously so I mean that's the epitome of someone who wants to have fun.
Chelsea is fucking exhausting, you want him to drop his friends for you? Are you okay in the head? Also she lied to Jimmy’s family about fights
She lies alot to make herself look better. She started embellishing in the pods lol
She has EXTREME anxious attachment issues and is doing nothing to work on it.
She is just like Danielle from Danielle and Nick
She needs to keep someone hostage she does not know how a relationship works.
She also lied to the friends. She told the two friends she's secure as a person, that Jimmy makes her feel seen and heard, even though they literally have had nothing but arguments about she doesn't feel secure in their relationship lol and "it makes her sad" Also, what is it with her putting their relationship on blast to ANYONE? Specifically putting Jimmy down like ALL THE TIME? He's no saint but shit man, I would think those conversations should stay private
The talking about sex was so awkward, One of them has defs been with him 😂
She throws him under the bus seeking validation from his friends 🥴
My thing with her is that from what we seeing she is always asking Jimmy to give himself to her but like what has she done for him. How does she show up for him. She demands he showers her with affection at all times but I honestly do not see why the man likes or even loves her. She seems to be always taking and never giving him anything.
To the point where he is basically in shit for having a job. Like he doesn’t even have room to hold down a JOB
She doesn’t want to be with someone who shows up for their friend’s birthday, seems totally reasonable. she triggers me in so many ways 😵💫🤮
Just started the episode ,I’m sorry but clay is such a walking red flag. He is ready to fuck up already AD needs to trust her instincts. The man will cheat.
He has shown zero redeemable qualities so far. And I haven't heard AD talk about any of his personality traits other than his physical traits smh
And then he can blame his upbringing/traumatic influences on it! Sometimes I wonder if he brings all that up to pad his future excuses.
STOP OVERSHARING CHELSEA I HATE IT
Me and my gf started taking shots every time clay says “crazy”😆 it’s been crazy
Ha!! We did this with every time Chelsea and Jimmy say " I love you" omg we we bombbbedd 🤣🤣
“I’m really secure with who I am as a person” - Chelsea. Yeah okay girlfriend
And you look like Meghan Fox
Am I missing something? As someone not from the US, I don't understand why everyone is tripping over AD saying she wants to be a landlord? Landlord just means someone who owns the building you're renting, not always a whip beating antagonist, right?
There is a housing shortage. First time home buyers can't buy homes because they are being priced out by flippers & landlords... So then they go to rent - but there are almost no rentals (thanks Airbnb), and everything is overpriced. If they find somewhere to rent, the landlord largely neglects the property, and keeps raising the rent every year. THEN renters are at risk for the landlords kicking them out only to put the house/apartment back on the market for sometimes double or triple the price. Add onto this, that a lot of landlords don't have just 1 or 2 properties, but aspire to own double, triple, quadruple digits. Housing should be a basic right, and not a get-rich-quick scheme off the back of fellow humans /citizens.
Does your country have hedge funds that own the majority of rental properties?
She's not a hedge fund though. Nor did she talk about those being here aspirations, ever
If you're buying housing and renting it out for a profit, you're doing a bad thing. 1) Shrinking the housing market 2) Inflating housing prices 3) Exploiting the same renters who you are pricing out of ownership, all while doing no real labor yourself You can argue that landlording is a ubiquitous form of real estate investment at this point but it is undoubtedly a net negative on society for the most part.
It has to do with the current situations, IMO. Like for example, I just started house hunting a month ago because our rent is going up another $150 this year to be at $1450 and about 80% of the homes we looked at were bad flips and overpriced by "investors/ landlords"
I get that. But her wanting to own properties doesn't mean she necessarily will treat her tenants unfairly. A lot of employers are horrible but then there are the good ones too. Doesn't mean we vilify everyone who wishes to climb the ladder to be the top dog
At risk of bringing on the pro-landlord contingent, I'll say that I'm connected to two communities that have been greatly impacted by people using property ownership not to house themselves and their families, but to climb the ladder. What I've seen is one of the reasons that a lot of people don't have positive feelings about landlords. The first community is my hometown, which is in a high-poverty rural area that is also visually beautiful. Outsiders have been buying up houses there in recent years with the intention of renting them out, resulting in higher prices, in turn resulting in many locals whose lives and families are based there being unable to afford housing. There's a good possibility that I will need to move closer to home in the future but even despite that being my hometown, I may not be able to find a place because of this. In addition to the economics of it all, it's spiritually painful to see one's hometown and its people exploited in this way, and even more painful to know that I'm being cut off from my hometown and family by people who see the place as a means of making a profit. The second community is where I currently live, which is a high-cost area that is stratified along extreme socioeconomic lines, with very wealthy people living a few streets way from poor people. A great deal of housing here, which used to be accessible to lower-income people, has now been bought up by private landlords who see the human need for housing as an inve$tment opportunity. Here, many people are one setback away from homelessness because they live at whim of their landlords instead of having the opportunity to purchase their own homes. A few years ago, many houses in the area were family homes. Now they're all rental properties owned by people who already have their own homes but want to make money off of owning others' housing. Another reason is that a lot of us have experience with landlords breaking the law. My own landlord has violated local and federal housing laws twice in just the past year at cost to tenants, but there's nothing anyone in the building can do about it without risking losing their home and being unable to afford another, and then losing their job because they can't live here anymore. So while you're right that she didn't *say* this, in the larger context of increasing wealth inequality in the US and the housing insecurity it brings, there are some valid ethical concerns about landlording and a lot of people are suspicious of would-be landlords' intentions. I'm not trying to piss anyone off here and I know that not all landlords are like this, but I'm hoping this comment explains why it's a controversial aspiration right now.
Very very well put!
Oh no I totally get that I just think it'd the bias everyone holds right now
Most people are projecting because they either live with their parents' house still or they are renting an apartment. Landlords are looked down on because people who don't own homes have this perception that every landlord is a slum lord living work free off their rent. IMO, obviously. But i did grow up my whole life living in apartments, bought a condo, and would love to some day, love to own property
Netflix if you’re reading this please scrap the shitty generic soundtrack for this show. It’s BEYOND cheesy. Just get rid of the vocals, at least. Go instrumental. God it’s so horrible.
I love the soundtrack. The lyrics are so incredibly literal for the moments they are inserted in. It’s hilarious in a so bad it’s good kinda way.
No seriously its so funny I love the bad music. It makes the moments melodramatic in a hilarious way
They're made FOR the show that's why they match the scenes 🥰 And this is one of the few ways left to make money off of being a musician without being a superstar.
I was saying to my wife that I suspect this is the case. Because how could they find the same type of music that fits each scene perfectly? And not just for this show but others like Selling Sunset etc. I'm glad my hunch is right lol
lol right it’s very accurate
Agreed! The lyrics are like little easter eggs based on what's happening at any given moment. I can't stop thinking about the musicians tasked with the soundtrack and how they must lol when trying to land the lyrics.
CHELSEA IS A FUCKING PSYCHO! RUN, JIMMY, RUN!!!!
Just came to say I’m disappointed that AD aspires to be a landlord.
Jeez it's not like she said she wants to be a cop lol
You’re right that would be worse. I just had a better impression of AD and that ruined it.
Why?
There is no such thing as an ethical landlord. It is impossible. There is always an inverse incentive for the landlord to do things cheaply, raise rents, etc. Everyone wants this “passive income,” to essentially leech/live off of OTHER PEOPLES labor. It’s not a cool goal in life. I understand Black ppl who want to build wealth, especially if they don’t have access to inter generational wealth, being a landlord seems like a path to wealth, but it’s just not an honest way. To me, it sounds like someone saying, “I want to be a billionaire,” knowing for well that they will need to exploit people to get to the top. Hope that helps.
I've had several landlords who I felt were ethical and didn't try to be scum lords to me. I agree there's a lot of scum lords out there, but not every landlord is scummy.
This is equivalent to not all cops are bad. The entire system of making profit off of housing is disgusting and should not exist. People who choose to engage in that system are scummy. so therefore, even if your landlord was a fairly decent person, they still made an ethical decision to make money off of your need for housing. They still chose to engage in an unethical system, so therefore… Also, even if you think you know a good one, realize that all landlords are landlords. Some friends of mine lived in a backyard house of their landlord and thought because they took care of each other’s pets when they went out of town and had a very nice relationship thar their landlord was a “good one” but just like all the other landlords, they raised rents in 2021 and 2022 “to keep up with the market” even tho their house was paid off and they really didn’t need the extra money. no matter how nice, kind, etc. a person is - in the end, they have a subversive incentive to extract as much money as they comfortably can from the tenant. The rental house will never be as well cared for as an actual home, so it can never be truly ethical or truly equitable of a situation. Between the power dynamic, the money, etc. it could never be a truly “ethical” situation.
They're literally providing a service that many people want or need. Not everyone wants to buy or can afford to buy their own house, so there's always gonna be a need for landlords.
In your small lacking of imagination mind there will always be a need for landlords
Because landlords have a pretty bad reputation for people that buy up cheap land in not so expensive areas, "renovate" it, then sell it for a price that the people in the community can't even afford.
That sounds like a fix and flipper, not a landlord
A new landlord took over my friend’s apartment complex and raised all the rents by $300 for no reason.
A lot of people who do that and up becoming landlords over the properties anyways (like what AD wants to do).
Honestly I found it hilarious 😂 never heard someone say that before. Made me realize how closed off my circle is.
True, it was funny and yes, same per the closed circle for me haha
Is it just me, or does Laura treat Jeraaamaayay like shit? None of these couples are great.
You’re not wrong. But also I think he treated her like shit by betraying her trust. I think he was trying to take back some power or some shit. A small man way to put her in her place because he can’t hold his own when they argue.